WEBVTT - Pip Edwards on change, challenges & why she's more than who she's dating

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, and welcome to Something to Talk About the Stellar podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Sarah Lamarquin, your host, and every week I sit

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<v Speaker 1>down with some of the biggest names in the country

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<v Speaker 1>because when Australia's celebrities are ready to talk, they come

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<v Speaker 1>to Something to Talk About. Earlier this year, Pip Edward

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<v Speaker 1>surprised everybody when she announced she was stepping down from

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<v Speaker 1>pe Nation, the active where brand she co founded in

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<v Speaker 1>twenty sixteen and helped turn into a global force. Then

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<v Speaker 1>a month later, Pip now she would be rejoining Subie,

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<v Speaker 1>the brand where she kicked off her career in fashion

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<v Speaker 1>twenty years ago. In her first in depth conversation since

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<v Speaker 1>those headline making professional moves, Pip joins me in the

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<v Speaker 1>Something to Talk About studio today to explain how her

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<v Speaker 1>return to Subie is part of a much larger and

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<v Speaker 1>total personal rebrand.

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<v Speaker 2>It's my son's birthright.

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<v Speaker 1>Pip also opens up about the media's continued obsession with

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<v Speaker 1>her love life and who she's dating.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what's so interesting about my boyfriend's I

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<v Speaker 3>think I'm more interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Her bond with friend and radio presenter Jackie.

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<v Speaker 3>O where spiritually aligned, were emotionally connected, and I just

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<v Speaker 3>will forever have her.

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<v Speaker 1>Back and at forty four, why she believes she has

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<v Speaker 1>truly come into her own.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm now going to prove myself right. Pip Edwards.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to something to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so nice to be here.

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<v Speaker 4>It is so nice to have you here on the

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<v Speaker 4>cover of Stella today.

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<v Speaker 1>Last time you and I sat down together with microphones

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<v Speaker 1>in front of us was early this year with Julie Bishop,

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<v Speaker 1>but also more recently you and I ran into each

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<v Speaker 1>other at the Travis Scott.

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<v Speaker 3>Concert where we were happy to have each other at

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<v Speaker 3>that concert with our sons. O.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean, what a night.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about you. You see much more of

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<v Speaker 1>the cool person that would be in that sort of

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<v Speaker 1>ironment me and a Travis Scott constant, not not the

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<v Speaker 1>most obviously.

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<v Speaker 2>Your trainers on. You know, I was impressed. I did.

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<v Speaker 2>I was trying to never seen you in a trainer No,

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<v Speaker 2>I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Trying to channel my my inner Pip, but you were.

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<v Speaker 1>I was definitely very excited to see there. But the

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<v Speaker 1>things that a mother will do for her teenage son.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's what I think we were talking about. It's

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<v Speaker 3>amazing when you get to a point where you do

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<v Speaker 3>get this amazing access, but to share it with them

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<v Speaker 3>and make it really special for them, and they get

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<v Speaker 3>to see things that they might not ordinarily get to.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what's exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's also a reminder of the passage of time

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, your son, Justice is eighteen, he's been

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<v Speaker 1>doing his final year.

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<v Speaker 2>It's last exam tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what what?

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<v Speaker 4>Who's more relieved? She org him.

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<v Speaker 3>I think both of us are, but I think, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it's end of end of an era. Lots of lots

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<v Speaker 3>of endings of eras, lots of endings of eras. And

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<v Speaker 3>that's right, because a lot to talk about today is

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<v Speaker 3>the name of the podcast, suggest something to talk about,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, one ending of an era, of course, referring

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<v Speaker 3>to peeing nations. So it was August of this year

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<v Speaker 3>you announced on Instagram that you had decided to step

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<v Speaker 3>down from the brand that you co founded. You're still

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<v Speaker 3>remaining on as a director in substantial shareholding, but PIP

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<v Speaker 3>such an iconic brand that bears your initials, so successful

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<v Speaker 3>so quickly in less than a decade old. Talk us

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<v Speaker 3>through a little bit if you caught about making that

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<v Speaker 3>decision and how you're feeling. A couple of months after

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<v Speaker 3>going public with that decision. I mean, we collectively achieved

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<v Speaker 3>the unimaginable, you know, and it was an amazing whirlwind

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<v Speaker 3>ten years of blood, sweat and tears. There was a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of effort that's gone into that, and we reached

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<v Speaker 3>heights we never thought possible. I mean, I don't even

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<v Speaker 3>know if we even took stock of all the amazing

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<v Speaker 3>things we did because we was just so in turbo mode.

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<v Speaker 3>And the decision around that really was a holistic life decision,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think that's kind of what I wanted to

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<v Speaker 3>make clear. And you touched on justice, you know, finishing school,

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<v Speaker 3>there's a whole lot of change going on, and I

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<v Speaker 3>actually thrive on change. I'm curious. I love creative disruption.

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<v Speaker 3>I grow from that. I searched for that, and I

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<v Speaker 3>think the timing of going through the rebrand for PA

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<v Speaker 3>Nation and seeing that go down the runway and seeing

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<v Speaker 3>the results of that for me was just tying into

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<v Speaker 3>this whole stuff that was going on in the background

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<v Speaker 3>for me personally with life and justice, and it was

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<v Speaker 3>just like the business got a rebrand, and in that.

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<v Speaker 2>Process I reflected too.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's a part of my own rebrand and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>sitting here, you know, obviously just as finishing school tomorrow,

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<v Speaker 3>like legitimately, and he's going off into the wild world

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<v Speaker 3>and he wants to go overseas, and I felt that

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<v Speaker 3>the timing of this whole change was all fitting in holistically.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I got this job offer that actually required

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<v Speaker 3>some creative disruption.

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<v Speaker 2>It required a lot of learning.

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<v Speaker 3>It was, you know, of the move to Subie was

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<v Speaker 3>it's a huge global brand that's based in America. That's

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<v Speaker 3>where my son wants to live, and it saw me

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<v Speaker 3>I might spend more time over there.

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<v Speaker 2>All this stuff was.

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<v Speaker 3>Going on, and it just aligned in the way that

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<v Speaker 3>for once it suited me.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was twenty years ago. If I have the

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<v Speaker 1>maths right that you first started at sub To two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand and four.

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<v Speaker 2>Two thousand and three, two thousand and four.

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<v Speaker 1>We're sitting here in November twenty twenty four.

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<v Speaker 2>How was it? You can't expect it? Actually can?

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<v Speaker 1>You really can't script it? And as you say, a

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<v Speaker 1>new offer, but going there as creative director again talking

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<v Speaker 1>about chapters ending new beginnings, can I ask you to

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<v Speaker 1>talk me through the pip Edwards walking in there as

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<v Speaker 1>creative director after this mammoth success that you have built

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<v Speaker 1>as opposed to the young woman that went in there.

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<v Speaker 2>You were working on Nie.

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<v Speaker 3>I went from Price water House Coopers to suvi As

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<v Speaker 3>initially as Dan's Pa, Dan's Justice's father, and then I

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<v Speaker 3>moved moved into the PR department for years, and then

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<v Speaker 3>they put me into women's wear. I think what people

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<v Speaker 3>don't know is that while I was at university studying

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<v Speaker 3>at comments at Sydney UNI, I actually had a retail

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<v Speaker 3>job and I was with Marx, so I worked the floor,

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<v Speaker 3>so I had this practical knowledge of fashion. And Marx

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<v Speaker 3>ended up the late Mark Kirey, who was one of

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<v Speaker 3>my first ever great men tours in the industry and

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<v Speaker 3>everyone he's loved and adored. He took me into head

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<v Speaker 3>office and I was fit model and I was the

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<v Speaker 3>muse for the diffusion collection called baby Doll and it

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<v Speaker 3>was based on Denham. So I have had this string

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<v Speaker 3>of denim and if I look back at my whole career,

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<v Speaker 3>so at UNI, even though using you know, my corporate

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<v Speaker 3>like maths side of my brain, I was learning practical

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<v Speaker 3>denim knowledge on the ground in retail at Marx. I

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<v Speaker 3>then go to SUBI anchored in Denham. I then go

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<v Speaker 3>to Sassinbaid anchored in Denham. I then go to General Pants,

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<v Speaker 3>anchored in Denham. And it's almost like the detour was

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<v Speaker 3>p Nation.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just going to say, that's like things, and

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<v Speaker 4>I think.

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<v Speaker 3>That people don't even because everything's associated with PA. And

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<v Speaker 3>don't get me wrong, PE Nation wasn't a detour. It

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<v Speaker 3>was almost just putting working knowledge into play. And what

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<v Speaker 3>a great success story for all of us.

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<v Speaker 2>With PE.

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<v Speaker 3>We disrupted the market, We had global recognition, We really

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<v Speaker 3>resonated with women. We impacted women, we gave them their confidence.

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<v Speaker 3>We turned active, where ath leisure on its head. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>it became a wardrobe staple. I can only speak glowingly

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<v Speaker 3>about the brand. And yes, the brand had you know,

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<v Speaker 3>my energy and all those things. But the brand is

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<v Speaker 3>bigger than me, as any brand should be. But my

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<v Speaker 3>love for fashion lies in Dennit it always has and

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<v Speaker 3>that's that's the return home. And I think for me,

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<v Speaker 3>the biggest thing which really still gets me emotional, it's

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<v Speaker 3>my son's birthright. And when I talk about PE and YPN,

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<v Speaker 3>why you know, put all this effort into it. It

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<v Speaker 3>was a sign of the times to survive like it

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<v Speaker 3>really that job was to really look after my son

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<v Speaker 3>and get him to a point where I got him

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<v Speaker 3>through school and give him all the life that I

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<v Speaker 3>want him to have. And this decision is about me

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<v Speaker 3>and my growth and my experience in my knowledge, but

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<v Speaker 3>it ties in something so deep. I'm so deeply connected

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<v Speaker 3>and passionate about that. It's still about him, but it's

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<v Speaker 3>for me, and it's a family legacy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's wild.

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<v Speaker 1>So the intersection of you joining sub as creative director

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<v Speaker 1>happening literally the same month almost as Justice finishing up school,

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<v Speaker 1>is not at all a coincidence. It's very much.

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<v Speaker 2>It was very much.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was a month of planning around that for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>And the funny thing is is that Justice has this

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<v Speaker 3>newfound love for the brand. He's obsessed with SUBI and

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<v Speaker 3>it's a beautiful joy to see because it's his dad's creation.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's in his genes no pun intended, literally

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<v Speaker 3>in his genes. And the you know, the culture and

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<v Speaker 3>what sub have done overseas internationally is just ridiculously amazing

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<v Speaker 3>impressive global footprint, but especially in America, which Justice has

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<v Speaker 3>this affinity to the basketball urban vibe. It's it's almost

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<v Speaker 3>like I don't know, but we both gravitated in that way.

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<v Speaker 1>He must be, I imagine, so proud of you. But sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>if you're the I'm sure any parent listening things on

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<v Speaker 1>my team, How has he reacted to this? Sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>he's absolutely elated.

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<v Speaker 3>Like he obviously is so supportive of Pe and he

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<v Speaker 3>would wear pe and understood. But this is a different

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<v Speaker 3>kind of This culturally fits with his vibe. It's his aesthetic,

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<v Speaker 3>it's his swagger, it's his dad's, it's now his mom's.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a wild scenario, but he, you know, he's so

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<v Speaker 3>the kids that are at eighteen, they are watching the

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<v Speaker 3>TikTok as, they are watching the basketballers and SUBI has

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<v Speaker 3>that cut through. So he's just now, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>like this is actually happening.

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<v Speaker 2>I've got this new credibility with my son. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that that's wow. I'll take it. I'll take it.

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<v Speaker 1>You talk about disruption a couple of times, creative disruption.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your vision for the brand as you come into

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<v Speaker 1>sub as creative director.

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<v Speaker 3>I think a big part of what I do in

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<v Speaker 3>there is to amplify what they're already doing. They've already

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<v Speaker 3>got an incredible base. What they've done globally is amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, flagship stores all over the States, LA, New York, Chicago, Miami,

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<v Speaker 3>new one in London, now Sydney, like it's really got

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<v Speaker 3>a global footprint. I think a little bit of having

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<v Speaker 3>that original energy in there is really important and I

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<v Speaker 3>can see since being in there how that resonates with

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<v Speaker 3>the staff and understanding you know the connection between the art,

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<v Speaker 3>the music and that.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm amplifying that. But a big thing for.

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<v Speaker 3>Me is really leading design innovation and all the fit

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<v Speaker 3>swashes and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm going right from the beginning.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's not changing, it's amplifying and together it's improving.

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<v Speaker 3>And I really want Sube to be that global success.

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<v Speaker 3>From my time back in Subi it was, it was

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<v Speaker 3>the pinnacle and all I want is for that to

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<v Speaker 3>be it again, but fully globally. And I'm just there to,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, get it to those heights.

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<v Speaker 1>And what about your esthetic and your design origin in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of the audience, because obviously with a pe Nations

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<v Speaker 1>such a huge female demographic and with Subi.

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<v Speaker 3>There's obvious it's very much I think it's seventy eighty

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<v Speaker 3>percent male. So for me, that's where that's where I

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<v Speaker 3>get my disruption. I'm learning a lot about men'swear globally.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm learning a lot about America, which was a market

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<v Speaker 3>that was quite hard for P Nation to penetrate. So

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<v Speaker 3>there's a lot of learnings which is amazing and hats

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<v Speaker 3>off to Subi for really nailing that. I think for me,

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<v Speaker 3>what I bring is the Aussie mentality I do.

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<v Speaker 2>I bring the woman to the business and.

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<v Speaker 3>What relates there is Australia and Europe, so combined it's

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<v Speaker 3>it's a pretty powerful combo. And under the helm of

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<v Speaker 3>Craig King, who's the CEO, who was my boss when

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<v Speaker 3>I was at General Pants, So there's a beautiful synergy

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<v Speaker 3>in working relationship that exists in Subi. There's a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of the team I have worked with in the past.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been in this industry for so long. And then

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<v Speaker 3>there's a lot of respect for the heritage, and then

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<v Speaker 3>there's a lot of respect for obviously what we created

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<v Speaker 3>at p Nation and it's just ready to thrive in

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<v Speaker 3>a new way. That's speaks that leans into my fashion roots,

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<v Speaker 3>and Sube wants to lean into the fashion roots.

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<v Speaker 1>You mentioned the woman in the business, and I'd love

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you a little bit about your business acumen,

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<v Speaker 1>because you are somebody who has been and is still

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<v Speaker 1>a very successful creative director, designer, but also has co

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<v Speaker 1>founded a business, has really strong entrepreneurial background. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>have a preference between that side of your brain the

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<v Speaker 1>left side or the right side, and what part of

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<v Speaker 1>yourself do you think you might be drawing on more

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<v Speaker 1>coming into this new chapter.

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<v Speaker 3>My skill set is I'm ingrained. I'm trained from school

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<v Speaker 3>to university. I'm wired that way naturally, so I'll always

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<v Speaker 3>think about the commercials before. So whatever's on top the

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<v Speaker 3>creative decision has a commercial footing anyway. I think I'm

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<v Speaker 3>always trained to look at margin and think of that,

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<v Speaker 3>all of those things, but they just come naturally. Some

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<v Speaker 3>want of decisions made and it is a gut decision.

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<v Speaker 3>It's an informed, gut decision. It's not just a creative

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<v Speaker 3>gut decision. I can't explain it. But there is a regard,

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<v Speaker 3>and more so now in this landscape, it has to

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<v Speaker 3>have that regard. But you can work in creative disruption

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<v Speaker 3>if you know your market, you know your audience, you

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<v Speaker 3>know your numbers, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>All the things.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's all of it together. It's not nothing's in isolation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I love the way that you explain that about that

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<v Speaker 1>gut instinct, but gut instinct backed up by.

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<v Speaker 2>By data, and I take it on and I like

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<v Speaker 2>to know.

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<v Speaker 3>I like to know all the pieces of data so

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<v Speaker 3>that whatever the creative decision is made, it's already it's

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<v Speaker 3>already got the base.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always difficult for any of us to think about

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<v Speaker 1>how our own brains work, but I would still like

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you a little bit about it because this

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<v Speaker 1>left brain v right brain. So obviously, as everyone knows,

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<v Speaker 1>you've got the left brain traditionally, you know, analytical, logical,

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<v Speaker 1>the part of the brain that might have a preference

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<v Speaker 1>for learning languages or being good at maths, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the right side very much creative intuitive. You obviously are

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that has both parts of the brain are firing.

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<v Speaker 3>I dip in and out or they intersect. I think

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<v Speaker 3>common sense. I think my training in terms of experience

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<v Speaker 3>in fashion coming from Marks and going to SIBBA, But

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<v Speaker 3>more so what I learned at General Pants is common

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<v Speaker 3>sense around who your customer is. That's the analytical side.

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<v Speaker 3>So even if I'm being creatively disruptive or trying to

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<v Speaker 3>push them boundaries. I won't hold my ground. I feel

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<v Speaker 3>there's a commercial decision that's better, I will go for that.

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<v Speaker 3>But you're always still ahead of the curve because my

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<v Speaker 3>creative vision can be wild, but when it's tamed back

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<v Speaker 3>to the commercial, it's still something different, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>that's where the magic is.

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<v Speaker 1>I also love the fact that you you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>did study law commerce and you have always lent in

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<v Speaker 1>to that side of your skill set as well, because

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I think in our society we can from a

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<v Speaker 1>gender perspective, encourage women to follow that more creative humanities

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<v Speaker 1>for instance, and boys we can tend to more encourage

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<v Speaker 1>them in the sciences and the maths. Was that anything

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<v Speaker 1>that you ever felt or are you conscious of now

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<v Speaker 1>that your business success and the fact that you understand

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<v Speaker 1>the data you don't just need people to be feeding

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<v Speaker 1>it to you. Are you aware or conscious of the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that that is still really pushing back a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about agenda trope I would argue still probably exists

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<v Speaker 1>a bit in Australia in twenty twenty four.

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<v Speaker 3>My parents are highly academic and followed their path. I

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<v Speaker 3>always say, I think it's important to know the underlying

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<v Speaker 3>of that all those financials or understand and know how

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<v Speaker 3>to read things or inquire about them, because you can't

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<v Speaker 3>do one without the other. The gender thing, I think,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry. I just keep thinking about Justice and kind

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<v Speaker 3>of where I sit with him, and he's following a

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<v Speaker 3>different road to you know, if he doesn't do basketball,

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<v Speaker 3>he's going to do psychology, which I just love. So

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<v Speaker 3>he's gone down a mindset roade. But it is all

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<v Speaker 3>about that too. What I've learned from Justice is mindset,

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<v Speaker 3>and that's how you succeed, you know, if you overcome

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<v Speaker 3>your mind and the niggle of your brain and commit

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<v Speaker 3>and understand that, that's powerful for anybody. So yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 3>really and he reads a lot of books around mindset

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<v Speaker 3>and it's like all of the stuff. So I'm you know,

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<v Speaker 3>that's not something that you know, my parents were like,

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<v Speaker 3>you're you know, you're going to You're going to be

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<v Speaker 3>an accountant, You're going to do and I was just

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<v Speaker 3>like Justice, I'm like, oh no, that's where his passion is.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that's and do you think then for you

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<v Speaker 1>as a mother hearing Justice, that's clearly sounds like he's

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<v Speaker 1>got very well round ideas about you know, mindset and

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<v Speaker 1>something like psychology, but also has been allowed to pursue

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<v Speaker 1>his love of sport.

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<v Speaker 3>I did facilitate that. But what he has learned as

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<v Speaker 3>well is you know, structure and discipline to achieve. And

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's a really important lesson all round. So

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<v Speaker 3>whether or not, I think for me, university was about

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<v Speaker 3>structure and knowing, knowing that place or knowing that, knowing

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<v Speaker 3>the hierarchy, and really focusing.

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<v Speaker 2>And I learned that at university.

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<v Speaker 3>Apart from whatever you know the content or the subject is,

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<v Speaker 3>it's more sticking to this structure and plan to get

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<v Speaker 3>something and achieve something. He's actually learned that through basketball,

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<v Speaker 3>which is amazing that he's learned that through his passion,

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<v Speaker 3>because sometimes fashion doesn't teach you that going into fashion.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so great And nowadays the term creative directors use

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<v Speaker 3>quite loosely, isn't it insens.

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<v Speaker 2>It can be.

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<v Speaker 3>It can be, but there is a structure to that,

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<v Speaker 3>and there are KPIs to that, and it is linked

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<v Speaker 3>to the bottom line and all of that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So I learned it corporately.

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<v Speaker 1>First, you've mentioned with Subie there'll be a big global focus.

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<v Speaker 3>SUBI will probably see me travel a lot more to

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<v Speaker 3>the States to really understand that business over there. They've

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<v Speaker 3>got a big office in New York, and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>there's focus on London as well, So I'm really looking

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<v Speaker 3>forward to spending time on the ground over there because

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<v Speaker 3>it is a big business and it's a beast and

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<v Speaker 3>they've cracked it.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you see yourself in the future permanently relocating or

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<v Speaker 1>splitting your time between two countries, especially you say Justice as.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't think it's a permanent situation, but you know,

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<v Speaker 3>the CEO does spend a significant amount of time, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, three months at a time over there, so

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<v Speaker 3>I can probably see myself doing a stint once a

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<v Speaker 3>quarter definitely, and that's exciting. Yeah, I long for that,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think that suits where Justice is going.

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<v Speaker 1>And coming up Pip on why female friendships is so

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<v Speaker 1>important to her, how she deals with negative headlines, and

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<v Speaker 1>why she's finally ready to own exactly who she is.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to shift gears a bit if we can

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<v Speaker 1>and talk about something that is an issue that you

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<v Speaker 1>have been I think a real trailblazer on the last

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<v Speaker 1>eighteen months about talking about publicly, which is about perimenopause menopause.

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<v Speaker 1>This started your public story. Of course, you actually spoke

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<v Speaker 1>about it in Stella in March of last year, twenty

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<v Speaker 1>twenty three with the white chirt campaign, where you revealed

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<v Speaker 1>that it was only at thirty nine that you first

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<v Speaker 1>started getting symptoms and realizing that you were going through perimenopause.

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<v Speaker 1>And in the eighteen months since then you've spoken about

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<v Speaker 1>how it is a completely natural and common experience and

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<v Speaker 1>we shouldn't be made to feel like we are going

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<v Speaker 1>through it alone. But when you were going through it,

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<v Speaker 1>you really struggled. You said, I didn't know where to

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<v Speaker 1>turn for help or information. Since March of last year, PEP,

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<v Speaker 1>when you first started that conversation, right through to now

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<v Speaker 1>where you're still talking about it and advocating about how

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<v Speaker 1>we tackle it in the workplace, I'd love to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you about do you feel less isolated now? Would

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<v Speaker 1>you agree that you have helped make a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>other Australian women feel a lot less isolated about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Are we getting somewhere in terms of destigmatizing it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we're getting somewhere.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the conversation is happening because I'm doing a

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<v Speaker 3>lot more talking about it, and I think that's the

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<v Speaker 3>whole thing. The conversation is important because not one woman

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<v Speaker 3>experiences the same symptoms, nor do they correlate nor you know, again,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm here now forty four and I'm still relearning or

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<v Speaker 3>finding myself learning more because my symptoms are changing again.

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<v Speaker 3>So there isn't it's a never ending conversation. There's definitely

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<v Speaker 3>chatter around it. But I think the thing is there's

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<v Speaker 3>still a lot we don't know, and there's still a

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<v Speaker 3>lot and there's not a lot of great advice out

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<v Speaker 3>there in terms of where's this one, where's this one

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<v Speaker 3>place to go to get all this information?

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<v Speaker 2>Like right now, again, I'm getting a flush.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, I've had to change, I've had to up my

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<v Speaker 3>dose on an HRT, like I'm going through. I'm still

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<v Speaker 3>like even my mother who's in her eighties is back

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<v Speaker 3>on the patch. So you know, it's a work in progress,

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<v Speaker 3>and it requires all women to talk about We talk

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<v Speaker 3>about our periods, we talk about men.

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<v Speaker 2>This is men.

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<v Speaker 3>I sometimes say it's men on pause, lol, But but

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<v Speaker 3>I think, you know, we should be talking about it

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<v Speaker 3>because that's me. Because every woman is different, and that

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<v Speaker 3>experience and that sharing of that knowledge is priceless because

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<v Speaker 3>the doctors don't all know, you know, they don't know

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<v Speaker 3>where to go, whether it's you know, there was that

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<v Speaker 3>stigma for a long time, don't do HRT for all

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<v Speaker 3>the reasons of being related to breast cancer, and that

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<v Speaker 3>that made me actually go through a severe amount of

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<v Speaker 3>symptoms for a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I did go down the natural road.

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to try that, and I'm not saying, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it does work for some people. For me being so

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<v Speaker 3>young and the symptoms being so extreme because I was

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<v Speaker 3>so young, that's one of the problems of you know,

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<v Speaker 3>get hitting Perry really young.

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<v Speaker 2>The hot flushes are severe, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>And I did acupuncture, and I went to a nutritionist,

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<v Speaker 3>and I tried to change my exercise and I did

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<v Speaker 3>all the things, and I persevered for a long time,

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<v Speaker 3>but it didn't work because of the taboous around HRT, and.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, and then I went on HRT and I

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<v Speaker 2>got my life back.

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<v Speaker 3>But again I'm still on HIRT, still working riding the

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<v Speaker 3>waves of change. I actually was talking last week to

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<v Speaker 3>Michelle Bridges about it because she's doing this menopause workout,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, holistic kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>Thing, and I learned again you know what.

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<v Speaker 3>She taught me that a frozen shoulder can be a

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<v Speaker 3>symptom of menopause, and I was like, what, I had

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<v Speaker 3>a frozen shoulder. I went to pilates to try and

0:25:16.320 --> 0:25:19.040
<v Speaker 3>work through it, and it wouldn't go away. I did

0:25:19.040 --> 0:25:21.520
<v Speaker 3>not know, like all the things you don't know. But

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<v Speaker 3>the more women talk about what they're experiencing, because there's

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<v Speaker 3>more that is more valuable than what the doctors are offering,

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<v Speaker 3>is the mission. And my only other mission while I've

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<v Speaker 3>got the camera and I've got you, is that younger

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<v Speaker 3>women need to know. So the younger already, I want

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<v Speaker 3>the women in their twenties and thirties to know that

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<v Speaker 3>this is happening, this can happen, and if they plan

0:25:46.359 --> 0:25:49.520
<v Speaker 3>for it, for it. Because for me, the other part

0:25:49.560 --> 0:25:54.120
<v Speaker 3>of that was fertility, and that was my mission of

0:25:54.440 --> 0:25:58.720
<v Speaker 3>doing the white shirt campaign and quite recently the Dove campaign,

0:25:59.200 --> 0:26:03.359
<v Speaker 3>because my mission is to not for women to not

0:26:03.480 --> 0:26:07.119
<v Speaker 3>have a choice, and I want women to have a choice.

0:26:07.160 --> 0:26:08.080
<v Speaker 2>I want their options.

0:26:08.119 --> 0:26:11.560
<v Speaker 3>Because yes, modern the modern woman, she chooses to work hard,

0:26:11.600 --> 0:26:14.119
<v Speaker 3>she trains really hard, she's on a lean die, she

0:26:14.160 --> 0:26:17.879
<v Speaker 3>does all the things. And because that's also new, the

0:26:17.960 --> 0:26:20.679
<v Speaker 3>impact on your body. That's what you don't know. And

0:26:20.960 --> 0:26:24.840
<v Speaker 3>I just want women to have a choice and be informed.

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<v Speaker 1>And I can only imagine how much with this conversation

0:26:29.400 --> 0:26:33.600
<v Speaker 1>becoming more that we are discussing these things openly, that

0:26:33.720 --> 0:26:36.399
<v Speaker 1>so many women would be hearing different things, things that

0:26:36.480 --> 0:26:39.199
<v Speaker 1>you have said. They would be having that moment like

0:26:39.240 --> 0:26:39.560
<v Speaker 1>you had.

0:26:39.680 --> 0:26:42.000
<v Speaker 3>And you know what, the other thing, it's so crazy,

0:26:42.119 --> 0:26:45.400
<v Speaker 3>it's like the easiest thing, ask your mom. Go talk

0:26:45.440 --> 0:26:47.800
<v Speaker 3>to your mom first, because a lot of it is

0:26:47.840 --> 0:26:50.400
<v Speaker 3>hereditary and that's what we forget. And then you add

0:26:50.400 --> 0:26:53.359
<v Speaker 3>on all the symptoms of you know, what could bring

0:26:53.400 --> 0:26:57.240
<v Speaker 3>on early menopause, if it's high stress or diet whatever,

0:26:57.400 --> 0:26:59.920
<v Speaker 3>all there are a few things that bring it on,

0:27:00.520 --> 0:27:03.800
<v Speaker 3>but it starts with hereditary jeans, and just talk to

0:27:03.760 --> 0:27:05.840
<v Speaker 3>your mom first, then talk to your girlfriends.

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:09.640
<v Speaker 1>And can I ask you a bit about your approach

0:27:09.760 --> 0:27:14.080
<v Speaker 1>as a senior woman in the industry and an employer

0:27:14.400 --> 0:27:18.879
<v Speaker 1>yourself a cow an employee now an employee, but a

0:27:19.000 --> 0:27:22.879
<v Speaker 1>very very senior employee that will absolutely be shaping the

0:27:22.920 --> 0:27:26.160
<v Speaker 1>culture of the business. What's your approach to that you're

0:27:26.200 --> 0:27:28.920
<v Speaker 1>mentioning earlier, how big part of your work has really

0:27:28.960 --> 0:27:32.239
<v Speaker 1>been encouraging young women, especially to become aware of this

0:27:32.320 --> 0:27:35.480
<v Speaker 1>and have access to the information that was denied to

0:27:35.560 --> 0:27:39.400
<v Speaker 1>you in your twenties and thirties. Are you seeing that

0:27:39.560 --> 0:27:42.919
<v Speaker 1>culture shift in workplaces? And for you personally, is that

0:27:43.080 --> 0:27:45.160
<v Speaker 1>something that you supperve.

0:27:44.880 --> 0:27:47.960
<v Speaker 3>I think for me, it's more about connection and connecting

0:27:48.000 --> 0:27:52.440
<v Speaker 3>with my colleagues, which I'm two months in and doing

0:27:52.480 --> 0:27:56.080
<v Speaker 3>that quite well. But having the safety and creating the

0:27:56.119 --> 0:28:00.840
<v Speaker 3>safety for conversation and connection is actually the best place

0:28:00.880 --> 0:28:03.560
<v Speaker 3>to start. And I'm not, you know, asking for any

0:28:03.800 --> 0:28:07.280
<v Speaker 3>wild changes at my workplace, but the change would be

0:28:07.640 --> 0:28:08.359
<v Speaker 3>checking in.

0:28:09.160 --> 0:28:11.200
<v Speaker 2>You know, how are you? If you and the God

0:28:11.200 --> 0:28:12.359
<v Speaker 2>we didn't sleep? I'm like why?

0:28:12.840 --> 0:28:16.439
<v Speaker 3>And that's where that's where that support comes in, and

0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:19.560
<v Speaker 3>really invested in your conversations with your colleagues about what's

0:28:19.600 --> 0:28:24.160
<v Speaker 3>going on, because that really impacts productivity. And if they

0:28:24.160 --> 0:28:26.119
<v Speaker 3>feel supported and heard and they feel that they're in

0:28:26.200 --> 0:28:28.400
<v Speaker 3>a space where they can just have that private conversation

0:28:28.520 --> 0:28:32.480
<v Speaker 3>in the kitchen or in the hallway, it really does

0:28:33.040 --> 0:28:36.800
<v Speaker 3>elevate productivity and all of the things that they can

0:28:36.840 --> 0:28:39.400
<v Speaker 3>come to a workplace and go I'm seen and heard.

0:28:40.000 --> 0:28:44.360
<v Speaker 3>It's all about a supportive network at work, just creating

0:28:44.360 --> 0:28:47.080
<v Speaker 3>a safe place. But I mean everyone goes to it.

0:28:47.160 --> 0:28:48.960
<v Speaker 3>They don't want to do a bad job. I don't

0:28:48.960 --> 0:28:51.200
<v Speaker 3>believe people go to work to do a bad job.

0:28:52.120 --> 0:28:55.240
<v Speaker 3>You're they're five days a week, you know, nine ten

0:28:55.280 --> 0:28:59.280
<v Speaker 3>hours a day. They deserve to be heard a little bit.

0:28:59.280 --> 0:29:01.640
<v Speaker 3>But it's you're at a colleague level. I want to

0:29:01.680 --> 0:29:05.240
<v Speaker 3>say that then can become to a managerial level. I

0:29:05.320 --> 0:29:07.880
<v Speaker 3>just think you want to just support support your mates

0:29:07.920 --> 0:29:08.360
<v Speaker 3>at work.

0:29:08.560 --> 0:29:11.720
<v Speaker 1>Connection, as you said, was the word connection then brings

0:29:11.720 --> 0:29:14.120
<v Speaker 1>me back to sitting in the studio at the beginning

0:29:14.120 --> 0:29:16.760
<v Speaker 1>of the year with yourself and Julie Bishop, but not

0:29:16.960 --> 0:29:21.160
<v Speaker 1>just that friendship, which is an amazing friendship, and that

0:29:21.280 --> 0:29:25.440
<v Speaker 1>was an amazing conversation and a huge response to your friendship.

0:29:25.440 --> 0:29:29.240
<v Speaker 1>And I think what it says about high profile women

0:29:29.520 --> 0:29:34.320
<v Speaker 1>supporting one another, women of different life experiences but sharing

0:29:34.400 --> 0:29:37.000
<v Speaker 1>so much in common that you wouldn't think, but also

0:29:37.560 --> 0:29:40.560
<v Speaker 1>being united in their differences. I mean, there's just a

0:29:40.600 --> 0:29:43.040
<v Speaker 1>lot about that story. I think that resonated with a

0:29:43.040 --> 0:29:43.680
<v Speaker 1>lot of people.

0:29:43.800 --> 0:29:46.360
<v Speaker 3>I think what really resonates with that story for me

0:29:46.840 --> 0:29:53.640
<v Speaker 3>is just our honesty and honesty and having that trust

0:29:55.040 --> 0:29:58.480
<v Speaker 3>surpasses all the other things, all the shiny things people see,

0:29:58.800 --> 0:30:02.160
<v Speaker 3>you know, knowing I trust when I talk to her,

0:30:02.560 --> 0:30:04.840
<v Speaker 3>I can tell her everything, and she's she's a good

0:30:04.880 --> 0:30:06.040
<v Speaker 3>she's a vult, She's got my back.

0:30:06.680 --> 0:30:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Her trust is good, isn't it. I mean, when you

0:30:09.240 --> 0:30:13.120
<v Speaker 1>find trust in any one colleague, friend, it's partner. It's

0:30:13.200 --> 0:30:16.920
<v Speaker 1>just there's nothing like it, because the opposite of trust

0:30:17.040 --> 0:30:20.200
<v Speaker 1>is something that none of us want. I know, we

0:30:20.280 --> 0:30:22.400
<v Speaker 1>talked about this, you and me and Julie, but just

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:25.840
<v Speaker 1>that idea of how we celebrate female friendship a lot,

0:30:25.960 --> 0:30:28.080
<v Speaker 1>not just in a superficial sort of way, all like

0:30:28.160 --> 0:30:30.720
<v Speaker 1>that or you know, sisterhood. You've all got a lot

0:30:30.800 --> 0:30:31.320
<v Speaker 1>of each other.

0:30:31.360 --> 0:30:32.200
<v Speaker 2>It's not about that.

0:30:32.280 --> 0:30:35.280
<v Speaker 1>But you know, for a lot of us growing up,

0:30:35.320 --> 0:30:38.320
<v Speaker 1>that was not what was being supported. And if there

0:30:38.320 --> 0:30:40.800
<v Speaker 1>were two women, even if one of you is a

0:30:41.800 --> 0:30:44.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, former female foreign minister and one of you

0:30:44.640 --> 0:30:46.480
<v Speaker 1>is the co founder and the creative.

0:30:46.080 --> 0:30:47.360
<v Speaker 4>Director, that's it's all got to be.

0:30:47.560 --> 0:30:50.280
<v Speaker 1>You don't have two successful women in the same room.

0:30:50.560 --> 0:30:53.600
<v Speaker 1>It's great that that's called out, and that is obviously

0:30:53.840 --> 0:30:56.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, you have a lot of female friends, and

0:30:56.280 --> 0:30:59.480
<v Speaker 1>some of them, of course, we'll never see and we'll

0:30:59.480 --> 0:31:01.960
<v Speaker 1>never know that names and that's so important. And then

0:31:02.040 --> 0:31:05.000
<v Speaker 1>some of them like Julie, but also someone like Jackie.

0:31:05.040 --> 0:31:07.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I'll talk about that because it's a really

0:31:07.640 --> 0:31:09.520
<v Speaker 3>beautiful one. But I will talk about some of the

0:31:09.520 --> 0:31:13.200
<v Speaker 3>women you don't see because there is a common thread

0:31:13.240 --> 0:31:18.720
<v Speaker 3>shared there and it's literally wanting the best. Jackie O

0:31:18.920 --> 0:31:25.200
<v Speaker 3>is one of the most humble, interested, invested females I've

0:31:25.240 --> 0:31:27.880
<v Speaker 3>ever met. Who she is and how she speaks, she

0:31:28.040 --> 0:31:30.320
<v Speaker 3>is that on the street. I've watched her talk to

0:31:30.480 --> 0:31:33.840
<v Speaker 3>a thousand people, take her time out to have photos,

0:31:33.880 --> 0:31:37.760
<v Speaker 3>say hello, like actually give herself to people she knows,

0:31:37.800 --> 0:31:41.040
<v Speaker 3>she respects that. But she is one of the greatest friends.

0:31:41.080 --> 0:31:46.040
<v Speaker 3>We have parallel interests, we're spiritually aligned, we're emotionally connected.

0:31:46.160 --> 0:31:49.480
<v Speaker 3>It's honest, it's all the things, and I think that

0:31:49.600 --> 0:31:53.520
<v Speaker 3>really shines through in how we interact, even if it

0:31:53.640 --> 0:32:00.080
<v Speaker 3>is on Instagram. Her honesty is such an inspiration, and

0:32:00.120 --> 0:32:04.720
<v Speaker 3>her honesty and being a real woman is what really

0:32:04.720 --> 0:32:07.640
<v Speaker 3>got me at the beginning, and I just will forever

0:32:07.720 --> 0:32:10.120
<v Speaker 3>have her back, like I have Millie's back, like I

0:32:10.160 --> 0:32:12.280
<v Speaker 3>have Jane's back, Like I'll list all the women in

0:32:12.320 --> 0:32:16.479
<v Speaker 3>my life. They all deserve a mention. But it's not

0:32:16.520 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 3>as they're not. It's not a big bunch of women.

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:21.200
<v Speaker 3>It's a curated bunch of women over time.

0:32:22.080 --> 0:32:27.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because it's quality and it's about genuine friendship. I

0:32:27.160 --> 0:32:30.680
<v Speaker 1>obviously Jackie has recently made headlines with her memoir, which

0:32:30.800 --> 0:32:34.800
<v Speaker 1>is amazing by the way, and spoken about, you know,

0:32:35.120 --> 0:32:38.120
<v Speaker 1>taking herself to rehab and her addiction. But I just

0:32:38.160 --> 0:32:41.560
<v Speaker 1>wanted to ask you, Pip about the power in sharing

0:32:41.680 --> 0:32:45.720
<v Speaker 1>part of that because the vulnerability that's required, the bravery,

0:32:45.760 --> 0:32:48.920
<v Speaker 1>and we often overuse the word bravery, but there's such

0:32:49.520 --> 0:32:52.840
<v Speaker 1>bravery and generosity in somebody sharing a story. I have

0:32:52.920 --> 0:32:56.480
<v Speaker 1>the immense privilege of people doing it here all the

0:32:56.520 --> 0:32:59.840
<v Speaker 1>time in the podcast studio. And you, for instance, when

0:32:59.840 --> 0:33:03.240
<v Speaker 1>you spoke about your perimenopause at thirty nine, I'm sure

0:33:03.280 --> 0:33:05.800
<v Speaker 1>that that was something that you wrestled with before you

0:33:05.840 --> 0:33:09.440
<v Speaker 1>went public. I'm sure you like me and of course

0:33:09.480 --> 0:33:11.520
<v Speaker 1>your dear friends with her. But for Jackie, I mean

0:33:11.640 --> 0:33:15.360
<v Speaker 1>the power of her sharing that story and challenging some

0:33:15.440 --> 0:33:19.000
<v Speaker 1>of the still prevailing ideas that we have about addictions.

0:33:19.000 --> 0:33:21.600
<v Speaker 3>I think for her it was extremely healing and it

0:33:21.640 --> 0:33:25.000
<v Speaker 3>was time for her to stand in her truth. She

0:33:25.120 --> 0:33:27.840
<v Speaker 3>has nothing to hide. It is nothing to be ashamed of.

0:33:28.440 --> 0:33:32.200
<v Speaker 3>She's now connected with thousands and millions of women who

0:33:32.400 --> 0:33:36.680
<v Speaker 3>she has now inspired them to really face what they're

0:33:36.680 --> 0:33:42.600
<v Speaker 3>going through and not I mean, we actually celebrated her

0:33:42.640 --> 0:33:45.680
<v Speaker 3>book launch on the weekend and she went round the

0:33:45.720 --> 0:33:48.640
<v Speaker 3>room and spoke about everyone and how she does have

0:33:48.680 --> 0:33:51.960
<v Speaker 3>a great network that allowed her to really believe in

0:33:52.000 --> 0:33:54.600
<v Speaker 3>herself to get through it to come out the other end,

0:33:55.160 --> 0:33:58.200
<v Speaker 3>and she owed it to women to stand in her truth,

0:33:58.520 --> 0:34:02.640
<v Speaker 3>which in herself empowered herself. So it's this sick lital

0:34:02.720 --> 0:34:05.280
<v Speaker 3>thing and I think that's what people don't understand. You

0:34:05.320 --> 0:34:08.880
<v Speaker 3>can inspire women that then inspire you and it comes

0:34:08.880 --> 0:34:11.520
<v Speaker 3>back and all it does is just elevate the vibration

0:34:11.840 --> 0:34:15.080
<v Speaker 3>and creates so much more positivity. And to all the

0:34:15.120 --> 0:34:19.680
<v Speaker 3>critics out there, fuck off. Sorry, you know, I just

0:34:19.719 --> 0:34:23.480
<v Speaker 3>want to say that. And the night Jackie released the

0:34:23.520 --> 0:34:26.240
<v Speaker 3>story on radio, I went that night to her house

0:34:26.320 --> 0:34:29.839
<v Speaker 3>to be with her and just you know, give her

0:34:29.840 --> 0:34:32.680
<v Speaker 3>a big hug, and she shared with me the quote

0:34:32.760 --> 0:34:37.560
<v Speaker 3>that Jemmy gave her about being in the arena and

0:34:37.600 --> 0:34:39.840
<v Speaker 3>the Benet Brown being in the arena and know that

0:34:39.880 --> 0:34:43.080
<v Speaker 3>there's always the cheap seats. The people that stand back,

0:34:43.120 --> 0:34:47.400
<v Speaker 3>they'll always throw their comments, throw their judgments, but they're

0:34:47.520 --> 0:34:49.480
<v Speaker 3>not getting mard or they're not in the dust.

0:34:49.560 --> 0:34:50.960
<v Speaker 2>They're not getting seen.

0:34:51.360 --> 0:34:53.960
<v Speaker 3>And every day that person in the arena stands up

0:34:54.000 --> 0:34:57.080
<v Speaker 3>and shows up every time. But you know, whether it's

0:34:57.120 --> 0:35:01.160
<v Speaker 3>failure or victory, she's doing it. And that's why Jackie

0:35:01.200 --> 0:35:04.360
<v Speaker 3>and I have that amazing connection because we are in

0:35:04.400 --> 0:35:07.960
<v Speaker 3>the arena, but we're in the arena with integrity and

0:35:08.000 --> 0:35:12.160
<v Speaker 3>purpose and rawness. Right, So that's that I go home

0:35:12.200 --> 0:35:15.120
<v Speaker 3>that night and I'm so impressed with this quote. I

0:35:15.160 --> 0:35:18.040
<v Speaker 3>tell it to Justice and I'm like, be in the arena,

0:35:18.200 --> 0:35:19.320
<v Speaker 3>blah blah.

0:35:18.920 --> 0:35:20.520
<v Speaker 2>And he looks at me. He goes, mum.

0:35:20.719 --> 0:35:23.480
<v Speaker 3>There is a Theodore Roosevelt quote that also says that,

0:35:23.520 --> 0:35:25.799
<v Speaker 3>and it's like, but his version was the man in

0:35:25.840 --> 0:35:28.840
<v Speaker 3>the arena, and it's the same kind of thing. You know,

0:35:29.560 --> 0:35:32.120
<v Speaker 3>don't worry about the critics in the seats. They're not

0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:35.600
<v Speaker 3>they're not they're not doing the work. And I think

0:35:35.680 --> 0:35:38.640
<v Speaker 3>that's what we've got to remember. We're putting ourselves on

0:35:38.680 --> 0:35:41.120
<v Speaker 3>the line every time we're telling our stories. We're showing

0:35:41.200 --> 0:35:44.480
<v Speaker 3>up to work where good women, we're raising our children.

0:35:44.800 --> 0:35:45.960
<v Speaker 2>That's what people don't see.

0:35:46.040 --> 0:35:48.560
<v Speaker 3>They just all they want to see is that clickbait

0:35:48.600 --> 0:35:52.600
<v Speaker 3>story that brings someone down. That and yet you know

0:35:52.719 --> 0:35:56.799
<v Speaker 3>they're private on Instagram, they don't show anything, so cheap

0:35:56.840 --> 0:35:59.319
<v Speaker 3>seats go back to the nosebleeds. I'll happily be in

0:35:59.320 --> 0:36:01.040
<v Speaker 3>the arena every day of the week.

0:36:01.760 --> 0:36:05.319
<v Speaker 4>I absolutely love that, and I love that justice also.

0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:11.880
<v Speaker 2>Like, wow, I know this, myst son is just just genius.

0:36:11.960 --> 0:36:13.400
<v Speaker 2>I love him.

0:36:13.480 --> 0:36:18.200
<v Speaker 1>You know this, this profound raw friendship and solidarity and

0:36:18.200 --> 0:36:21.879
<v Speaker 1>then getting trailed by perhaps I mean, Pip, You're always

0:36:22.640 --> 0:36:25.439
<v Speaker 1>everywhere you go, there'll be you know.

0:36:24.880 --> 0:36:28.600
<v Speaker 3>What's so interesting about my boyfriends? I think I'm more interesting?

0:36:29.239 --> 0:36:32.960
<v Speaker 4>Well, I think you are definitely the most interesting.

0:36:33.560 --> 0:36:35.480
<v Speaker 3>When you quote me on that, can you quote that

0:36:35.520 --> 0:36:38.000
<v Speaker 3>with a bit of laughter? I was being quite funny there.

0:36:38.160 --> 0:36:42.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm not like, you know, no look in respect to

0:36:42.520 --> 0:36:47.680
<v Speaker 3>the ex boyfriends, but there's way more interesting things and

0:36:47.719 --> 0:36:50.879
<v Speaker 3>way more layers to me than that. And if that's

0:36:50.880 --> 0:36:54.680
<v Speaker 3>how they want to portray me for clickbait, that's on them,

0:36:54.880 --> 0:36:58.239
<v Speaker 3>and it's actually on the audience too, And anyone that

0:36:58.320 --> 0:37:01.880
<v Speaker 3>meets me knows that that shit doesn't even touch the sides.

0:37:02.160 --> 0:37:04.360
<v Speaker 1>Do you find it frustrating the fact that because you

0:37:04.440 --> 0:37:08.480
<v Speaker 1>don't encourage that or buy into that, and like, to

0:37:08.520 --> 0:37:10.799
<v Speaker 1>be really honest, like as you and I are sitting here,

0:37:10.880 --> 0:37:12.600
<v Speaker 1>I know it's something that you don't want to talk

0:37:12.640 --> 0:37:14.920
<v Speaker 1>to And I'm not going to ask you about lock.

0:37:14.960 --> 0:37:17.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm really not. But is that something that you find

0:37:17.920 --> 0:37:20.080
<v Speaker 1>frustrating that that narrative then the.

0:37:20.080 --> 0:37:23.040
<v Speaker 3>Link the link to the narrative, and then then the

0:37:23.120 --> 0:37:25.799
<v Speaker 3>link to the next one. And it's kind of like,

0:37:27.280 --> 0:37:30.759
<v Speaker 3>why aren't you seeing the woman that's really had an

0:37:30.800 --> 0:37:37.400
<v Speaker 3>incredible career directory in an industry, worked for some incredible businesses,

0:37:37.960 --> 0:37:42.160
<v Speaker 3>It's made some kind of inroads, raised a child on

0:37:42.239 --> 0:37:49.000
<v Speaker 3>her own, independently financially, who's a great friend, who's got energy.

0:37:49.440 --> 0:37:51.759
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm talking about myself here, But I kind

0:37:51.760 --> 0:37:52.120
<v Speaker 2>of have to.

0:37:52.800 --> 0:37:55.600
<v Speaker 3>I kind of have to in a way because all

0:37:55.640 --> 0:38:00.279
<v Speaker 3>of that gets wiped by some man that I happen

0:38:00.320 --> 0:38:06.319
<v Speaker 3>to have some experience with. Yeah, and I don't flaunt it.

0:38:07.520 --> 0:38:09.799
<v Speaker 1>No, I wonder if it will ever go away, Like

0:38:09.840 --> 0:38:11.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure it will at some point, not for you,

0:38:11.640 --> 0:38:13.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean, but it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's fine, But I mean, I'll happily now just talk

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<v Speaker 3>about the real shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I love that you have talked about a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of real shit with me today. I'd like to finish

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<v Speaker 1>it up by bringing it full circle. You spoke about

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<v Speaker 1>new doors opening and closing other doors. What a year

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<v Speaker 1>it has been, and you know you're only forty four, Pip.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'd love to ask you a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>that idea of being in your forties and having all

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<v Speaker 1>of these amazing things ahead of you, and again a

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<v Speaker 1>bit what we talked about with cross generational conversations that

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<v Speaker 1>I think is something that wasn't necessarily available for our

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<v Speaker 1>mother's generations, much less great grandmother's generations. Do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's a bit cliched. You're just sort of

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<v Speaker 1>getting started in so many ways at forty four.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm about to in one way with my son obviously,

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<v Speaker 3>like reaching the milestone of parenting. I mean, I'll always

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<v Speaker 3>be his mother, but you know, getting a son to

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<v Speaker 3>eighteen and having that solo journey doing that, it's a

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<v Speaker 3>lot and I've had to really reflect on that and

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<v Speaker 3>what that means for me and what's going to.

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<v Speaker 2>Drive my next chapter.

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<v Speaker 3>But the best thing about being forty four and having

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<v Speaker 3>got my son to eighteen, I'm in my skin and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm unashamedly, unapologetically energetically me take it or leave it,

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't want to hide anymore. I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to censor anything. I don't need to filter anything, proofs

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<v Speaker 3>in the pudding. You know, I've ticked my boxes with work.

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<v Speaker 3>I've raised a beautiful, beautiful son who is the most balanced, measured, sensitive, funny, charismatic,

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<v Speaker 3>all the things. I'm proud. I'm proud so now now, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I make myself proud. You know it before it's been

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<v Speaker 3>always an external validation. I don't need to externally validate anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just it's like, instead of proving people wrong, which

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<v Speaker 3>it's been that tough journey. It really has been that

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<v Speaker 3>tough journey, I'm now going to prove myself right.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of us are driven, I think by proving

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<v Speaker 1>people wrong. So I love that you verbalize that.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that.

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<v Speaker 3>Would prove myself right and if anything, don't prove.

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<v Speaker 2>Improve m I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you proud of yourself right now?

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<v Speaker 5>Though?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I'm proud of making some big decisions. I'm proud

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<v Speaker 3>out of, you know, stepping into new challenges. Because that's

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<v Speaker 3>always scary. I'm proud of the work I've done. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>proud of knowing myself inside out.

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<v Speaker 2>I still.

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<v Speaker 3>I still deal with, you know, things that are so personal.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's the journey. I'm not You're never You're never

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<v Speaker 3>really there. And if you think you're going to get

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<v Speaker 3>you think you've got that kind of goal.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not how.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just it's just being president in the moment and

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<v Speaker 3>making the decisions in the moment that are right. And

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<v Speaker 3>that's all you can be proud of.

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<v Speaker 1>It has been an absolute pleasure to talk to you

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<v Speaker 1>so lovely, to see you so thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 3>A cover I feel on it, honestly, humbled on it, honestly, no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>There's always a cover with your name on it. Can't

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<v Speaker 1>wait to see how everything unfolds for you over the

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<v Speaker 1>coming months.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you so I will see you at the next Travis.

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<v Speaker 5>Wherever we are, I'll be holding your hand. Thanks again, Edward,

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<v Speaker 5>thank you, thanks so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Pip, of course, is.

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