WEBVTT - These Scathing Obituaries Are Going Viral Online

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<v Speaker 1>We go get morning every day, adelaides.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk about jen z and how they are consuming

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<v Speaker 2>significantly less alcohol than previous generations.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess, well done. That's a good thing, more for me.

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<v Speaker 2>So this trend is primarily fueled by a heightened awareness

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<v Speaker 2>of health, both mental and physical, and a desire to

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<v Speaker 2>maintain control over their image, especially in the age of

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<v Speaker 2>social media, which I guess makes a lot of sense

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<v Speaker 2>because if there was some photo circulating of me back

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<v Speaker 2>in the day eighteen to twenty one, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Boy boy, ye would be in jail purely from embarrassment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's bring in our resident jen Zeta. Zoe produces Zoe.

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<v Speaker 3>Who's breaking the trend?

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<v Speaker 1>If she sounds a bit rusty, it was a solid weekend.

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<v Speaker 5>I've never been a follower. I'm not following that trend,

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<v Speaker 5>not drink.

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<v Speaker 2>That was awful, the whole voice breaking things our point beautifully.

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<v Speaker 5>No, Yeah, that was actually shocking to me. Maybe it's

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<v Speaker 5>just my circle of friends, but well, you certainly drink

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<v Speaker 5>a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, so't you haven't noticed that? No?

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<v Speaker 5>I have, I have, especially on social media. I think

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<v Speaker 5>that's the big one. It's like how run clubs are

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<v Speaker 5>the crazy thing. Now you know, you're not going out

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<v Speaker 5>and drinking on a Sunday night because you're getting up

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<v Speaker 5>at six and going through a run on Sunday. Not me,

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<v Speaker 5>some of them.

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<v Speaker 3>So she's not drinking.

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<v Speaker 5>She a thousands, I've got cigarettes, I've got nudes.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I wish it had been a thing when

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<v Speaker 4>I was your age, drink yeah less because when I

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<v Speaker 4>was growing up, it was like God, everyone just went

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<v Speaker 4>out on a Saturday night and got absolutely ridden off.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think the more you read about the harmful

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<v Speaker 4>effects of alcohol and the more you look into there's

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of people my age who are sober curious

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<v Speaker 4>they call it and just want to have a cracket,

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<v Speaker 4>either really cutting back how much you drink or not

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<v Speaker 4>drinking at all. And I think it's such a good

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<v Speaker 4>thing because you think about it. I reckon alcohol in

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<v Speaker 4>the way is like the new cigarettes, right, So cigarettes

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<v Speaker 4>were so is glamorous and to have a good time

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<v Speaker 4>you have to have cigarettes and.

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<v Speaker 3>Jimmy d.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think the same that could be said of alcohol.

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<v Speaker 4>So you think about our advertising and everything, we're fair.

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<v Speaker 4>To have a good time, you have to have alcohol,

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<v Speaker 4>And I don't think that's necessarily the case.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I think as well. My generation definitely don't drink

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<v Speaker 5>at home.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I can't see if everyone, but I would never just

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<v Speaker 5>have a bottle of wine at home, Yeah, for during

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<v Speaker 5>the week or whatever. So maybe the drinking lesson is

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<v Speaker 5>just really going for it once every two weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>I think the drinking at home during the week comes

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<v Speaker 4>with parenthood that you reckon with the stresses of having children.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, absolutely lean parenthood with alcoholism for sure. There's an

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<v Speaker 2>increasing demand for non alcoholic and low alcohol beverages, letting

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<v Speaker 2>both establish brands and new companies to explore and innovate

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<v Speaker 2>in the growing market.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to be honest with you. When I first

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<v Speaker 3>saw of a non alcoholic beer coming out, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Still you thought, what's the point, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I remember saying to my dad years and years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember saying, gosh, I love beer, and he said

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<v Speaker 2>it's very wise. He said, well, would you like it

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<v Speaker 2>if it didn't make you drunk?

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, oh gosh. He's like, if you

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<v Speaker 3>if there was no alcohol, would you choose beer?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>That gets you thinking.

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<v Speaker 4>So you would never go to the service station because

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<v Speaker 4>they're in the service stations now and buy like a

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<v Speaker 4>six pack of non alcoholic beer.

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<v Speaker 2>If I was drinking something that I didn't care if

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<v Speaker 2>it was bad for my waist.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yes, I drink it can't coco, Yeah, Coke. My

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<v Speaker 3>kids aren't listening because we're trying to steer them away.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I look, to be honest, I've tried that

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<v Speaker 4>non alcoholic gin and it just makes me want real gin.

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<v Speaker 3>So there's a lesson in all this. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody who's got a job, listen up, because a very

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<v Speaker 2>important survey has been released.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>It's titled are you an annoying colleague? Here we go?

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<v Speaker 2>A survey of real is the most loved and loathed

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<v Speaker 2>workplace behaviors, as voted by Ossie workers. Why saying, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>do you think you could be a bad part of

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<v Speaker 2>the statistic?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm worried will be a good part. I'm worried that

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<v Speaker 4>I do one of these things. Go on hit us

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<v Speaker 4>first one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, people will turn up to work sick. No, I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's brave.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's brave. Or would you prefer I go home?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 2>WHI should stay?

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<v Speaker 6>Ye?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah. So it will start off with this almost

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<v Speaker 2>a third of Australian workers, that's thirty one percent would

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<v Speaker 2>rather have a tooth extracted than socialized with a colleague

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<v Speaker 2>outside of wood. We've all seen a coworker outside of

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<v Speaker 2>work and you're like.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, no, what do we do?

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<v Speaker 2>Where I hold my hands?

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<v Speaker 3>Would we talk? I know?

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<v Speaker 4>And also it's bad enough that sometimes you run into

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<v Speaker 4>awkward people in the kitchen when you're just getting your

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<v Speaker 4>tuna sandwich or whatever. Oh my gosh, and you've got

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<v Speaker 4>to make small talk. Imagine making that small talk in

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<v Speaker 4>a public space and.

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<v Speaker 2>I to up the kitchen. I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>she's making a tuna sandwich again.

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<v Speaker 1>Cloth Is that another one of them?

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<v Speaker 2>Here's one top five most annoying behaviors. At number five,

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<v Speaker 2>it is invading personal space. Oh okay, yep for people

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<v Speaker 2>said that's number four. It's talking over the top of people.

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<v Speaker 2>Number three. Number three is being messy.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that annoys me.

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<v Speaker 2>Number two is gossiping.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's the best part of work, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, what depends when you become the gossipeler annoying? The

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<v Speaker 2>number one most annoying behavior is poor personal hygiene. Everyone's

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<v Speaker 2>got a coworker that stinks Yeah, it sucks, doesn't it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that really does. Can I add a couple to

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<v Speaker 1>the list?

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<v Speaker 2>Here you go, sold fever? What is it Joey's diary time?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no.

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<v Speaker 4>Excessive nose blowing in the workplace. Can't have it, absolutely

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<v Speaker 4>can't have it.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got some girls.

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<v Speaker 4>Who like to play Taylor Swift very loud in the

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<v Speaker 4>office late in the day.

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<v Speaker 2>Can't have that, mature age Swifties'm not sure about that.

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<v Speaker 4>No. And for me, the number one most annoying thing

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<v Speaker 4>in the office is people who scratch their nuts all

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<v Speaker 4>the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you a sorry, but they're not going to

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<v Speaker 2>scratch themselves.

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<v Speaker 3>You know that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll leave you this, Joe. It's the top five most

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<v Speaker 2>disliked personality traits. Okay, okay. Number five people who lie.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, that makes sense, doesn't it. Number four people

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<v Speaker 2>who are rude. Everyone's got a rude.

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<v Speaker 1>Co worker, coud.

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<v Speaker 2>You've just got to try and rise above it, but

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes it's too much. Number three people who are unreliable.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at me.

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<v Speaker 1>Very dare look at me like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Number two manipulative, and number one colleagues who are lazy.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yes, fill the space and fill the space.

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<v Speaker 3>There's nothing to say here.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there's a lot to learn from that. There's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of information.

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<v Speaker 3>Takeout.

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<v Speaker 2>Does it apply to you? Does it apply to me?

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<v Speaker 2>Does it apply to other coworkers? Who knows it's his space?

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<v Speaker 2>But our eyes are darting?

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<v Speaker 1>Or this is so spicy?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So a daughter has written a blistering obituary for

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<v Speaker 4>her late mother and it has gone viral.

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<v Speaker 1>Ding dong.

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<v Speaker 4>The witch is dead, wrote Christina Novak in the passing

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<v Speaker 4>of her mother, Florence Harlson. Novak noted in the obituary

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<v Speaker 4>that her mother had died on February twenty second, twenty

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<v Speaker 4>twenty four, without family by her side, due to burnt

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<v Speaker 4>bridges and a wake of destruction left in her path.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, these are not beautiful words from the heart, it

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<v Speaker 2>would seem.

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<v Speaker 4>No, Florence did not want an obituary or anyone, including family,

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<v Speaker 4>to know she died. That's because even in death, she

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<v Speaker 4>wanted those she terrorized to still be living in fear

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<v Speaker 4>looking over their shoulders. So this isn't so much an obitery,

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<v Speaker 4>but more of a public service announcement.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what it's all about, she told.

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<v Speaker 1>The Bangor Daily News.

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<v Speaker 4>She even considered listing the ways in which her mother

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<v Speaker 4>wronged her relatives, but in the end decided against it.

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<v Speaker 4>She added it was her intention to write a traditional obituary,

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<v Speaker 4>found herself leaning towards a more sarcastic approach.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my very goodness.

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<v Speaker 2>So I wonder how many people read this obituary and

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<v Speaker 2>we're like, oh, we didn't know that Flow was an

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<v Speaker 2>absolute cow.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, horrible woman, absolutely hideous woman.

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<v Speaker 3>You just sort of wonder everyone's got secrets.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, everybody has secrets, and obviously some people's secrets are

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<v Speaker 2>more intense than others.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I know of a woman who is a friend

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<v Speaker 4>of mine whose husband passed away from a medical episode

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<v Speaker 4>at work so very suddenly, very very suddenly, so suddenly.

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<v Speaker 4>He didn't have time to delete some incriminating things off

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<v Speaker 4>his phone that revealed he may or may.

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<v Speaker 1>Not have been having a relationship with another woman.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, not ideal.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm glad you gave that the bar. It's not a ding.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure what else it is or what are

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<v Speaker 2>you that or we got this range sound.

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<v Speaker 1>Thirteen twenty four to ten. Let's do this. What did

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<v Speaker 1>you find out after they passed away?

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<v Speaker 2>The story's coming through about people with genuine secret families,

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<v Speaker 2>It's unbelievable, or genuine secret children almost as well. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I know a bloke who was at a former football

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<v Speaker 2>club that I was at who had a genuine secret

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<v Speaker 2>family in another city. What and the families didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>about each other? Isn't that crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>Until he died or is he still alive, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>Really sure when I left he was still alive, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure as soon as one of the families finds out,

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<v Speaker 2>his life is definitely in danger. But just the stress, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>how could you possibly? But also and you're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I've just got to head off to another city for

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<v Speaker 2>a week. Yeah, I won't be contactable or is it

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<v Speaker 2>constantly in contact?

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<v Speaker 1>On Bells thirteen twenty four to ten.

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<v Speaker 4>I would love to hear from anyone who found out

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<v Speaker 4>something juicy or saucy after someone died.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is my niche It's okay, it's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I've already tried this morning to find a

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<v Speaker 1>baby Beryl.

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<v Speaker 4>I couldn't do that, but I'm fairly certain there'd be

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<v Speaker 4>some juicy secrets that were kept and were revealed after

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<v Speaker 4>the person went to the grave.

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<v Speaker 2>This is nice I like this thirty and twenty four

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<v Speaker 2>to ten. What did you find out after they died?

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<v Speaker 2>We'll take your cause next.

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<v Speaker 4>We've just revealed an abitry that's gone viral. Christina wrote

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<v Speaker 4>of her mother ding Dong the witch is dead. She

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<v Speaker 4>said she has left behind a family, a wake of

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<v Speaker 4>burnt bridges, and a wake of destruction left.

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<v Speaker 1>In her path.

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<v Speaker 3>Mum's a cow.

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<v Speaker 4>Mum is a red hot cow, and no one liked

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<v Speaker 4>her okay the end.

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<v Speaker 3>And not a lovely cow like those dairy cows like that,

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<v Speaker 3>just magnificent.

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<v Speaker 4>Jerseys at the show, Not like that? Seteen twenty four

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<v Speaker 4>to ten. What did you find out after they died? Tana,

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<v Speaker 4>good morning, good morning.

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like that, oh bit would probably be quite

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<v Speaker 6>therapeutic and perhaps give her a little bit of closure.

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<v Speaker 6>My money to copy and paste some of that. So essentially,

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<v Speaker 6>what I found out and my siblings found out, was

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<v Speaker 6>that we were given an inheritance, but it was never

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<v Speaker 6>actually given to us by my parents. They just decided

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<v Speaker 6>to keep it and spend it and live their best

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<v Speaker 6>lives on it underknownst to us.

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<v Speaker 3>Whooh, okay, so how many siblings have you got?

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<v Speaker 4>So I only had two?

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<v Speaker 6>But the money was shared out between us three and

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<v Speaker 6>the cousin, and at the time it was a relatively

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<v Speaker 6>i mean our first small amount. These days it's huge.

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<v Speaker 6>It would be like it was seventy seven, but that

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<v Speaker 6>was like fifteen to eighteen years ago. So we worked

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<v Speaker 6>out the interest and what we should have gotten. If

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<v Speaker 6>they'd done the right thing and kept it all together

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<v Speaker 6>in an account, we would have each been given four

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<v Speaker 6>hundred and fifty thousand.

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<v Speaker 7>Dollars per person.

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<v Speaker 1>Who oh my god.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it was actually quite soul crushing, and just between

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<v Speaker 6>me and the rest of the nation, it didn't result

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<v Speaker 6>in essentially a no contact with me and my parents.

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<v Speaker 6>To be fair, there is a long laundry list of

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<v Speaker 6>testable things that they have done. But this was essentially

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<v Speaker 6>the straw that broke the perviial camel's back for us,

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<v Speaker 6>and that was it hadn't spoken.

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<v Speaker 3>To them since so they're still around.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, they're still around. We found out because somebody else

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<v Speaker 6>in the family had died and they contacted us because

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<v Speaker 6>obviously there was a death in the family and they

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<v Speaker 6>were like, oh, hey, did you you know, how'd you

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<v Speaker 6>go with great aunt? You know, she left you all

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<v Speaker 6>that money must have set you guys up really well,

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<v Speaker 6>and we were like what and they're like, yeah, so

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<v Speaker 6>it was a surpliceable amount of money, and we're like,

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<v Speaker 6>we have no idea what you're talking about. We actually,

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<v Speaker 6>I mean probably tmi. But we actually had to get

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<v Speaker 6>a lot because mom wouldn't give the money up, and

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<v Speaker 6>so we had to subpoena her bank records to find

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<v Speaker 6>out how much where she was keeping it, And in

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<v Speaker 6>the end we don't actually know if we got it all,

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<v Speaker 6>but we just took what we could and we just

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<v Speaker 6>washed our hands of it and went our separate away.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so sorry, Tanner, I didn't realize. So your parents

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<v Speaker 4>spent your auntie's inheritance.

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<v Speaker 6>That was yeah, yeah, exactly. So she was a lovely

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<v Speaker 6>lady and she left a bunch of it to charity,

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<v Speaker 6>like for dogs and cats and vets and some hospitals,

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<v Speaker 6>and she felt that my parents and his brother and

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<v Speaker 6>sister had basically lived their lives. They're like, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>we want this money to set somebody up to look

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<v Speaker 6>after people, and you know, this is a good step

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<v Speaker 6>in the right direction for your children. So she changed

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<v Speaker 6>her will and my parents essentially didn't agree with that.

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<v Speaker 6>They felt that we didn't deserve it. We would be

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<v Speaker 6>frivolous with it, we would waste it, and they thought

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<v Speaker 6>they were doing the right thing by keeping it for us.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's so nice of them.

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<v Speaker 4>I had a lovely cruise around, you know, runts or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that.

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<v Speaker 3>That's all there, you go.

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<v Speaker 2>We have an anonymous lawyer on the line right now, Yes, who,

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<v Speaker 2>for obvious reasons, was like, do.

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<v Speaker 3>Not say my name, because Laurie is in a.

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<v Speaker 2>Situation where you've got to sort out assets, et cetera.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe uncover some really heavy truths. They hear some stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so we stay. Good morning to our anonymous lawyer.

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<v Speaker 7>Hello, good morning, how are you good?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? Okay, you would see some stuff I do.

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<v Speaker 7>Will's in a state down really boring, but it's really

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<v Speaker 7>interesting and ducy.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a key word.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh.

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<v Speaker 7>So, I have had a client recently who's had a

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<v Speaker 7>parent passed away. Yep, they've come in to see me.

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<v Speaker 7>They've given me the will and I can see it

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<v Speaker 7>says I leave my state to my children. I've asked

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<v Speaker 7>my client how many are there? They've said, it's just us.

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<v Speaker 7>And as we have progressed through that someone else has

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<v Speaker 7>cropped up and said, well, I'm also a child, and

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<v Speaker 7>it's sort of all come out in the wash that

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<v Speaker 7>mum had an affair and as a result of that,

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<v Speaker 7>had become pregnant and had another child that had been

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<v Speaker 7>given up for adoption.

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<v Speaker 6>WHOA.

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<v Speaker 1>So what was the reaction.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, it was interesting. I had to obviously say to

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<v Speaker 7>my client, hey, did you know that there was another

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<v Speaker 7>one of you? Which they said that they didn't, and

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<v Speaker 7>they were aware of the existence of this person, but

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<v Speaker 7>the story that they had always been told was that

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<v Speaker 7>they were a friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, so there was Conso this person was someone who

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<v Speaker 2>the family knew.

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<v Speaker 3>They just didn't know how well they knew them, right.

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<v Speaker 7>Not yet, not very well to my understanding. It was

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<v Speaker 7>sort of in passing. But they knew, they were aware

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<v Speaker 7>of the existence of this person, but obviously not not

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<v Speaker 7>to the extent that they actually were.

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<v Speaker 4>Look here, it's dear Drew Chambers.

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<v Speaker 3>What about you, Like, Hey, that's our friend. People say

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<v Speaker 3>we look alike. That's so silly.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, thank you so much for your care. We really

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate it.