WEBVTT - BEFORE ANNA BECAME MRS STAPLES 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:04.440 Hey guys, So I am officially Missus Staples. I am 0:00:04.559 --> 0:00:09.240 married and we are currently on our way back to Australia. 0:00:09.800 --> 0:00:13.760 So before you get the wedding full recap of the 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:16.880 welcome dinner, the wedding, the recovery and the honeymoon, I 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:20.080 thought we could take it back to our very special 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:28.240 engagement episode. Where's Your Head Out is a podcast that 0:00:28.400 --> 0:00:33.319 talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:34.360 everything in between. 0:00:34.680 --> 0:00:37.360 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:37.520 --> 0:00:46.720 intimate details, advice and much more. Congratulations Anna again, I'm 0:00:46.760 --> 0:00:47.479 so happy for. 0:00:47.479 --> 0:00:48.040 You, guys. 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:48.800 Thank you. 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:51.240 Oh my god, can you believe I'm e gays? 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:52.240 I can't. 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:54.520 Like when we started this podcast, like we were just 0:00:54.520 --> 0:00:55.800 too single. 0:00:56.000 --> 0:00:59.720 Out on the town, single, ready to mingle. 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:02.640 Now you have a ring on your finger, weighing that 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:04.000 hand down, don't it's blinding me? 0:01:04.080 --> 0:01:08.160 The light shine of it in the light is blinding me. Wow, Like, 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:08.880 can you believe it? 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:10.080 I actually can't. 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:13.640 Like I was actually genuinely shocked, and I didn't think 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:16.679 that I would be able to be shocked. 0:01:17.080 --> 0:01:19.440 Yeah, I thought I would always know. 0:01:20.120 --> 0:01:22.440 Yeah, you didn't have any inkling nothing. 0:01:22.520 --> 0:01:26.080 I think in the final hour just before the proposal. 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:29.399 I mean, there's a lot that happened, which I'm going 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:32.480 to go into all of the details for everyone, but yeah, 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:36.560 there was a few things that happened where I was like, hmm, maybe, 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:38.800 and then I was like, no way, Like Michael's not 0:01:38.840 --> 0:01:40.959 going to fly to Bali. That's way over the top, 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:44.080 Like it's a bit far fetched. Calm down, Anna. 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:45.000 I think it was a. 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:48.120 Bit of a bit of an alarm bells when he'd 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:51.440 gone excommunicator what is it? Ex communicado for nine hours 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:53.440 he couldn't get a hold of him. Did you think 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:54.800 that was a little bit suspicious? 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:56.920 He was, He was Mia. 0:01:58.440 --> 0:02:03.040 Here and there, but he had at which was semi believable. 0:02:03.280 --> 0:02:04.680 I'll be the charge of that. We'll wait to hear. 0:02:05.960 --> 0:02:07.880 But let's set the scene. So you're in Bali with 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:08.440 your girls. 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:09.040 Yeah. 0:02:09.200 --> 0:02:12.600 So, as I mentioned on earlier podcasts, I was having 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:16.360 a girl's trip. All of my friends this year turned thirty, 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:20.440 so we were like fuck it, we're going away, and 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:23.120 it was really hard to get everyone together. So we 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:24.800 were kind of like, this is probably going to be 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:28.000 like maybe our final girls trip, like maybe the next 0:02:28.000 --> 0:02:31.880 one we'll have our boyfriends or fiance's there whatever. So yeah, 0:02:31.919 --> 0:02:33.840 we were like really making the most of it. We 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:38.040 were super excited. We even on the day that I 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:41.520 actually got proposed to, which was the day before we 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:46.480 were due to leave, we actually had a big event 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:49.799 that day, so we all decided to get tattoos. 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:51.800 Yes, so what tattoos did you get? 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:55.200 So initially speaking about this though for a while or so, 0:02:55.240 --> 0:02:57.160 how did you come to the conclusion though? 0:02:57.480 --> 0:02:59.240 Yeah, so it was really hard for us to pick 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:02.000 a tattoo that we all wanted, but we ended up 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:04.880 going with her. So we've been friends for like since 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:08.880 school so forever. It's been a really tight knit friendship 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:12.200 group with such like a hype group, like we hype 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:12.840 each other up. 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:13.720 We love each other. 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:17.320 We've been friends for so long, and we were like, 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:20.040 fuck it, we want to get a tattoo to commemorate 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:23.080 like not only our friendship, but this trip where it 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:26.040 was the first trip we're thirty now where we've been 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:27.640 able to make it happen altogether. 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:29.480 So we decided to get. 0:03:29.240 --> 0:03:32.160 Her h e R just as like a you know, 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:35.880 girls empowerment. We kind of got it for her kind 0:03:35.960 --> 0:03:39.680 of vibe, strong women like we just you know, it's 0:03:39.800 --> 0:03:42.480 there's lots of different meetings behind it, but we were 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:44.600 like we all agreed on that one. That was one 0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:46.400 of the only ones we agreed on, so we were like, 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:49.200 fuck it, let's just do it. So we locked it 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:51.960 in and it was funny because we obviously knew from 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:52.680 day one of the. 0:03:52.640 --> 0:03:54.440 Trip that we were going to all get tattoos. 0:03:55.280 --> 0:03:57.520 And on day one I was like, I kind of 0:03:57.560 --> 0:04:00.240 want to get an m from Michael on that day, 0:04:00.480 --> 0:04:02.240 and they were like, yeah, fuck it, just do it. 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:04.200 And then I was like, throughout the week because I'd 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:05.800 had too long to think about it, I was like, 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:08.760 maybe I'll get a heart for him, like. 0:04:09.720 --> 0:04:12.000 It, you just have to do it. 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:14.440 I was like, I was kind of like thinking about it, 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:15.640 and then I had too long to think about it, 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:17.359 and then I was like, oh, it's a bit needy 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:19.400 of me to just get a tattoo, like I. 0:04:19.360 --> 0:04:21.320 Want him to get a tattoo of me too. 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:25.880 And then on that day, which is the day that 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:30.000 Michael actually proposed, after I'd got my hurt tattoo on 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:33.880 my ribs, I was like, fuck it, Like I love Michael, 0:04:34.080 --> 0:04:34.800 like I feel like. 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:36.120 I'm gonna say him forever with him. 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:39.720 I'm gonna get a little heart on my wrist so 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:45.760 wildly on the day that Michael proposed, I got a 0:04:45.839 --> 0:04:53.800 heart tattoo for him that same day. 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:54.280 Trip do you reckon that was fatal or that. 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:57.159 Was just that's just like the universe like colliding together 0:04:57.320 --> 0:05:00.360 to be like this is the correct like thing, this 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:03.120 is a right moment, Like I don't know, that's crazy 0:05:03.160 --> 0:05:03.719 to me to. 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:05.920 Think about it. His commitment was pretty big as well 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:07.839 to you on that day. It was even bigger than 0:05:07.839 --> 0:05:08.840 a chatter who a you reckon? 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:12.000 Was more I mean they're both very up there. 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:15.599 So yeah, so like that was my day. 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:18.800 And Michael, so his story or his alleged story, was 0:05:18.839 --> 0:05:23.040 basically that he was doing this charity walk from Men's 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:24.880 Mental Health and he was turning his phone off and 0:05:24.920 --> 0:05:28.320 he was going up to the Dandenong Rangers, which is 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:30.560 about an hour and a half outside of Melbourne I think, 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:31.200 and he was going. 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:32.920 To walk from there to. 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:35.640 The city, which I was like, that's a bit of 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:36.479 a random story. 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:38.800 But I was also like, you know what, so I've. 0:05:38.640 --> 0:05:40.960 Got the plot holes here. Why would you turn your 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:41.520 photo off? 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:43.920 Because it's about well, this is what he said, because 0:05:43.920 --> 0:05:46.040 it's about men's mental health, so they all want to 0:05:46.080 --> 0:05:47.760 talk about their feelings. 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:49.360 That's what I said. And then he came back with. 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:52.320 That, and I was like, okay, okay, he's covered. Check 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:54.560 he's walking to the city house. He getting back to 0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:55.000 his car. 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:56.400 Oh my god. 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:59.279 I didn't even be so many flat holes in this. 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:00.440 That's so smart. 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:04.000 I didn't even think about that. Ask I didn't think 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:06.120 about it too much. I could have really quizzed him 0:06:06.120 --> 0:06:06.560 about that. 0:06:07.200 --> 0:06:09.680 I had. His face is covered. He sounds like he 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:10.640 did okay. 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:13.680 But funny thing was, so he's doing this walk and 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:16.200 meanwhile I'm getting tattoos with the girl. 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:19.080 So I'm like, massive life event for me. He's flying 0:06:19.120 --> 0:06:21.479 to Bali to propose to be massive life event for him. 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:25.160 So after I showed him her tattoo, I messaged him 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:27.840 and I was like, babe, I just got a tattoo 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:31.320 for you, and he did a reply and I was like, 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:34.760 the audacity this guy. 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:36.960 He was on the flight, so he wouldn't have seen it. 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:39.359 He was on the flight, but then he obviously landed 0:06:39.400 --> 0:06:41.680 in Bali. He had a really early morning flight. But 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:43.359 he kept just saying, oh, I just got to like 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:45.920 a toilet. I just quickly turned my phone onto message you, 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:48.560 but then it's it said that it had delivered the 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:49.920 message of like, babe, I just. 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:52.479 Got a tattoo for you. No response. I was like, 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:54.480 was this a really bad idea? 0:06:54.680 --> 0:06:55.440 Like fuck? 0:06:56.000 --> 0:06:58.200 And he didn't respond to it the whole day, to 0:06:58.240 --> 0:07:00.680 the point where I was getting like a mile annoyed. 0:07:00.720 --> 0:07:04.560 I was like, was this a mistake? 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:07.600 So did you like have when that was having did 0:07:07.600 --> 0:07:10.200 you have any inkling, like any suspicion that he would 0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:11.240 have been there coming. 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:12.679 Like obviously I'm the FBI. 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:16.120 Yeah, So the answer is no, I didn't have any inkling, 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:18.400 but me being the FBI, I was kind of like, 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:22.720 could he be? And then I was like, two, it's 0:07:22.800 --> 0:07:25.239 a stretch, like no way, And I was like plus 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:28.160 ione a girl's trip, Like I doubt he's gonna come over. 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:34.559 But it ended up being the best surprise proposal ever. 0:07:34.880 --> 0:07:40.280 Like I was shocked. I was blown away. It was incredible. 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:42.320 Did any of the other girls know? 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:48.440 One other girl knew so, Amber, our producer of this podcast, 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:52.320 actually knew so. Michael had messaged her and she's known 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:57.640 for six weeks really, and I was. 0:07:57.640 --> 0:08:00.320 Like, as if I had like I she she is 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:01.960 like she has a. 0:08:01.880 --> 0:08:04.040 Poker face, like how do you keep a secret? For 0:08:04.520 --> 0:08:07.480 she is very good at keeping a secret, which I'm 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:12.800 mildly concerned, but like she was amazing, Like she gave 0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:13.800 no clues away. 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:16.920 So her and Michael were in cohoots the whole time. 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:19.000 Did you bring anything up with her then, like, hey, 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:20.440 Michael was gone, m I. 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:23.400 A yeah, and she was just kind of like blowing 0:08:23.440 --> 0:08:25.240 it off like it's all good, da da da whatever 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:27.040 she is. 0:08:27.960 --> 0:08:30.560 That's like, I don't know if I could take keep 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:32.480 a secret like he didn't tell me, I probably would 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:34.000 have opened my mouth and said something. 0:08:34.160 --> 0:08:37.559 I'm sure he knew not to tell you at all. 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:42.360 So did the timing of this obviously thirteen months into 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:44.840 a relationship, do you reckon this was the perfect timing? 0:08:45.640 --> 0:08:46.960 What made it the perfect timing? 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:47.160 Then? 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:48.120 I don't know. 0:08:48.240 --> 0:08:50.559 I just feel like we're more in love than ever, 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:53.160 and I do feel like it was the right time. 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:55.240 I don't know. 0:08:55.320 --> 0:08:57.560 I just feel like when you know, you know, and 0:08:57.600 --> 0:09:00.960 I feel like we both knew that we knew, if 0:09:01.000 --> 0:09:03.440 that makes sense. So it kind of just felt like, 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:07.280 you know, yeah, fuck it, Like let's like, what are 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:10.800 we waiting for if we know, like, let's let's be engaged, 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:11.640 let's get married. 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:14.199 The ring is obviously amazing and beautiful. 0:09:14.240 --> 0:09:16.280 It is amazing. 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:18.720 Weighing your hand down. Did he get the right one? 0:09:18.760 --> 0:09:20.439 Had he dropped any hints to him or like. 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:23.200 Yeah, how did he get the right one? 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:28.920 I had actually sent him a classic photo that's extremely 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:32.120 similar to this, so he and like this ring that 0:09:32.200 --> 0:09:34.560 I now have on my finger forever, which is wild 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:38.760 in itself, is even better. Like he exceeded all of 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:43.160 my expectations and some with the ring. It's absolutely gorgeous. 0:09:43.200 --> 0:09:45.079 I feel so lucky that I get to wear it. 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:47.920 It's so sparkly, like look at that, it just sparkles 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:51.240 and glistens in the light. But honestly, when he proposed, 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:53.520 like the ring was like the last thing I thought of, 0:09:53.640 --> 0:09:56.800 Like I thought, like in my head, I was like, okay, 0:09:57.080 --> 0:09:59.839 when he finally proposes to me, like it's like it's 0:09:59.840 --> 0:10:01.960 a strong yes from me, I already know it. I'm 0:10:02.000 --> 0:10:04.680 going to be focused on the ring. But in the moment, 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:07.160 I was so overwhelmed. 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:10.040 With like love and shock and just like some like 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:12.120 a little bit of disbelief, being like, oh my god, 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:14.440 this is the moment this is happening, Like I've waited 0:10:14.480 --> 0:10:17.000 so like if what feels like for so long for 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:17.920 this moment. 0:10:17.679 --> 0:10:22.440 To happen in my life? Thirty youth and yeah. 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:24.200 I just like I didn't really like look at the 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:27.080 ring until like I don't know, I was hugging him 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:28.840 and I kind of like looked over his shoulder just 0:10:28.840 --> 0:10:30.280 to double check, and I was like, oh my god, 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:30.880 it's massive. 0:10:30.960 --> 0:10:33.160 I just watched the video before you sat me down 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:34.760 and you showed me the video of the engagement, and 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:36.280 that was literally the one thing I said. I was like, 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:38.880 you haven't even put the ring on for like your yeah, 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:40.920 baking out and you didn't even bother with the ring. 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:43.160 And I forgot to say, yes, did you really? 0:10:43.240 --> 0:10:45.400 I just like hugged him and just like we had 0:10:45.400 --> 0:10:47.240 a bit of like a makeout because I was just 0:10:47.280 --> 0:10:50.280 like so overwhelmed, but like I don't know, like I 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:53.160 wasn't expecting to get proposed to, so it was just 0:10:53.200 --> 0:10:56.760 like the last thing that I thought of. I was 0:10:56.840 --> 0:10:58.920 just like, I just like I knew that he knew 0:10:58.920 --> 0:11:01.560 it was a yes, so just didn't even cross my mind. 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:03.880 And then halfway through He's like, so was that a yes, 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:07.320 and I was like, oh, yeah, yeah, did you did. 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:10.680 You have hot mats sex to consummate the relationship after this? 0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:11.720 Yeah? 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:13.240 How many times? 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:17.240 And then we went and met like the girls out after. 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:21.400 I can see Michael over there nodding and smiling at me, me. 0:11:21.360 --> 0:11:23.640 The thumbs up. So how did you tell your parents then? 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:25.920 Obviously this massive news? Did you tell them straight away? 0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:26.920 Who'd you tell first? 0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:27.440 Yeah? 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:35.480 So basically Michael proposed and then we called my parents 0:11:35.640 --> 0:11:36.440 his parents. 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:39.120 Did he ask your dad for permission? I'm going to 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:40.079 ask him when he comes on? 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:40.480 Yeah? 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:42.960 Yeah, so cute, Okay, cool. 0:11:42.920 --> 0:11:45.120 We'll get him to explain that. So they already knew 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:45.839 it was going to happen. 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:48.199 They knew. Yeah, Like I think it was like the 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:53.080 day before our live show, Michael called my dad and 0:11:53.280 --> 0:11:55.040 was like, Hey, I'm looking at getting a ring, but 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:56.760 I'll let him explain that when he comes on. 0:11:57.040 --> 0:11:58.319 I thought he was going to do it at the 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:01.680 live show. Did you feeling that? I thought? For some reason? 0:12:01.760 --> 0:12:04.160 I was like, yeah, what made you think that? 0:12:04.280 --> 0:12:06.679 I don't know, just something made me think that just 0:12:06.720 --> 0:12:09.360 a big grand gesture. Well he just he outdid that, 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:11.079 But yeah, I thought for some reason he'd do it there. 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:12.199 I had my suspicions. 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:15.160 Yeah, I mean it really was like my dream proposal. 0:12:15.280 --> 0:12:17.959 Like everything was just like a number one. 0:12:18.000 --> 0:12:20.840 I was surprised, which is just like wild that I 0:12:20.880 --> 0:12:21.880 was even surprised. 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:23.280 It was just amazing. 0:12:23.960 --> 0:12:27.360 The fact that like after like we had a moment 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:29.720 that my friends were like there and I was to 0:12:29.760 --> 0:12:32.440 like share the moment with us was so like precious 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:34.880 and beautiful to me. It was also like cool because 0:12:34.880 --> 0:12:37.080 like we'd all just got her tattoo. I got a 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:39.280 tattoo from Michael, and then it kind of like all 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:40.040 came together. 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:41.640 It was just beautiful. 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:44.080 The timing was fucking perfect, and like I said, it 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:47.600 got you surprised. I was literally fucking gobsmacked. I had 0:12:47.600 --> 0:12:52.360 no idea when I'll set the scene. So if anyone 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:55.120 doesn't realize, behind the scenes of this podcast, there's a 0:12:55.160 --> 0:12:58.000 lot of admin that goes in and at times Adda 0:12:58.040 --> 0:13:02.920 and myself very what's the word bickering with each Yeah, 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:03.839 heated with each other. 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:04.760 So don't like each other. 0:13:04.800 --> 0:13:07.120 I don't like each other. So we were on a 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:09.520 non chatting terms for little we. 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:12.600 Go through these we go through like I reckon, like 0:13:12.640 --> 0:13:13.880 every six months. 0:13:14.000 --> 0:13:15.600 We don't talk for about a week. 0:13:15.760 --> 0:13:18.400 Yeah, so not everything was lined up before Anna went 0:13:18.440 --> 0:13:20.920 to Balley, so there was a bit of words exchanged. 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:22.640 So I hadn't spoken to it for a bit, just 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:23.840 maybe a little bit of business chat. 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:25.480 I hadn't spoken to you for a bit. Yeah. 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:25.679 Yeah. 0:13:25.840 --> 0:13:27.640 There was a lot of massages of me trying to 0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:30.360 try and get the thing, the business going. So then 0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:34.200 we dropped the episode that morning. So we dropped last 0:13:34.200 --> 0:13:37.560 week's episode. It was my job to go over it. 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:40.679 We all know that I'm not the most fine tooth 0:13:40.800 --> 0:13:43.520 combit going over it. So I listened to it. I 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:45.080 was cooking dinner, I was doing what I was doing 0:13:45.080 --> 0:13:46.800 while it was on the shower while it was playing. 0:13:47.160 --> 0:13:49.440 I approved it. I said drop it. But then I 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:52.280 got a message from Anna saying I'm facetiming you in 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:56.240 five minutes. Be ready exclamation mark exclamation mark. And I 0:13:56.480 --> 0:13:58.840 was like, oh, fuck me, what did I leave in 0:13:58.840 --> 0:13:59.520 that episode? 0:13:59.559 --> 0:14:01.040 I was like, this is not good. 0:14:01.360 --> 0:14:03.040 So I was in the car driving and I was like, 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:04.400 I went past the Macas and I was like, you 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:05.920 know what, I'm going to go through the I'm going 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:07.160 to go through the Macas drive through. 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:09.360 So I have a buffer. So if this goes to. 0:14:09.440 --> 0:14:12.120 Like sneaking fus, so this goes to like. 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:14.199 You know, like heated, I've got a buffer. 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:17.200 So I'm driving in and she and I starts facetiming me, 0:14:17.240 --> 0:14:20.640 and I answer it and like, yeah, well we had the. 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:23.960 Ring held up and your face was the most shocks face. 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:26.280 We're going to put it on our Facebook page for everyone, 0:14:27.280 --> 0:14:31.280 so make sure you follow and join that. Matt's reaction 0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:34.160 was just like fuck off. 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:36.440 And I was like, I'm getting out the drive through 0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:38.440 literally slapped it in reverse reversed. 0:14:40.680 --> 0:14:42.880 And I was, yeah, I was. I was actually speechless. 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:45.440 I didn't even I didn't even think I digested what 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:48.160 had happened in that face time. Like I remember, I 0:14:48.200 --> 0:14:50.400 was driving a little bit later and I messaged you 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.320 and I actually was like wow, like it actually sunk 0:14:52.360 --> 0:14:54.360 him when it happened. Yeah, I thought it was just like, 0:14:54.560 --> 0:14:55.880 you know, it's one of those things where you don't 0:14:55.880 --> 0:14:57.560 really believe it, do Yeah, Yeah. 0:14:57.480 --> 0:14:59.880 It's just like disbelief. I think I'm still in disbelief. 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:02.800 Look at my hands and I'm like, holy shit. 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:05.920 What is that you just have you taken it off yet? No? Yeah, 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:06.760 I didn't even't think so. 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:08.720 Well, the girls tried it on. But other than that, 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:12.760 I mean, you capsulate your friends. 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:13.560 Try sleeping in it. 0:15:13.800 --> 0:15:17.520 Yeah, I'm not going to take it off never, never, never, ever, 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:18.680 never ever ever. 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:19.760 I love that. 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:22.360 Well, should we get Michael on to ask him his 0:15:22.520 --> 0:15:24.520 version of the story and see what he says, because 0:15:24.520 --> 0:15:27.400 I want to grill him about this sixty kilometer walk 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:29.480 how he managed. 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:29.880 To pull that off. 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:36.760 I'd love that. Let's do it. Hello, Fium say welcome. 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:40.680 It still sounds a bit weird, Matt, Welcome back to 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:41.880 our podcast. 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:43.840 Third time, third time on the podcast. 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:46.040 You know you've been on our podcast more than anyone. 0:15:46.240 --> 0:15:48.800 Well, let's start from the start. So when did you 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:51.560 want to propose? Anna, Like, when did you make that decision? 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:52.240 Yeah? 0:15:52.360 --> 0:15:54.880 So I think there's like stages of wanting to propose. 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:57.080 I think there's like a moment in time when you 0:15:57.120 --> 0:15:58.960 start like fantasizing about like what. 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:00.640 A propose would be, Like was at the moment you 0:16:00.680 --> 0:16:01.240 laid eyes on it? 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:05.720 And that's a beautiful cliche and I like that, and 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:07.280 we'll go with that. But I think I think there 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.080 was a pinnacle moment I can think of when I 0:16:09.120 --> 0:16:11.320 was like, Wow, this would be like the perfect moment 0:16:11.360 --> 0:16:14.200 to propose, and it was we've just done two weeks 0:16:14.200 --> 0:16:18.040 of quarantine when Anna got COVID in Thailand, the COVID 0:16:18.240 --> 0:16:21.560 Holiday from Hell. So we've done two weeks in quarantine 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:24.080 and it was the first night of freedom, and we'll 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:26.640 stay at this beautiful hotel that had a beautiful private 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:29.440 beach and we're walking on the beach to dinner as 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:32.800 the sun was setting and she was like listening and 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:35.680 she looked like she looked back at me, and in 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:38.440 that moment, I was like, I would love to fucking 0:16:38.480 --> 0:16:41.640 propose to this girl right now. So that was like 0:16:41.680 --> 0:16:43.840 the beginning. That was the beginnings of the journey. But then, 0:16:43.880 --> 0:16:47.880 of course, like then the actual like planning and putting things. 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:50.160 Into process hadn't started at that point. 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:52.080 Did you think about doing it in Greece because obviously 0:16:52.120 --> 0:16:56.560 Anna was a bit frustrating, a bit annoyed that you 0:16:56.560 --> 0:16:57.000 didn't do it. 0:16:57.200 --> 0:16:58.560 I'm going to call myself out. 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:02.760 I think when I've had when I've had a couple 0:17:02.760 --> 0:17:05.240 of drinks and I'm feeling a bit loved up and 0:17:05.280 --> 0:17:08.040 like we're having a bit of a moment, I've definitely 0:17:08.119 --> 0:17:11.800