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Speaker 1: Apodjay Production. Welcome to the She Rises Podcast. I'm Ashley

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Speaker 1: and I'm Tiana. This podcast is.

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Speaker 2: About female empowerment and encouraging you to be your biggest, boldest,

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Speaker 2: and most authentic version of yourself.

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Speaker 1: We help you shed the shame, grow to new level.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna laugh, cry, and talk about the topics everyone

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Speaker 1: else is too afraid to talk about.

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Speaker 2: Get ready for your next level of self.

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Speaker 1: Happy Monday, guys, Welcome back to your favorite podcast. I

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Speaker 1: hope if He Rises actually in Tiana. Hello. Today's a

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Speaker 1: obviously in Monday episodes, so we're gonna get started with

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Speaker 1: a share of the week before we do our thought

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Speaker 1: to just introduce what today's episode is going to be

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Speaker 1: about to you know what you're in for. It's a

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Speaker 1: really funny one, a very light hearted one. We know

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Speaker 1: we've got quite a few deeper, heavier episodes this month,

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Speaker 1: so we wanted to bring in some laughter as well

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Speaker 1: as it's a good variety and it's what women Really

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Speaker 1: mean Part one. There's actually part two that's things that

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Speaker 1: we say, well what we actually mean underneath it.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna love this and resonate very deeply, going.

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Speaker 1: To resonate with every single and be like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: I do that before we get started, though, what is

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Speaker 1: your share of the week?

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Speaker 2: My share of the week is actually mouth tape. Sorry,

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Speaker 2: she loves it, Lee, I can't talk anymore.

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Speaker 1: No, she doesn't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, are you we done? It's like we've

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Speaker 2: done right now? I love Yeah, I love you.

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Speaker 1: Yes. So. Mouth tape is something that.

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Speaker 2: I explored like a couple of years ago, and I

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Speaker 2: was super consistent with it for a while, and then

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I fell off the bandwagon for a while. However,

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Speaker 2: the last couple of months I have been religiously doing

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Speaker 2: it and I highly recommend it for like quality of sleep,

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Speaker 2: and especially if you're a mouth breather, it will help

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Speaker 2: you breathe properly, helps you get better rest, and also

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Speaker 2: it like changes your face when you're a mouth breathed up.

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Speaker 2: Please look into it anyway. This one is called v

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Speaker 2: I I think vo so Vio two and it's the

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Speaker 2: uncentered ones. I like those because obviously I'm a sensitive girly,

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Speaker 1: But you can totally try your own centered What do

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Speaker 1: you mean Center's uncentered? But is there centered ones?

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Speaker 2: Well? I think I had to look into it, and

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Speaker 2: apparently when they have lots of if they're like pink,

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Speaker 2: and things like that. This is like a hyperallergenic one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I should try your brand because I've tried one before.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not a mouth breather. I'm a nose breather. Yes,

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Speaker 1: so just I didn't feel any different, but I should

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Speaker 1: try the ones you've got. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I feel like if you know that you're a nosebreather

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Speaker 2: for me, like being a mouth breather, it like can

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Speaker 2: impact your jaw, it can make your teeth MISSI aligned,

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Speaker 1: Yeah. My share of the week is a it's like

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Speaker 1: brand Chief. Yeah, they're the same brand of protein bars

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Speaker 1: like so tasty, and the macros are incredible. It's like

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Speaker 1: Yes, and grass fed meat yes. Yeah. Very clean yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's my share of the week. Al Right, let's

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Speaker 2: So what women say I'm fine?

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Speaker 1: What they really mean? I'm going to decide whether I'm going.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not fine. Fine does not mean we're fine. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's what means. Hey, you hear a girls say that

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Speaker 1: got down, is it's okay? Don't worry? Oh? Is in

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Speaker 1: fact not okay? Worry? Immediately worry deeply and try again.

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Speaker 1: When she says don't worry, worry. Why would we like this?

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Speaker 2: Honestly, If she says don't worry, there's something you've done

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Speaker 2: Go get some flowers and dig deep and figure.

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Speaker 2: Oh I believe it actually means pick the option I want,

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Speaker 1: At least offer to stay with her.

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Speaker 2: At least offer because then at least she can say

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Speaker 1: But I the people please it in me wants to

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Speaker 2: Oh we're probably not going to catch up, soom I'm

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Speaker 2: probably never going to see you ever again in my

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Speaker 1: Wh did I write down, I'll never see you unless

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Speaker 1: you actively set a time, confirm it, and semba fair

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Speaker 1: the call. Just as I get older, yeah, my circle

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Speaker 1: out and do this. Yes, of course I want to

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Speaker 1: what else I'm gonna do with my time? Whereas now

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Speaker 1: or like even events, I'm like, why would I go

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Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah. So it's just like I need to

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Speaker 1: I feel guilty if I haven't seen them, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what about like when you initiate it and then

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Speaker 1: I do genuinely love everyone in my life, but I

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Speaker 1: don't know, it just gets harder to get old. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think it is more with people who are acquaintances

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Speaker 1: Aren't that grosse in your life point. That's what I'm feeling.

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Speaker 2: Like I was going to say, like people close by you, like,

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Speaker 2: but yes, people who aren't in your immediate circle, then

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Speaker 1: Then I could be pouring it into Steve or me yes,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't happen with us, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: But okay, yeah, like we went deep pretty quick. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 2: so the other way, Okay, what else have you got?

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Speaker 1: So I'm I'm not mad, I'm just disappointed. Oh if

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Speaker 1: my mum ever said that to me, that crushed me.

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Speaker 1: Cut deep hay. Yes, I know my dad said that

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Speaker 1: once and I was like, oh, I'd rather you be mad.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, but you know it means I am mad.

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Speaker 2: I'm just sad too, and I want you to feel.

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Speaker 2: It also means I'm emotionally shutting down down and I'm

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Speaker 1: Anxious honestly. Yes, that's so relatable.

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Speaker 2: Abandoned before I get abandoned.

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Speaker 1: Sabotage it, so you kind of bandon me all abandon myself. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: then I'll fuck this up. Yeah, and I'll blame you.

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Speaker 1: next one is I don't need help. I need help,

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Speaker 1: but I want you to offer the help. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: want you to say, do you need some help with that?

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Speaker 1: Can I help there? And then if you don't, to

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Speaker 1: get sad, I do it myself. Then I want to

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Speaker 1: be an independent woman. But I'm also a girl. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Because what it actually means is I'm spiraling for no

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's a great describe because you look really good,

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Speaker 1: And I say this actually all the time. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: The leanest you've been, Like you look smaller. And I

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Speaker 1: they do you still love me? That comes up so

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Speaker 1: funny you pick the restaurant. I don't mind totally.

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Speaker 2: That's a lie because I have three scenarios or meet

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Speaker 1: If they don't evolve Steak, like, what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Please choose the right one, don't you don't? Pizza?

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say, no, you have one chance.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you know the three restaurants I love. Picked one

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Speaker 2: It's not hard, it's not hard. It's very simple. Girl

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Speaker 2: like steak and a burger and Japanese on a good day.

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Speaker 1: I think I've just been on convenience mistakes. Just there.

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Speaker 2: Oh naughte, Yes naughte. I highly recommend Triok me on

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Speaker 1: Was delicious, so yummy. This one is me. This one's

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Speaker 1: a good one. I'm so like this. I actually know what.

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Speaker 1: I'm very vocal about my birthday now. But I used

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Speaker 1: and I love presence. I don't need anything for my

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Speaker 1: I know what my birthday for was the other day

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Speaker 1: I'm like, but thank you.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, thank you so much, Like, don't even start this.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, lie, I'm through your teeth girl.

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Speaker 1: Yep. But yeah, I don't need anything for my birthday,

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Speaker 1: which actually means surprise me. Make it personal, put a

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Speaker 1: very upset. Yeah, and if you buy something, shit you

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Speaker 2: And if it's not if it's not personal, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: And you don't put any of it in Yep, You've

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Speaker 1: always get scared on my birthday times because because I'm

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Speaker 2: Actually, oh my god, I actually wanted that thing and

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Speaker 2: I knew, yes, I knew that you were going.

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Speaker 1: To buy it. But it's a funny story. Actually, So

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Speaker 1: I messaged my makeup artist. I was like, what was

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Speaker 1: what are you doing. I was like, I'm just at

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Speaker 1: are you buying? I was like, oh, this is go

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get that. But I also had a basket

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Speaker 2: And then I was like cool, she's not getting the thing.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, you're getting She's like, you can take it

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Speaker 2: giving you just getting two now. So funny, No, rush,

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Speaker 2: And she's actually taught me how to stop being late.

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Speaker 2: I will give you that. I've actually now I think

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Speaker 2: When someone comes when you're not ready, you know that

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Speaker 2: Is this how it feels when I do it to you?

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Speaker 2: I was like, yes, it is, Yes, it absolutely is.

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Speaker 1: I do this so like No, especially with work tasks.

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Speaker 2: I feel like when you know, we like need it

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Speaker 1: Are we impatient at work? I think we are, I.

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Speaker 2: Think a little bit, only because you and I move

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Speaker 2: it's painful and when they don't. This is not talking

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Speaker 1: ASH is so efficient. Yes, but there's just been different

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Speaker 1: And he's like, no, you can have it. He knows

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Speaker 1: that the seagulls coming in you finish off. Like I'm

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Speaker 1: try it. Yes, I love that. I say that often

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Speaker 1: You're gonna finish your staying or finish it, especially if

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Speaker 1: I'm not hungry.

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Speaker 2: I'll eat your fries like hungry raccoon.

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Speaker 1: Yes, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Like if my partner or anyone is getting like food

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Speaker 2: and then they don't get me food and then they

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Speaker 2: get food, I'm like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you think you don't want it, and then they

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Speaker 1: get it. You just start eating all their food anyway,

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Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden you're hungry. Yeah, you're

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Speaker 1: like you should have known, you've learned that lesson. If

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Speaker 1: he gets something and I say I don't want it,

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Speaker 1: He'll just get it anyway. He's like you don't eat it,

436
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Speaker 1: like whatever. Amazing, But I want my holdmial to myself.

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Speaker 1: I just want to want to take care of me

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Speaker 1: like that. Yes, I'm not stalking them. Absolutely. I have

439
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Speaker 1: stalked your ex partner and I know exactly where he lives,

440
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Speaker 1: I know what he does, I know who he's following,

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Speaker 1: and I know what he's doing today and what his

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Speaker 1: last three girlfriends look like. Literally, I need to investigate,

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Speaker 1: especially if it's a new guy. Yes, I'll go ham

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Speaker 1: to start talking to anyone. I'm like, I want to

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Speaker 1: know everything about that FBI. Yeah, the red slags, not

446
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Speaker 1: these things. The times where I have had somebody come

447
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Speaker 1: into my life. He gets so protective. So yeah, I

448
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Speaker 1: love it.

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Speaker 2: And you'd be like, oh what about this and watch

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Speaker 2: out for this and don't like that. Yeah, but in

451
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Speaker 2: the best way comes detective a loving place.

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Speaker 1: Yes, definitely, I'm not stalking them. Then you'll say something like, oh, yeah,

453
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Speaker 1: I know he was with that girl last week, Like, oh,

454
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Speaker 1: you're not stalking them. Oh maybe I had a look.

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Speaker 1: See how about I'm so over that it completely, not

456
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Speaker 1: over it, not over it. No, I think they come

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Speaker 1: out recently to you with something and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: we'll talk about this next week. Just sometimes we say

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Speaker 1: they're over things like it's totally gonna come up again

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Speaker 1: next week. Oh my god, totally.

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Speaker 2: I will absolutely be bringing this in on my nine

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Speaker 2: thousandth iteration of this story.

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Speaker 1: Literally when it comes up for me again. Sometimes I'll

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Speaker 1: say I'm over it for today. I know one's going

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Speaker 1: to come up next week.

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Speaker 2: I like that, and yeah, I'm definitely not over it.

467
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Speaker 1: I'm good today, but I'm not over it. Fully, you know,

468
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Speaker 1: I understands still bringing out something that happened a year ago,

469
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Speaker 1: but that's okay, yep. Same, What about just the word whatever?

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Speaker 1: You think it's done, it's not done. The debate's not done,

471
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Speaker 1: the argument's not done. She says whatever. She's trying to

472
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Speaker 1: check out. She's still really mad whatever, yeah, or whatever.

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Speaker 1: He's pissed. Yeah, she's really pissed. He's pissed. She's pissed,

474
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Speaker 1: but she's tired.

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Speaker 2: Can't be bothered fighting with you. But she's going to

476
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Speaker 2: bring it up again later. Yeah, and she's probably gonna

477
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Speaker 2: make you suffer for it later.

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Speaker 1: This is not Overana, No, you know what.

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Speaker 2: You're like whatever, and then it's like later on you're

480
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Speaker 2: like they actually you know, but or like your partner's

481
00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:56,520
Speaker 2: trying to come back and they're like trying to make amends,

482
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Speaker 2: and you're like, I'm not ready yet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to song for a little bit long,

484
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Speaker 1: just just.

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Speaker 2: A lease three more hours, and then when i'm hungry,

486
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Speaker 2: I'll come back.

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Speaker 1: So true your food love me feed me, never leave me. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to ruin the vibe. I'm gonna tell

489
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Speaker 1: you anyway because I'm really sad. I need to talk

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Speaker 1: about it.

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Speaker 2: Or like when you're you know, when you're not feeling

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Speaker 2: good and you're just like, oh, I don't really want

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Speaker 2: to come because I'm not in a good mood, or yes,

494
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Speaker 2: I don't know if feeling a high vibe.

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Speaker 1: I think sometimes it's a little bit of a bit

496
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Speaker 1: for reassurance. Yeah, because then it's like it's okay if

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Speaker 1: you're not in the vibe. Yeah, you're not going to

498
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Speaker 1: ruin the vibe because as if your friend's going to

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Speaker 1: be like, oh yeah, don't come there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you look, you know what, I actually don't want

501
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Speaker 2: that energy, rightah, because.

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Speaker 1: You're going to remind you that you're okay, you're not

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Speaker 1: gonna run the vibe. I'm gonna lift your vibe make

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Speaker 1: you feel better. That's so true.

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Speaker 2: Actually, Yeah, when we do that, it's like hey, I'm

506
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Speaker 2: or actually will voice note each other. Yes, hey babe,

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Speaker 2: just want to pre warn you and this is the

508
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Speaker 2: state that I'm in. Yes, do you still want to

509
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Speaker 2: hang out with me and love me?

510
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Speaker 1: Yeah? And then like five minutes and hanging out it

511
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Speaker 1: feels better. Yes, And even if we always remind each other,

512
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Speaker 1: like we don't have to be high vibe all the time.

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Speaker 1: But I think it's a bid for just reassurance. I

514
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Speaker 1: know when I say it, I'm like, I'm going to

515
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Speaker 1: make sure I don't want to ruin the vibe for you. Yes,

516
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Speaker 1: you're in a high vibe like I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And also like what you said, we kind of

518
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Speaker 2: bring each other up and then by the time we're

519
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Speaker 2: leaving we're like laughing.

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Speaker 1: I head.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, Yeah, it's like just the medicine we needed.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So that's kind of the tame version. I feel

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Speaker 1: We've got a part two coming, which is more specific

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Speaker 1: on best friends things and intimate relationship. Absolutely, it's going

525
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Speaker 1: to be juicy, a little bit more juicy and brutal,

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Speaker 1: so stay tuned for that. But I hope you guys

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Speaker 1: enjoyed this something a little bit lighthearted and different, and

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Speaker 1: we've got an epic episode on Wednesdays. I stay tune

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Speaker 1: and Bessie

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Speaker 2: Tomorrow absolutely sees Bye Bye