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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.

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Speaker 2: I'm in a complete set of shock. At the same

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Speaker 2: time I turn and look at him. He yells. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: what is happening? He's popped this Twitter and it has

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Speaker 2: gone everywhere, Like I'm talking all over him, all over

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Speaker 2: the car, all over me. There is past everywhere. My

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Speaker 2: first time meeting him, and I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: what do I say?

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Speaker 1: Jake Relatable.

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Speaker 3: The Relatables podcast is hosted by my partner in crime,

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Speaker 3: mister Jake Craig aka Daddy, and myself Oddie Clark aka Mummy.

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Speaker 3: Thank you everybody for tuning in once again, and you're

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Speaker 3: all the baddies. That's it, Jake. I wanted to start

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Speaker 3: things off. I've done it before, but I wanted to

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Speaker 3: do it again.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know what he's doing. So we often

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Speaker 1: preach men being able to talk about their feelings. Yep.

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Speaker 3: And with the industry we're in, we often get caught

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Speaker 3: up in likes, views, even business tax.

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Speaker 1: Even that's relatable with life.

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Speaker 3: You get caught up in the hustle and bustle of

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Speaker 3: it that you kind of it gets taken away the

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Speaker 3: human side of things. So I just wanted to take

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Speaker 3: a moment and say I love you and I appreciate

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Speaker 3: you as a person a podcast and I'm the journey

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Speaker 3: we're going on. I had a moment before I was thinking,

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Speaker 3: it's very very cool, and I don't think we say

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Speaker 3: it enough.

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much. I love you too.

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Speaker 3: It's good to get it out sometimes, it's like all good.

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Speaker 3: I was even thinking about saying it before. It's like fuck,

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Speaker 3: I feel like but I really do, and like just

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Speaker 3: life gets in the way sometimes and you don't say

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Speaker 3: it even though I know there's an underlying I don't

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Speaker 3: know feeling between us.

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Speaker 1: That it's there but unconditional. Yeah, but it's always good

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Speaker 1: to say it an unspoken word. Yeah, it's always good

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Speaker 1: to say it. Yeah, it's real connections, that's it. I

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Speaker 1: can feel it in my nugget.

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Speaker 3: And it also sort of gives to that if some

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Speaker 3: people don't know why I'm called mummy mummy and he's

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Speaker 3: called daddy. Theoretically I'm meant to be better talking about

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Speaker 3: my feelings a little bit on paper and Daddy's not.

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Speaker 1: It's the play. It's a play on that and it

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Speaker 1: works out pretty well. Yeah, go see someone you love

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Speaker 1: them exactly exactly but to start off today, Jake, we

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Speaker 1: wanted to do things men are delusional about. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: did this before.

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Speaker 3: Jake came up with this and it did really well,

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Speaker 3: and I thought it was quite funny because we're delusional

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Speaker 3: about quite a lot of things. Oh yeah, I'll go first.

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Speaker 1: I came in with heat too, by the way.

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Speaker 3: Okay, things men are delusional about their standards versus what

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Speaker 3: they offer.

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Speaker 1: Holy shit, I told you fire. Oh my god, Oh

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Speaker 1: that hurts. That's making me think about what I offer

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Speaker 1: right now. My brain's getting racking. My brain. Holy shit.

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Speaker 1: Not much, not much, man. We're about to see where

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Speaker 1: we're different. Things guys are delusional about that. No one

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Speaker 1: smelled the dirty silent fart. We just didn't publish that.

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Speaker 1: He's back at it again. It's a good sign of

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Speaker 1: like how we both think. Isn't it to be fair?

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Speaker 1: I quite often we do want to be like, no

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Speaker 1: one said anything that's relatable. I think we are we

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Speaker 1: are delusional. Was like, oh we got away with that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's like it'd be like it's just fucking dumb. Things

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Speaker 1: she mikes my Instagram post, she wants me to message.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, guild back in the day before we start

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Speaker 1: I'm guilty of, Like if you liked anything else, like oh,

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Speaker 1: if it was just like a nice picture of my dog.

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Speaker 1: Never like you would go you'd follow someone that you

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Speaker 1: you want a message, yeah, and you go like, I

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Speaker 1: You go like a few old photos, yeah, and then

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Speaker 1: fear when you give someone your phone to look at something.

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Speaker 1: still say to people, don't like something, Yeah, I accidentally

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Speaker 1: I was watching a Snapchat story the other day. You

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Speaker 1: own this. And I was just like, honestly, so sorry,

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean that. Don't worry about it. But again, obviously, yes,

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Speaker 1: obviously it looks like I'm trying to slide into the DMS,

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Speaker 1: but I wasn't. You want to know what I did?

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Speaker 1: I what was the message that you typed? It was

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Speaker 1: I think I I think they said, how are you fuck?

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Speaker 1: They probably thought it was a ship attempted like sliding in,

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Speaker 1: the girl? I believe it. I'll tell you after. Poor

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Speaker 1: girl probably thought, oh, Jake Craig, I've got a shot down.

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Speaker 1: You know, like when you're younger, you add people that

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Speaker 3: Sometimes on Instagram, like you're trying to swipe off the

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Speaker 1: Fucking fire reacted bikini pick, like what woa? And then

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Speaker 1: Is it me or you? Oh? Fuck knows ah, I

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Speaker 3: I don't want to hear you. Things meant are delusional

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Speaker 3: about quote. I can change her. Yeah, it goes both ways.

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Speaker 1: We tried to. We tried to dory. We do try

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Speaker 1: and get away of that. I'm sorry, I'm out. Oh

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Speaker 1: you're I can quick fire some things. Men are delusional

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Speaker 1: I follow It doesn't mean anything like I was following

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Speaker 1: her before I met you. Delusional delusional unfollower. Do you

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Speaker 3: if you're not going to say hi, I don't follow

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Speaker 1: Mate, Yeah, you're a good influence sometimes. Last one, things

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Speaker 1: men are delusional about apparently not you, but how good

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Speaker 1: I got work to do. We all but we all

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Speaker 1: But take away from that is we're quite delusional. We

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Speaker 1: we've got another confession this week. We kind of got two.

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Speaker 1: isn't how we do it. This is not how we

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Speaker 1: Done a few of these lately. This guy said the dude.

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Speaker 1: This guy said, hey, guys, big fan of the pod

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Speaker 1: and only started listening a few weeks ago, but listen to

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Speaker 1: many previous episodes. I have a story about if you've

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Speaker 1: got to go, you gotta go. I was at work

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Speaker 1: What I liked about this guy is he goes efficiency

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Speaker 3: Like a site manager, you go walk on site, see

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Speaker 3: how your employee's doing, like.

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Speaker 1: Popping a squad, taking a shit or filling his shit

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Speaker 1: hole in. Man, it's just I've worked at plenty of

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Speaker 1: places where he's residential carpentry. I've worked at plenty of

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Speaker 1: It is you're releasing some demons while you're doing some

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Speaker 3: But the next confession session is date went wrong callers

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Speaker 3: calling in Please enjoy, Hello and welcome to Confession Sessions.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 1: Who are both good? Thank you?

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Speaker 3: First things first, even though you already said your name,

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Speaker 3: I can bleep it out. Would you like to be

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Speaker 2: I think I will be anonymous. You're gonna have to

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Speaker 2: look it out.

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Speaker 1: Have you got a name you'd always wanted to be

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Speaker 1: called or do you want us to choose one for you?

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Speaker 2: Oh, you can choose one for me.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to say Ashley, Ashley Ashley. We've done that

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Speaker 1: more than once. Yeah, well, actually it is. If you've

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Speaker 1: got a story, take it from the top. Don't leave

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Speaker 1: date gone wrong. Date gone wrong.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so it's just that with awesome context. This was

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Speaker 2: my first date in years, and I was so incredibly nervous,

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Speaker 2: sitting there before him, thinking, oh my god, I'm not

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Speaker 2: But I did, and we decided that we were going

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Speaker 2: perfect all the way there. We were chatting nice and

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Speaker 2: fun and all of a sudden, he says to me,

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Speaker 2: look at this blister on my hands, and I'm like, oh, okay, sure,

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Speaker 2: that's so cool. Anyway, fast forward, we get to bowling.

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Speaker 2: It's super fun. I really like him. We have a

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Speaker 2: Like I said, I'm sitting in the passenger seat. He's driving.

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Speaker 2: I'm minding my own business, looking out the window, chatting

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Speaker 2: to him, and all of a sudden, I feel something

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Speaker 2: wet hit my face, my shoulder, is my neck, everywhere,

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Speaker 2: At the same time, I turn and look at him.

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Speaker 2: He yells, I'm like, what is happening? He's popped this

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Speaker 2: is pass everywhere. That my first time meeting him, and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, what do I What do

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Speaker 2: I say? Because I do not take other people's bodily

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Speaker 2: fluids very well at all? And I was little sharks. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 2: I didn't say I think, oh, did you as if

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Speaker 2: he didn't just hit me with it?

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Speaker 1: You didn't say that.

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Speaker 2: I just pretended like it didn't happen, and he pretended

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Speaker 2: like it couldn't happen.

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Speaker 1: That's insane. You guys pretend was it awkward because he

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Speaker 1: knew it was? It was it was. Did he get

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Speaker 2: He did get well past few months later, we are

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Speaker 2: now in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: Why, Yeah, this is a make cute.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's what I thought. It was kind of both.

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Speaker 1: Have you been together?

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Speaker 2: We've been together officially for like two weeks, but it's

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Speaker 1: So this actually wasn't that long ago.

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Speaker 2: No, it wasn't. It has been really recent.

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Speaker 1: How's his blister here?

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Speaker 2: It looks pretty good.

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Speaker 1: Now. What did he have to say for himself? I

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Speaker 1: assume you've talked about it now.

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Speaker 2: No, we haven't, fim anonymous.

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Speaker 1: You haven't spoken about No.

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Speaker 2: I think maybe one day I'll show him this and

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Speaker 2: I'll be like, look, this is what happened. I know

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Speaker 1: Obviously he's gone home to his friends, like you guess

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Speaker 1: what happened. I got away over it, Like, please, Ashley,

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Speaker 1: please please please get him on and let's call him

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Speaker 2: I show it. I should that's such a good idea.

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Speaker 1: Oh my, oh what is he? What did he what?

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Speaker 1: Does he dig holes or something at work? Like? Does

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Speaker 1: that why he had a blister? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Like he used his handle, so it makes sense you

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Speaker 2: had ones that. Yeah, I didn't expect it to pop

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Speaker 1: Well, you're a better person, both Jake and I can

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Speaker 1: say that. You are definitely a better person than than myself.

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Speaker 1: I think that would ruin me. That would have like

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Speaker 1: I would have been speaks to be fair, but I

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Speaker 1: would have said something. I would have been like, what

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Speaker 1: the fuck is that? Yeah, you would have said something

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Speaker 1: like yeah, you are good on you. Yeah. I hope

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Speaker 1: you guys don't bring it up until your vows.

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Speaker 2: I feel that's such a good idea.

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Speaker 1: Remember our first day and he's just gonna be like

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Speaker 1: fun Did you tell your friends or you haven't told

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Speaker 2: Did they say that they thought it was so funny?

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Speaker 2: God, well, but no, I think it's a great way

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Speaker 1: Definitely a way to start. But no, that's good and

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Speaker 1: glad he's a nice guy. Yeah, thanks for coming on, Ashley.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for having me.

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Speaker 1: Have a good day. Dude, what fuck that is? The

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Speaker 1: unspoken thing is like, here's kay I could understand maybe,

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Speaker 1: like let's say first date, you're driving home, you're driving

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Speaker 4: And look, it's like it's okay to ignore that type

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Speaker 1: My immediate thought was maybe it's like that. Do you

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Speaker 1: know how girls like popping pimples? Like was it that

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Speaker 1: kind of concept? She said it like covered his whole finger. Disgusted.

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Speaker 1: First date was someone I haven't even kiss him yet.

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Speaker 1: I'm going there bodily pussy blistered all over me and

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Speaker 1: it when in her hair, she said, all of her face,

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Speaker 1: it like it takes away, like you know, you meant

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Speaker 1: like this guy's just like I don't care, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: have asked if he's farted in front. We should have

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna put this potty on and it's us

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Speaker 1: your name is, dude, if you're listening to this, she knows,

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Speaker 1: we all know. We all know. Maybe that's a takeaway

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Speaker 1: We definitely did. Know there's no way everything all right?

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Speaker 3: Jake up next to a deep segment. We haven't done

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Speaker 3: page on quite often if you want to go. But

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Speaker 3: today I wanted to ask yourself, how do you perceive

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Speaker 1: Do you think have I perceived my own identity? Yeah? Fuck,

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Speaker 1: that's a loaded question. Ah.

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Speaker 3: I took it as like it's sort of like your purpose,

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Speaker 3: I guess in a way as in life. Would you say,

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Speaker 3: as well as people perceive you as your purpose? No,

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Speaker 3: like your identity is your purpose. But we don't have

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Speaker 1: Oh that's a good point, Yeah, what's my actual identity?

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Speaker 1: Like I am a podcaster? Yeah, I am a part

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Speaker 1: be like, how does anyone even know that? Like you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well I saw this question and I was like,

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Speaker 1: How do I perceive myself? And I'm like, fuck, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, Like I'm not just Jake Craig yare, like,

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Speaker 1: I'm Audi Clark, but like who is OLDI Clark? Like

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Speaker 1: what does that mean? Like, I don't know if I

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like you could, you could take it

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Speaker 1: I think there's nothing wrong with just being and being.

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Speaker 1: I don't feel lonely. I love being alone. I like

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Speaker 1: being lonely, like staying out of the way. I like

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Speaker 1: to do the podcast, create content and then post it

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Speaker 1: that I want to be doing. I agree to extend. Well,

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Speaker 1: what's something that like, maybe it's easier. We're very nitty

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Speaker 1: picky on ourself. What's something like you still trying to

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Speaker 1: understand about yourself? What am I still trying to understand?

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Speaker 3: Let me get first, because I have an answer. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: mine's feeling unhappy. I don't think like and having that emotion,

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Speaker 3: if that makes sense. Yeah, Like I don't understand like

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Speaker 3: because everyone has bad days, right, Yeah, And like some

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Speaker 3: days I'll be sad and unhappy, but I feel like

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Speaker 3: I shouldn't be, and I don't understand why I'm unhappy

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Speaker 3: or sad.

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Speaker 1: My body's like telling me now, and I'm still trying

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Speaker 1: to understand, Like it's okay to be unhappy and feel

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Speaker 1: sad for a day. Yeah, if that makes that make sense.

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Speaker 1: It's so easy to say that too, but when you're

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Speaker 1: experiencing it, you're just like after a minute of I reckon,

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Speaker 1: one minute of sadness, you're just like, I'm sick of this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't matter how long it is. One minute of

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Speaker 1: it is like, I'm sick of this. And then I've

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Speaker 1: been definitely getting anxious lately, and I do think that

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Speaker 1: that is partially to do with comparing myself to people,

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Speaker 1: to do with just I guess now working for ourselves,

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Speaker 1: and definitely a little bit more yeah, bit of anxiety

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Speaker 1: with all that, but it's I saw a good thing

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Speaker 1: the other day. In anxiety, is your body telling you

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Speaker 1: that you don't understand the situation. And then a lot

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Speaker 1: of the time will get latched onto something simple that

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Speaker 1: eases that anxiety. And for me, I would admit that

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Speaker 1: it's kind of quickly just scrolling TikTok because you're busy

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Speaker 1: for that minute, You're busy for that ten minutes. That's

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Speaker 1: very true for young people. Waste half an hour, no problem,

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Speaker 1: and you can do it at night. You're just like

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Speaker 1: kind of rotting in bed, rotting in your brain. And

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Speaker 1: I know it's not good for me, yet I still

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Speaker 1: do it. And I have times where I try not

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Speaker 1: to do it, and then I always go back to it,

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Speaker 1: so I'm yet to have an answer for that. It

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Speaker 1: makes it feel better, it does. It just gives you this.

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Speaker 1: It's it's serotonin. The scrolling is the serotonin, and it's

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Speaker 1: and I don't know. I don't know if it's that

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Speaker 1: I don't want to give it up, or I don't know,

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Speaker 1: how do I don't know what it is something to do,

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Speaker 1: like if you think about it, the thought of sitting

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Speaker 1: there in silence, just waiting for something to export. Or

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Speaker 1: sometimes I'm brushing my teeth and I'm watching TikTok that's bad,

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Speaker 1: and I put it down, and I get a little

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Speaker 1: bit of anxiety because I'm upset with myself for watching

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Speaker 1: TikTok while and brushing my teeth. But now'm brushing my

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Speaker 1: teeth and there's no much TikTok on and I'm fucking

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Speaker 1: anxious because there's nothing to occupy my mind and I

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Speaker 1: have I'm very forgetful at the moment, because I fucking

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Speaker 1: pretty sure it's because I have this instant bit of

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Speaker 1: gratification anytime I go on my phone and I will

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Speaker 1: forget the most craziest things, like the other day, I

484
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Speaker 1: needed to call power company to fix something without power,

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Speaker 1: and you were at the house and I had an

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Speaker 1: alarm set to remind me because I wouldn't remember. And

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Speaker 1: the alarm went off and you were five minutes out

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Speaker 1: the door, and I was like, he's leaving in five minutes.

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Speaker 1: I just won't even snooze it. So it reminds me again.

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna turn it off because when odd he leaves,

491
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Speaker 1: I'll call them. Then you left, I forgot to do

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Speaker 1: it to you want to ask me the night and

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Speaker 1: I was like fuck, And I told her what happened

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Speaker 1: and she was like, whoh yeah, And I was like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. And I just had this whole

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Speaker 1: conversation with her. I was like, I must just be

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Speaker 1: rotting my fucking brain. It definitely is. And it's funny that.

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Speaker 3: So we're like, you're trying to understand why you're anxious

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Speaker 3: and TikTok's an easy outlet, and I'm trying to understand,

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Speaker 3: like it's okay to be unhappy and why I'm feeling

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Speaker 3: these emotions and like I feel guilty being unhappy. I

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Speaker 3: should always be happy. And then I'm coming back to

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Speaker 3: the question of like what's our identity? Do you reckon

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00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 3: our identity, Like it's just figuring out ourselves. Does that

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Speaker 3: make sense? Like we're My identity on this earth is

506
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Speaker 3: Autie Clark, and I have to figure out this body

507
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Speaker 3: I've been given, Yeah, and figured out all these questions

508
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Speaker 3: my brain has for me, And instead of finding these

509
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Speaker 3: easy outlets, is actually figure out why I'm feeling this way,

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Speaker 3: why you're feeling anxious, why I'm feeling unhappy.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we're not given the tools for that. Oh,

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Speaker 1: you don't reckon. I don't think. I don't feel like

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Speaker 1: I've been given the tools through school or through anything

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Speaker 1: to actually understand any feeling I'm feeling, because I don't

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Speaker 1: think any adult because like our day and age is

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Speaker 1: the is the day and age of people trying to

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Speaker 1: figure that out. Our parents they don't know how to

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Speaker 1: do that either because they never figured that out because

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Speaker 1: it was even more frowned upon or less you know,

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Speaker 1: just lesser done than when they were our age. So

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Speaker 1: I didn't I think anybody's ever been given the tools

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Speaker 1: of how to actually understand emotions, unless I don't know,

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Speaker 1: maybe you're a psychiatrist something like that, and we just

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Speaker 1: try our best, we really do, or we hide behind

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Speaker 1: a screen. Yeah, and then we wait for it to

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Speaker 1: get so bad that we I don't know, cave and

527
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Speaker 1: explode into a period of something and then you fucking

528
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Speaker 1: end up on meds or something. I don't know what's

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Speaker 1: how you get depression, I think, And it's realizing that

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Speaker 1: probably a lot of things that we do unhealthy because

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Speaker 1: I'm guilty of that TikTok thing too. Like I'll be

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Speaker 1: watching a movie and then I'll be like, fuck, I

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Speaker 1: was stroll on TikTok. Yeah, it's like one minute of

534
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Speaker 1: the movie gets boring. I think movies have slow parts,

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Speaker 1: and then you're on TikTok because you need to fill

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Speaker 1: in this boring part of time. I don't think.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a lot of self discipline, Like I

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Speaker 3: need to start implementing it, like implemented in other ways

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Speaker 3: in my life, like the gym and training, but don't

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Speaker 3: implement it on my brain.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, one hundred percent. I think I'm the same.

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Speaker 1: I think I think we have discipline, but then lack

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Speaker 1: discipline in some really important areas that just we haven't

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Speaker 1: given any attention. Yeah, but it's so.

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Speaker 3: Overwhelming, like it's like everything that a human body has

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Speaker 3: to go through emotions health wise, and then it's just

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00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 3: this TikTok. Who would have thought that scrolling on phone

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Speaker 3: would have been so toxic for me?

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Speaker 1: Facts? And it is, But I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It was just it was a funny little question I saw,

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Speaker 3: like because I looked at the question, I was like,

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Speaker 3: what is my identity? I didn't know the answer? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I was like, it was one wondering if everyone listening

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Speaker 3: is like, what's your identity?

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Speaker 1: Because we don't want to give anyone a panic attack,

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Speaker 1: But I mean, if anyone, if you, yeah, if you

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Speaker 1: even were to think about it for a while, if

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Speaker 1: anyone has a good answer, like I don't think I

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Speaker 1: think the answer of just you know, I'm Oddie Clark

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Speaker 1: or I'm Jake Craig just getting through life, it's a

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Speaker 1: bad egg. I feel like this doesn't need an answer.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to stress anyone out, But if anyone

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Speaker 1: has anything interesting, I hit us up. They're very interesting.

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Speaker 3: All right, that's it for today, everybody. Thank you very

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