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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about Dave Gral the news broak yesterday. He's

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Speaker 2: pretty big confession, Dave confession, you know what, it's rock.

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Speaker 1: To me a bit. No, that's just not a part.

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Speaker 1: That's just I don't know. I look at Dave Gral.

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Speaker 1: I look up to Dave Grael because I did it.

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Speaker 3: I see the way that he talks about his daughters,

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Speaker 3: and I see him as a father and a loving father,

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Speaker 3: and I and I've read his book, The Storyteller, and

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Speaker 3: I think that he's got great morals and values.

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Speaker 1: He's been around, you know what, he can tell a story. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's a rock star.

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Speaker 3: So he spoke about how he partied a bit when

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Speaker 3: he was younger. But he's in that sense he's always been,

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Speaker 3: you know, really good and done the right thing, and

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Speaker 3: you know, he's looked after himself. But this just I

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Speaker 3: didn't see it coming.

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Speaker 4: I think there was a lot of a lot of

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Speaker 4: things floating around in the news yesterday that there was

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Speaker 4: a big part of the community who may have been

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Speaker 4: for this to happen, who kind of knew that this

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Speaker 4: was the behavior over a long period of time, that

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Speaker 4: there were signs and there were stories and that there's

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Speaker 4: a sense of relief that well, finally the guy who

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Speaker 4: has presented so well, like you're saying, fits and this

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Speaker 4: is just hearsay and what I've read, and that they're

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Speaker 4: kind of like, well, finally he's actually not that guy.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, it doesn't change his love for his

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Speaker 2: family and his kids, of course it doesn't. I mean,

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Speaker 2: there's but.

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Speaker 1: The healing process now.

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Speaker 3: And do you think the Instagram post was part of

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Speaker 3: you need to own this? That's not the wife and

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Speaker 3: the family saying you need to own this.

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Speaker 4: You know what I actually thought this morning when I

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Speaker 4: first thought this morning about this was this has probably

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Speaker 4: been on the cards for a while. The announcement has

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Speaker 4: had to be made, and very carefully. They decided to

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Speaker 4: release the news of the love child on the day

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Speaker 4: of the debate years because there's a much bigger news

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Speaker 4: story fighting around and would be buried.

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Speaker 2: What a perfect what a perfect day release the story.

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Speaker 4: I think that has not been considered shadowed.

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Speaker 1: And also Joshadow carry beyond it from.

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Speaker 4: That time exactly and us doing one hundred thousand dollar

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Speaker 4: a minute.

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Speaker 2: We timed that as well, really badly. Here's the thing though,

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Speaker 2: as we talk about this, and you know, we touched

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Speaker 2: on it yesterday. So his wife Jordan plum Blum is

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Speaker 2: her name, not plump Blum, just one. They've been just

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Speaker 2: the one Plump. They've been together for over twenty years, right,

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Speaker 2: so we understand that. And a girlfriend, Tina Brush. I

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Speaker 2: think I know miss She has come out and she said, well,

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Speaker 2: I dated him for a very long time and he

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Speaker 2: was very busy in his career.

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Speaker 1: She was the skateboarder or the she was the snowboarder.

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Speaker 4: Pioneered this female snowboarding.

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Speaker 3: I thought they were married with no, no, I don't

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Speaker 3: thinks has been married before you, But I think.

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Speaker 2: That might be Luis Post who was the Veruca sult singer,

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Speaker 2: because that was another previous lover who she's come out

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Speaker 2: in overtime and has declared him one of the great cheats.

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Speaker 2: So she said that music came first, and Dave's lifestyle

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Speaker 2: came first as well, and that she wasn't really a priority,

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Speaker 2: so he was cheating on me at the time I

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Speaker 2: was publicly falling apart on stage.

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Speaker 3: Can I throw a moral dilemmer at you? Do you

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Speaker 3: think anyone would have known of the known is oh yes,

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Speaker 3: if the baby didn't arride.

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Speaker 4: Yes, because those quotes from the ex girlfriend who was

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Speaker 4: the snowboarder, they have been They were written in her book,

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Speaker 4: which was released years ago, so at that time that

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Speaker 4: obviously I don't know whether that news was floating around

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Speaker 4: or it just didn't get traction. It's just that because

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Speaker 4: the baby's been announced, the press have trawled through everything

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Speaker 4: that's been said previously. This woman hasn't come out now

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Speaker 4: and said this, this is stuff.

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Speaker 2: We've already listened to this Kate Richie, she said, I

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Speaker 2: didn't know this is Tina, this is the snowboarder. I

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Speaker 2: didn't know how anybody in his profession could have a

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Speaker 2: normal relationship with a girlfriend or two. As it turns out,

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Speaker 2: she said, I found out about Groll's alleged infidelity second

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Speaker 2: hand through the grapevine, and it felt like everybody else

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Speaker 2: in the world knew about it.

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Speaker 4: But me, which can be the worst thing, really being

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Speaker 4: treated like a fool.

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Speaker 2: I would suggest we were we might actually hear a

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Speaker 2: few more stories that come out about Dave.

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Speaker 4: I googled this morning person. I googled Dave Grohl because

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Speaker 4: I was waiting for someone else.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, any mockn fashions.

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Speaker 3: I'm not surprised teamz in that would you would have

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Speaker 3: to be thinking they would have to find out who

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Speaker 3: the who the mistress is?

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Speaker 2: Well, I would think, so you mean the mother of

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Speaker 2: the baby. Yeah, I would assume that's to try and

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Speaker 2: work out the link there.

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Speaker 4: There'll be a few phone calls being made. Madly, do

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Speaker 4: you know this person? Whatever you got, we've got some cash.

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Speaker 2: I mean, this happens in outside of the celebrity world,

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Speaker 2: in every day a life. How did you find out

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Speaker 2: there was another baby?

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Speaker 1: But I love child, love child child.

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Speaker 2: How did you find out there was someone else and

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Speaker 2: a baby had been conceived? Ahmadin? Hello, Hello, you got

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Speaker 2: a story here for us?

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Speaker 5: Yes, I do.

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Speaker 2: What happened very similar.

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Speaker 5: So I was married with my husband and we had

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Speaker 5: our daughter, which was amazing, and when she was about

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Speaker 5: nine months old, I got a call and it was

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Speaker 5: another woman which actually my husband had an asfer with

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Speaker 5: her at the same time we were conceiving our daughter.

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Speaker 5: So she had a son which was the exact image

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Speaker 5: of my daughter. Because the judit were two day apart.

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Speaker 4: Oh no way, been a very gacy period for you.

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Speaker 3: Did you find out that was he at the other birth?

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Speaker 3: Did he get to the other birth without you knowing?

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Speaker 1: Martin?

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Speaker 5: To be honest, I don't know because he was walking

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Speaker 5: night shift at the time and daughter ended up being

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Speaker 5: born a bit early, so I don't know if it

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Speaker 5: was at work or if he could have gone. I

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Speaker 5: actually have never had the detail for that.

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Speaker 2: So you must have been in shock when you got

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Speaker 2: this phone call. Did you How did you react to

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Speaker 2: you said, this can't be true, or.

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Speaker 5: To be honest, it just it did feel true straight away.

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Speaker 5: I think from his character it made sense, right.

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Speaker 2: You thought he may have been that kind of guy,

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Speaker 2: did you.

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Speaker 5: Well? I was hoping not. But when she did call

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Speaker 5: me and tell me the story, I was just like, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 5: I can see it happen. So I just said he

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Speaker 5: was working night shift, so it was easy to yeah,

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Speaker 5: to go around.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and what and then what happened? You have a

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Speaker 4: phone call like that, What happens with the relationship and

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Speaker 4: the children that have been born?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Well, it's obviously the relationship can't survive at this

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Speaker 5: For us, he didn't survive. I couldn't get past such

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Speaker 5: a terrible thing. Yeah, we ended up separating.

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Speaker 1: Did he have an excuse o, madam? What was his

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Speaker 1: first response?

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Speaker 5: There was no first response, just he was just trying

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Speaker 5: to convince me to stay instead of talking about what happened. Right, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: but his excuse was just like, oh, I wasn't sending

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Speaker 5: good morning text and things like that, so you felt lonely,

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Speaker 5: so you felt like.

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Speaker 2: Talking about fault.

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Speaker 5: Of course it was my fault.

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Speaker 4: That makes complete sense.

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Speaker 3: And was he on tour at the time as well?

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Speaker 3: Martin was what band was he a part of?

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Speaker 1: Or now he was.

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Speaker 5: Maybe the same band? I don't know.

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Speaker 4: And you're okay now you had How old is your child?

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Speaker 5: She's about two and a half years old. Now I'm

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Speaker 5: trying to rebuild my life.

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Speaker 2: Groov Marden. That's not easy.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's not bad.

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Speaker 3: No play groove Marden, Tom no or no, no, we

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Speaker 3: can't do that, can we not? I just so, now,

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Speaker 3: what is the relationship? So what I need to work

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Speaker 3: out is Dave girl's wife and children.

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Speaker 1: You, I mean, this will take a while to hear.

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Speaker 3: Do you have a relationship with the mother and the

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Speaker 3: daughter or the baby that's coming into the world.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think he will. I mean the post yesterday

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Speaker 2: suggested he would try and coordinate the whole thing.

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Speaker 4: Coordinate. Interesting. Well there, it's going to take a bit

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Speaker 4: of coordination and management, I would imagine. I just hope

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Speaker 4: everyone's okay, but I think there's some tough and tricky

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Speaker 4: conversations to be had.

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