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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Now, come on, guys, mix it up a bit. Use

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Speaker 2: your imagination.

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Speaker 1: Is it my wardrobe? No, when you start.

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Speaker 2: Dating somebody, think of something.

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Speaker 3: New, camicetera.

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Speaker 4: What do you mean, I.

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Speaker 2: I just think there is a gift. No, what I

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Speaker 2: mean is, well, maybe it could be a gift in fact.

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Speaker 2: But there are some people who think they've they've got

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Speaker 2: it right, They've got the equation right, the formula right

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Speaker 2: to get somebody over the line. Or maybe they're just

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Speaker 2: dull and they continue to court people in the same way.

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Speaker 2: So every time they meet a woman, I'm just using

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Speaker 2: that as an example. The restaurant they go to is

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Speaker 2: the Little Italian in the next suburb.

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Speaker 1: They know the guy that runs it.

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Speaker 2: He's going to use his first name, and it's going

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Speaker 2: to be really fun.

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Speaker 1: Exactly.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's so I know someone like this in particular,

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Speaker 2: and every time they start seeing someone, they're going away

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Speaker 2: for a week into the Gold Coast. I'm just like,

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Speaker 2: can you do something new, because it's proving that it

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Speaker 2: doesn't work, or you wouldn't be going. You're with a

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Speaker 2: new girlfriend and you keep trying the same thing.

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Speaker 4: But see, that's what we're taught when you're in a

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Speaker 4: team environment, and if you have a good game of footy,

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Speaker 4: you've got to go back to your routine that you

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Speaker 4: were that you had success with Kate, and you've got

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Speaker 4: to do that over and over again. That's what I

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Speaker 4: keep telling myself.

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Speaker 1: Haha. I understand that.

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Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is if you are doing it

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Speaker 2: with a new girlfriend, it means that it didn't work,

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Speaker 2: so maybe maybe mix it up, maybe try new things.

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Speaker 2: Thirteen twenty four ten. Is your fella or your partner

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Speaker 2: taking you to the same place that he took all

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Speaker 2: of his other dates? Have you found out, even on

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Speaker 2: holiday when you're sitting by the pool, that he sat

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Speaker 2: by that pool with somebody else and that's his go

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Speaker 2: to We're talking about this this morning because there was

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Speaker 2: an article floating around yesterday about Prince Harry, and we

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Speaker 2: know the fascination or the attraction to.

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Speaker 1: Africa the Royal family. They've all traveled there.

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Speaker 2: We even saw Princess Diana there and I think that

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Speaker 2: that's why the boys, Prince William and.

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Speaker 1: Harry have traveled back there over the years.

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Speaker 2: I mean they also you have connections to Africa or

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Speaker 2: England but Harry's Harry's romance with Meghan Markle, that's where

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Speaker 2: it began.

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Speaker 1: To bossom in very early days.

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Speaker 2: He took her off to Africa and they took long

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Speaker 2: walks and they stayed in the Safari park and they

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Speaker 2: just did beautiful things and had time away from the lover,

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Speaker 2: you know, the eyes of the public, to get to

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Speaker 2: know each other. But there's this book, of course that

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Speaker 2: points out that Prince William was very quick, like any brother,

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Speaker 2: to say, well, yeah, he took it to Africa, but

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Speaker 2: that's where he takes every people.

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Speaker 4: Come on, if you're not impressed by a safari in Africa,

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm taking you to Carbonara Kreniti, Like it's not.

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Speaker 1: That's your that's your Africa.

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Speaker 2: It's good.

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Speaker 3: After that dinner.

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Speaker 2: But it took I mean I think I don't even

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I saw photos. But do you

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Speaker 2: remember Harry's list of girlfriends, the ones that we knew,

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Speaker 2: the notable Chrissina what's her name, Chrissita Bonus?

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Speaker 1: Is it? Chelsea Davy? They were the names that, yeah,

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Speaker 1: they were young.

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Speaker 3: Do you take them all to Africa?

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Speaker 1: They all?

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Speaker 2: And another one whose name I cannot remember. They've all been.

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Speaker 2: They've all been to Africa, Harry, Like, like, I know,

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Speaker 2: if someone took me on a safari as a first date,

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Speaker 2: I don't think I would care if he'd taken a

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Speaker 2: hundred girls there. Just quietly, I think I think it

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Speaker 2: would be beautiful. But I also think that you.

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Speaker 1: Should should mix it up a little.

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Speaker 3: It's kind of up there where like when you break

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Speaker 3: up with somebody and you have your routines or popular

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Speaker 3: places that you go together, so you have to make

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Speaker 3: a bit of a list and okay, that's our breakfast spot. Okay,

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Speaker 3: you can have the breakfast spot so we don't bump

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Speaker 3: into each other there, and I'll have our favorite dinner spot.

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Speaker 3: So you've got to negotiate like that as well.

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Speaker 2: But you're going to sit at dinner and think of them,

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Speaker 2: aren't you? Come on, admit at thirteen twenty four ten,

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Speaker 2: are you taking all of your.

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Speaker 1: Dates to the same place?

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Speaker 2: Are you sitting at the dinner table knowing that a

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Speaker 2: thousand girls have been there before you?

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Speaker 4: Kira in Penrith, what do you think here about this

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Speaker 4: whole thing? Guys taking him back to the same place.

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Speaker 3: Morning, guys, Look, I reckon Prince Harry has enough money

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Speaker 3: to take a new girlfriend to a new country.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Kira, not the issue.

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Speaker 3: See Kira, what I think might be going on too?

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Speaker 3: As he says, you know what, Darling, I have to

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Speaker 3: do some work in Africa. I must go give back

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Speaker 3: to the communities. It snob there, and then says, oh,

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Speaker 3: would you like to come along with me?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I know that that's a tough one there, but

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Speaker 1: I know what you're saying. Like, then go to the Bahamas.

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Speaker 3: Go to the South, France or someth thing.

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Speaker 2: What is it?

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Speaker 4: Where's Andrew taking them on his go to first?

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Speaker 1: He sure in Island Dungeon number three? How awful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you'd go to Africa every day of the week,

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Speaker 2: wouldn't you, rather than go anywhere.

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Speaker 3: Hoping you got eaten by line.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, Well, no one's calling. I mean you're not. Are

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Speaker 1: you not like meeting nobody? Oh? Here we go?

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Speaker 2: No, but it's not the men aren't calling. Going Okay, Yes,

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Speaker 2: I've got a date Friday night and I booked the

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Speaker 2: same table at the same tie restaurant around the court.

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Speaker 3: Annoys me that you went with the example that I

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Speaker 3: actually did, which was the same table, same Italian restaurant. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's not typical.

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Speaker 1: Isabella in Liverpool? What do you think?

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Speaker 2: Are you happy to be taken to the same places

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Speaker 2: as the old girlfriends? No, it's no to me.

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Speaker 1: Nope, yeah, to try something different, same place. But do

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Speaker 1: you know what? I've actually had.

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Speaker 2: Experiences where when you decide where to go on holiday

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Speaker 2: with your new flame, part of the conversation is have

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Speaker 2: you been there?

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Speaker 3: That's true?

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Speaker 1: Did you go there with? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Redline through that destination we're going to find somewhere where

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Speaker 2: neither of us been and it's going.

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Speaker 1: To be a brand new experience for the two of us.

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Speaker 3: Well, can I bring something up? But I don't know

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Speaker 3: if you guys have done this. Don't be shy when

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Speaker 3: you're out for dinner and it's going really well. There's

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Speaker 3: nothing more awkward than trying to kiss somebody or going

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Speaker 3: in for the kiss over the table.

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Speaker 2: Why are you talking about that?

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Speaker 3: Because it gets to a point where you sort of

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Speaker 3: you're very close, but the table's a little too wide

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Speaker 3: and you're now awkwardly struggling to get your lips onto theirs.

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Speaker 1: I think you wait for another moment.

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Speaker 3: Anyone done that?

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Speaker 1: I don't want you to breathe garlic bread in my face.

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Speaker 1: You're not there, mate, Well I just been. Generally a

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Speaker 1: lot of girls would love my garden, no day well down.

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