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Speaker 1: It is the City with Kate podcast.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I had to go pick up a fridge, right,

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Speaker 2: it was the second hand fridge from this appliance store,

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Speaker 2: got it cheaper, pretty happy with it.

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Speaker 3: So I borrowed a mates truck to go get it.

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Speaker 2: You all need a friend, No Coops and thanks Coops

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Speaker 2: because he's pretty flat out with work. But he said

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Speaker 2: you can have it for a couple of hours. Rock

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Speaker 2: up to the place to pick it up. And I'm

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Speaker 2: not joking. Get it in there.

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Speaker 3: It was it was boxed, right, it was in a box.

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Speaker 2: They put it in a box, but it was just

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Speaker 2: it was it would have been five centimeters too tall.

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Speaker 2: And you can't lay down fridge's cake because it ruins

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Speaker 2: fridges because.

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Speaker 3: You can't lay them down them standing up.

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Speaker 4: Even I know that and I'm a lady what so.

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Speaker 2: So anyway, then they're like, well, we're going to have

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Speaker 2: to take the box up, We're going to have to take.

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Speaker 3: Off all the wrapping, and I'm like, oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Then there's a guy there, delivery driver that they use

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Speaker 2: all the time, goes, where are you going, mate?

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Speaker 3: I said, I'm in Bao Main.

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Speaker 2: He goes, well, I just live, not far from there,

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Speaker 2: and he goes, I can drop it off there for

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Speaker 2: a couple of hundred bucks, and I said, great, that

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Speaker 2: would be great if you could do that, that's perfect.

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Speaker 2: Then I can drop this back to my mate and

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Speaker 2: you can deliver it to me and help me get

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Speaker 2: it into the house. This guy does it, so I

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Speaker 2: then an hour later he arrives at the house. And

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Speaker 2: this guy's fascinating. He's in his mid sixties. And he goes, oh, okay,

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Speaker 2: you're on this street. He goes, mate, I own the

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Speaker 2: two houses down at the end. I've owned them for years.

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Speaker 2: I'm going you're kidding me. He goes, yeah, I haven't

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Speaker 2: lived in there, but they are investment properties for me,

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Speaker 2: and I rented out to the people that.

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Speaker 3: Live it in down there.

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Speaker 2: Wow, he's done. He goes, mates, how long you've been

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Speaker 2: in the n West for? I said, oh, we've been

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Speaker 2: here from thirteen fourteen years. I said, I love it

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Speaker 2: around here. He said yeah. He goes, mate, I could

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Speaker 2: tell you a few stories about this place to do

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Speaker 2: up around you if you could. But these were fascinating stories.

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Speaker 2: He then continues to tell me stories about Louisa Road

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Speaker 2: and Birch Grove, which is the very expensive road in

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Speaker 2: birch Grove, and every house is on the water. He

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Speaker 2: starts telling me stories about all these wealthy businessmen who

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Speaker 2: are cheating on their wives.

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Speaker 5: Get one of the wives from Louisa.

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Speaker 1: Road, the famous wives of Louisa Road.

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Speaker 2: He then tells me that he's got two investment properties

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Speaker 2: on law and I'm going make you're a delivery driver.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking to myself, this is crazy.

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Speaker 2: He goes, yeah, I blackmailed one because one of them,

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Speaker 2: one of the wealthy businessmen, he hooked up with his

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Speaker 2: sister in law, right.

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Speaker 3: And I'm going okay.

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Speaker 2: So he then I got the sister to then bribe

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Speaker 2: the whole area what was going on.

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Speaker 5: Oh that's how he got into the market.

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Speaker 1: So just the fridge inside, mate, I went back inside.

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Speaker 2: I said to be ja, God, this guy's got two

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Speaker 2: places on our street. Is a fascinating guy, making me laugh,

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Speaker 2: telling me all these stories.

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Speaker 3: The next day I go down the road and.

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Speaker 2: The two houses that he was talking about, there's a

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Speaker 2: guy at the front putting his bin and made I

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Speaker 2: just met your landlord yesterday.

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Speaker 3: He goes, what my granddad no, no, no, his name's Jim. Jim.

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Speaker 3: He goes, no, no, no, he doesn't own the house. My

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Speaker 5: Oh Jim.

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Speaker 3: So then I.

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Speaker 2: Bring back the company that I've bought the fridge from, Kate,

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Speaker 2: and I said, can you tell me more about Jim?

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Speaker 3: And they went, Okay, what.

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Speaker 2: I could hear people laughing in the background. They said,

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Speaker 2: he's the best delivery driver in the area, but he's

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Speaker 2: known to fabricate his stories, so.

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Speaker 1: You're telling me the real housewives of Luisa Road aren't cheating.

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Speaker 2: But he was so serious and he went into so

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Speaker 3: He just loves telling lies to people that he meets.

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Speaker 4: Well, maybe it's not about telling lies, and it's more

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Speaker 4: about he just loves a chat and he might think

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Speaker 5: It's true or not.

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Speaker 1: But does he get back does he get back to

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Speaker 1: work and go, hey, god fits beauty? He bought every

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Speaker 1: word you know what ELL talk about me on the radio.

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Speaker 2: But I just couldn't believe it that he just kept

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Speaker 2: telling me, fabricating all these stories. None of them are

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Speaker 2: factional at all, and that's what he does his whole life.

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Speaker 1: He told you the fridge was brand.

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Speaker 5: New year, yeah, and that he lived in the area.

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Speaker 1: And that you could lie the fridge down.

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Speaker 2: He also said, no, I didn't damage it as I

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Speaker 1: As I didn't, and I own your house. Good on you, Jim.

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Speaker 2: This is the Fitzian Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.

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Speaker 4: This story is about a husband and wife. Husband is

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Speaker 4: going off to work and she seems to think that

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Speaker 4: he's living some kind of double life because she's come

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Speaker 4: across text messages in his phone who happened to be

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Speaker 5: And there's nothing really.

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Speaker 4: Untoward to those messages, but there is a somewhat a

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Speaker 4: not intimate, but you know, a relationship, a relationship and

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Speaker 4: their friends and they know each other, you know, Like,

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Speaker 4: let's be honest, we all spend a lot of time

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Speaker 4: at work, and you know, it was important. I think, FITZI,

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Speaker 4: yesterday you were talking about on air the fact that

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Speaker 4: it's important to create connection with social in the office

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Speaker 4: so that when you go to work you feel safe

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Speaker 4: and you're having a nice time because you spend a

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Speaker 4: lot of time there. But she's come across messages where

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Speaker 4: it's not about work stuff. It might be about her child.

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Speaker 4: She's recently divorced, So I guess that set of alarm

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Speaker 4: all I really wanted to ask, was like, it's funny.

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Speaker 4: Well he's saying things like you're overreacting because it's just

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Speaker 4: a friendship. And do you know what, I actually believe

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Speaker 4: but well, you guys are my friends, and there's nothing

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Speaker 1: And his wife. If he was to grab a coffee

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Speaker 1: And maybe she's just sensitive because he's a good looking

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Speaker 3: Record and he's never cheated on it.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not, And they have three kids and they're a

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Speaker 5: And that's the store I will go with.

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Speaker 1: But if he was to hang out with another girl,

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Speaker 1: Let's say his work colleague was a female and they

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Speaker 2: Can I tell you the best way to approach this,

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Speaker 2: and there's nothing wrong if you've got to, if you're

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Speaker 2: and go, I don't know, I may be overlooking this,

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Speaker 2: and you know I'm looking into this too much.

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Speaker 3: And I'm so sorry if I made you feel like this,

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Speaker 3: but I've just seen the text message. I don't know

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Speaker 2: Then from there you can test body language and you

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Speaker 2: what if they go, honey, don't be silly.

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Speaker 3: I work with her.

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Speaker 2: I need to catch up with her to talk about

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Speaker 2: this around work. Then you know everything's fine if you

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Speaker 2: keep this secret and it builds up, Kate, Yeah, this

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Speaker 1: Just sitting on the couch with his best shirt on,

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Speaker 5: For you apparently.

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Speaker 4: But I agree because I think that if you don't

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Speaker 4: part of the dialogue within your relationship. Let's be honest,

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Speaker 4: most of what you think and you're worrying about, you

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Speaker 5: Probably not the truth you've made your own.

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Speaker 4: You worry about things that you don't even know if

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Speaker 1: Are there are people also that would claim men and

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Speaker 1: Mate, it's natural female friends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you you you say this all the time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that a lot of men have ulterior motives when

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Speaker 1: They go for some people. And I, like I said,

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of female friends. Some people they

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, fair enough, it's probably best for them not

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Speaker 5: Yes, because it's also not.

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Speaker 4: Fair to say that you just have friendships with the

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Speaker 1: I'll give you this one. There's a celebrity I can't

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Speaker 1: say his name, but he's married and a girl that

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Speaker 1: I used to do some work for him. She received

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Speaker 1: a phone call one day from his wife saying, I'm

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Speaker 1: so sorry, we're going to have to let you go.

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Speaker 1: You can't work with the family anymore. And sometimes we

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Speaker 1: just need to remove females from his life, and you're

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Speaker 1: one of them.

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Speaker 3: Oh to suffer.

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Speaker 1: It's a true.

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Speaker 5: Story, so it's more about that in his behavior.

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Speaker 1: I love you to pieces. You've been fantastic with the family,

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Speaker 1: but unfortunately sometimes we need to remove women from his

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Speaker 1: life dangling, and you're one of them. Yeahway, it was

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Speaker 1: a horrible phone call for Lisa to have to make.

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Speaker 1: This is the fitz WI with Cape Ritchie podcast. Let's

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Speaker 1: talk about this because I think it's a really, really

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Speaker 3: The Japanese the Japanese have come up with a great idea.

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Speaker 1: They've realized there's been an increase of people suffering heart

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Speaker 1: attacks in Japan. So they've come together and they've said,

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Speaker 1: you know what, everybody's having a heart attack because they're

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Speaker 1: too stressed in life.

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Speaker 5: Oh is that what it is not to do with?

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Speaker 2: Diets are a lot different to ours, aren't they They

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure. But what they've come together and said,

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Speaker 1: So the politicians have passed a bill telling citizens they

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Speaker 6: Lord?

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Speaker 1: Who is now law? Kate Richie for you to laugh

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Speaker 5: But wouldn't you laugh anyway? Do you think not? Everyone

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Speaker 1: So like you're lucky. You get to sit next to me,

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Speaker 5: But I mean, there's a difference between laughing with and laughing.

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Speaker 1: At you doing your job.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever had a job?

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Speaker 2: Have you ever had a job, and I'm still trying

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, still nothing. I mean, how many years of

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Speaker 2: Who was the funniest on set for you, Kate, Like,

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Speaker 3: Is there one?

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Speaker 1: That's Craig mcglo.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was funny. I just thought if you wouldn't mind,

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Speaker 3: Because the origin is from there. I'm not saying you're racist.

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Speaker 5: I just didn't.

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Speaker 3: Is that the joke?

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Speaker 1: No, that's not the joke.

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Speaker 5: Am I meant to be laughing at the jokes? Do

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Speaker 4: Do I do what I normally do for you to

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Speaker 1: If you find the joke funny. Because a bit of

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Speaker 1: a sad story. My friend recently got crushed by a

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Speaker 5: I love these go go.

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Speaker 1: What annoys me is when you look at me and

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Speaker 5: Do you know? What I think with laughing is because

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Speaker 4: Actually when I joined this show, Jess said to me,

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Speaker 1: Are Yeah, yeah, I will love very generous crowd.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm a bit of a people richie.

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Speaker 3: They call your front right, Richie.

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Speaker 4: A bit of a people please. But I think sometimes

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Speaker 4: and let it build within your body because it feels amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's an interesting way to look at it my context,

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Speaker 1: because I had a framic like that and he actually

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Speaker 3: I would have probably ended with the first one.

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Speaker 1: Here. What's the difference between a chickpean and a lentil.

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Speaker 1: I've never had a let can't do that joke.

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Speaker 5: I don't know that one. What is that one?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 4: No, okay, I've got one. Okay, what if I just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, this is good, so you're hang on a minute.

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Speaker 1: So the only laugh we've had so is before you've told.

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Speaker 3: You Joe, okay, you ready?

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Speaker 5: No, what do you call cheese that you don't own?

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Speaker 2: Nato cheese in the accent?

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Speaker 1: So racism.

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Speaker 2: So we've got two racers on the show and no laughs.

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Speaker 1: The fits and with a with Cake whichie podcast.

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Speaker 2: We've spoken about running away from home on the show before.

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Speaker 2: I think every kid goes through it. You just are

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Speaker 2: over your rebellious stage in your life. You're off mum

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Speaker 2: and dad. They won't drop you off of footy training

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Speaker 2: and you know what, Dad, E's just to lose. So

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Speaker 2: it's time for me to leave. Guys, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: Have a good one. I'll take the tim Turms and

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Speaker 2: What I want to know is thirteen twenty four to ten,

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Speaker 2: how far did they get running away? This is an

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Speaker 2: unbelievable story of a young bloke call Ben chrystallis right,

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Speaker 3: Ben chrystallis missing.

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Speaker 2: Fifteen year old boy found safe and well after going

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Speaker 3: He's over in wa He's gone missing and.

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Speaker 2: The article says a fifteen year old boy has been

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Speaker 3: Last Thursday last week, so they found.

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Speaker 5: Him, which is so scary.

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Speaker 2: I'm lucky's safe. The thing is though, Ben's run away again.

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Speaker 5: How old is he? Fifteen?

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Speaker 3: He's fifteen?

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Speaker 1: Oh Ben, Let's have a look at Ben.

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Speaker 2: So that's the story there, And that's been in Bali

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Speaker 1: With a girl and giving the camera a one fingered salute.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if he's with it.

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Speaker 2: He's with a few mates though, there's a few people around,

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Speaker 5: How did he get a fifteen year old buy a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I assume so, I don't know. Can you do that?

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Speaker 1: I mean he hasn't really run away, He's just gone

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Speaker 5: Well, that's running away.

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Speaker 3: He looks like you're not old?

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Speaker 2: Is he accompanied minor as a fifteen year old?

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Speaker 3: Or can you sneak your way on and say that

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Speaker 1: Am Tommy, You've done a lot of sneaking onto aeroplanes?

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Speaker 1: Can you do that at the age of fifteen? Just

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Speaker 1: quite a chicken and go see a later. Guys By

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Speaker 1: the way, I'll tell him when I get there.

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Speaker 2: Yes, So passengers twelve or above may travel alone.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but I presume that, well, not many people are

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Speaker 1: running away to Bali, are they? So many people are

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Speaker 3: But surely at the airport, where's the cash from?

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Speaker 5: If it's someone's on the plane, isn't there a hosty

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Speaker 5: saying are you okay?

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Speaker 4: It's where who are you traveling with? Who's picking you

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Speaker 1: I'm just having to to mate get out of my face.

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Speaker 2: It fits in whip with cap Bridgie podcast here he

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Speaker 3: It's daunting, very daunting. He's only fourteen.

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Speaker 2: What is it you go to be fourteen and nine

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Speaker 3: And I didn't know that.

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Speaker 2: It took me three years to realize because we started

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Speaker 3: What about Mariport? Oh, yeah, I suppose. How do you

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Speaker 2: Kate?

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Speaker 5: No, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think the rules were different in the eighties for

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Speaker 3: It was do you know what?

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Speaker 2: So he's washing dishes at a cafe. It's called Boy

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Speaker 2: and Bloom and he's doing a great job. But you

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Speaker 2: know what, he's washing dishes for three hours a shift, right.

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Speaker 3: He's getting seventeen bucks an hour, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, So there's a dish it's it's been really good

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Speaker 2: to see like he's dreading going to work sometimes because

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Speaker 3: But do you know what?

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Speaker 2: You can see the reward in his face afterwards, Kate,

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Speaker 2: when he actually goes, okay, well I've earned over fifty

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Speaker 2: Have you guys heard of a ninja creamy? A ninja

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Speaker 2: creamy thirteen twenty four ten, parents, if you've been introduced

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Speaker 2: and it's really hard to find and buy because majority

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Speaker 5: What do you think Ninja creamy or ninjen creamy?

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Speaker 2: Ninja creamy and what it is Basically you have to freeze,

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Speaker 2: so you get these little containers. It's like a blender

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Speaker 2: and you get these containers that you need to freeze

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Speaker 2: and then what you do.

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Speaker 3: It's got all these different settings.

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Speaker 2: You've got an ice cream setting, sorbet setting, smoothie sleen.

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Speaker 1: It's a blender, so.

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Speaker 5: It's like a yoyo bananas. What did you see that?

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Speaker 3: But what it does?

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Speaker 2: It's a blender, right, But it blends, so it blends

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Speaker 2: You can what I likened it to with the ice cream.

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Speaker 2: You can mix stuff in there. It's like a cold rock,

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Speaker 2: I want some peanut m and ms in there, and

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Speaker 2: what he's done, he's worked enough to get an inja

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Speaker 3: He's loving it. How much are they They're about three

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Speaker 1: It looks like a fancy machine.

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Speaker 2: And BJ and I was so proud of him, Kate

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Speaker 3: Around the corner?

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Speaker 2: He got to three one hundred dollars and we said

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Speaker 3: Three hundred dollars three hundred dollars can't.

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Speaker 2: So he was he was so stucked with that. The

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Speaker 2: thing is that Lenny comes in crying the other day, Hugh.

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Speaker 2: He's charging me two dollars every time I want to

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Speaker 2: use the Ninja creamy.

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Speaker 5: Is he really what a clever kid?

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Speaker 1: Awesome got him a beauty.

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Speaker 3: Oh that is so good.

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Speaker 2: And I had to pull Lenny in a side and

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Speaker 2: I go, well, it's his ninja creamy mate, and he's

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Speaker 2: got you there.

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Speaker 1: So he's kept the three hundred from his dishy job

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Speaker 1: and he's getting two dollars on the side for anybody

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Speaker 1: that wants to use the Ninja creamy.

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Speaker 2: And now he's having his matesaver in the school holidays.

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Speaker 2: He's charged them two dollars as well.

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Speaker 1: Brucet's store as well. Well.

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Speaker 2: It's worked out really well for the family because I

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Speaker 2: charge him five dollars to use my kitchen.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Six fits in with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 4: I have got a great story about when you have

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Speaker 4: received or sent something that shouldn't have gone to that person.

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Speaker 4: And it's very awkward and we hear these stories all

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Speaker 4: the time, but it's just worth double checking before you

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Speaker 4: reply all.

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Speaker 1: I naturally do a reply all. That's the concerning part.

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Speaker 1: I'm always a reply or guy.

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Speaker 5: I'm surprised you haven't been in this kind of job.

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Speaker 1: I've never inappropriate, so I don't know why such a

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Speaker 1: suggest I should be canceled.

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Speaker 2: I love to run the gauntlet sometimes, write the text

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Speaker 2: messages quick as you can.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of confusion as you do it. And

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Speaker 3: then you just said that.

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Speaker 5: Shoot it off and now okay, okay.

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Speaker 4: What this guy did initially is like mortifying, but his

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Speaker 4: excuse is the way he's tried to talk himself out

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Speaker 4: of it is amazing. All Right, this guy, he's in

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Speaker 4: the office and he has sent well, he's been sacked. Sorry,

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Speaker 4: I'm getting so confused because I'm a bit excited about

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Speaker 4: the story. He's doing the San Francisco DA's office after

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Speaker 4: losing his job because of an accidental reply all email.

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Speaker 4: He's been sacked for six months and it's come around

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Speaker 4: and he's thought, well, I've been dismissed it.

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Speaker 5: He's not fair, and I'm going.

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Speaker 4: To talk my way out of this and I want

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Speaker 4: people to hear it. So he sent a message to

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Speaker 4: he asked a married I'm getting.

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Speaker 1: Part of it.

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Speaker 4: He's basically done a reply all to the office and

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Speaker 4: has asked a married woman within the office what color

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Speaker 4: her unpants were.

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Speaker 1: That's not the wording.

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Speaker 5: Well, I don't like.

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Speaker 4: That word, and I don't Yeah, panties what color her

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Speaker 4: panties were, before profusely apologizing in a follow up seconds later. Now,

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Speaker 4: those three seconds I would imagine between when he realized

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Speaker 4: he'd sent the message. Oh, the blood would run from

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Speaker 4: your body, nurses, Okay, he then he's done it from

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Speaker 4: the work, you know, laptop. I mean everything about it

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Speaker 4: means yes. And this has been his excuse. He was saying,

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Speaker 4: this is what his lawyer is telling the courts. He

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Speaker 4: shouldn't be sacked because he accidentally sent that message to

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Speaker 4: the office and asked the married woman about the color

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Speaker 4: of her nickers. But what he was actually doing was

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Speaker 4: he was in a text conversation with a friend of

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Speaker 4: his who had recently lost his father, and to lighten

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Speaker 4: the mood about the death, he just threw out because

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Speaker 4: they are old school friends, the way they normally talk

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Speaker 4: to each other, what color are your panties?

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Speaker 3: That's not like excuse, I love it.

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Speaker 4: This is the lawyer. This is the wording. It was

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Speaker 4: purely a text to his friend, and it was a

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Speaker 4: whiz whimsical question that was part of the plaintiff's standard

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Speaker 4: jocular repertoire with his friend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, especially after someone's died. I know any friends of

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Speaker 1: mine that have lost their father's a hostess fire off?

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Speaker 1: What color are apparent?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Rather than how are you going undies?

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Speaker 2: I would have gone I would have gone spell checker,

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Speaker 2: I would have gone wouldn't that's changed?

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Speaker 3: I was asking what color are your parties? Or could

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Speaker 3: you could have gone down another road.

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Speaker 2: I know you've got to think quick because you've sent

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Speaker 2: it out there, You've thought, well, this is my job.

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Speaker 3: On the line here.

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Speaker 5: I don't think he thought it.

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Speaker 1: Rhyme with much either. Do they spell check that is?

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Speaker 1: That's a really tricky one.

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Speaker 4: Should we speak to Debbie and dundask because I think

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Speaker 4: she's had a very similar encounter.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. I received the text message one weekend. It was

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Speaker 6: actually I received a text message from a staff member

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Speaker 6: and I opened it up and it was a full

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Speaker 6: frontal nudity taken in by SELFI mirror past a mirror.

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Speaker 3: Do you went close to this person?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 6: No, no, no, he's one of my staff. I was his boss.

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Speaker 6: So I just set back a message saying I really

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Speaker 6: don't think this is an appropriate photo to send to

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Speaker 6: your boss. There was quite a weight between the reply

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Speaker 6: message from him saying whoop, sorry, wrong person and I

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Speaker 6: just set back another text saying this will never be

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Speaker 6: spoken of again from how.

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Speaker 3: Much over time did you give him?

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