1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: Welcome back everybody to Stimulated. 2 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 2: We hope you're happy to be here, because we are 3 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 2: happy to be here, and we hope you've been enjoying. Yeah, 4 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 2: we hope you've been loving the new Stimulated episodes because 5 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 2: we love doing them. I saw someone reposted a story 6 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 2: or maybe put us on their story saying like, haven't 7 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:16,959 Speaker 2: listened to these boys in a while, but just this 8 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 2: was my first episode back in then you posted a 9 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:19,760 Speaker 2: Stimulated episode. 10 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 1: Let's go. 11 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 2: It was very fun, very very good juice. We're going 12 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 2: to keep you enter tank for the next fiftey and 13 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 2: the twenty minutes. What are we starting with today, Jake? 14 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 2: We are starting with men used to open the car 15 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 2: door and now they ooh, let's put them in their 16 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:39,239 Speaker 2: places as always. What percentage of men you can still 17 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 2: open the car door for their part, no or special 18 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 2: person in their life? 19 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 1: Man, I don't know. I like the numbers like drastically low. 20 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:50,880 Speaker 2: I think the number is going to be like gobsmackingly low, 21 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 2: and I will very very likely. 22 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: So I'd be very very surprised if the number was 23 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: over ten percent. 24 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 3: And how many men do you reckon we've influence to 25 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 3: open the car door for the lovely lady, good question. 26 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 3: I reckon ten. 27 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: I'd be happy with one. 28 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, so would I because it's better than zero. You 29 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 2: got me better. I may have influenced you, Yeah, you 30 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 2: have definitely influenced you. I'll give you that. 31 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,680 Speaker 1: So I've got one. Who have you got? Should we 32 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: get do it? Drinking? Jack opens the cardor for just fuck? 33 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: No fuck? If you can influence him. 34 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 2: I don't think so. But any mail listeners out there, 35 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 2: don't think it's too much to open the car door 36 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 2: for your partner. Be extravagant, do as much as much 37 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 2: as possible. 38 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:34,919 Speaker 3: That will go, It will go so far. It's so simple, 39 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 3: so easy to do. Yeah, so easy to maybe downgrade 40 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:39,960 Speaker 3: your car so you have to unlock it with a 41 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 3: key like Jake. Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, And then you 42 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 3: are forced to open the car door for it's so hey, 43 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 3: that's technology ruining love once again. 44 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 2: You've got to click a button now, exactly one does it? 45 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: What's it called? 46 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 2: And whatever's making life easier is making dating harder? Yeah, 47 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 2: ruining love all right, to start off, though, kick us off? Okay, 48 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 2: So men used to open the car door and now 49 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 2: they are figuring out their dating goals. 50 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: At thirty seven. 51 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 2: I thought you were going to stop at thirty and 52 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: then I met seven dating goals at thirty. Mate. To 53 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 2: be fair, everyone goes through life on their own journey, 54 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 2: even fair. 55 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 4: But here's the thing is, even if you let's just 56 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 4: say that someone was married. 57 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 2: From maybe twenty five to thirty four, and now they 58 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 2: were at thirty four, they got divorced, and then at 59 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 2: thirty seven they're dating and they're like still. 60 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: Thinking about what they're looking for. 61 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 2: I think, like, look, there comes an age where it's 62 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 2: default that what you're looking for is something serious. Mate. 63 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 2: Men used to open the car door for their wife 64 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 2: and get married at like twenty Yeah, now they don't 65 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 2: even do that and they don't even know that. 66 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: What happened to romantic gestures? 67 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:44,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? 68 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 4: So what happened to it? What happened in history where 69 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:48,360 Speaker 4: romantic gestures are dead? 70 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 2: Like, do guys even drop a D anymore? 71 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 1: Fuck? Yeah? 72 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 2: When someone when a guy asks to go to marry him. 73 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: Are they standing? 74 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? What they're probably just like you and me. 75 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 1: Let's make it like I don't want to get my 76 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 1: pants to it. Yeah, I'm not going to put friends 77 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: was in my Nike dunks? 78 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 2: Why would I do that, that's gonna devalue them. 79 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 3: These are the Travis Scott Dugs men used to open 80 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:14,079 Speaker 3: the car door. Now they expect princess treatment. 81 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:16,679 Speaker 2: Don't give it to him. 82 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: I could be semi guilty of you. 83 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 2: You are a bit, a little bit, you are a 84 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 2: bit of. 85 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 1: A princess treatment. 86 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:27,359 Speaker 4: I will say every now and then, it's quite nice. 87 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 2: What do you what do you want? I'm not very picky, 88 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 2: just whatever I saw. I saw a really good video 89 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 2: about being the passenger princess, and so you know how, 90 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 2: I think we've said it before, like if your passenger princess, your. 91 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: Duty is maps and music. Yes, okay. 92 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 2: I saw a really good video of a girl saying, 93 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 2: if I'm a passenger princess, but I have. 94 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 1: To do to do things. 95 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 2: But I have to do the maps and the music 96 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 2: and stuff like that, Like why is the word princess 97 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 2: in it? 98 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: And I was kind of thinking, Okay, she's getting someone. 99 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 4: She goes if I passetor princess, I should be a princess. 100 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 4: And I was like, she has a point. We use 101 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 4: the word princess, which is a strong word. True, it 102 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 4: is a strong word, and yet we expect things from them. 103 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 4: I see where she's coming from. But like, if you're 104 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:21,359 Speaker 4: driving three four hours, you want to be fucking engaged 105 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 4: the whole time making sure these two lives get there safely, 106 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 4: and then she can't be to shuffle a song play. 107 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 2: So we don't want passenger princesses. We just want passenger something. 108 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 2: I just want company. 109 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, shut up, okay. Men used to open the car 110 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: door for you, and now they block you if you 111 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: leave them on delivered. 112 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 2: Oh oh, never got the blocking thing? Hey yeah, never 113 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 2: like either the dudes like say, oh, it's been twenty 114 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 2: four hours, and also, what's a block you gonna do? Yeah, 115 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 2: it's like, oh yeah, I got you, bitch, Like, yeah, 116 00:04:57,920 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 2: I want to know what sort of power move they 117 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 2: think that is because she left you and delivered, and 118 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 2: she probably doesn't even know that you've blocked her because 119 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 2: she left you on delivered. 120 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 3: If anything, that's a win though for her. I don't 121 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 3: have to deal with this weird dude. 122 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 2: Anymore, exactly he blocked. I've never understood the blocking thing. 123 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,799 Speaker 2: I think. I don't think when you block someone actually 124 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 2: does it delete your messages? And so therefore she has 125 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 2: no like sort of receipts. It's the embarrassing thing. She 126 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 2: never send me booby people. 127 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, she sent a video. 128 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:26,679 Speaker 2: He sent something and then she leaves him on delivered, 129 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 2: so he blocks her and does it delete that. Maybe 130 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 2: that's what it is, like he's embarrassed about the drunken 131 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 2: we could taste it. 132 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. 133 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 2: I'll block your Yeah, your back either. 134 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:37,559 Speaker 1: You probably won't. 135 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 3: Men used to open the car door for you. Now 136 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 3: they calling you out scream at spider's. 137 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 2: Fuck that one. That one can fuck right off. Now 138 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 2: that one can fuck right off because if the person 139 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 2: that wrote that isn't from Australia, they can shut up. 140 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 2: Spiders killing spiders looking after him in the house. Is 141 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 2: shi we made in a relationship? 142 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 1: No? You being like, ah, I hate what? I don't know? 143 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: Is it? What's it? 144 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 2: Carded raetmophobia. I don't think it's a rachmophobia because I 145 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 2: can be in the same room as one. 146 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 1: But I'm just like, oh yeah, and I don't want 147 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 1: to go near and kill it. 148 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 2: Like what, psycho, you picks up just a towel to 149 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 2: pick up a fucking massive huntsman and throw it outside. 150 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: That's insane. Yeah, it's insane. 151 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 3: We're in their world, mate, live together in harmony. 152 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: We have not in there. 153 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, lived together. And I would like to point out 154 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 2: that humans made this our world, and so they are 155 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:38,280 Speaker 2: in our world. Yeah, they are clearly in our world. 156 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 2: And if a spider is the size of the piper 157 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 2: of my hands, it's never been the of your first 158 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 2: spider is the size of the pip of my hand, 159 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 2: and or bigger. It's lived long enough and it's wise enough. Okay, 160 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 2: it's given enough advice to the younger spiders, and it 161 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:54,039 Speaker 2: can fucking die. Man, you're over exaggerating bigger than our hand. 162 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:56,279 Speaker 2: I've never once seen a spider bigger than my hand. 163 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:58,040 Speaker 1: I have no. 164 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 2: Maybe at the zoo they have those like spiders. 165 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: Actually have I have actually seen one. 166 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 3: You're one of those guys who watched like late night 167 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 3: Tiktoks and it's like the world's most dangerous spiders, And 168 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 3: then you're thinking of that. 169 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: I couldn't imagine. I hate them. 170 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 2: Men used to open the car door, and now they 171 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 2: complain that there isn't an international Men's Day too. Oh 172 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 2: if we're complaining about that, like complain, yes, I mean 173 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 2: like the world. Yeah, the world was built in away 174 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 2: where every day is kind of like International Men's Day. Yeah, 175 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 2: we didn't have to. Why are we complaining we didn't 176 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 2: have to fight for ship? 177 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? What why are we complaining about that? Yeah? 178 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 2: And like we've got Father's Day Yeah yeah, father's a man? 179 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, sure, yeah, fucking hell, I don't see that one. 180 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: All right. 181 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 2: Men used to open the car door for you, Now 182 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 2: they skip leg day. 183 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're very, very guilty, guilty. It's just so hard. 184 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: It is like I. 185 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 4: Really enjoy every other muscle group, Dan, really really enjoy everyone. 186 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 2: I'm gonna put it down for the pure length of 187 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 2: our legs compared to like, yeah. 188 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 1: We gotta go a lot further we're gonna go. 189 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 2: It's that little bit more fatiguing, isn't it? 190 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 1: Ever so slightly? Yeah? 191 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 2: Okay, men used to open the car door and now 192 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 2: they get in the car before their partner. Straight. Facts, 193 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 2: Men used to open the car door. Now they can 194 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 2: only stare at you to flirt. Facts, bro, what happened? 195 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? I don't know. 196 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,839 Speaker 2: Even in Australia, we're scared to stare Eyven know it's 197 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 2: a bit weird. I do know that it is weird, 198 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 2: but also like that part even makes me nervous. 199 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: It's like the eye contact, like like. 200 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 2: Like if you see where it was when single, if 201 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 2: you see lest you're somewhere, you see a girl that 202 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 2: you think is attractive, and you'd be like in your head, 203 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 2: you thinking like I'd really like to go up and 204 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 2: talk to her, and you're like, no, I'm not going 205 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 2: to do it. And then you're like, hopefully she catches 206 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:15,680 Speaker 2: eyes with me. If their eyes were glancing in my direction, 207 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 2: I'd move mine. 208 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 1: So they know I wasn't looking at her. 209 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 3: I'm one of the like I wonderers, especially at the 210 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 3: gym or whatever. I'm like, if anyone ever saw me 211 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 3: at the gym, Like I'm wandering in the around like 212 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 3: just everywhere, looking at random shit and TV the back 213 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 3: corner that no one looks, trying to sty off my phone. 214 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. And sometimes I catch eye contact with people 215 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 2: and they're like in this like equipment all the way 216 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 2: on the other corner, and I'm like, fu, hope, I 217 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:38,959 Speaker 2: don't think I was checking them out. 218 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then it happens again. Yeah. I'm like You're like, well, 219 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 1: now they really And. 220 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 2: Then I'm like, well, most was fucking go on my phone? 221 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeh yeah. Phones are good for something. 222 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:50,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a great for something exactly. Okay, men used 223 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 2: to open the car door, and now they are twenty 224 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:55,439 Speaker 2: five and their mom still buys their underwear. Oh, I've 225 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 2: got one. Where's this one? Where is it? 226 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:57,959 Speaker 1: Where is it? 227 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 2: Where is it? Men used to open the car door, 228 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 2: or now they ask their mum to do their laundry. 229 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 2: I would like to say, if you're getting anything other 230 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:07,959 Speaker 2: than underwear. 231 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 1: For Christmas from your parents, you're doing too much. That's 232 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 1: all they need to get you. 233 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 2: Underwear is weirdly expensive. Where's the prices on that? Like? 234 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 2: Why is a pair of three pack of Bundies cost 235 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 2: me sixty bucks? 236 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:21,439 Speaker 1: Three pack of Calvins bro nine? Yeah, but like the. 237 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 2: Fabric quantity is nothing compared to three Such a great question. 238 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 2: Do you think there's this whole thing with underwear because 239 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 2: it's like all the underwear companies are probably thinking, well, 240 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 2: they have to wear it. 241 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're going to pay whatever it is. 242 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 3: Weird Hey, and why is there like a sort of 243 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 3: stigma around like what brand of undeasy wear means you're 244 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 3: like sexy or yeah? 245 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: True? 246 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 2: Like if you're wearing Calvins then girls really like that, 247 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:47,439 Speaker 2: yeah they have Like or if we build up this 248 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 2: false pretense in our head that they like that. 249 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:50,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, because at the. 250 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 2: End of the day, they're on the floor. Yeah, but look, 251 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, if a girls wearing 252 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 2: a matching set, it's on the floor. 253 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 1: But we still think it's sexy. 254 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 2: True, you know, and they wear it for a reason, 255 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 2: because it's like they're like, I wore this because I 256 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 2: wanted to me. I've never once thought, well, they're a 257 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:06,199 Speaker 2: nice pair of hondies. Oh you haven't looked at a 258 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 2: lazy pair of moneies and yeah, I but I mean 259 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 2: men's undies, no girls, But I've never I'm just more 260 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 2: distracted by the beauty in front of me. 261 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 262 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:14,560 Speaker 2: True, it's like I might think, I might think about 263 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 2: it after the fact, but like, wow, they asked you 264 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:19,439 Speaker 2: what you thought of this set, You're like, yeah, it 265 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 2: was great, but it looked better on the floor. Yeah, 266 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 2: I'm not thinking about it. Just go that came out today, 267 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 2: you go menu, so open the car door. And now 268 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 2: they take shirtless pics at the gym. 269 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:33,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, facts we do. 270 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:36,959 Speaker 2: I couldn't take much shirt off. 271 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 1: I couldn't. 272 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:41,439 Speaker 2: We've done it not in Australia, Yes we have. There's 273 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:46,599 Speaker 2: I literally drive. You know what I'm talking about, don't you? Yeah, 274 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 2: you gas let me do that your that The day 275 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 2: of that was it was like two days before we 276 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 2: went to Bali. 277 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 1: For the first time. 278 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 2: We went for six weeks, and you said, I'm I like, 279 00:11:57,400 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 2: I cut pretty hard for this trip. I want to 280 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 2: get some And then you were taking pics and I 281 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 2: was like, well, fuck it, the light is good. I 282 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 2: might get some picks too, And so we both took 283 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 2: pics and I went second. Jake just touched my foot 284 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 2: in the studio when he was talking about us taking 285 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 2: shut the pigs. It made me really uncomfortable. Don't do 286 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 2: that again. A you are more than halfway on my side. 287 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 2: Do it again, at least when we're talking about something. 288 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: Normal, like I will. I will say when I start 289 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 1: talking about I really lean. 290 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 2: Okay. 291 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 3: Men used to open the car door. Now they can't 292 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 3: even plan a day. 293 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:36,199 Speaker 2: Oh, that one hurts me so bad. We're about to 294 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:39,199 Speaker 2: help you in segment two. Because it's not even hard, No, 295 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 2: it's really not. It's so easy. 296 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: It's like, also, I will say. 297 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 2: A bit of a hack is plan something that you 298 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 2: as a man really want to do, because it's pretty 299 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 2: like if you think something's fun, it's probably going to 300 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 2: be fun for a female as well. 301 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 4: No, a little hack like care, yeah yeah, just like 302 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 4: actually give a shit like care about what you do. 303 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 2: It's like a ho about the litt hack actually trying 304 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:01,679 Speaker 2: to press. 305 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 4: Her, little hack, just trying to impress her. 306 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 2: It's like work, like, if you care about it, you're 307 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 2: gonna do a good job. If you care about the date, 308 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 2: you're going to plan a good day. So simple. And 309 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 2: also at work, if you're passionate about work, your boss 310 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 2: is like, oh, he's doing a great If you're passionate 311 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:17,319 Speaker 2: about the girl, you're going on a date, when she's 312 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 2: gonna be like this guy really likes me. It's because 313 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 2: most guys just want to smash that. I'm actually passionate 314 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:25,679 Speaker 2: about the beautiful person in front of him. This one's 315 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 2: taking a upper cut to men right now. Okay, and 316 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 2: I think I've done this a couple of times. Men 317 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 2: used to open the car door. Now they can't even 318 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 2: get a nice towel to wipe the come off. You 319 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 2: looks some toilet paper. That's crazy. I think what's better. 320 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 2: I've even gone a shirt. I've said, here's a shirt. Well, 321 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 2: I thought that was better than me running to the 322 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:54,679 Speaker 2: bathroom or naked ship. 323 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: And getting to a TP. It was a clean it 324 00:13:58,480 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 1: was a clean shirt. 325 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 2: He's okay, here's a place that I think we could 326 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 2: improve as men, all right, and it's baby wipes. Okay, 327 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 2: either that or I was gonna say, like, if you 328 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 2: live with family, leave them in your room, right, But 329 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 2: if you live alone with your girlfriend, then leave them 330 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 2: in the obviously the linen cupboard, but a stack of 331 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 2: towels that are like yay, why yay big, and they're 332 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 2: dedicated room. They're dedicated to that thing. But and so 333 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 2: when you and you so you know those towels are 334 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 2: dedicated to that thing, you wash them and you reuse them, 335 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 2: like you don't use it more than once for the 336 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 2: same like you have to watch it every time, so 337 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 2: you have like five or six. 338 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 3: My problem is, so that's good if you're in a relationship, right, 339 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 3: I don't understand that. But if you're single, is this 340 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 3: like implying like even if you have baby wips in 341 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 3: your bedside table, or like a couple of towers that 342 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 3: are real nice and clean and fluffy, is that implying 343 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 3: that they get like a lot of sex and that's 344 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 3: bad or is it better just to have a shirt 345 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 3: on hand? 346 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 2: You Like, I've never do this before. It's such a 347 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 2: great question, Like I've always even thought apparently it's such 348 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 2: a nice gesture for men to have tampons in their house. 349 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 2: But then I think, like, let's say you ask single 350 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 2: when you have a girl over you have tampons in 351 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 2: the house, and she notices, she's probably gonna think, oh, wow, 352 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 2: he's prepared that. 353 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 1: Also, she's gonna be thinking how many girls does he bring? 354 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 3: I think if you have that in your house, she's 355 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 3: thinking he's got a girlfriend. 356 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 1: True. Yeah, yeah, I. 357 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 2: Think the bare minimum is which you should should. A 358 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 2: lot of dudes don't. 359 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 1: Even have little bins in there. 360 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 2: I've never been in my room, not in your room. 361 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 2: Probably should have been in your room. But your bathroom 362 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 2: released too, oh bathroom like disposable little bit. That's a 363 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 2: little yea, yeah, yeah, one of those ones. But we 364 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 2: can do better. 365 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 1: We definitely could. 366 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 5: Okay. 367 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 2: So for the IG this week, guys, we asked you 368 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 2: to rate these dates with a yes or no answer 369 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 2: on whether or not you think they're a good date. Yeah, 370 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 2: because sometimes it is a little bit hard to know. Yeap, 371 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 2: so yeah, so we asked the Instagram, are these dates 372 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 2: good dates for a first date? 373 00:15:58,840 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? 374 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 2: All right, wine and painting. 375 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 3: Class, And I'm going to guess yes or no. One 376 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 3: you're gonna say a percentage yes, wine painting class has 377 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 3: got to be if they're drinkers, I'm gonna say yes, 378 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 3: sixty percent, seventy three percent. 379 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, they love it wine and painting. This is 380 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 2: going to give some people some good insights to what 381 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 2: to do. So yeah, we want to give tips on 382 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 2: actually some good first dates like these. Aren't that hard 383 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 2: to organize. You just have to book a class online. 384 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 2: That's it's not even five minutes of your time of 385 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 2: booking it. Yeah Google book done, done. Okay, maybe it 386 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 2: hasn't painted a positive man. 387 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 1: Pretty odd, that's heavy. Maybe don't do it all right? 388 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 1: A trivia night? 389 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 2: Okay, this is difficult because for me, I actually, to 390 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 2: be fair, I did one by accident out of the 391 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 2: club that I remember, and I remember you saying it 392 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 2: was not bad. It was actually fun, but I wasn't 393 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 2: very good at trivia. But I'm gonna say, yeah, let's 394 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 2: go to seventy percent good, fifty four percent? Yes, see 395 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 2: people said no, would have been me before, they haven't 396 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 2: done one. Yeah, so I think, yeah, this one's the 397 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 2: one that you need to try because you're not from experience. 398 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. All right, now this one the arcade. 399 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 2: Okay, this is where me and Jake differ because I 400 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 2: will say first date with girlfriend was arcade. I'm gonna 401 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 2: say no, I personally wouldn't like it as a first day. 402 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 2: There's too much stimulation going on. Okay, maybe good for 403 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:31,160 Speaker 2: this episode to go to an arcade. Maybe, but me, no, 404 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 2: sixty percent. 405 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 1: Seventy one percent. 406 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 4: Yes, really, arcade is winning. Really, and I can speak 407 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 4: from experience because here's the thing. 408 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 1: I know. 409 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 2: Competitiveness is flirty. Now I can see like I'm going 410 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:49,359 Speaker 2: to beg you. Yeah, I will say I like act 411 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:50,840 Speaker 2: because I'm not a competitive person. 412 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 1: I Seemi acted competitive. 413 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 2: But I will like to also add one more thing 414 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 2: is I didn't let her win anything, but she won 415 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 2: everything you find she like in her house. Bullshit, Y, 416 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:04,920 Speaker 2: she had experience and she worked at an arcade. 417 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:07,359 Speaker 3: Maybe all girls have experience and just want to beat boys. Yeah, 418 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:08,439 Speaker 3: maybe that's a good reason to go. 419 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 2: Okay, a drive in movie, I like it, but not 420 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:14,439 Speaker 2: a first date. I think you've got to know the 421 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:15,119 Speaker 2: person first. 422 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:17,120 Speaker 1: Sixty nine percent. 423 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 2: Yes, really, yeah, boy, they want it, they want it. 424 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 1: Maybe a lot of people want to have sex in 425 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 1: the first date, but they want it. 426 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:25,640 Speaker 2: Maybe it doesn't imply sex. 427 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:29,720 Speaker 1: And I'm overthinking it. Picnic with a little game. 428 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:33,120 Speaker 2: Ten yes, ten out of ten that was what that meant? 429 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 2: Eighty nine percent Yeah, yes, yeah, I think these have 430 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:40,200 Speaker 2: all been Yes, you can't go wrong, can't go wrong. 431 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:41,280 Speaker 1: We did come up with this. 432 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 2: We have two we have two more learn to surf 433 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 2: lesson together, so you both don't know how to surf 434 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:53,120 Speaker 2: and you're learning to surf together. This is tricky because 435 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 2: this is really good character building and shows what type 436 00:18:58,040 --> 00:18:59,159 Speaker 2: of person you are and you're happy to make a 437 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 2: fool of yourself, which is to. 438 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 3: Me, the very honorable trait. Yes me personally. Yes, I 439 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 3: know a lot of our listeners and fans aren't from 440 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:09,399 Speaker 3: Australia though, which they're back there, suck. I live in 441 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:10,399 Speaker 3: fucking Canada. 442 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 2: Seventy yes, fifty seven percent. No, they don't like surfing, mate, 443 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:19,679 Speaker 2: well a lot. 444 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 1: Of people don't. 445 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:22,679 Speaker 2: We're very beachy boys. It's a good point, like we 446 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:26,160 Speaker 2: grew up with that. Yeah, so that's been so much fun. Yeah, 447 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 2: but I see, I see that's so maybe no surf 448 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 2: classes especially suppose a lot of people can't like even 449 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 2: like swim very good. 450 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: That's actually a good point. I think it's not uncommon 451 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 1: for people that. 452 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 2: Aren't for Australia to not know how to swim, yeah, 453 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:39,159 Speaker 2: or not be very competent swimming. 454 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, very last one. 455 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:44,479 Speaker 2: The aquarium is going to set a little debate. I 456 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 2: am a big, big fan of aquarium on a first date. 457 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 2: Never done it, but the date, the first date that 458 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 2: I went on my girl friend with the arcade, we 459 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 2: actually planned to go to the aquarium but. 460 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 1: It was closed, so I didn't plan it very well. 461 00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 2: And I can say me and Jake recently went to 462 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 2: an aquarium in South Korea. We almost kissed. Yeah, so 463 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:08,479 Speaker 2: I'm going to say I reckon the GIRLI pops are 464 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:10,399 Speaker 2: against this on this, but I'm going to stand with 465 00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:10,920 Speaker 2: what I think. 466 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, eighty percent, great date, seventy two percent. 467 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:20,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, go take the girl and see some fish. 468 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:28,200 Speaker 2: How Oh that's no, that's certainly cool things to talk about, Like, wow, 469 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 2: this one's so big. 470 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 1: I know, they fucking see it's the only thing is bigger. 471 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 1: I want to find out what's really. 472 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 2: Big talking about dates, Jake, Yeah, something that happens to me, 473 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 2: especially on a first date, is my heart starts to boom, boom, 474 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 2: starts to beat. 475 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: Don't even get me started. Yes, on that feeling, I. 476 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 2: Know, it's a great feeling, it's a it is a 477 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 2: great feeling. I like to lean into it. I sometimes 478 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 2: started to lean out of it as well. 479 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:02,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 480 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 2: No, I'm a big fan of leaning into it and 481 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 2: just really being like, well, I'm here, I'm on my way, 482 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 2: I'm back out. 483 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 3: I was like maybe twenty maybe twenty one. 484 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 2: I don't know, there was I was went on a 485 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 2: date with a girl and I had to drive a 486 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 2: long way and my heart was beating because of the 487 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 2: drive was so long. A long drive makes the anticipation crazy. Yeah, 488 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 2: and like nothing against the girl, but we didn't connect 489 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,360 Speaker 2: that much. But for some reason, I normally steer clear 490 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:29,239 Speaker 2: of that feeling. But I went on a couple more 491 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:30,680 Speaker 2: dates of her because I wanted to try and deal 492 00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 2: with that feeling better. 493 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, like to go away. 494 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 3: Nah, I didn't see anymore. But now I normally get 495 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:39,000 Speaker 3: scared of that feeling. I tried to lean in and 496 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:40,160 Speaker 3: grow as a person a little. 497 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 1: Bit, and maybe you did. Maybe that was a growing point. 498 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 1: You didn't feel growing at the time. Yeah, No, I 499 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 1: think it was like, yeah, about myself. 500 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 2: I was trying to were nervous to see your girlfriend 501 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:49,480 Speaker 2: when the first time you saw her? Yeah, if I 502 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,520 Speaker 2: wast my palms were sweaty, mate, I wouldn't even wanted 503 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:53,439 Speaker 2: to touch your hands. 504 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:56,640 Speaker 1: They would have been so clammy. Holy. 505 00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 2: She was good because she like she had stuff and 506 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 2: I'm so nervous all like the first initiation. 507 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: She probably confin sense it to you. She's like, this 508 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 1: is this guy's my little beer chazy. 509 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:11,199 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, But that's besides the point. This is 510 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,680 Speaker 2: things girls do that make our heart race. 511 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 1: Okay, if I go first, I need to do two consecutive. 512 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:24,919 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gone first name Okay, things girls do that 513 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 2: make our heart race, look in our direction? Okay, going 514 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,119 Speaker 2: off that, that's a good one. Okay, Things girls do 515 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,400 Speaker 2: that make guys heart race. I was going to start 516 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 2: it off with they exist, yeah, okay, yeah, and so 517 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,160 Speaker 2: when you send them like this is these two next 518 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 2: two were just to do with them existing. When you 519 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,160 Speaker 2: send them the message like actually asking them on the date, 520 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 2: and then you kind of you get rid of the phone. 521 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and then you're your heart's racing then, and 522 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 2: she's like not even meaning to do it, yeah, true, 523 00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 2: not even something she's done. 524 00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 1: She just exists. 525 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,679 Speaker 2: She probably doesn't even see the message exactly. That's a 526 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 2: great one. And another one for where them just existing 527 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 2: was the drive to pick them up on the first 528 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 2: date nerve racket. They're not doing anything but them existing. 529 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,520 Speaker 2: I'm shipping my pants in the car on the way there. 530 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 2: I'm trying to put any song on to calm you down. 531 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 2: I spull over fifty meters up street to just like 532 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 2: tell you what, how do you feel like you pick 533 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:22,880 Speaker 2: it up or whatever. 534 00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 3: And then like first couple five minutes, he's still really 535 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:28,000 Speaker 3: nervous and heart's beitten. No, okay, I'm still a bit 536 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 3: fucking But something a little trick for girls out there 537 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,360 Speaker 3: to stop the nerves. Probably a couple of dates in obviously, yeah, 538 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:36,440 Speaker 3: because it's got to get consent to touch him and stuff. 539 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:40,919 Speaker 3: But hand back of the hair while he's driving. First date, 540 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,760 Speaker 3: you could not not not do that, not first, but 541 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:45,880 Speaker 3: like a second after you've kissed. I think, ye yah yea, yeah, 542 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:47,119 Speaker 3: yea yeah, And I loved it. I was like, oh, 543 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 3: don't feels it's kind of like a massage in a way. 544 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:50,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I know I'm a big fan of that, 545 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:52,639 Speaker 2: but it's definitely that's more of like you've got a 546 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 2: bit of what's it called rapport. Yeah, you couldn't. You 547 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 2: couldn't just get in the carameck. 548 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 1: Like your hair. So you know what, Actually, let me 549 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,120 Speaker 1: think about this. Okay, let's say let's say your hair's 550 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 1: grown a bit. 551 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 2: You gotta be a curls at the back a right, 552 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 2: and then she gets in the car. 553 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 1: You're nervous, but you hug her when you meet her 554 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. 555 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 2: And then and then when you guys get and you 556 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 2: open the car door for her obvious. And then you 557 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 2: get you go around and get the you're driving, and 558 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:19,679 Speaker 2: she goes, oh, the back of your hair, like is 559 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:21,880 Speaker 2: so cute. I love it, And she's like, touches it 560 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 2: is that weird. I don't think I would think it's 561 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:27,480 Speaker 2: weird in the moment, I'd be like, oh, thank you, Like, 562 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,440 Speaker 2: if I liked her, it's not weird. But if I didn't, 563 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,160 Speaker 2: if I didn't like a backstick, but how do you know, Yeah, 564 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:35,359 Speaker 2: you find it's in Yeah, I think you can get 565 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 2: away with it. 566 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:37,639 Speaker 3: I think, But I also think like just on the 567 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,640 Speaker 3: scheme of things you should ask for, like con set 568 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 3: like still touching someone's back of the head, can I 569 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 3: touch it? 570 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 571 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:45,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fair, fair, fair, all right. 572 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:49,200 Speaker 3: Things girls do that make our heart race seeing them 573 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:53,679 Speaker 3: in their natural habitat might be work, working out or 574 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:56,640 Speaker 3: them just being them. 575 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:58,480 Speaker 1: I don't know if that does it for me. 576 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:03,239 Speaker 2: A it's just me, I reckon. Have you ever just 577 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 2: like love a boy over partner, like just at work 578 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 2: and she's just like you know, what I will say 579 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:15,119 Speaker 2: is seeing my girlfriend at her job like being in charge. 580 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 5: Because it's like like seeing them that's like a kink, 581 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 5: but like like she like they like know all this 582 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:24,359 Speaker 5: like random ship. That's I mean, yeah, okay, okay, maybe 583 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 5: it does do for me, even like when she's just 584 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 5: at the gym and then you see her like wrapping 585 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,560 Speaker 5: out some fucking one hundred kg squads and then she 586 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 5: just rocks. 587 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 2: Over and. 588 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 1: Does the thing man. 589 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:47,120 Speaker 2: Could have got a Scott me matey. Maybe not relatable 590 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 2: for you movie are you imagining you on her back? 591 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:50,800 Speaker 1: And he squat. 592 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 2: Equality in that? Okay? Things girls do that make guys 593 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:01,920 Speaker 2: hearts race and they ask you this is like when 594 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,639 Speaker 2: you're dating, right, Yeah, when they ask you, do you know, 595 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:08,959 Speaker 2: do you notice anything different about me today? And you're like, well, 596 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 2: you know, yes, I actually do. 597 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 1: Your hair looks great. 598 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:18,120 Speaker 2: That's like I'm about to die. Heart raising, Hey, heart racing, 599 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 2: It's still racing, That's all I gotta say. You go 600 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 2: a different way. Things girls do to make guys hearts 601 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 2: race random acts of affection. Have you ever randomly grab 602 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 2: your hand or randomly give you a hug from behind 603 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 2: or randomly say I fucking love you? 604 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 1: I like the hugs from behind, big fan of the 605 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 1: hugs from behind? 606 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:36,600 Speaker 2: Me of that like, I even try to implement them 607 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,160 Speaker 2: myself after learning like girls when they must feel nicey, 608 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 2: it feels nice for me. 609 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:40,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. 610 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 2: I love a little random like kind of like, you know, 611 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 2: you look sexy today, booty squeeze. 612 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 1: I hate it when my bum gets touched. 613 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 2: I get so, Okay, this isn't really anything to do 614 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:51,360 Speaker 2: with this. 615 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 1: I just got to call make a little call out. 616 00:26:55,280 --> 00:27:00,439 Speaker 2: Speaking heart I have openly I feel like all females 617 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,000 Speaker 2: do this. Okay, this is at my golfice is targeted 618 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 2: at my girlfriend. Make it rel well, it's pretty relatable. 619 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:09,320 Speaker 2: Let me see if you relate to this. The example is, 620 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:11,880 Speaker 2: I hate it when my bum gets touched. I hate 621 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 2: it when my bum gets squeezed. She knows I hate it, alright, 622 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,680 Speaker 2: she knows. I've told her so many times. I hate 623 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 2: it when she does it. I get upset. Me getting 624 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,680 Speaker 2: upset makes her upset. I was gonna say it makes it, 625 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,200 Speaker 2: do it more, makes her upset that I got upset 626 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 2: at her, and I say then upset, Well, I just 627 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:32,920 Speaker 2: say like, I'm just like, oh, you know, I don't 628 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 2: like that. 629 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,720 Speaker 1: Please don't do that. Like it just I just stop it. 630 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:36,680 Speaker 1: I hate it so much. 631 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 2: And then she's like and then she'll be like like 632 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,760 Speaker 2: she'll they'll just be like whatever. But sometimes if she 633 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,280 Speaker 2: gets upset at me geting upset at her, I'm just 634 00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 2: kind of like, well, you. 635 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:45,359 Speaker 1: Knew I was gonna get upset. 636 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:49,399 Speaker 2: True, true, true. I was thinking, like, I reckon, you 637 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 2: should lean into it more and like freak. 638 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:53,120 Speaker 1: Her out and be like do it again. 639 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that, what are you doing? Get a 640 00:27:55,080 --> 00:28:01,920 Speaker 2: full grab? Yeah, don't be a pussy about it. Hate 641 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,440 Speaker 2: wait into a man? Who's this guy? 642 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 3: It's like, I wonder if that will work like a 643 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 3: chad thing, like yeah, give it to someone work. 644 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:09,879 Speaker 1: And you'll stop doing it all together. 645 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,520 Speaker 2: She's like, no, I didn't like that, But what if 646 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:14,680 Speaker 2: she But what if she really likes it? She just 647 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:18,159 Speaker 2: goes in it like yeah right, yeah, give me some 648 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,880 Speaker 2: of that ass, and I'd be like, fuck, I'll be done, 649 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 2: and I dug myself a hole. That's the point where 650 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:29,399 Speaker 2: you go get a BBL just take the loss. 651 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 1: I got one more this one. Okay. 652 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:38,320 Speaker 2: Things girls do they make guys hearts Race. I would 653 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 2: say it's gonna be like a few weeks in okay, 654 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 2: and they'll give you a little look. And it's also 655 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 2: kind of a way of them telling you they like 656 00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 2: you without actually telling you they like you. And they'll 657 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 2: be kind of like, look, you'll do something and you'll 658 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 2: be like and they'll say to you like like you're 659 00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 2: bad news or something like that, something along the lines 660 00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 2: of like don't hurt me, or like like they're like 661 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:03,200 Speaker 2: saying I like you, Yeah you know what I mean, Like, oh, yeah, 662 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,000 Speaker 2: you're bad news or something like that. 663 00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly so much. 664 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 2: My heart, Race, I'm all like fall in love of 665 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 2: them a bit more. But I see while you're heart. 666 00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 1: Yeah I was. I just fucking love it. 667 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, would it work with You're not sleeping with anyone 668 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 2: else else? 669 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 4: It did for me for me, and the reason it 670 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 4: worked with me was because I was like, fuck, I 671 00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 4: hope you believes me when I say no, because I'm 672 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 4: actually not. 673 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:36,960 Speaker 2: I got two more things girls do that make guys 674 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 2: hearts race sort of goes off the surfing one, the 675 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 2: surfing date. Not being afraid to make themselves look stupid. 676 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 1: Oh that's actually a good one, like. 677 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,360 Speaker 2: Beer full of himself, Like they lean into it, like 678 00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 2: they slip over or whatever, like you don't have to 679 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 2: be perfect, and no humans perfect. And when they admit 680 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 2: and like accept not being perfect, that really is a 681 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 2: big trait for me. You know. 682 00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 1: I actually I'm a fan of that one. 683 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 2: I think of that because everyone everyone makes mistakes. Yeah, 684 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 2: and my last one. Things girls do that make guys 685 00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 2: hearts race when you haven't seen him in a while 686 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 2: and like just you forget how beautiful they are and 687 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 2: they just rock, Like fuck I forgot you actually have 688 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 2: you not seen your girlfriend for a week and maybe 689 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 2: you FaceTime or you pot on the phone, and then 690 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:20,280 Speaker 2: but when you actually do go see them in a 691 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 2: person with the real proper lion the son on them, 692 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 2: and you're like, Oh, I knew you were beautiful, but I. 693 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 1: Forgot how beautiful. 694 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 2: Yes, you're that's so relatable for me. 695 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 3: It happens all the time, man, whoa, And it's just 696 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 3: like a little cherry on top it is because you 697 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,720 Speaker 3: know that beautiful and then you're just like a man, 698 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 3: I'm lucky. 699 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:38,320 Speaker 1: Facts. 700 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:44,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, but everybody, that was another episode of stimulated Stimulated. 701 00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:47,080 Speaker 2: We love you all and we'll see you next time.