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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Give us a call. If you went on a date

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Speaker 2: with somebody who pretended to be someone else completely okay,

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Speaker 2: I mean maybe you didn't even get to the date,

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Speaker 2: but you're at a bar, or you're out and about

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Speaker 2: and mingling, and somebody told you that there was something

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Speaker 2: far more impressive impressive.

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Speaker 1: Than they actually were.

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Speaker 2: Well, but in saying that you don't need to make

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Speaker 2: up stories, I think let's be honest. The best thing

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Speaker 2: you can be is yourself.

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Speaker 1: That's really boring. I was overseas and I was single

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Speaker 1: at the time with a mate, and he went to

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Speaker 1: a group of no ways, I couldn't thought that he

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Speaker 1: was single, and he sold the fame.

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Speaker 2: We called him a mate, the mate called him something else.

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Speaker 1: And he sold into a group of girls that I

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Speaker 1: was like Steve Rwin, but I instead ran a dolphin

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Speaker 1: sanctuary for baby dolphins and looked after wildlife.

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Speaker 2: Which country were you in.

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Speaker 1: We're in the US. And it worked a true.

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Speaker 2: And they thought you were a dolphin wrangler.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, that's exactly right, Jess.

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Speaker 2: Maybe does it confuse and he just was saying that

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Speaker 2: you acted like a dolphin one of those really pesty

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Speaker 2: dollars other dolphins that they should.

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Speaker 1: No, I wasn't one of those pisty dolphins.

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Speaker 3: Is it okay to put up a photo of yourself

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Speaker 3: ten years earlier?

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Speaker 1: Nope?

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Speaker 2: I think it is if it's a mistake and you

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Speaker 2: haven't got around to updating your photo.

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Speaker 3: Or come on these other radio shows around here that

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Speaker 3: you remember they used photos from.

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Speaker 1: Tom twenty years ago. That's ridiculous when you see those.

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Speaker 3: Pictures in a dating profile. There's always one photo in

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Speaker 3: your photos on your phone.

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Speaker 1: That you really rate yourself.

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Speaker 3: You go, geez, the light's really good on that one.

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Speaker 3: You know what, who cares if it's two thousand and four,

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Speaker 3: I'm putting it in there.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna fat with a red face now.

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Speaker 1: But it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: And it's always the photo. You know when your friend

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Speaker 2: thinks that they look good in a photo, because quite

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Speaker 2: often you've taken it on your phone and they keep

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Speaker 2: messaging you to send it. You know those photos we

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Speaker 2: took down in front of the you know the story

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Speaker 2: the Harbor bridge was up.

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Speaker 1: They couldn't flip.

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Speaker 2: Did you send it? And then when you don't, they like, hey,

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Speaker 2: can you send that photo.

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Speaker 1: Just a reminder when you see people on Instagram and

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Speaker 1: they have like a smile that they only do for Instagram.

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Speaker 1: The girl that used to work here, she did this

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Speaker 1: thing with her face which looked nothing like her and

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Speaker 1: it looked better than she actually doesn't realize. Oh so

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Speaker 1: she mastered what she mastered what her look was, and

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Speaker 1: then on Instagram because they talk to her, she looked

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Speaker 1: nothing like that a mask on.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: Can I get this right?

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Speaker 3: If you actually go, if you google shirt and celebrities

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Speaker 3: on red carpets, you know that there is a position

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Speaker 3: that they go to. And I'd love to ask you, Kate,

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Speaker 3: do you sort of turn to the left a little bit?

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Speaker 3: Where do you put the front foot forward?

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Speaker 1: Where?

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Speaker 3: What do you do if there's one shot that you.

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Speaker 1: Need to do?

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, Fitzy, you know that it's the walk forward,

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Speaker 2: isn't it. I mean I look great from every angle,

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Speaker 2: particularly below. No, I mean from there. I a funny

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Speaker 2: story actually when I went to the Matildas just before Christmas,

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Speaker 2: not the Matilda's, but we went to Parramatta Stadium and

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Speaker 2: the Tommy. You've got to help me out here because

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Speaker 2: you came Caitlin Ford was there Mackenzie Arnold and Alana Kennedy, right.

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Speaker 2: And so when I listened to this, when I queued

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Speaker 2: up to get my photos and autographs from the girls,

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Speaker 2: I did have a nine year old with me at

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Speaker 2: the time. When I got to Alana Kennedy, I mean

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Speaker 2: in it like just time flew and I forgot why

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Speaker 2: I was even there, and we were just chit chatting

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Speaker 2: and stuff, and then we decided to have a photo.

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Speaker 2: And as we you can tell when someone you're having

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Speaker 2: a photo with, you can tell when their side, their

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Speaker 2: best side is the same side as your side.

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Speaker 1: You do this, you do this like around your butt

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Speaker 1: like everyone side.

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Speaker 2: What I mean is everyone thinks they're being really subtle,

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Speaker 2: like shimmying their way to their side. And I and

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Speaker 2: she said, and she said to me, she said, I

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Speaker 2: gotta go on this side, a babe. I think she

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Speaker 2: probably called me, I gotta go on this side, babe.

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Speaker 1: Left.

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Speaker 2: My left side is my best son. I said, well,

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Speaker 2: that's my good side too, but that's okay, you can

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Speaker 2: have it. So check out the photos. I think they're

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Speaker 2: probably on our Instagram. I had to give you my

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Speaker 2: right side. Anyway. That was a story about Alana Kennedys

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Speaker 2: meeting right along.

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Speaker 1: We never got to the story.

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Speaker 2: We actually haven't got to the story. This whole conversation

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Speaker 2: and this story came off the back of an interview

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Speaker 2: that Drew Barrymore, who I absolutely adore. It happened to her.

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Speaker 2: I mean, they're calling it catfish, but basically someone just

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Speaker 2: pretended to be someone they weren't.

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Speaker 3: This is her.

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Speaker 4: This guy on my dating app said he was the

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Speaker 4: quarterback for the Los Angeles Rams. So I wrote to

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Speaker 4: him and I was like, oh my god. I went

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Speaker 4: to the first practice game. I was so frustrated being

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Speaker 4: a girl from Los Angeles who loves football, and like

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Speaker 4: we didn't have any teams, and then we got two

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Speaker 4: teams and it's nice to meet you.

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Speaker 2: My name is Drew.

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Speaker 4: He was not the quarterback for the La Rams. He's

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Speaker 4: a musician that thought he was being cute. I was

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Speaker 4: excited to talk about that. I had been at the

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Speaker 4: coliseum and then the guy was like, hey, Drew Ski,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, I hate yoursky.

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Speaker 1: He lied to me and then called me Drewski, I'm

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Speaker 1: not into you.

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Speaker 3: He was a musician. Because she's been out with musicians.

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Speaker 3: She went out with the drama of the Strokes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, well that's the thing. It's not that she

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Speaker 2: doesn't like musicians, it's just.

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Speaker 3: That she's just a line.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's not what he said, and you can't. I

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Speaker 2: don't think you can use it as an excuse. Oh

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Speaker 2: I thought I was being cute when basically you were

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Speaker 2: lying to get the girl to the day.

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Speaker 1: Like he used to lie and he would say he'd

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Speaker 1: be at a bar, a nightclub, and he'd say, why

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Speaker 1: don't we all go back to my place for a spa? Right,

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Speaker 1: I've got a great line. I've got a spa on

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Speaker 1: the rooftop at home. Why don't we all go back

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Speaker 1: to my place for a drink? Yeah, he didn't have

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Speaker 1: a spa or a rooftop. Not a rooftop either.

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Speaker 2: Did he have an apartment?

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Speaker 1: Yeah he did, But they'd all go back there and

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Speaker 1: go all right, where's the spa? Oh god, no I

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Speaker 1: did not, so spar I'm so crazy, So sorry.

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Speaker 2: Don't you think that if somebody is don't come back for.

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Speaker 1: A spa, that's weird in itself.

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Speaker 2: That's a red flag.

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Speaker 1: For Tom. Right, he'd be single and I would go up.

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Speaker 1: Tom would be meeting a girl and then I would

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Speaker 1: turn up and say the drinks and I'd say that,

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Speaker 1: I'd say, so she could hear, Hey mate, good to

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Speaker 1: see you. How is the charity work you did today

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Speaker 1: that would help you? Man, I'd go, oh, that's so

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Speaker 1: kind of Oh you did that today after the big

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Speaker 1: donation you made last month.

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Speaker 2: You know what's really funny when you tell these stories

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Speaker 2: about Tommy is that you act as though he needs

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Speaker 2: all the help he did, and all of the other

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Speaker 2: people out in the world know that it's that you're

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Speaker 2: the the sad friend.

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Speaker 1: Not really the sad friend. I mean I would talk

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Speaker 1: Tom up like there was no one else on the

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Speaker 1: planet like it. And he is now happily married thanks

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Speaker 1: to me. And what a hero, what.

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Speaker 2: An absolute thank you round of course.

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