WEBVTT - Forced To Sleep On The Couch! 

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<v Speaker 1>This podcast is being recorded and produced on gadiicol Land.

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<v Speaker 2>Today, always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. Oh my

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<v Speaker 2>pits are so so wet today. Is it hot in here? Well,

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<v Speaker 2>you look like you're ding batting, zoned out? What were

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<v Speaker 2>you just looking at nothing? Just zoning thinking about you?

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<v Speaker 1>Remember, because you said that your pits were sweating, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking about being sick recently and that I

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<v Speaker 1>soaked the whole bed in sweat, like in one of

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<v Speaker 1>the night sweats. And then I had to like literally

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<v Speaker 1>take all my clothes off because they were actually drenched,

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<v Speaker 1>and then put towels all down on the bed. And

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<v Speaker 1>mind you, when I was so sick, aj sleeps next

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<v Speaker 1>to me and he does not get sick.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. It's the same thing with Sky. Sky someone

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<v Speaker 2>who gets sick a lot, and I do get sick

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes more often than you, but I'm also someone who

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<v Speaker 2>like rarely gets sick, and Sky will always get sick,

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<v Speaker 2>and he goes and sleeps on the lounge because he

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't want to make me.

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<v Speaker 1>Sick, and then she should be the one volunteering to

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<v Speaker 1>sleep on the lamp.

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<v Speaker 2>No, because I'm like, sleep in the fucking bed next

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<v Speaker 2>to me. I'm not going true, get on your side

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<v Speaker 2>of the bed and sleep there, darling. I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 2>fuck off over to the lounge, and you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to either. I'm like, because I'm just someone like, if

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<v Speaker 2>it's gonna happen, it's gonna happen. You may as well unscathed.

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<v Speaker 2>But obviously Skuy's really consider it and doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 2>get me sick. But I'm like, please get me sick,

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<v Speaker 2>give me a week off work. Anyway. What was I

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<v Speaker 2>wanting to talk about in this close friends that?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, there's been a lot of chatter. There's been

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<v Speaker 2>some chatter. There's been a little bit of chatter. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know how much chatter there's been. But I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if you've heard about the catch up trap. But

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<v Speaker 2>our dear friend, friend of the pod, friend of the

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<v Speaker 2>show texted me earlier ten your hennessy, she wrote an

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<v Speaker 2>article I believe the Body and Soul originally, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not sure whether it was her thing or whether she

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<v Speaker 2>was inspired by someone, but it was titled Tanya Hannessy,

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<v Speaker 2>Are you stuck in the catch up Trap? I am?

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<v Speaker 2>And she goes on in the article to explain basically

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<v Speaker 2>that the catch up trap is when two people live

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<v Speaker 2>their lives separately and they catch up over lunch or

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<v Speaker 2>dinner or a walk or drinks, you know, every few months,

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<v Speaker 2>to tell each other about it, but they never actually

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<v Speaker 2>create new memories and experiences together.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw this too. I'll tell you the interesting thing

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<v Speaker 1>about this as well. I know we're going to unpack

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<v Speaker 1>it all and go through it, but the interesting thing

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<v Speaker 1>is that this is something that a lot of people experience,

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<v Speaker 1>like as we go into adulthood and into our thirties.

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<v Speaker 1>But why do we get caught up in this when

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of us are posting what we're doing online? Anyway?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? So true? What have you done?

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<v Speaker 1>What have been doing lately? When like, you can see

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<v Speaker 1>everything on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>But you can't see everything not everyone. So I went

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<v Speaker 2>out for lunch yesterday with my best friend who just

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<v Speaker 2>went away for I want to say, two months, and

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<v Speaker 2>obviously they were posting photos of her and her partner

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<v Speaker 2>were posting photos online, but I didn't really get to

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<v Speaker 2>hear anything, you know, And I was like, yes, we

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<v Speaker 2>saw a lot, but I asked her things like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>what was your favorite part or like what was and

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<v Speaker 2>she was like, oh, Cancun was good for this, but

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<v Speaker 2>then Bolivia was good for this, and so they were all,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you get to but you're so right, like

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<v Speaker 2>what have you been up to? Well, I guess you

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<v Speaker 2>want to know the tea though. It's really funny and

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<v Speaker 2>ironic though, because Tanya and I have this friendship that

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<v Speaker 2>she's talking about, the catch up trap. Tanya and I

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<v Speaker 2>when we go out, when we catch up, it is

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<v Speaker 2>over all.

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<v Speaker 1>We get out of this well. But I think this

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<v Speaker 1>is like you get to a certain age and you

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<v Speaker 1>no longer creating memories. You're just catching up with people.

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<v Speaker 2>So I said to the girls I went out for

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<v Speaker 2>lunch yesterday, I brought this up, and I was like, girls,

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<v Speaker 2>next time, because I look at the last twelve months

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<v Speaker 2>of catching up and these are girls that I went

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<v Speaker 2>to high school with and are still friends with. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>only friends with like three people from high school and

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<v Speaker 2>these three goals. And I said, girls, we need to

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<v Speaker 2>next time. This is going to be a lovely lunch.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to be beautiful. We went to quite a

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<v Speaker 2>nice restaurant, although the service was poor and the food

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<v Speaker 2>was average, but we were we I was like, this

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<v Speaker 2>is lovely. It's actually been a few months because we

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<v Speaker 2>haven't caught up since, like before Christmas. So happy to

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<v Speaker 2>catch up today and tell everyone about what we've been

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<v Speaker 2>up to. But next time we should make a conscious

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<v Speaker 2>decision to do something, or if we go out to

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<v Speaker 2>lunch or dinner, we do that, but then what are

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<v Speaker 2>we doing to.

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<v Speaker 1>Do something after the situations that we're putting ourselves in

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<v Speaker 1>where you are just going out for a breakfast or

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<v Speaker 1>a lunch or a cocktail, so you're just sitting and chatting, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>as opposed to doing some sort of activity.

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<v Speaker 2>I think obviously you still want to catch up. But

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<v Speaker 2>I said, next time, let's go for dinner at the

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<v Speaker 2>Star and see a musical. Because I don't think we'll

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<v Speaker 2>ever in our lives say to each other after today's lunch.

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<v Speaker 2>This is what I said to the girls. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think ever in our lives will we say remember that

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<v Speaker 2>lunch we went to. But if we had maybe gone

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<v Speaker 2>and seen a musical after it? Today yeah, we would say,

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<v Speaker 2>remember that when we saw that musical, how good that

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<v Speaker 2>musical was. We still don't talk about the lunch, but

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<v Speaker 2>at least there's something that we did that we were

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<v Speaker 2>able to talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>Our activities. Yeah, but I feel like the go to

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<v Speaker 1>now we're just so in like the fucking going out

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<v Speaker 1>for cocktails and food era. But that's all it is.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm all for activities. I'm all for activities and

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<v Speaker 1>not doing the catch up trap because as for me personally,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't stand small talk. How have you been, what's

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<v Speaker 1>been going on, how's the business gone? Do you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean? I'm happy to do it and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>sink cocktails and talk shit, but like, ugh, let's do

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<v Speaker 1>something more.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for sure. But we did a bit of a

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<v Speaker 2>brainstorm yesterday at lunch of like things we could do.

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<v Speaker 2>We were coming up with the most wild things because

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<v Speaker 2>like the next time we get together, we might go

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<v Speaker 2>and do Actua golf or go to a driving range

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<v Speaker 2>and do golf. Ashley, my best friend, she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>perhaps we play golf, and I went, no, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>going to play a whole eighteen hole golf course. Cannot

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<v Speaker 2>be bothered. But I'll do it, I'll hit the ball

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<v Speaker 2>into the water or you know, go to a driving

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<v Speaker 2>range or something. But I think golf is like a

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<v Speaker 2>big step for us as people who have never done

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<v Speaker 2>anything to go out to lunch. And you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>also am like, you know, another one of my friends

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<v Speaker 2>has two kids, and I'm like, you know, when the

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<v Speaker 2>four of us get together for lunch, Like, although you know,

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<v Speaker 2>leaving the two kids at home and coming for a

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<v Speaker 2>fabulous lunch is probably a lovely thing, I'm like, she

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<v Speaker 2>probably wants to get out as well and like, actually,

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<v Speaker 2>like do something fabulous. I'm not saying, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>Mariah listens to the podcast, and I love you, Mariah.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying all you do is sit at home

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<v Speaker 2>all day with your kids and do nothing. But I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just like those moments where we do catch up, surely

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<v Speaker 2>Mariah would be more interested in like doing a fun

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<v Speaker 2>activity than just like having a nice lunch. And so yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we're making it in our friend group a bit of

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<v Speaker 2>a thing. And thank you Tanya Hannessy and whoever you

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<v Speaker 2>were inspired by, if it wasn't you, for starting this conversation,

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<v Speaker 2>because when I think about it, that's all I do

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<v Speaker 2>with anyone. Also on the flip side of this, do

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<v Speaker 2>you find that kind of awkward going out for dinner

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<v Speaker 2>with AJ?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so I find it not awkward. Maybe isn't the

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<v Speaker 2>right word. But like, when Sky and I go out

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<v Speaker 2>to dinner, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't have anything to talk about talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know everything. What are we gonna talk about?

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<v Speaker 2>We've already told each other all the gossip from everyone

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<v Speaker 2>in our lives.

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<v Speaker 1>I get that sometimes when you sit there, like, but

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<v Speaker 1>then we always just have someone come and meet us,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we always go out with someone else. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes when we go by ourselves, I'm like, what the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck are we going to talk about? We've been talking

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four to seven our whole lives, and I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we.

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<v Speaker 2>Look maybe like a really unhappy couple, because like, sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>me and Sky will just sit there in silence. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're on a date night, but we've spoken all

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<v Speaker 2>fucking wait already. Not he has nothing else to tell me.

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<v Speaker 2>I have nothing else to tell him. We know everything

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<v Speaker 2>about each other. So then we go out on this

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<v Speaker 2>really nice get dressed up. Sometimes we will stay at

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<v Speaker 2>a nice hotel in the city as well, and really

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<v Speaker 2>make a thing out of it, and then we get

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<v Speaker 2>to dinner and we're just.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, what do we say we talk about?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you already know everything anyway, But the catch up trap, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm definitely looking forward to. So I thought we could

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<v Speaker 2>brainstorm some things together. So I've got you know, you

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<v Speaker 2>go to a musical or go and see a show

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<v Speaker 2>of some type, and then we had golf or you know,

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<v Speaker 2>your acua golf. What other things come to the top

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<v Speaker 2>of your mind that I could like do with my

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<v Speaker 2>friends or that would avoid the catch up trap, or

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<v Speaker 2>at least if you're going to go for a dinner,

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<v Speaker 2>do the dinner, do the catch up there, because also

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<v Speaker 2>you might be a bit preoccupied if you're bowling or something,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have time to actually like catch up. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm still all about having a dinner where you go,

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<v Speaker 2>what have you've been up to? Yeah, but then maybe

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<v Speaker 2>bowling afterwards. Right, we've had the catch up. Now we're

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<v Speaker 2>bowling and we're having a fun time. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>What else is there to do? Literally, what else is

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<v Speaker 1>there to do besides movies bowling?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, movies I don't like because you can't talk.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I haven't been to the movies last time. I

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<v Speaker 1>went to the movies. Was when the Barbie movie came out.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess you can't talk at the theater either, but

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<v Speaker 2>that's a different thing. Yeah, it's a whole different thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the Barbie movie. Wow, so you still haven't watched Wicked? No,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, at the times girl. But also you

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<v Speaker 2>may as well just wait now because in November part

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<v Speaker 2>two we'll be out watch both back to back. Other

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<v Speaker 2>things to do, especially in Sydney.

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<v Speaker 1>Go to a day spar together.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh now that's nice actually, big massage five with the

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<v Speaker 2>friend with the girl, the.

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<v Speaker 1>Hunter Valley, go to the Royal day spar up.

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<v Speaker 2>There a bit of wine tasting one to or just

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<v Speaker 2>because you're catching up, but you're doing a wine to do.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what this is?

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<v Speaker 1>You just go to like go to the Hunt of

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<v Speaker 1>Valley or wherever your local vineyard is, and you can

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<v Speaker 1>still go out for lunch, but go out for lunch

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<v Speaker 1>at a winery that also does wine tastings, so then

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<v Speaker 1>you can all stand around try the wines and have

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<v Speaker 1>something else to talk about, yes, other than what you've

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<v Speaker 1>been up too lately.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, this is blowing my mind. I'm going to have

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<v Speaker 2>to suggest all of these things to the girls. When

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<v Speaker 2>I get back from America, we'll be doing all of this,

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<v Speaker 2>all of these things. The Hunter Valley wine thing, ye

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<v Speaker 2>is fabulous, And I'm also happy to be so sober driver.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, yes, spit it out when you taste wine.

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<v Speaker 2>Shit. I did one and I drank the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you can do either, all right, Yeah, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we should do one, mat because you said you

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<v Speaker 1>don't like red wine.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't, so maybe I can find one.

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<v Speaker 1>I fucking love red wine. I'm actually so excited that

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<v Speaker 1>summer is coming to an end. To be fair, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been drinking red wine all through summer, but when the

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<v Speaker 1>weather's cooling down, having a red wine at night really

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<v Speaker 1>just like, yeah, it's like room temperature.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't put it in the fridge, do you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But although you can get chilled reds, and sometimes when

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<v Speaker 1>we go out for dinner, we'll order like a chilled

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<v Speaker 1>red So that's another thing why I like going out

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<v Speaker 1>for dinner with aj because we both love red and

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like an experience together, like looking at the

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<v Speaker 1>menu picking what red we want, like it just adds

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<v Speaker 1>to the dinner. So maybe you need to you and

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<v Speaker 1>Sky need to enjoy red so then you can enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>dinner together a bit more. And then after a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of reds, it's endless. A ship that you can talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>Right see sky And I don't drink, so I only

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<v Speaker 2>drink if I'm getting drunk. Do you know what I mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I won't go to.

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<v Speaker 1>Three glasses are red and your piass really? Yes, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll have one glass. Sometimes I'm a pino noir.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl to tell you have to give me a good

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<v Speaker 2>brand favorite one.

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<v Speaker 1>Also like a shoe rabs too, to be honest. And

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<v Speaker 1>I only started liking red wine maybe last year, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to say, but I liked San Gria for years,

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<v Speaker 1>has read in it?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm going to give a shout out

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<v Speaker 2>to right now? Bonalds Bay.

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<v Speaker 1>Where's that?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if it's Central Coast, but it's more

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<v Speaker 2>mora set area. Bonnles Bay, Go, Google Girl, Trinity is Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's yeah, literally two minutes Bonnles b O n n

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<v Speaker 2>E L L S. I think, yeah, Bonald's Bay. There

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<v Speaker 2>we go. So if you could just go to maps

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<v Speaker 2>for me, just maps, thank you, go Google Girl, and

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<v Speaker 2>then we're going to zoom into Bonnles Bay, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to show you the most fabulous if you scroll across. Sorry, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>keep going down and keep going down. Shout out to

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<v Speaker 2>bonals Bay, because here are the street names in Bonnles Bay.

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<v Speaker 2>We've got Reaesling Road, We've got Cemelon close, We've got

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<v Speaker 2>Merlow close.

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<v Speaker 1>The Dello Street, Sharaz Drive.

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<v Speaker 2>Where, Yeah, Theidello Street? What else? We got Bailey Street?

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<v Speaker 2>What's down here? What's near Merlow Close? Over here on

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<v Speaker 2>the in the middle. Yeah, and then what's that little

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<v Speaker 2>one there? Oh that's Merlow Close? Well, anyway, all the streets. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>how did you know that? I won't tell you used

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<v Speaker 2>to hook.

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<v Speaker 1>Up with the guy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a surprise, all right, we'll keep it a surprise.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll keep it a secret. All right. That's enough of that.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, Yeah, the hotel, Motel, Holiday.

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<v Speaker 2>Inn hold in anyway, that's really cab, like all the

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<v Speaker 2>street names are whine.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>And then they've got another part of Bonalds Bay as well,

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<v Speaker 2>which I only just saw on the map just then

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<v Speaker 2>as we were looking. And it looks like if you

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<v Speaker 2>go over to the left, keep going, keep going, keep

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<v Speaker 2>going to that retirement village sort of vibe. Keep going,

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<v Speaker 2>Ye're in there, zoom in there. They're all birds. We've

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<v Speaker 2>got Plover Place, We've got Kingfisher Streets, Seagull Street, Pelican Avenue,

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<v Speaker 2>Wow Avenue, Egret Avenue, and we've got uh what else?

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<v Speaker 2>Were there? Sandpipe of place? They're all birds?

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<v Speaker 1>What the hell goes on?

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<v Speaker 2>If you have any fun things like this, I would

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<v Speaker 2>love to know about them, Like if you know of

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<v Speaker 2>suburbs like Bonalds Bay where all the street names are

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<v Speaker 2>are a certain way for a certain reason. Let me bloody,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, because I think this is my not hyper fixation,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's just mine. It's just something that makes me

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<v Speaker 2>so fucking happy. I'm just like, that's perfect. You wish

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<v Speaker 2>areas I don't know, have a look to see, say

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<v Speaker 2>when did Bonald's Bay get created? This is Charas Drive.

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<v Speaker 2>How about we just type in a random number charads

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<v Speaker 2>drive into Google. Go Google, girl, You're right if you

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<v Speaker 2>go Bonalds Bay and then type in like Charas Drive

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<v Speaker 2>and then just think of a number off the top

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<v Speaker 2>of your head. So then click that and what year

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<v Speaker 2>was that built? Because it'll tell us two thousand and

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<v Speaker 2>three by the looks of it. Scroll down again. Scroll down,

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<v Speaker 2>scroll down, scroll down. We're on real estate dot com now.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was sold in two thousand and one. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>assuming that's the block of land were sold for ninety

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<v Speaker 2>two thousand and then in two thousand and three it's

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<v Speaker 2>sold for one hundred and fifty three thousand dollars. So

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<v Speaker 2>early two thousands, Monalds Bay came up and about, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure there's some newer houses in there now. But

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<v Speaker 2>she shout out to fucking bond Bottle's Bay. Do we

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<v Speaker 2>have any scrollers in Bondal's Bay?

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<v Speaker 1>I think I've ever been there in my life. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>Still want to go to Morrisset?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I want I have to go to Merlow Close?

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<v Speaker 2>Merlow Close, can you throw a street party and invite us?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, scrollers party in Merlow clothes? Anyway? Is this

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<v Speaker 2>a close Friend's episode? Good? We're done and dusted, then fabulous.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm ready to go and get a meat pie. Hannah's

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<v Speaker 2>shaking her head. They're still not back. I was really

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<v Speaker 2>hoping this close Friends. Yeah, I was really hoping that

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<v Speaker 2>that would just manifest that the meat pie machine was

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<v Speaker 2>back here at Do you have any food.

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<v Speaker 1>Hannah that snacks in the vending machine. No, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to make a delivery of the groceries this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not paying for it. I want just like a

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<v Speaker 2>snack draw. Is there a snackdraw? This, pretzels, you know what?

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<v Speaker 2>Downstairs though, there was one day a bowl. Sorry, i'll

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<v Speaker 2>wrap this up in one second, but there was a

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<v Speaker 2>bowl on the table full of stuff and it looked

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<v Speaker 2>like packets of chips or lollies. And I went off

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<v Speaker 2>there and I walked over to the bowl. It was

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<v Speaker 2>full of smooth FM tissue packets. Anyway, I took six,

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<v Speaker 2>so it was great. Thanks for listening, scrollers. We'll see

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<v Speaker 2>you next Tuesday.