1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: This podcast is being recorded and produced on gadiicol Land. 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 2: We pay our respects to the traditional custodians of this 3 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 2: country and elders past present. 4 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,479 Speaker 1: We extend our respect to any First Nations Aboriginal and 5 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander people joining us. 6 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 2: Today, always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. Oh my 7 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 2: pits are so so wet today. Is it hot in here? Well, 8 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 2: you look like you're ding batting, zoned out? What were 9 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 2: you just looking at nothing? Just zoning thinking about you? 10 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: Remember, because you said that your pits were sweating, and 11 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: I was thinking about being sick recently and that I 12 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: soaked the whole bed in sweat, like in one of 13 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: the night sweats. And then I had to like literally 14 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: take all my clothes off because they were actually drenched, 15 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: and then put towels all down on the bed. And 16 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: mind you, when I was so sick, aj sleeps next 17 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: to me and he does not get sick. 18 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 2: I know. It's the same thing with Sky. Sky someone 19 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 2: who gets sick a lot, and I do get sick 20 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 2: sometimes more often than you, but I'm also someone who 21 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 2: like rarely gets sick, and Sky will always get sick, 22 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 2: and he goes and sleeps on the lounge because he 23 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 2: doesn't want to make me. 24 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: Sick, and then she should be the one volunteering to 25 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: sleep on the lamp. 26 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 2: No, because I'm like, sleep in the fucking bed next 27 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 2: to me. I'm not going true, get on your side 28 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:20,639 Speaker 2: of the bed and sleep there, darling. I'm not gonna 29 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 2: fuck off over to the lounge, and you don't have 30 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 2: to either. I'm like, because I'm just someone like, if 31 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 2: it's gonna happen, it's gonna happen. You may as well unscathed. 32 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 2: But obviously Skuy's really consider it and doesn't want to 33 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 2: get me sick. But I'm like, please get me sick, 34 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 2: give me a week off work. Anyway. What was I 35 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 2: wanting to talk about in this close friends that? 36 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: Oh? 37 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, there's been a lot of chatter. There's been 38 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 2: some chatter. There's been a little bit of chatter. I 39 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 2: don't know how much chatter there's been. But I don't 40 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 2: know if you've heard about the catch up trap. But 41 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 2: our dear friend, friend of the pod, friend of the 42 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 2: show texted me earlier ten your hennessy, she wrote an 43 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 2: article I believe the Body and Soul originally, and I'm 44 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 2: not sure whether it was her thing or whether she 45 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 2: was inspired by someone, but it was titled Tanya Hannessy, 46 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 2: Are you stuck in the catch up Trap? I am? 47 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 2: And she goes on in the article to explain basically 48 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 2: that the catch up trap is when two people live 49 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 2: their lives separately and they catch up over lunch or 50 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 2: dinner or a walk or drinks, you know, every few months, 51 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 2: to tell each other about it, but they never actually 52 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 2: create new memories and experiences together. 53 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 1: I saw this too. I'll tell you the interesting thing 54 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: about this as well. I know we're going to unpack 55 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: it all and go through it, but the interesting thing 56 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: is that this is something that a lot of people experience, 57 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: like as we go into adulthood and into our thirties. 58 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: But why do we get caught up in this when 59 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: a lot of us are posting what we're doing online? Anyway? 60 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 2: Yeah? So true? What have you done? 61 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: What have been doing lately? When like, you can see 62 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 1: everything on Instagram. 63 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 2: But you can't see everything not everyone. So I went 64 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 2: out for lunch yesterday with my best friend who just 65 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 2: went away for I want to say, two months, and 66 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 2: obviously they were posting photos of her and her partner 67 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 2: were posting photos online, but I didn't really get to 68 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 2: hear anything, you know, And I was like, yes, we 69 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 2: saw a lot, but I asked her things like you know, 70 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 2: what was your favorite part or like what was and 71 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: she was like, oh, Cancun was good for this, but 72 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 2: then Bolivia was good for this, and so they were all, 73 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 2: you know, you get to but you're so right, like 74 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 2: what have you been up to? Well, I guess you 75 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 2: want to know the tea though. It's really funny and 76 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 2: ironic though, because Tanya and I have this friendship that 77 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 2: she's talking about, the catch up trap. Tanya and I 78 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 2: when we go out, when we catch up, it is 79 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 2: over all. 80 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: We get out of this well. But I think this 81 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: is like you get to a certain age and you 82 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: no longer creating memories. You're just catching up with people. 83 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 2: So I said to the girls I went out for 84 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 2: lunch yesterday, I brought this up, and I was like, girls, 85 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 2: next time, because I look at the last twelve months 86 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 2: of catching up and these are girls that I went 87 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 2: to high school with and are still friends with. I'm 88 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 2: only friends with like three people from high school and 89 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 2: these three goals. And I said, girls, we need to 90 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 2: next time. This is going to be a lovely lunch. 91 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 2: It's going to be beautiful. We went to quite a 92 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 2: nice restaurant, although the service was poor and the food 93 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 2: was average, but we were we I was like, this 94 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 2: is lovely. It's actually been a few months because we 95 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 2: haven't caught up since, like before Christmas. So happy to 96 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 2: catch up today and tell everyone about what we've been 97 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 2: up to. But next time we should make a conscious 98 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 2: decision to do something, or if we go out to 99 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 2: lunch or dinner, we do that, but then what are 100 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 2: we doing to. 101 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: Do something after the situations that we're putting ourselves in 102 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: where you are just going out for a breakfast or 103 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 1: a lunch or a cocktail, so you're just sitting and chatting, yes, 104 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 1: as opposed to doing some sort of activity. 105 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 2: I think obviously you still want to catch up. But 106 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 2: I said, next time, let's go for dinner at the 107 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 2: Star and see a musical. Because I don't think we'll 108 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 2: ever in our lives say to each other after today's lunch. 109 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 2: This is what I said to the girls. I don't 110 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 2: think ever in our lives will we say remember that 111 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 2: lunch we went to. But if we had maybe gone 112 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 2: and seen a musical after it? Today yeah, we would say, 113 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 2: remember that when we saw that musical, how good that 114 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 2: musical was. We still don't talk about the lunch, but 115 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 2: at least there's something that we did that we were 116 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:15,840 Speaker 2: able to talk about. 117 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 1: Our activities. Yeah, but I feel like the go to 118 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: now we're just so in like the fucking going out 119 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: for cocktails and food era. But that's all it is. 120 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 1: But I'm all for activities. I'm all for activities and 121 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: not doing the catch up trap because as for me personally, 122 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 1: I can't stand small talk. How have you been, what's 123 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: been going on, how's the business gone? Do you know 124 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: what I mean? I'm happy to do it and I'll 125 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: sink cocktails and talk shit, but like, ugh, let's do 126 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: something more. 127 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. But we did a bit of a 128 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 2: brainstorm yesterday at lunch of like things we could do. 129 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 2: We were coming up with the most wild things because 130 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 2: like the next time we get together, we might go 131 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 2: and do Actua golf or go to a driving range 132 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:08,919 Speaker 2: and do golf. Ashley, my best friend, she was like, 133 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 2: perhaps we play golf, and I went, no, I'm not 134 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 2: going to play a whole eighteen hole golf course. Cannot 135 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:17,239 Speaker 2: be bothered. But I'll do it, I'll hit the ball 136 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:18,919 Speaker 2: into the water or you know, go to a driving 137 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 2: range or something. But I think golf is like a 138 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 2: big step for us as people who have never done 139 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 2: anything to go out to lunch. And you know, I 140 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 2: also am like, you know, another one of my friends 141 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 2: has two kids, and I'm like, you know, when the 142 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 2: four of us get together for lunch, Like, although you know, 143 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:37,359 Speaker 2: leaving the two kids at home and coming for a 144 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 2: fabulous lunch is probably a lovely thing, I'm like, she 145 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 2: probably wants to get out as well and like, actually, 146 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 2: like do something fabulous. I'm not saying, by the way, 147 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 2: Mariah listens to the podcast, and I love you, Mariah. 148 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 2: I'm not saying all you do is sit at home 149 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 2: all day with your kids and do nothing. But I'm 150 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:53,239 Speaker 2: just like those moments where we do catch up, surely 151 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 2: Mariah would be more interested in like doing a fun 152 00:06:56,080 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 2: activity than just like having a nice lunch. And so yeah, 153 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 2: we're making it in our friend group a bit of 154 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 2: a thing. And thank you Tanya Hannessy and whoever you 155 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 2: were inspired by, if it wasn't you, for starting this conversation, 156 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 2: because when I think about it, that's all I do 157 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 2: with anyone. Also on the flip side of this, do 158 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 2: you find that kind of awkward going out for dinner 159 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 2: with AJ? 160 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: No? 161 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 2: Okay, so I find it not awkward. Maybe isn't the 162 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 2: right word. But like, when Sky and I go out 163 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 2: to dinner, I. 164 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: Don't have anything to talk about talk about. 165 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 2: I don't know everything. What are we gonna talk about? 166 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 2: We've already told each other all the gossip from everyone 167 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 2: in our lives. 168 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 1: I get that sometimes when you sit there, like, but 169 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: then we always just have someone come and meet us, 170 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: Like we always go out with someone else. Oh okay, 171 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: Sometimes when we go by ourselves, I'm like, what the 172 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: fuck are we going to talk about? We've been talking 173 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: twenty four to seven our whole lives, and I feel 174 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: like we. 175 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 2: Look maybe like a really unhappy couple, because like, sometimes 176 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 2: me and Sky will just sit there in silence. Yeah, 177 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 2: and we're on a date night, but we've spoken all 178 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 2: fucking wait already. Not he has nothing else to tell me. 179 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 2: I have nothing else to tell him. We know everything 180 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 2: about each other. So then we go out on this 181 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 2: really nice get dressed up. Sometimes we will stay at 182 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 2: a nice hotel in the city as well, and really 183 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 2: make a thing out of it, and then we get 184 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 2: to dinner and we're just. 185 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: Like, what do we say we talk about? 186 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 2: Because you already know everything anyway, But the catch up trap, Yeah, 187 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 2: I'm definitely looking forward to. So I thought we could 188 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 2: brainstorm some things together. So I've got you know, you 189 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 2: go to a musical or go and see a show 190 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 2: of some type, and then we had golf or you know, 191 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:37,079 Speaker 2: your acua golf. What other things come to the top 192 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 2: of your mind that I could like do with my 193 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 2: friends or that would avoid the catch up trap, or 194 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:45,319 Speaker 2: at least if you're going to go for a dinner, 195 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 2: do the dinner, do the catch up there, because also 196 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 2: you might be a bit preoccupied if you're bowling or something, 197 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:52,680 Speaker 2: you don't have time to actually like catch up. So 198 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 2: I'm still all about having a dinner where you go, 199 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 2: what have you've been up to? Yeah, but then maybe 200 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 2: bowling afterwards. Right, we've had the catch up. Now we're 201 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 2: bowling and we're having a fun time. Yeah. 202 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: What else is there to do? Literally, what else is 203 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: there to do besides movies bowling? 204 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, movies I don't like because you can't talk. 205 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I haven't been to the movies last time. I 206 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 1: went to the movies. Was when the Barbie movie came out. 207 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 2: I guess you can't talk at the theater either, but 208 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 2: that's a different thing. Yeah, it's a whole different thing. Yeah, 209 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 2: the Barbie movie. Wow, so you still haven't watched Wicked? No, 210 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 2: oh my god, at the times girl. But also you 211 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:26,719 Speaker 2: may as well just wait now because in November part 212 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 2: two we'll be out watch both back to back. Other 213 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 2: things to do, especially in Sydney. 214 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: Go to a day spar together. 215 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 2: Oh now that's nice actually, big massage five with the 216 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 2: friend with the girl, the. 217 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 1: Hunter Valley, go to the Royal day spar up. 218 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 2: There a bit of wine tasting one to or just 219 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:50,079 Speaker 2: because you're catching up, but you're doing a wine to do. 220 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 2: You know what this is? 221 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: You just go to like go to the Hunt of 222 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 1: Valley or wherever your local vineyard is, and you can 223 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 1: still go out for lunch, but go out for lunch 224 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 1: at a winery that also does wine tastings, so then 225 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: you can all stand around try the wines and have 226 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 1: something else to talk about, yes, other than what you've 227 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 1: been up too lately. 228 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 2: Oh, this is blowing my mind. I'm going to have 229 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 2: to suggest all of these things to the girls. When 230 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 2: I get back from America, we'll be doing all of this, 231 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 2: all of these things. The Hunter Valley wine thing, ye 232 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 2: is fabulous, And I'm also happy to be so sober driver. 233 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 1: You know, yes, spit it out when you taste wine. 234 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 2: Shit. I did one and I drank the whole time. 235 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 1: I think you can do either, all right, Yeah, oh, 236 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: maybe we should do one, mat because you said you 237 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: don't like red wine. 238 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:38,319 Speaker 2: I don't, so maybe I can find one. 239 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 1: I fucking love red wine. I'm actually so excited that 240 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 1: summer is coming to an end. To be fair, I've 241 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: been drinking red wine all through summer, but when the 242 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 1: weather's cooling down, having a red wine at night really 243 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:54,080 Speaker 1: just like, yeah, it's like room temperature. 244 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 2: You don't put it in the fridge, do you know. 245 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:58,839 Speaker 1: But although you can get chilled reds, and sometimes when 246 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 1: we go out for dinner, we'll order like a chilled 247 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 1: red So that's another thing why I like going out 248 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 1: for dinner with aj because we both love red and 249 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 1: it's just like an experience together, like looking at the 250 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 1: menu picking what red we want, like it just adds 251 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: to the dinner. So maybe you need to you and 252 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: Sky need to enjoy red so then you can enjoy 253 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: dinner together a bit more. And then after a couple 254 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: of reds, it's endless. A ship that you can talk about. 255 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 2: Right see sky And I don't drink, so I only 256 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 2: drink if I'm getting drunk. Do you know what I mean? Like, 257 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 2: I won't go to. 258 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: Three glasses are red and your piass really? Yes, Okay, 259 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:42,959 Speaker 1: we'll have one glass. Sometimes I'm a pino noir. 260 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 2: Girl to tell you have to give me a good 261 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 2: brand favorite one. 262 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: Also like a shoe rabs too, to be honest. And 263 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 1: I only started liking red wine maybe last year, I 264 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 1: want to say, but I liked San Gria for years, 265 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 1: has read in it? 266 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 2: You know what I'm going to give a shout out 267 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 2: to right now? Bonalds Bay. 268 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 1: Where's that? 269 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 2: I don't know if it's Central Coast, but it's more 270 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 2: mora set area. Bonnles Bay, Go, Google Girl, Trinity is Yeah, 271 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 2: it's yeah, literally two minutes Bonnles b O n n 272 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 2: E L L S. I think, yeah, Bonald's Bay. There 273 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 2: we go. So if you could just go to maps 274 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 2: for me, just maps, thank you, go Google Girl, and 275 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 2: then we're going to zoom into Bonnles Bay, and I'm 276 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 2: going to show you the most fabulous if you scroll across. Sorry, yeah, 277 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 2: keep going down and keep going down. Shout out to 278 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 2: bonals Bay, because here are the street names in Bonnles Bay. 279 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 2: We've got Reaesling Road, We've got Cemelon close, We've got 280 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 2: Merlow close. 281 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:56,559 Speaker 1: The Dello Street, Sharaz Drive. 282 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 2: Where, Yeah, Theidello Street? What else? We got Bailey Street? 283 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 2: What's down here? What's near Merlow Close? Over here on 284 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 2: the in the middle. Yeah, and then what's that little 285 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:15,199 Speaker 2: one there? Oh that's Merlow Close? Well, anyway, all the streets. Yeah, 286 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 2: how did you know that? I won't tell you used 287 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 2: to hook. 288 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: Up with the guy. 289 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 2: It's a surprise, all right, we'll keep it a surprise. 290 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 2: We'll keep it a secret. All right. That's enough of that. 291 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 1: But anyway, Yeah, the hotel, Motel, Holiday. 292 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 2: Inn hold in anyway, that's really cab, like all the 293 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 2: street names are whine. 294 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:39,719 Speaker 1: I love that. 295 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 2: And then they've got another part of Bonalds Bay as well, 296 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 2: which I only just saw on the map just then 297 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 2: as we were looking. And it looks like if you 298 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 2: go over to the left, keep going, keep going, keep 299 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 2: going to that retirement village sort of vibe. Keep going, 300 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:54,439 Speaker 2: Ye're in there, zoom in there. They're all birds. We've 301 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 2: got Plover Place, We've got Kingfisher Streets, Seagull Street, Pelican Avenue, 302 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 2: Wow Avenue, Egret Avenue, and we've got uh what else? 303 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 2: Were there? Sandpipe of place? They're all birds? 304 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 1: What the hell goes on? 305 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 2: If you have any fun things like this, I would 306 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:16,679 Speaker 2: love to know about them, Like if you know of 307 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 2: suburbs like Bonalds Bay where all the street names are 308 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 2: are a certain way for a certain reason. Let me bloody, 309 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 2: you know, because I think this is my not hyper fixation, 310 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 2: but it's just mine. It's just something that makes me 311 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 2: so fucking happy. I'm just like, that's perfect. You wish 312 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 2: areas I don't know, have a look to see, say 313 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:40,480 Speaker 2: when did Bonald's Bay get created? This is Charas Drive. 314 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 2: How about we just type in a random number charads 315 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 2: drive into Google. Go Google, girl, You're right if you 316 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 2: go Bonalds Bay and then type in like Charas Drive 317 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 2: and then just think of a number off the top 318 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 2: of your head. So then click that and what year 319 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 2: was that built? Because it'll tell us two thousand and 320 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 2: three by the looks of it. Scroll down again. Scroll down, 321 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 2: scroll down, scroll down. We're on real estate dot com now. 322 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 2: So it was sold in two thousand and one. I'm 323 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 2: assuming that's the block of land were sold for ninety 324 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 2: two thousand and then in two thousand and three it's 325 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 2: sold for one hundred and fifty three thousand dollars. So 326 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 2: early two thousands, Monalds Bay came up and about, and 327 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 2: I'm sure there's some newer houses in there now. But 328 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 2: she shout out to fucking bond Bottle's Bay. Do we 329 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 2: have any scrollers in Bondal's Bay? 330 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 1: I think I've ever been there in my life. Anyway, 331 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:30,000 Speaker 1: Still want to go to Morrisset? 332 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 2: Maybe I want I have to go to Merlow Close? 333 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 2: Merlow Close, can you throw a street party and invite us? 334 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 2: All right, scrollers party in Merlow clothes? Anyway? Is this 335 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 2: a close Friend's episode? Good? We're done and dusted, then fabulous. 336 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 2: I'm ready to go and get a meat pie. Hannah's 337 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 2: shaking her head. They're still not back. I was really 338 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 2: hoping this close Friends. Yeah, I was really hoping that 339 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 2: that would just manifest that the meat pie machine was 340 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 2: back here at Do you have any food. 341 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 1: Hannah that snacks in the vending machine. No, I don't 342 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 1: want to make a delivery of the groceries this morning. 343 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 2: I'm not paying for it. I want just like a 344 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 2: snack draw. Is there a snackdraw? This, pretzels, you know what? 345 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 2: Downstairs though, there was one day a bowl. Sorry, i'll 346 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 2: wrap this up in one second, but there was a 347 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 2: bowl on the table full of stuff and it looked 348 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 2: like packets of chips or lollies. And I went off 349 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 2: there and I walked over to the bowl. It was 350 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 2: full of smooth FM tissue packets. Anyway, I took six, 351 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 2: so it was great. Thanks for listening, scrollers. We'll see 352 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 2: you next Tuesday.