1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,200 Speaker 1: Thirteen, twenty four. Ten is our number? Have you been 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: a part of a secret relationship? And for how long? 3 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,319 Speaker 2: Why are we talking about secret lovers? Who's got a 4 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:11,239 Speaker 2: secret lover in here? 5 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 1: Quinn? 6 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 2: You haven't turned his microphone on? 7 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: James? 8 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 2: It was a problem. 9 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 3: Well, I'm just catching up on the news. 10 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: So who give me? 11 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 3: As I read on the run? But a promise ring, 12 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 3: that's right. A promise ring could prove crucial in what's 13 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 3: being described as an explosive inheritance battle between the wife 14 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 3: and alleged lover of a prominent football figure who died 15 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 3: back in twenty twenty three. 16 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 2: So basically, instead of an engagement ring, it's a promise ring. 17 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's something you'd roll out in high school. 18 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:52,599 Speaker 3: So they were having a romantic and sexual relationship for 19 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 3: many years, and now the promise ring is at the 20 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 3: center of a dispute. 21 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 2: Over a football player. 22 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: Promise ring will get you? Do we know he was 23 00:00:58,880 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: a football identity? 24 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 2: Do we know who? 25 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 1: We can't say? Let's go to Grace, Grace. Have you 26 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:06,320 Speaker 1: had a secret lover? 27 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 4: I had. I was dating my best friend's brother in 28 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 4: high school and it was the secret for about six months. 29 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 2: How did your best friend find out. 30 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 4: I ended up having to tell him. I felt so bad, 31 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 4: But then again his parents found. 32 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 5: Out as well. 33 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 4: My partner accidentally told him over the friend while they 34 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 4: were in Bali and they knew me. 35 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's that it's always the often not for me. 36 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 2: I never dated any of my friends brothers, but it 37 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 2: was my brother's friends that I was always chasing. 38 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: Yes, oh yes. 39 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 2: Having an older brother. It happened. 40 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: And did it go down alright? Or no? 41 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 2: Not very well? 42 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: It was bowen like you leave my group? 43 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? 44 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: Was he off you or the friend? 45 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 2: Both of us mostly me obviously. 46 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: And we're his friends pretty keen one my friends, No, 47 00:01:59,680 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 1: just won. 48 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 2: It didn't go down well. It was a family meeting. 49 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 2: Got involved in really family meeting my brother and I 50 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 2: was really, yeah, you can't tell me what to do. 51 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 2: Can you imagine my brother trying to tell me what. 52 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 6: Even if you weren't interested in the guy, you'd back 53 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 6: on with him just to annoy but probably. 54 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 2: But I was off limits for most of his mates. 55 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 2: But it was fine for him to date my friends 56 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 2: or no problem. Not that any of them wanted to 57 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 2: date him because he was feral A's Aour big brothers 58 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 2: are my god, it still stings. 59 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 1: A little bit. Yeah, a little bit, yea, the one 60 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: that got away? Perhaps thirty already four I'm talking secret relationship. 61 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 2: Nadia, Good morning. Did you have a secret lover? 62 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 5: Good morning? Yes, I certainly did. Oh tell us it 63 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 5: was my dad's housemates. 64 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:53,959 Speaker 2: Was he the same age as your dad? 65 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 5: Round? The same age as my dad? 66 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:56,919 Speaker 3: Yet? 67 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: Guessing? Guessing? He played the away game and stayed at yours? 68 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 5: No, no, no, I would wait for Dad to go 69 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 5: out and speaking. 70 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: He'd sneak in and out. Oh how long? 71 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 3: How long are we talking? 72 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 7: Now? 73 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 2: Did dad find out? Or did you break up? 74 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 5: I broke up and they didn't find out till quite 75 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 5: a few years later. 76 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: And then did he kick him out of the house? 77 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 5: No, no, he moved out like before that. So it 78 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 5: was all hash hash and it only sort of came 79 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 5: out like quite a few years later. Though. 80 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 2: Was it so lack exhilaration? 81 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, one hundred percent. It was my thirst so. 82 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 2: Well it was what her first love affair, first. 83 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 6: Fling Chantelle twenty four ten. Hello, good morning, good morning, 84 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 6: our secret lovers? 85 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: What do you got? 86 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 7: I had a relationship with the man for that I 87 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 7: worked with for sixteen years and it was a secret. 88 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 2: Why was it a secret, Chantelle? 89 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 7: Our life ccumstances? You know, we're both in a marriage 90 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 7: at the start, you. 91 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: Were both married sixteen years? Yeah, hang on, so wait 92 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 2: you were married, he was married, but you were. Were 93 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 2: you in love? 94 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 4: Yep? 95 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 1: Wow? 96 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 2: How come you didn't leave you? But like, if you 97 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 2: don't be asking. 98 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 7: I did for a completely different reason. But he didn't. 99 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: And did you ever? And it just kept going to chantel, 100 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: did you ever slip up? 101 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 3: Was there ever any sort of close calls? 102 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 7: Only one? 103 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: What happened? 104 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 7: Just the message was left out of hours, which was 105 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 7: kind of against the rules. 106 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 2: So he had rules? And did any either of your 107 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 2: partners ever find out? 108 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 7: Mine? Didn't? 109 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 2: He did? Oh? And did they stay together after that? Yep? 110 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:50,599 Speaker 7: They're still together? 111 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 2: And was that heartbreaking for you? 112 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 5: Yeah? 113 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 2: But I imagine it was more heartbreaking for his wife. 114 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 7: Oh of course. 115 00:04:59,080 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 1: Yeah. 116 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 2: Credit no, because you're in love? 117 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 5: Ye? 118 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: Sorry you were? You don't see this, fellow. 119 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 7: I don't have much contact? 120 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 1: No, no, but you still do have some? Yeah? Do 121 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 1: we still is it still on? Do we still hook up? 122 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 2: He's still in love with him? 123 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 7: Yeah? 124 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 2: Oh god? What a mess? 125 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 1: Oh that will help? Yeh. 126 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 2: Sorry, are you single? 127 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: Now write an animal song? 128 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:29,919 Speaker 2: My bad? 129 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:31,279 Speaker 1: There we go. 130 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 2: My brother's texting, Oh, yeah, here we go. 131 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 1: This is where? This is where your brother's about the review. 132 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 2: He just sent me an emoji of him flipping the burd. 133 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 5: Now. 134 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 2: I don't know if that's because I said he was 135 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 2: fall as a teenager because I dated his. 136 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 6: Mate's I Reckon Bowen would a course of damage? 137 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: No? What? 138 00:05:54,320 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, Lauren, wake up feeling good following them on the socials. 139 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. I