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Speaker 1: This is the Fits In with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Look, it can be very tricky for everybody in a

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Speaker 2: family to get to get a lot, to get along.

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Speaker 3: Do you guys have a Barnie as a family.

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Speaker 4: Do you ever argue that, No, we all get on

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Speaker 4: like a house on fire.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Look, there's always there's always something going on, and my

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Speaker 2: girlfriends and I will have a laugh and we kind

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Speaker 2: of try and one up.

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Speaker 4: One up each other. Well you wait for my story

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Speaker 4: about what happened then.

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Speaker 5: Especially when you're all in a house together away like

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Speaker 5: I could pick it. I think we take odds sometimes

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Speaker 5: on how many hours in before there's a Barnie in

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Speaker 5: the family.

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Speaker 3: Who normally starts it in Yours fits just mixed out

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Speaker 3: a niggle a bit.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Mum and dad will have a go at each

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Speaker 5: other Mama, la Dad about not doing something around the house,

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Speaker 5: and then Dad will fire up and say, well I

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Speaker 5: did this, hunter.

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Speaker 3: And what a minute.

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Speaker 2: On a lot of these arguments, though they've been going

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Speaker 2: on for twenty or thirty years, you think it's the

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Speaker 2: fire would be out of them by now. But at

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Speaker 2: least with your own family, you tend to get on

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Speaker 2: with things. Whether you're shoued or not, you do you

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Speaker 2: move on. But when it's the in laws or people

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Speaker 2: that in your heart you feel as though you shouldn't

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Speaker 2: have to deal with, they're not blood. They're either marrying

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Speaker 2: your son, and that's exactly what this story is about.

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Speaker 2: If you've got a story to match this, or whether

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Speaker 2: your family tried.

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Speaker 4: To get you to ditch your partner, give us a call.

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Speaker 2: Thirteen twenty four ten, This poor groom was marrying the

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Speaker 2: woman of his dreams, it seemed, and everyone loved her

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Speaker 2: except for the family. So they have the big, big

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Speaker 2: wedding and they actually get to the day.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 2: I don't even have any details around why they didn't

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Speaker 2: like why they I'll make a mark, so what you're

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Speaker 2: laughing at, I've got no details. So there's not much

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Speaker 2: flesh to this story.

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Speaker 3: The dad and the rest of the family thought she's

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Speaker 3: a stinker.

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Speaker 2: No, well you know what they thought. It doesn't really

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Speaker 2: matter the reason. They just thought that he could do better.

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Speaker 2: And I do think that some families feel like that

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Speaker 2: about that. Maybe he was an only son. My son

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Speaker 2: should be marrying this kind of woman. I don't know

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Speaker 2: if she was a different culture or she didn't have

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Speaker 2: the right job, or she didn't live in the.

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Speaker 3: She's from the gold coaster.

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Speaker 5: But you need to learn this is the thing. You

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Speaker 5: got to make mistakes, you've got to get your heart break.

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Speaker 3: Well.

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Speaker 2: But it's not about May's. But that's what this came

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Speaker 2: down to. I mean, look, I do think that families

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Speaker 2: and just be really rude or you know, not be

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Speaker 2: very welcoming, or try and put roadblocks in the way

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Speaker 2: of a relationship. But when when the old man is

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Speaker 2: offering the bride money to leave their son on the

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Speaker 2: wedding night, which is what happened. Everybody was waiting for

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Speaker 2: something to happen on the night.

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Speaker 3: The old man took her aside and said, I'll give

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Speaker 4: He didn't take her a sign.

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Speaker 2: And I think they had a dance, you know, when

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Speaker 2: made it to the reception. They even asked the priest

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Speaker 2: to remove the section from the ceremony that has the

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Speaker 2: priest offer to the congregation if anyone would like to

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Speaker 2: object or if you know, anyone's got a reason that

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Speaker 2: this shouldn't go ahead. They didn't think they could keep

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Speaker 2: their mouth shut that it would be overflowing. So you

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Speaker 2: know what we'll do. Let's just take that bit out.

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Speaker 2: People aren't going to be nervous about it. Mum and

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Speaker 2: is having a dance with the bride and says, and

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Speaker 2: I mean I thought there was a zero off the

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Speaker 2: end of this year.

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Speaker 5: Give us a figure here because I'd love to know.

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Speaker 2: Well, it must have been in the UK this story,

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Speaker 2: because it's only four thousand pounds.

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Speaker 3: Must have really loved him.

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Speaker 2: She didn't take the money. She didn't and you know what,

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Speaker 2: which I was not expecting. In this story, the man

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Speaker 2: stood by his wife and like supported his wife over

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Speaker 2: the mum and dad, which would have been highly humiliating

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Speaker 2: mortifying to the poor mother. You know what mums are

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Speaker 2: like with son.

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Speaker 3: I had made a similar situation to this Kate, where

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Speaker 3: he took his best friend aside and said, mat, I

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Speaker 3: know you're getting married. I just need to say this.

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Speaker 3: She's no good full stop.

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Speaker 4: Hang on, who.

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Speaker 3: Don't marry her? And he then turned to him his mate,

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Speaker 3: and said, you know what you're uninvited to the wedding,

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Speaker 3: So they then got married and stopped talking friendship over.

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Speaker 3: Seven years later they mate, could we catch up?

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Speaker 4: It's over?

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Speaker 3: You were right? No good, she's good.

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Speaker 4: But he wasn't right. Seven years.

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Speaker 2: I mean that's the average length of one. Isn't it

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Speaker 2: a marriage?

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Speaker 3: I love to know if there's been a trade like this.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's fascinating stuff.

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Speaker 4: How far did the family go to.

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Speaker 3: Get rid of the party it didn't want? He went

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Speaker 3: into it. I've got a story for it. And my

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Speaker 3: grandfather didn't like who my aunt he had married, so

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Speaker 3: he said, how much will it take? And he took

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Speaker 3: the money and check and the fake thing was they

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Speaker 3: went away. They went away for the weekend, came back

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Speaker 3: and he was gone, and she didn't know way he left.

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Speaker 3: And he even nicked the silverware on the way out

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Speaker 3: the tour.

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Speaker 5: And another beautiful woman.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, did the family ever own up to the exchange?

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Speaker 3: Tommy cut that out of any podcast or future audio collections.

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Speaker 5: Grandfather on the line, Now, how much was it? Grace

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Speaker 5: Is given us a call from Bukham Hills. Grace, did

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Speaker 5: your family tell you to? Did your partner? Oh?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, they kind of I guess. My So, my husband

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Speaker 6: and I have been together for about ten years before

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Speaker 6: we got engaged and went were engaged planning the wedding,

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Speaker 6: everything kind of just changed, I guess with the in laws,

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Speaker 6: and they just kind of wanted to try to control everything.

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Speaker 6: And so when on the wedding day, we've been together

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Speaker 6: almost twelve years to that day, and they, well, my

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Speaker 6: father in law pulled my dad aside and said, you know,

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Speaker 6: a daughter.

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Speaker 5: On the wedding day.

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Speaker 3: Did dad say, Grace?

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Speaker 6: Oh, my dad was kind of just like, well, what

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Speaker 6: do you want me to do about it?

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Speaker 4: You've had twelve years to bring this up.

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Speaker 6: Well, that's right.

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Speaker 5: What's your relationship now with him?

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Speaker 3: Grace?

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Speaker 6: Well, since then, my husband and I have had a

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Speaker 6: baby who he's almost eight months old now, and yeah,

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Speaker 6: it's at the moment we have no contact because it's

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Speaker 6: just just being constant to problem.

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Speaker 3: I think you need to get to a point where

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Speaker 3: if you realize that your kid is happy, then you

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Speaker 3: be happy.

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Speaker 5: Exactly right.

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Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much, made and possibly the best

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Speaker 3: thing I've said so far today. If your child is happy,

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Speaker 3: then you're going to be happy for your child and

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Speaker 3: be happy for the family.

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Speaker 4: But that all sounds spoke insane.

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Speaker 3: I've spoken Justin and Drew.

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Speaker 5: What happened with the in laws?

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Speaker 1: So me and well wife, I've been married for a

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Speaker 1: couple of years, we came out there will Polly. We

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Speaker 1: didn't let the in laws know about it?

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Speaker 5: Sorry?

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Speaker 3: Sorry, right you were what?

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Speaker 5: Sorry?

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Speaker 3: Justin?

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Speaker 1: Me and the wife were polyamor.

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Speaker 3: Polyamorous, so that means.

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Speaker 1: That we have another girlfriend live in the house. Uh yeah,

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Speaker 1: well we all live together. Meet the wife and a girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: We all live together. And the in laws about it? Right?

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Speaker 5: What was their reaction? Justin?

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Speaker 1: Well, because my wife's family of Stullarpearing Christians, they did

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Speaker 1: not like that idea so much that we were coronings

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Speaker 1: grandchildren because do you have children? Yeah, well me and

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Speaker 1: my wife have got a son and daughter.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 1: The in laws were like, we're not happy with this.

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Speaker 1: Did I break up with a girlfriend? We will do

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Speaker 1: everything in our power to get custody of your children.

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Speaker 3: God, they can be boring, can't they know? When you

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Speaker 3: want to have a wife and a girlfriend.

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Speaker 5: Justin, where's it all at at the moment? What's happening

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Speaker 5: at the moment. Are you all still together? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're all together, fine and happy. The white kind

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Speaker 1: of snapped on to her parents and kind of told

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Speaker 1: him to pull a head. Go on, Yeah, hey.

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Speaker 3: Justin, can I ask the sleeping arrangements? Three in the

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Speaker 3: bed can be crowded? Is that how it plays out

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Speaker 3: of it for the lounge? Right? So you're on the

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Speaker 3: lounge and the two girls sleep in your bed very well.

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Speaker 3: And when you decided to welcome someone else into the relationship,

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Speaker 3: was it your idea or how did the topic come up?

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Speaker 1: It was actually the wife's idea.

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Speaker 5: So is it one of her friends, Justin or you

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Speaker 5: this other woman?

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Speaker 1: No, it's actually our girlfriend, is our mutual friend that

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Speaker 1: we've known since primary school.

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Speaker 4: This is a oh wow. And did she have a

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Speaker 4: partner at the time when this came up?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So you said, do you have kids now, Justin?

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Speaker 5: Or do you want to have kids?

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Speaker 1: So me, the wife have children. The girlfriend doesn't want

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Speaker 1: to have children, and we're completely fine with that. She

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Speaker 1: loves our children as well.

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Speaker 4: So, mutical, how can I get a question in? And

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Speaker 4: because I've never seen the two of you clam but

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Speaker 4: to ask questions? How old you work?

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Speaker 5: Out the setup?

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Speaker 3: I know you?

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Speaker 4: Are you ever bet here? He is prick? And how

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Speaker 4: old are the children?

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Speaker 1: So our daughter is four and six?

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Speaker 2: Okay, and did they know the setup? Have you sat

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Speaker 2: down and spoken to them about it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're completely fine. They are certain days they call

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Speaker 1: her mom or call her by her nickname, which is cheeseburger.

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Speaker 3: Mac. Was taken?

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Speaker 6: Wasn't?

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Speaker 1: It's a different story back when we were younger and

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Speaker 1: we were reckless, and we got on the green a

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Speaker 1: bit and the girlfriend decided to eat twenty cheeseburgers and pusam.

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Speaker 3: Just awesome. I love Australia.

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Speaker 4: Can I ask you, and I don't know if you

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Speaker 4: can say this on air? Who do you like? Who

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Speaker 4: do you love more? Do you think? Or who do

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Speaker 4: you like more? And why? Why is that?

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Speaker 1: From a mail's point of view, any woman that could say,

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Speaker 3: Can I ask Justin? I see that, but Justin? Can

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Speaker 3: I ask Justin? I lost my question. I was trying

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Speaker 2: It's okay, we can get him back tomorrow. When you

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to establish if you want someone else purely

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Speaker 1: It's more of the happy guy, like you can have

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Speaker 1: Actually no, they're literally not.

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Speaker 3: So if you go off to the bedroom with the girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: I go as far as n CIF so yeah, pretty

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Speaker 1: and I'm just like, I'm going to the landroom.

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Speaker 5: Wow, you can understand where a family's coming from here.

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Speaker 5: But like we've said with his motivational quote before, as

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Speaker 5: your daughter is happy, that you've got to support them,

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Speaker 3: Tommy moved on from this.

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Speaker 4: I think it's tricky.

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Speaker 3: Are we're not going to ask for more polyamorous relationships?

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Speaker 3: You can do?

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Speaker 4: You have any questions left? I do because his mind

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Speaker 4: he looks bogle happened?

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Speaker 3: Did the candy man have on the gold? He had?

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Speaker 3: But they weren't serious, They were more physical.

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Speaker 5: This is the thing.

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Speaker 3: How long is it going to last?

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Speaker 1: For?

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Speaker 5: You would have to It's a fleeting thing, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: It would have to the candy man?

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Speaker 4: Or Justin?

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Speaker 2: Actually, I would like to ask Justin that Justin, how

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Speaker 1: Are going on three years?

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Speaker 4: Three years? So it is long. It's long, long term.

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Speaker 3: Do you want to introduce another one? Justin? Or is

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Speaker 5: Too much?

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Speaker 3: Do you split?

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Speaker 5: Do you split the bill three ways? Justin? Like bills

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Speaker 1: So me and the wife's work. The girlfriend looks after

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Speaker 3: Right, you don't have to pay the name? Oh really?

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Speaker 4: I mean there's a cost of living.

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Speaker 3: It's not bad, is it?

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Speaker 4: Did this happen because COVID?

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Speaker 4: You know, weren't both those rules where you couldn't see anyone?

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Speaker 3: And then you could have one friend over or something.

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Speaker 4: You can move a friend and then then before you

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Speaker 4: know it, you're all you're.

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Speaker 5: All loves in the running for Tayler Swift in Tokyo,

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Speaker 5: Live in Tokyo things. You can only take one mine,

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Speaker 5: just so You've got a huge decision if you win

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Speaker 5: that one and another girl, yeah, well we or the

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Speaker 5: look after the kids.

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