WEBVTT - HOW TO BECOME THE BEST GIFT GIVER

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<v Speaker 1>I want the fairy tale. I want the prince Charming.

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<v Speaker 2>She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of

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<v Speaker 2>my kissing style.

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<v Speaker 1>With the boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's

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<v Speaker 1>in a trash bin. He's non recyclable catching them mu.

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<v Speaker 2>I love being love. I love love.

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<v Speaker 1>On today's episode of Where's Your Head At, we are

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<v Speaker 1>celebrating the festive season.

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<v Speaker 2>Stay tuned to hear how to be the best gift

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<v Speaker 2>giver this year.

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<v Speaker 1>It's almost Christmas.

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<v Speaker 2>It's my favorite time of the year. Merry Christmas. Everyone,

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<v Speaker 2>Merry Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>Anna, Merry Christmas, Matt. Matt has kindly brought me in

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<v Speaker 1>a Christmas jumb hard to wear for this episode. We're

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<v Speaker 1>getting very festive this year at Where's Your Head At.

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<v Speaker 2>If anyone thinks that Anna's a Christmas jumper looks familiar,

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<v Speaker 2>it is mine and Kira's matching Christmas jumpers from a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of years ago. Yeah, so you've got hers on.

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<v Speaker 2>Look to be fair, we have so we have a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of Christmas equations. We go all out at my house,

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<v Speaker 2>at my mum's, we go all out and it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was a stitch up.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, as I was leaving, there's a there's a

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<v Speaker 2>tub full of all Christmas jumpers and stuff in the

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<v Speaker 2>back room and we put away each year, and I

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<v Speaker 2>just grabbed the first one and I was driving along

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, oh fuck, I've grabbed my exes.

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<v Speaker 1>One for given it to me to put on. Haven't

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<v Speaker 1>told me? And you decide to tell me now when

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<v Speaker 1>it's too late to take it off.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So that was actually the photo that the Daily

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<v Speaker 2>Mail and that used when we broke up. So a

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<v Speaker 2>bit grim to it. Otherwise, a great jumper.

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<v Speaker 1>That wasn't even mocking Matt's laugh by the way, in

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<v Speaker 1>case anyone didn't pick that up.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I love Christmas. I love it so for my

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<v Speaker 2>favorite time of the year, Christmas. In a couple of days,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very excited. I've had such a great festive season.

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<v Speaker 2>I've watched that many Christmas movies. I'm just just soaking

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<v Speaker 2>them all in. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, look before it becomes time for me to give

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<v Speaker 1>you a Christmas present. I feel like it's only fair

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<v Speaker 1>that I give you your birthday present, which is how

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<v Speaker 1>many months late? Now?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? So yeah, we were talking and I said the

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<v Speaker 2>other day that she still has my birthday gift and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, well, we're doing a gift to giving episode,

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<v Speaker 2>so perfectly give it to me on that episode. But

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<v Speaker 2>it is Christmas now, is it a joint present or

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<v Speaker 2>is it a.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's not a joint present. Oh okay, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I got you so last night it was out where's

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<v Speaker 1>your head? At Christmas party? So sorry if me and

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<v Speaker 1>that are a bit rusty. This morning, we had a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of drinks. I mean not too many, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not used to drinking. So I feel like I'm feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>A bit like if we're slopping our words and we're

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<v Speaker 2>a bit hum bear with us. We've got an coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel a little hung But anyway, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to give you this gift. It's been sitting

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<v Speaker 1>in my house. I'm sick of seeing it. Like anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I went to get the gift, find it from like

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<v Speaker 1>behind the cubwords, taking me about six miles, and I

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<v Speaker 1>realized that the card has gone missing, so who knows

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<v Speaker 1>what those words said, those beautiful handwritten words. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>just the present, cheers, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to just add that I am well, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>get into a gift giving later, but yeah, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>really awkward when I get given gifts.

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<v Speaker 1>Matt fucking hates getting gifts. He's so awkward. If you

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<v Speaker 1>don't like it, I really couldn't care less. So you

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<v Speaker 1>can just admit, yeah, this is perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>You know I love my tops, so you've got me

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<v Speaker 2>a nice guns and Roses top.

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<v Speaker 1>So I got in like a vintage tee because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like Matt loves vintage cheese. And then there was

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<v Speaker 1>like boobs on it. I feel like, this is perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>this is perfect, thank you? Why is your voice going high?

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<v Speaker 2>I get awkward. I will will chat all about that later.

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<v Speaker 2>I get really awkward getting gifts. I just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I just it wasn't a gift giving my dad's want

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<v Speaker 2>a big gift give my mum, isn't. It just wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>a thing in my house. It just wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you have that T shirt? Because I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>he has so many vintage te's that I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you might already have it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't. It's fine. That's that's perfect thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it a fit?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm sure. I told you I get awkward around

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<v Speaker 2>getting gifts. In that I.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually love how awkward is getting It's like so hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>That's great. That's actually very thoughtful gift because we were

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<v Speaker 2>always wearing new You know how much I love wearing

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<v Speaker 2>my new tops every episode I change.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, you're constantly having like these new vintage tees

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<v Speaker 1>and everyone's like commenting on them, and it's just totally

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<v Speaker 1>going over my head. So I was like, okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>need to find myself a vintage t shop and get

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<v Speaker 1>Matt a good one. The girl kind of recommended it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean the boobs on the front. There's like

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<v Speaker 1>two girls with big boobs. So I was like, sold,

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<v Speaker 1>you're very nad.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you'll definitely see this on.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe in twenty twenty three. We'll see the the gums

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<v Speaker 1>and roses into tea.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's actually really hot, isn't she. She's definitely my flavor.

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<v Speaker 2>Heck girl, thank you, an, I'll give you a hug.

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<v Speaker 2>But oh he's coming over.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, it's late.

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<v Speaker 2>That's okay, better late than ever. Well, I have gotten

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<v Speaker 2>you a Christmas gift?

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck off, mat, I haven't brought you on. Now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>behind and getting gifts. I've only just even done.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I was. I was like, you know me, I

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<v Speaker 2>love a sentimental gift, so I've gotten you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's so cute. So it is a where's your

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<v Speaker 1>head at Christmas tree decoration?

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<v Speaker 2>That's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you get that made?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? I went to the place and I didn't realize,

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<v Speaker 2>so sorry about the that's so cute. So what do

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<v Speaker 2>you call it? On the back?

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<v Speaker 1>Little Christmas tree?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Christmas trees on the back. I didn't realize they

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<v Speaker 2>were going to be there. I thought it was just

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<v Speaker 2>the color. And then they showed me with the Christmas

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<v Speaker 2>trees and I was like, like the.

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas tree like them? Yeah, I love it. Well, anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the season of giving. We've both gotten gifts and

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<v Speaker 1>we were like, fuck, it's so hard, especially because I

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<v Speaker 1>leave all of my shopping to the last minute.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you do that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I leave all of my shopping to the last minute.

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<v Speaker 1>It's atrocious.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what. Call me a psychopath, but I actually

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<v Speaker 2>enjoy going on like the Christmas Eve to the shops

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<v Speaker 2>and seeing even though I've done all my shopping before,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll still go just to see like everyone frantic and

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<v Speaker 2>I love I love the vibe of it. It's a

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<v Speaker 2>Chris like, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what, you're taking up someone's Christmas car packing swat.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, fuck, I need to get my family presents.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's just like coming for a little stroll.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'll buy stuff. Obviously there's stuff because we yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we have a big Christmas Eve celebration. But I'll go

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<v Speaker 2>like during the day and I'll just suss it out

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<v Speaker 2>and see what's going on. I love it. I love Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know what you mean. Like Christmas Eve shopping

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<v Speaker 1>is really fun because the music's play. Everyone's like hustling

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<v Speaker 1>and bustling. It just feels super excited like it's the

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<v Speaker 1>night before Christmas. Santa is coming. So you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean is it is fun. But yeah, we decided

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<v Speaker 1>that we would give you, guys, everyone at home who's listening,

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<v Speaker 1>who has not yet done their Christmas shopping, We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>give you our top gift giving list. So are we

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do that next?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? And so Christmas is in a couple of days.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you have planned this year?

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<v Speaker 1>So I am actually heading up to Mildura. Michael's sister

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<v Speaker 1>lives up there. They just had a baby, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna celebrate with his family this year. Last year we

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<v Speaker 1>celebrated with my family, so I guess we're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like doing it in turns and then we will celebrate

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<v Speaker 1>with my family on the twenty seventh. So just a

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<v Speaker 1>bit of like, you know, it's always hard with Christmas, right,

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<v Speaker 1>especially when you know you're trying to like manage different families,

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<v Speaker 1>and but yeah, we're very excited. Mill Dura is amazing

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<v Speaker 1>and it's always super warm up there, so I'm excited

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<v Speaker 1>to get some sun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah you might have a hot Christmas. We probably won't

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<v Speaker 2>down here in Melbourne.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what's your plans? Tell me?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, every year it's a tradition we do Christmas Eve

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<v Speaker 2>at my mum's. So like every one of my partners

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<v Speaker 2>that I've ever had has said it's and it made

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<v Speaker 2>like it's fun. Like we do like have a big dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>We then do like Christmas cocktails, so like, yeah, we

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<v Speaker 2>do like eggnog as well. One year, one year, I

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<v Speaker 2>bought this big bottle of like apple cider and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to make spiced apple cider, so that I

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<v Speaker 2>brought all these the seas what do you call them spices? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I put them into like the pot and like

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<v Speaker 2>strained them. It was the worst thing ever. Everyone was

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<v Speaker 2>like cold, just like struggling to drink it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was fun. And then we do like the

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<v Speaker 2>greench cocktail Christmas trees, we do like all different ones

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<v Speaker 2>that we see during the year, and we all bring

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<v Speaker 2>the ingredients for that. We do Christmas Eve with mums

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<v Speaker 2>so it freeze up the next day so we can

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<v Speaker 2>go with our partners. So like now has a partner

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<v Speaker 2>in Lara does, and we all just go to our

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<v Speaker 2>partners the next day for Christmas Day.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice. What about your poor mom? What she doing?

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<v Speaker 2>She just wants She just likes hanging out, to be honest.

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<v Speaker 2>She loves her own time. So she was probably gonna

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<v Speaker 2>hang out Christmas Day by herself. And I guess watch

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<v Speaker 2>some Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>Watch some Christmas movie, Christmas movie, Like when it gets

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<v Speaker 1>closer to Christmas, I just have to watch Love actually

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<v Speaker 1>the Night before Christmas, like The Night Before or That's

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas Movie or Home Alone. I'm like, they're just the

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<v Speaker 1>best Christmas movies. They just get me in the mood.

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<v Speaker 2>Love actually is our Christmas Eve movie? Will chuck that up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's a lot of people. It's a real

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<v Speaker 2>Christmasy movie.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really Christmasy. It feel good. Everyone finds love at

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<v Speaker 1>the end. It's like a happy ending and it's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's good. But actual Christmas Day giving gifts, Matt, you

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<v Speaker 1>said before you absolutely hate gift givings. It's surprising to

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<v Speaker 1>me that Christmas, the day of everyone exchanging gifts is

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<v Speaker 1>a day that you know, love.

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<v Speaker 2>I love like the festive thing about it, not the

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<v Speaker 2>actual gift giving. I don't know. So, Like I said before,

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<v Speaker 2>gift giving wasn't really big in my family. My dad

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<v Speaker 2>would never really give gifts. My mom. There's like a

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<v Speaker 2>there's a funny story that we're still telling this family.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I literally wrote a list, broke it down to

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<v Speaker 2>my This is probably where my chouma comes from. I wrote,

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<v Speaker 2>sorry mom for sharing this, but I broke it down,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I said, I want like wrote down which wrestler,

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<v Speaker 2>I want everyone where to get it? How much it

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<v Speaker 2>is like curd angle lot of figurine line six, like

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<v Speaker 2>telling her which what ones to get and she ended

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<v Speaker 2>up getting me a dart board. So I'm some ten

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<v Speaker 2>year old, like, what the fuck am I supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>do with this?

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<v Speaker 1>So basically you'd set your heart long crisis on getting

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<v Speaker 1>this wrestler for.

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<v Speaker 2>Multiple wrestlers, like, and I just wrote them all down,

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<v Speaker 2>which if you can't get this one, get this one.

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<v Speaker 2>If you can't do that, get this one, but this

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<v Speaker 2>one will be here so you can get this one.

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<v Speaker 1>And so she basically she couldn't get any and just

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<v Speaker 1>went for the dartboard.

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<v Speaker 2>And then there's another one. And then she says when

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<v Speaker 2>she got me a cricket bat and cricket stumps one year,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was just like, I was into cricket that year,

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<v Speaker 2>but still I didn't ask for them.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're never into Darce key point, Yeah, never dart

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<v Speaker 1>So this trauma seed was planned, yeah, but so.

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<v Speaker 2>It just never was. Gift giving was never big in

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<v Speaker 2>my family. It was like acts of services more or

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<v Speaker 2>like quality time, whereas affirmation never gift giving.

0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:26.760
<v Speaker 1>Whereas I am a big on gift giving, Like that's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely one of my love languages. I just absolutely love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I love giving gifts to people and seeing their like face,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I mean even thothough you were squirming before when

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<v Speaker 1>I gave you a birthday present, I was thoroughly enjoying myself.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, what did you reckon? It released a serotonin in

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<v Speaker 2>your brain.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because it's like you're like doing something nice for

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<v Speaker 1>someone else. So like, I love it. Funny story in

0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:50.679
<v Speaker 1>my family because we obviously love gift giving. And one

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<v Speaker 1>year when I still very much believed in Santa, what

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<v Speaker 1>like when I was younger, What.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you mean believe in Santa?

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<v Speaker 1>And I believe I believe for everyone listening to what

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<v Speaker 1>just spoil? Anyway, Basically, we had two big couches in

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<v Speaker 1>our house, and Santa would leave my brother's presence on

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<v Speaker 1>one couch and my presence on the other couch. But

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<v Speaker 1>we had this little what is it called like a

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<v Speaker 1>puffe or you know, I think pufe is like British. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so there's like a little ottoman in the middle, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a middle couch. So it's kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>no man's land, like who there was one present on

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<v Speaker 1>there and literally.

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<v Speaker 2>It's pretty cruel by Santa me, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Like we know which couches our presents are going to

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<v Speaker 1>be on and then there's just one present in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle on this ottoman and I saw it and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, that's mine. Santa left it for me. And

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<v Speaker 1>my brother's like, no, that's mine, and my parents obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know by our Santa, we're like, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>think Santa's left there for your brother. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>how would you know? You don't know what Santa was?

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<v Speaker 2>Did he tell you? This? Did tell you?

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<v Speaker 1>And my mom's like, I'm gonna have to call Santa.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you can't call him, you don't have his number.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that presence for me. I know Santa wanted

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<v Speaker 1>me to have that present. Spoiled brat alert, But I

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<v Speaker 1>honestly it's such a cool memory of mine because I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like, even though all of these beautiful presents had

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<v Speaker 1>been given to me from Santa, I was like, everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>robbing me about other present.

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<v Speaker 2>What was it in the end?

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly can't remember, but I just remember.

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<v Speaker 2>Imagine if it was like a hot wheel set or

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<v Speaker 2>like some real boy thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but anyway, hilarious. And my family always looks back

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<v Speaker 1>on that and they're like, oh my god, you were

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<v Speaker 1>so spoiled.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I mean, fair enough, if what was it?

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<v Speaker 2>Just Christmas wrapping and it had no name on it.

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<v Speaker 1>No, my parents ever did Christmas rapping, so it was

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<v Speaker 1>all just set out. Everything was laid out, so we'd

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<v Speaker 1>like come downstairs and everything was just like.

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<v Speaker 2>Not wrapped up.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 2>No, everything has to be wrapped up in our house,

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<v Speaker 2>even to the point where like we had my ex

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<v Speaker 2>brought around her Christmas gifts and it was it wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>Christmas wrapping paper, and Emma lost it and re wrapped it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it was all matching. So when you come down,

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<v Speaker 2>it's all matching. We're real stickless for Christmas our house.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Matt, So have you done any of your Christmas

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<v Speaker 1>shopping yet?

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<v Speaker 2>I've got the big chunk of it done. I've still

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<v Speaker 2>got little things here and there, to be honest, I

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<v Speaker 2>had a lot of them a while ago. Like I

0:14:30.480 --> 0:14:32.000
<v Speaker 2>stumbled on stuff a couple of months ago, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, this will be perfect for Laara, this will

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<v Speaker 2>be perfect for Emma.

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<v Speaker 1>When you do that, that's so good because when you

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<v Speaker 1>just have like a time limit of like three hours

0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:40.840
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, okay, I need to do everyone, so

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<v Speaker 1>you just end up buying people things because you're like, well,

0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:46.160
<v Speaker 1>it's this or nothing, whereas like when you do it

0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:48.280
<v Speaker 1>over a long period of time, you actually end up

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<v Speaker 1>getting more thoughtful gifts. And I mean you are thoughtful,

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<v Speaker 1>so it makes sense. So I haven't done any of

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<v Speaker 1>my Christmas shopping other than Michael's sister's baby. We got

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<v Speaker 1>him a paddling pool, which will be great for Christmas

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<v Speaker 1>Day and Mildura.

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<v Speaker 2>Getting baby stuff's pretty easy, it's cute and it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Fun baby shopping as well, for like toys.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember for my brother, my baby brother, I got

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<v Speaker 2>him a wrestling belts when he was like one year old.

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<v Speaker 2>For the first it didn't go down well, he wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing to do with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he was like not even one. He's like that's no,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like through the side.

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<v Speaker 1>But Michael and I aren't doing presents this year. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we might get like a couple of little things,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think we are gonna have our wedding in Greece,

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<v Speaker 1>yes in twenty twenty four, So I think our presence

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<v Speaker 1>to one another this year is just flights to Greece

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<v Speaker 1>next year so that we can go and like scope

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<v Speaker 1>out the wedding venue. So yeah, we're not really doing presents. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we are doing presents. We're gonna go to Greece,

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<v Speaker 1>go to Greece together, so that'll be really fun. So

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<v Speaker 1>we have something to look forward to there. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I still have Christmas presents for my mom dad.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you normally get your mum and dad?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, my dad is known to get a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of socks, just like the basic dad things that people get.

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<v Speaker 1>But I've tried to kind of go outside of the

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<v Speaker 1>box recently.

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<v Speaker 2>Shows how old I'm getting. I would love new underwear

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<v Speaker 2>and socks. Y, So if my family's listening, but I

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<v Speaker 2>am desperate for some new white Nike.

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<v Speaker 1>Socks, like some Calvin Kliines, Hugo Boss underwear like.

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<v Speaker 2>Vibe brief not trunks by the way, in case anyone's listening,

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<v Speaker 2>trunks try it up too much.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, like, look, let's talk through some gift ideas

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<v Speaker 1>for your mum and dad. So the first thing that

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<v Speaker 1>we put on the list was appliances, So things like

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<v Speaker 1>a robo vacuum, Like that is a great gift. How

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<v Speaker 1>I would love a robo vacuum.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this the little thing that goes around?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it goes around. And then your parents are not

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<v Speaker 1>going to have to actually go ahead and vacuum.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I have. I remember my exit one of them.

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<v Speaker 2>It was my notich Nemesis. I hated it, Nemesis. It

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<v Speaker 2>was just I just wasn't a fan of him.

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<v Speaker 1>But was it verse for the back? But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>who would you prefer to vacuum the robo? Or here?

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<v Speaker 2>This is true, I can go for it. Another good

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<v Speaker 2>one is air fryers. Swear by them so good.

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<v Speaker 1>See I haven't tried an air fryer, but I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it's something that I could get around.

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<v Speaker 2>Swear by it. Seriously. Turn up to two hundred and

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<v Speaker 2>fifteen minutes. Chuck your salmon in there. It's done, perfectly cooked,

0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:23.760
<v Speaker 2>perfectly cooked. Literally, it's the easiest thing I get home

0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:25.720
<v Speaker 2>from Jim. Put it in there, chuck it in, turn

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<v Speaker 2>it on, go, have a shower, time to sit down

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<v Speaker 2>and it's done.

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<v Speaker 1>And then once it's done, can you put it in

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<v Speaker 1>the dish washer?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's easy to wash my hand though.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a hand washer.

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<v Speaker 2>It's literally just like it's just with a sponge. Do

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<v Speaker 2>you know one of those things where the liquid comes

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<v Speaker 2>out of the sponge.

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<v Speaker 1>Hand the hand action that map's doing in the studio

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Not normal but OK, yeah, so like you just like yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you just wash it. It's no stress. So I swear

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<v Speaker 2>by air fryers. Get them one of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Very good gift. Another gift idea that I love, which

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<v Speaker 1>I've done from my dad before, is a photo book.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, very somal sentimental. You would love a photo book,

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<v Speaker 1>a book from anyone, whether it be me, this is

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<v Speaker 1>your mum, whoever. It is just a photo of you,

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<v Speaker 1>and lots of different.

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<v Speaker 2>We're talking about gifts were given. This is how bad

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<v Speaker 2>I am. A gift. We did a Chris Kringle with

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<v Speaker 2>my cousin's extendard family. It was when i'd just gotten

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<v Speaker 2>off Love Island. I printed off a photo of me.

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<v Speaker 2>This is because you know there's a limit like twenty

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<v Speaker 2>bucks ten bucks on Chris Kringle printed off a photo

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<v Speaker 2>of me, put it in a photo frame, signed it

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<v Speaker 2>on the back. He's a full grown blowite me the

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<v Speaker 2>same agees a little bit older, I think two years

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<v Speaker 2>older than me. On the back, dear James, keep doing,

0:18:31.760 --> 0:18:34.360
<v Speaker 2>keep doing you You're killing it mate, Love Matt from

0:18:34.400 --> 0:18:36.520
<v Speaker 2>Love Island and gave that to him and Chris Kringle

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<v Speaker 2>to my cousin's family friend cousin's boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he even watch the show?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I am mortified for you that you did. That is

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<v Speaker 1>so he was probably like, this guy's ego is fucking sky.

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<v Speaker 2>I've got a photo of it somewhere on my phone,

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<v Speaker 2>put it on the Facebook. Well they have since broken

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<v Speaker 2>up actually, so yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's definitely so a photo book.

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<v Speaker 2>It's probably worth fairbing now though, so it's silly to.

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<v Speaker 1>Throw out so a photo book. We love a photo book.

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<v Speaker 1>Another thing that we love is an experience. So you're sentimental.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you like an experience?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I experiences?

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe like a balloon ride for two, maybe like

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<v Speaker 1>going to the peninsula hotspread.

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<v Speaker 2>Tactical thing about an experiences you can be like And

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<v Speaker 2>this goes to people that are a bit like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I want to spend too much

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<v Speaker 2>money on my partner. I don't know if I want

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<v Speaker 2>to spend that much money. The money you're spending, you're

0:19:40.760 --> 0:19:43.200
<v Speaker 2>technically halfing because you're getting to do that experience.

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<v Speaker 1>You get to do it too, right. Another one is

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<v Speaker 1>movie tickets, like gold class movie tickets. I still have

0:19:49.520 --> 0:19:52.159
<v Speaker 1>two sets of movie tickets from last Christmas from my

0:19:52.200 --> 0:19:55.520
<v Speaker 1>own expiring. No, they last for two years apparently, so

0:19:55.520 --> 0:19:57.920
<v Speaker 1>they don't actually run out until twenty twenty four, which

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<v Speaker 1>is why I haven't been in a rush to use them.

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<v Speaker 1>But I it's such a good gift.

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<v Speaker 2>It's great gift.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing about gift giving is you just want people

0:20:06.119 --> 0:20:08.399
<v Speaker 1>to be able to like it or use it. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't want them to get something and be like, oh,

0:20:10.119 --> 0:20:12.359
<v Speaker 1>that's junk. I want to throw it out, or I

0:20:12.440 --> 0:20:14.680
<v Speaker 1>want to regift it to someone else because I don't

0:20:14.680 --> 0:20:15.280
<v Speaker 1>want that.

0:20:15.960 --> 0:20:22.600
<v Speaker 2>Or you definitely can't regift that ball ball. Yeah that's

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<v Speaker 2>your podcast. Why are you giving me that?

0:20:25.800 --> 0:20:30.600
<v Speaker 1>Another great one form and Dad is alcohol, chocolates, easy sake,

0:20:30.720 --> 0:20:32.840
<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah. I feel like for my dad, like

0:20:32.880 --> 0:20:35.119
<v Speaker 1>he loves great, a nice bottle of red wine. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's just a simple one. Obviously, if your parents don't drink,

0:20:37.480 --> 0:20:40.920
<v Speaker 1>you can move to alcohol. Other hampers things like that.

0:20:41.160 --> 0:20:43.920
<v Speaker 2>My dad loves chocolate, he doesn't drink, So just for

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<v Speaker 2>getting lint balls every.

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<v Speaker 1>Year, Yeah, love that. Board games, activities to do with

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<v Speaker 1>the family, things to help everyone bond on Christmas Day.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about your family, but we're beg into

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<v Speaker 1>games on Christmas Day.

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<v Speaker 2>No, like I said, we don't Christmas Day, we don't

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<v Speaker 2>really hang out. We'll just do the gifts in the morning,

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<v Speaker 2>then like go get ready to go to our partners Christmases.

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<v Speaker 2>So we don't really do much on Christmas Day together.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, But what about the Christmas evening?

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<v Speaker 2>It's more like a dinner sort of setup. So it's

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<v Speaker 2>more like you get there, there's drinks, dinner, you're around

0:21:15.720 --> 0:21:17.720
<v Speaker 2>a fire. Sometimes we'll get a fire going for it's

0:21:17.720 --> 0:21:20.400
<v Speaker 2>not too windy, just talking shit like and then watch

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<v Speaker 2>a movie at the end.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's more like Bond.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's more like that sort of time, not so

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<v Speaker 2>much games, but.

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<v Speaker 1>From me and my family. If I was to get

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<v Speaker 1>someone in my family, like a game that would go

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<v Speaker 1>down a tree and I reckon, we'd probably play it

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<v Speaker 1>on the day.

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<v Speaker 2>So options, well, that's sort of can I can agree

0:21:36.000 --> 0:21:39.720
<v Speaker 2>to that in a way that we'll do Christmas movies

0:21:39.760 --> 0:21:42.040
<v Speaker 2>up to Christmas Eve, then Christmas Day when we all

0:21:42.080 --> 0:21:44.440
<v Speaker 2>get back from our partners Christmas, if we're coming back,

0:21:44.760 --> 0:21:46.960
<v Speaker 2>we watched the movie that was gifted to us. We've

0:21:46.960 --> 0:21:50.200
<v Speaker 2>done that in the past, the DVD. Yeah, so it's

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<v Speaker 2>sort of the same as podcast back in.

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<v Speaker 1>The days of the dv I still.

0:21:53.920 --> 0:21:56.879
<v Speaker 2>Love DVD's I want Yeah, I love them. I reckon.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to get a massive movie room with just

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<v Speaker 2>all my DVDs. I probably have like a thousand.

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<v Speaker 1>You would.

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<v Speaker 2>Books is a good one, so that's easy. My mum

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<v Speaker 2>sisters love books.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know the genre that people like to read

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<v Speaker 1>as well. You can ask them the ideas of authors. Pajamas.

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<v Speaker 1>Pajamas is a great one.

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<v Speaker 2>Another great one, slippers, slippers.

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<v Speaker 1>I got both my parents matching us slippers last year

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<v Speaker 1>and it was really cute. They still have them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's very cute, like a long time so I reckon. Yeah,

0:22:30.200 --> 0:22:32.320
<v Speaker 2>pajamas is perfect. You just go in and you get

0:22:32.359 --> 0:22:36.040
<v Speaker 2>your mum's slippers. A row from Peter Alexander perfect. I

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<v Speaker 2>love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love that, or one.

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<v Speaker 2>Of those candles.

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<v Speaker 1>I love a candle. Yeah, mums love candles. Don't love them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I can't go wrong. It's a safe bet.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very safe.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. We've just given you the literally the safest guide

0:22:49.359 --> 0:22:51.520
<v Speaker 2>of what to buy presence. And if you guys suck

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<v Speaker 2>it up after listening.

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<v Speaker 1>To that, je you is okay. Next we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about what's value partner.

0:23:00.520 --> 0:23:03.520
<v Speaker 2>And every year everyone stresses about what to get their

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<v Speaker 2>partner for Christmas. It actually is it could make or

0:23:05.840 --> 0:23:09.720
<v Speaker 2>break a relationship sometimes reckon Well, if there's no if

0:23:09.800 --> 0:23:12.000
<v Speaker 2>like you're like me and you struggle with giving presents

0:23:12.040 --> 0:23:15.760
<v Speaker 2>and someone else loves receiving presents, it can be and

0:23:15.800 --> 0:23:17.680
<v Speaker 2>there's no actual I'll tell you a massive thing before

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<v Speaker 2>we get into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Set a budget, set a budget one percent. We do

0:23:22.480 --> 0:23:24.080
<v Speaker 1>it every year. I mean when I say we do

0:23:24.119 --> 0:23:26.000
<v Speaker 1>it every year. We've only had one Christmas together, but

0:23:26.080 --> 0:23:29.680
<v Speaker 1>last year we did it. And with previous partners, I've also.

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<v Speaker 2>Said I set a budget with my ex and obviously

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<v Speaker 2>we said before how her love language is gift giving,

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<v Speaker 2>so I know that she would buy it. Like literally,

0:23:37.440 --> 0:23:39.399
<v Speaker 2>I'd come home and she'd have gifts for me. She

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<v Speaker 2>just would give me gifts. She'd sit there on the

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<v Speaker 2>couch buy gifts for me.

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<v Speaker 1>What a blessed life.

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<v Speaker 2>You were leading that it was a great It was

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<v Speaker 2>a positive in an otherwise non positive relationship. I was

0:23:48.800 --> 0:23:50.879
<v Speaker 2>getting these gifts, but I feel uncomfortable, and I tell it,

0:23:50.920 --> 0:23:53.800
<v Speaker 2>I actually feel uncomfortable getting these gifts. We've expressed that

0:23:53.840 --> 0:23:56.560
<v Speaker 2>you had a partner that didn't like gifts giving either

0:23:56.720 --> 0:23:59.479
<v Speaker 2>as well. There was sort of like a thought about it, like, oh, well,

0:23:59.480 --> 0:24:01.840
<v Speaker 2>if you've gotten me this, like I need to get

0:24:01.840 --> 0:24:05.200
<v Speaker 2>you something in return. I can't accept this without giving

0:24:05.240 --> 0:24:07.760
<v Speaker 2>something back, do you know what I mean? So I

0:24:07.840 --> 0:24:10.920
<v Speaker 2>really didn't. I felt uncomfortable with that. And one Christmas,

0:24:10.960 --> 0:24:14.199
<v Speaker 2>we had a budget of I know this sounds extravagant,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was like five hundred bucks. I knew what

0:24:16.480 --> 0:24:18.639
<v Speaker 2>she was like. She went on and spent to like

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<v Speaker 2>two thousand, yeah TV, one thousand dollars, Apple, the max

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<v Speaker 2>airpro Maxes, a couple of NFL jerseys, there was a

0:24:27.280 --> 0:24:29.840
<v Speaker 2>bunch of other random stuff, and I was just sitting there.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, fuck me, Like, so, did you feel really uncomfortable

0:24:33.160 --> 0:24:35.160
<v Speaker 1>because you were like the budget was five hundred, I've

0:24:35.160 --> 0:24:37.000
<v Speaker 1>got you something at five hundred, and now I've got

0:24:37.040 --> 0:24:37.440
<v Speaker 1>all of.

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<v Speaker 2>This in literally in my family. And then my sister's

0:24:39.840 --> 0:24:43.000
<v Speaker 2>there giving her boyfriend, like I don't know, like some

0:24:43.119 --> 0:24:44.960
<v Speaker 2>new shoes that were worth a couple hundred bucks, you

0:24:44.960 --> 0:24:46.960
<v Speaker 2>know what I mean, And I'm just unwrapping this huge

0:24:47.000 --> 0:24:53.240
<v Speaker 2>TV and like, but that was her. Nothing else that

0:24:53.320 --> 0:24:55.800
<v Speaker 2>was her, Yeah, and then would buy my parents, bought

0:24:55.840 --> 0:24:58.399
<v Speaker 2>my mum like new airport and maxes as well. Like

0:24:58.760 --> 0:25:01.200
<v Speaker 2>she just would buy everyone. Bought my sister a GHD

0:25:01.440 --> 0:25:02.600
<v Speaker 2>hair strainer. That was just the way.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's the way that Isn't that sounds like a

0:25:05.200 --> 0:25:07.920
<v Speaker 1>very extensive Christmas for her? Oh my god, Yeah.

0:25:07.720 --> 0:25:09.200
<v Speaker 2>She just goes that's her personality.

0:25:09.240 --> 0:25:12.240
<v Speaker 1>Well. Look, the love language of gift giving lies with

0:25:12.280 --> 0:25:15.160
<v Speaker 1>the gesture rather than the actual value of the gift.

0:25:15.160 --> 0:25:18.840
<v Speaker 1>And I think this is something that you have sometimes

0:25:19.160 --> 0:25:21.600
<v Speaker 1>had a hard time kind of navigating because I think

0:25:21.640 --> 0:25:24.680
<v Speaker 1>you think it's more about the money than the gesture,

0:25:24.720 --> 0:25:27.359
<v Speaker 1>But it is actually about the gesture, So it's not

0:25:27.400 --> 0:25:30.879
<v Speaker 1>as materialistic or superficial as you may presume. And I

0:25:30.920 --> 0:25:34.359
<v Speaker 1>guess people who do have the love language of gift

0:25:34.400 --> 0:25:37.439
<v Speaker 1>giving at a young age retort to present gifts to

0:25:37.480 --> 0:25:40.640
<v Speaker 1>the ones they love on special occasions. So it's kind

0:25:40.680 --> 0:25:42.760
<v Speaker 1>of like this thing where it's a way to show

0:25:42.800 --> 0:25:47.119
<v Speaker 1>their appreciation, show their love. Maybe you would give expensive

0:25:47.119 --> 0:25:50.159
<v Speaker 1>gifts to maybe family members because it's a way to

0:25:50.240 --> 0:25:51.200
<v Speaker 1>try to be accepted.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I it's funny you say, because I actually had

0:25:54.240 --> 0:25:56.360
<v Speaker 2>a discussion with one of my partners in the past,

0:25:56.560 --> 0:25:59.280
<v Speaker 2>and we were talking about like this whole gift giving thing,

0:25:59.359 --> 0:26:01.800
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, I was like, well, I give gifts.

0:26:01.800 --> 0:26:03.320
<v Speaker 2>So I was like, I got you when you were

0:26:03.440 --> 0:26:05.520
<v Speaker 2>staying at mine and you said you were cold. I

0:26:05.600 --> 0:26:08.240
<v Speaker 2>bought you thermals. I bought you like a new blanket

0:26:08.280 --> 0:26:09.320
<v Speaker 2>for your side of the bed. I brought you one

0:26:09.359 --> 0:26:11.920
<v Speaker 2>of those portable heaters, and I like and I said,

0:26:11.920 --> 0:26:13.760
<v Speaker 2>there was like a bit of meaning behind that as well,

0:26:13.760 --> 0:26:15.240
<v Speaker 2>because you said you were cold the night before, you

0:26:15.280 --> 0:26:18.080
<v Speaker 2>couldn't sleep. And then she said she was like, well,

0:26:18.160 --> 0:26:20.240
<v Speaker 2>that's not a gift, that's an act of service. And

0:26:20.280 --> 0:26:22.560
<v Speaker 2>I was like, well, what determines the difference between them,

0:26:22.600 --> 0:26:26.120
<v Speaker 2>and she goes, well, she said the price, and I

0:26:26.200 --> 0:26:28.000
<v Speaker 2>was like, well, I was like okay. I was like,

0:26:28.040 --> 0:26:30.399
<v Speaker 2>your thermals cost me one hundred and twenty bucks. A

0:26:30.440 --> 0:26:33.080
<v Speaker 2>little bit more. I was like, the heater was like sixty,

0:26:33.160 --> 0:26:35.880
<v Speaker 2>so that's two hundred bucks, and then like the blanket

0:26:35.880 --> 0:26:37.440
<v Speaker 2>was like fifty dollars, so I've just spent two hundred

0:26:37.440 --> 0:26:38.080
<v Speaker 2>and fifty bucks.

0:26:38.160 --> 0:26:40.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I would say that gift gift giving.

0:26:40.600 --> 0:26:42.000
<v Speaker 2>I was like, is that now in your price? And

0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:44.000
<v Speaker 2>she's like, oh, I didn't think it would cost so much,

0:26:44.600 --> 0:26:46.320
<v Speaker 2>So I don't know, like, I think that people a

0:26:46.359 --> 0:26:48.000
<v Speaker 2>lot of people missed through that as well.

0:26:48.400 --> 0:26:49.120
<v Speaker 1>Miss true.

0:26:49.280 --> 0:26:50.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah to gift giving.

0:26:50.720 --> 0:26:52.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I think people who do have the love

0:26:52.800 --> 0:26:57.119
<v Speaker 1>language of gift giving actually see the gifts as sentimental

0:26:57.200 --> 0:27:00.520
<v Speaker 1>keep sex as opposed to material objects. So even if

0:27:00.560 --> 0:27:04.400
<v Speaker 1>it's like an expensive pair of headphones, I guess they

0:27:04.520 --> 0:27:07.880
<v Speaker 1>kind of connect those headphones to Oh my partner gave

0:27:07.880 --> 0:27:09.600
<v Speaker 1>this to me. This was a sign of love. I'm

0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:12.440
<v Speaker 1>now wearing these, I'm keeping this with me, and it

0:27:12.480 --> 0:27:15.640
<v Speaker 1>is sentimental. It's not just about the material object.

0:27:15.720 --> 0:27:17.919
<v Speaker 2>Remember when I bumped into my ex at the coffee

0:27:17.920 --> 0:27:19.320
<v Speaker 2>shop and she was going on a walk and she

0:27:19.400 --> 0:27:21.119
<v Speaker 2>had her headphones because she bought them both at the

0:27:21.160 --> 0:27:24.040
<v Speaker 2>same time. She actually acknowledged that she still had them.

0:27:24.080 --> 0:27:25.800
<v Speaker 2>Like I was like, oh, look, so maybe you're right

0:27:25.840 --> 0:27:27.920
<v Speaker 2>with that. She thought of it as like with me,

0:27:28.160 --> 0:27:28.960
<v Speaker 2>that sort of connection.

0:27:29.240 --> 0:27:32.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Absolutely, And I think even if gift giving isn't

0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:36.760
<v Speaker 1>your love language this Christmas season, you can still enjoy

0:27:37.520 --> 0:27:38.280
<v Speaker 1>the process.

0:27:38.720 --> 0:27:42.359
<v Speaker 2>Matt, I'm looking at you did the uncomfortable like, oh,

0:27:42.640 --> 0:27:44.760
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, fuddy, we were talking about gift giving.

0:27:44.840 --> 0:27:47.080
<v Speaker 2>So how awkward my dad was. Whenever he gets gifts,

0:27:47.080 --> 0:27:49.240
<v Speaker 2>he just would just go like, do this whistle, just

0:27:49.280 --> 0:27:53.239
<v Speaker 2>would go oh, I know he did every time, no

0:27:53.240 --> 0:27:55.040
<v Speaker 2>matter if you liked it, no matter if he didn't

0:27:55.080 --> 0:27:57.800
<v Speaker 2>like this. Yeah, like just we do a whistle and

0:27:57.800 --> 0:27:59.720
<v Speaker 2>as we'll just put it down. But we were not

0:28:00.080 --> 0:28:02.120
<v Speaker 2>got gifts in my family. It just wasn't And.

0:28:02.040 --> 0:28:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's like learned behavior. You saw him do a whistle,

0:28:04.560 --> 0:28:06.120
<v Speaker 1>You're like, I don't want to do the whistles. I'm

0:28:06.119 --> 0:28:07.040
<v Speaker 1>just gonna look the other.

0:28:06.960 --> 0:28:10.199
<v Speaker 2>Way, look at the ground awkwardly as I hold up

0:28:10.240 --> 0:28:12.280
<v Speaker 2>a T shirt like, oh thanks, okay.

0:28:12.040 --> 0:28:15.320
<v Speaker 1>Matt, let's talk about gifts to buy your partner. We're

0:28:15.320 --> 0:28:18.960
<v Speaker 1>going to start with a girlfriend. I personally think that

0:28:19.160 --> 0:28:20.720
<v Speaker 1>jewelry can never go wrong.

0:28:20.840 --> 0:28:23.560
<v Speaker 2>So I literally was about to argue that, oh really,

0:28:23.680 --> 0:28:26.880
<v Speaker 2>well you go to get the right color. You go, like, well,

0:28:27.080 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 2>you think if.

0:28:27.720 --> 0:28:30.240
<v Speaker 1>You're dating someone, you can work out if they're gold

0:28:30.320 --> 0:28:33.400
<v Speaker 1>or silver or rose gold at a maximum?

0:28:33.600 --> 0:28:34.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, you know what I mean.

0:28:35.000 --> 0:28:37.200
<v Speaker 1>Like, it's not it doesn't have to be too complex.

0:28:37.240 --> 0:28:39.440
<v Speaker 1>You can find out maybe a favorite brand, so maybe

0:28:39.440 --> 0:28:40.440
<v Speaker 1>it could be Tiffany and Co.

0:28:40.720 --> 0:28:40.960
<v Speaker 2>Yep.

0:28:41.240 --> 0:28:44.320
<v Speaker 1>You could have a budget set, which we've spoken about

0:28:44.320 --> 0:28:46.920
<v Speaker 1>budgets are important. Then you can go into Tiffany and Co.

0:28:47.000 --> 0:28:48.600
<v Speaker 1>And say, hey, I have a two undred dollar budget.

0:28:48.960 --> 0:28:50.680
<v Speaker 1>What can I get that's a good present?

0:28:50.720 --> 0:28:52.160
<v Speaker 2>And I reckon they'll help you. There's a lot of

0:28:52.240 --> 0:28:54.200
<v Speaker 2>guys doing that in Tiffany and Co. This year.

0:28:54.240 --> 0:28:56.800
<v Speaker 1>I reckon, Yeah, absolutely. And you know, it doesn't have

0:28:56.880 --> 0:28:59.320
<v Speaker 1>to be Tiffany and Co. It can be Pandura. It

0:28:59.320 --> 0:29:03.280
<v Speaker 1>can be whatever brand your partner likes or has maybe

0:29:03.360 --> 0:29:06.960
<v Speaker 1>verbalized to you that is, you know, well maybe even

0:29:07.040 --> 0:29:09.440
<v Speaker 1>like if they have a necklace from somewhere, you can

0:29:09.440 --> 0:29:12.240
<v Speaker 1>go back to that shop and get them something else.

0:29:12.400 --> 0:29:15.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and your girlfriend will always talk about what brand

0:29:15.080 --> 0:29:18.600
<v Speaker 2>she likes. If you're actually listening, fellas, like, actually put

0:29:18.600 --> 0:29:20.280
<v Speaker 2>in the time to listen. I know it's hard boys

0:29:20.320 --> 0:29:24.680
<v Speaker 2>to listen to everything they say, but if you just listen,

0:29:24.760 --> 0:29:25.719
<v Speaker 2>you'll probably hear it.

0:29:25.920 --> 0:29:29.760
<v Speaker 1>Okay, a Mecca and Sephora voucher cannot go wrong any

0:29:30.040 --> 0:29:34.760
<v Speaker 1>woman out there, we would love to receive a makeup voucher.

0:29:35.000 --> 0:29:37.560
<v Speaker 1>Even if you're not into makeup. You can get a fragrance,

0:29:37.640 --> 0:29:40.640
<v Speaker 1>you can get whatever. So a vouch you never goes astray,

0:29:41.200 --> 0:29:42.960
<v Speaker 1>Mecca and spa an easy wins.

0:29:42.960 --> 0:29:45.040
<v Speaker 2>And on that. I do this. I do this pretty

0:29:45.080 --> 0:29:47.720
<v Speaker 2>much every like this is just the backbone of gift giving.

0:29:48.080 --> 0:29:50.120
<v Speaker 2>Look at their perfume that they have, take a photo,

0:29:50.280 --> 0:29:52.400
<v Speaker 2>go in there and say can I grab this? Yea

0:29:52.760 --> 0:29:56.040
<v Speaker 2>easy easy, the easy gift to get for guys, to

0:29:56.040 --> 0:29:57.680
<v Speaker 2>get a girl an experience.

0:29:58.280 --> 0:30:01.120
<v Speaker 1>We love an experience. We said it with parents, you

0:30:01.160 --> 0:30:03.880
<v Speaker 1>can get your parents an experience together. Maybe you can

0:30:03.920 --> 0:30:05.560
<v Speaker 1>have an experience with your partner.

0:30:05.720 --> 0:30:07.920
<v Speaker 2>And like I said, you're literally going on the experience

0:30:07.960 --> 0:30:10.280
<v Speaker 2>as well, so you can justify however much you're spending

0:30:10.280 --> 0:30:10.520
<v Speaker 2>on it.

0:30:10.760 --> 0:30:13.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just to add on to the whole experience thing.

0:30:13.840 --> 0:30:15.760
<v Speaker 1>I feel like it would be such a good gift

0:30:15.880 --> 0:30:18.480
<v Speaker 1>if you bought your partner, like to stay at a

0:30:18.480 --> 0:30:21.040
<v Speaker 1>hotel for a night, Like don't you think that's so cute?

0:30:21.280 --> 0:30:21.800
<v Speaker 2>Staycation?

0:30:21.960 --> 0:30:25.400
<v Speaker 1>There's staycation like at a nice hotel. It's maybe two

0:30:25.480 --> 0:30:27.720
<v Speaker 1>hundred and three hundred dollars depending on where you stay.

0:30:27.920 --> 0:30:31.479
<v Speaker 1>And what a nice little memory that you can make together.

0:30:31.920 --> 0:30:35.840
<v Speaker 2>Also something sentimental, so like a book or something that's

0:30:35.840 --> 0:30:38.800
<v Speaker 2>special that you have memories together with. So jeneral I

0:30:38.920 --> 0:30:41.600
<v Speaker 2>last year, we agreed that we had a budget and

0:30:41.600 --> 0:30:45.040
<v Speaker 2>then we're going to get each other something sentimental. So finally,

0:30:45.080 --> 0:30:48.440
<v Speaker 2>this is actually such a funny story. We agreed that

0:30:48.480 --> 0:30:50.640
<v Speaker 2>every time we had a gift giving time, we'll get

0:30:50.680 --> 0:30:52.840
<v Speaker 2>each other a book. So we buy each other a book,

0:30:52.920 --> 0:30:56.160
<v Speaker 2>but then we also said we'll get ourselves something sentimental.

0:30:56.480 --> 0:30:59.720
<v Speaker 2>We literally got each other the exact same sentimental gift.

0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:03.080
<v Speaker 2>It was fucked. So the exactly so weird, exact same

0:31:03.120 --> 0:31:05.840
<v Speaker 2>photo in the exact same frame, and then a ball

0:31:05.880 --> 0:31:07.960
<v Speaker 2>ball with Jen and Matt written on it. Well, I

0:31:08.040 --> 0:31:09.920
<v Speaker 2>got Jen and Matt's first question. She got Jen and

0:31:09.960 --> 0:31:11.000
<v Speaker 2>Matt twenty twenty one.

0:31:11.320 --> 0:31:12.600
<v Speaker 1>WHOA, that's so treat.

0:31:12.720 --> 0:31:15.080
<v Speaker 2>So we were like she I could see they were

0:31:15.080 --> 0:31:16.400
<v Speaker 2>next to each other on the tree, and I was like,

0:31:16.440 --> 0:31:17.920
<v Speaker 2>I reckon, we've got the same thing. And then I

0:31:17.960 --> 0:31:20.080
<v Speaker 2>felt like the photo frame and I was like, we've

0:31:20.080 --> 0:31:22.040
<v Speaker 2>got the same photo frame? It was fuck?

0:31:22.200 --> 0:31:25.000
<v Speaker 1>Was it the same photo frame? That same photos, same color,

0:31:25.480 --> 0:31:27.320
<v Speaker 1>exact same same the same.

0:31:27.160 --> 0:31:29.600
<v Speaker 2>Photo, the exact same photo in the exact same photo frame.

0:31:30.160 --> 0:31:32.840
<v Speaker 1>Wild, that's a bit like mind blowing?

0:31:33.280 --> 0:31:35.000
<v Speaker 2>Was it was christ this morning? We were like, we

0:31:35.040 --> 0:31:36.680
<v Speaker 2>had no talk of it, nothing we just said bet

0:31:36.680 --> 0:31:42.320
<v Speaker 2>yourself something sentimental, pathological. Just on the same wave link there.

0:31:43.120 --> 0:31:48.440
<v Speaker 2>Another one is a puppy. What do you mean? I

0:31:48.440 --> 0:31:48.800
<v Speaker 2>want to?

0:31:49.200 --> 0:31:49.560
<v Speaker 1>I want to.

0:31:50.200 --> 0:31:51.840
<v Speaker 2>I want to dash out so bad.

0:31:52.440 --> 0:31:56.000
<v Speaker 1>Do not get your partner a puppy. Matt wants a puppy,

0:31:56.040 --> 0:31:57.240
<v Speaker 1>and he's projecting that.

0:31:58.400 --> 0:32:02.840
<v Speaker 2>I want a dashound? Please, I want my own hint.

0:32:03.240 --> 0:32:05.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, can imagine you walking down the street

0:32:05.200 --> 0:32:06.040
<v Speaker 1>with your little sausage?

0:32:06.360 --> 0:32:07.800
<v Speaker 2>Did I not say that to you last night?

0:32:07.840 --> 0:32:12.120
<v Speaker 1>That's what I want, Nat said his future Matt said

0:32:12.120 --> 0:32:17.680
<v Speaker 1>his future dreams encompass him walking down the street three

0:32:17.760 --> 0:32:19.240
<v Speaker 1>dashounds and.

0:32:19.440 --> 0:32:24.040
<v Speaker 2>Over spiced tea and a nice latte.

0:32:25.280 --> 0:32:27.280
<v Speaker 1>I mean, we were talking about goal setting and that's

0:32:27.280 --> 0:32:29.840
<v Speaker 1>where we went. So just just a little insight into

0:32:29.880 --> 0:32:33.160
<v Speaker 1>the conversations that Matt and I have off my.

0:32:35.680 --> 0:32:37.520
<v Speaker 2>Could you picture it now? Short shorts?

0:32:37.600 --> 0:32:39.920
<v Speaker 1>I can picture it, but do I want to picture it?

0:32:40.920 --> 0:32:45.480
<v Speaker 2>Heavy sleeveless top, the unreal iced tea, three three dashounds?

0:32:46.320 --> 0:32:48.240
<v Speaker 1>You can barely take care of yourself? How are you

0:32:48.400 --> 0:32:53.520
<v Speaker 1>to take care of one? There? From my three? Let's

0:32:53.600 --> 0:32:58.960
<v Speaker 1>move on to boyfriend? What shall people buy their boyfriends? Matt?

0:32:59.000 --> 0:33:01.240
<v Speaker 1>We need some help. What do guys want.

0:33:02.680 --> 0:33:04.040
<v Speaker 2>They just want peace and quiet.

0:33:06.480 --> 0:33:08.000
<v Speaker 1>He's gone morbid real quick.

0:33:08.520 --> 0:33:10.920
<v Speaker 2>No cologne, that's so good.

0:33:11.000 --> 0:33:11.880
<v Speaker 1>I love a cologne.

0:33:12.040 --> 0:33:14.719
<v Speaker 2>And if they're a male like me, and you respect

0:33:14.760 --> 0:33:16.320
<v Speaker 2>your skin and good skin care.

0:33:16.480 --> 0:33:18.360
<v Speaker 1>As well, I feel like as well, like correct me

0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:20.800
<v Speaker 1>if I'm wrong. Guys aren't like super picky with cologne.

0:33:20.840 --> 0:33:23.840
<v Speaker 1>Like if you got them like a totally random cologne

0:33:23.840 --> 0:33:26.520
<v Speaker 1>that you like and give it to them, they won't.

0:33:26.240 --> 0:33:28.160
<v Speaker 2>Mind, right, Yeah, I wouldn't care.

0:33:28.360 --> 0:33:31.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're just happy to get a clan. So, ladies,

0:33:31.280 --> 0:33:35.880
<v Speaker 1>you can literally go to Chemis's warehouse or go to

0:33:36.000 --> 0:33:39.560
<v Speaker 1>Maya or wherever you get your colognes from literally find

0:33:39.680 --> 0:33:42.320
<v Speaker 1>the best cologne that you like, which is like, I mean,

0:33:42.400 --> 0:33:44.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't know about you, guys, but cologne. It turns

0:33:44.440 --> 0:33:46.760
<v Speaker 1>me on, like a good cologne on a man hot.

0:33:47.000 --> 0:33:49.880
<v Speaker 1>So you can literally pick it out and then give

0:33:49.920 --> 0:33:52.080
<v Speaker 1>it to him and then he'll be smelling delicious. It's

0:33:52.080 --> 0:33:52.640
<v Speaker 1>a win win.

0:33:52.840 --> 0:33:55.280
<v Speaker 2>What one would be your favorite you recommend for these girls?

0:33:55.320 --> 0:33:59.040
<v Speaker 1>I love Savage. I've always loved Savage for a very

0:33:59.080 --> 0:34:02.440
<v Speaker 1>long time. It's such a boy smell boy smell.

0:34:02.520 --> 0:34:07.760
<v Speaker 2>I mean, well between that blue I love and the

0:34:07.800 --> 0:34:08.799
<v Speaker 2>one million.

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:14.439
<v Speaker 1>One, the rob like that one, the pay they're a boy. Yeah,

0:34:14.640 --> 0:34:16.080
<v Speaker 1>I do love the Channel Blue.

0:34:16.120 --> 0:34:17.920
<v Speaker 2>That's fucking that's I've got.

0:34:18.920 --> 0:34:19.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love that.

0:34:19.840 --> 0:34:22.399
<v Speaker 2>I love it just reminds me, I think I spoke.

0:34:22.680 --> 0:34:26.040
<v Speaker 2>It just reminds me of long nights, you know, and

0:34:26.320 --> 0:34:27.680
<v Speaker 2>then I smell it now I'm like.

0:34:29.800 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he probably like showered yourself in it before.

0:34:34.480 --> 0:34:40.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, A good one as well. Would be experiences. We've

0:34:40.280 --> 0:34:42.239
<v Speaker 2>said that before. What would a guy like to do?

0:34:42.880 --> 0:34:46.680
<v Speaker 2>Maybe not so like hot air ballooon, Maybe like skydiving

0:34:46.719 --> 0:34:49.120
<v Speaker 2>would be fun. If they're into that, they're into that.

0:34:49.280 --> 0:34:52.520
<v Speaker 1>Read the room. If they heights, don't take them skydiving.

0:34:52.640 --> 0:34:55.600
<v Speaker 2>I got an ex a couple of years ago horseback

0:34:55.640 --> 0:34:56.719
<v Speaker 2>riding through wineries.

0:34:56.960 --> 0:35:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's really cute. I would personally love that, Micael,

0:35:00.040 --> 0:35:03.000
<v Speaker 1>if you're listening.

0:35:00.920 --> 0:35:04.400
<v Speaker 2>No, don't do it. Something like that's a good experience

0:35:04.440 --> 0:35:06.000
<v Speaker 2>to get them. And then like you go down to

0:35:06.000 --> 0:35:08.560
<v Speaker 2>the peninsula and then I've got us an AIRBNBF voucher

0:35:08.640 --> 0:35:09.919
<v Speaker 2>for something down there at the same time.

0:35:10.120 --> 0:35:13.000
<v Speaker 1>You see, that's nice. I really love that.

0:35:13.320 --> 0:35:15.319
<v Speaker 2>Stuff like that is good, something that they have a

0:35:15.320 --> 0:35:17.440
<v Speaker 2>hobby with. So it might be like a golfer. They

0:35:17.520 --> 0:35:20.160
<v Speaker 2>might be doing boxing, they might I don't play footy.

0:35:20.160 --> 0:35:21.680
<v Speaker 2>You get them a new pair of boots, a new

0:35:21.719 --> 0:35:24.280
<v Speaker 2>pair of like like that. Yeah, golf clubs.

0:35:24.400 --> 0:35:26.719
<v Speaker 1>But if they're into a sport, maybe like if they're

0:35:26.760 --> 0:35:29.720
<v Speaker 1>into tennis, maybe get them a new racket. Yeah, rackets

0:35:29.719 --> 0:35:32.719
<v Speaker 1>are quite like personal though maybe not a racket a.

0:35:32.760 --> 0:35:35.719
<v Speaker 2>Voucher then to go, that's life, so easy to do that.

0:35:35.360 --> 0:35:37.600
<v Speaker 1>So maybe you could get them a new outfit to wear.

0:35:37.840 --> 0:35:39.120
<v Speaker 1>This is WHI playing tennis.

0:35:39.200 --> 0:35:40.680
<v Speaker 2>This is true, well, and that would go to the

0:35:40.719 --> 0:35:43.120
<v Speaker 2>next one. Obviously, get them a new shirt, a new

0:35:43.280 --> 0:35:45.480
<v Speaker 2>like let's be honest. Or your girls want to address

0:35:45.520 --> 0:35:48.320
<v Speaker 2>your boyfriend, you don't we style, you don't like their fashion,

0:35:48.320 --> 0:35:52.239
<v Speaker 2>they need your advice. I'm literally watching my sister Emma

0:35:52.360 --> 0:35:56.279
<v Speaker 2>do that to her boyfriend right now, literally restyle the kid.

0:35:57.000 --> 0:35:59.040
<v Speaker 1>He's literally restyled the kid.

0:36:00.960 --> 0:36:04.040
<v Speaker 2>Literally was asking me, like, we're investigate Calvin clients from

0:36:04.080 --> 0:36:06.520
<v Speaker 2>all this sort of stuff. She actually said the other day,

0:36:06.520 --> 0:36:09.279
<v Speaker 2>because I give her a lot of MIC's clothes that

0:36:09.400 --> 0:36:11.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't want anyone like my, like, you know, expensive ones,

0:36:11.719 --> 0:36:13.680
<v Speaker 2>I say, before I will sell them, I'll take them

0:36:13.680 --> 0:36:15.280
<v Speaker 2>to the market or whatever I say, do you want them?

0:36:15.640 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 2>And then I actually said to her, I'm not giving

0:36:18.160 --> 0:36:21.239
<v Speaker 2>you for you to give to your boyfriend, like like

0:36:21.560 --> 0:36:23.440
<v Speaker 2>old Salem before, like you know what I mean, Like

0:36:23.520 --> 0:36:25.600
<v Speaker 2>I could make like you know, like fifty.

0:36:25.280 --> 0:36:27.200
<v Speaker 1>Barks, I could make twenty bucks, well like.

0:36:27.200 --> 0:36:29.399
<v Speaker 2>One hundred and fifty dollars shirt, like I could make

0:36:29.440 --> 0:36:31.759
<v Speaker 2>my money, you know. And then she was like, yeah, well,

0:36:32.040 --> 0:36:33.239
<v Speaker 2>he need your new clothes, like can you give me

0:36:33.320 --> 0:36:34.960
<v Speaker 2>some advice? So I gave her some advice and she's like, fun,

0:36:35.040 --> 0:36:36.919
<v Speaker 2>I didn't realize how expensive it is. And I'm like, yeah,

0:36:37.120 --> 0:36:37.760
<v Speaker 2>remember when.

0:36:37.640 --> 0:36:39.359
<v Speaker 1>I did a wardrobe clear out and I gave all

0:36:39.400 --> 0:36:41.640
<v Speaker 1>of my stuff to your sister. I do remember that

0:36:41.880 --> 0:36:44.680
<v Speaker 1>was literally like three huge bin bags of clothes and

0:36:44.719 --> 0:36:47.080
<v Speaker 1>she was like dragging them out of my apartment.

0:36:47.120 --> 0:36:49.799
<v Speaker 2>She's like that, thanks, And isn't that when I got

0:36:49.840 --> 0:36:55.080
<v Speaker 2>your Exits jumper not Josh's And do you still have that? Yeah,

0:36:55.320 --> 0:36:56.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm sitting.

0:36:56.680 --> 0:36:59.799
<v Speaker 1>Here wearing your exes and bloody Christmas jumper right now.

0:37:00.000 --> 0:37:00.640
<v Speaker 1>I like it.

0:37:00.640 --> 0:37:03.600
<v Speaker 2>It's a backbone of my wardrope. Actually in winter, I'm

0:37:03.640 --> 0:37:07.239
<v Speaker 2>sure it is. Another one would be like if they're

0:37:07.280 --> 0:37:09.399
<v Speaker 2>a gamer, maybe a new game, and you.

0:37:09.440 --> 0:37:12.520
<v Speaker 1>Sure like if not everyone's into sport, some people could

0:37:12.560 --> 0:37:13.240
<v Speaker 1>be into gaming.

0:37:13.480 --> 0:37:15.439
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I haven't gamed in a while, so I don't

0:37:15.440 --> 0:37:17.799
<v Speaker 2>know what good games are. But a new control, a

0:37:17.920 --> 0:37:21.080
<v Speaker 2>new if Xbox Life still does like you have to pay,

0:37:21.160 --> 0:37:25.120
<v Speaker 2>maybe up their subscription things for gym as well. Maybe

0:37:25.120 --> 0:37:26.600
<v Speaker 2>get them a new wait separ at home if they're

0:37:26.600 --> 0:37:28.080
<v Speaker 2>into that sort of stuff. You know, a couple of

0:37:28.080 --> 0:37:29.960
<v Speaker 2>ways they can do homework at home.

0:37:30.040 --> 0:37:30.440
<v Speaker 1>Training.

0:37:30.600 --> 0:37:32.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a treadmill at home is good. Ads, if you

0:37:32.600 --> 0:37:34.839
<v Speaker 2>could get them a treadmillat.

0:37:34.160 --> 0:37:39.319
<v Speaker 1>Like a treadmill, a treadmill is probably a thousand dollars.

0:37:39.760 --> 0:37:41.520
<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't know what your budget is, but yeah,

0:37:42.760 --> 0:37:49.000
<v Speaker 2>hint hints on traffic, some hints here.

0:37:46.800 --> 0:37:50.040
<v Speaker 1>Trying to think of have a treadmill from that one out.

0:37:50.640 --> 0:37:54.439
<v Speaker 2>And obviously don't forget sentimental. I know that guys, even

0:37:54.440 --> 0:37:56.920
<v Speaker 2>if they feel rough and tough on the outside, they

0:37:56.960 --> 0:38:00.080
<v Speaker 2>love a sentimental gift. Yeah, nice car, a nice ca.

0:38:00.320 --> 0:38:00.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:38:00.840 --> 0:38:03.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh, if we're talking about cards. A thing as well

0:38:03.600 --> 0:38:05.319
<v Speaker 2>that I realized that a lot of people don't do

0:38:05.400 --> 0:38:07.680
<v Speaker 2>as well, which I was always taught to do, was

0:38:07.880 --> 0:38:11.160
<v Speaker 2>do you read the card before you open? Yeah? I

0:38:11.160 --> 0:38:13.160
<v Speaker 2>think that we should set that as well. People should

0:38:13.200 --> 0:38:15.480
<v Speaker 2>do that. Always read the card before you open the present.

0:38:15.560 --> 0:38:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's nothing worse than getting someone a gift and

0:38:18.200 --> 0:38:20.440
<v Speaker 1>they just like go straight for the present and then

0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:23.000
<v Speaker 1>they couldn't even care less about the card and you're like, okay,

0:38:23.000 --> 0:38:24.000
<v Speaker 1>I'll go.

0:38:24.960 --> 0:38:26.680
<v Speaker 2>And another thing I do as well is is such

0:38:26.719 --> 0:38:28.960
<v Speaker 2>a cheap gag. Whenever someone gives me a card or

0:38:28.960 --> 0:38:30.560
<v Speaker 2>my partner does, I open it and I just go

0:38:30.719 --> 0:38:32.279
<v Speaker 2>like this to see if there's money in it and

0:38:32.280 --> 0:38:35.439
<v Speaker 2>then just put it on the ground. So I should

0:38:35.480 --> 0:38:38.400
<v Speaker 2>have done it with your Christmas card last night. Okay

0:38:38.400 --> 0:38:39.720
<v Speaker 2>if there's nothing in this, okay.

0:38:39.760 --> 0:38:41.960
<v Speaker 1>We are going to touch on gifts that you can

0:38:42.040 --> 0:38:46.800
<v Speaker 1>get your friends, your work, colleagues and Secret Center next.

0:38:50.320 --> 0:38:55.520
<v Speaker 2>So obviously with friends and colleagues and Chris Kringles Secret Santas,

0:38:55.880 --> 0:38:56.840
<v Speaker 2>there's a price limit.

0:38:57.160 --> 0:38:58.640
<v Speaker 1>There's a price limit for sure.

0:38:58.680 --> 0:39:01.279
<v Speaker 2>So work within your price slim. That's the first tip,

0:39:01.360 --> 0:39:03.400
<v Speaker 2>like we've said, and then I was gonna blow it up.

0:39:03.400 --> 0:39:05.200
<v Speaker 2>If you're an extravagant group of friends and it's a

0:39:05.320 --> 0:39:08.319
<v Speaker 2>hundred bucks, is there an invite to your Christmas? I'd

0:39:08.480 --> 0:39:11.960
<v Speaker 2>like to get invited to that. But yeah, I mean,

0:39:12.080 --> 0:39:14.319
<v Speaker 2>keep it easy, like, don't go over the top, don't

0:39:14.360 --> 0:39:17.400
<v Speaker 2>get them assigned photo of yourself like I did. Probably

0:39:17.400 --> 0:39:18.160
<v Speaker 2>notice it was.

0:39:18.120 --> 0:39:20.759
<v Speaker 1>Like probably the worst gift that anyone has ever given

0:39:20.840 --> 0:39:22.080
<v Speaker 1>in the history of gifts.

0:39:22.920 --> 0:39:26.400
<v Speaker 2>You're getting next year, so just give me nothing.

0:39:26.520 --> 0:39:29.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't want the fucking extra room getting taken up

0:39:29.600 --> 0:39:31.440
<v Speaker 1>in my apartment. I'm already living in.

0:39:31.360 --> 0:39:34.120
<v Speaker 2>A tight since it is, so there's a photo of me.

0:39:35.560 --> 0:39:39.080
<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's talk about gifts to get your friends now.

0:39:39.160 --> 0:39:42.200
<v Speaker 1>I have a really good one. A couple of years ago,

0:39:42.280 --> 0:39:46.480
<v Speaker 1>my friend Laura actually got me this really cool experience.

0:39:46.600 --> 0:39:49.920
<v Speaker 1>We made cocktails together. It was like this cocktail making class.

0:39:50.640 --> 0:39:53.600
<v Speaker 1>It was really fun. I think it was about an

0:39:53.600 --> 0:39:55.160
<v Speaker 1>hour and a half, and then we ended up having

0:39:55.160 --> 0:39:59.080
<v Speaker 1>dinner at the restaurant after really fun experience. Something that

0:39:59.120 --> 0:40:01.120
<v Speaker 1>you can do. It's already bonding.

0:40:01.000 --> 0:40:03.120
<v Speaker 2>And paid though to make your own drinks instead of

0:40:03.120 --> 0:40:06.680
<v Speaker 2>the barn.

0:40:06.520 --> 0:40:09.080
<v Speaker 1>And did I make the drinks again? Did I replicate them? No,

0:40:09.200 --> 0:40:12.080
<v Speaker 1>I did it, but I enjoyed the experience of learning.

0:40:12.200 --> 0:40:14.440
<v Speaker 2>I actually would love to learn how to make cocktails.

0:40:14.520 --> 0:40:17.839
<v Speaker 2>I think that's a pretty cool pretty yeah.

0:40:17.160 --> 0:40:19.839
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, definitely something that like to put on the bucket list.

0:40:19.880 --> 0:40:22.200
<v Speaker 1>And as I said, like it's a fun pre drinks,

0:40:22.440 --> 0:40:22.759
<v Speaker 1>it is.

0:40:22.800 --> 0:40:25.200
<v Speaker 2>It's good. Just listen to your friends. They might have

0:40:25.360 --> 0:40:27.680
<v Speaker 2>mentioned something. I said that before fellows to listen to

0:40:27.719 --> 0:40:30.719
<v Speaker 2>your girlfriend. They might have mentioned something and you might go, oh,

0:40:30.800 --> 0:40:34.000
<v Speaker 2>yeah they want this, they need this, and it's that's perfect.

0:40:34.040 --> 0:40:36.239
<v Speaker 2>Then it's got. It shows that you're listening to them

0:40:36.239 --> 0:40:38.960
<v Speaker 2>and you appreciate your friendship as well. So yeah, good one.

0:40:39.160 --> 0:40:43.200
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, as we said, experiences, movie tickets, things that you

0:40:43.200 --> 0:40:46.000
<v Speaker 1>can do together. I mean, as we get older, we've

0:40:46.040 --> 0:40:48.480
<v Speaker 1>spoken a lot about how it's harder to make time

0:40:48.520 --> 0:40:51.319
<v Speaker 1>for our friends. So I feel like doing experiences and

0:40:51.360 --> 0:40:54.120
<v Speaker 1>getting experience gifts for friends is a big one. And

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<v Speaker 1>then you can kind of like lock in time to

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<v Speaker 1>see them and do them too. One stone, Yeah for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>That work colleagues. What do we get our work colleagues?

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<v Speaker 2>You probably need to listen to this one for what

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to get me?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, fuck no.

0:41:07.840 --> 0:41:10.919
<v Speaker 2>I got you the bull bull. Look, stay away from

0:41:10.960 --> 0:41:14.680
<v Speaker 2>your sexy land shops. There could be a HR There

0:41:14.680 --> 0:41:16.640
<v Speaker 2>could be a HR thing going on there if you're

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<v Speaker 2>going there. So let's avoid those shops. Easy, like something

0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:23.640
<v Speaker 2>easy like I mean, you could get them a candle

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<v Speaker 2>of diffuser. You could even bake for them.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, Oh that's cute. Yeah, we like sentimental. Like I

0:41:29.560 --> 0:41:31.799
<v Speaker 1>guess for a work colleague, it doesn't need to be

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<v Speaker 1>overly expensive. You don't want to be spending like tons

0:41:35.800 --> 0:41:38.319
<v Speaker 1>of money on them, So something that's more sentimental.

0:41:38.640 --> 0:41:41.720
<v Speaker 2>You could even go and just get them, Like I remember,

0:41:41.840 --> 0:41:45.040
<v Speaker 2>this is what we used to get my teachers when

0:41:45.080 --> 0:41:47.080
<v Speaker 2>you're at primary school. You get them a gift. My

0:41:47.200 --> 0:41:49.320
<v Speaker 2>mum would fill up like a mug full of chocolates,

0:41:49.360 --> 0:41:51.320
<v Speaker 2>limp balls and you just give that to the teacher.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So that's super cute, super easy.

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<v Speaker 2>Lease that on their desk and.

0:41:55.480 --> 0:41:56.800
<v Speaker 1>The mug says the best teacher.

0:41:56.920 --> 0:42:00.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah yeah, best work colleague or something or something Christmas.

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<v Speaker 2>Even just getting the vibes of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you know they like baking, you can get

0:42:04.160 --> 0:42:07.840
<v Speaker 1>them some cooking utensils, baking utensils, you know, a candle

0:42:07.920 --> 0:42:10.600
<v Speaker 1>or a diffuser can never never goes wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>As we said before, I wouldn't overthink a work colleague.

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<v Speaker 1>No, if you're doing a secret Santa, I have a

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<v Speaker 1>really a bad Santa. Is it bad Santa?

0:42:19.480 --> 0:42:21.840
<v Speaker 2>When you can take them. You can take the presents away.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I have a good one. Scratcheese.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is is when you do like a bad

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<v Speaker 1>Santa gift, it's normally got like a ten dollar limit.

0:42:32.960 --> 0:42:36.120
<v Speaker 1>But if you give someone scratchies, like ten dollars worth

0:42:36.160 --> 0:42:40.400
<v Speaker 1>of scratches, then people subconsciously are like that could be

0:42:40.440 --> 0:42:42.480
<v Speaker 1>worth more. So then they're always going to try and

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<v Speaker 1>steal that. Isn't that a good one?

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<v Speaker 2>That is actually a good one. I've never thought of

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<v Speaker 2>it like that. That's very smart, and.

0:42:49.120 --> 0:42:51.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm not actually that smart. So I just someone actually

0:42:51.840 --> 0:42:54.120
<v Speaker 1>did that. When I went to a Christmas farding, I

0:42:54.160 --> 0:42:56.360
<v Speaker 1>was like, great idea. I'm going to pass this on

0:42:56.480 --> 0:42:57.600
<v Speaker 1>to the words your head.

0:42:57.680 --> 0:42:59.319
<v Speaker 2>Everyone needs to hear this one. I love that one.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a good one. But you know what time

0:43:01.320 --> 0:43:01.880
<v Speaker 2>it is? Anna?

0:43:02.200 --> 0:43:03.240
<v Speaker 1>What time is it matter?

0:43:03.280 --> 0:43:05.279
<v Speaker 2>That time of the show where we ask you to

0:43:05.360 --> 0:43:07.160
<v Speaker 2>ask us where our heads are at?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do it? Okay, So Sheridan asks, how do I

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<v Speaker 1>split my Christmas between my family's traditions and my new

0:43:17.760 --> 0:43:21.480
<v Speaker 1>partners traditions. Both families host a Christmas lunch and now

0:43:21.480 --> 0:43:25.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm torn on how to spend it. Christmas look, it's

0:43:25.040 --> 0:43:30.719
<v Speaker 1>always hard navigating different families, different things that are going on.

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<v Speaker 1>I would just say, don't spend your whole Christmas driving around,

0:43:35.280 --> 0:43:38.239
<v Speaker 1>but maybe just try and do both. Start at one,

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<v Speaker 1>finish at the other.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say, wish ever partner's family seems more reasonable,

0:43:43.440 --> 0:43:45.920
<v Speaker 2>try ask them to move it a little bit more forward,

0:43:46.040 --> 0:43:48.879
<v Speaker 2>so to express that, like, and I'm assuming there's other

0:43:48.920 --> 0:43:52.000
<v Speaker 2>people there that have the same situation. Yeah, it's yeah,

0:43:52.120 --> 0:43:54.120
<v Speaker 2>let's not be realistic, like that's what we have at

0:43:54.120 --> 0:43:54.600
<v Speaker 2>my house.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the thing about Christmas is everyone has to

0:43:57.200 --> 0:44:01.080
<v Speaker 1>be super flexible because there's lots sort of moving parts

0:44:01.080 --> 0:44:04.040
<v Speaker 1>from different families, and I think the main thing to

0:44:04.120 --> 0:44:07.280
<v Speaker 1>do is to try and make everyone's day as comfortable

0:44:07.280 --> 0:44:08.400
<v Speaker 1>and easy as possible.

0:44:08.480 --> 0:44:11.080
<v Speaker 2>We've got this problem actually flaring up at my house

0:44:11.120 --> 0:44:15.200
<v Speaker 2>at the moment. Dad normally was Boxing day, but Lara

0:44:15.200 --> 0:44:18.120
<v Speaker 2>and Emma have both taken shifts because they're getting paid

0:44:18.120 --> 0:44:21.080
<v Speaker 2>an extravagant amount of money to work, Yeah, to work,

0:44:21.160 --> 0:44:23.200
<v Speaker 2>so there, so he's a little bit annoyed and we're

0:44:23.200 --> 0:44:26.080
<v Speaker 2>trying to fit another time in and it's just like

0:44:26.080 --> 0:44:27.520
<v Speaker 2>like this is how it is, Like we write our

0:44:27.560 --> 0:44:31.120
<v Speaker 2>partners on Christmas. We've got Christmas Eve at Mum's. You

0:44:31.160 --> 0:44:32.560
<v Speaker 2>know what I mean, Like that's for how it's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone always says it's difficult because you don't choose your family,

0:44:37.360 --> 0:44:40.440
<v Speaker 1>but you have to make them happy, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, yeah, if you're having situations like Matt sist is,

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<v Speaker 1>where you've you've had to take the extra shift because

0:44:47.480 --> 0:44:51.120
<v Speaker 1>it's double time and you just can't say, can't turn

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<v Speaker 1>down the money, just try and make any time.

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<v Speaker 2>Sheridan, I think the best advice is just to be transparent.

0:44:57.120 --> 0:44:59.000
<v Speaker 2>Ask a family what one you could move a little

0:44:59.040 --> 0:45:01.279
<v Speaker 2>bit forward, or or tell them that you have to

0:45:01.360 --> 0:45:03.960
<v Speaker 2>leave one early and go to the next one, and

0:45:03.960 --> 0:45:05.560
<v Speaker 2>then I guess if they're close to each other, just

0:45:05.560 --> 0:45:07.279
<v Speaker 2>sussy out which one's got a better vibe and go

0:45:07.280 --> 0:45:10.000
<v Speaker 2>to that one, stay at that that has.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Ken asks how much should I spend on my

0:45:14.080 --> 0:45:17.480
<v Speaker 1>partner's family this year? They usually buy me something quite big,

0:45:17.800 --> 0:45:20.239
<v Speaker 1>but I never know how much to spend on each

0:45:20.280 --> 0:45:23.080
<v Speaker 1>of them. My family usually spends fifty dollars on each person,

0:45:23.480 --> 0:45:27.160
<v Speaker 1>but my partner's family spends around two hundred and fifty dollars. Matt,

0:45:27.200 --> 0:45:28.120
<v Speaker 1>what do you think two.

0:45:28.040 --> 0:45:30.160
<v Speaker 2>Hundred and fifty dollars on each family member.

0:45:30.400 --> 0:45:32.759
<v Speaker 1>It's a lot, I mean a lot. I feel like.

0:45:33.040 --> 0:45:34.399
<v Speaker 2>Partners as well well.

0:45:34.480 --> 0:45:36.959
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you'd go in with your partner right,

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<v Speaker 1>like you just do a joint present. I don't think

0:45:39.120 --> 0:45:41.880
<v Speaker 1>there needs to be like one present from the partner

0:45:41.920 --> 0:45:42.879
<v Speaker 1>in one present from here.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's the easiest way.

0:45:44.280 --> 0:45:46.399
<v Speaker 1>I think that's the easiest solution than they just half

0:45:46.440 --> 0:45:48.279
<v Speaker 1>the price. So like if it's two hundred and fifty,

0:45:48.280 --> 0:45:50.400
<v Speaker 1>you end up spending one twenty five, which is double

0:45:50.400 --> 0:45:53.640
<v Speaker 1>what your family spends. But I guess it's tricky, right

0:45:53.680 --> 0:45:55.760
<v Speaker 1>because you don't want to be like the person who's

0:45:55.920 --> 0:45:58.879
<v Speaker 1>like giving out the ship gifts and everyone's getting like

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred if you do a GIFs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've that's a really sticky situation, I reckon. Yeah,

0:46:05.000 --> 0:46:06.520
<v Speaker 2>talk to your partner and ask her if you can

0:46:06.560 --> 0:46:09.040
<v Speaker 2>go in on it and it's from you both. It's truly.

0:46:09.080 --> 0:46:10.960
<v Speaker 2>The family would understand though that you don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>spend two hundred and fifty bucks.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, And I don't think they would expect it,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, go in with your partner. Make it easy, Okay, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>we hope you have an amazing Christmas. Enjoy the time

0:46:22.520 --> 0:46:24.680
<v Speaker 1>that you spend with your friends and family over this

0:46:24.719 --> 0:46:28.719
<v Speaker 1>holiday season. We have our New Year's Resolutions coming up

0:46:28.920 --> 0:46:32.000
<v Speaker 1>next week and then we'll be back in twenty twenty three.

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<v Speaker 1>We can't wait to hang out with you, guys. We

0:46:34.920 --> 0:46:38.040
<v Speaker 1>have it so much coming up we can't wait to

0:46:38.080 --> 0:46:40.239
<v Speaker 1>share with you. But until next time

0:46:40.520 --> 0:46:48.160
<v Speaker 2>Merry Christmas, guys, Merry Christmas.