WEBVTT - EP 31 - WILL THE PODCAST CONTINUE ? 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:01.560 Coming up on relatables. 0:00:04.800 --> 0:00:06.560 Wait, hold up, it's a warning. 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:09.719 It's a warning. Oh yeah, ready, Eris has just made 0:00:09.720 --> 0:00:20.639 a comment to Nesta. Watch it was my gester. Yeah, 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:28.120 it hurts. It's hardly laughing to it's hard to get out. 0:00:29.880 --> 0:00:40.000 What relatable? 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:44.760 Okay, you gotta find one to start today's episode. I 0:00:44.840 --> 0:00:46.960 love fine ones. I found this on Instagram and it 0:00:47.000 --> 0:00:49.880 was titled red flags we ignore In fictional men, if 0:00:49.880 --> 0:00:53.559 the female main character went to therapy, Oh, a bit 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:57.280 of a mouthful. Okay, so therapist asked, So he broke 0:00:57.320 --> 0:01:03.560 into your house and the but he's six four valid though, 0:01:03.760 --> 0:01:07.440 these are our reasonings. So he killed someone for you. 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:12.600 His love language is acts of service. He'll do anything 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:17.800 for me. You moved into his place after three days 0:01:19.200 --> 0:01:24.440 when you know, you know, you know, baby, So let 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:27.560 me get this straight. He growled at another man for 0:01:27.680 --> 0:01:31.200 talking to you, and then their response is just sexy 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:35.199 with love eyes. He said he would burn the world 0:01:35.240 --> 0:01:37.920 for you. Got to love a man with ambition. 0:01:39.880 --> 0:01:45.880 To be fair, unrealistic love. Yeah, sometimes would be good. 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:53.000 Yeah, I don't know. The word growl is used far 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:58.760 too often in romance novels, and I just think that 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:05.440 a growl his hands down the most cringey thing I 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:09.840 can think. I've just done freek would you say I 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:17.520 feel like? Okay? You are the male main character in 0:02:17.800 --> 0:02:21.480 a romance fantasy novel. You're a thousand years old and 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:25.240 you're like in the top five strongest men in this world, baby, 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:29.360 and another man has just talked to your soon to 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:33.600 be bride, putting me on the spot. Your dog. 0:02:34.800 --> 0:02:37.720 I asked you to grow but I'll give you mine 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:38.600 after you give me yours. 0:02:38.760 --> 0:02:40.240 So it's like a growl. I'll show your mind if 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:44.440 you show me yours. Okay, So okay, remember, get in 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:47.840 the mind, stay like think of it's deep. Let's pretend 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:53.720 it's like it's deep. Let's pretend that Eris is. Let 0:02:53.760 --> 0:03:00.440 me go again again, let me go No, that was 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:02.720 from So it's not like the top of your throat. 0:03:02.720 --> 0:03:04.880 You're gonna get it from like you, it's gotta be 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:07.639 from you. Gotta say with your chest, don't say anything like. 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:13.840 Pretend Eris has just made a like snidy comment at 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:16.480 Nesta and you're Cassie and that's what that's the mindset. Yeah, 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:19.079 you got you go. I've been doing all I can't try. 0:03:19.120 --> 0:03:21.079 This is I'm thinking I'm gonna give him a warning 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:26.760 knowing you, but you have been practicing before now, ge man, 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:29.400 I feel like it's so over pronounced. 0:03:33.320 --> 0:03:35.080 Wait, hold up, it's a warning. 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:38.240 It's a warning. Oh yeah, ready, Ris has just made 0:03:38.280 --> 0:03:39.040 a comment to Nesta. 0:03:40.000 --> 0:03:45.000 Watch it was good. 0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:53.440 Es. Yeah, it hurts. It's hardly laughing to it. What 0:03:55.480 --> 0:04:01.920 it's hard to get out? What? I couldn't go there? 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:04.240 I couldn't. It was stuck at the top of my throat. 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:06.360 I couldn't get in there. You got all the ground 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:11.360 out before you even watch it. You can hear losing breath. 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:18.280 The Rolatas podcast. It's hosted by myself, Jake Craig Aka 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:21.080 and my partner and crime mister Odie. 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:28.719 Like, Okayamy, you were practicing a oh this is unfair. 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:33.240 And everyone listening. 0:04:33.600 --> 0:04:33.800 Ah. 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:40.640 The baddies bad to the bone origin of you guys 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:42.919 being called the baddies. We've said this before, but we 0:04:43.000 --> 0:04:45.320 better repeat it just in case there's any new baddies here. 0:04:47.000 --> 0:04:50.599 Somebody just either we I think we had someone sign 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:54.240 off a phone call or sign off a video. Yeah, 0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:56.440 just with like stay Bad. And then we started signing 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:58.840 the episodes off of Stay Bad. And then we were like, oh, 0:04:58.880 --> 0:05:00.800 everyone's going name for there it's members, Like what are 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:02.280 we going to name out? And then baddies just like 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:04.359 kind of was born from that. Yeah, and it's stuck. 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:08.000 Certainly I was stuck like glue. But today we have 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:10.240 a big decision to make we. 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:15.000 Do Actually, this might be no, not m This is 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:17.560 the biggest decision we have ever had to make on 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:18.280 the podcast. 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:22.919 And honestly, actually like it could be a podcast ending decision. 0:05:23.080 --> 0:05:24.920 I know, Jake, this is serious. We need to get 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:29.360 serious here. So at the date we are recording, this 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:33.240 is the twenty ninth of June. June. The twenty second 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:35.520 of June was the four year anniversary of the podcast. 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:42.480 Four years of Relatables. Woo we missed it anyway, Big 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:45.320 congratulations to everyone if you've been here from day one. 0:05:45.560 --> 0:05:46.159 Yeah, baby. 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:51.120 And so when we first started the podcast, Otie he 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:53.800 came to me and said, like, you know, everyone's out 0:05:53.839 --> 0:05:58.480 here doing university degrees. You know they do four years 0:05:58.600 --> 0:06:02.320 unique kind of minimum four years, yep. And then sometimes 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:04.240 they decide at the end of it like I got 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:05.960 my degree, but I don't want to do this so 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:08.480 or sometimes I do what they want to do it. 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:12.880 We said we'll give the podcast four years and if 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:16.680 it's doing well, we'll keep doing it. But if it's 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:18.640 not working out, then we'll cut our losses. And you know, 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:22.080 say good experience, great experience, great experience. So we've got 0:06:22.120 --> 0:06:23.720 to make a decision whether or not we want to 0:06:23.800 --> 0:06:26.839 keep the podcast going because it's the four year limit. Yeah, 0:06:26.960 --> 0:06:29.640 this is the four year mark. This is a tough decision. 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:29.840 Day. 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:35.160 This is a very tough So has it been worth it? 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:37.560 Is it paying off? 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:39.080 Hm? 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:47.039 What I will say is I genuinely think if four 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:54.440 years ago today someone said our exact situation in four 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:59.920 years time, I wouldn't believe them. Agreed. But also, overall 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:05.840 or outside of money flexing, cole ship, the community that 0:07:05.920 --> 0:07:09.440 we've built together and we turn up week on week, 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:13.840 three episodes a week for four years averagely. Yeah, true, 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:15.600 we can't have been in it now. I don't think 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:17.680 that could make me any happier in the world than anything. 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:20.960 It's an interesting one to think about. Same. I'm very 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:21.880 appreciative of it. 0:07:22.040 --> 0:07:24.840 Yeah, I'm very appreciative of it too. But Jake, I 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:25.760 think I've got the answer. 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:32.720 Yeah, we ain't fucking leaving. Give us your best Jordans, 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:35.240 all the baddies, give us your best Jordan bell Ford. 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:44.680 We ain't fucking leaving. Oh oh oh oh oh, we 0:07:44.760 --> 0:07:48.360 can't do that. He's fucking no. We can't promote that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:53.320 I don't worry. I think we are. We'll stick around. 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:56.800 I think we will stick around. Any any changes that 0:07:56.960 --> 0:07:59.760 you reckon will happen in the podcast. Yeah. 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:03.200 The next big change is kids. Yeah, we spoke about 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:06.240 that a lot on Patreon. Yep, high Lords close to 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:09.360 them on and high Lords Poe will have children. I 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:11.880 think that would be the We have other stuff moving, 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:13.760 maybe buying houses, blah blah blah blah blah. But I 0:08:13.760 --> 0:08:15.320 don't think that will actually affect because we have to 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:18.440 make money. But kids, I think will be the next 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:21.560 fundamental change where we have to actually change our workflow 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:22.440 of the podcast a lot. 0:08:22.960 --> 0:08:27.200 Oh yeah, true. How is that gonna work? Like? It'll 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:28.720 work well, I think, I think. Yeah. 0:08:28.800 --> 0:08:31.679 I've often thought too, like we're in a very privileged 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:33.719 position where we can pick our hours and when we 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:35.160 want to work, we can do it whenever we want, 0:08:35.480 --> 0:08:35.840 we do the. 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:37.839 Work, but it just works around our lives. 0:08:38.480 --> 0:08:40.920 But it's such a must be nice but the people 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:44.800 who work for people and then have to have children 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:47.040 go back to work and then deal with that shit. 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:50.079 Like because imagine one day you have kids first and 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:52.079 you fuck, I had the worst night sleep, body, Like 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:53.800 I'm running off two hours sleep. 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:56.120 I don't want to record. Yeah, oh yeah, chill. Yeah, 0:08:56.240 --> 0:08:59.600 but like if you had a boss, you shouldn't say that, true, Yeah, 0:08:59.760 --> 0:09:01.160 Like you get it. You can't just text me the 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:03.120 morning like I'm off two hours sleep, Like I'm just 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:04.280 I can't bother to work. 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:09.280 We're in a very privileged position there, Yeah, yeah, very privileged. 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:13.440 But yeah I think that also, like there's a big 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:17.440 shift at the moment as well between like we took 0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:20.240 a risk to get here in a sense it didn't 0:09:20.240 --> 0:09:22.280 feel like one of the time, but we went against 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:27.199 the norm and did something that on paper looked stupid 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:28.080 and unrealistic. 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:33.880 Yeah, the risk that I would say so like financial financially, 0:09:34.040 --> 0:09:37.960 sorry I don't the risk wasn't huge in a financial wise, 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:39.720 but socially it was a. 0:09:39.800 --> 0:09:44.679 Risk socially and like I want to say, longevity or 0:09:44.720 --> 0:09:47.760 stability is a better word. There was no stability behind 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:50.440 the podcast. But also I want to make it relatable 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:52.079 because that's the name. Jake came up with the name. 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:52.880 If you knew around here. 0:09:54.880 --> 0:09:58.000 I think every single person listening right now has something 0:09:58.120 --> 0:10:00.280 cool in the head that they wish they were doing. Yeah, 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:03.400 and there's a reason they're not doing it. Let that 0:10:03.600 --> 0:10:10.040 be fear, anxiety, exterior reasons like family, job, financial, and 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:11.839 I don't know if there was any sign in the world. 0:10:11.880 --> 0:10:13.480 I don't think there ever will be a sign other 0:10:13.600 --> 0:10:17.000 than you realizing that you can do it and all 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:20.120 you have to do is start. Yeah, everyone's the biggest 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:26.920 hurdle for for everything is usually from within, and sometimes 0:10:26.920 --> 0:10:29.800 it's financial sometimes Yeah, but that's usually from within. That's 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:31.000 where excuses start. 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:31.480 Yeah. 0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:34.720 And if you within believing yourself, which from the start 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:37.920 we were delusional, optimistic. 0:10:37.640 --> 0:10:39.680 You're looking at the king of excuses. Yeah. 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:43.079 Yeah, and for some reason that many pieces of the 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:46.480 puzzle fell together to make this work, especially with two 0:10:46.520 --> 0:10:48.840 people as well. Making it work is very very hard, 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:52.520 and we're privileged enough to have made. 0:10:52.360 --> 0:10:59.439 It work, very very hard. Pause pause. Yeah, that's not 0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:03.520 the only time I've been hard on this Podcastlet me say, well, 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:06.400 we're audio. Ever since we've been audio only, have you 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:08.599 ever been hard on the podcast? And hit it from me, 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:16.959 what's the opposite of hard talking to you? Well, my 0:11:17.120 --> 0:11:19.920 thing's been shriveled up and fucking hiding away waiting for you. 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:27.720 And then he's like, oh about time now. Maybe when 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:29.959 when we're talking, we did the I'm glad you like 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:33.480 this segment, Yeah, and I called you handsome. Maybe that 0:11:33.559 --> 0:11:38.120 turned me on a little bit. I started to think different. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:42.080 probably maybe a little bit. We listened to we were 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:44.319 in the car once he was dropping off at the 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:46.720 train station and we listened to an Inspired un Employed 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:50.440 episode and they spent the first twenty minutes, yeah, talking 0:11:50.480 --> 0:11:54.199 about the worst place to get hard. Yeah, there's like, 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:57.439 we're not going there, Jake, I know you want to 0:11:57.440 --> 0:11:58.640 go there. We're not fucking going there. 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:02.520 A And I'm I mean at the start, we'll relate, 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:04.679 and then like fifteen minutes like fuck. 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:06.400 Yeah, I mean, so five minutes of it, I was 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:09.920 kind of like, yeah, you know, every man will listen 0:12:09.960 --> 0:12:11.559 to this and think, yeah, you know, everyone's trying to 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:13.080 put their hands in their pockets to hide a bone, 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:15.880 and yeah, blah blah blah, like it is what it is. 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:20.320 But after twenty minutes, yeah, like I was thinking yeah, 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:21.280 these guys need to move on. 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:25.320 Oh yeah, hundred percent. And I guess actually that's one 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:28.199 of the perks of being a woman. When you want 0:12:28.240 --> 0:12:33.880 turned on, no one knows, so true, Like, I guess 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:35.719 that's a superpower because when you're reading these books on 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:38.160 the beach or listening with his headphones. 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:42.640 On again a bit like yeah, yeah, there's no tell 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:46.600 tale physical sign that a woman is turned on. Nah, 0:12:46.880 --> 0:12:48.640 not really. And I feel like that's kind of like 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:50.800 sexy because when we're reading these books too, like I 0:12:50.880 --> 0:12:52.400 feel sexy and then I'm gonna litle turned on. I'm 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:54.360 going to be a chubb. But when a girl's doing it, 0:12:54.440 --> 0:13:07.920 she can just fucking hide anything. That's hilarious. All right, Audio, 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:09.679 I got anig question for you this week, and it 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:13.320 is what was the straw that broke the Camel's back? 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:18.679 And the category is life okay and just for other 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:22.839 people's sake, not my own? What does that mean? It 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:27.520 means have you ever heard, like you've never heard someone 0:13:27.720 --> 0:13:29.880 be like, you know, this happened and that was my 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:36.839 last straw? I said other people, that was my last straw? 0:13:38.000 --> 0:13:41.839 Is derived from the straw that broke the camel's back. Yeah, 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:48.000 of course, of getting an email to do something that's 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:50.439 part of my job description. Oh that pisses me off. 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:54.400 A pisses me off. How about just getting an email 0:13:54.520 --> 0:13:59.760 in general? You wouldn't know you have notifications on on 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:02.959 one of the emails on Gmail. I do, but on houtlook, 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:05.960 I don't. We don't get fucking email on Gmail. 0:14:06.600 --> 0:14:08.160 Exactly why I have outlook off? 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:13.559 It's on my computer? Yeah, she probably not even like 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:17.280 got it up on a bar on a tap? What 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:20.240 was the straw that break the camels back? He served 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:23.360 me the bad looking piece of chicken? I ended it 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:26.560 the next day? Or that I actually is that toxic? 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:28.640 I picked a better looking chicken? A do you. 0:14:30.200 --> 0:14:30.640 Really? 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:37.840 But I care more? She's more easy going. Okay, I'm 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:40.280 sure she would like that better look a chicken. What 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:42.360 do you think that your girlfriend would do if she 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:44.840 was serving up the plates? She would give me the 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:48.320 better looking chicken. But she knows, And the reason is 0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:50.200 because she knows, you probably would take a look at 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:53.520 it and be like, she knows I can more, or 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:57.400 she loves me more. Maybe that was a good one. Actually, 0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:00.880 shirt getting hooked on the door handle, Oh. 0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:02.600 That's been happening to me a fair bit. When I'm 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:04.960 getting out of the car, my laptop bag gets stuck 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:06.960 on my handbrake. 0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:12.760 And then I like fucking choked back in. Also, for 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:17.160 some reason, nothing pisses me off more than a little, 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:21.360 very minor inconvenience. For some reason, lately, I've been doing 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:23.000 a lot of getting out of my car and then 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:25.280 bending back into get something, And as I go out, 0:15:25.320 --> 0:15:26.960 I hit the back of my head on the ceiling 0:15:27.000 --> 0:15:30.680 of my car. Doesn't hurt nothing, but the slighting convenience 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:33.200 of my head bobbing back makes me want to fucking 0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:35.640 slam my door so hard the window breaks. Oh. I 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:38.240 couldn't agree more. I've ever experienced more rage in my life. 0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:40.360 For some reason, I got out of the planet to 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:42.040 that and I clipped the top of my head. Did you? 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:44.240 And people? I was more embarrassed and people saw it, 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:47.000 but I was like, no, it's a flap. I was like, 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:48.960 fuck my life, it's a flake. Sit You're tall enough. 0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:51.320 But I felt like an idiot. I've never I've never 0:15:51.400 --> 0:15:52.480 hit my head. I was on the weird. 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:54.360 I was on like a plane for the two thousands. 0:15:54.440 --> 0:15:58.560 Today was the oldest plane I've been in ages. Yeah, yeah, 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:00.520 that's why I was shorter. I think, oh no, it's 0:16:00.520 --> 0:16:05.160 because I'm massive love. It was a straw that broke 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:08.760 the camel's back. In one week, I got a flat tire, 0:16:09.440 --> 0:16:14.040 front doorknob fell off, spilt coffee in my car, and 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:19.920 my shower door exploded. When it rains, it pours a Yeah. 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:22.560 I feel like that is like just a life experience. 0:16:22.800 --> 0:16:25.560 Whenever something bad happens, and I think, if I have 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:27.600 like multiple bad things happen, and I'm like, okay, bad 0:16:27.640 --> 0:16:30.400 things happen in threes, a fourth thing always. 0:16:30.160 --> 0:16:32.960 Has to Yeah, it's a universal life experience that like 0:16:33.360 --> 0:16:35.120 everything happens at once. Like it's the same with just 0:16:35.200 --> 0:16:37.760 like car regio and then you some reason you need 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:40.560 a service. And then in that service your timing belt's gone. 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:43.160 You're like, just fucking take all my money. 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:44.960 Sell my car. Yeah, like I didn't want to. How 0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:46.320 about to keep the vehicle? 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:46.600 Yeah? 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:51.280 I don't need it anyway. I broke my toe and 0:16:51.360 --> 0:16:55.320 it broke my relationship. How does that work? Did you 0:16:55.400 --> 0:16:58.680 like sucking on your toes or something? If that was 0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:03.080 the reason, I can't see the connection. Otherwise, doing my 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:05.520 own tax return for the first time, I've never done it. 0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:09.560 Fuck that painting out, legit. I've never done my own. 0:17:09.600 --> 0:17:10.879 I've never done my own. I don't think I've ever 0:17:10.920 --> 0:17:12.480 done my own. I've always been too scared. I always 0:17:12.480 --> 0:17:14.119 have gone to an accountant. Yeah, I don't even know 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:17.720 what he does. I swear ourcountain is not even that expensive. No, 0:17:17.800 --> 0:17:19.880 I don't think he is. Yeah it's good. I feel like, yeah, 0:17:20.040 --> 0:17:21.440 we do not. And I always call him. Just go 0:17:21.560 --> 0:17:23.320 to an account No, chat to him with a life 0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:32.760 category life answer life, Yeah, your life has broken. Life 0:17:32.800 --> 0:17:35.120 happened broken to me. I'm trying to plug your charge 0:17:35.119 --> 0:17:37.280 of block into a wall in the dark and missing 0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:41.080 twenty three times. I swear that those little. 0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:46.720 Holes move a I agree in the dark or even 0:17:46.880 --> 0:17:50.560 just like if you can't just quite reach it and 0:17:50.680 --> 0:17:53.360 then you're just going and it pisses me off. 0:17:53.600 --> 0:17:57.439 What's something that's I I for some reason, I remember 0:17:57.480 --> 0:18:00.080 I was in here, I was in this studio and 0:18:00.160 --> 0:18:02.080 I was sitting at my desk and for some reason, 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:04.200 remember I don't remember what caused it, but I remember 0:18:04.280 --> 0:18:07.480 being like, oh, you fucking fuck Like I had a 0:18:07.520 --> 0:18:08.679 reaction to something and I was. 0:18:08.680 --> 0:18:10.399 Like, I feel like I've been getting a few more 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:14.000 of those fucking fuck moments for some reason, it's coming 0:18:14.040 --> 0:18:17.040 of age, always stressed a bit. 0:18:17.640 --> 0:18:20.639 Maybe maybe that is stress. It could be stress. It 0:18:20.720 --> 0:18:24.680 also could be that whole thing of us not knowing 0:18:24.760 --> 0:18:29.320 how to express the correct emotion. Yes, you know what 0:18:29.359 --> 0:18:29.720 I'm saying. 0:18:29.760 --> 0:18:35.119 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know what he's saying, talking 0:18:35.160 --> 0:18:37.879 about not being able to express the right emotions. 0:18:39.160 --> 0:18:40.879 I don't want to justify it. Is there ever a 0:18:41.000 --> 0:18:43.200 time and a place where you should keep your emotions 0:18:43.240 --> 0:18:51.040 to yourself? Good question. M h Yeah, I think that 0:18:53.480 --> 0:18:56.040 you should probably keep your emotions to your smell, to 0:18:56.800 --> 0:19:03.679 your smell, you smell, your laugh. Yeah, if you're dealing 0:19:03.800 --> 0:19:08.200 with someone that you know is like notoriously maybe stubborn, 0:19:08.600 --> 0:19:10.359 because there's a good chance your emotions are going to 0:19:10.400 --> 0:19:14.159 get like shut down. Yeah, no, that makes sense, because 0:19:15.200 --> 0:19:17.560 thinking about being a man, the only times. 0:19:17.480 --> 0:19:21.439 I've ever had those fucking fuck moments are when I've 0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:26.119 bottled stuff up so much that the tiniest little inconvenience 0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:29.240 just breaks the camels back and puts me over the 0:19:29.320 --> 0:19:31.680 edge and then I just explode. And exploding for me 0:19:31.800 --> 0:19:33.800 is not fucking like exploring. For some men is like 0:19:33.880 --> 0:19:35.080 fucking punch and shit true. 0:19:35.160 --> 0:19:37.359 Yeah. Punching other people. Yeah, exploding for me is like 0:19:37.359 --> 0:19:40.040 a couple of sweat words. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah no, same, 0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:40.560 same same. 0:19:40.640 --> 0:19:43.200 I'm like, I just give them a good old but 0:19:43.240 --> 0:19:46.680 it's still the same row like movement to get there. 0:19:47.280 --> 0:19:50.600 Yeah. Ever, actually, okay, I won't I won't want to lie. 0:19:51.160 --> 0:19:56.600 There has been a few times where so frustration for 0:19:56.720 --> 0:20:03.360 me quite often comes out of anger I find without realizing. 0:20:03.880 --> 0:20:07.720 And one very very classic moment is, for some reason, 0:20:08.800 --> 0:20:13.639 I hate it when simple things don't work. Like I 0:20:13.920 --> 0:20:17.440 was maybe seventeen, and I had an iPhone that was 0:20:17.480 --> 0:20:19.000 a couple of years old, and it was kind of 0:20:19.119 --> 0:20:22.640 just tweaking a bit, and I remember thinking I must 0:20:22.720 --> 0:20:25.400 have just like needed a message to send or something, 0:20:25.400 --> 0:20:27.520 and it would always freeze or whatever. And I remember 0:20:27.640 --> 0:20:31.000 just like putting my phone down and like slapping it 0:20:31.600 --> 0:20:34.159 and I cracked the fuck out of a d ay. 0:20:34.600 --> 0:20:36.800 And it didn't feel good after it, No, it doesn't. 0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:40.359 That's actually that's actually the biggest learning lesson out all 0:20:40.400 --> 0:20:42.399 of this is at the time it feels good, but 0:20:42.840 --> 0:20:44.160 after it, it never feels good. 0:20:44.200 --> 0:20:46.640 The reaction you have no never ever. 0:20:47.119 --> 0:20:49.040 But for some reason you need to do it as 0:20:49.080 --> 0:20:51.680 like a biological response because for some reason we don't 0:20:51.680 --> 0:20:53.440 have the tools to talk about it previously, to not 0:20:53.520 --> 0:20:54.440 build up to that point. 0:20:54.760 --> 0:20:58.200 No, that's a good point. That's a good point to 0:20:58.400 --> 0:21:01.520 This morning, Beth and I took the dog. I wasn't 0:21:01.520 --> 0:21:03.040 going to talk about this today. I was thinking I 0:21:03.119 --> 0:21:05.000 need to let it settle for a bit. So we 0:21:05.080 --> 0:21:07.960 took the dogs to this like Sick Creek or whatever. Yeah, 0:21:08.160 --> 0:21:10.160 never seen anyone there, ever, We've been there maybe four 0:21:10.200 --> 0:21:13.080 times or like, we'll go to the dogs there and 0:21:13.200 --> 0:21:15.800 we come we're coming out and it goes out into 0:21:15.840 --> 0:21:18.640 like a big maybe one acre big yard and there's 0:21:18.640 --> 0:21:21.280 like a big community center and it's free to the public, 0:21:21.359 --> 0:21:23.119 like you're like, everyone's allowed to go there, right, And 0:21:23.200 --> 0:21:25.960 as we're coming out, a dog runs in off lead 0:21:25.960 --> 0:21:27.399 and we thought, oh, there must be someone out there 0:21:27.440 --> 0:21:30.600 with their dog and it was friendly, and we put 0:21:30.640 --> 0:21:35.200 our dogs on lead, right because in on the Gold Coast, 0:21:35.520 --> 0:21:38.840 if there's an area that's labeled off lead, you're allowed 0:21:38.880 --> 0:21:40.920 to have your dogs off lead as long as you 0:21:41.000 --> 0:21:44.280 have control of them. And so we always just put 0:21:44.320 --> 0:21:46.600 our dogs on lead because dogs like to run up 0:21:46.600 --> 0:21:49.280 and say how to other dogs? Or whatever. So we 0:21:49.359 --> 0:21:50.720 come out and we can't. We're coming out of like 0:21:50.760 --> 0:21:53.080 the entry to go down to the creek, right and 0:21:53.160 --> 0:21:54.880 I poke them out out and I'm like, holy fuck, Beth, 0:21:54.920 --> 0:21:57.440 there's like twenty five dogs out there with one dude 0:21:58.960 --> 0:22:01.800 of all shapes and sizes for I'm telling you, it 0:22:01.880 --> 0:22:05.040 was the most chaotic scene I think I've ever seen. 0:22:05.680 --> 0:22:11.359 Scary both Was he a trainer? Was they like his pet? No? 0:22:11.640 --> 0:22:13.280 Was he was a trainer? Oh, he is a trainer. 0:22:13.600 --> 0:22:17.560 He's making bang and so yeah. So he's got like 0:22:17.920 --> 0:22:20.480 a couple of them on lead and then a bunch 0:22:20.600 --> 0:22:25.920 of them off lead, and he has zero effective control 0:22:25.920 --> 0:22:28.440 of these dogs, and so I'm kind of thinking, like shit, okay, cool. Like, 0:22:29.000 --> 0:22:31.320 so we were a little bit scared about all the 0:22:31.400 --> 0:22:35.720 dogs rushing us, and Henry is like he doesn't like 0:22:35.800 --> 0:22:38.199 being rushed, Like he's not an angry dog, but if 0:22:38.240 --> 0:22:40.359