WEBVTT - Let's Talk About 'The Glamour Gap'

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, it's men. Who's again missus Duke Payer? Is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is it Evie Jones? It's bloody Ena Jones again.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I was listening to the Stellar podcast and Kate.

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<v Speaker 2>Langbrook was on it this week talking about the glamor gap.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you heard of such a thing? Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>If you haven't heard about it, you've definitely experienced it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's when women get ready versus when men get ready,

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<v Speaker 2>the time difference. And it's not only the time, it

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<v Speaker 2>is I think finances, like, oh my god, this is

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<v Speaker 2>why we need to actually be paid more than men,

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<v Speaker 2>because what we spend on our cells.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even talking just to go out.

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<v Speaker 2>So Kate was talking about on the project takes anything

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<v Speaker 2>between forty five and ninety minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>You sit in that chair and they do your hair

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<v Speaker 2>and makeup. You can have two women working on you

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<v Speaker 2>at the same time. And then you go and you

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<v Speaker 2>have a meeting. You see what's on for the show

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<v Speaker 2>that night, and then you go and see what your

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<v Speaker 2>clothes are, and then you go and put your clothes on,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you go back to hair and makeup to

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<v Speaker 2>do any touch ups, and then you go into the studio.

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<v Speaker 2>When you go back to do touch ups, that's when

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<v Speaker 2>the men come in and they if they want makeup,

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<v Speaker 2>they can have it. But if they don't, it's just powdered,

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<v Speaker 2>so they don't shine on camera. I mean, this is

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<v Speaker 2>just a given and we all just accept it, which

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<v Speaker 2>is fine. That's the world we live in. But my

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<v Speaker 2>biggest problem is the money that comes with what we

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<v Speaker 2>spend to go out. Let's just have a date. The bloke,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, he just plops something on, even if he's

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<v Speaker 2>brought something new, whatever, he will wear it a million times,

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<v Speaker 2>shaves his face, puts his what do they put in

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<v Speaker 2>their hair there, it's a funny word, pomarred.

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<v Speaker 1>They're wax.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of them. Even my last boyfriend used to blow

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<v Speaker 2>dry his hair and he would do a hot tongue,

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<v Speaker 2>not a hot tongue. It was a straightener, but he

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<v Speaker 2>would twist it. He knew how to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>He was better than me.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought he had naturally buffy hair. He didn't flat

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<v Speaker 2>ass hair. So we're actually bringing men in if anything.

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<v Speaker 1>But that was it.

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<v Speaker 2>He also wore makeup, so but that was it. He

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<v Speaker 2>only wore foundation and he would cover up any of

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<v Speaker 2>his imperfections. Just skin wise, we have to wax, shave, pluck, bleach.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking bleach hair on the head, bleach hair on

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<v Speaker 2>the face. If that's what you do. Some women do

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<v Speaker 2>their arms lighter hair. We have to fake tan, we

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<v Speaker 2>have to exfoliate.

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<v Speaker 1>We buy the.

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<v Speaker 2>All of the face creams, all of the stuff, the makeup. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>you give me one woman's makeup bag that doesn't completely

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<v Speaker 2>cover an entire bathroom cabinet, then and I will give

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<v Speaker 2>you a unicorn.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>The clothes, A lot of women will not wear the

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<v Speaker 2>same clothes again because of societal standards.

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<v Speaker 1>I say fuck that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm all about recycling fashion, and I'm all about slow

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<v Speaker 2>fashion as well, you know, all of that kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So never and you know I'm in the public eye.

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<v Speaker 1>I will be.

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<v Speaker 2>Seen on red carpets wearing the same thing again and

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<v Speaker 2>again and again. And I have no shame in it

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<v Speaker 2>at all. If anything, I am proud to show how

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<v Speaker 2>easy it is to do and how it's not embarrassing

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<v Speaker 2>at all. And then the accessories that go in hair,

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<v Speaker 2>the accessories a go on your ears, accessories go around

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<v Speaker 2>your neck, the accessories that go on your hands, on

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<v Speaker 2>your wrists everything. You've spent at least one hundred bucks

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<v Speaker 2>before you've even walked out the front door to go

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<v Speaker 2>on that date he has spent I mean, if he's

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<v Speaker 2>had a haircut, twenty five bucks, because men's haircuts are

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<v Speaker 2>so much cheaper than ours, and I'm sorry they take

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<v Speaker 2>so much more to cut their hair than we do

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<v Speaker 2>to trim it. If it's long, Why are we paying

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<v Speaker 2>seventy five dollars a haircut and they're paying twenty five.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of them get given.

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<v Speaker 2>A beer, you know, you know, I mean, they've got

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<v Speaker 2>decks in barbers these days, dogs on skateboards. Don't get

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<v Speaker 2>me started.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I'm saying that.

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<v Speaker 2>Kate Langbrook said she just refuses to do it anymore,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know what, so do I I've been growing

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<v Speaker 2>out my body hair for years and you all know

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<v Speaker 2>about it, bloody proud of it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're really odd thing.

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<v Speaker 2>And I've said this on the podcast back in the

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<v Speaker 2>days when Andrew was on, a lot of people say, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>my boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't like it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, don't ever assume ask him because I had

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<v Speaker 2>a boyfriend that just never told me that he was

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<v Speaker 2>into a full bush.

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<v Speaker 1>Had I known, Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>My God, the ingrown hairs that would have been saved,

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<v Speaker 2>the pain that would have been saved if he had

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<v Speaker 2>just told me, Because apparently that's a fetish now become

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<v Speaker 2>a fetish natural bodies. Ooh ah, I like real boob. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>useless fact for you or is it useful? You're going

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<v Speaker 2>to use it this week?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever know? Did you ever? Did you ever?

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<v Speaker 2>Have you ever wondered where the term eat humble pie

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<v Speaker 2>comes from?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever eaten humble pie? Well? I have?

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<v Speaker 2>I hate it on the weekend, but of course I

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<v Speaker 2>doubled down and turned it around and gas li it

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<v Speaker 2>my friend. Anyway, the history of the phrase is derived

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<v Speaker 2>from pie what, but not the American version There's warmest

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<v Speaker 2>apple pie across the pond. In Britain, pies are savory.

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<v Speaker 2>Well guess what the savory In Australia as well, we're

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<v Speaker 2>kind of known for them. Ever heard of us typically

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<v Speaker 2>containing meat and vegetables that are contained within a pastry shell.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, thanks Rach for making that entire description

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<v Speaker 2>of what a pie is in a pastry shell? Is

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<v Speaker 2>it's encased? Numbles refer to the entrails organs of animals,

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<v Speaker 2>and they used to be baked into a pie. It

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<v Speaker 2>has been suggested that the good meat of an animal

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<v Speaker 2>was reserved for those in the higher classes of subsaty,

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<v Speaker 2>while the rest of the animal was given.

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<v Speaker 1>To the servants.

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<v Speaker 2>Or my family, because we didn't have enough money to

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<v Speaker 2>afford the good meat.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why you in and learn how I still know

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<v Speaker 1>how to cook cheap meat.

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<v Speaker 2>However, there are accounts that contradicted this theory. Regardless, over time,

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<v Speaker 2>a numble pie became a humble pie, which then became

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<v Speaker 2>a humble pie. So have you ever eaten it? If

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<v Speaker 2>you're rich and hoited toyture and you had to add

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<v Speaker 2>a numble pie, weren't you slumming with the low lives dollar.

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<v Speaker 2>I've just started Call the Midwife back to season one,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'll let you all know how that goes, because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure there's a lot of numble pies back.

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<v Speaker 1>In the thars doors right. Have a lovely week. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you don't get any bad news this week. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you only get good news. Love you bye.