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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. You're not always gonna like you'll

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Speaker 1: always be attracted to your partner, but like if there's

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Speaker 1: a time where, for some reason, in this certain instance,

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Speaker 1: like you're not turned on around them like that, it

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Speaker 1: just means like that, it's not that doesn't mean that

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Speaker 1: you're not attracted to them, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: I wish someone said it to me when I was younger,

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Speaker 1: maybe because like.

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Speaker 2: It's okay not to have sex.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, like it's okay to not fucking be horny

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Speaker 1: around them all the time. Like sex isn't everything.

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Speaker 3: The Relatables podcast is hosted by Jake Craig aka scrub

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Speaker 3: Daddy and myself Audie Clark a k.

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Speaker 2: Scrub Mummy, scrub Mummy bro.

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Speaker 1: I have a scrub Mummy in my It sounds like

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Speaker 1: a brand deal advert or some sort, but it's not.

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Speaker 3: That is so funny, you know. We like to talk

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Speaker 3: about equality. Yeah, and normally there's an ongoing joke that

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Speaker 3: guys like to make that girls are meant to be

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Speaker 3: in the kitchen.

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Speaker 2: Yep, no stupid joke.

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Speaker 3: You can come clean with me right now, scrub Daddy.

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Speaker 3: I fucking that is so fucking funny. And I can't

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Speaker 3: take the claim for this. My girlfriend's mum saw him important.

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Speaker 1: For us, really.

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Speaker 3: She was like and she listened and she was like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: and she saw them and she thought of us.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, are so good.

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Speaker 2: This is by the way, get him out of it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I use a fucking like downstairs, I have

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Speaker 1: a scrub mummy, and the scrub Mummy is.

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Speaker 2: Way better than the scrub Daddy. That's right, and I'm

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Speaker 2: better at you.

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Speaker 1: It's it's I don't know if it's how they've advertised

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Speaker 1: it or anything, but it's like twice as good for

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Speaker 1: the same price, really, and it's kind of like a

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Speaker 1: funny thing if you think about it, like, because the

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Speaker 1: scrub Mummy has like the hard side and the soft side.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to get details of it, and the

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Speaker 1: scrub Daddy is just the hard side. Yeah. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: if you think about it, like, you know, femalely, I

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Speaker 1: guess it is twice as good.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's where we're going to that.

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Speaker 3: You never know, maybe that was the marketing behind scrub

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Speaker 3: mummies better than scrub daty.

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Speaker 2: I mean, facts, bro, it's the same price.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, scrub Daddy can fucking honestly, such a good business bloy,

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Speaker 3: but so such a good idea.

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Speaker 1: You know. They were on Shark Tank.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, and they actually came out of it

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Speaker 3: and now it's all global.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe it. And scrub the scrub Daddy page

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Speaker 1: on TikTok. Yeah have you seen it? No, bro, it's

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Speaker 1: fucking huge, millions of followers, shit, millions of Maybe it

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Speaker 1: was good to bring them up.

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Speaker 2: We'll get some clout. You never know, you never do know.

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Speaker 1: Have you also seen While we're on the topic of

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Speaker 1: fucking brand TikTok pages, we've spoken about the Ryan air

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Speaker 1: one before, wild scrub Daddy, scrub Bummy. They got a

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Speaker 1: big TikTok page. There's a whole all these American brands

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Speaker 3: I'm glad America gets it. To be fair, there's one

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Speaker 3: He's really good at marketing.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I'm know. I'm talking about big yeah,

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Speaker 1: Ryan air Airline.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, obviously, what's the next one.

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Speaker 1: There's one that has taken it too far. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: and it's cold nutter butter. Oh brodder Brand, I'm pretty sure. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I also love my pant butter. Yeah, to be.

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Speaker 1: Have you seen Two Girls, One Cup?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, you redeemed yourself. I remember watching it

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Speaker 3: But this is not how I wanted to start an episode.

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Speaker 3: Bring I love Rusty spoons and two girls, one club.

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Speaker 2: One Cup.

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Speaker 3: We wanted to start the episode with the Golden rules

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Speaker 3: of dating.

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Speaker 2: Jake before this episode said I'm not going to yap

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Speaker 2: this one. All right, I say, let the man yap.

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Speaker 3: rusty spoons and two girls in one cup.

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Speaker 1: Guys comment, if you want to hear about rusty spoons,

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Speaker 1: you never know they might want to hear.

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Speaker 3: So this is the Golden rules of dating. We've been

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Speaker 3: I went like broad spectrum.

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Speaker 1: so these are like the golden things that I do.

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Speaker 2: I do these as well, like broad spectrum. People should

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Speaker 2: Like the golden rules in your relationship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like golden rules, golden actions, golden behaviors. I don't

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Speaker 1: I think one of my love language, like one of

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean, Like, I love quality time,

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Speaker 3: but I do think that if this says bioflowers, I'm

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Speaker 2: But is that all it says?

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Speaker 2: But so I do think that maybe I'm thinking active

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Speaker 2: like this is just things I do. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not saying someone has to do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I don't have to justify your actions. Man,

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Speaker 1: What do I always sound like? I do need to

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Speaker 1: Would you say that's a golden rule though, No, say

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Speaker 1: this is something I do, Like, I don't think it's

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Speaker 2: This is a golden rule of your relationship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like it's become a thing where it's like

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Speaker 3: A key fundamental that if you didn't do that, your

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Speaker 1: I think if I stopped doing it, it's not going

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Speaker 2: No, I agree that in my relationship a big party.

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Speaker 3: I reckon go through all your lists, okay, because we

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, okay, it's interesting seeing any brain works. And

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Speaker 2: And I think it's a very nice gesture. I bought

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Speaker 2: I don't think very nice gesture that goes a long way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't know what's going on in my

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Speaker 1: And then I actually had a dream two nights ago

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Speaker 1: was like no, no, it's fine. She loves it.

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Speaker 3: Every time I do it, she loves it, like it

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Speaker 3: doesn't matter what flowers. I think it's good that you

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Speaker 1: I just don't even know why, though, Yeah you know

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Speaker 3: I think it's good to normalize men buying girls flowers

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Speaker 3: And I wonder if we do it, like that's a

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Speaker 3: That Okay, and you're gonna see where mine and Jake's

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Speaker 2: Yeah I like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, I took this question completely different. All right,

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Speaker 3: So the Golden rules of dating?

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Speaker 1: Can I ask you something?

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Speaker 1: For next week? Could you bring your version of mine?

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Speaker 3: But it's realizing that it's so good to be a

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Speaker 1: So, like, I don't think that's something I struggle with

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Speaker 3: Every person knows people that spend every single minute with

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Speaker 3: rule number two building a safe environment to be sad, angry,

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Speaker 1: Fuck.

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Speaker 3: That's a good one and my first like semi relationship.

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Speaker 3: I've never had that, Like I was never able to

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Speaker 2: We never really told each other how we really felt.

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Speaker 1: No, that's fuck, that's a good one. A And I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And there's always assumptions in relationships when they shouldn't be.

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Speaker 3: And like you make someone feel a certain way and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And like you don't have to agree on everything,

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Speaker 3: Like honestly, Yeah, next golden rule number three, This is

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Speaker 3: something I've always wanted, Like you don't I want two

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Speaker 2: Oh damn fuck. That was based in nine months. Spoken

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and obviously there's more little ones that obviously all

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Speaker 2: But definitely talking about those things is really important.

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Speaker 3: Like, and that's A big thing that some people can't

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Speaker 2: It's okay not to have sex.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, like it's okay to not fucking be horny

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I know sex isn't everything. That's also a

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Speaker 3: And my last one God rule this is we've been

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Speaker 1: not right for me, and she's not this person I've

442
00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:27,520
Speaker 1: built up this false pretense in my head.

443
00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, she or he's not really real. I've just made

444
00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:30,560
Speaker 2: them up.

445
00:19:31,760 --> 00:19:34,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, well we figured, we figured with a few dilemmas

446
00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:35,840
Speaker 1: that a lot of a lot of a.

447
00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:41,560
Speaker 2: Lot of things that happen is like either he or

448
00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:42,440
Speaker 2: her will.

449
00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:46,920
Speaker 1: Look at the partner and kind of understand that who

450
00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:51,760
Speaker 1: they are right now isn't obviously like wife or husband material. Yeah,

451
00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:56,159
Speaker 1: but like you said, they they think of them in

452
00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:58,560
Speaker 1: the future as that, and then they hope like that

453
00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:00,520
Speaker 1: they will turn into that. Yeah, but I mean, they're

454
00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:03,720
Speaker 1: their own person, and it's not overly. It's not really

455
00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,400
Speaker 1: their fault if they're not meeting your expectations, because there's

456
00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:07,720
Speaker 1: expectations like that, don't even.

457
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Speaker 3: There's a long way to go before he gets to

458
00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:12,760
Speaker 3: this thing you've made up in your head. Yeah, and

459
00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:15,440
Speaker 3: if he gets there, like fucking oath, but like he's

460
00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:16,920
Speaker 3: not there yet or she's not there yet.

461
00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:19,040
Speaker 1: Fuck that's a good one. Ah.

462
00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:19,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

463
00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:23,680
Speaker 3: Honestly, like I for me, I often think I want

464
00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:26,040
Speaker 3: to marry my girlfriend in the future, but we're not

465
00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:26,560
Speaker 3: there yet.

466
00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:27,240
Speaker 1: Nah.

467
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:28,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think of it as like my wife

468
00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:29,280
Speaker 2: right now.

469
00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:29,840
Speaker 1: No.

470
00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:32,280
Speaker 3: No, he's my perfect girlfriend, but she's not my wife,

471
00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:33,320
Speaker 3: And that funny A.

472
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Speaker 1: I feel like dating is like, you know, you can

473
00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:38,439
Speaker 1: talk about it as much as you want, and you

474
00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:40,240
Speaker 1: could learn about it as much as you want from

475
00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,119
Speaker 1: any professional or something like that. I don't know, but

476
00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:47,240
Speaker 1: like maybe one thing that like I want to accept

477
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:49,720
Speaker 1: and I think I do accept it, is that you're

478
00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:54,520
Speaker 1: never really gonna have all the answers to all the problems.

479
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:56,919
Speaker 3: And why do you think like guys don't talk about

480
00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,639
Speaker 3: it as much? Like I know for a fact, our

481
00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:03,200
Speaker 3: friends and have in depth conversations about the Golden rules

482
00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:03,639
Speaker 3: of dating.

483
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 1: No, and before podcast we probably wouldn't have either.

484
00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 3: No, Like we talk about it a little bit more

485
00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:13,880
Speaker 3: Like we started this podcast, we were having conversations around

486
00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:17,240
Speaker 3: campfires traveling Australia and we had similar to this in

487
00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 3: a certain extent, Yeah, but nowhere near as in depth.

488
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 3: But like, why don't guys talk about these sort of things?

489
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,800
Speaker 3: And like, I feel like a lot more relationships would

490
00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:29,919
Speaker 3: benefit from their friendship groups talking about like these intimate

491
00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:32,719
Speaker 3: conversations about feelings and how we want to have a

492
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:35,879
Speaker 3: really healthy relationship, but instead, like, I don't know, if

493
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,080
Speaker 3: we just talk about fucking do she just talk about

494
00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 3: the dumbest shit?

495
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:41,159
Speaker 1: D even thinking about it? Now that you say that,

496
00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:49,200
Speaker 1: the amount of probably arguments that could have gone as

497
00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,880
Speaker 1: conversations instead of arguments when when I was younger with ex'es,

498
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:57,919
Speaker 1: if I was to just like, maybe if it was

499
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,680
Speaker 1: normal for guys to talk about that type of shit,

500
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 1: and then I would bring things up, and then all

501
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:06,439
Speaker 1: it would have taken would for one person with a

502
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 1: sensible brain to be like, yeah, I mean, you're kind

503
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:09,680
Speaker 1: of putting her on this like pedestal that she doesn't

504
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:12,680
Speaker 1: even know about, and then I would have been like, oh, yeah,

505
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 1: you're right. And then there's probably like a fair few

506
00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 1: arguments in my relationships that I can think of that

507
00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:20,880
Speaker 1: probably didn't even wouldn't have even happened, because maybe one

508
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 1: person would have just been like, oh, yeah, but you're

509
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 1: thinking like like that because you love her and you

510
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 1: want her to be a certain way to match you,

511
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 1: whereas you know she's her own person. Like if someone

512
00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:33,240
Speaker 1: had a sensible fucking response, Let's be real, but isn't

513
00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 1: that yeah, like she did, do you reckon?

514
00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 3: It's something to do with like the male independence power

515
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 3: trip that like we don't want to hear that from

516
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:40,640
Speaker 3: other people.

517
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 2: We've got to figure it out ourselves.

518
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:44,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be a pretty common thing that men

519
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 1: don't want to accept. Because I'm looking, that's also showing

520
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 1: a bit of weakness.

521
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:50,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I'm looking. I've definitely done things in the past.

522
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:52,800
Speaker 3: But like a lot of my friends relationships, I could

523
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,400
Speaker 3: have said, like you don't have any independent like whatever

524
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 3: a your independence man, eh, Like that's really important in

525
00:22:58,480 --> 00:22:59,119
Speaker 3: a relationship.

526
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 1: I found that the only time we ever talked to

527
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 1: a friend about their relationship is if it's gotten so

528
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:07,639
Speaker 1: toxic that we notice, Yeah, and then everyone kind of

529
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,879
Speaker 1: says something, but I shouldn't get to that.

530
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:11,479
Speaker 2: We're going off the last episode two No One.

531
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,879
Speaker 3: He's taught how to love and like if we had

532
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 3: more conversations about how to love properly and like we

533
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:21,119
Speaker 3: shared Jake says, I bought my girlfriend flowers and I

534
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 3: open a car door every time we go, and she

535
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,920
Speaker 3: loves it. Like it's such a healthy thing through a relationship.

536
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 3: Like we're the only two dudes you've probably fucking say

537
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 3: that true, yeah, and not say it in yeah, like

538
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,480
Speaker 3: we never talk you like you said in another episode,

539
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,159
Speaker 3: we never talk about our relationship. It's in a positive light.

540
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 3: It's only ever if it's toxic or in a bad way.

541
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 3: I think it's the time to like normalize, especially with

542
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,240
Speaker 3: our other friends who are more manly than us. Yeah,

543
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,440
Speaker 3: the like we should tell them about the good things

544
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 3: that we do, and like, yeah, say how much you love.

545
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 1: Her, bring up all the good things. If you're in

546
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 1: a girlfriendship group that doesn't do it, say how much

547
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:53,959
Speaker 1: you love your boyfriend, bring up all the good things.

548
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,120
Speaker 1: So then when you bring up the bad they they're

549
00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:58,680
Speaker 1: not totally biased towards you, because, yeah, your boyfriend's a human,

550
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,400
Speaker 1: your girlfriend's just a human, and they're all was fucking

551
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:01,440
Speaker 1: living for the first time.

552
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:02,880
Speaker 2: I'll tell you one thing I'm talking about.

553
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,239
Speaker 3: Finished this segment on I did one think good thing

554
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:06,720
Speaker 3: that I think my girlfriend really appreciated.

555
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 2: Yesterday, He's going for a run. She's really struggling with

556
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:09,640
Speaker 2: the kilometers.

557
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 3: She's training for one hundred kilometers, struggling and having a

558
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:14,680
Speaker 3: few manty bees here and there, as you would, And

559
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 3: she went for a running.

560
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:16,959
Speaker 2: I was driving home. I was like fuck, I surprised.

561
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 3: And when she was running, when I bought her flowers

562
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 3: and a little chocolate to put in the fridge, little

563
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 3: chocolate lava cake actually carb hit yeah, and I read

564
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,919
Speaker 3: a little card proudy pooky checked it and make her

565
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:29,920
Speaker 3: feel great. Checked the freezer and check the freezer. Chocolate

566
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 3: lava cake and like she loved it, and she said,

567
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:34,359
Speaker 3: I appreciate you, and like, I think that after a

568
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,639
Speaker 3: shitty run, she's been really sad about the maun kilometers,

569
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:37,360
Speaker 3: the ruling one.

570
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, little things like that, I'll say something bad that

571
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:43,199
Speaker 2: I do. That's good, that's good.

572
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 3: See, I'll open up about the bad thing before you

573
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 3: were about to outdo me.

574
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 2: Then I will not be out doing you.

575
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 1: As I said said. You know, I like to open

576
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,399
Speaker 1: the car door for my girlfriend Beth. I like to

577
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,680
Speaker 1: give her flowers when I can, but I still do

578
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,479
Speaker 1: give her shit. And when we went away one weekend,

579
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 1: she asked me to get her a glass of water,

580
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: and I said, you got two legs, get your own water.

581
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:09,120
Speaker 1: And let's be real.

582
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 2: If she said no, no, no, I would have went

583
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 2: and got it.

584
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 1: But she went and got it.

585
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:17,119
Speaker 2: And then later that day I think I asked her

586
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 2: for something.

587
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 1: She was like, you got two legs. I was like, yeah,

588
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,439
Speaker 1: nice joke, fucking material.

589
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I do. Yeah.

590
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,360
Speaker 3: Look, and maybe next time I'll fill up my girlfriend's

591
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 3: water bottle when she asks.

592
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 2: Maybe now that you've told me that.

593
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was good.

594
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 2: Maybe.

595
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 1: Okay, I've got a I've got a synopsis synopsis.

596
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 2: It's been a minute.

597
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 1: You've got a TV show synopsis for you. We haven't

598
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 1: done with ages, and I'm like semi stressed about giving

599
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:55,159
Speaker 1: this synopsis because I want the synopsis to give, like,

600
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 1: do the show justice.

601
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 2: It's a good show.

602
00:25:57,960 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 1: I will start off with.

603
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:03,200
Speaker 2: It's a show, bro, it's a show.

604
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 1: Okay.

605
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 2: For reference, back in the day, Jake is a movie boy.

606
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 2: I used to love them. He used to come every

607
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 2: week with a new movie. Yeah yeah, for his research.

608
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Okay.

609
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 1: I wasn't watching Netflix for a while. Okay.

610
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 2: And then.

611
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 1: A week ago I went out for dinner with my

612
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:32,159
Speaker 1: girlfriend Beth, her best friend Casey, and we went and

613
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 1: got oh my god, have you I won't talk about it.

614
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:36,920
Speaker 1: We won't got food. Yeah. I was gonna tell you

615
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 1: about the food, but fuck too long, And so Casey

616
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: actually suggested the show, and it kind of went through

617
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 1: one ear and out of the other. Yeah, I thought

618
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 1: that I wasn't listening to her, but I was just

619
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 1: like but I was like yeah, and she suggested it

620
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: because podcasting isn't it And she said it was really good.

621
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,640
Speaker 1: But then we also got a post in the Facebook

622
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 1: group asking, really asking if we'd watched it, So thank you, Casey.

623
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 1: I would just want to give her some credit, not

624
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 1: that she's listening, but also the person.

625
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:08,639
Speaker 2: What's the show man?

626
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 1: Tell me the show?

627
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 2: What's called Nobody Wants This? Nobody Wants This?

628
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 1: It's called Nobody Wants This. It's got starring Adam Brody, Kristen,

629
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: Kirsten Bell, Kristen Bell, Dak Shepherd's wife mate, your Favorite

630
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 1: your favorite podcast a Dak Shepherd, and so I wanted

631
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 1: to talk about I'm sure so many of the go

632
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: the post listening I've watched this, Like I don't want

633
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 1: to give anything away, okay, I but haven't seen a

634
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:34,360
Speaker 1: single thing I will, Okay. What I want to say

635
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:39,879
Speaker 1: is they So Kristen Bell is one of the stars,

636
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 1: and her and her sister have a podcast in the show,

637
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 1: and the podcast is called Nobody Wants This. Okay, good name.

638
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 1: It's actually a good name. Like there is definitely going

639
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 1: to be a podcast called Nobody Wants This Now, by

640
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 1: the way, and I'll probably listen to it.

641
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 2: Or maybe Kirstin Bell her husband fucking produces shit.

642
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: Maybe she's in STARTE don't care whatever, But okay, first off,

643
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 1: the person that asked in the Facebook group said, I

644
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:02,639
Speaker 1: want to know what it was, like, how did they

645
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 1: depict podcasting? How like did you do you guys experience

646
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 1: what they experienced? And is it at all accurate?

647
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:08,879
Speaker 2: Probably really good.

648
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 1: That's what I want to talk about first. Okay, so

649
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 1: first things first. One thing I really enjoyed and I

650
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 1: was very happy about is that they didn't actually show

651
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:22,719
Speaker 1: very much podcasting because I was like, how did how

652
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 1: are you going to portray it? Like every there was

653
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 1: maybe there's ten episodes. They are all twenty five minutes,

654
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:29,120
Speaker 1: which I loved because like it was a good little

655
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 1: taste to get back into watching TV.

656
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 2: And it was like, have you finished it?

657
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 1: Yeah? Finished, I've watched all ten episodes twenty five minutes,

658
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: so it wasn't that long.

659
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 2: Hi, I'm proud of you for working.

660
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: Thank you. I was like, this is work. I'm getting

661
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 1: paid to do this, and so uh, of all ten

662
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: episodes that I didn't even think every episode had a

663
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 1: scene of podcasting. That was probably seven scenes of like

664
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: a bit of a segment of a podcast. So they

665
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: didn't overdo it, like because they had to fake it obviously,

666
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 1: but I think they did a great job not making it.

667
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 1: But what was happening with the girls with their podcast

668
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: is they are in a stage that we are in.

669
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 1: So I really related to it in a sense of

670
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 1: So they have a manager and the podcast is about

671
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 1: sex love relationships okay from two women though, and they

672
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 1: get some guests on but you don't really see it,

673
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 1: but they do that, so it's not the same podcast.

674
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: But they are currently the process of being signed, which.

675
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 2: We were not.

676
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 1: We're not like in the process. We're just like we

677
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: we talk to people, we have meetings and stuff. But

678
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 1: I will say in the show, with the meetings they had,

679
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 1: they were we haven't experienced this, but some of the

680
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 1: some of the like execs or whatever that they were

681
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 1: talking to, we're trying to kind of make them change

682
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: their show. Oh, which we haven't experienced yet. All we've

683
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 1: experienced is people wanting us to lean in.

684
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 3: We've also done put our foot down in most of

685
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 3: these meetings and said we know what we wanted.

686
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 2: Yes, we like what we do, yes, because there could

687
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 2: be also a lot of their meetings with execs were

688
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:15,959
Speaker 2: in person.

689
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: Doesn't happen.

690
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 2: It's all zoom, guys, Yeah, you know, it's all zoom.

691
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 1: And also one thing I found very funny that they

692
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: got quite accurate was her and her sister have some

693
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 1: scenes where they'll go just it, don't tell me Saven

694
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 1: for the podcast, which.

695
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 2: Is very relatable. When me and Jack lived together, we

696
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 2: were doing that fucking daily.

697
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 1: So they got that quite correct, if you guys wanted

698
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 1: to know. One thing they didn't get very correct unless

699
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 1: what they were trying to depict was that their podcast

700
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 1: already later made a lot of money. Was there was

701
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 1: really it's obviously a TV show, But like they it

702
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 1: was it looked like they were producing the whole thing themselves.

703
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: They had the gear, they were doing it in their

704
00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 1: their lounge room, a little Neon sign, but like they

705
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 1: didn't show any of the work that went into it.

706
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: They made podcasting look very very easy, and not that

707
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 1: it's like we love it, but I will say that there.

708
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 3: Is work that goes into it a lot behind the

709
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 3: scenes work. Well, most podcasts that you probably listen to

710
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 3: have teams of people who think of the content for

711
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 3: the two people talking about it yep, and then post

712
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 3: production have a couple of editors who edit the whole

713
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 3: thing for yep.

714
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm assuming. They had to pick it

715
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 1: in on this show, which we don't have us personally,

716
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 1: we produce and edit everything, which we would love to

717
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: let go of one day, Yeah, to focus more on content.

718
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 1: But she did. There was a scene actually where where

719
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: the guy says, don't you do a lot of research

720
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: for the show, and she goes, well, my manager does it,

721
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:46,479
Speaker 1: and then she sends me the note and I kind

722
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: of just choose the things I like. So maybe they

723
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 1: are like that to be fair, So maybe like some

724
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: people's podcasting life is different to ours, where they don't

725
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: work all week and then they do a one hour

726
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 1: show and then they're sweet. So they could have got

727
00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 1: it accurate for some, but for us it was not accurate.

728
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 3: I think it's accurate for people who are influencers already, yes,

729
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 3: and then they started a podcast.

730
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: Okay, So for anyone asking that question, that's how I

731
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: feel about the podcasting side.

732
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 2: They did good and there wasn't much podcasting, which I loved.

733
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 1: Okay. Secondly, Addie M, if you miss that giddy feeling

734
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 1: of when you were first talking to your girlfriend.

735
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 2: Watch this fucking show.

736
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 1: Really, I'm telling you. I was sitting there kicking my feet, giggling,

737
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: covering my mouth.

738
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 2: I couldn't stop smiling, making me want to watch it bad.

739
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 1: You have to watch this show, Okay. Tonight, what I

740
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 1: could think about was, Okay, this isn't really giving anything

741
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,719
Speaker 1: away because you understand this is going to happen, all right.

742
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 1: They produce single handedly the best first kiss scene in

743
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 1: a show I've ever watched, Really, bro I wanted my

744
00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: girlfriend there with me, and I just wanted.

745
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 2: To I want to reenact.

746
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 1: I can't. Oh fuck, do you.

747
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 2: Want to reenact it?

748
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 1: We'll turn the camera.

749
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 2: Picture of it, okay, so be ready for that.

750
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: I will now go with the other character that is

751
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: the love interest, and I'm really going late and I'm

752
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 1: not giving anything away here because I don't want to.

753
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 1: So there's a spite. His character is first of all, rugged, sexy. Okay,

754
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 1: I will Sayjack, skinny lumberjack. When you first see him

755
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: you're like mm hmmm. And then his personality comes out

756
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: and the amount of money I would pay to be

757
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: that fucking smooth with women. I know it's a written

758
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 1: TV show and he's probably not like that in real

759
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 1: life and nobody is, but the amount of money, it's

760
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 1: a fucking Harvey Specter.

761
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 2: But I don't know wholesome, you know what I'm saying.

762
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: Fuck man, it's crazy shit. But he is a rabbi,

763
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 1: which is a Jewish religion thing. He's a rabbi of

764
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 1: a temple, which is like their church, that's temple. I

765
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 1: can't talk about how accurately they depicted Judaism because I'm

766
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,400
Speaker 1: not Jewish. I would love to know from someone that

767
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 1: is Jewish. All I know is there was a slight

768
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: bit of feedback about how they made all the Jewish

769
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 1: women seem like bitches. Yeah, and I think some of

770
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: the only feed like feedback they got was that they're

771
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 1: not that bitchy. But they really really got a very

772
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: very accurate Okay, I'm gonna finish on this because I

773
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 1: want you to watch it and then we can talk

774
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: about it together and give spoiler alerts and talk about

775
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 1: it together. Because so another thing that they got so

776
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:59,839
Speaker 1: fucking insanely accurate. Is the spiraling that you do when

777
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 1: they haven't maybe replied to a text, or the spiraling

778
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 1: that you do of when your sister or your brother

779
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: or a good friend of yours has an opinion about

780
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: the person you're seeing the spiral.

781
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 2: It was fucking crazy accurate. Sh that's cool, crazy accurate.

782
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 1: There's some cringey scenes that I was like, you know,

783
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 1: it's part.

784
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,760
Speaker 2: Of life, yet that's the element.

785
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 1: I know.

786
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 2: It just made it. I just was.

787
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:29,479
Speaker 1: I was binging the shit out of it. And oh shit,

788
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: I don't even I just I'm saying this to trying

789
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 1: and people to watch it, which they'll pay me for this.

790
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: But once you watch this, Brom, we're giving spoilerlets and

791
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 1: we're going into it, okay, because I've never felt more

792
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 1: giddy watching the show in my life.

793
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 2: They make you love the brother really he is hilarious. Okay,

794
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 2: and yeah, I want to watch it.

795
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: Yea, one hundred percent you have to watch it.

796
00:35:56,520 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 3: Talking about inside knowledge on like podcast thing, well maybe

797
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 3: live it on this one tip. Probably you didn't know

798
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 3: all your favorite podcasters who do movie synopsis get the

799
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 3: TVC series early and get paid to promote it. Yeah,

800
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 3: so if you're here and like, oh, like I don't

801
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:17,839
Speaker 3: know what's just what's it's called?

802
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 2: Again?

803
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 1: This is God nobody wants?

804
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeahy say it came out today and then your

805
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 3: favorite podcast is doing a full synopsis on it. He

806
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 3: probably got it two weeks ago and he's getting paid

807
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 3: to promote it. This is coming from the goodness of

808
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 3: Jake's heart. This is coming from the good from my heart.

809
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 1: Because you guys asked and yeah, that was my So

810
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 1: that's my opinion on the accuracy of the podcasting. I

811
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 1: want you to listen, let me know what you think,

812
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 1: because I've I watched it all very quickly, so there

813
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 1: was probably a lot I left out. Yeah, they the depiction,

814
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:41,839
Speaker 1: like the accuracy on what it's like to start seeing

815
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: someone new, and the obsession and the limerens and the

816
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:48,479
Speaker 1: and the and the judginess from people and the different

817
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: types of families, meddling, and like, I really want to

818
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: know how accurate they got the judaism thing. I really

819
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 1: want to know because it was very intense and oh

820
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:58,240
Speaker 1: is there anything else? Oh that first kiss.

821
00:36:58,440 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 2: Over one thing?

822
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,320
Speaker 3: I want to say the Jake Jake came to me

823
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 3: about six months ago with the idea to have a

824
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:07,879
Speaker 3: TV Netflix series about podcasting. Because it hasn't happened yet. Yeah,

825
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 3: this is probably being recorded in the background. When he

826
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 3: had this idea, I was like, Fuck, that's a good idea.

827
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 2: And they did it. They did it good, and they

828
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,919
Speaker 2: honestly did a good job. They did a great job.

829
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: And last thing that I will say is it obviously

830
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: was fine in this scenario because both the co stars

831
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: are married two actors. Dax Shepherd is an actor and

832
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: Adam Brady is married to one of the main characters

833
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 1: of Gossip Girl. Oh really okay, who's very attractive and Okay,

834
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: I just don't understand how a married person can be

835
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 1: okay with the intense love that they that they that

836
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:55,440
Speaker 1: they do in this show, the Kissing bro Like, you

837
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: couldn't watch it. I would be like, look, you're getting

838
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,120
Speaker 1: a payday fair, this is your profession.

839
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 2: That does bring up a good point, like where's the line?

840
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 1: Where is the line at the point of like because

841
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 1: also another thing is they're both very successful before this show.

842
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 2: They don't need this show.

843
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 1: They're probably doing it because it's a good opportunity. It's

844
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 1: something with Netflix. It's probably a good payday.

845
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:16,960
Speaker 2: They love the writing, but they don't.

846
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 1: Need the show.

847
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 2: But is it playing on your insecurities? I don't know,

848
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 2: But is it an insecurity that I don't.

849
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: Want my fucking wife kissing someone else intensely work? I know,

850
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:34,360
Speaker 1: but think about it.

851
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I think you brought up a great point that, like,

852
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 3: because the partners are actors, they probably know the difference

853
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,840
Speaker 3: between acting and you see it as intimate connection, but

854
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 3: they see it.

855
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:45,799
Speaker 2: As like good save guys.

856
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 1: Yes, a good point.

857
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,320
Speaker 3: I just put my I've always never understood jokes like

858
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 3: how do dudes do those scenes about getting bonus or

859
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 3: they just like the tape it to their undies before

860
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 3: they start us.

861
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 2: I don't know.

862
00:38:57,040 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 1: There was like really the good thing about this one

863
00:38:58,840 --> 00:38:59,959
Speaker 1: was that there was all just a load of kissing

864
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:01,840
Speaker 1: scenes and then it was like you knew they had

865
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 1: just had sex, but they would just see in they.

866
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 2: Get excited when I'm doing both those things.

867
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:12,320
Speaker 1: Like an attractive But I'll end it on this is

868
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 1: off topic. This is talking about where you were talking

869
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 1: about just then. Nicole Kidman. Yeah, big actor, biggest trod actor, huge,

870
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:22,320
Speaker 1: massive actor. She's doing a current show where there's a

871
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 1: lot of sex scenes, and apparently she made a comment

872
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:29,439
Speaker 1: to the press or something on somewhere she's like, she goes,

873
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: she's a married woman, by the way, and she starts

874
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 1: talking about like, I can't stop having orgasms during these

875
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:41,720
Speaker 1: sex scenes. I didn't even think that would be an issue.

876
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 1: But also what that says is that either they're actually

877
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 1: having sex or that he does have a boner and

878
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,920
Speaker 1: it's very much rubbing up on the area unless she

879
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: can just orgasm like by thinking of stuff. And that's

880
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Speaker 1: just not what I don't know.

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00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:57,479
Speaker 2: But because she's.

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00:39:57,640 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 3: Married, that also takes away in my part where she's

883
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 3: not acting because she's actually feeling it.

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Speaker 1: She's dedicated to the craft.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's enveloped by the seeds.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, so that's that's my synopsis without any spoilers.

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Speaker 1: I want Addie to watch it. Once you watch it,

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Speaker 1: I think you will binge it if you like it.

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Speaker 1: I will say the first like, when you watch it, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Jack left heaps out, So when you give for the

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Speaker 1: first episode and I think you'll love it after.

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Speaker 2: That, I'll come back let everyone know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it won't take you long. Sweet, Okay, thank you

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Speaker 1: very much for listening, guys.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I would like to read one more page from how

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Speaker 1: to Piss Men Off.

898
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:41,799
Speaker 2: We would like to piss some men off right now.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm going to read the small blurb first. My

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00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 1: roommate used this on me once and I had to

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00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 1: immediately turn my head away so she couldn't see the

902
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 1: tears coming from my eyes. Quote you say to him,

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Speaker 1: I was thinking about your posture the other day.

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Speaker 2: Damn, this would get me. Hey, this would get me.

905
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Speaker 2: Make it sound like the prelude to an intervention. Oh

906
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 2: that b How good is that I'm using that? Hey,

907
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Speaker 2: it's a good one. I have a bad posture to

908
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:19,799
Speaker 2: I get hunch. Just I don't even know I belave

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00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 2: it on my height, but I have a hunch.

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00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 1: I get bad posture too, And I've had a little

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00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 1: insecurity about it ever since. We posted a story about

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00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 1: something and you and I were both in it, and

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Speaker 1: then one of the comments of the stories was like, sorry,

914
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Speaker 1: the hunch has given me an ick, babe, And you

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00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 1: were standing up straight and I was hunting, so I

916
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Speaker 1: know it was about it, and so now I'm.

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Speaker 2: Just like, oh, fuck for funny you bring it up

918
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Speaker 2: to comparing you to me.

919
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Speaker 3: Someone came up to me in real life and was

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00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 3: talking about the pod and then met you before, and

921
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 3: they said, he's bigger than I thought he.

922
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Speaker 2: Was in person.

923
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: He's bigger in person.

924
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's bigger in person. And he said it's because

925
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 2: I'm next to you and make you look small.

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Speaker 1: Like.

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Speaker 2: So here's the thing is, I think I would prefer

928
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Speaker 2: to be uh.

929
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Speaker 1: I would prefer people to be like, oh, you're taller

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00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 1: than I thought, yeah, instead of being like, oh you're

931
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:14,839
Speaker 1: shorter than I thought. That would hurt.

932
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Speaker 3: They also they said it was like, maybe you're extremities

933
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:18,800
Speaker 3: because you like got big forearms and stuff.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know, it might look like you're a

935
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Speaker 2: bit of a short stumpy guy, might.

936
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Speaker 1: Start sitting on my knees or something. And I was

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Speaker 1: just like, eh, my.

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Speaker 2: Heart beats him again. Well, thank you everybody. We love you,

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Speaker 2: love you,