1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apodjay production. 2 00:00:10,121 --> 00:00:13,521 Speaker 2: We begin today by acknowledging the traditional custodians of the 3 00:00:13,601 --> 00:00:16,441 Speaker 2: land on which we gather today and pay our respects 4 00:00:16,481 --> 00:00:19,641 Speaker 2: to their elders past and present. We extend that respect 5 00:00:19,721 --> 00:00:25,441 Speaker 2: to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people's here today. Welcome 6 00:00:25,481 --> 00:00:28,641 Speaker 2: to the Grow and Glow Podcast. I'm Ashy, I'm Kiara. 7 00:00:28,961 --> 00:00:31,321 Speaker 2: This is a podcast where we learn, laugh, and level 8 00:00:31,401 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 2: up together. Let's go deep, let the emotions flow, and 9 00:00:34,281 --> 00:00:36,161 Speaker 2: find the lessons to grow and Glow. 10 00:00:36,521 --> 00:00:38,321 Speaker 1: Nothing is off the table with Grow and Glow and 11 00:00:38,361 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 1: we're here to be your expander. Lucky Wednesday, Welcome back. 12 00:00:46,881 --> 00:00:49,480 Speaker 1: So today's episode, we've got a few different stories and 13 00:00:49,641 --> 00:00:51,081 Speaker 1: just different things to bring up. Do you want to 14 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:54,521 Speaker 1: start on what shore this comment this person made about. 15 00:00:54,241 --> 00:00:55,041 Speaker 2: What you're wearing? 16 00:00:55,121 --> 00:00:55,401 Speaker 1: Sure? 17 00:00:55,561 --> 00:00:58,521 Speaker 2: So you guys know, we're all about being your authentic self, 18 00:00:58,681 --> 00:01:01,641 Speaker 2: doing what makes you feel good, leaning into wearing what 19 00:01:01,681 --> 00:01:03,441 Speaker 2: you want to wear. We are your girls, that we 20 00:01:03,521 --> 00:01:05,841 Speaker 2: are hype girls. Yes, so try to embody all of 21 00:01:05,881 --> 00:01:09,761 Speaker 2: this ourself. Anyway, went to a barbecue and I had 22 00:01:09,801 --> 00:01:12,481 Speaker 2: a maxi dress on, a black maxi dress that went 23 00:01:12,521 --> 00:01:14,121 Speaker 2: all the way to my ankles and it had a 24 00:01:14,321 --> 00:01:17,601 Speaker 2: nice little scoop neck. There was no Cleavid showing, there 25 00:01:17,681 --> 00:01:20,401 Speaker 2: was no legs showing. I felt very classy. 26 00:01:20,441 --> 00:01:20,761 Speaker 1: I had that. 27 00:01:20,801 --> 00:01:22,601 Speaker 2: And then I had like a beautiful coat that I 28 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 2: had hung over my arms. I had my heels on, 29 00:01:25,161 --> 00:01:28,321 Speaker 2: I had my jury on. I was feeling myself oh slash, 30 00:01:28,601 --> 00:01:31,121 Speaker 2: feeling so good. I just yeah, I felt really really great. 31 00:01:31,441 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 2: But anyways, and night was going on and everything was 32 00:01:34,161 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 2: all like good, so good, ha ha ha, and then 33 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:41,161 Speaker 2: somebody then someone turns to me and she goes to me, 34 00:01:41,481 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 2: why are you wearing that? And it was just one 35 00:01:43,681 --> 00:01:47,521 Speaker 2: of those moments for me where I was like, this 36 00:01:47,601 --> 00:01:50,561 Speaker 2: is why you should just wear what you want to wear, 37 00:01:50,761 --> 00:01:54,041 Speaker 2: because no matter what you wear, somebody's not gonna like 38 00:01:54,081 --> 00:01:56,761 Speaker 2: it or have an opinion about it. Anyway. Yeah, the 39 00:01:56,841 --> 00:01:58,921 Speaker 2: first thing I did is I said, excuse me, we 40 00:01:58,921 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 2: are you talking to me? Because I know then she's 41 00:02:01,841 --> 00:02:03,961 Speaker 2: got to take a second to go, oh shit. 42 00:02:04,161 --> 00:02:05,761 Speaker 1: Did I just say that, yeah. 43 00:02:05,521 --> 00:02:08,361 Speaker 2: And kind of hold her a little bit accountable, and 44 00:02:08,401 --> 00:02:10,681 Speaker 2: then she was like, oh yeah, yeah, like why are 45 00:02:10,721 --> 00:02:11,161 Speaker 2: you wearing that? 46 00:02:12,521 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: I don't think I wouldn't know what to say. 47 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:16,361 Speaker 2: I've never been asked before. My whole life that to 48 00:02:16,441 --> 00:02:18,561 Speaker 2: my face. Ever, So what did you say? I said, 49 00:02:18,601 --> 00:02:20,841 Speaker 2: because I feel great in it? I said, I feel 50 00:02:20,841 --> 00:02:23,921 Speaker 2: fucking fabulous. Isn't that tone? No? Because I feel great? Yeah, 51 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,121 Speaker 2: it was very uncomfortable, and I was a little bit 52 00:02:26,161 --> 00:02:29,361 Speaker 2: triggered afterwards. I was like, why comment on what someone 53 00:02:29,401 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 2: else is wearing? And plus like just gonna say I 54 00:02:31,841 --> 00:02:34,281 Speaker 2: usually dress a lot more provocative than that. And I 55 00:02:34,281 --> 00:02:36,681 Speaker 2: think because, like I said to you, I've actually never 56 00:02:36,881 --> 00:02:40,321 Speaker 2: in my life, face to face, had somebody asked me 57 00:02:40,441 --> 00:02:42,841 Speaker 2: why I was wearing what I was wearing. And yeah, 58 00:02:42,921 --> 00:02:44,761 Speaker 2: Kur and I had a chat on the drive back home, 59 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,041 Speaker 2: and I was like, how funny was that? And you know, 60 00:02:47,041 --> 00:02:48,841 Speaker 2: it's just one of those things where you go, how 61 00:02:49,201 --> 00:02:51,961 Speaker 2: funny is it that what I'm wearing can make someone 62 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:55,001 Speaker 2: feel so uncomfortable that they literally. 63 00:02:54,721 --> 00:02:56,921 Speaker 1: Have to say it to your face. It's one thing 64 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 1: to think about it, but to say it to another 65 00:02:58,520 --> 00:02:59,321 Speaker 1: woman and to. 66 00:02:59,201 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 2: Cause the uncomfortableness in the room. It just created such 67 00:03:02,001 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 2: an uncomfortable environment. But it just so badly had to 68 00:03:05,201 --> 00:03:07,441 Speaker 2: be said. So to me, like, I can obviously reflect 69 00:03:07,441 --> 00:03:09,441 Speaker 2: and be like, obviously, that's something that's got way more 70 00:03:09,481 --> 00:03:11,401 Speaker 2: to do with her and herself than it does to me. 71 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 1: It just feels so strange to ask because we would 72 00:03:13,841 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 1: never comment that on another woman's body. Yeah. 73 00:03:16,761 --> 00:03:18,521 Speaker 2: I think it was really great though, that I was 74 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:19,881 Speaker 2: wearing what I was wearing, because I think if I 75 00:03:19,881 --> 00:03:22,161 Speaker 2: was wearing something a bit more provocative, I would have 76 00:03:22,201 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 2: thought it was because of that. But it was actually 77 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:25,921 Speaker 2: really great that I was wearing something really classic. I 78 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:27,881 Speaker 2: could really like clearly see and be like, this is 79 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:31,321 Speaker 2: nothing on me. Yes, I'm wearing like that coat over there, 80 00:03:31,361 --> 00:03:33,921 Speaker 2: like a big coat, a dress that is fitted and 81 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,241 Speaker 2: down to my ankles. I said to Ashley when I 82 00:03:36,321 --> 00:03:38,361 Speaker 2: spoke to you afters I was like, I've actually never 83 00:03:38,441 --> 00:03:40,121 Speaker 2: experienced this face to face before. 84 00:03:40,281 --> 00:03:43,681 Speaker 1: I never have either, like online I have, like I 85 00:03:43,721 --> 00:03:46,921 Speaker 1: have had a couple of comments about picking Tarj up 86 00:03:46,921 --> 00:03:48,401 Speaker 1: from school in active wear. 87 00:03:48,561 --> 00:03:48,721 Speaker 2: Yeah. 88 00:03:48,721 --> 00:03:51,481 Speaker 1: I had another mum from school contact me afterwards and 89 00:03:51,521 --> 00:03:53,401 Speaker 1: just be like, oh, I do think it's appropriate to 90 00:03:53,401 --> 00:03:55,441 Speaker 1: be wearing your shorts and a crop top to ask 91 00:03:55,561 --> 00:03:58,121 Speaker 1: or pickup And I said, well, who said it's not appropriate? 92 00:03:58,561 --> 00:04:00,761 Speaker 1: Like it's active rare. I own an active wear company, 93 00:04:00,801 --> 00:04:03,201 Speaker 1: I'm an active mum. I'm running Errand's all day I'm 94 00:04:03,201 --> 00:04:05,921 Speaker 1: not going to rock up in heels and a moomoo. 95 00:04:06,481 --> 00:04:09,361 Speaker 1: That's not my style. No, I'm just comfortable. And it 96 00:04:09,441 --> 00:04:11,161 Speaker 1: wasn't even like a low You know, there's a lot 97 00:04:11,201 --> 00:04:12,841 Speaker 1: of sports brides out there these days that are like 98 00:04:13,081 --> 00:04:15,481 Speaker 1: really strict, lots of skin on the back, really low 99 00:04:15,521 --> 00:04:18,241 Speaker 1: cutlet of cleavage like and even if they were, I 100 00:04:18,241 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: would not care if a mum rocked up to school 101 00:04:20,321 --> 00:04:23,121 Speaker 1: on that. And I obviously respect there's definitely different cultures 102 00:04:23,161 --> 00:04:25,241 Speaker 1: and things that have different beliefs and you know, wear 103 00:04:25,241 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: different clothes. But for me, like, it's okay in my 104 00:04:27,921 --> 00:04:29,921 Speaker 1: world for me to wear active wear. But I had 105 00:04:29,921 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 1: a moment that I was like, gosh, should I wear 106 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:34,641 Speaker 1: an oversized tea or something? I was like, no, why 107 00:04:34,641 --> 00:04:36,481 Speaker 1: don't judge the mum's wearing whatever they want to wear, 108 00:04:36,481 --> 00:04:38,001 Speaker 1: if they want to rock up in a Chanelle suit 109 00:04:38,121 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: or wear a moomoo. 110 00:04:38,841 --> 00:04:40,561 Speaker 2: Or we're active for it like you do you Yeah, 111 00:04:40,601 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 2: I don't. 112 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:42,241 Speaker 1: Know what's happened in your day. I don't know what 113 00:04:42,281 --> 00:04:44,161 Speaker 1: makes you feel good. God of white business, what. 114 00:04:44,241 --> 00:04:46,761 Speaker 2: You wear, and also buy you showing up and going 115 00:04:46,841 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 2: to school wearing that, Like I see other women do 116 00:04:49,041 --> 00:04:50,761 Speaker 2: that and I'll be like, oh, it like gives me 117 00:04:50,801 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 2: permission in a way. Yeah, Like the first time I 118 00:04:52,401 --> 00:04:54,001 Speaker 2: saw another woman wearing active but I was like, if 119 00:04:54,001 --> 00:04:57,361 Speaker 2: I'm going to gym straight afterwards, I can tell one percent. Yeah, 120 00:04:57,440 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 2: So it's kind of again like goes back to like 121 00:04:59,161 --> 00:04:59,721 Speaker 2: leading the way. 122 00:04:59,761 --> 00:05:01,161 Speaker 1: And if I imagine if I was like, oh, okay, 123 00:05:01,201 --> 00:05:02,521 Speaker 1: I won't wear that next time, but I was going 124 00:05:02,561 --> 00:05:03,601 Speaker 1: to the gym after and now I have to take 125 00:05:03,641 --> 00:05:06,201 Speaker 1: a second set of clothing to make Karen over here 126 00:05:06,241 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 1: feel happy. 127 00:05:06,841 --> 00:05:08,041 Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate that we use. 128 00:05:07,921 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: The name Karen. If your name is Karen, I'm so 129 00:05:09,761 --> 00:05:13,201 Speaker 1: so sorry. It's a really unfortunate name actually making new 130 00:05:13,241 --> 00:05:15,801 Speaker 1: on even like sensitive Sally, Like if your name Sally, 131 00:05:16,001 --> 00:05:20,561 Speaker 1: that sucks. I feel like Sally and Karen's names Oh 132 00:05:20,561 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 1: my goodness. But yeah, we just want to chat about that. 133 00:05:23,041 --> 00:05:25,081 Speaker 1: To just like wear the dress where the act of wear, 134 00:05:25,121 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: wear what makes you feel comfortable. Stop living your life 135 00:05:28,481 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: for everyone else but yourself, because otherwise you're just going 136 00:05:30,921 --> 00:05:33,361 Speaker 1: to have so much resentment built up and then you 137 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,001 Speaker 1: look back on your life when you're eating on your 138 00:05:35,001 --> 00:05:36,841 Speaker 1: deathbed and go far out. I wish I wore that 139 00:05:36,921 --> 00:05:39,361 Speaker 1: dress when I looked good. I wish I just owned it. 140 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:42,001 Speaker 1: Why did I listen to everyone that doesn't care about me? 141 00:05:42,041 --> 00:05:43,481 Speaker 1: They don't even know me. I don't even know them. 142 00:05:43,601 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: That's it, you know. 143 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,841 Speaker 2: And even as well, like, regardless of what you're wearing, 144 00:05:46,921 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 2: if you're gonna trigger someone, you're gonna trigger somewhere. I 145 00:05:48,961 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 2: feel like if you walked in there with active wear on, 146 00:05:50,841 --> 00:05:52,561 Speaker 2: or you walked in there with like a dress or 147 00:05:52,561 --> 00:05:54,521 Speaker 2: address on, that person still would have been feeling those 148 00:05:54,521 --> 00:05:57,321 Speaker 2: similar feelings. So it says more about the other person 149 00:05:57,361 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 2: than it does about hundred percent. 150 00:05:59,201 --> 00:06:02,481 Speaker 1: So flick it off and keeping you shake it up. 151 00:06:04,081 --> 00:06:06,841 Speaker 1: I have another crazy story. So we had these new 152 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:11,161 Speaker 1: neighbors that arrived and the guy was out there Mowen's lawns. 153 00:06:11,161 --> 00:06:12,481 Speaker 1: I said to see if I'll pull over say hello, 154 00:06:12,601 --> 00:06:14,361 Speaker 1: and they were like, hey, mate, welcome to the neighborhood. 155 00:06:14,401 --> 00:06:17,441 Speaker 1: And Steve shook his hand, and so it's a really nice neighborhood. 156 00:06:17,481 --> 00:06:20,001 Speaker 1: The kid's everywhere, like you have kids getting conversation. And 157 00:06:20,041 --> 00:06:22,441 Speaker 1: then I'm in the passenger seat and he's right next 158 00:06:22,481 --> 00:06:24,561 Speaker 1: to Steve and he looks at me, tilts his head 159 00:06:24,561 --> 00:06:27,721 Speaker 1: and he goes, you don't remember me? Do you? And 160 00:06:27,761 --> 00:06:31,321 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh god, oh what I was like, No, 161 00:06:31,521 --> 00:06:33,801 Speaker 1: it's like fifteen years ago at the Ivy night club 162 00:06:33,841 --> 00:06:35,921 Speaker 1: in Sydney. Here I am thinking, oh gosh, have we 163 00:06:35,961 --> 00:06:39,441 Speaker 1: hooked up? There's really uncomfortable. Why is he bringing this 164 00:06:39,601 --> 00:06:41,041 Speaker 1: up in front of Steve? But I'm also like, I 165 00:06:41,041 --> 00:06:42,601 Speaker 1: feel like I've got a pretty good memory and I 166 00:06:42,681 --> 00:06:46,561 Speaker 1: don't remember him. And he's like, oh interesting, and we're 167 00:06:46,601 --> 00:06:48,801 Speaker 1: like it was kind of just like left at that, like, okay, 168 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:51,681 Speaker 1: we'll see you around. See drives off and see. He's like, so, 169 00:06:52,001 --> 00:06:55,241 Speaker 1: what happened? What happened there? I'm like, honestly, babe, before 170 00:06:55,241 --> 00:06:57,801 Speaker 1: I had kissed him or something, I've got nothing to hide. 171 00:06:57,801 --> 00:07:00,481 Speaker 1: It was fifteen years ago, but I honestly don't remember him. 172 00:07:00,721 --> 00:07:02,121 Speaker 1: And then I felt Bagcas, I feel like I've got 173 00:07:02,121 --> 00:07:05,041 Speaker 1: such a good memory. And anyways, a couple of weeks later, 174 00:07:05,081 --> 00:07:07,441 Speaker 1: he's got a little girl similar age to Tala, and 175 00:07:07,521 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 1: our little girls get along so well. We're literally next 176 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:11,361 Speaker 1: door neighbors, so we're always outside playing and it's just 177 00:07:11,401 --> 00:07:14,081 Speaker 1: me and him with our girls. Because so, you really 178 00:07:14,081 --> 00:07:16,721 Speaker 1: don't remember that night? And I said no, but there's 179 00:07:16,761 --> 00:07:21,321 Speaker 1: obviously a story enlighten me, tell me. He's like, so 180 00:07:21,761 --> 00:07:23,641 Speaker 1: you and your friend, I won't say her name. I'm 181 00:07:23,641 --> 00:07:25,681 Speaker 1: not differ friends with her anymore. We actually stopped being 182 00:07:25,721 --> 00:07:28,041 Speaker 1: friends after this night, probably for this reason. He said, 183 00:07:28,041 --> 00:07:30,841 Speaker 1: you and your friend were at Ivy nightclub and you 184 00:07:30,881 --> 00:07:33,761 Speaker 1: were quite intoxicated, which yes, eighteen nineteen year old, as 185 00:07:33,801 --> 00:07:36,921 Speaker 1: she didn't know how to handle that alcohol. And there 186 00:07:36,961 --> 00:07:39,601 Speaker 1: was a bunch of us boys and a lot of people, 187 00:07:39,641 --> 00:07:41,601 Speaker 1: and you and her had a hotel room and we 188 00:07:41,681 --> 00:07:43,401 Speaker 1: ended up going back to the hotel room and you 189 00:07:43,441 --> 00:07:46,241 Speaker 1: were really intoxicated, and you had said to your friend, 190 00:07:46,281 --> 00:07:47,681 Speaker 1: I'm going to go to bed because I'm just like 191 00:07:47,801 --> 00:07:50,721 Speaker 1: not feeling good. You went to bed, and as you've 192 00:07:50,761 --> 00:07:53,041 Speaker 1: gone to bed, this guy has like given a nods 193 00:07:53,041 --> 00:07:55,081 Speaker 1: as if he's going to like, yeah, I'm going in there, 194 00:07:55,841 --> 00:07:59,441 Speaker 1: followed me in there, and my next neighbor must have 195 00:07:59,481 --> 00:08:02,121 Speaker 1: had like a gut intuition of what the fuck's going on? 196 00:08:02,721 --> 00:08:04,681 Speaker 1: We're in there, and if he came in a minute 197 00:08:04,761 --> 00:08:05,841 Speaker 1: later would have been inside me. 198 00:08:08,001 --> 00:08:11,081 Speaker 2: Did you remember this night? So I don't remember, really 199 00:08:11,121 --> 00:08:13,601 Speaker 2: blacked out, So you must only just become aware of 200 00:08:13,641 --> 00:08:14,121 Speaker 2: this when he. 201 00:08:14,081 --> 00:08:16,041 Speaker 1: Has told you. Yeah, fifteen years later. 202 00:08:15,881 --> 00:08:17,241 Speaker 2: So that guy could have done that and gotten away 203 00:08:17,241 --> 00:08:19,001 Speaker 2: with it. Yeah, you would not even have any memory. 204 00:08:19,481 --> 00:08:21,201 Speaker 1: I'm sure I would have woken up and been sore, 205 00:08:21,361 --> 00:08:23,601 Speaker 1: or like maybe seeing a condo. I don't know. Well, 206 00:08:24,041 --> 00:08:27,121 Speaker 1: but I was just like, oh my god. And he 207 00:08:27,161 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: put out his phone. He's like, is this your number? 208 00:08:29,081 --> 00:08:31,281 Speaker 1: It was my old number. I was like, oh my gosh, 209 00:08:31,401 --> 00:08:33,841 Speaker 1: this is a full blown true story. And he said 210 00:08:33,841 --> 00:08:36,801 Speaker 1: he punched the guy got him out, and then we 211 00:08:36,881 --> 00:08:39,121 Speaker 1: both obviously never spoke to that girl again. I remember 212 00:08:39,161 --> 00:08:41,921 Speaker 1: this girl. We just went online and we were having 213 00:08:41,921 --> 00:08:44,921 Speaker 1: fun or whatever, but I remember that night being really 214 00:08:45,001 --> 00:08:47,001 Speaker 1: upset with her because I'm quite a girl's girl, like 215 00:08:47,041 --> 00:08:48,921 Speaker 1: when I got with my girls. Yeah, I was single, 216 00:08:48,921 --> 00:08:51,521 Speaker 1: and I'm sure I was flirty and like ready to 217 00:08:51,561 --> 00:08:53,241 Speaker 1: meet people. But when I'm out with my friends, like 218 00:08:53,281 --> 00:08:54,641 Speaker 1: I want to be with them, I'm not the girl 219 00:08:54,641 --> 00:08:56,761 Speaker 1: that's going to ditch you for a guy. And she 220 00:08:56,841 --> 00:08:59,001 Speaker 1: was the opposite. She just wanted to be around the boys, 221 00:08:59,041 --> 00:09:01,921 Speaker 1: wanted the attention, and I was very left out and 222 00:09:02,441 --> 00:09:04,721 Speaker 1: young and just not handling my alcohol. 223 00:09:04,801 --> 00:09:04,881 Speaker 2: Like. 224 00:09:05,081 --> 00:09:07,161 Speaker 1: So I remember that night being like, oh, I feel 225 00:09:07,201 --> 00:09:09,001 Speaker 1: like she's a shitty friend, Like she's just not hanging 226 00:09:09,041 --> 00:09:10,801 Speaker 1: out with me. This isn't fun. I want to go 227 00:09:10,841 --> 00:09:14,601 Speaker 1: to bed, but I don't remember that happening. I must 228 00:09:14,601 --> 00:09:17,921 Speaker 1: have been passed out asleep and yeah, then they kicked 229 00:09:18,001 --> 00:09:20,241 Speaker 1: him out, but he put his number in my phone 230 00:09:20,321 --> 00:09:22,721 Speaker 1: and got my number. He must have checked up, and 231 00:09:22,801 --> 00:09:25,441 Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but I was like, whoa what a 232 00:09:25,521 --> 00:09:28,001 Speaker 1: full on eighty of like fifteen. 233 00:09:27,561 --> 00:09:29,201 Speaker 2: Years later and he's your neighbor. 234 00:09:29,281 --> 00:09:32,521 Speaker 1: This man is my neighbor. And he's the most beautiful man. 235 00:09:32,681 --> 00:09:35,361 Speaker 1: He's so kind and caring. He's such a beautiful dad. 236 00:09:35,401 --> 00:09:37,641 Speaker 1: He's got a beautiful wife with two other kids, like 237 00:09:38,281 --> 00:09:40,601 Speaker 1: just so nice. And I was just like, holy shit, 238 00:09:40,761 --> 00:09:42,281 Speaker 1: thank you. And he was like, yeah, it's just the 239 00:09:42,361 --> 00:09:43,841 Speaker 1: right thing to do, like kind of brush it off. 240 00:09:43,841 --> 00:09:46,001 Speaker 1: I was like, no, thank you. That moment could have 241 00:09:46,081 --> 00:09:48,721 Speaker 1: changed my life forever. Oh yeah, and like you saved me. 242 00:09:49,401 --> 00:09:52,361 Speaker 1: It's crazy. And then when Stephen way to Japan, I'm really, 243 00:09:52,681 --> 00:09:55,081 Speaker 1: as you guys have heard on a previous episode about 244 00:09:55,121 --> 00:09:58,401 Speaker 1: intrusive thoughts, I get really scared when Steve's away. I 245 00:09:58,481 --> 00:10:01,241 Speaker 1: ended up getting Nathan's new number and was just like, oh, 246 00:10:01,281 --> 00:10:03,401 Speaker 1: Steve goes away next week, Like is there any chance 247 00:10:03,441 --> 00:10:05,041 Speaker 1: I can just get your number and if anything happened. 248 00:10:05,201 --> 00:10:07,521 Speaker 1: He's like, yep, call me straight away. My phone's on loud. 249 00:10:07,761 --> 00:10:09,321 Speaker 1: I've got security. He's a fireman. He's like, I've got 250 00:10:09,361 --> 00:10:12,521 Speaker 1: security cameras all set up, you just call me. There 251 00:10:12,561 --> 00:10:16,121 Speaker 1: was one night where Taco went crazy and barked like 252 00:10:16,321 --> 00:10:18,921 Speaker 1: absolutely nuts. And I've got a Golden Retriever. They're not 253 00:10:18,961 --> 00:10:22,201 Speaker 1: aggressive dogs, but they're very, very protective. If they feel 254 00:10:22,241 --> 00:10:24,641 Speaker 1: there's something that's not right, you're gonna hear about it, 255 00:10:24,681 --> 00:10:27,361 Speaker 1: which is great. So this night and Steve's away, he 256 00:10:27,441 --> 00:10:31,401 Speaker 1: was like like growling and like retrievers don't do that. 257 00:10:32,121 --> 00:10:35,081 Speaker 1: And then I was like, it's crazy, this instinctive energy 258 00:10:35,121 --> 00:10:37,481 Speaker 1: that you get when you're a mum and you have 259 00:10:37,561 --> 00:10:39,961 Speaker 1: to step up. If Steve's home, I will just get 260 00:10:39,961 --> 00:10:41,961 Speaker 1: so scared and like hide in my donner and like 261 00:10:42,041 --> 00:10:43,921 Speaker 1: get him to go check it. But when you're home 262 00:10:43,961 --> 00:10:45,801 Speaker 1: alone and you think someone's out there that could harm 263 00:10:45,841 --> 00:10:47,721 Speaker 1: your babies, and you know me my in truve thoughts, 264 00:10:47,761 --> 00:10:49,921 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, what's happening. So I ran to 265 00:10:50,001 --> 00:10:51,721 Speaker 1: the front door, turn the light and opened the front 266 00:10:51,721 --> 00:10:53,681 Speaker 1: door because I thought if someone's out there and they 267 00:10:53,721 --> 00:10:55,641 Speaker 1: see a dog and someone coming out, They're gonna run. 268 00:10:55,961 --> 00:10:58,041 Speaker 1: That's my thought process. As I opened the door and 269 00:10:58,041 --> 00:10:59,801 Speaker 1: turned the light on, there was a car out in 270 00:10:59,801 --> 00:11:01,241 Speaker 1: the front of my house. I've got a big gate 271 00:11:01,321 --> 00:11:05,241 Speaker 1: so we are protected, and they sped off. I was like, 272 00:11:05,241 --> 00:11:08,401 Speaker 1: like full anxious. So I message Nathan and he checked 273 00:11:08,401 --> 00:11:10,281 Speaker 1: his cameras or whatever and he's like phones on laud, 274 00:11:10,321 --> 00:11:12,681 Speaker 1: like just call me anytime. But it's just so nice. 275 00:11:12,721 --> 00:11:15,441 Speaker 1: I was like, well, you've saved me once before again. 276 00:11:16,201 --> 00:11:17,961 Speaker 1: But yeah, it was so cool to just and go 277 00:11:18,001 --> 00:11:20,481 Speaker 1: back and tell Steve that story. He was like, thank goodness, 278 00:11:20,521 --> 00:11:21,761 Speaker 1: Like what a hero. 279 00:11:22,321 --> 00:11:25,841 Speaker 2: Yeah, crazy, right, that's crazy all the place crazy. He 280 00:11:25,921 --> 00:11:27,601 Speaker 2: remembers you after all those years too. 281 00:11:28,081 --> 00:11:30,881 Speaker 1: Well, that was a really pivotal moment for him, I suppose. 282 00:11:30,601 --> 00:11:33,121 Speaker 2: Yeah, and like seeing what could have happened and to 283 00:11:33,201 --> 00:11:35,081 Speaker 2: save someone and like he's a fireman like you say 284 00:11:35,121 --> 00:11:37,201 Speaker 2: seople every day. I'm like, it's meant to be. 285 00:11:37,521 --> 00:11:40,641 Speaker 1: Yeah, what I'm all human and so lucky. But you 286 00:11:40,721 --> 00:11:43,161 Speaker 1: just think in fifteen years, out of all the places 287 00:11:43,201 --> 00:11:45,521 Speaker 1: he could end up living, ends up being my neighbor. 288 00:11:45,561 --> 00:11:47,001 Speaker 2: And he was in Sydney, lived in Sydney. 289 00:11:47,081 --> 00:11:49,361 Speaker 1: He was Melbourne. That's great. We were all in Sydney 290 00:11:49,361 --> 00:11:51,241 Speaker 1: for a holiday. So she lived in Melbourne. I lived 291 00:11:51,281 --> 00:11:54,441 Speaker 1: in Perth. Wow. Yeah, and now you're my neighbor like that, 292 00:11:54,561 --> 00:11:55,961 Speaker 1: and we hang out all the time just outside with 293 00:11:55,961 --> 00:11:57,161 Speaker 1: our girls and it's just so nice. 294 00:11:57,201 --> 00:12:01,041 Speaker 2: That's so nice. Crazy story, hey crazy yeah, and even 295 00:12:01,041 --> 00:12:03,121 Speaker 2: the chat about like friends like gosh. I have memories 296 00:12:03,161 --> 00:12:05,561 Speaker 2: like that too, where I remember going out with the 297 00:12:05,601 --> 00:12:07,441 Speaker 2: girlfriend and she was single and she just like left 298 00:12:07,481 --> 00:12:08,801 Speaker 2: me at the club on my own. I ended up 299 00:12:08,801 --> 00:12:10,321 Speaker 2: having So we're gonna get home together. I couldn't pay 300 00:12:10,321 --> 00:12:11,441 Speaker 2: for a couple of my own. We're gonna split the 301 00:12:11,481 --> 00:12:13,441 Speaker 2: first wim. We're so young. I'm having to call Kurt, 302 00:12:13,481 --> 00:12:15,321 Speaker 2: and Kurt had to like come get me in that. 303 00:12:15,921 --> 00:12:18,481 Speaker 2: Yeah lucky you didn't have kids and stuff. 304 00:12:18,561 --> 00:12:20,641 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, but I feel like it's girl code. 305 00:12:20,681 --> 00:12:22,241 Speaker 1: I don't know in my RAL book. I know we've 306 00:12:22,241 --> 00:12:24,081 Speaker 1: all got different rule books, but my ral book. 307 00:12:23,881 --> 00:12:25,521 Speaker 2: Is like, never leave a girl on their own. 308 00:12:25,681 --> 00:12:28,081 Speaker 1: You have your girl's backs, and you don't ever let 309 00:12:28,081 --> 00:12:30,681 Speaker 1: them by themselves, go to toilet by themselves, walk home 310 00:12:30,721 --> 00:12:32,761 Speaker 1: by themselves, walk out to have a cigarette by themselves, 311 00:12:32,881 --> 00:12:36,201 Speaker 1: like stay together, no way. And even when I had 312 00:12:36,201 --> 00:12:38,761 Speaker 1: friends that would like go home with men like you 313 00:12:38,801 --> 00:12:40,601 Speaker 1: bet you? I asked the man a hundred questions you 314 00:12:40,601 --> 00:12:43,361 Speaker 1: bet your? I made them feel like pressured and scared, 315 00:12:43,401 --> 00:12:44,921 Speaker 1: like I would get their address, I would look at 316 00:12:44,921 --> 00:12:47,361 Speaker 1: their license like I was maybe psycho, but I was like, 317 00:12:47,521 --> 00:12:49,641 Speaker 1: my job as a friend is to protect you. I 318 00:12:49,641 --> 00:12:51,041 Speaker 1: want to know where you're going. I want to know 319 00:12:51,081 --> 00:12:54,641 Speaker 1: that you're okay. So yeah, that's full girl code for me. 320 00:12:54,761 --> 00:12:56,401 Speaker 2: But thank goodness he was there. 321 00:12:56,521 --> 00:12:59,081 Speaker 1: Yeah. Interesting. So, as we said, this is a bit 322 00:12:59,081 --> 00:13:02,041 Speaker 1: of a wacky Wednesday episode, just a bunch of random stuff. 323 00:13:02,281 --> 00:13:02,401 Speaker 2: Ya. 324 00:13:03,361 --> 00:13:05,721 Speaker 1: Kiara and I've just been like talking of and discussing, 325 00:13:05,801 --> 00:13:08,321 Speaker 1: and we love sharing with you what's like our thought 326 00:13:08,321 --> 00:13:10,481 Speaker 1: process and the different stories that happen. But something I've 327 00:13:10,521 --> 00:13:13,041 Speaker 1: been thinking about lately is a bucket list. And I've 328 00:13:13,041 --> 00:13:16,241 Speaker 1: been thinking, like, you know, I'm thirty five, turning thirty six, 329 00:13:16,321 --> 00:13:18,401 Speaker 1: I feel like, and Steve's nine years older than me, 330 00:13:18,441 --> 00:13:20,401 Speaker 1: always thinking like he's kind of heading into that second 331 00:13:20,481 --> 00:13:23,281 Speaker 1: half of his life, which makes me emotional saying because 332 00:13:23,481 --> 00:13:26,401 Speaker 1: in my head I'm still twenty five and he's still young, Like, 333 00:13:26,601 --> 00:13:29,561 Speaker 1: but we're getting older, and I've done so much in 334 00:13:29,601 --> 00:13:31,761 Speaker 1: my life. I've been really reflecting as I'm going through 335 00:13:31,801 --> 00:13:34,161 Speaker 1: a lot of changes in my life, big changes and 336 00:13:34,201 --> 00:13:37,361 Speaker 1: a lot of reflection journaling, and I've been thinking about 337 00:13:37,361 --> 00:13:39,521 Speaker 1: all the things that I've achieved, like in business wise 338 00:13:39,561 --> 00:13:43,721 Speaker 1: and finances and traveling and kids and health and investments, 339 00:13:43,801 --> 00:13:45,761 Speaker 1: and just doing a lot of reflecting, Like, Okay, I 340 00:13:45,841 --> 00:13:48,241 Speaker 1: really want to write down what I want to do 341 00:13:48,281 --> 00:13:50,321 Speaker 1: before I die. So I've started creating a bucket list, 342 00:13:50,361 --> 00:13:52,681 Speaker 1: and I thought we could share just five of our 343 00:13:52,721 --> 00:13:55,121 Speaker 1: bucket lists that we want to do before we die. Yeah, 344 00:13:55,161 --> 00:13:56,201 Speaker 1: so do you want to go one for one? 345 00:13:56,361 --> 00:13:58,161 Speaker 2: Lets do one for one A couple of mine, probably 346 00:13:58,201 --> 00:14:00,241 Speaker 2: like three or four of mine you've actually done, like 347 00:14:00,361 --> 00:14:00,841 Speaker 2: you've done. 348 00:14:00,881 --> 00:14:03,001 Speaker 1: I've done a lot in my Yeah, I've done a 349 00:14:03,001 --> 00:14:04,801 Speaker 1: lot of traal, Like I've really have done a lot. 350 00:14:04,841 --> 00:14:06,721 Speaker 1: And it's what's helped me make some big decisions lately 351 00:14:06,761 --> 00:14:08,961 Speaker 1: because I'm like, why am I doing this or that? 352 00:14:09,081 --> 00:14:10,921 Speaker 1: Like I've achieved all of that. I don't need that 353 00:14:10,961 --> 00:14:13,401 Speaker 1: title anymore. I don't need to hang on to that, Like, Yeah, 354 00:14:13,481 --> 00:14:16,121 Speaker 1: I'm proud of so much of what I've done, and 355 00:14:16,161 --> 00:14:18,241 Speaker 1: I don't want to just hang on to an old 356 00:14:18,321 --> 00:14:22,401 Speaker 1: version of Ashy because that feels comfortable or that feels safe. 357 00:14:22,521 --> 00:14:24,081 Speaker 1: Ever since I've been in hospital, I feel like my 358 00:14:24,121 --> 00:14:26,401 Speaker 1: whole life has changed, my whole perspective. Got to love 359 00:14:26,401 --> 00:14:28,721 Speaker 1: a good health scare for that. But it's been such 360 00:14:28,761 --> 00:14:31,121 Speaker 1: a blessing. So it's been really cool to explore, like 361 00:14:31,161 --> 00:14:33,641 Speaker 1: who is this new version of Ashy? What does she want, 362 00:14:33,681 --> 00:14:36,121 Speaker 1: what does she enjoy? What am I needing right now 363 00:14:36,161 --> 00:14:38,681 Speaker 1: as well? And yeah, the bucket list things come up 364 00:14:38,721 --> 00:14:40,121 Speaker 1: and I've been chatting to Steve about it too, and 365 00:14:40,161 --> 00:14:42,081 Speaker 1: it's exciting because then I can like put the energy 366 00:14:42,081 --> 00:14:43,841 Speaker 1: out there and they start to plan like when and 367 00:14:43,881 --> 00:14:46,441 Speaker 1: how we can make these things happen. Yeah, so I'll 368 00:14:46,481 --> 00:14:49,001 Speaker 1: go first with mine. I've always wanted to go to 369 00:14:49,041 --> 00:14:51,561 Speaker 1: the Northern Lights to go and see them because it 370 00:14:51,601 --> 00:14:54,121 Speaker 1: just looks so beautiful. You've seen photos of it. It's 371 00:14:54,201 --> 00:14:56,201 Speaker 1: like the whole sky is lit up in this fluo 372 00:14:56,321 --> 00:14:59,521 Speaker 1: green and you have to go like travel quite far out. 373 00:14:59,721 --> 00:15:01,721 Speaker 2: Oh I have seen since you said fluo green, I 374 00:15:01,761 --> 00:15:02,641 Speaker 2: have seen photos of all. 375 00:15:02,721 --> 00:15:06,881 Speaker 1: Oh, it just looks like the most beautiful nature site. 376 00:15:07,001 --> 00:15:09,441 Speaker 1: Like I've always just dreamt of going there. And like 377 00:15:09,481 --> 00:15:11,721 Speaker 1: getting photos in my family. I feel like Taj would 378 00:15:11,721 --> 00:15:15,121 Speaker 1: just be like holy moly. Yeah, but I've recently learned 379 00:15:15,201 --> 00:15:18,001 Speaker 1: we have Southern lights that the whole sky is like 380 00:15:18,081 --> 00:15:22,041 Speaker 1: pink down in Tasmania. Oh what Yes, in September it's 381 00:15:22,081 --> 00:15:24,601 Speaker 1: like the main time. So I'm going to like try 382 00:15:24,601 --> 00:15:27,201 Speaker 1: to do that in September this year. Well, yes, we've 383 00:15:27,201 --> 00:15:28,881 Speaker 1: put it down in Tasmania. I where it's the northern 384 00:15:28,921 --> 00:15:31,361 Speaker 1: ones long way away over in Europe, but these ones 385 00:15:31,401 --> 00:15:35,321 Speaker 1: in Tasmania they are beautiful but different lights. So I 386 00:15:35,361 --> 00:15:36,961 Speaker 1: really want to do that in September. But that's my 387 00:15:37,001 --> 00:15:37,401 Speaker 1: first one. 388 00:15:37,401 --> 00:15:39,961 Speaker 2: That's beautiful Northern and Southern lights. Want to tick both 389 00:15:39,961 --> 00:15:43,401 Speaker 2: of them off amazing. My first one is take the 390 00:15:43,481 --> 00:15:45,681 Speaker 2: kids to Disneyland. Yes, I just think that'll just be 391 00:15:45,721 --> 00:15:47,961 Speaker 2: such a huge like moment and something that the whole 392 00:15:47,961 --> 00:15:50,081 Speaker 2: family will just like treasure and remember forever. 393 00:15:50,161 --> 00:15:51,041 Speaker 1: Which one would you go to? 394 00:15:51,361 --> 00:15:54,201 Speaker 2: Probably the American one. It's one in Japan too, Hey. 395 00:15:54,121 --> 00:15:55,281 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's probably the best one. 396 00:15:55,401 --> 00:15:58,961 Speaker 2: Yeah, I will not be fussy. I would take either yea, 397 00:15:59,361 --> 00:16:01,361 Speaker 2: but Disneyland and take kids and just see their little 398 00:16:01,361 --> 00:16:03,841 Speaker 2: faces light up and don't want to be tripped by 399 00:16:03,841 --> 00:16:06,121 Speaker 2: that would be very expensive, true, yeah, but I think 400 00:16:06,161 --> 00:16:09,481 Speaker 2: it would be such an incredible memory, Oh so beautiful. 401 00:16:09,641 --> 00:16:12,721 Speaker 1: Definitely. I think most families would want to do that. Hey, yeah, 402 00:16:12,721 --> 00:16:15,481 Speaker 1: I'm taking Taji to the Paris one when we go 403 00:16:15,601 --> 00:16:18,241 Speaker 1: to Europe. I've shortened our trips. We're gonna do Dubai. 404 00:16:18,321 --> 00:16:20,881 Speaker 1: But I feel like Steve's got massive formo with Dubai Becau. 405 00:16:20,921 --> 00:16:22,641 Speaker 1: Dubai is such a cool family trip. There's so many 406 00:16:22,681 --> 00:16:24,681 Speaker 1: fun things you do with the family. I don't think 407 00:16:24,721 --> 00:16:26,401 Speaker 1: i've updated you guys on what we're doing with your 408 00:16:26,401 --> 00:16:29,001 Speaker 1: whole Europe trip. So Steve's staying behind me Tala and 409 00:16:29,041 --> 00:16:32,081 Speaker 1: I'm taking Taj. Yes, so really exciting and Taj is 410 00:16:32,081 --> 00:16:34,801 Speaker 1: super excited. So yeah, we're going to do Dubai Italy 411 00:16:34,881 --> 00:16:36,481 Speaker 1: and then Paris. But I just think it's going to 412 00:16:36,521 --> 00:16:38,481 Speaker 1: be a little bit too long away from Tala for 413 00:16:38,561 --> 00:16:41,041 Speaker 1: me personally. We'll have to stop and Dubai. But I'll 414 00:16:41,041 --> 00:16:42,921 Speaker 1: go straight from Dubai to Italy for the wedding and 415 00:16:42,921 --> 00:16:44,761 Speaker 1: then we're gonna go to Paris and you can stay 416 00:16:44,801 --> 00:16:47,881 Speaker 1: at Disneyland and I've even looked up the rise. We 417 00:16:47,881 --> 00:16:50,721 Speaker 1: watch YouTube videos on a the top ten like fastest rides. 418 00:16:51,041 --> 00:16:53,161 Speaker 1: I'm terrified of heights. You can't get me on a 419 00:16:53,201 --> 00:16:55,801 Speaker 1: roller coaster. All of these roller coasters they're all indoors, 420 00:16:55,801 --> 00:16:56,241 Speaker 1: so I can. 421 00:16:56,161 --> 00:16:56,681 Speaker 2: Go with them. 422 00:16:56,801 --> 00:17:00,001 Speaker 1: Oh that's so cool because I love speed, I like 423 00:17:00,001 --> 00:17:02,121 Speaker 1: like adrenaline, but not anything with heights. 424 00:17:02,321 --> 00:17:03,561 Speaker 2: No, you can see down. 425 00:17:03,761 --> 00:17:06,160 Speaker 1: So these are like dark and the light. So basically 426 00:17:06,281 --> 00:17:08,360 Speaker 1: the top ten rides there, I'm literally gone. All of 427 00:17:08,401 --> 00:17:11,001 Speaker 1: them with him. Be so fun for me because I 428 00:17:11,041 --> 00:17:13,321 Speaker 1: don't do that stuff with him. No, it's going to 429 00:17:13,360 --> 00:17:15,921 Speaker 1: be such a special like mum and son trips. I'm 430 00:17:15,921 --> 00:17:18,201 Speaker 1: really excited to do that with him. But Disneyland, Yeah, 431 00:17:18,241 --> 00:17:21,120 Speaker 1: I've been to London, America years ago, but not with children. 432 00:17:21,201 --> 00:17:22,241 Speaker 1: It's just not the same. 433 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:24,680 Speaker 2: No, you want to take their little faces lighter. 434 00:17:24,761 --> 00:17:27,801 Speaker 1: Oh so cute? Yeah, and you want to do it also, 435 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:30,441 Speaker 1: not before they're too old. Yeah, but they can still 436 00:17:30,481 --> 00:17:33,521 Speaker 1: appreciate the Disney characters and relate to the movies and stuff. 437 00:17:33,681 --> 00:17:35,761 Speaker 2: True, not too young and not too old? 438 00:17:35,921 --> 00:17:37,361 Speaker 1: Yeah young? Yeah? 439 00:17:37,441 --> 00:17:37,601 Speaker 2: Good? 440 00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:39,681 Speaker 1: All your kids are close together. For that, I feel 441 00:17:39,721 --> 00:17:40,441 Speaker 1: like I'll miss out. 442 00:17:40,561 --> 00:17:42,641 Speaker 2: I feel like when Reeg's is like around six or something, 443 00:17:43,241 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 2: age perfect. Yes, yeah, cool. 444 00:17:47,921 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: So something Steve and I have been talking about lately, 445 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 1: as we obviously love traveling, is I really want to 446 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:55,201 Speaker 1: take the kids like around the world trip for three 447 00:17:55,241 --> 00:17:59,120 Speaker 1: months before in between age. I think maybe when he's 448 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:02,601 Speaker 1: like thirteen and she's six or seven, but literally take 449 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:05,001 Speaker 1: three months off and just travel around the world. Wow. Yeah, 450 00:18:05,120 --> 00:18:06,680 Speaker 1: I would really love to do that. We're actually going 451 00:18:06,721 --> 00:18:10,241 Speaker 1: to do two months in Balley next year. I've decided. Yeah. 452 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 1: So Steve asked me the other day's like, you've always 453 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:13,561 Speaker 1: wanted to live in BALI. I said, yeah, I would 454 00:18:13,561 --> 00:18:15,521 Speaker 1: definitely do a stint there. He's like, well, what's the stint. 455 00:18:15,561 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not sure, Like definitely a couple 456 00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 1: of months. He was like, oh, should we do it 457 00:18:19,201 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 1: December January this year? Like just go in the summertime. 458 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:24,241 Speaker 1: I was like yeah. He's like, actually, let's escape the 459 00:18:24,281 --> 00:18:26,400 Speaker 1: winter because we hate the cold. Yeah, so we're going 460 00:18:26,441 --> 00:18:28,880 Speaker 1: to do next winter but it's freezing here and go 461 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:29,761 Speaker 1: over there for eight weeks. 462 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,521 Speaker 2: Oh, that'd be amazing. Such a nice solid time away too. 463 00:18:33,041 --> 00:18:35,441 Speaker 1: We would love it. We thrive over there. I can't 464 00:18:35,441 --> 00:18:37,721 Speaker 1: imagine like waking up and like that's your new routine 465 00:18:37,761 --> 00:18:40,721 Speaker 1: for eight weeks, the gym's, the cafes, like dissume with 466 00:18:40,801 --> 00:18:43,481 Speaker 1: the kids, and just those memories when we're older, we'll 467 00:18:43,521 --> 00:18:45,001 Speaker 1: look back on that just being like one of the 468 00:18:45,041 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 1: best trips of our lives. 469 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, so the next thing on my bucket list is 470 00:18:48,521 --> 00:18:52,041 Speaker 2: see the snow. I've still never seen the snow, and 471 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,481 Speaker 2: Miller wants to go so badly. We've had this chat 472 00:18:54,481 --> 00:18:56,120 Speaker 2: a few times, like we've borne to go, and now 473 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:58,360 Speaker 2: she's like, I would wait till they're a little bit older, 474 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 2: and everyone else ha said the same thing. Yeah, So 475 00:19:00,921 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 2: I just have never seen the snow before, and I 476 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:05,281 Speaker 2: just think it'd be so fun. 477 00:19:05,441 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 1: So special. It was such a beautiful moment for Taj 478 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:10,321 Speaker 1: to see it. We took him in a helicopter, like 479 00:19:10,360 --> 00:19:14,120 Speaker 1: a helicopter ride in Queenstown. Yeah, and they take you 480 00:19:14,281 --> 00:19:16,880 Speaker 1: up fucking shitting bricks. It was so scary for me. 481 00:19:17,041 --> 00:19:20,001 Speaker 1: I'm like terrified of heights. Yeah. I really had to 482 00:19:20,001 --> 00:19:21,801 Speaker 1: breathe my way through. And this is like a week 483 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 1: after the Sea World accident happened in the helicopter, so 484 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:27,801 Speaker 1: I'm like shaking, not breathing. The pilot next to me 485 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:30,120 Speaker 1: is laughing because how scartto was because he's like, I 486 00:19:30,201 --> 00:19:32,801 Speaker 1: do hundreds of lights each month. This is easy. 487 00:19:33,201 --> 00:19:34,361 Speaker 2: Anyway, it's so helpful thing. 488 00:19:34,441 --> 00:19:37,961 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you. That makes me feel so much better. Anyways, 489 00:19:37,961 --> 00:19:39,561 Speaker 1: we went right up to the top of the mountain 490 00:19:39,561 --> 00:19:41,521 Speaker 1: and the helicopter just had to find like a flat 491 00:19:41,561 --> 00:19:44,281 Speaker 1: patch and land on the tip of this mountain and 492 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:46,880 Speaker 1: we had to get out and touch snow. So that 493 00:19:46,921 --> 00:19:50,120 Speaker 1: was Taj's first experience touching snow because we went in 494 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 1: summer time, but up in the mountains it's obviously freezing. Yeah, 495 00:19:52,921 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 1: we got touched snow on a mountain, which is incredible. 496 00:19:55,281 --> 00:19:58,481 Speaker 1: I've also been to Japan snowboarding, and I've also been 497 00:19:58,521 --> 00:20:00,521 Speaker 1: to Whistler and I've also been to the snow in 498 00:20:00,521 --> 00:20:03,801 Speaker 1: New Zealand. Yeah, so it's incredible. But I do think, 499 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:04,921 Speaker 1: wait till they're older and. 500 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:06,441 Speaker 2: I I feel like I need to bring the grandparents along. 501 00:20:06,441 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 2: I feel like I need to stop there. So then 502 00:20:08,001 --> 00:20:09,200 Speaker 2: if like Kurt and I want to go like for 503 00:20:09,281 --> 00:20:11,360 Speaker 2: a snowboard together, so we're not otherwise one of us 504 00:20:11,360 --> 00:20:12,481 Speaker 2: will just be with the kids the whole time. I 505 00:20:12,521 --> 00:20:13,801 Speaker 2: can't go together, or you can. 506 00:20:14,241 --> 00:20:16,681 Speaker 1: If you want to put them into the kids ski school. Yes, 507 00:20:16,921 --> 00:20:18,561 Speaker 1: so they go in like a group of five or 508 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,401 Speaker 1: ten or whatever, and then they all learn to ski together. 509 00:20:20,441 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 1: And then the parents go off and do that. They 510 00:20:22,241 --> 00:20:24,161 Speaker 1: go on to ski school from like nine to three 511 00:20:24,241 --> 00:20:26,641 Speaker 1: or something. They get to learn by the teachers, which 512 00:20:26,681 --> 00:20:28,041 Speaker 1: you have to you have to get lessons anyway, if 513 00:20:28,041 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 1: you've never done it. Yes, and then you guys can 514 00:20:29,721 --> 00:20:31,561 Speaker 1: go snowbody for the day. Oh so cool if you 515 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 1: want to do which is cool. But having grandparents there 516 00:20:33,921 --> 00:20:37,360 Speaker 1: because it's very tiring on your body. Yeah, and if 517 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:39,201 Speaker 1: the kids don't enjoy it, at least you'd have them there, 518 00:20:39,521 --> 00:20:40,561 Speaker 1: you know, step in and help. 519 00:20:40,721 --> 00:20:42,920 Speaker 2: Yes, so yeah, yeah. 520 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:46,201 Speaker 1: Oh that's so through. I love a good surprise. I 521 00:20:46,241 --> 00:20:48,801 Speaker 1: love surprise. I love someone organizes me a surprise, And 522 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:51,521 Speaker 1: I really get a lot of joy out of organizing 523 00:20:51,521 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 1: surprises for other people. I've always been that friend that 524 00:20:54,120 --> 00:20:57,481 Speaker 1: does a big surprise parties or organizes birthdays, organizes events. 525 00:20:57,840 --> 00:20:59,880 Speaker 1: I love it. So I would love to organize a 526 00:20:59,921 --> 00:21:02,481 Speaker 1: surprise trip for like a girlfriend or like a group 527 00:21:02,481 --> 00:21:05,561 Speaker 1: of friends. And I would love for Steve to organize 528 00:21:05,561 --> 00:21:07,441 Speaker 1: a surprise trip for me where I don't know where 529 00:21:07,441 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 1: we're going. Yeah, it's like pack your bags and we 530 00:21:11,321 --> 00:21:12,761 Speaker 1: go to the airport and I have no idea where 531 00:21:12,761 --> 00:21:13,121 Speaker 1: we're going. 532 00:21:13,360 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 2: Wow, so you actually don't known till you get there. 533 00:21:15,921 --> 00:21:19,321 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that would be so fun. Yeah that's awesome. 534 00:21:19,521 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: That just excites me, like oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah, 535 00:21:22,961 --> 00:21:25,241 Speaker 1: it's so fun. And I've taken like girlfriends on trips before, 536 00:21:25,281 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 1: but I could be so fun for them not to 537 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 1: know where You've planned like fun girly activities that you 538 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:31,120 Speaker 1: can do. Yeah. 539 00:21:31,321 --> 00:21:32,521 Speaker 2: Oh that's such a good one. 540 00:21:33,201 --> 00:21:34,481 Speaker 1: Trips so good. 541 00:21:35,321 --> 00:21:37,561 Speaker 2: So next one is go hot air ballooning. 542 00:21:37,921 --> 00:21:39,401 Speaker 1: Oh, I couldn't think of anything. 543 00:21:40,321 --> 00:21:42,561 Speaker 2: You're going to say that. I've actually got a voucher, 544 00:21:42,681 --> 00:21:44,880 Speaker 2: do you. So what I need to do is I 545 00:21:45,001 --> 00:21:46,880 Speaker 2: need to get Kurt a ticket too so we can 546 00:21:46,921 --> 00:21:48,680 Speaker 2: go together. But I think it'd just be one of 547 00:21:48,681 --> 00:21:50,681 Speaker 2: those experiences that would be ingrained in your brain forever. 548 00:21:50,961 --> 00:21:54,400 Speaker 2: I got up on sunrise or sunset, don't think so. 549 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:57,561 Speaker 1: Taji loved it. Stephen Targment last year, Oh really, Oh 550 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,801 Speaker 1: my god, was in heaven. Oh really, ask. 551 00:22:00,521 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 2: Her, I'll see if she'd want to go. But I 552 00:22:02,321 --> 00:22:03,761 Speaker 2: just feel like it would just be one of those 553 00:22:03,801 --> 00:22:06,880 Speaker 2: like core memories going on doing a hot air balloon. Yeah. 554 00:22:06,961 --> 00:22:08,801 Speaker 1: Does that not freak you the fuck out? You're literally 555 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:10,521 Speaker 1: floating in a basket in the air a. 556 00:22:10,561 --> 00:22:12,921 Speaker 2: Little bit, it does, It does freaking out a little bit. 557 00:22:13,001 --> 00:22:15,881 Speaker 2: But I think I can stay chilling in a basket, 558 00:22:15,961 --> 00:22:17,440 Speaker 2: not as much as jumping out of a plane and 559 00:22:17,481 --> 00:22:20,961 Speaker 2: doing like a skydive that I would never got hot 560 00:22:21,001 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 2: air balloon. I'm like, I think I could do that. 561 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,281 Speaker 1: I took Steven targe because I think I was pregnant too, 562 00:22:25,281 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 1: but there's no way to do it anyway. But even 563 00:22:26,761 --> 00:22:29,120 Speaker 1: when they're blowing up the bloody big balloon, everyone jumped 564 00:22:29,120 --> 00:22:31,041 Speaker 1: on this little car and I was filming and taking 565 00:22:31,041 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 1: photos and I'm just looking all these people so calm 566 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:37,041 Speaker 1: and excited. I just cannot relate on any level. But 567 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,681 Speaker 1: Steve's the tag is up there, just chilling, like loving it. 568 00:22:39,721 --> 00:22:42,521 Speaker 1: They took selfies up there. They loved it, So I 569 00:22:42,521 --> 00:22:44,601 Speaker 1: think you would really love it. Yeah, it's super cute 570 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 1: human kurts to do. 571 00:22:45,360 --> 00:22:48,761 Speaker 2: But yeah millions, yeah, oh my gosh. But also, like 572 00:22:48,801 --> 00:22:50,681 Speaker 2: now you're saying that, I'm like, it's so scary doing 573 00:22:50,721 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 2: things where you're like risking yourself when you have kids. 574 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:57,161 Speaker 2: And then like Curt and I go if something happens. God, 575 00:22:58,961 --> 00:23:01,561 Speaker 2: I know as soon as they come here, I was like, yeah, 576 00:23:01,561 --> 00:23:03,521 Speaker 2: but yeah, I think it would beautiful, but it would 577 00:23:03,521 --> 00:23:04,041 Speaker 2: be Yeah. 578 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,561 Speaker 1: It's another thing that I've always wanted to do is 579 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,241 Speaker 1: to renew our vowels but have our kids there, because 580 00:23:09,281 --> 00:23:11,721 Speaker 1: we didn't have any kids when we got married, and 581 00:23:12,041 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 1: we want to do it in the same location we 582 00:23:13,521 --> 00:23:15,961 Speaker 1: got married in Bali, up on top of a cliff top. 583 00:23:16,001 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 1: So I want to renew them like just us. 584 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:19,720 Speaker 2: Oh that's beautiful, Like still. 585 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 1: Do the walk down the aisle, but have like Tala 586 00:23:21,921 --> 00:23:23,961 Speaker 1: and Taj like go up and do their flower thing 587 00:23:24,041 --> 00:23:26,281 Speaker 1: and just like have a moment where we can exchange 588 00:23:26,281 --> 00:23:28,680 Speaker 1: some words, get some cute photos and just do that 589 00:23:28,721 --> 00:23:29,761 Speaker 1: together with our children. 590 00:23:29,921 --> 00:23:30,921 Speaker 2: Oh that's so nice. 591 00:23:30,961 --> 00:23:33,761 Speaker 1: I think twenty years we'll do it. And we are 592 00:23:34,360 --> 00:23:36,121 Speaker 1: sixteen years in June this. 593 00:23:36,120 --> 00:23:40,001 Speaker 2: Year, sixteen years married, wow, not married, sorry, twenties together. 594 00:23:40,041 --> 00:23:42,441 Speaker 1: Twenty years together a date that we got together and 595 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:44,840 Speaker 1: our wedding date a few days apart, so we've kind 596 00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,640 Speaker 1: of just combined the date. Yeah, so together for sixteen, 597 00:23:47,961 --> 00:23:49,721 Speaker 1: married for eight. But we'll do it. We've been together 598 00:23:49,721 --> 00:23:50,761 Speaker 1: for twenty nice. 599 00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 2: Yes, it's not too far away. 600 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,080 Speaker 1: No, four years away, I know, so definitely want to 601 00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:55,321 Speaker 1: do that. 602 00:23:55,521 --> 00:23:58,120 Speaker 2: So my next one is a husband and wife trip 603 00:23:58,201 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 2: to the mal Dives. Yes, yeah, you guys would bring 604 00:24:02,441 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 2: it on. Yeah, husband and wife trip to the mal Dives. 605 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 2: I think it would just be ultimate relax So oh 606 00:24:08,281 --> 00:24:10,640 Speaker 2: it is so nice, so relaxing. 607 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:13,920 Speaker 1: It's the ultimate destination. I've done mal Dives twice and 608 00:24:13,961 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 1: I've done Bora Bora even like Maldive's better than bor 609 00:24:16,360 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 1: borer Yeah, really, Bora Bora is beautiful in the sense 610 00:24:19,120 --> 00:24:20,880 Speaker 1: that it has all the mountains in the background, whereas 611 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:24,121 Speaker 1: Maldives doesn't have that, and Maldives the first time we went, 612 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:25,801 Speaker 1: we were on a bit of a budget, so we 613 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 1: went to like a smaller island and there wasn't a 614 00:24:27,721 --> 00:24:29,761 Speaker 1: lot to do, so it was really relaxing. But the 615 00:24:29,801 --> 00:24:31,880 Speaker 1: second one we went to was huge, had ten different 616 00:24:31,921 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 1: restaurants and like for walking, hiking track and like just 617 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,761 Speaker 1: more different activities to do, and it was just you 618 00:24:37,801 --> 00:24:40,081 Speaker 1: could get a villa on the beach or an overwater 619 00:24:40,120 --> 00:24:42,401 Speaker 1: bungalow and we did half half yeah, and both were 620 00:24:42,441 --> 00:24:45,680 Speaker 1: just incredible but so connecting, so relaxing. You literally just 621 00:24:45,801 --> 00:24:49,200 Speaker 1: like eat, have a lot of sex chat, lay in 622 00:24:49,201 --> 00:24:53,201 Speaker 1: the sun, perfect, repeat literally perfect, so good, and take 623 00:24:53,201 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: a lot of really beautiful photos. 624 00:24:54,721 --> 00:24:55,801 Speaker 2: Yeah, have the memories. 625 00:24:55,921 --> 00:24:56,761 Speaker 1: You would love it? 626 00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:58,481 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would love it. That sounds like my time 627 00:24:58,521 --> 00:24:59,001 Speaker 2: of holiday. 628 00:24:59,201 --> 00:25:02,201 Speaker 1: Yeah, so cool. Number five. I've got a whole list 629 00:25:02,201 --> 00:25:04,321 Speaker 1: at home, but we're only doing five today. We spoke 630 00:25:04,321 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 1: about it on a previous episode of How Inspiring Sky, where 631 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:08,321 Speaker 1: he was on I'm a slept to get me out 632 00:25:08,321 --> 00:25:10,801 Speaker 1: of here. I've always had this like intuition that I'll 633 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,041 Speaker 1: go on a TV show and I've actually been asked 634 00:25:13,041 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 1: to go on SAS and I declined because I'm a 635 00:25:16,281 --> 00:25:19,241 Speaker 1: silk and it wasn't worth me risking breaking my leg 636 00:25:19,281 --> 00:25:21,561 Speaker 1: on the first episode. No, I would be the laughing 637 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,281 Speaker 1: stock of the show because I wouldn't last a day. 638 00:25:23,681 --> 00:25:26,001 Speaker 1: But I've always thought, I don't know, not survive. But 639 00:25:26,001 --> 00:25:27,801 Speaker 1: there's one I think I spoken about before, to that 640 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,761 Speaker 1: millon Dollar Island or Dancing with the Stars. I just 641 00:25:30,761 --> 00:25:32,761 Speaker 1: feel like I'd love to go on a show that 642 00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:34,761 Speaker 1: put me outside my comfort zone, which being on a 643 00:25:34,801 --> 00:25:37,761 Speaker 1: show in itself is really scary, Like you're in front 644 00:25:37,801 --> 00:25:40,881 Speaker 1: of thousands, hundreds of thousands of people that really challenges 645 00:25:40,961 --> 00:25:43,360 Speaker 1: me physically and mentally because I feel like I don't 646 00:25:43,360 --> 00:25:46,801 Speaker 1: really push myself that much these days, like physically and 647 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,401 Speaker 1: mentally like that, I just feel like that's on my. 648 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 2: Would you do I'm a celebrity. 649 00:25:51,561 --> 00:25:56,281 Speaker 1: Oh, I would consider it, yes, But I still feel 650 00:25:56,360 --> 00:25:58,081 Speaker 1: like as soon as there's something to do with the heights, 651 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 1: Like even Steve was like he believes in me and everything, 652 00:26:00,761 --> 00:26:02,561 Speaker 1: but he's like, oh the hearts, you would back out. 653 00:26:03,441 --> 00:26:05,360 Speaker 1: I would, and there wasn't one perfon and then the 654 00:26:05,441 --> 00:26:08,241 Speaker 1: last season that even did that back down? Like would 655 00:26:08,281 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 1: I be the first? I haven't watched any others, but 656 00:26:10,120 --> 00:26:11,640 Speaker 1: I don't think I could do any of the height stuff. 657 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 1: I would do pretty much everything else. I'll be so scared, 658 00:26:14,721 --> 00:26:16,360 Speaker 1: but I think i'd push through. But the heights I 659 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:18,561 Speaker 1: just don't think I could do if I can't fall 660 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:19,440 Speaker 1: off the side of the cliffs. 661 00:26:19,481 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 2: Wild joking, it's wild. 662 00:26:21,201 --> 00:26:24,160 Speaker 1: But Michelle bridges ate three penises. That was impressive that 663 00:26:24,481 --> 00:26:26,120 Speaker 1: I was impressed too. I was like, you go go, 664 00:26:26,321 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 1: and she volunteered to do all of the instead of 665 00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:28,281 Speaker 1: giving one. 666 00:26:28,201 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 2: To the I know, I was like, should have shut 667 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 2: it out, dull, Yeah, but she was worried that the 668 00:26:32,120 --> 00:26:34,640 Speaker 2: other person wasn't gonna eat it, so I think she's. 669 00:26:34,521 --> 00:26:35,801 Speaker 1: Like so strategic. 670 00:26:36,120 --> 00:26:38,640 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yeah, if. 671 00:26:38,521 --> 00:26:42,321 Speaker 1: The opportunity came my way, I would seriously consider it. 672 00:26:43,001 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know. I've just always thought I 673 00:26:44,921 --> 00:26:47,360 Speaker 1: really wanted to do Big Brother. Yeah, and I got 674 00:26:47,360 --> 00:26:50,561 Speaker 1: through three interviews and then I didn't get in obviously. 675 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 2: But that would be ultimately Brother would be so fun. 676 00:26:53,001 --> 00:26:55,521 Speaker 1: So much fun. And the one that I was going 677 00:26:55,521 --> 00:26:57,321 Speaker 1: to go into is before COVID. They told me it 678 00:26:57,360 --> 00:26:59,680 Speaker 1: was going to be more like fittasy and challenges, so 679 00:26:59,721 --> 00:27:01,880 Speaker 1: it was like right up my alley. But I feel 680 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:02,601 Speaker 1: like I would love that. 681 00:27:02,801 --> 00:27:05,321 Speaker 2: Yeah, that'd be Big Brother anymore? Did even watch itn't 682 00:27:05,321 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 2: seen it? 683 00:27:06,001 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 1: No, it's not. 684 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,360 Speaker 2: It's not around it anymore, not for a long time. 685 00:27:09,761 --> 00:27:10,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's. 686 00:27:10,521 --> 00:27:14,801 Speaker 2: Not if you're listening, you coming back? Oh my goodness, 687 00:27:15,120 --> 00:27:17,801 Speaker 2: And my last one is going to a Tony Robbins event. 688 00:27:18,561 --> 00:27:19,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. 689 00:27:19,241 --> 00:27:21,121 Speaker 2: I would love to see him and go to one 690 00:27:21,120 --> 00:27:22,681 Speaker 2: of his events. I don't know how many more he's 691 00:27:22,721 --> 00:27:24,440 Speaker 2: going to have happening or where it's going to be 692 00:27:24,481 --> 00:27:26,920 Speaker 2: able to happen, but I think now yeah, or even 693 00:27:27,001 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 2: just somebody who I find really inspiring that I can 694 00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,920 Speaker 2: learn so much from like going to an event like 695 00:27:32,961 --> 00:27:34,120 Speaker 2: that big big one. 696 00:27:34,321 --> 00:27:38,121 Speaker 1: Yeah, Tony's apparently rumors are he's not coming back to Australia. Yeah, 697 00:27:38,120 --> 00:27:40,400 Speaker 1: because we've got tickets to date with Destiny. If we 698 00:27:40,441 --> 00:27:42,321 Speaker 1: want to use our tickets because they're not refunding them, 699 00:27:42,481 --> 00:27:45,640 Speaker 1: We're to fly to America like Miami. Yeah, two kets 700 00:27:45,681 --> 00:27:48,401 Speaker 1: over to do a seven day course that goes all day. Yeah, 701 00:27:48,441 --> 00:27:50,680 Speaker 1: guess courses right. That course runs from like seven am 702 00:27:50,721 --> 00:27:53,440 Speaker 1: to like two in the morning. Imagine being jet lagged 703 00:27:53,481 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: and doing it. 704 00:27:53,921 --> 00:27:55,680 Speaker 2: Wonder if he's going to come through after Tony Robbins, Like, 705 00:27:55,681 --> 00:27:57,120 Speaker 2: there's got to be someone else that's going to come 706 00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:00,321 Speaker 2: through soon and like really lead the way. And it's 707 00:28:00,360 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 2: intriguing to see what's going to happen. 708 00:28:02,921 --> 00:28:05,601 Speaker 1: I saw the diary of the CEO, Stephen Bartlett Sunday Night, 709 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:06,720 Speaker 1: who puts an event on it. 710 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,521 Speaker 2: Honestly, who would be so rude? 711 00:28:09,761 --> 00:28:13,360 Speaker 1: Beth and I we were struggling. I took a packet 712 00:28:13,360 --> 00:28:15,161 Speaker 1: of lollise because I knew I'd be struggling. But at 713 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,921 Speaker 1: ten o'clock, like I looked over at her at one 714 00:28:17,921 --> 00:28:19,761 Speaker 1: point and she's like micro sleeping, you know, in your 715 00:28:19,801 --> 00:28:22,440 Speaker 1: head bubbles. Oh yeah, and I caught myself micro sleeping 716 00:28:22,521 --> 00:28:24,961 Speaker 1: was such great information until I couldn't absorb boo because 717 00:28:24,961 --> 00:28:27,441 Speaker 1: I was so tired. Yeah, but he was really good. 718 00:28:27,481 --> 00:28:29,921 Speaker 1: But yeah, there hasn't been a lot of speakers since. 719 00:28:29,721 --> 00:28:31,801 Speaker 2: Tony that of that impactful. 720 00:28:31,801 --> 00:28:33,401 Speaker 1: We're actually going to an event soon. Yeah. 721 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:35,481 Speaker 2: I feel like retreats do it more so these days 722 00:28:35,521 --> 00:28:37,120 Speaker 2: because you're more doing the work, whereas when you go 723 00:28:37,201 --> 00:28:39,641 Speaker 2: to an event, someone's talking to you. Retreats you're like 724 00:28:39,921 --> 00:28:42,161 Speaker 2: in their like workshop stuff, you're doing it. 725 00:28:42,201 --> 00:28:43,681 Speaker 1: But that's a cool thing with Tony. It's a mix 726 00:28:43,721 --> 00:28:46,241 Speaker 1: of boats. Even though it's an event. You get this workbook. 727 00:28:46,241 --> 00:28:48,041 Speaker 1: I'm not exaggerating. I'm holding my hands up so you 728 00:28:48,081 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 1: guys can't see it. But it is so thick and 729 00:28:50,281 --> 00:28:51,961 Speaker 1: so throughout that each of the days you're going through 730 00:28:51,961 --> 00:28:53,641 Speaker 1: the workbooks, you're breaking off into groups. 731 00:28:53,641 --> 00:28:54,921 Speaker 2: Did you keep all your workbooks? 732 00:28:55,121 --> 00:28:57,401 Speaker 1: I've got them in the back yere. Yeah, so cool 733 00:28:57,441 --> 00:28:59,641 Speaker 1: that you still got them. Yeah, you go off in groups, 734 00:28:59,641 --> 00:29:01,121 Speaker 1: you have to split from your partner as well, so 735 00:29:01,161 --> 00:29:03,081 Speaker 1: you're obviously getting more vulnerable and you're not like staying 736 00:29:03,121 --> 00:29:06,681 Speaker 1: in your safety zone. He does like meditation, like group meditations. 737 00:29:07,001 --> 00:29:10,041 Speaker 1: He does interventions with people. So he'll say, for example, 738 00:29:10,081 --> 00:29:12,321 Speaker 1: stand up, who's suicidal, And out of a thousand people 739 00:29:12,321 --> 00:29:13,841 Speaker 1: in the audience, he'll be five people that stand up, 740 00:29:13,841 --> 00:29:15,961 Speaker 1: and he'll spend two or three hours breaking down why 741 00:29:16,001 --> 00:29:18,001 Speaker 1: they feel like that and fully pulled them out of it. 742 00:29:18,041 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 1: And it's incredible to watch. It's life changing. Yeah, So 743 00:29:20,761 --> 00:29:23,761 Speaker 1: it's like interactive like that. It's not just hearing him speak, no, 744 00:29:23,881 --> 00:29:26,081 Speaker 1: but when he speaks, he speaks with so much passion 745 00:29:26,121 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: and conviction and just like you just want mo in 746 00:29:29,801 --> 00:29:32,881 Speaker 1: it like, and then he has the air conditioning down 747 00:29:32,961 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 1: really low to make sure you stay awake, so they 748 00:29:35,481 --> 00:29:38,241 Speaker 1: actually do that as a tool to keep you awake tactically, 749 00:29:38,321 --> 00:29:40,441 Speaker 1: so you've got to be like, it's freezing, but if 750 00:29:40,441 --> 00:29:43,281 Speaker 1: you're warm like that Stephen Bartlett one where I was 751 00:29:43,321 --> 00:29:46,121 Speaker 1: so warm that also made me sleepy. Yeah, but yeah, me, 752 00:29:46,161 --> 00:29:47,960 Speaker 1: and you've booked in for an event soon. I know. 753 00:29:48,041 --> 00:29:51,001 Speaker 2: I'm excited. We'll be able to come back and share 754 00:29:51,201 --> 00:29:53,241 Speaker 2: all of what comes up with you guys once we go. 755 00:29:53,561 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 1: It's just like a breath work ice bath and what 756 00:29:56,481 --> 00:29:56,960 Speaker 1: else is it? 757 00:29:57,001 --> 00:30:01,361 Speaker 2: I think meditation but yeah, breath work I'm excited for again. 758 00:30:01,561 --> 00:30:05,441 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm really excited for that too. Yeah, I've done 759 00:30:05,521 --> 00:30:07,441 Speaker 1: probably six or seven now, there's only been one time 760 00:30:07,481 --> 00:30:09,841 Speaker 1: that I've had a really good release. Yeah, and like 761 00:30:09,961 --> 00:30:11,801 Speaker 1: visions and stuff. So I'm really excited for that too. 762 00:30:11,921 --> 00:30:13,281 Speaker 2: And I feel like when you're there and you're in 763 00:30:13,281 --> 00:30:14,921 Speaker 2: your right time, I feel like you're really in your 764 00:30:15,001 --> 00:30:16,721 Speaker 2: right time for this right now. True, So I feel 765 00:30:16,761 --> 00:30:18,601 Speaker 2: like you'll be I feel like you'll just be letting 766 00:30:18,641 --> 00:30:20,801 Speaker 2: go and like with whatever comes up, I think they'd 767 00:30:20,841 --> 00:30:22,801 Speaker 2: be resistance. Yeah, I think you're ready. 768 00:30:22,961 --> 00:30:25,521 Speaker 1: I hope so. And it's also to do with like 769 00:30:25,601 --> 00:30:28,161 Speaker 1: the facilitator, how safe you feel with them, yes, so 770 00:30:28,201 --> 00:30:29,121 Speaker 1: how much you can let go? 771 00:30:29,361 --> 00:30:31,521 Speaker 2: Definitely, you don't feel safe, like we see this in 772 00:30:31,561 --> 00:30:34,601 Speaker 2: the Ultimate Girl's Day Out. Like most have massive releases, 773 00:30:34,601 --> 00:30:36,521 Speaker 2: but some just aren't ready, like they, like I said, 774 00:30:36,521 --> 00:30:38,761 Speaker 2: not in that place, or they haven't quite opened up, 775 00:30:38,801 --> 00:30:40,881 Speaker 2: so they don't feel quite safe to like go there. 776 00:30:41,081 --> 00:30:43,081 Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's quite brave to go there. It is. 777 00:30:43,521 --> 00:30:45,161 Speaker 1: You've got to be ready, you've got to be vulnerable. 778 00:30:45,521 --> 00:30:46,721 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, definitely. 779 00:30:46,961 --> 00:30:50,281 Speaker 1: Oh so cool. Well that's it for a wacky Wednesday guys. 780 00:30:50,321 --> 00:30:53,241 Speaker 2: Lucky Wednesday. I feel like this is a long, whacky Wednesday. 781 00:30:53,321 --> 00:30:53,881 Speaker 1: Yeah it might be. 782 00:30:53,921 --> 00:30:56,361 Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, we can talk underwater. 783 00:30:57,761 --> 00:30:59,641 Speaker 1: Thanks for joining us, guys. We'll see you next week.