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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to the Where's Your Head At? Hotline, our

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Anna and I'm Matt. Let's jump in, Matt. It's

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<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty three. Happy New Year, Happy.

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<v Speaker 2>New Year, Anna. Welcome to a big episode in a

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<v Speaker 2>big year. Geen to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, it's so weird to be back in the studio.

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<v Speaker 1>We've had a little bit of time off. I'm feeling refreshed.

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<v Speaker 1>How is your New Year?

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<v Speaker 2>It was good? So, like I said last year, I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't have any plans for New Years. I got a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of I got a little itchy towards the end.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, you cha.

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<v Speaker 2>The boys were trying to push a couple of events

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<v Speaker 2>on me, and I was like, you know what, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't I don't want to go. I'm not I want

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<v Speaker 2>to have a nice, relax year. So we just went

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<v Speaker 2>down to Olwood Beach and sat there beautiful. I had

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<v Speaker 2>a bottle of mum and just mom and just sat

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<v Speaker 2>there and relaxed and watched the fireworks. It's a good view,

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<v Speaker 2>so you could see the fireworks from like the city,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess, like the middle of the city and the docklands.

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<v Speaker 2>You see the whole all the fireworks. So that was

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<v Speaker 2>really beautiful, beautiful. But then the next day the boy

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<v Speaker 2>swifted my arm and I went to a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>New Year's Day events.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw that.

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<v Speaker 2>And let rift there, so I made up for having

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<v Speaker 2>New Year's Eve off.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're feeling dusty, Are you feeling refreshed, energized? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you feeling? What's what's going on in the life

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<v Speaker 1>of Matt?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, there's never the breaks in never long enough, are they?

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<v Speaker 2>Then I wish it was a little bit longer.

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<v Speaker 1>First day back, I actually took the wrong route here

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<v Speaker 1>because I was just like, do you know what's so

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<v Speaker 1>annoying about holidays is my sleeping pattern is just so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Throughout the whole of last year, I was waking up

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<v Speaker 1>at like six on the dark, wake up at six

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<v Speaker 1>just like buy myself, get a coffee, watch the morning TV,

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<v Speaker 1>and like this morning, I was like, had alarm after

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<v Speaker 1>alarm this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>So I normally would get up at like yeah on

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<v Speaker 2>Mondays at six to watch the NFL. Yeah, coffee, but

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<v Speaker 2>fantasy is over. I didn't make well, I lost in playoffs,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's over. So there's no point really getting up now.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like in a dark place through all

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<v Speaker 2>my alarms, and then I turned on for a bit

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like to go to the studio.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been getting up at like, no joke, this is

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<v Speaker 1>so bad, but like nine am, ten am, Like my

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping pattern is so bad. And Michael and I have

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<v Speaker 1>been going to bed at like one am, two am. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so like we've been watching shows, We've been watching movies,

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<v Speaker 1>we've been playing games, like especially because it's light nights

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<v Speaker 1>at the moment, Like we have a beautiful balcony, so

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<v Speaker 1>we've just been sitting out there relaxing. But yeah, sleeping

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<v Speaker 1>pattern is bad. Woke up like this morning, was like ship,

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<v Speaker 1>we're back to We're back to the podcast?

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<v Speaker 2>You got here before me? So that show.

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<v Speaker 1>I did get here before that, but I almost didn't

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<v Speaker 1>because I took the wrong turn off and I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I need another coffee, but where'd you go? Like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're heading to the West Gate and then you

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<v Speaker 1>take it. I almost took the airport turnoff and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually did, but like I was a bit more onto it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, but then I was like, I need another coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>But one of my newest resolutions that I'm implementing is

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<v Speaker 1>only two coffees a day, which I've stuck to so

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<v Speaker 1>far because the thing is is I had no limits,

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<v Speaker 1>and when you have no limits, you just go coffee

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<v Speaker 1>after coffee after coffee, Like you're telling me, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>both of our vises. And I was like, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>keep doing this. I feel like it's like I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be the healthiest version of myself this year, and

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<v Speaker 1>six coffees just ain't it for me anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Buying six coffees that's what did it for me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, also, no, I don't even do the masks

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<v Speaker 1>with me. I don't want to know.

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<v Speaker 2>The break. And I was like, so I was making.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've been actually getting the little Nest cafe ones

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<v Speaker 1>and they are good.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I put them in the pod and then make

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<v Speaker 2>an ice one. Oh yeah nice.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really good. Mill Dura was amazing. We got

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out with our nephew. He's growing up so quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my god. Yeah, we had so

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<v Speaker 1>much fun with him. We bought him a paddling pool

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<v Speaker 1>and he loved it. So six months. Yeah, but I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like he's so advanced. I'm just like, we're both

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<v Speaker 1>obsessed with him, and leaving him was really sad, and

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<v Speaker 1>obviously the whole family, like, we had an amazing Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we came home, had Christmas with my family, and

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<v Speaker 1>then a few of our friends went to Turquie. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I love TALKI It was really fun, really good, had

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<v Speaker 1>a great weather, had a few beach days and just

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<v Speaker 1>chilled out. I did get a little bit of itchy

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<v Speaker 1>feet seeing people in beautiful place around the world on

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<v Speaker 1>their vacations, like people. Yeah, yeah, it's nice when you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to save money, when you have lots of engagement

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<v Speaker 1>party and weddings in the near future that you have

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<v Speaker 1>to save for. But yeah, Michael and I are going

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<v Speaker 1>to Europe in August. That was our Christmas present to

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<v Speaker 1>each other, so we started planning that this weekend. Just

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't know, like I'm so bad, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I love a holiday and I love a

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<v Speaker 1>last minute holiday, so not actually going outside of Australia.

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<v Speaker 1>I was kind of like I wish I was, but

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<v Speaker 1>also I know that there's lots of exciting things coming

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<v Speaker 1>and i'm you know, what do I say? There's you

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<v Speaker 1>have to be happy. You need three things that you're

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<v Speaker 1>looking forward to. So I have the engagement party Europe

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<v Speaker 1>in August and my.

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<v Speaker 2>Wedding, three massive things as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Massive thing massive. I'm going to be in Europe for

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<v Speaker 1>I think two and a half weeks, so not too.

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<v Speaker 2>Long, a nice little stink down there, and just Greece.

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<v Speaker 2>You're going to do anything.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to do Greece, Spain, Italy, France and then home.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have any holidays? Yeah, exactly. Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>any holidays planned this year?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to do the I want to do the States,

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<v Speaker 2>so like probably get there at like October, go like

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<v Speaker 2>say there for Halloween, watch like a bunch of NFL

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<v Speaker 2>I love that, a bunch of NFL games in different states,

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<v Speaker 2>and then like be there for Thanksgiving and then finish

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<v Speaker 2>up in New York for like Christmas period.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so you're going away for a couple of months,

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<v Speaker 1>like six weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's what I want to do sort of something

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what Laura did. My best friend Laura, she did

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<v Speaker 1>that this year. She went away for that time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was it looked really good. Like she went

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<v Speaker 1>to a beautiful and amazing Halloween party. Then she was

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<v Speaker 1>having Thanksgiving with people. It looked incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I want to do then. Yeah, finish up

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<v Speaker 2>in New York, see all like the Christmas stuff Times

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<v Speaker 2>Square and not Times Square, Rockefeller, Pasa that tree, do

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<v Speaker 2>all that, and then come home for Christmas time to

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<v Speaker 2>be with my family.

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<v Speaker 1>Beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, that's what that's my goal. That's what I'm

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<v Speaker 2>working towards. Obviously that's months away, but we'll see, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>see what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. Well, do you have any recommendations for

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<v Speaker 1>us this week?

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<v Speaker 2>Now? Okay, so my recommendation is a little bit different.

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<v Speaker 2>It's something that was flagged with me. It could also be,

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<v Speaker 2>to be honest, it could also be like a New

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<v Speaker 2>Years resolution at the same time, so like it, I

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<v Speaker 2>probably have done it on this episode to be fair,

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<v Speaker 2>and I reckon a lot of people are going to

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<v Speaker 2>call me out for this. It's saying just so like say, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>like what do you do for work. I just have

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<v Speaker 2>a podcast. What you're doing is you're minimizing what you

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<v Speaker 2>actually are doing.

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<v Speaker 1>So true.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, so like someone goes, oh, what did you

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<v Speaker 2>eat for lunch? Or just a just a rap, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's a rap, it's a mule, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like, yeah, so it takes away from like

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<v Speaker 1>the gratitude that you should be giving that rat Oh yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly, yeah, well likely stuff like that, you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Like you're minimizing stuff, and then I guess

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<v Speaker 2>you're suppressing yourself and you're suppressing like your future, like

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Your future, yourself, everything like that, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Like or what you've done, you're suppressing what you've done.

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<v Speaker 2>So my my recommendation is for everyone is to stop

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<v Speaker 2>saying just yeah and you're like explaining something.

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<v Speaker 1>So Matt, what do you do?

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<v Speaker 2>You say?

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, that's okay, that just is okay because it's

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<v Speaker 1>like adjoining.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because it's adjoining.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, So, Matt, what do you do for work?

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<v Speaker 2>I have a podcast? Will Yeah I nearly said it

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<v Speaker 2>as well. I absolutely said it.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's a habit for you that you're trying to break. Basically, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think you do that at all?

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't noticed, but I'm gonna I'm gonna have I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to keep a look out this week and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>let you know. But if I do say it, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to nip it in the bud because I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to minimize any sort of gratitude that I

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<v Speaker 1>should be giving to all assets of my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean once it was flagged with me, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really big on language and how like if you

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<v Speaker 2>say one thing one way or you say it another way,

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<v Speaker 2>it can be perceived a different way, you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean. So I'm big on that. So I am. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna flag it and be on top of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. I was actually reading this thing recently

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<v Speaker 1>and it was just talking about like having such a

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<v Speaker 1>having a positive mindset and how it plays such an

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<v Speaker 1>important role in what you're gonna do in your future,

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<v Speaker 1>who you're going to become, and like I think during

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<v Speaker 1>the holidays, I had a bit of a negative day.

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<v Speaker 1>I was a bit down on myself, I was second

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<v Speaker 1>guessing myself, and I was just feeling super low. And

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<v Speaker 1>then the next day I woke up and I'd read

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<v Speaker 1>this article, and I was like, wow, like yesterday I

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<v Speaker 1>totally ruined my own day.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, just from being negative on myself. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I started practicing gratitude again, which we always talk about,

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<v Speaker 1>and practicing being the best version of yourself and talking

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<v Speaker 1>to yourself like you would talk to a best friend.

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<v Speaker 1>And I had the best day, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to do this every single day this year,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter how hard my day gets. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to myself like I would someone I love and

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<v Speaker 1>show myself kindness and also just like reaffirm things like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so lucky, I'm so blessed, I'm so grateful to

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<v Speaker 1>be living in this apartment, I'm so grateful and blessed

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<v Speaker 1>for my partner or whatever it might be.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I did I notice that when I did that

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<v Speaker 2>TikTok of the year of twenty twenty two, I was

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<v Speaker 2>going through all my videos from the year and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, fuck, like this is all in one year.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I've done this traveling, I've gone to this place,

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<v Speaker 2>I've done this. I was like wow, I was like

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<v Speaker 2>I'd actually stopped and I was like, fuck, I'm grateful

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<v Speaker 2>for that stuff I've done and I've been given and

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<v Speaker 2>all that sort of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, what are your recommendations for this week?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So I have two. The first one is a Netflix

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<v Speaker 1>documentary that I watched with Michael. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you've seen it yet. It's called Don't pick Up the Phone.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like a horror thriller sort of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really good. It's super confronting and just like Michael, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Michael kept like pausing it and being like, can you

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<v Speaker 1>fucking believe this? And I was like, I actually can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe what I'm watching.

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<v Speaker 2>What is it documentary or is it it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm gonna try and give a little bit away

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<v Speaker 1>without giving too much away. It's basically about this guy

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<v Speaker 1>who prank calls like fast food outlets like McDonald's or

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<v Speaker 1>Taco Bell or whatever it is, and he sees how

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<v Speaker 1>far he can push the employees. But it gets like

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<v Speaker 1>to a level of sexual assault. It gets really dark.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, just give it a watch. Let me know

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<v Speaker 1>what you think. Come back to me.

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<v Speaker 2>So is it based on true events or tru events?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>True events? And it's terrifying, really yeah, it was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was very confronting to me, and just like when you

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<v Speaker 1>watch it, you think, how would I react in that situation?

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<v Speaker 1>Would I go as far as these people are going

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<v Speaker 1>if I was manipulated in the ways that they're manipulated.

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<v Speaker 1>It's super interesting and just like really thought provoking. So

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<v Speaker 1>next week I'm going to ask you if I've watched it,

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<v Speaker 1>if you've watched it, and I want to know what

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<v Speaker 1>you think.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, okay, I've got another recommend. If we're talking about show.

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<v Speaker 2>I just finished The White Lotus Season one.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been meaning to watch that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we turned on, so I don't know if any

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<v Speaker 2>who has foxtail app but if someone else has watched it,

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<v Speaker 2>so if someone in my family's watched it already. So

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<v Speaker 2>it starts from like the second season, like it's actually

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<v Speaker 2>been done before by heaps of people. So we watched

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<v Speaker 2>the second season and we got like halfway through, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I don't remember these people being on

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<v Speaker 2>the trailer, and then I realized that we were halfway

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<v Speaker 2>through the second season, but lucky enough that they don't join.

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<v Speaker 2>There's just one character, but like her storyline, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think flows into the next one that much, So you

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<v Speaker 2>don't need to watch the first season before the second one, Right, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I do, but we've gone back and we're watching

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<v Speaker 2>season one, so halfway through season one now, and it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't really seem like I needed to watch it. But

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<v Speaker 2>the second season was unbelievable. Really, Yeah, it's the best

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<v Speaker 2>way to explain it. A lot happens, but nothing at

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<v Speaker 2>the same time. There's so much going on but nothing

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<v Speaker 2>at the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so confusing. What the hell?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been told so many times that I need to

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<v Speaker 1>watch this show. But people start by saying, they go,

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<v Speaker 1>season one's really slow, season two is unreal, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it's not really enticing me to watch it.

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<v Speaker 2>I just do what I did.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're saying season one slow, but maybe I'll do.

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<v Speaker 2>What you did. Do what I did, just watch season two.

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<v Speaker 2>Season two was it's not Season two was slow as well.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just it's building up to something. It's just watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>To make a deal. Frustrating you watch, don't pick up

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and I'll watch White Loaded.

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<v Speaker 2>Half of three. Season one.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to stop watching that. I'm still intrigued

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<v Speaker 2>by that.

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<v Speaker 1>Trust me, if you watch. Don't pick up the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>You will get so addicted like I did, and you'll

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<v Speaker 1>need to like binge it because we fully binge. How

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<v Speaker 1>many episodes I think it's like four or five. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not it's not too many, but it's like once you start,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, I need to finish. I'll list my second

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<v Speaker 1>recommendation because I just got excited because I haven't seen

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<v Speaker 1>you in a little hotfack. I'm back. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>my gut health's been really bad. So this year I'm

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<v Speaker 1>making a really conscious effort to really fix my gut health.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to a natural path this week. So basically,

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<v Speaker 1>anything they tell me, I'm going to come back to

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<v Speaker 1>the pod next week, and that's gonna be my recommendations.

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<v Speaker 1>But a guy I know, he has written multiple books

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<v Speaker 1>on healthy eating on fixing your gut and I actually

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<v Speaker 1>heard him giving a lecture and he spoke about how

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<v Speaker 1>eating fomented foods is extremely good for your gut health,

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<v Speaker 1>especially if your gut health is really off the market's

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<v Speaker 1>all over the place or whatever, which I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>mine is. So I'm going to start making a conscious

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<v Speaker 1>effort to eat more fermented food. So this morning I

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<v Speaker 1>had yogurt and honey. Both of them are fermented foods. Surprisingly,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know howey was either.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you know your Gut House Flack quotes.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I've just been feeling extremely bloated.

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<v Speaker 2>I get really bad intigestion.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you Yeah, I get a little I think me too.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've never really been the person who has gotten bloated.

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard lots of people around me talking about being bloated.

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<v Speaker 1>But in the past like three to four months, I

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<v Speaker 1>reckon I've taken about four pregnancy tests because I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on. I was like, I must be pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm bloated. I'm always floated. That's why I look like this.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm constantly bloated. That's why I Pelly, what do you mean.

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<v Speaker 5>That's how you look like?

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<v Speaker 1>There kidding, but anyway, not pregnant. Just to clarify, and

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<v Speaker 1>do have gut health issues. So we're working on the

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<v Speaker 1>Gut Healthy cear. We're going to talk about it on

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<v Speaker 1>the pod.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know any other fermented foods?

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's sour kraut, there's kim chi. MAT's looking

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<v Speaker 1>at me like I'm crazy? What about miso soup? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>having a miso suit once a day would be super good.

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<v Speaker 1>I think bone broth. Yeah, so all of those things.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll come in with the listen next week and we

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<v Speaker 1>can talk more about it. But yeah, we're getting the

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<v Speaker 1>gut health in check. I think when your gut healths

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<v Speaker 1>in check, it really helps with your mental health. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this is going to be the year to

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<v Speaker 1>smash it out, and I think it's going to start

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<v Speaker 1>with getting that gut health in check. That and on

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<v Speaker 1>that note, let's get into our voicemails. Hello, you've reached

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<v Speaker 1>Anna and Matt.

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<v Speaker 2>We can't get to the phone right now.

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<v Speaker 1>But please leave us a message on our hotline after

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<v Speaker 1>the beep. Okay, So this week we had a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of gold in our voicemail and our producer Alex has

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<v Speaker 1>chosen a few for us to listen to now.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so we haven't heard these at all. So the

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<v Speaker 2>first one comes from Bi Anchor.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, a horror story for you.

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<v Speaker 4>This is about when I was left in the guy

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<v Speaker 4>that I was seeing's apartment on my own after week

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<v Speaker 4>been out. One night, like we'd come back to his apartment.

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<v Speaker 4>We were having some drinks with me and my friend

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<v Speaker 4>and next minute we were on the balcony. We just said,

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<v Speaker 4>heard the door shut and he'd gone. He'd left, he'd

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<v Speaker 4>taken his keys. Didn't hear from him, have no idea

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<v Speaker 4>where he'd gone. He wasn't answering his phone. I'd been

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<v Speaker 4>seeing him probably for about maybe four months. I think

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<v Speaker 4>we'd met on a dating app. I knew he had

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<v Speaker 4>a child with another woman, but he told.

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<v Speaker 3>Me that they were separated.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, And yeah, I think i'd been here about

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<v Speaker 4>to him for I think it was almost three or

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<v Speaker 4>four days. He just didn't return his call. I was

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<v Speaker 4>getting so worried. I was about to call his mum.

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<v Speaker 4>I was so stressed and worried about his safety. And

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<v Speaker 4>then when I did hear back from him, he didn't

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<v Speaker 4>give me any explanation around what had happened. I message

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<v Speaker 4>him basically saying that you need to give all my

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<v Speaker 4>stuff that I've left in your house and also locked

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<v Speaker 4>in your car. You just need to drop it off

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<v Speaker 4>because I'm done and I don't want to talk to

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<v Speaker 4>you anymore, like cut it off. Because it wasn't the

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<v Speaker 4>first time he just left or had this really strange

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<v Speaker 4>up and down behavior.

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<v Speaker 1>He's married.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I got all my stuff back and I saw

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<v Speaker 4>him and I was in a state and a half.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, the plot thickens.

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<v Speaker 3>It definitely thickens.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely found out that the girl or the mother of

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<v Speaker 4>his child, they were trying to get back together. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>she messaged me and do you see information there?

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<v Speaker 3>That's for sure?

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<v Speaker 2>Shit, how long do you reckon they were waiting? She

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<v Speaker 2>said she was with their friend. How long do you

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<v Speaker 2>reckon they're waiting in the apartment for just sitting there

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<v Speaker 2>like triggering in their thumbs.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd probably just leave, I was about.

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<v Speaker 2>To say, wouldn't you just help yourself to like just

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<v Speaker 2>more drinks? Just drink all these drinks and a right,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm taken off.

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<v Speaker 1>Now take some souvenirs.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll just strip everything in his house. Take everything you can, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So our producer Alex knew that we'd want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>her a little bit more info. So we actually have

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<v Speaker 1>Bianca on the line and Hi, bi anchor.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, how are you good?

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<v Speaker 1>Or we just listened to your voicemail, Thanks for sending

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<v Speaker 1>one in. Can you just clarify just kind of what

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<v Speaker 1>the voicemail was about? So you were seeing a guy

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<v Speaker 1>for four months and he just randomly left you at

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<v Speaker 1>his house one day without telling you he was leaving.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Literally, I met this guy on a dating app and

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<v Speaker 4>we started seeing each other, like it was pretty full on.

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<v Speaker 4>We were like, I've met his friends, I've met his mom,

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<v Speaker 4>like I've met a lot of people in his life.

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<v Speaker 3>I knew that he.

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<v Speaker 4>Had an ex, and I knew that he had a

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<v Speaker 4>child with the ex, but I wasn't faced by it

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<v Speaker 4>because he was quite open about it, all right. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>so one night we had come back from having dinner

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<v Speaker 4>and bumping into one of my friends and having drinks,

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<v Speaker 4>and we went back to his house and continued having

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<v Speaker 4>a few drinks, and I think her and I must

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<v Speaker 4>have been on the balcony and all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 4>we heard a door slam and he just left his

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<v Speaker 4>apartment and left the two of us there, and we

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<v Speaker 4>had no idea where had gone. He wasn't answering his phone,

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<v Speaker 4>just vanished.

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<v Speaker 1>What the hell?

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<v Speaker 2>So were you exclusive with him then? Like he was

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<v Speaker 2>full dating each other.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we'd organized a holiday away together, like it was

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<v Speaker 4>full on.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, Yeah, where was a holiday too?

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<v Speaker 3>I see it was up north.

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<v Speaker 4>We were going so kind of up near Byron and

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<v Speaker 4>then up to Queensland. But we had to cancel it

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<v Speaker 4>because it was during that time where everyone who was

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<v Speaker 4>in New South Wales had to flee back.

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<v Speaker 3>Over the water.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, so it all got canceled. So let me

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<v Speaker 1>get this straight. He goes mia for how long? Four days?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? For about four days, did not hear from him.

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<v Speaker 4>I woke up in the morning and when he wasn't back,

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<v Speaker 4>I thought, well, I'm not going to stay in your

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<v Speaker 4>house with Like I had all my stuff from the

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<v Speaker 4>holiday as well, because I'd come back straight to his place,

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<v Speaker 4>so all of my stuff was in the house in

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<v Speaker 4>his car. He had his car keys. I'm like, how

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<v Speaker 4>am I going to get all my stuff? I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know where it's gone?

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<v Speaker 2>So you stayed the night after he left?

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<v Speaker 1>This is so wild is this guy?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm well, I thought he'd come back. I'm like, surely

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<v Speaker 3>he'll come back.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Okay, So what's happened to him? Now?

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<v Speaker 3>What's happened to him?

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<v Speaker 4>I have no idea, Matt, I've got no clue and

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<v Speaker 4>I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>After the four days when he went missing, when he resurfaced, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what was his excuse?

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<v Speaker 4>He was really confused about what he wanted, and basically

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<v Speaker 4>he was implying that he wanted to get back with

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<v Speaker 4>his ex. Yeah, and so I just made an assumption

0:21:38.200 --> 0:21:39.000
<v Speaker 4>that that's where he'd gone.

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't in the mood to talk to him. I thought,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, if you don't have the respect to tell

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<v Speaker 3>me where.

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<v Speaker 4>You've gone, and you've just vanished for the past four

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<v Speaker 4>days and not given me anything, like I'm not giving

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<v Speaker 4>you a time.

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<v Speaker 3>Of day, Like it's done, Like you've broken my trust.

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<v Speaker 1>So absolutely good on you. Absolutely fuck him. Yeah, do

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<v Speaker 1>you reckon that he was with his supposed ex the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time, Like they were still together the whole time,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was just like doing the dirty on the side.

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<v Speaker 4>I love that you've said that, because that is exactly

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<v Speaker 4>what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>I received a message from.

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<v Speaker 4>The ex like a couple of weeks after all this

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<v Speaker 4>had happened, and it was pretty nasty, like she basically

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<v Speaker 4>implied that I knew that they were still trying to

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<v Speaker 4>get back together.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, why would I want to be the side girl,

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<v Speaker 3>which is what she said, Why would I want to

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<v Speaker 3>be that?

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<v Speaker 4>Like that's not the situation at all. So it was

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<v Speaker 4>a very rude message. That she like sent me, and

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<v Speaker 4>I at the start wasn't going to respond. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not going I'm stooping to your level. But then

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<v Speaker 4>she sent me another nasty message saying every time that

0:22:44.560 --> 0:22:47.000
<v Speaker 4>he was with you, he's told me that he was

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<v Speaker 4>thinking about me, like implying that when we were sleeping

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<v Speaker 4>together he was thinking about her.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh, bitch, no, sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>That hurts.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate when like things like this happen and the

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<v Speaker 1>ang or isn't like solely going towards the guy, like

0:23:03.240 --> 0:23:06.040
<v Speaker 1>he's totally in the wrong, like you guys are just

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<v Speaker 1>like collateral damage. Almost.

0:23:08.119 --> 0:23:09.960
<v Speaker 2>I was about to say, she shouldn't be having ancs,

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<v Speaker 2>should be having a go at him.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, Oh my god, BANKM so sorry this happened to you.

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<v Speaker 1>You must be scarred.

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<v Speaker 4>Look, it's not it's not nice to go through, absolutely,

0:23:19.880 --> 0:23:22.080
<v Speaker 4>but you know you take you take it with a

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<v Speaker 4>grade of salt and try and learn learn from those

0:23:25.200 --> 0:23:27.040
<v Speaker 4>types of lessons, but understand it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's really about them, it's nothing to do with yourself. Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 4>The funny thing is they did get back together, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm pretty sure they've broken up since then too, So yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>so it couldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>See that trading or listening who could be potentially in

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<v Speaker 1>a similar situation.

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<v Speaker 3>Ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there any red flags that you saw at the

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<v Speaker 1>very start that you wish you had listened to?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so many red flags?

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<v Speaker 4>Like I think at that point, I've been single at

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<v Speaker 4>that stage for maybe four four and a half years.

0:23:57.440 --> 0:24:00.639
<v Speaker 4>I've been in a few many sort of relations ships

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<v Speaker 4>that didn't really last too long since my ex. So

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<v Speaker 4>for me, I think I was kind of what's that

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<v Speaker 4>saying when you've got your love?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was completely just thinking about, Oh, this guy's

0:24:13.640 --> 0:24:16.240
<v Speaker 4>you know, showing me all this attention, and he's you know,

0:24:16.280 --> 0:24:18.120
<v Speaker 4>wanting me to meet his friends, and now he's wanting

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<v Speaker 4>me to meet his mum. And I think I just

0:24:19.760 --> 0:24:22.679
<v Speaker 4>got completely blindsided by a lot of it. But I

0:24:22.720 --> 0:24:25.639
<v Speaker 4>mean he was constantly going down there and seeing his

0:24:25.840 --> 0:24:29.040
<v Speaker 4>ex to see the child, and he'd stay down there too,

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<v Speaker 4>So that was probably a huge red flag. But I

0:24:31.320 --> 0:24:34.359
<v Speaker 4>understood it as he was saying, in the separate room

0:24:34.400 --> 0:24:37.440
<v Speaker 4>and he was there to really look back see his child.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's such a tricky situation and super hard to navigate.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean other red flags as well. I think

0:24:44.280 --> 0:24:47.520
<v Speaker 4>he just had he had a lot of like past baggage.

0:24:47.560 --> 0:24:51.760
<v Speaker 4>And you know, he was a big drinker too, and

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<v Speaker 4>I think sometimes he'd do certain things when he'd be drinking,

0:24:56.119 --> 0:24:58.400
<v Speaker 4>and he'd just like that wasn't the first time he'd

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<v Speaker 4>just vanished. One night before I went on my holiday,

0:25:01.960 --> 0:25:03.840
<v Speaker 4>we were all at his apartment with a few people

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<v Speaker 4>having a few drinks, and he just left that night too,

0:25:07.560 --> 0:25:09.240
<v Speaker 4>the night before I was going on my holiday.

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<v Speaker 2>So I mean it wasn't what left everyone at his apartment.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I would never leave everyone at my house.

0:25:17.800 --> 0:25:20.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm not afraid of like people just like stealing a

0:25:20.720 --> 0:25:22.080
<v Speaker 1>couple of for.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone that has something to hide, he doesn't care leaving

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<v Speaker 2>people in his house to go through it all.

0:25:26.880 --> 0:25:30.840
<v Speaker 1>He's probably like that will just do. That's going to

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<v Speaker 1>not crazy if anyone is just randomly leaving This is

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<v Speaker 1>for our wears your head out listeners. If anyone is

0:25:37.960 --> 0:25:41.680
<v Speaker 1>randomly leaving you at their apartment, run run.

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<v Speaker 2>Well how are you going now? Byanka, you obviously found someone.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm not. I'm single. Still on the hunt for

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<v Speaker 3>mister Wright.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, good luck, Yanko. Thank you so much for calling in.

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<v Speaker 1>We really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys, have a good day you too. Bye bye.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So the next voicemail we have in our mailbox

0:26:02.320 --> 0:26:04.479
<v Speaker 2>is anonymous. Let's get into it.

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<v Speaker 6>So this weekend I had my bridle shower and I

0:26:08.040 --> 0:26:11.000
<v Speaker 6>had all the girls surrounded me, and one of my

0:26:11.119 --> 0:26:15.440
<v Speaker 6>girlfriends from Sydney came down and she was just telling

0:26:15.640 --> 0:26:19.119
<v Speaker 6>us a story about what happened to her friend. Now,

0:26:19.480 --> 0:26:23.199
<v Speaker 6>this is the craziest story and I did not for

0:26:23.240 --> 0:26:27.040
<v Speaker 6>a minute predict the end of this. So one of

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<v Speaker 6>her friends will just call her Cassie. Cassie was dating

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<v Speaker 6>the head chef of a really renowned restaurant and she

0:26:38.080 --> 0:26:40.440
<v Speaker 6>really liked him. You know, she'd been out of a

0:26:40.520 --> 0:26:44.280
<v Speaker 6>relationship for a very very long time. So Cassie ended

0:26:44.359 --> 0:26:49.119
<v Speaker 6>up going on a date with this guy. Now, he

0:26:49.359 --> 0:26:53.040
<v Speaker 6>was perfect, and she's gone back and reported to her friends,

0:26:53.040 --> 0:26:55.040
<v Speaker 6>this guy is just phenomenal.

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<v Speaker 5>And over the.

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<v Speaker 6>Next couple of months, it was a little hard for

0:26:59.480 --> 0:27:02.800
<v Speaker 6>them today because of his job was so demanding and

0:27:02.880 --> 0:27:07.320
<v Speaker 6>her job was also quite demanding. But nevertheless they went

0:27:07.400 --> 0:27:11.359
<v Speaker 6>out on a few good dates. Now, as he's a chef,

0:27:11.520 --> 0:27:14.560
<v Speaker 6>he told her one day that he would like her

0:27:14.600 --> 0:27:17.240
<v Speaker 6>to come over and he was going to cook dinner

0:27:17.320 --> 0:27:21.560
<v Speaker 6>for her. She thought that was the best thing ever,

0:27:21.720 --> 0:27:24.560
<v Speaker 6>so she told her friends again. They were all really

0:27:24.600 --> 0:27:27.879
<v Speaker 6>excited for her. She gets to his house. He's cooked

0:27:27.920 --> 0:27:32.600
<v Speaker 6>an amazing steak dish. It was phenomenal, she said. She

0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:38.119
<v Speaker 6>loved it. It was high end restaurant quality, and the

0:27:38.359 --> 0:27:42.040
<v Speaker 6>conversation was flowing and it was all working so well.

0:27:42.480 --> 0:27:44.480
<v Speaker 5>She started to get a bit of.

0:27:44.520 --> 0:27:48.480
<v Speaker 6>Stomach cramps and excuse herself and went to the wanted

0:27:48.520 --> 0:27:51.240
<v Speaker 6>to go to the toilet, so she told her She

0:27:51.359 --> 0:27:54.440
<v Speaker 6>told him that she wanted to go to the bathroom,

0:27:54.520 --> 0:27:56.439
<v Speaker 6>and he said to her, hang on a second, let

0:27:56.480 --> 0:27:57.880
<v Speaker 6>me just go check that it's clean.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been working all day before we go. So she agreed.

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<v Speaker 5>He then went into the bathroom and locked himself.

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<v Speaker 6>Now five minutes go past, and her stomach's really hurting

0:28:08.840 --> 0:28:13.040
<v Speaker 6>at this stage, and she's saying to him, hey, I

0:28:13.119 --> 0:28:17.119
<v Speaker 6>really need to go to the bathroom, and he's not

0:28:17.200 --> 0:28:20.119
<v Speaker 6>saying anything, not a word, nothing, not a peep.

0:28:20.680 --> 0:28:23.960
<v Speaker 5>Then she's knocking on the door screaming, saying.

0:28:23.760 --> 0:28:26.000
<v Speaker 1>Please, I really really really need to.

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<v Speaker 5>Get in again. Nothing.

0:28:28.880 --> 0:28:32.879
<v Speaker 6>Finally she starts screaming and she's gone and sat on

0:28:32.920 --> 0:28:36.000
<v Speaker 6>the couch and she's absolutely shut herself.

0:28:36.560 --> 0:28:38.080
<v Speaker 5>She's sitting in.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, it's all water diarrhea and she's.

0:28:41.000 --> 0:28:41.600
<v Speaker 5>Sitting in it.

0:28:42.000 --> 0:28:44.720
<v Speaker 6>He comes out and she says, get out of here, please,

0:28:44.840 --> 0:28:47.240
<v Speaker 6>just whatever you do, don't come in here. Go and

0:28:47.280 --> 0:28:49.040
<v Speaker 6>lock yourself somewhere. I need to have a shower.

0:28:49.560 --> 0:28:51.760
<v Speaker 5>She goes, and she goes and has a shower.

0:28:52.480 --> 0:28:56.920
<v Speaker 6>And when she comes out, she's in a towel and

0:28:56.960 --> 0:28:59.960
<v Speaker 6>she's going to clean up her mass and she says,

0:29:00.160 --> 0:29:07.440
<v Speaker 6>is him masturbating in her diarrhea? So if that doesn't

0:29:07.480 --> 0:29:10.240
<v Speaker 6>top all of the other stories, I don't know what does.

0:29:12.080 --> 0:29:16.479
<v Speaker 1>What on earth is going on? That is fucking sick?

0:29:17.000 --> 0:29:20.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh well, he had to get off somehow, so he's.

0:29:20.680 --> 0:29:22.600
<v Speaker 5>Purposely given her diarrhea.

0:29:22.840 --> 0:29:25.520
<v Speaker 2>I re locked the bathroom, so she shits herself.

0:29:26.440 --> 0:29:29.560
<v Speaker 1>You know what, That is the most twisted story I

0:29:29.600 --> 0:29:31.000
<v Speaker 1>think I have ever heard.

0:29:31.240 --> 0:29:33.240
<v Speaker 2>My mind was thinking that was what was going to happen.

0:29:33.280 --> 0:29:35.960
<v Speaker 2>I was like, nah, you've been watching your mind thought

0:29:36.040 --> 0:29:39.960
<v Speaker 2>that watching too many like weird like movies like Criminal

0:29:40.000 --> 0:29:41.680
<v Speaker 2>Wives and shit, like it's not going to go that way.

0:29:42.320 --> 0:29:45.240
<v Speaker 2>And then it did and I was like fuck, but like.

0:29:45.400 --> 0:29:49.360
<v Speaker 1>Okay, let me put myself in Cassie's situation. If I

0:29:49.440 --> 0:29:53.800
<v Speaker 1>was about to ship myself, I would leave over like

0:29:53.920 --> 0:29:56.719
<v Speaker 1>shitting myself in his house, Like I would prefer to

0:29:56.760 --> 0:29:58.080
<v Speaker 1>like ship myself in a book.

0:29:58.120 --> 0:29:59.440
<v Speaker 2>You would, wouldn't you?

0:29:59.440 --> 0:30:02.200
<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't like leave remnants of it on the couch,

0:30:02.320 --> 0:30:06.800
<v Speaker 1>like that's disgusting.

0:30:04.800 --> 0:30:05.760
<v Speaker 2>To go through her.

0:30:06.040 --> 0:30:10.040
<v Speaker 1>Course, maybe he was gonna like masturbate to like the

0:30:10.080 --> 0:30:13.280
<v Speaker 1>fact that she shouted herself. But then he like, so, wait,

0:30:13.360 --> 0:30:14.800
<v Speaker 1>is he getting off on the smell?

0:30:15.560 --> 0:30:20.280
<v Speaker 2>I want to vomit gives me.

0:30:21.560 --> 0:30:25.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm literally getting like my skin is crawling in disgust.

0:30:25.960 --> 0:30:28.320
<v Speaker 2>I mean, who we judge that that's how he gets off.

0:30:28.440 --> 0:30:29.000
<v Speaker 2>But like, this.

0:30:29.000 --> 0:30:31.720
<v Speaker 1>Guy's a chef in a top restaurant. He's probably putting

0:30:31.720 --> 0:30:33.760
<v Speaker 1>diarrhea and all of our food.

0:30:33.840 --> 0:30:36.600
<v Speaker 2>Trying to make people sh themselves in the restaurant. No,

0:30:37.880 --> 0:30:40.360
<v Speaker 2>I wonder what he did, like to make it do that.

0:30:41.480 --> 0:30:44.560
<v Speaker 1>He probably puts some like strong laxatives in there. I

0:30:44.720 --> 0:30:47.440
<v Speaker 1>like actually want to vomit. I can't deal, can you please?

0:30:47.800 --> 0:30:50.680
<v Speaker 1>We need to get the details of this restaurant so

0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:52.560
<v Speaker 1>no one ever goes out the wise. We're going to

0:30:52.640 --> 0:30:57.480
<v Speaker 1>get laxative strong food caviar with this side of laxatives.

0:31:00.400 --> 0:31:04.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh imagine walking out and seeing him just going nuts

0:31:04.600 --> 0:31:09.800
<v Speaker 2>in your shit, so disgusting, so fucking.

0:31:09.760 --> 0:31:12.320
<v Speaker 1>Actually so fucked And the fact that he knows that

0:31:12.360 --> 0:31:15.320
<v Speaker 1>she's about to see it, Like he knows she's about

0:31:15.320 --> 0:31:15.920
<v Speaker 1>to walk out.

0:31:16.000 --> 0:31:17.680
<v Speaker 2>I probably thought he could get it done quickly.

0:31:19.840 --> 0:31:23.720
<v Speaker 1>We actually have nothing to say. We've never been speechless before. Man.

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:26.440
<v Speaker 1>I just I feel like it's getting really hot in here,

0:31:26.480 --> 0:31:27.800
<v Speaker 1>and I feel really stressed out.

0:31:28.040 --> 0:31:30.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's pretty great. I wasn't. Yeah, like I said,

0:31:30.640 --> 0:31:32.880
<v Speaker 2>I was expecting it in my mind to go that way,

0:31:32.920 --> 0:31:36.360
<v Speaker 2>but I never actually thought it would be that fucking twisted.

0:31:36.480 --> 0:31:38.400
<v Speaker 1>The fact that you expected it to go that way

0:31:38.400 --> 0:31:40.320
<v Speaker 1>in your mind makes me a little bit concerned for you.

0:31:40.400 --> 0:31:41.080
<v Speaker 1>But that's okay.

0:31:41.600 --> 0:31:44.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just like I've seen enough of these like

0:31:44.200 --> 0:31:46.600
<v Speaker 2>criminal minds as for you to be like, there's some

0:31:46.800 --> 0:31:47.880
<v Speaker 2>sick people out there.

0:31:48.160 --> 0:31:50.680
<v Speaker 1>Okay, guys, thank you so much for joining us on

0:31:50.760 --> 0:31:55.680
<v Speaker 1>this week's hotline. That went really dirty, really quick.

0:31:55.960 --> 0:31:59.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, literally dirty, filthy, filthy.

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<v Speaker 2>We have a massive episode as well. Tomorrow we have

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<v Speaker 2>the winners of Love Island Season four on the podcast,

0:32:21.800 --> 0:32:22.719
<v Speaker 2>Claudia and Austin.

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<v Speaker 1>We can't wait to chat to them that it's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a very tea filled episode. So until next time,

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<v Speaker 1>Bye bye,