WEBVTT - NEW ICK UNLOCKED: WED SHREDS

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<v Speaker 1>So are you on a WEDG tread? You're sick?

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<v Speaker 2>You're actually sick.

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<v Speaker 1>This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip,

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<v Speaker 1>intimate details, advice, and much more. Hello, Anna, you look

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<v Speaker 1>pretty stressed. I pought a bit of your stories on

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<v Speaker 1>the way in. Please explain what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like a week away from leaving that's so close

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<v Speaker 3>to go to Greece for my wedding, and I just

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<v Speaker 3>feel like this last week I'm in high anxiety and stress.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you know me, I haven't.

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<v Speaker 3>Really Brizilla, I haven't really like I feel like we

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<v Speaker 3>haven't even like really talked.

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<v Speaker 2>First we just.

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<v Speaker 1>Got like, no, yeah we haven't. So just a preface,

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't really spoken since I was in BALI have

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we had a couple of phone calls while

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<v Speaker 1>I was there.

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<v Speaker 3>We had a few phone calls, but I reckon, like

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<v Speaker 3>you and Bali is the longest we really haven't spoken.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I reckon what a couple of days now it

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<v Speaker 1>would be.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So it's kind of like we're catching up, are you?

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<v Speaker 2>How are you, because you're looking quite tanned.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Honestly, I look first of all Bali, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't make your time. My first time in Bali actually

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<v Speaker 1>took me to be twenty eight years old to travel.

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<v Speaker 2>Across the first time you've been to Bali, I did

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<v Speaker 2>not know that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well. It was like when I was like younger, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like all the boys go with like twenty one, twenty two,

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<v Speaker 1>all that sort of stuff, and you hear like the stories,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was sort of like, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>do that, Like I don't want to go across and

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, have like a full boys trip like

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<v Speaker 1>that just didn't appeal to.

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<v Speaker 2>Me, didn't appeal to you. I'm just surprised you didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Appeal to me. I'd rather do Europe or something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're one of those I don't do Bali.

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<v Speaker 3>I get a Europe and I don't get it because

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<v Speaker 3>people get like there's something that people get so offended

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<v Speaker 3>and annoyed about when people just keep going back to Bali.

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<v Speaker 3>They're like travel elsewhere, like broaden your horizons.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like, if you've been.

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<v Speaker 3>To Bali, you can have a really good time for

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<v Speaker 3>not so much money.

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<v Speaker 2>We're still a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 3>But like in comparison to like a euro trip or

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<v Speaker 3>an America trip.

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<v Speaker 1>I do. I don't get offended, but I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty cliche to go to Bali all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>So how was your trip? We went to talk about me,

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<v Speaker 2>but let's just I want to know about your trip.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell me about your Bali trip.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So, first of all, Balinese people absolutely nothing wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>Like they're so nice angels angels yet like I sent

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<v Speaker 1>from above, yeah, so sweet. Even like some of the people,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, like, no one seems to be having

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<v Speaker 1>a bad day. Literally, I was like, is someone here

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<v Speaker 1>going to be having a bad day? No one was.

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<v Speaker 1>The villas I stayed in, obviously, it looked amazing, amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>One of them was seventeen bedrooms.

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<v Speaker 2>Seventeen yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>The last one was do you like go in a

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<v Speaker 3>different bedroom every single night?

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<v Speaker 1>We stayed in the same one. But I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>explored the whole thing. I didn't even get time to

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like two different Like I think it's huge,

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<v Speaker 1>five big swimming pools. It was amazing. Wow, fool had

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<v Speaker 1>kitchen stuff there that cooked us breakfast. That was amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>You were living the life of luxury. It is whilst

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<v Speaker 2>in Bali.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very good over there here.

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<v Speaker 3>But did you get Barley belly? Actually before you continue,

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<v Speaker 3>because I can't go to Barley without getting.

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<v Speaker 2>A bit of Barley belly.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I got Barley belly. So what I

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<v Speaker 1>put chuck a story up on Instagram. Had so many

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<v Speaker 1>people reply to me and tell me what they thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was. But Tammy said, she reckons it was heat exhaustion.

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<v Speaker 1>So like it was the second day, maybe the third

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<v Speaker 1>day we were there and we went for this massive tin.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a huge dinner and we we like went

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<v Speaker 1>down to the movie room. That night, slept there and

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<v Speaker 1>I just could not sleep, Like my stomach was like

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<v Speaker 1>cramping up. I was like I was laying there like

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<v Speaker 1>uncomfortably on this like coush. I was like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't sleep. And the next morning I woke up and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, hey, like I feel really sick. I reckon,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got Barley belly. She's like, if you've got Barlei belly,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had it. Be for like you're vomiting NonStop, You're

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<v Speaker 1>on the toilet NonStop, like you you you've seen to

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<v Speaker 1>be okay in that respect. But then I was like, nah, nauseous, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>really nauseous. I was like, fuck this, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>tactically vomit. So I went absolutely let it rain in

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<v Speaker 1>the toilet. Eight times. I reckon, just over and over again,

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<v Speaker 1>and I felt, Okay, it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Really nice hearing this on my my morning with my.

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<v Speaker 2>Coffee, just hearing your project album. Thank you for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry to everyone listening, but I am going into vivid detail.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I was like I felt a little bit okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I got the shakes, you know when you're like hot,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was wearing like a long sleeve in balley

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<v Speaker 1>and I was getting the shakes. Just kept my fluids up.

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<v Speaker 1>When the doctor's got a couple of vitamins and I

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<v Speaker 1>bounced back.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, definitely sounds like you had barley belly, because barley belly,

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<v Speaker 3>like it can be really extreme, or it can be mild,

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<v Speaker 3>or it can be medium, like it can go in

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<v Speaker 3>different levels.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I didn't drink any of the water every time

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<v Speaker 1>I had.

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<v Speaker 2>You have ice in your drinks?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but isn't that normal?

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<v Speaker 2>I know, did you have salad?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably?

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<v Speaker 2>Just think about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Salad is the worst thing you can eat bali because

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<v Speaker 3>they wash the lettuce with water and it stays on

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<v Speaker 3>the lettuce leap true.

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<v Speaker 1>As well, wouldn't they wash everything in water like fruit

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<v Speaker 1>that you're about to eat, like what?

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<v Speaker 3>They wouldn't wash chicken, They probably wouldn't wash pork.

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<v Speaker 2>They probably wouldn't wash.

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<v Speaker 1>They'd wash out the oysters though when they shuck them,

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<v Speaker 1>do they wash out oysters?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know more about oysters than me because

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<v Speaker 2>you went to an.

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<v Speaker 1>Oyster far, you shuck it and then you wash it.

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<v Speaker 3>You're eating oysters and bali. It's pretty brazen of you,

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<v Speaker 3>pretty brave.

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<v Speaker 1>That's probably what did it, probably as an oyster con

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<v Speaker 1>So I heard a lot of people actually ask me,

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<v Speaker 1>do you only like oysters because of Tammy?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I ate oysters long before Tammy. It is a coincidence

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<v Speaker 1>that we both love oysters. Clear the air on that one.

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<v Speaker 1>So messages about it non soft, but I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, no, I like we've hit a little through your

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<v Speaker 2>point from out here.

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<v Speaker 3>It's kind of funny saying you like squirm like that,

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<v Speaker 3>you like annoyed about.

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<v Speaker 1>It, like I like os I did get a tattoo

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<v Speaker 1>though he.

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<v Speaker 2>Did let me see it. So it's is it a sun?

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<v Speaker 1>That's not good? When someone asked what a tattoo is, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a sun. So obviously got the love heart on

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<v Speaker 1>my other wrist, and I got the sun on this wrist.

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<v Speaker 1>This is because my mum calls me Sunshine.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>It's for my mum. I got that on my wrist.

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<v Speaker 1>Tammy got a flower on her ankle. But I did

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<v Speaker 1>post a photo in a dump of a new tattoo

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<v Speaker 1>that I had. But this tattoo isn't quite new.

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<v Speaker 2>Given an Instagram dump because it just sounds like you're

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<v Speaker 2>saying your taking.

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<v Speaker 1>People are listening to this like vomiting, dumping. What's mat

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<v Speaker 1>on about today? No? So yeah, an Instagram dump and

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<v Speaker 1>it was one. I thought it was well hidden in

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<v Speaker 1>there of my new tattoo that I've got above my

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<v Speaker 1>where would you say it? Your hit bone, hip bone

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<v Speaker 1>in the area of Tammy's name. So she got a

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<v Speaker 1>while now she got.

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<v Speaker 2>Matt when she was in LA.

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<v Speaker 1>When she was in La, Yeah, that was actually really

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<v Speaker 1>cute because because of the time difference. She told me.

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<v Speaker 1>At the event she was going to, they had a

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<v Speaker 1>tattoo artist and she was like, should I get your name,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like laughing, and I thought she was

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she was joking. I was like, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you want to have a little gag about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I woke up to a photo of her,

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<v Speaker 1>like or a video sorry, of her getting a tattoo

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<v Speaker 1>that was cute, and I was like, what did you

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<v Speaker 1>get and she was like your name and I was

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<v Speaker 1>like really and then she's like, Noah, just joking, and

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<v Speaker 1>then she sent me the photo of it. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know, I can't have my girlfriends time

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<v Speaker 1>walking around. So I got a tattoo that.

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<v Speaker 2>Weekend, but you got it soon after.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that weekend when I flew up to the Gold Coast,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, I've got to get your name

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<v Speaker 1>on me now. But I did it a little bit differently,

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<v Speaker 1>so I got her to write her name.

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<v Speaker 2>That's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So she wrote it and then the tatoo artists

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<v Speaker 1>put it on me and then tattooed it. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>her handwriting and her lover. Yeah, really cute.

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<v Speaker 2>So you both have each other's names on you in.

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<v Speaker 1>The same area, not on the same side. So if

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<v Speaker 1>we stand next to each other.

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<v Speaker 2>There on the same side together, Yeah, on the.

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<v Speaker 1>Same site and he's cute. Yeah. I also was going

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<v Speaker 1>to get another one in Bali that she was going

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<v Speaker 1>to write, but it had two parts to it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I need to wait to get the second half of it,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'll let you know. And I couldn't. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know where to put it. I was because it was

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<v Speaker 1>cursive writing everywhere else putting it look quite feminine.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you tell us what it is or is it

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<v Speaker 2>a secret?

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a secret, but I would like to get

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<v Speaker 1>it done before I do. I might get the first

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<v Speaker 1>half done and then the second half done after the

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<v Speaker 1>time that it should be done.

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<v Speaker 2>The wedding, Yeah, it's free. I was like, trying to

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<v Speaker 2>be caught. Sounds like the wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's what we say to each It's the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that we say to each other. She's going to write

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm going to write the date underneath.

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<v Speaker 3>What did your mom say when you told her that

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<v Speaker 3>you got the sunshine? Because I've heard your mom so

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<v Speaker 3>many times she's like, hi, sunshine, it's like actually the.

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<v Speaker 2>Cutest thing ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she's not a fan of tattoos, so she just

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<v Speaker 1>was like thank you, love you or something.

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<v Speaker 3>But when we went out to lunch with your mom.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember I was like, we should get tattoos for your

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<v Speaker 3>sixtieth and she was about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Your mom was like, yep, let's do it really?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Oh okay, I didn't. I've always thought she's against him,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just was like I sent her. I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you got the sunshine for you, mum, and she was like, ah,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, sunshine, love you or something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, bless her heart. Okay, so we've just heard about

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<v Speaker 3>your Barley trip, but what we forgot to mention was

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<v Speaker 3>that you guys went over there through Tammy's thirtieth. So

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<v Speaker 3>do you want to talk a little bit about that.

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<v Speaker 2>How did you spoil her? What did you get up to?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So we were meant to be there for Tammy's

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<v Speaker 1>actual thirtieth, so I had organized a bunch of things

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<v Speaker 1>surprises for her on her thirtieth birthday, but that was

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<v Speaker 1>the Monday, and then on the Saturday. So we left

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<v Speaker 1>on the Sunday. The Saturday, the person organizing our trip

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<v Speaker 1>said that her visa has been rejected because her passport

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<v Speaker 1>expires while we're in Balley, so they didn't give her

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<v Speaker 1>the visa. So we're so annoying, So like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>what do we do. It's so Saturday, we drive from

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<v Speaker 1>the Gold coach to Brisbane. We apply for a new passport.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, we can't promise you. We've got the advance

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like, we can't promise you when we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to get it, but it doesn't look like it'll be

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<v Speaker 1>flying tomorrow morning. So then we had to change out

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<v Speaker 1>flight till later on in the week.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's so annoying.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So for her birthday on literally we got back

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<v Speaker 1>from the passport opposit at four pm on Saturday. I

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<v Speaker 1>had to quickly organize a bunch of things for the Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>But who's open for that hour on a Saturday that I,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, organized. So I had to quickly get to

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<v Speaker 1>organize a cake for her. I wanted to handwrite happy

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<v Speaker 1>Birthday on that, but that was very plan in BALI.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't do that. To get all these balloons that

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<v Speaker 1>she woke up to like at were present, all this

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<v Speaker 1>sort of stuff. I had to organize it all quickly,

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<v Speaker 1>but got there. Some of the stuff came during the

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<v Speaker 1>day that the big bouquet of flowers came. I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do it all at once, but like it's sort

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<v Speaker 1>of lost it as I was doing it through the day,

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<v Speaker 1>like as they're getting to live, like bringing out the

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<v Speaker 1>cake like happy birthday, or bringing in the flowers, all

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<v Speaker 1>that sort of stuff. But we eventually got up to

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<v Speaker 1>Bali and we I did do all the same stuff. So

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<v Speaker 1>we got a the same dinner, did all the nice

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<v Speaker 1>stuff for her as well. Yeah, got a nice bracelet,

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<v Speaker 1>has the am on it, all that sort of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But she did stress to me though that bracelets aren't

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<v Speaker 1>really her thing because she's so heavy handed, which I

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<v Speaker 1>can confirm she's very heavy handed. Yeah, that bracelets somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>in Bali. So somewhere finds it, please return to owner.

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<v Speaker 3>It is really hard with fine bracelets, like I have

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<v Speaker 3>lost so many because they just literally come off so easily.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I mean I don't really buy bracelets often,

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<v Speaker 1>if not ever before, so I don't know what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking for. I don't wear bracelets, so I wouldn't know

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what to do. So Anna, though, tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>your morning getting locked out. We touched on it briefly.

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<v Speaker 3>So I've had a pretty stressful week, Like obviously the

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<v Speaker 3>wedding is coming up very soon, like we leave actually

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<v Speaker 3>a week today, so.

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<v Speaker 2>I got snuck up and because you've been away, we

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<v Speaker 2>are in the studio a lot. In this week. I

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<v Speaker 2>have final dress sittings.

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<v Speaker 3>I still haven't seen my wedding dress, both my wedding dresses,

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<v Speaker 3>which is you haven't done the lastressing me out, No,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'm going to do it after this so soon,

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<v Speaker 3>like literally, I'm about to go see my wedding dress,

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<v Speaker 3>which is exciting.

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<v Speaker 2>There's just a.

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<v Speaker 3>Lot of things to do and I feel like I

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<v Speaker 3>wish this.

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<v Speaker 2>Week wasn't so chaotic, but it is. Anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>Michael was like to me this morning, Hey, you've been

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<v Speaker 3>really stressed. I feel like we should go for like

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<v Speaker 3>a twenty minute run. It's gonna make you feel better,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, get the indorphins, gut.

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<v Speaker 1>Common in itself, which stressed amore and I was like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do it. Let's do it. Went for a run.

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<v Speaker 3>We have two locks on our door, one of them

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<v Speaker 3>because is a push in lock. So one of us

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<v Speaker 3>has accidentally pushed in this lock without knowing and we

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<v Speaker 3>got locked out of the house.

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<v Speaker 1>So what you the dad bolt was the one that

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<v Speaker 1>you unlock normally, was the push in one.

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<v Speaker 3>The push in one and someone's pushed it in. Michael

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<v Speaker 3>was like blaming me, and I was like, it definitely

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't me. So we looked back on the cameras and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like on my phone working whilst we're walking out

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<v Speaker 3>the house, and like it was definitely Michael. But okay,

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<v Speaker 3>this is the annoying thing. So obviously I immediately.

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<v Speaker 2>Called the locksmith.

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<v Speaker 3>They're like, we can get out there in twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a thirty five dollars call out fee, and then

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<v Speaker 3>like we'll figure it out. But it starts from forty

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<v Speaker 3>after that. So I'm thinking, you know, he'll be here

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<v Speaker 3>in twenty minutes. It's gonna be seventy five dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>We can do that.

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<v Speaker 3>The guy after twenty minutes goes, hey, I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 3>forty five minutes. I was like ugh. And then once

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<v Speaker 3>he did it literally took this guy, I'm not even

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<v Speaker 3>kidding you, thirty seconds to un get the lock open.

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<v Speaker 2>Three hundred and thirty dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck, the easiest three hundred thirty dollars that guy's ever made.

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<v Speaker 1>But then again, how scary like is it that they

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<v Speaker 1>can just stick something in there and unlock a door so.

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<v Speaker 2>Quickly, like it's so yeah. So anyway, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of put the fear of because I'm I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know if I've told you this, but I'm so terrified

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<v Speaker 3>of being broken into, so terrified.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember when we stayed in somewhere and.

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<v Speaker 2>We were in Sydney together, did you put trash can

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<v Speaker 2>in front of your door?

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<v Speaker 1>I I never locked a door at a hotel, considered

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<v Speaker 1>it and.

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<v Speaker 2>What no one's ever tried to enter, do you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I was actually at a hotel in Sydney recently when

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<v Speaker 3>I was there and one of the staff tried to

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<v Speaker 3>open the door and I was like looking through the

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<v Speaker 3>beet pole and the car was like trying to open

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<v Speaker 3>the door, and he was like looking around like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I swear to God, and I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna die.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. This stuff doesn't scared me, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>Someone trying to enter your room, yeah, Like I don't

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<v Speaker 3>think they're going to.

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<v Speaker 2>The fact that you don't lock a hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't lock it. I mean I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>say that. I just don't go out of my way

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<v Speaker 1>to lock a door like that at a hotel room.

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<v Speaker 2>You like living life on the edge us on me.

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<v Speaker 2>You've got like a death wind.

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<v Speaker 3>How many people die at hotels very quickly? I watch

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of true crime, and a lot of bad

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<v Speaker 3>stuff happens at hotels.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, maybe I should lock my door, put a trash

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<v Speaker 1>can in front of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Just a PSA to anyone listening, just.

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<v Speaker 1>Mad across the hole, don't fall asleep till I do.

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<v Speaker 1>What am I going to do from across the hole?

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<v Speaker 3>But it's just like again, like I know that, like

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<v Speaker 3>we're speaking a lot about violence against women at the

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<v Speaker 3>moment in the news, and it's just that thing of

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<v Speaker 3>like being afraid and not feeling like if I'm by myself,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I'm a target always.

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<v Speaker 2>The luxury that you have to.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel like you couldn't lock a hotel door is blowing

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<v Speaker 3>my mind right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I understand that that would be a bit more

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<v Speaker 1>like scarier for yourself. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean there's that thing going around at the moment,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's like, so, if you're in a dark forest,

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<v Speaker 3>would you prefer to be alone in a dark forest

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<v Speaker 3>with a.

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<v Speaker 2>Man or a bear?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably a man.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd prefer to be there with a bear, because men

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<v Speaker 3>are terrifying unless it was a man that I knew.

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<v Speaker 2>It was, like a miscellaneous guy. I'm like, fuck yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you think you can outsmart the bear. You think

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<v Speaker 3>you could like hide, run up a tree.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't out climb, you can't outrun, you can't outswim

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<v Speaker 1>a bear.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that true?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? You have to play dead and be fertile and

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<v Speaker 1>let him toss you around and be first. Sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>was singing about the revenue. You've got it in the

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<v Speaker 1>fetal position and let them Wow, I can tag any

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<v Speaker 1>fertility things you know that just won't Okay, Well, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a word of advice from Matt. If you're ever

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<v Speaker 1>stuck in a forest with a bear, don't run, don't climb,

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<v Speaker 1>don't swim, because you can't do any of that from

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<v Speaker 1>a bear. You've got to get in the fetal position

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<v Speaker 1>and let it throw you around until it gets bored

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<v Speaker 1>with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you're in the feetus position?

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<v Speaker 1>What do I keep saying fetile?

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<v Speaker 3>I think you're taking up a word between like fetus

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<v Speaker 3>and fertile and your combined.

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<v Speaker 1>Hin yourself into a ball, your head down and just

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<v Speaker 1>don't breathe, don't move, and let the bear get bored.

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<v Speaker 2>Of you, okay, Matt.

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<v Speaker 3>We both have weddings coming up, and I posted a

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<v Speaker 3>video on my social media talking about web shreads because

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<v Speaker 3>I just have so much to say about this, but

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<v Speaker 3>let's hear the video first. I'm getting married in two

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<v Speaker 3>and a half weeks in Greece, and I'm sick of

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<v Speaker 3>everyone asking me if I'm on a web shread. I

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<v Speaker 3>know that society thinks that when you're getting married, you

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<v Speaker 3>need to look your best, but I just do not

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<v Speaker 3>believe in shredding for my wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm going to tell you why. Ooja.

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<v Speaker 3>Someone commented on one of my videos being like, ooh,

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<v Speaker 3>you've put on a little bit of way you have

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<v Speaker 3>a wedding coming up to incredibly rude. We have been

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<v Speaker 3>taught never to come on people's weight, but it almost

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<v Speaker 3>feels like when someone has a wedding coming up, all

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<v Speaker 3>bets are off just for context. I'm basically just trying

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<v Speaker 3>to live a healthy lifestyle like I always do. I

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<v Speaker 3>had passed it for lunch today, but I also did

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<v Speaker 3>a cycle class.

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<v Speaker 2>Allan's is key.

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<v Speaker 3>This is not just for the bride, like I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like the guests feel an immense amount of pressure to

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<v Speaker 3>be on the web tread when they have a wedding

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<v Speaker 3>coming up because they want to look their best. How

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<v Speaker 3>about stay healthy and stay consistent everything in moderation. I've

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<v Speaker 3>never spoken about weight on here because it's very taboo,

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<v Speaker 3>and I also feel like it's just unhelpful. It was

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<v Speaker 3>in the modeling industry for over ten years, and it

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<v Speaker 3>was definitely things that happened that made me really anxious

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<v Speaker 3>and stressed out about my weight. I was told I

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<v Speaker 3>needed to lose dress sizes, showed me pictures of me

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<v Speaker 3>at a size six, eight, and ten, and then asked

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<v Speaker 3>me which one I felt like I looked better, insinuating

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<v Speaker 3>about I looked better as a size six. I was

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<v Speaker 3>a model in Hong Kong. I literally was told to

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<v Speaker 3>stand in a line with about fifty other models, and

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<v Speaker 3>they looked at all of the models up and down,

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<v Speaker 3>and then they picked the top three skinniest models to stay,

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<v Speaker 3>and everyone else was told to leave. So trust me

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<v Speaker 3>when I say I have enough trauma when it comes

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<v Speaker 3>to eating. I'm now thirty two and I'm completely over that.

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<v Speaker 3>Please be he really mindful of asking people if they're

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<v Speaker 3>shredding for their wedding or if they're on a web

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<v Speaker 3>tread because.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so unhealthy and unnecessary.

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<v Speaker 1>So are you on a web tread? You're sick?

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<v Speaker 2>You're actually sick.

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<v Speaker 3>No, But do you know what, I'm not trying to

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<v Speaker 3>like shame people, because I think it is like people

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<v Speaker 3>do ask that question a lot, Like a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>people have asked that question.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually feel bad.

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<v Speaker 3>There was a part of me that felt bad posting

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<v Speaker 3>that because I feel like everyone who's asking me that

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<v Speaker 3>will be like upsie. It's like, I'm not offended by it,

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<v Speaker 3>but it was getting in my head. And you know

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<v Speaker 3>when like food and eating and stuff gets in your head,

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<v Speaker 3>because we've both been in the modeling industry, and when

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<v Speaker 3>someone's constantly talking about your weight and being on a

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<v Speaker 3>diet and being healthy and like encouraging that, it really

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<v Speaker 3>fucks with your brain chemistry and it fucks with your thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>And excuse you a very unhealthy relationship with food totally, totally.

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<v Speaker 2>And I haven't felt that for a really long time.

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<v Speaker 3>Like at the end of my modeling career, I was

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<v Speaker 3>like a size ten model, so I wasn't even trying

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<v Speaker 3>to be a size six or an eight, which I

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<v Speaker 3>was in my younger days. I was like a full ten.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was just like living a healthy lifestyle. But

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like the psychology of people constantly asking me

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<v Speaker 3>if I'm on a web tread is putting a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of pressure on me. And it got to a point

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<v Speaker 3>where I was like, I feel like I need to

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<v Speaker 3>address this because it's actually so unhealthy for me, and

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to make sure that, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it's this girl actually messaged me on Instagram being like,

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<v Speaker 3>the reason why I didn't have a wedding was because

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<v Speaker 3>I was worried that when I walked down the aisle,

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<v Speaker 3>everyone was going to be critiquing my body, was going

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<v Speaker 3>to be critiquing how I looked. If I didn't look

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<v Speaker 3>my best, they were going to judge me. And for

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<v Speaker 3>that reason alone, I didn't have my dream wedding. And

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<v Speaker 3>it's like that is so sad because weddings are about

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<v Speaker 3>really celebrating you and the love of your life, right,

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<v Speaker 3>and there's this whole other societal pressure of like you

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<v Speaker 3>have to look your best, and it just takes away

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<v Speaker 3>from the love of what we should be celebrating. And

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<v Speaker 3>I just wanted to like, really, you know, say something

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<v Speaker 3>about it, because I don't. I have not really heard

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<v Speaker 3>anyone talk about how unhealthy it is, at least on

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<v Speaker 3>my social media. But I think there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>people who watch from the sidelines to see if the

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<v Speaker 3>bride loses weight, or to see how the bride's looking,

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<v Speaker 3>or like analyzing what they're doing in the lead up

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<v Speaker 3>to the wedding. And you know, I just think it's unhealthy.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't though in this day and age, people are

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<v Speaker 1>actually like body shaming and like talk, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>like come on, I surely we're past that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's unconscious though, Like I don't think people

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<v Speaker 3>actually mean it. Like I don't think people are out

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<v Speaker 3>there in this like being malicious. I think that we

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<v Speaker 3>all have just grown up in a society where it's

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<v Speaker 3>like you have to look your best on your wedding day.

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<v Speaker 3>I also thought I was gonna get married at like

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<v Speaker 3>twenty five, you know what I mean, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm seven years older. Like things are different now, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's just like you don't want to put that

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<v Speaker 3>pressure onto people. So I just wanted to make that,

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<v Speaker 3>make a point of that. But for you, as a

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<v Speaker 3>groom to be, do you feel any sort of pressure?

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say from the actual for the wedding side

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<v Speaker 1>of things, I'd say more just like from like I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen people comment and like different things about the way

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<v Speaker 1>my body's looking. It's not what it once was. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm nearly thirty now, so my metabolism sow down at

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<v Speaker 1>fair beer, so I feel the pressure that way, and

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<v Speaker 1>I sort of want to lose weight, and I feel

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<v Speaker 1>that like, yeah, it's a little bit insecure about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, Yeah, I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 1>I do know that. Yeah, especially I saw like some

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<v Speaker 1>comments coming back from Bali about that. So what do

0:23:16.280 --> 0:23:18.760
<v Speaker 1>people say just saying that I put on way all

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<v Speaker 1>this sort of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>It's completely fucked.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's interesting as well, because I feel like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like I said in the video, like it's

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<v Speaker 3>off limits to talk about way, But I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>for females maybe, like do people also feel like they

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<v Speaker 3>have free rate to talk about a guy's way.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure. Like, look, I don't know, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>just think that, like I don't want like a sob

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<v Speaker 1>me story like all that sort of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not it's like your feelings are valid.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I just think that, Like I just don't spread

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<v Speaker 1>hate like we say it all the time. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>could never imagine commenting on someone in the way.

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<v Speaker 2>They look, and I think you have.

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<v Speaker 3>Like we've both spoken about this privately. We've never really

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to talk about food and eat because it is

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<v Speaker 3>unhealthy and it is a bit toxic and it does

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<v Speaker 3>kind of stick with people like these types of conversations,

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<v Speaker 3>so we want to be really careful around this. But

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we both were in the modeling industry for.

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<v Speaker 1>How long, Like I did nearly ten years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>I did ten, and we both had major insecurities.

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<v Speaker 1>When I got signed, I lost like twenty five kilos

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<v Speaker 1>because they asked you to. And then they would always

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<v Speaker 1>tell me as well that my shoulders were too, like

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't fit in any clothes. And I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't lifted away with my shoulders in like two and

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<v Speaker 1>a half years, three years. I was like, that's just

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<v Speaker 1>my natural building my shoulder, like when I'm meant to

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<v Speaker 1>do remove my bone, you know what i mean. Like

0:24:38.520 --> 0:24:41.800
<v Speaker 1>they would pound me about that, like pound me yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, that's just the way my shoulders are.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>When I first got signed, I was seventeen, and a

0:24:48.480 --> 0:24:51.040
<v Speaker 3>body at seventeen is very different to a body at

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<v Speaker 3>twenty five and to constantly be reminded of the photos

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<v Speaker 3>of me when I was seventeen, and to compare them

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<v Speaker 3>to me at size eight and ten was the most

0:24:59.400 --> 0:25:02.359
<v Speaker 3>toxic thing. I genuinely think I look better as a

0:25:02.359 --> 0:25:05.320
<v Speaker 3>size ten anyway. I think like people look better with curves.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think like, yeah, you're saying that when you

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<v Speaker 1>quit your size ten. I struggle to see the difference

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<v Speaker 1>in what they're even talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but anyway, aside from our modeling careers, this is

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<v Speaker 3>about my wedding, and this is about my love for Michael,

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<v Speaker 3>and your wedding will be about your love for Tammy.

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<v Speaker 3>And we don't want the narrative to be focused on

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<v Speaker 3>weight and how we're looking, because it's about the love.

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<v Speaker 1>And our love for food.

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<v Speaker 2>Pizza.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, guys, that's all we have time for today. It

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<v Speaker 3>was so nice being in the studio with you today. Matt.

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<v Speaker 3>This is the first up to date record we've done

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<v Speaker 3>since you've been in Bali.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been a while, hasn't it. And we always say

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<v Speaker 1>that it's been a while since through in the studio.

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<v Speaker 1>We just got so much on at the moment.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, well, I jet off to my wedding next week,

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<v Speaker 3>but we have so many exciting episodes that we are

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<v Speaker 3>doing it. We've got you covered, so don't worry. There

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<v Speaker 3>will be an episode every single week when we are

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<v Speaker 3>away at my wedding. But until next time, Bye bye,