Speaker 1: So are you on a WEDG tread? You're sick?
Speaker 2: You're actually sick.
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Speaker 1: This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip,
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Speaker 1: pretty stressed. I pought a bit of your stories on
Speaker 1: the way in. Please explain what happened.
Speaker 3: I'm like a week away from leaving that's so close
Speaker 3: to go to Greece for my wedding, and I just
Speaker 3: feel like this last week I'm in high anxiety and stress.
Speaker 2: Like you know me, I haven't.
Speaker 3: Really Brizilla, I haven't really like I feel like we
Speaker 3: haven't even like really talked.
Speaker 2: First we just.
Speaker 1: Got like, no, yeah we haven't. So just a preface,
Speaker 1: we haven't really spoken since I was in BALI have
Speaker 1: I mean, we had a couple of phone calls while
Speaker 1: I was there.
Speaker 3: We had a few phone calls, but I reckon, like
Speaker 3: you and Bali is the longest we really haven't spoken.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I reckon what a couple of days now it
Speaker 1: would be.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So it's kind of like we're catching up, are you?
Speaker 2: How are you, because you're looking quite tanned.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Honestly, I look first of all Bali, I
Speaker 1: don't make your time. My first time in Bali actually
Speaker 1: took me to be twenty eight years old to travel.
Speaker 2: Across the first time you've been to Bali, I did
Speaker 2: not know that.
Speaker 1: Well. It was like when I was like younger, you know,
Speaker 1: like all the boys go with like twenty one, twenty two,
Speaker 1: all that sort of stuff, and you hear like the stories,
Speaker 1: and I was sort of like, I don't want to
Speaker 1: do that, Like I don't want to go across and
Speaker 1: like you know, have like a full boys trip like
Speaker 1: that just didn't appeal to.
Speaker 2: Me, didn't appeal to you. I'm just surprised you didn't.
Speaker 1: Appeal to me. I'd rather do Europe or something like that.
Speaker 2: So you're one of those I don't do Bali.
Speaker 3: I get a Europe and I don't get it because
Speaker 3: people get like there's something that people get so offended
Speaker 3: and annoyed about when people just keep going back to Bali.
Speaker 3: They're like travel elsewhere, like broaden your horizons.
Speaker 2: And it's like, if you've been.
Speaker 3: To Bali, you can have a really good time for
Speaker 3: not so much money.
Speaker 2: We're still a lot of money.
Speaker 3: But like in comparison to like a euro trip or
Speaker 3: an America trip.
Speaker 1: I do. I don't get offended, but I think it's
Speaker 1: pretty cliche to go to Bali all the time.
Speaker 2: So how was your trip? We went to talk about me,
Speaker 2: but let's just I want to know about your trip.
Speaker 2: Tell me about your Bali trip.
Speaker 1: Okay, So, first of all, Balinese people absolutely nothing wrong,
Speaker 1: Like they're so nice angels angels yet like I sent
Speaker 1: from above, yeah, so sweet. Even like some of the people,
Speaker 1: I was like, like, no one seems to be having
Speaker 1: a bad day. Literally, I was like, is someone here
Speaker 1: going to be having a bad day? No one was.
Speaker 1: The villas I stayed in, obviously, it looked amazing, amazing.
Speaker 1: One of them was seventeen bedrooms.
Speaker 2: Seventeen yeah.
Speaker 3: The last one was do you like go in a
Speaker 3: different bedroom every single night?
Speaker 1: We stayed in the same one. But I didn't even
Speaker 1: explored the whole thing. I didn't even get time to
Speaker 1: because it's like two different Like I think it's huge,
Speaker 1: five big swimming pools. It was amazing. Wow, fool had
Speaker 1: kitchen stuff there that cooked us breakfast. That was amazing.
Speaker 2: You were living the life of luxury. It is whilst
Speaker 2: in Bali.
Speaker 1: It was very good over there here.
Speaker 3: But did you get Barley belly? Actually before you continue,
Speaker 3: because I can't go to Barley without getting.
Speaker 2: A bit of Barley belly.
Speaker 1: I don't think I got Barley belly. So what I
Speaker 1: put chuck a story up on Instagram. Had so many
Speaker 1: people reply to me and tell me what they thought
Speaker 1: it was. But Tammy said, she reckons it was heat exhaustion.
Speaker 1: So like it was the second day, maybe the third
Speaker 1: day we were there and we went for this massive tin.
Speaker 1: I had a huge dinner and we we like went
Speaker 1: down to the movie room. That night, slept there and
Speaker 1: I just could not sleep, Like my stomach was like
Speaker 1: cramping up. I was like I was laying there like
Speaker 1: uncomfortably on this like coush. I was like, oh, I
Speaker 1: couldn't sleep. And the next morning I woke up and
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, like I feel really sick. I reckon,
Speaker 1: I've got Barley belly. She's like, if you've got Barlei belly,
Speaker 1: I've had it. Be for like you're vomiting NonStop, You're
Speaker 1: on the toilet NonStop, like you you you've seen to
Speaker 1: be okay in that respect. But then I was like, nah, nauseous, Yeah,
Speaker 1: really nauseous. I was like, fuck this, I'm going to
Speaker 1: tactically vomit. So I went absolutely let it rain in
Speaker 1: the toilet. Eight times. I reckon, just over and over again,
Speaker 1: and I felt, Okay, it's.
Speaker 3: Really nice hearing this on my my morning with my.
Speaker 2: Coffee, just hearing your project album. Thank you for that.
Speaker 1: Sorry to everyone listening, but I am going into vivid detail.
Speaker 1: And then I was like I felt a little bit okay.
Speaker 1: Then I got the shakes, you know when you're like hot,
Speaker 1: and I was wearing like a long sleeve in balley
Speaker 1: and I was getting the shakes. Just kept my fluids up.
Speaker 1: When the doctor's got a couple of vitamins and I
Speaker 1: bounced back.
Speaker 3: Okay, definitely sounds like you had barley belly, because barley belly,
Speaker 3: like it can be really extreme, or it can be mild,
Speaker 3: or it can be medium, like it can go in
Speaker 3: different levels.
Speaker 1: Okay, I didn't drink any of the water every time
Speaker 1: I had.
Speaker 2: You have ice in your drinks?
Speaker 1: Yeah, but isn't that normal?
Speaker 2: I know, did you have salad?
Speaker 1: Probably?
Speaker 2: Just think about it.
Speaker 3: Salad is the worst thing you can eat bali because
Speaker 3: they wash the lettuce with water and it stays on
Speaker 3: the lettuce leap true.
Speaker 1: As well, wouldn't they wash everything in water like fruit
Speaker 1: that you're about to eat, like what?
Speaker 3: They wouldn't wash chicken, They probably wouldn't wash pork.
Speaker 2: They probably wouldn't wash.
Speaker 1: They'd wash out the oysters though when they shuck them,
Speaker 1: do they wash out oysters?
Speaker 2: I mean, you know more about oysters than me because
Speaker 2: you went to an.
Speaker 1: Oyster far, you shuck it and then you wash it.
Speaker 3: You're eating oysters and bali. It's pretty brazen of you,
Speaker 3: pretty brave.
Speaker 1: That's probably what did it, probably as an oyster con
Speaker 1: So I heard a lot of people actually ask me,
Speaker 1: do you only like oysters because of Tammy?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: I ate oysters long before Tammy. It is a coincidence
Speaker 1: that we both love oysters. Clear the air on that one.
Speaker 1: So messages about it non soft, but I'm.
Speaker 2: Like, no, I like we've hit a little through your
Speaker 2: point from out here.
Speaker 3: It's kind of funny saying you like squirm like that,
Speaker 3: you like annoyed about.
Speaker 1: It, like I like os I did get a tattoo
Speaker 1: though he.
Speaker 2: Did let me see it. So it's is it a sun?
Speaker 1: That's not good? When someone asked what a tattoo is, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a sun. So obviously got the love heart on
Speaker 1: my other wrist, and I got the sun on this wrist.
Speaker 1: This is because my mum calls me Sunshine.
Speaker 2: It's so cute.
Speaker 1: It's for my mum. I got that on my wrist.
Speaker 1: Tammy got a flower on her ankle. But I did
Speaker 1: post a photo in a dump of a new tattoo
Speaker 1: that I had. But this tattoo isn't quite new.
Speaker 2: Given an Instagram dump because it just sounds like you're
Speaker 2: saying your taking.
Speaker 1: People are listening to this like vomiting, dumping. What's mat
Speaker 1: on about today? No? So yeah, an Instagram dump and
Speaker 1: it was one. I thought it was well hidden in
Speaker 1: there of my new tattoo that I've got above my
Speaker 1: where would you say it? Your hit bone, hip bone
Speaker 1: in the area of Tammy's name. So she got a
Speaker 1: while now she got.
Speaker 2: Matt when she was in LA.
Speaker 1: When she was in La, Yeah, that was actually really
Speaker 1: cute because because of the time difference. She told me.
Speaker 1: At the event she was going to, they had a
Speaker 1: tattoo artist and she was like, should I get your name,
Speaker 1: and I was like laughing, and I thought she was
Speaker 1: I thought she was joking. I was like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: like if you want to have a little gag about it.
Speaker 1: And then I woke up to a photo of her,
Speaker 1: like or a video sorry, of her getting a tattoo
Speaker 1: that was cute, and I was like, what did you
Speaker 1: get and she was like your name and I was
Speaker 1: like really and then she's like, Noah, just joking, and
Speaker 1: then she sent me the photo of it. So I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, I can't have my girlfriends time
Speaker 1: walking around. So I got a tattoo that.
Speaker 2: Weekend, but you got it soon after.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that weekend when I flew up to the Gold Coast,
Speaker 1: I was like, well, I've got to get your name
Speaker 1: on me now. But I did it a little bit differently,
Speaker 1: so I got her to write her name.
Speaker 2: That's cute.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So she wrote it and then the tatoo artists
Speaker 1: put it on me and then tattooed it. So that's
Speaker 1: her handwriting and her lover. Yeah, really cute.
Speaker 2: So you both have each other's names on you in.
Speaker 1: The same area, not on the same side. So if
Speaker 1: we stand next to each other.
Speaker 2: There on the same side together, Yeah, on the.
Speaker 1: Same site and he's cute. Yeah. I also was going
Speaker 1: to get another one in Bali that she was going
Speaker 1: to write, but it had two parts to it, and
Speaker 1: I need to wait to get the second half of it,
Speaker 1: so I'll let you know. And I couldn't. I didn't
Speaker 1: know where to put it. I was because it was
Speaker 1: cursive writing everywhere else putting it look quite feminine.
Speaker 2: Can you tell us what it is or is it
Speaker 2: a secret?
Speaker 1: It's not a secret, but I would like to get
Speaker 1: it done before I do. I might get the first
Speaker 1: half done and then the second half done after the
Speaker 1: time that it should be done.
Speaker 2: The wedding, Yeah, it's free. I was like, trying to
Speaker 2: be caught. Sounds like the wedding.
Speaker 1: Well, it's what we say to each It's the thing
Speaker 1: that we say to each other. She's going to write
Speaker 1: and then I'm going to write the date underneath.
Speaker 3: What did your mom say when you told her that
Speaker 3: you got the sunshine? Because I've heard your mom so
Speaker 3: many times she's like, hi, sunshine, it's like actually the.
Speaker 2: Cutest thing ever.
Speaker 1: Well, she's not a fan of tattoos, so she just
Speaker 1: was like thank you, love you or something.
Speaker 3: But when we went out to lunch with your mom.
Speaker 3: Remember I was like, we should get tattoos for your
Speaker 3: sixtieth and she was about it.
Speaker 2: Your mom was like, yep, let's do it really?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh okay, I didn't. I've always thought she's against him,
Speaker 1: so I just was like I sent her. I said, hey,
Speaker 1: you got the sunshine for you, mum, and she was like, ah,
Speaker 1: thank you, sunshine, love you or something like that.
Speaker 3: Oh, bless her heart. Okay, so we've just heard about
Speaker 3: your Barley trip, but what we forgot to mention was
Speaker 3: that you guys went over there through Tammy's thirtieth. So
Speaker 3: do you want to talk a little bit about that.
Speaker 2: How did you spoil her? What did you get up to?
Speaker 1: Okay, So we were meant to be there for Tammy's
Speaker 1: actual thirtieth, so I had organized a bunch of things
Speaker 1: surprises for her on her thirtieth birthday, but that was
Speaker 1: the Monday, and then on the Saturday. So we left
Speaker 1: on the Sunday. The Saturday, the person organizing our trip
Speaker 1: said that her visa has been rejected because her passport
Speaker 1: expires while we're in Balley, so they didn't give her
Speaker 1: the visa. So we're so annoying, So like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: what do we do. It's so Saturday, we drive from
Speaker 1: the Gold coach to Brisbane. We apply for a new passport.
Speaker 1: They're like, we can't promise you. We've got the advance
Speaker 1: and they're like, we can't promise you when we're going
Speaker 1: to get it, but it doesn't look like it'll be
Speaker 1: flying tomorrow morning. So then we had to change out
Speaker 1: flight till later on in the week.
Speaker 2: So that's so annoying.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So for her birthday on literally we got back
Speaker 1: from the passport opposit at four pm on Saturday. I
Speaker 1: had to quickly organize a bunch of things for the Monday.
Speaker 1: But who's open for that hour on a Saturday that I,
Speaker 1: you know, organized. So I had to quickly get to
Speaker 1: organize a cake for her. I wanted to handwrite happy
Speaker 1: Birthday on that, but that was very plan in BALI.
Speaker 1: I couldn't do that. To get all these balloons that
Speaker 1: she woke up to like at were present, all this
Speaker 1: sort of stuff. I had to organize it all quickly,
Speaker 1: but got there. Some of the stuff came during the
Speaker 1: day that the big bouquet of flowers came. I wanted
Speaker 1: to do it all at once, but like it's sort
Speaker 1: of lost it as I was doing it through the day,
Speaker 1: like as they're getting to live, like bringing out the
Speaker 1: cake like happy birthday, or bringing in the flowers, all
Speaker 1: that sort of stuff. But we eventually got up to
Speaker 1: Bali and we I did do all the same stuff. So
Speaker 1: we got a the same dinner, did all the nice
Speaker 1: stuff for her as well. Yeah, got a nice bracelet,
Speaker 1: has the am on it, all that sort of stuff.
Speaker 1: But she did stress to me though that bracelets aren't
Speaker 1: really her thing because she's so heavy handed, which I
Speaker 1: can confirm she's very heavy handed. Yeah, that bracelets somewhere
Speaker 1: in Bali. So somewhere finds it, please return to owner.
Speaker 3: It is really hard with fine bracelets, like I have
Speaker 3: lost so many because they just literally come off so easily.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean I don't really buy bracelets often,
Speaker 1: if not ever before, so I don't know what I'm
Speaker 1: looking for. I don't wear bracelets, so I wouldn't know
Speaker 1: exactly what to do. So Anna, though, tell us about
Speaker 1: your morning getting locked out. We touched on it briefly.
Speaker 3: So I've had a pretty stressful week, Like obviously the
Speaker 3: wedding is coming up very soon, like we leave actually
Speaker 3: a week today, so.
Speaker 2: I got snuck up and because you've been away, we
Speaker 2: are in the studio a lot. In this week. I
Speaker 2: have final dress sittings.
Speaker 3: I still haven't seen my wedding dress, both my wedding dresses,
Speaker 3: which is you haven't done the lastressing me out, No,
Speaker 3: but I'm going to do it after this so soon,
Speaker 3: like literally, I'm about to go see my wedding dress,
Speaker 3: which is exciting.
Speaker 2: There's just a.
Speaker 3: Lot of things to do and I feel like I
Speaker 3: wish this.
Speaker 2: Week wasn't so chaotic, but it is. Anyway.
Speaker 3: Michael was like to me this morning, Hey, you've been
Speaker 3: really stressed. I feel like we should go for like
Speaker 3: a twenty minute run. It's gonna make you feel better,
Speaker 3: you know, get the indorphins, gut.
Speaker 1: Common in itself, which stressed amore and I was like, yeah.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it. Let's do it. Went for a run.
Speaker 3: We have two locks on our door, one of them
Speaker 3: because is a push in lock. So one of us
Speaker 3: has accidentally pushed in this lock without knowing and we
Speaker 3: got locked out of the house.
Speaker 1: So what you the dad bolt was the one that
Speaker 1: you unlock normally, was the push in one.
Speaker 3: The push in one and someone's pushed it in. Michael
Speaker 3: was like blaming me, and I was like, it definitely
Speaker 3: wasn't me. So we looked back on the cameras and
Speaker 3: I'm like on my phone working whilst we're walking out
Speaker 3: the house, and like it was definitely Michael. But okay,
Speaker 3: this is the annoying thing. So obviously I immediately.
Speaker 2: Called the locksmith.
Speaker 3: They're like, we can get out there in twenty minutes.
Speaker 3: It's a thirty five dollars call out fee, and then
Speaker 3: like we'll figure it out. But it starts from forty
Speaker 3: after that. So I'm thinking, you know, he'll be here
Speaker 3: in twenty minutes. It's gonna be seventy five dollars.
Speaker 2: We can do that.
Speaker 3: The guy after twenty minutes goes, hey, I'm gonna be
Speaker 3: forty five minutes. I was like ugh. And then once
Speaker 3: he did it literally took this guy, I'm not even
Speaker 3: kidding you, thirty seconds to un get the lock open.
Speaker 2: Three hundred and thirty dollars.
Speaker 1: Fuck, the easiest three hundred thirty dollars that guy's ever made.
Speaker 1: But then again, how scary like is it that they
Speaker 1: can just stick something in there and unlock a door so.
Speaker 2: Quickly, like it's so yeah. So anyway, I.
Speaker 3: Kind of put the fear of because I'm I don't
Speaker 3: know if I've told you this, but I'm so terrified
Speaker 3: of being broken into, so terrified.
Speaker 1: I remember when we stayed in somewhere and.
Speaker 2: We were in Sydney together, did you put trash can
Speaker 2: in front of your door?
Speaker 1: I I never locked a door at a hotel, considered
Speaker 1: it and.
Speaker 2: What no one's ever tried to enter, do you know.
Speaker 3: I was actually at a hotel in Sydney recently when
Speaker 3: I was there and one of the staff tried to
Speaker 3: open the door and I was like looking through the
Speaker 3: beet pole and the car was like trying to open
Speaker 3: the door, and he was like looking around like that.
Speaker 3: I swear to God, and I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna die.
Speaker 1: I don't know. This stuff doesn't scared me, Like.
Speaker 3: Someone trying to enter your room, yeah, Like I don't
Speaker 3: think they're going to.
Speaker 2: The fact that you don't lock a hotel.
Speaker 1: I mean I don't lock it. I mean I shouldn't
Speaker 1: say that. I just don't go out of my way
Speaker 1: to lock a door like that at a hotel room.
Speaker 2: You like living life on the edge us on me.
Speaker 2: You've got like a death wind.
Speaker 3: How many people die at hotels very quickly? I watch
Speaker 3: a lot of true crime, and a lot of bad
Speaker 3: stuff happens at hotels.
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe I should lock my door, put a trash
Speaker 1: can in front of it.
Speaker 2: Just a PSA to anyone listening, just.
Speaker 1: Mad across the hole, don't fall asleep till I do.
Speaker 1: What am I going to do from across the hole?
Speaker 3: But it's just like again, like I know that, like
Speaker 3: we're speaking a lot about violence against women at the
Speaker 3: moment in the news, and it's just that thing of
Speaker 3: like being afraid and not feeling like if I'm by myself,
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm a target always.
Speaker 2: The luxury that you have to.
Speaker 3: Feel like you couldn't lock a hotel door is blowing
Speaker 3: my mind right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand that that would be a bit more
Speaker 1: like scarier for yourself. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean there's that thing going around at the moment,
Speaker 3: and it's like, so, if you're in a dark forest,
Speaker 3: would you prefer to be alone in a dark forest
Speaker 3: with a.
Speaker 2: Man or a bear?
Speaker 1: Probably a man.
Speaker 3: I'd prefer to be there with a bear, because men
Speaker 3: are terrifying unless it was a man that I knew.
Speaker 2: It was, like a miscellaneous guy. I'm like, fuck yeah.
Speaker 3: Because you think you can outsmart the bear. You think
Speaker 3: you could like hide, run up a tree.
Speaker 1: You can't out climb, you can't outrun, you can't outswim
Speaker 1: a bear.
Speaker 2: Is that true?
Speaker 1: Yeah? You have to play dead and be fertile and
Speaker 1: let him toss you around and be first. Sorry, I
Speaker 1: was singing about the revenue. You've got it in the
Speaker 1: fetal position and let them Wow, I can tag any
Speaker 1: fertility things you know that just won't Okay, Well, this
Speaker 1: is a word of advice from Matt. If you're ever
Speaker 1: stuck in a forest with a bear, don't run, don't climb,
Speaker 1: don't swim, because you can't do any of that from
Speaker 1: a bear. You've got to get in the fetal position
Speaker 1: and let it throw you around until it gets bored
Speaker 1: with you.
Speaker 2: Do you're in the feetus position?
Speaker 1: What do I keep saying fetile?
Speaker 3: I think you're taking up a word between like fetus
Speaker 3: and fertile and your combined.
Speaker 1: Hin yourself into a ball, your head down and just
Speaker 1: don't breathe, don't move, and let the bear get bored.
Speaker 2: Of you, okay, Matt.
Speaker 3: We both have weddings coming up, and I posted a
Speaker 3: video on my social media talking about web shreads because
Speaker 3: I just have so much to say about this, but
Speaker 3: let's hear the video first. I'm getting married in two
Speaker 3: and a half weeks in Greece, and I'm sick of
Speaker 3: everyone asking me if I'm on a web shread. I
Speaker 3: know that society thinks that when you're getting married, you
Speaker 3: need to look your best, but I just do not
Speaker 3: believe in shredding for my wedding.
Speaker 2: And I'm going to tell you why. Ooja.
Speaker 3: Someone commented on one of my videos being like, ooh,
Speaker 3: you've put on a little bit of way you have
Speaker 3: a wedding coming up to incredibly rude. We have been
Speaker 3: taught never to come on people's weight, but it almost
Speaker 3: feels like when someone has a wedding coming up, all
Speaker 3: bets are off just for context. I'm basically just trying
Speaker 3: to live a healthy lifestyle like I always do. I
Speaker 3: had passed it for lunch today, but I also did
Speaker 3: a cycle class.
Speaker 2: Allan's is key.
Speaker 3: This is not just for the bride, like I feel
Speaker 3: like the guests feel an immense amount of pressure to
Speaker 3: be on the web tread when they have a wedding
Speaker 3: coming up because they want to look their best. How
Speaker 3: about stay healthy and stay consistent everything in moderation. I've
Speaker 3: never spoken about weight on here because it's very taboo,
Speaker 3: and I also feel like it's just unhelpful. It was
Speaker 3: in the modeling industry for over ten years, and it
Speaker 3: was definitely things that happened that made me really anxious
Speaker 3: and stressed out about my weight. I was told I
Speaker 3: needed to lose dress sizes, showed me pictures of me
Speaker 3: at a size six, eight, and ten, and then asked
Speaker 3: me which one I felt like I looked better, insinuating
Speaker 3: about I looked better as a size six. I was
Speaker 3: a model in Hong Kong. I literally was told to
Speaker 3: stand in a line with about fifty other models, and
Speaker 3: they looked at all of the models up and down,
Speaker 3: and then they picked the top three skinniest models to stay,
Speaker 3: and everyone else was told to leave. So trust me
Speaker 3: when I say I have enough trauma when it comes
Speaker 3: to eating. I'm now thirty two and I'm completely over that.
Speaker 3: Please be he really mindful of asking people if they're
Speaker 3: shredding for their wedding or if they're on a web
Speaker 3: tread because.
Speaker 2: It's so unhealthy and unnecessary.
Speaker 1: So are you on a web tread? You're sick?
Speaker 2: You're actually sick.
Speaker 3: No, But do you know what, I'm not trying to
Speaker 3: like shame people, because I think it is like people
Speaker 3: do ask that question a lot, Like a lot of
Speaker 3: people have asked that question.
Speaker 2: I actually feel bad.
Speaker 3: There was a part of me that felt bad posting
Speaker 3: that because I feel like everyone who's asking me that
Speaker 3: will be like upsie. It's like, I'm not offended by it,
Speaker 3: but it was getting in my head. And you know
Speaker 3: when like food and eating and stuff gets in your head,
Speaker 3: because we've both been in the modeling industry, and when
Speaker 3: someone's constantly talking about your weight and being on a
Speaker 3: diet and being healthy and like encouraging that, it really
Speaker 3: fucks with your brain chemistry and it fucks with your thoughts.
Speaker 1: And excuse you a very unhealthy relationship with food totally, totally.
Speaker 2: And I haven't felt that for a really long time.
Speaker 3: Like at the end of my modeling career, I was
Speaker 3: like a size ten model, so I wasn't even trying
Speaker 3: to be a size six or an eight, which I
Speaker 3: was in my younger days. I was like a full ten.
Speaker 3: So I was just like living a healthy lifestyle. But
Speaker 3: I feel like the psychology of people constantly asking me
Speaker 3: if I'm on a web tread is putting a lot
Speaker 3: of pressure on me. And it got to a point
Speaker 3: where I was like, I feel like I need to
Speaker 3: address this because it's actually so unhealthy for me, and
Speaker 3: I just want to make sure that, like, you know,
Speaker 3: it's this girl actually messaged me on Instagram being like,
Speaker 3: the reason why I didn't have a wedding was because
Speaker 3: I was worried that when I walked down the aisle,
Speaker 3: everyone was going to be critiquing my body, was going
Speaker 3: to be critiquing how I looked. If I didn't look
Speaker 3: my best, they were going to judge me. And for
Speaker 3: that reason alone, I didn't have my dream wedding. And
Speaker 3: it's like that is so sad because weddings are about
Speaker 3: really celebrating you and the love of your life, right,
Speaker 3: and there's this whole other societal pressure of like you
Speaker 3: have to look your best, and it just takes away
Speaker 3: from the love of what we should be celebrating. And
Speaker 3: I just wanted to like, really, you know, say something
Speaker 3: about it, because I don't. I have not really heard
Speaker 3: anyone talk about how unhealthy it is, at least on
Speaker 3: my social media. But I think there's a lot of
Speaker 3: people who watch from the sidelines to see if the
Speaker 3: bride loses weight, or to see how the bride's looking,
Speaker 3: or like analyzing what they're doing in the lead up
Speaker 3: to the wedding. And you know, I just think it's unhealthy.
Speaker 1: You wouldn't though in this day and age, people are
Speaker 1: actually like body shaming and like talk, you know, like
Speaker 1: like come on, I surely we're past that.
Speaker 3: I think it's unconscious though, Like I don't think people
Speaker 3: actually mean it. Like I don't think people are out
Speaker 3: there in this like being malicious. I think that we
Speaker 3: all have just grown up in a society where it's
Speaker 3: like you have to look your best on your wedding day.
Speaker 3: I also thought I was gonna get married at like
Speaker 3: twenty five, you know what I mean, Like.
Speaker 2: I'm seven years older. Like things are different now, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean.
Speaker 3: And it's just like you don't want to put that
Speaker 3: pressure onto people. So I just wanted to make that,
Speaker 3: make a point of that. But for you, as a
Speaker 3: groom to be, do you feel any sort of pressure?
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say from the actual for the wedding side
Speaker 1: of things, I'd say more just like from like I've
Speaker 1: seen people comment and like different things about the way
Speaker 1: my body's looking. It's not what it once was. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm nearly thirty now, so my metabolism sow down at
Speaker 1: fair beer, so I feel the pressure that way, and
Speaker 1: I sort of want to lose weight, and I feel
Speaker 1: that like, yeah, it's a little bit insecure about it.
Speaker 2: Really, Yeah, I didn't know that.
Speaker 1: I do know that. Yeah, especially I saw like some
Speaker 1: comments coming back from Bali about that. So what do
Speaker 1: people say just saying that I put on way all
Speaker 1: this sort of stuff.
Speaker 2: It's completely fucked.
Speaker 3: I mean it's interesting as well, because I feel like,
Speaker 3: you know, like I said in the video, like it's
Speaker 3: off limits to talk about way, But I feel like
Speaker 3: for females maybe, like do people also feel like they
Speaker 3: have free rate to talk about a guy's way.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. Like, look, I don't know, Like I
Speaker 1: just think that, like I don't want like a sob
Speaker 1: me story like all that sort of stuff.
Speaker 2: It's not it's like your feelings are valid.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just think that, Like I just don't spread
Speaker 1: hate like we say it all the time. Like I
Speaker 1: could never imagine commenting on someone in the way.
Speaker 2: They look, and I think you have.
Speaker 3: Like we've both spoken about this privately. We've never really
Speaker 3: wanted to talk about food and eat because it is
Speaker 3: unhealthy and it is a bit toxic and it does
Speaker 3: kind of stick with people like these types of conversations,
Speaker 3: so we want to be really careful around this. But
Speaker 3: I mean, we both were in the modeling industry for.
Speaker 1: How long, Like I did nearly ten years ago.
Speaker 3: I did ten, and we both had major insecurities.
Speaker 1: When I got signed, I lost like twenty five kilos
Speaker 1: because they asked you to. And then they would always
Speaker 1: tell me as well that my shoulders were too, like
Speaker 1: couldn't fit in any clothes. And I was like, I
Speaker 1: haven't lifted away with my shoulders in like two and
Speaker 1: a half years, three years. I was like, that's just
Speaker 1: my natural building my shoulder, like when I'm meant to
Speaker 1: do remove my bone, you know what i mean. Like
Speaker 1: they would pound me about that, like pound me yeah,
Speaker 1: And I was like, that's just the way my shoulders are.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: When I first got signed, I was seventeen, and a
Speaker 3: body at seventeen is very different to a body at
Speaker 3: twenty five and to constantly be reminded of the photos
Speaker 3: of me when I was seventeen, and to compare them
Speaker 3: to me at size eight and ten was the most
Speaker 3: toxic thing. I genuinely think I look better as a
Speaker 3: size ten anyway. I think like people look better with curves.
Speaker 1: I don't think like, yeah, you're saying that when you
Speaker 1: quit your size ten. I struggle to see the difference
Speaker 1: in what they're even talking about.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but anyway, aside from our modeling careers, this is
Speaker 3: about my wedding, and this is about my love for Michael,
Speaker 3: and your wedding will be about your love for Tammy.
Speaker 3: And we don't want the narrative to be focused on
Speaker 3: weight and how we're looking, because it's about the love.
Speaker 1: And our love for food.
Speaker 2: Pizza.
Speaker 3: Okay, guys, that's all we have time for today. It
Speaker 3: was so nice being in the studio with you today. Matt.
Speaker 3: This is the first up to date record we've done
Speaker 3: since you've been in Bali.
Speaker 1: It's been a while, hasn't it. And we always say
Speaker 1: that it's been a while since through in the studio.
Speaker 1: We just got so much on at the moment.
Speaker 3: I know, well, I jet off to my wedding next week,
Speaker 3: but we have so many exciting episodes that we are
Speaker 3: doing it. We've got you covered, so don't worry. There
Speaker 3: will be an episode every single week when we are
Speaker 3: away at my wedding. But until next time, Bye bye,