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Speaker 1: This podcast is recorded on gaddigal Land always was, always

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Speaker 1: will be Aboriginal Land. Hey chicks, I'm out and I'm

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Speaker 1: sou and this is too very chicks to show that

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Speaker 1: chest life lessons and tips to make you rich in life,

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Speaker 1: And oh my god, it's the last episode of twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty four.

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Speaker 2: Can you chicks believe it? I can't. Well, well, clearly

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Speaker 2: we're on the same page. Jinx, you owe me a coke?

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Speaker 2: Can you owe me one? Two?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, crazy buy each other one? Then great, now

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking about that. However, we always finish our podcast

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Speaker 1: of the years with our lessons from X year, So

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Speaker 1: today we are doing twenty four life lessons from twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty four. I know it's the end of the year

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Speaker 1: because I kept thinking it was supposed to be twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty five. I know, I kept thinking twenty five life

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Speaker 1: lessons and I was like, wait, no, it's twenty four.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. It's because it means that we have to come

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Speaker 2: up with more and more life lessons every year, so

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Speaker 2: when we started, it would have been twenty one life

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Speaker 2: lessons from twenty twenty one. That's crazy, I.

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Speaker 1: Know, given that we are doing a whole episode about

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Speaker 1: life lessons. We will just start with life lessons. There's

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Speaker 1: no life lessons of the week, it's life lessons of

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Speaker 2: Should we kick off with our first life lesson of

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Speaker 2: twenty five? So my first life lesson is a really

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Speaker 2: sexy one and it's that you need to clean your

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Speaker 2: washing machine. Oh, yes, have you ever done this?

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Speaker 1: I have a story, but I'll wait for you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, great, because I hadn't. So if you are always

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Speaker 2: washing your clothes on like a cold cycle, your washing

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Speaker 2: machine will get a build up of this thing called scud. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it has a name, and it's like the build up

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Speaker 2: back out through the washing machine and sticks all over

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Speaker 2: your clothes as like little brown sort of soapy scum flakes.

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Speaker 2: It's like linked almost. Like that's how like small and

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Speaker 2: like hard it is to like get off shit. And

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Speaker 2: it's really simple to solve it. You just have to

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Speaker 2: run a hot cycle through your wash once a moile like.

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Speaker 1: A drum clean. Yeah yeah, yeah, do you have that

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Speaker 2: Nap? So we just yeah, you just do like a

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Speaker 2: hot wash. Yeah, throw it.

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Speaker 1: like you need to drum clean. Yeah. Yeah. I learned

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Speaker 1: And this was a curse washing machine. This was the

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Speaker 1: we're like, maybe we need clean the filter. So then

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Speaker 2: I was like, what is going on?

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Speaker 1: And then one day I was just like I just

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Speaker 1: went into like my dad mode. We're like my dad,

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Speaker 1: if something's broken, he takes it like a personal bandetta. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And then anyway, one day I was like absolutely not.

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Speaker 1: And then I think I saw a video on TikTok

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Speaker 1: He's a hungry, hungry washing machine. That's a children's book

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Speaker 1: waiting to happen. But I would also like to thank

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Speaker 1: you for intry. Do you see me to my new

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Speaker 1: favorite insult for twenty twenty five scared. I knew you'd

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Speaker 1: love it as soon as I go fucking scud. Oh

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Speaker 1: Oh my manager is being the biggest scud at the moment,

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Speaker 1: it Okay. My first life lesson of twenty twenty four

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Speaker 1: more in control. So I am a sleepy little girl,

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not next year. No, you know you know what

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Speaker 1: That happens, and I'm not going to say it on air.

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Speaker 1: This year, I've started waking up like an hour earlier

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and also means that you're less likely to be

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Speaker 1: I know, coming from someone that thought five minutes fifteen

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Speaker 2: You can never fall back asleep properly, and even if

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Speaker 2: Our third life lesson of twenty twenty four is for

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Speaker 2: financial compensation if you're inconvenienced by a brand, so an institution,

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Speaker 2: I'll say, a big brand that Alex and I have

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Speaker 2: No, we're talking like, let's say it's like for a

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Speaker 2: Yes, exactly. So I won't give away too many details

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Speaker 1: We've been having issues with this person for two years,

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Speaker 2: Safe to say. We'd had enough at this point. And

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Speaker 2: I'm on time. One time, we're on.

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Speaker 1: We're on hold. So they had to call So out

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Speaker 2: to get this one issue resolved for over twelve months,

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Speaker 2: and I want to be financially reimbursed for the time

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Speaker 2: to be financially reimbursed. And I said, because why else

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Speaker 2: after everything you've put me.

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Speaker 1: Like put us in if I carried them.

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Speaker 2: And I was going to say, I was inspired by

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Speaker 2: enough that we did get a financial compensation. But be respectful.

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Speaker 2: Oh of course, don't raise your voice. Be respectful.

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Speaker 1: You catch more flies with honey stern honey than vinegar, exactly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, what's yours? Okay?

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Speaker 1: My next one is making someone else's day will also

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Speaker 1: Exactly what you're saying is what we spoke about in

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Speaker 1: My eighth life lesson of twenty twenty four cocktails kind

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Speaker 2: Yeah wow? Yeah what cocktails?

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Speaker 1: that was worth twenty five dollars, you know what I mean?

442
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:18,960
Speaker 2: So true? Yeah, I love an espresso.

443
00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:26,520
Speaker 1: Martini, don't get me wrong, But is it worth it? Yeah?

444
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:31,119
Speaker 1: All right, I'm like, is it worth spending like twenty

445
00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,880
Speaker 1: five dollars on a spicy margarita? Like they're just too

446
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 1: expensive now. If we're at a happy hour, sure this

447
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 1: changes things all right, But they're just so expensive now

448
00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:45,119
Speaker 1: that for one, the time it takes to wait for

449
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 1: them at the bar, that's the real kick for horrible two.

450
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:53,199
Speaker 1: If they're made, well, sometimes you get them and you're like,

451
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 1: oh that's not what I thought it was going to be.

452
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, so true.

453
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:58,120
Speaker 1: Well, like I spend twenty five dollars on an espresso

454
00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 1: martini and it was made with bourbon. Yeah, disgusting disc

455
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 1: that was like reimagined And I was like, disgusting, how

456
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 1: about that? Should I imagine that this dispersion my teeny

457
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 1: is gross and they're just too expensive. So for me,

458
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 1: I think cocktails are an out for twenty twenty five

459
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 1: and getting mummy wine drunk is in. That's always been

460
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 1: in for me though, right, Yeah, look a glass of

461
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 1: wine or a bud Clime soda. That's it, That's all

462
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:29,880
Speaker 1: I need.

463
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 2: A vode Clime soda is a tiless classic, and I

464
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,919
Speaker 2: won't hear any bad words.

465
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:36,919
Speaker 1: All right, what's your next one?

466
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,679
Speaker 2: Okay? Our night life lesson of twenty twenty four is

467
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:44,639
Speaker 2: that female friendship is finally getting the recognition it deserves.

468
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 2: This is what I mine amazing. But yes, look, maybe

469
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 2: Finding Your People started this trend. Obviously. I think it

470
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 2: definitely did a book about the Ultimate guy, do Bye,

471
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 2: Sally and Alex Rogan. I think the whole year has.

472
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 1: Just been like a feminineo on and on if you will, Yeah,

473
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 1: so true, like the Rise of Me.

474
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:13,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and obviously Wicked has really helped cement this at

475
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 2: the tail end of the year with the very powerful

476
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 2: friendship between Ariana and Cynthia. And I think it's so

477
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 2: nice just seeing that on a worldwide stage. And I

478
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 2: know that people are poking fun at them for always

479
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:28,639
Speaker 2: holding hands and crying and their interviews, but I actually

480
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 2: think it's really beautiful and really powerful and something that

481
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 2: deserves to be applauded as well, as you know, sometimes

482
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 2: giggled at, but just for fun.

483
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:41,639
Speaker 1: I think if people saw two people in a couple

484
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 1: doing that, they would think it was really cute. They'd

485
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: be like, oh, look at them, they're so in love.

486
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 1: Whereas you see two female friendships like being so in

487
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 1: love with each other that for some people it's like

488
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:59,879
Speaker 1: laugh that, whereas that should be something that's celebrated to

489
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 1: I found like such a platonic soul made in someone

490
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 1: is something that is amazing and so nice to see.

491
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 1: I love it.

492
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:10,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is beautiful, and I almost I do hope

493
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 2: that we see something similar for male friendships in the

494
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 2: future two and that that is celebrated in the same

495
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,879
Speaker 2: way without being a joke and a romance in that way.

496
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:23,959
Speaker 1: Our tenth life lesson of twenty four is one that

497
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 1: I saw from Caitlin Amico on TikTok and she saw

498
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:29,439
Speaker 1: it from somewhere else, but I don't know where that was.

499
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: And nothing has ever rocked me to my care more.

500
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: And it's that once you wear a shirt to bed,

501
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 1: the shirt is dead.

502
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,120
Speaker 2: I saw this as well, where's the lie?

503
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 1: So once you wear like a graphic tea or a

504
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 1: top or something and you sleep in it. That is

505
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 1: now a bedtime top. You don't wear it out anymore.

506
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:53,679
Speaker 1: It's not like your nice shirt anymore. And I was like,

507
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: oh my god, there's so many shirts in a graveyard

508
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 1: now because I slept in them once. Yeah, which is

509
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: just like obviously not true, like I still wear them

510
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 1: all the time, but it's.

511
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 2: Like, but now they're a bad shot.

512
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:04,920
Speaker 1: Now they're bedtime ts.

513
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 2: I think that the this is like the trajectory of

514
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 2: a T shirt going out shirt, yep, gym or workout

515
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 2: shirt yeap, tanning shirt, Oh yeah, bed shirt.

516
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:22,360
Speaker 1: I'm going to say something controversial. Sometimes my gym shirts

517
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 1: and my sleep shirts interchange. Oh like a sleep a

518
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 1: bedtime T and a gym T they're the same thing.

519
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 1: They're both an oversized tea.

520
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 2: I think for me, a tan T and a gym

521
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 2: T can interchange, but not a bed te.

522
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 1: Has to be that's that's for that purpose, and that

523
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 1: purpose only because over time, that thing is like that

524
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 1: sounded be going.

525
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 2: Please help me, you need to give me. It's giving God, Yeah,

526
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 2: it's giving.

527
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:53,160
Speaker 1: sCOD it's giving scud waits scuddar twenty twenty five words

528
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:57,359
Speaker 1: of yeah done. But yeah, when I saw that I

529
00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: was like, Will, It's true, she's got a point.

530
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 2: We've just never had a unique experience ever. No, and

531
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 2: that's okay.

532
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 1: Yep.

533
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 2: I love that. Our eleventh life lesson from twenty twenty

534
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 2: four also kind of relates to your last one in

535
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 2: a weird way, and it's that if you spray hair

536
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 2: spray on the collar of a white T shirt, it

537
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 2: stops it from getting makeup stains on it. Have you

538
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 2: tasted this? Yes?

539
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:23,199
Speaker 1: And it works?

540
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 2: Yes? Oh my god, this is going to change your life.

541
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 1: I know. Sal is probably the number one culprit for

542
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 1: getting makeup on clothes.

543
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, just like the dewy makeup you know. Yeah, it's

544
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 2: just a quick hac.

545
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: I love that. Definitely something that I will also start doing.

546
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, so good, so easy.

547
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 1: Our twelfth life lesson of twenty twenty five is less

548
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 1: is More And this has definitely been something especially that

549
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:57,679
Speaker 1: I learned with skincare and again, never had a unique

550
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 1: experience in our entire lives because I think from multiple

551
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: creators and multiple people online, all I've been seeing is

552
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 1: how we all collectively fucked up our skin barrier from

553
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: using way too many products and way too many actives.

554
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: I also don't necessarily think it's our fault. I think

555
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 1: the information that we're given with you know, brands. It's

556
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 1: really interesting to see because I think at the start

557
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 1: of this year and the year before so twenty twenty

558
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 1: three slash twenty twenty four, everything was about actives. It

559
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:31,439
Speaker 1: was about salicylic acid and bh and aahs and how

560
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 1: it's going to give you baby skin you won't need boats.

561
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,400
Speaker 1: Gave a Venkas clear your pa that bad?

562
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 2: That right, I love that soul.

563
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's like use this acid and this acid

564
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: and this active and do that. And every brand was

565
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 1: bringing out products that had actives in it, right, So

566
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: we're like, fuck, yeah, give me that shit. Now all

567
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 1: of us have fucked up skin barriers, and guess what

568
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: brands are bringing out. It's all products to repair your

569
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 1: skin barrier. And I'm like, okay, so what meeting did

570
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 1: y'all have that It just kind of I don't really

571
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 1: there's no really solve for it. It's just something that annoyed me, basically,

572
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 1: And something that I noticed is that sometimes it's really

573
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 1: important just to stick to what you're already doing. Un

574
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 1: less is more, because you know, I got so wrapped

575
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 1: up and We'd try so many products in this job,

576
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: which is such a privilege, but it meant that I

577
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 1: was using so much stuff on my skin that I

578
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 1: just did not need to be using, and I completely

579
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: cooked my skin barrier. And it was only once I

580
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 1: went to a dermatologist, which you think, you know they're

581
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 1: going to sell you more. They're going to be like, no,

582
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 1: use this and this and this, which one pisces me off,

583
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 1: like stop doing that. I know people have like KPIs

584
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 1: they have to hit, but it ruins the experience, especially

585
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 1: after a massage, definitely. And they were like, just stop

586
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 1: using all of that, and they're like, what are you using?

587
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 1: And this is faciale in Bondi. They've got one in

588
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 1: Neutral Bay and a couple other destinations. I could not

589
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: recommend them enough. They are amazing and they didn't try

590
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 1: to sell me a single thing. The dermato was like, Okay,

591
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 1: what are you using, looked at what I was using

592
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 1: and they're like, cool, keep using these three and fuck

593
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 1: the rest off.

594
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 2: And that's it. Just use that.

595
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 1: I don't use any actives on my skin anymore. I

596
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 1: use a cleanser at night, a cleansing balm, a cleanser

597
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: and moisturizer. In the morning, I put sunscreen on. That's

598
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 1: fucking it. Four products is my skin careage. It's and

599
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 1: my skin has never, ever, ever, ever been better, Like

600
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 1: to the point that I most days go without wearing

601
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:31,800
Speaker 1: any foundation or anything I put on like a skin

602
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 1: tint and some concealer. And it's literally changed my entire life.

603
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 1: And I just think that whole narrative is something that

604
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 1: like I'm trying to apply to more parts of my

605
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 1: life of less is more like my wardrobe, my hair,

606
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: my entire life. That's so true, you know, like it

607
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: just really showed me how much we can overcomplicate things

608
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 1: just out of what we're told. Is amazing, and especially

609
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 1: in a world where they a new viral product, you know,

610
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 1: every month, every week, every day, it is good to

611
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 1: kind of keep that in the back of your mind

612
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 1: of being like do I really need this? And I'm

613
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 1: also very conscious that we it's our job to kind

614
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: of discuss what's viral and what's trending and what's going on,

615
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: but that that's also doesn't always mean that you need

616
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 1: to buy that, yeah, of course, And I think that's

617
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: a message that we've really tried to kind of lean

618
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 1: into this year being like this is like the vibe

619
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: because it's fun to talk about, but you don't actually

620
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 1: have to buy it.

621
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. That's why it pays to see a professional

622
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 2: one hundred percent of a dermatologist and if you are

623
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 2: having skin concerns instead of getting into the bathroom and

624
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 2: acting like a mad scientist.

625
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 1: Or like watching multiple people and the like. I definitely

626
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: think there are amazing experts online. And that's not to

627
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: take away from that, but probably like a sub lesson

628
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 1: to that is like find an expert that you can

629
00:31:56,280 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: be consistent with, Like finding a dermatologist, a hairstylist, a beautician.

630
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: Whatever it is that you can be consistent with and

631
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 1: you genuinely trust is going to really really help you,

632
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: like cut through the noise of what you need versus

633
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: what you actually need.

634
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 2: Next life lesson is that I am like every other girl. Yeah,

635
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 2: you know that trend years ago and I was like,

636
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 2: I'm not like other girls. We are all like every

637
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 2: girl and that's the best part and that's what makes

638
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 2: it so fun. Of course, we're all Every person is

639
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 2: unique and individual and has their own interests and experiences,

640
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 2: but we also share so much and how cool is that?

641
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, to have such a collective and community in women.

642
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 2: Especially in womanhood, Like we do have so many experiences

643
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 2: that we share together that are silly and goofy and

644
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 2: fun that just make life the best. And then there

645
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 2: are also things that we share that are hard, which

646
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 2: I think can bring us closer together. And rather than

647
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 2: having that whole narrative of oh, well, they're not a

648
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 2: girl's girl, or I'm not like other girls or pick

649
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 2: me girl or whatever, let's all celebrate the things that

650
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 2: we do have in common and build each other up

651
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 2: instead of competing against each other.

652
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 1: I can't agree more. Okay, our fourteenth life lesson of

653
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: twenty twenty four is simply trying to be better with

654
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 1: your money is half the battle. And if you're already

655
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: doing that, you're already winning. And I wanted to share

656
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 1: some signs that you're doing better financially than you think

657
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 1: you are, because it's very, very easy to get down

658
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 1: on ourselves about our financial situation. And I wanted to

659
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 1: share this list because I think if you can relate

660
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 1: to even one of these things, then that's such a win,

661
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 1: and that's such an amazing thing. And if you can't

662
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 1: relate to any of them, but you even just want

663
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 1: to start trying for one of them. That's amazing. So

664
00:33:58,160 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 1: I don't want anyone to listen to this list and

665
00:33:59,960 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 1: like cool, I don't have any of that. I'm a failure,

666
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 1: absolutely not, because just simply trying to get better with

667
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: your money is half the battle. So number one is

668
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 1: you have one thousand dollars saved. Forty five percent of

669
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 1: Australians don't. Number two you've got no credit card debt.

670
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:22,320
Speaker 1: Sixty eight percent of ozsie's do. Number three, you're investing

671
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: in the share market. Forty two percent of women don't.

672
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 1: Number four you have no car payment. The average new

673
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: payment is seven hundred and sixty dollars a month.

674
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 2: Well, I know. And number five you have a will.

675
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, fifty two percent of ozsi's don't. So this was

676
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 1: according to the Ladies Finance Club. And I just love

677
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 1: this list because I think even if you have one

678
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,760
Speaker 1: of these, you can feel so much better about yourself.

679
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 1: And even if you have don't, you can pick one

680
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 1: and you can use that as your goal to move

681
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 1: forward into twenty twenty five so that you can start

682
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:02,280
Speaker 1: feeling little bit stronger in your finances and the active

683
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:04,919
Speaker 1: changes that you were putting in every day to move

684
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 1: towards having a better financial situation or literacy.

685
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 2: Shit, I need to get a will. I know nice,

686
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 2: I like it. Our fifteenth life lesson is that if

687
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 2: your undies are looking worse for wear, throw them away.

688
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:24,959
Speaker 2: Why do we always keep them until the point where

689
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 2: they look like the Spider Man mask or a piece

690
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 2: of Swiss cheese? And the reason I learned this life

691
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 2: lesson is because I was wearing a pair of seamless

692
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 2: undies that I've had for years and years and years,

693
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 2: and They've slowly but surely started to connected the waistpan

694
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 2: on the side, and I was wearing them to a concert.

695
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 1: All yeah, your embarrassing thing has happened, and they split.

696
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 2: And they broke. And I wasn't wearing jeans, I wasn't

697
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:59,280
Speaker 2: wearing shorts, wear sirt. I was wearing a mini slip

698
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 2: dress with nothing to keep the undies in, nothing to

699
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 2: keep the undies from showing. Because if you imagine that

700
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 2: you're wearing a pair of undies and they're held up

701
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,760
Speaker 2: by hips in your legs, and because they're you know, together,

702
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 2: if it comes unpart, it's basically like.

703
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:17,440
Speaker 1: George of the jungle, like like swinging.

704
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 2: Down and just hangs down by your side and there's nothing.

705
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 2: I like had to hold my legs way do you

706
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 2: just take them off together? Well to get from the

707
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 2: middle of the concert then to the toilet. Yeah, yeah,

708
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 2: and then go and take them off and then you're

709
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 2: wearing no undies shoes. It was so hot, just was

710
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 2: not and then you're having to like walk up train

711
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 2: steps and stuff get out.

712
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 1: Like a slipskirt that's gonna blow around everyone.

713
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 2: A good time? When did this happen a while ago?

714
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 1: Now?

715
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 2: How could you saving it for a soul life lesson?

716
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 1: I got I love that that happened to you.

717
00:36:58,080 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, good time. Fine.

718
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: Finally there's a naked story from Zau that ties into mine.

719
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 1: Stop wearing uncomfortable clothes nice.

720
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:11,359
Speaker 2: You're the only.

721
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 1: Person that knows what size you're wearing. You're the only

722
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: person that knows how it feels, and you're the only

723
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 1: person that knows how you feel. So whar what makes

724
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: you feel good and comfortable? And don't get caught up

725
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:25,399
Speaker 1: on a number on a tag because no one else

726
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 1: can see it and no one else cares, and if

727
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 1: they do, that's a weird fucking vibe from them.

728
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, and also it means nothing. The number means it's nothing.

729
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:39,879
Speaker 1: It's made up, yes, literally made up. It's fake.

730
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:44,839
Speaker 2: But the feeling of comfort that you have or discomfort

731
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 2: is real. It's wild.

732
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:51,359
Speaker 1: Like I shared this life lesson I think last year,

733
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 1: but it was about how I got I got so

734
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 1: caught up in being a size that I used to

735
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 1: be and how if that changed then there was something

736
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: fairly like within me which just is so not true.

737
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 1: And the second that I let go of that and

738
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 1: I actually just walk close that fit me and felt

739
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 1: nice and I didn't feel uncomfortable in them, Like my

740
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: whole quality of life, as silly as that sounds, just

741
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 1: completely improved.

742
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 2: Comfort is king exactly Number seventeen. Go see the Support

743
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 2: Act because you never know this time in twelve months,

744
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 2: they may be the biggest pop star in the whole

745
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 2: world and it will be one of your biggest regrets.

746
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 2: And I think a lot of people can relate to

747
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 2: this because earlier this year, Taylor Swift was here on

748
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 2: her errors tour supported by Sabrina Carpenter, and she was

749
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,840
Speaker 2: already huge and had a massive following at the time.

750
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 2: But I know for us personally, we were running late

751
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:50,439
Speaker 2: from work we saw her. We missed out on half

752
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,759
Speaker 2: of her set. What Yeah, because we were running late

753
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:56,360
Speaker 2: from work and.

754
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: I didn't even know that.

755
00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 2: That's one of my biggest regrets of the year, if

756
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 2: I have to have one, it's not that serious, it's

757
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 2: not that nonsense. Than we did. That's what matters, And

758
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 2: she was amazing, and if anything, I'm so glad that

759
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 2: we did get to see her, but I wish we

760
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,839
Speaker 2: got to see the whole performance. And I just think

761
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:15,479
Speaker 2: that it's a good reminder to go see the support act,

762
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 2: even if they're not going to end up being a

763
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 2: huge star. Like it's a great way to get introduced

764
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 2: to musicians and artists that you may not have seen otherwise,

765
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:27,920
Speaker 2: and to show up and support them and maybe discover

766
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,360
Speaker 2: something that you like, or get to see the biggest

767
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 2: pop star in the world without even having to pay

768
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:34,760
Speaker 2: for a ticket for their own show.

769
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 1: Our eighteenth life lesson of twenty twenty four it's to

770
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 1: spend more time with your girlfriends, especially the ones that

771
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 1: make you laugh, and to prioritize new friendships just as

772
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:50,760
Speaker 1: much as old ones. So this year, Soul and I

773
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: went to Europe and it was the best time. But

774
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 1: probably one of the biggest highlights was seeing our best

775
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:02,839
Speaker 1: friend Helena, who is the speak is gremlin in the

776
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 1: world in the best way, in like in the worst way.

777
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:10,839
Speaker 2: The best thing is that she's so beautiful and just

778
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 2: looks like the epitome of an Irish princess that you

779
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,759
Speaker 2: would expect, and then she has the personality of like

780
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 2: an Irish uncle.

781
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 1: And she just makes us fucking laugh. And it maybe

782
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 1: took like a couple hours more of like planning for

783
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:32,840
Speaker 1: this holiday to make it work, but it's so worth

784
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 1: it as well. I think this year we've just made

785
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 1: so many new friends and that just bring so much

786
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 1: joy to my life, especially one of them being Gema

787
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 1: Spag who we work in the office with, who never

788
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 1: fucking fails to make us laugh with like her kookieness,

789
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 1: like I just love it, And like Mattie McCrae, who

790
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: is also become like one of our best friends. And

791
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 1: even just like the other weekend, like I was like

792
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 1: feeling a bit mopey and I was like, oh, I

793
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:06,320
Speaker 1: think I need some girl time, and I just messaged

794
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 1: a bunch of people that like I've never hung out

795
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 1: with one on one. It's always kind of been like

796
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 1: in a passing thing, yeah, and I was like.

797
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 2: Do you want to come over? And then they're like, yeah,

798
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:14,880
Speaker 2: I do.

799
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: And it just is something that has been an absolute

800
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 1: pleasure and highlight of my year was making new friendships

801
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 1: that have no requirement, no pressure, there's no three years

802
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 1: of history that means that we have to be friends.

803
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 1: We're simply friends because we enjoy each other's company and

804
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:35,800
Speaker 1: it's just been so fun.

805
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:39,839
Speaker 2: Next life lesson, Yes, and it's that there are sharks

806
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:45,720
Speaker 2: in European waters as an australiand so dumb well I am.

807
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 2: I'll put my hand up and admit to it. That's

808
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 2: why we are new splash. I don't think anybody's surprised.

809
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 2: But the whole time that we were in Europe, when

810
00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 2: we were swimming in Italy and whatnot, we would be like, oh,

811
00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:01,280
Speaker 2: it's just so nice being able to swim in really

812
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 2: deep ocean water and not have to worry about sharks

813
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 2: like you would in Australia. And long story short, there

814
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 2: are sharks in the Mediterranean. And we went on a

815
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 2: boat trip one day and Alex went home because she seasick,

816
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,239
Speaker 2: and we were on our last stuff of the day.

817
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:26,760
Speaker 2: We stopped at a few really beautiful spots and went swimming,

818
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:30,439
Speaker 2: and the last one was really really gorgeous, but the

819
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 2: water was like dark blue, almost black.

820
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 1: The od doometer didn't even pick up what the bottom.

821
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's the right meter thing, but

822
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 1: we're gonna know.

823
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 2: No domters a car. Isn't that the speed hold on.

824
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 1: The thing that picks up the bottom of depation? Yeah?

825
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:50,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, whatever, the measure the tool that measures the depth

826
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:52,839
Speaker 2: of the ocean, it couldn't even pick it up.

827
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

828
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 2: And meanwhile, me and Maddie McCray just jumped in and

829
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 2: we're swimming around playing Mermaids and Maddie.

830
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 1: Swims like twenty meters away because she needs to pee.

831
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, and I'm just like playing Mermaids. And then

832
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 2: rob Al's boyfriend, who's still with us on the boat,

833
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 2: didn't hop in, and I just thought like, oh, it

834
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:12,799
Speaker 2: was like the end of the day, Like we've just

835
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 2: dried off and we're about to go home, Like he

836
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:16,839
Speaker 2: probably is just tired and doesn't want to come in.

837
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:19,839
Speaker 2: We're swimming around, and then at one point I like

838
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:22,879
Speaker 2: looked down and I had an ear infection. At this

839
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:25,800
Speaker 2: point of the trip, so I wasn't really supposed to

840
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 2: be putting my head under the water, so I just

841
00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:30,280
Speaker 2: put my face in with my ears out and like, look,

842
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 2: see if I could see any fish or whatever. And

843
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 2: I thought I would do that both, that's so scary. Well,

844
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 2: because I wasn't thinking.

845
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 1: I was like, you this fucking water, ever, and You're like,

846
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 1: let me look into the depth of the abyss.

847
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 2: I was thinking maybe i'd see a fish. You're a momaid,

848
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 2: not a shark. Anyway. I saw something, a flash of

849
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 2: something really far down. I don't know what it was.

850
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:54,239
Speaker 2: It could have been a fish, it could have been

851
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:57,319
Speaker 2: something anyway, but I saw it. And then immediately I

852
00:43:57,400 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 2: was like, Maddie, I reckon, we should get in now.

853
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:01,759
Speaker 2: And then I didn't really think of it ever like

854
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 2: again after that until a few months later we were

855
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 2: all going out and Rob was like, I have to

856
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 2: tell you something, and then in an uber like on

857
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 2: the way to drinks or something, he told me that

858
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 2: the reason that he didn't get in is because the

859
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:19,760
Speaker 2: oh Doomedo or whatever that was couldn't sense the bottom

860
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 2: of the ocean. And he was like, it felt sharky,

861
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 2: it felt and he said it felt sharky, and we

862
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:29,919
Speaker 2: googled it and there are sharks in the Mediterranean, So yeah,

863
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 2: a good lesson.

864
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:32,800
Speaker 1: So I swam with sharks in Europe.

865
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:37,839
Speaker 2: Nice. That's so. One of my taglines from the year

866
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 2: is swam the sharks in Europe. Nice.

867
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 1: Our twentieth life lesson for twenty twenty four and it's

868
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,840
Speaker 1: this quote that I saw, and it said, feel sorry

869
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 1: for people who are mean, because if they can talk

870
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 1: horrible to other people, imagine how horrible they can talk

871
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 1: to themselves. If someone can speak so badly about someone

872
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 1: they don't know, they barely know, or they do know,

873
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 1: imagine how they speak to themselves. That's just their own unhappiness,

874
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 1: like leeching out like oil.

875
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, so true, and it has nothing to do with you.

876
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: And the worst thing that you can do is get

877
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: stuck in that oil. Slip.

878
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:21,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, in the scud, take a shot every time we

879
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:24,919
Speaker 2: say scared. Scared. Next life lesson, switching gear is something

880
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 2: a little bit more deep and meaningful, and I guess

881
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 2: it does kind of relate to one of your previous

882
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 2: life lessons. It is to not take your friendships for

883
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 2: granted and your relationships with the people that you love

884
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,720
Speaker 2: for granted, and that it's never too late to forgive

885
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 2: somebody or resolve things or try and work through something,

886
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 2: because nothing in life is certain, and you know, people

887
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 2: can come and go out of our lives, whether you

888
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 2: know that's a you know, moving into a different chapter

889
00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 2: or literally if something happens to somebody that you love

890
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 2: and like, you're just never guaranteed that you'll be able

891
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 2: to have another conversation with somebody, And if you do

892
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 2: get an opportunity to do that, grab that opportunity and

893
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 2: try and resolve things with someone, or even if there

894
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 2: isn't a conflict, and you have an opportunity to show

895
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,879
Speaker 2: somebody that you love them who maybe you haven't had

896
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 2: that conversation with in a while, show them that you

897
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:25,319
Speaker 2: appreciate them. Just take those opportunities as much as you can,

898
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 2: because they're not always guaranteed, and there will be things

899
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 2: in life that will make you realize that, but you

900
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 2: don't have to wait for those bad things to happen

901
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 2: to realize it.

902
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 1: Our twenty second Life Lesson of twenty twenty four and

903
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 1: everything Shower heals all. Honestly, I don't know what it is.

904
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 1: I don't know what black magic isn't it. But if

905
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 1: you're feeling down, if you're feeling flat, if you're feeling

906
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: if you're feeling scud, then and everything shower, quite literally,

907
00:46:56,840 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 1: is like a reset button. I don't know what it is.

908
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,280
Speaker 1: It's a cosmic power that when you haven't everything shower

909
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 1: and you wash your hair and you moisturize and exfoliate

910
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:09,879
Speaker 1: your body and you feel like clean. It's like the

911
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,240
Speaker 1: world is your oyster and there's no problems anymore.

912
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:15,240
Speaker 2: They are you've washed them away.

913
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, you've shedded your skin. Maybe it's a physical act

914
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 1: of shedding, a cleansing and cleansing, I would say, and

915
00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:28,279
Speaker 1: everything shower and an ocean swim heel all honest, if

916
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 1: you are having a bad day, go for a swim

917
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 1: and have an everything shower and you'll be right as rain.

918
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:39,920
Speaker 2: So true, so true. A twenty third life lesson of

919
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 2: twenty twenty four. Getting to the end, and it's like,

920
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 2: you chicks are the best. And we've always known this,

921
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:51,720
Speaker 2: but I think we're just reminded time and time again

922
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 2: that you chicks are so special and we're so lucky

923
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 2: to have you. And one moment that sticks out for

924
00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 2: me that was a reminder and a life lesson of

925
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 2: this this year is that at our live show, our

926
00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 2: management was helping give out the goodie bags and everything

927
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 2: and helping manage the cues and whatnot before the show,

928
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 2: and they came backstage before we were about to go

929
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 2: on and they were telling us that how it's so

930
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 2: interesting how different podcasters or content creators or whatever, all

931
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 2: of their audiences are so unique and different in their

932
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 2: own way. And the one word that they used to

933
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 2: describe you chicks was sweet, and how you were also

934
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 2: lovely and the way that you guys were like chatting

935
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 2: about how you were excited about the show or making

936
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 2: friends with each other or giggling with your friends, that

937
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 2: you all seemed so sweet, and how you're being so polite,

938
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:48,680
Speaker 2: you know, getting your goodie bags and so patient and everything.

939
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,320
Speaker 2: And yeah, I guess because you know, we are connected

940
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 2: with you chicks. We get to talk to you in

941
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 2: the DMS and hear from you, and we have always

942
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 2: felt connected with you. But the fact that we actually

943
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 2: got to see you chicks in one huge room all

944
00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 2: together and really connect with you in person and got

945
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 2: to meet a few of you after the show, you

946
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 2: chicks are just the best, the fucking best.

947
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay. Our twenty fourth life lesson of twenty twenty

948
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:16,879
Speaker 1: four is that you are so much more capable than

949
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,840
Speaker 1: what you think you are. When we started this podcast,

950
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: I don't think we ever imagined that it would grow

951
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 1: to what it is. And as two people who constantly

952
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: doubt themselves, but at least we have like each other,

953
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: it's really powerful to look back on everything that we've

954
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 1: achieved in the last year and in the last twelve months,

955
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:44,920
Speaker 1: we've written and launched our first book, sold out, our

956
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:48,320
Speaker 1: first live show, launched a small business, enrich in Life,

957
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 1: had a top three podcast, given away over twenty thousand

958
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:56,320
Speaker 1: dollars worth of prizes, gone on our dream trip to Europe,

959
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,800
Speaker 1: and grown our audience to a collective of over one million.

960
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 1: And I think my biggest life lesson this year is

961
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 1: just that I'm so proud of us.

962
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 3: Oh God, why do we always cry these fucking episodes,

963
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 3: And just being able to say one of those things,

964
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 3: I would have been so ecstatic and proud of us,

965
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 3: But to be able to say all of those is

966
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 3: just fucking.

967
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:24,280
Speaker 1: Scud blowing, you know, It's just it's fucking mind blowing.

968
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:29,839
Speaker 1: And we wouldn't be here without the incredible community that

969
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 1: we have supporting us, and our management and our therapists

970
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:39,720
Speaker 1: and our friends and Rush, our producing credible fucking producer

971
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:41,840
Speaker 1: who deals with us and has to make the cuts

972
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 1: every week on the podcast, and just so many people

973
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,399
Speaker 1: that have truly made this year probably the best year

974
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 1: of our entire lives.

975
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:57,920
Speaker 2: And I just I can't wait to live more life.

976
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 1: Lessons and share them with the chicks every single fucking year.

977
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 2: And I hope it never ends. I know we'll be

978
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:08,000
Speaker 2: doing twenty eighty four eighty four listens from twenty eighty four.

979
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 2: That'll be the whole show.

980
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 1: We'll have to do that for every episode. If you

981
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: actually put your peels behind your tongue, you get double

982
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 1: when we bring it round. That's my left ess and no,

983
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:25,880
Speaker 1: but truly and from like the deepest darkest points of

984
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:26,879
Speaker 1: our hearts.

985
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:28,399
Speaker 2: Thank you chicks for.

986
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: Having us in your ear holes. We really really love

987
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 1: to be here.

988
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 2: We do can't wait to get back in the twenty

989
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:35,760
Speaker 2: twenty five.

990
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 1: I'm tongue in your ear right now, can you feel it?

991
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 2: That was me? Because we are going to be taking

992
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 2: a short break over the Christmas period just to get

993
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 2: some R and R.

994
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but we'll have some episodes still going out that

995
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:52,719
Speaker 1: are our top highlights from the year that if you've

996
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 1: already listened to them, they're filled with a bunch of

997
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 1: reminders for you to take into twenty twenty five. If

998
00:51:57,480 --> 00:51:59,520
Speaker 1: you haven't listened to them, then enjoy listening to that

999
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,399
Speaker 1: for the first time. Yeah, exactly, everyone go read Phone

1000
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 1: of Class. Yeah, that's the one you need.

1001
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. Thanks, Chicks so much fun that these episodes are

1002
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:11,800
Speaker 2: always like one of our favorites and they're.

1003
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: Also favorite And we're really sorry for saying scuds so much.

1004
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:16,960
Speaker 2: I think new Chicks will get around it if I

1005
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:21,320
Speaker 2: know anything about you law scuds.

1006
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:27,920
Speaker 1: You know, like random from Chicks Discards. I'm down, down, done,

1007
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 1: and that's what we'll leave you on. Thank you so much,

1008
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 1: Chicks for having us in your eheals. We truly fucking

1009
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 1: love to be here. And shout out to MK made

1010
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:38,799
Speaker 1: and Rosh for always making these episodes of two Bro

1011
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:41,360
Speaker 1: Chicks happen so you in twenty twenty five. Chiggy Chicks,

1012
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 1: Love Yeah, Love Yah.