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Speaker 1: This podcast is recorded on gadigal Land, Always was, always

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Speaker 1: will be Aboriginal Land. Hey chicks, I'm out and I'm

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Speaker 1: sal and this is two broad Chicks, the show that

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Speaker 1: shares life lessons and tips to help make you rich

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Speaker 1: in life.

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Speaker 2: And we're back. It's another week.

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Speaker 1: I start every episode like that. I'm like, guess what,

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Speaker 1: You'll never believe it. It's another week. It's another Tuesday. Well,

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Speaker 1: today we have one of your favorite styles of episodes.

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Speaker 1: You chicks love a glow up episode to do sluts

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Speaker 1: for a glow up, slut for.

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Speaker 2: I'm a slut for a glow up. Yeah, I'm a

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Speaker 2: slut for a glow up.

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Speaker 1: And so we're gonna say what our glow up tips

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Speaker 1: are to glow up before the end of twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 1: And so as always with this it's very much inside

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Speaker 1: outside vibes, Like your life does not revolve around the

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Speaker 1: way that you look on the outside. It's on the

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Speaker 1: way that you feel on the inside. So always keep

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Speaker 1: that in mind with these episodes. You don't need to

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Speaker 1: change everything about you, as hannahmon Tanna says, you can

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Speaker 1: change your hair, you can change your clothes, you can

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Speaker 1: change your mind. It's just the way it goes. But

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Speaker 1: you'll always find your way back home. So true and

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Speaker 1: so right for that.

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Speaker 2: She was so right for that. How old was she

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Speaker 2: when she wrote that?

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Speaker 1: Did?

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Speaker 2: She wrote that, we don't know, but questions you don't.

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Speaker 2: Don't pop the bubble. Yeah, put that on a shirt.

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Speaker 1: If you believe something and that makes you happy, don't

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Speaker 1: pop the bubble with it.

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Speaker 2: You know what, I've always said, I fuck with a posibo.

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Speaker 2: I've always said.

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Speaker 1: I've always But before we get into it, we must

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Speaker 1: discuss obsessions of the week.

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Speaker 2: I'll obsas she yelled, my obsession of the week.

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Speaker 3: It's actually from a brand that we've partnered with, a Cosa,

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Speaker 3: and we did work with them on the live show

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Speaker 3: tour as well, So any of you chicks who came

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Speaker 3: along to the group Chat tour at all of the shows,

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Speaker 3: we gave away a bedroom makeover thanks to.

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Speaker 2: We did a sexy little quiz yeah, which was.

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Speaker 3: So much fun, and we worked with them a bunch

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Speaker 3: of times before. But as we've been doing content around

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Speaker 3: the Black Friday sALS and doing like our online shot

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Speaker 3: with us and whatnot, so many chicks have been reaching

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Speaker 3: out asking for where to buy mattresses and bedding on

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Speaker 3: sale this Black Friday. So I wanted to use my

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Speaker 3: Obsession of the Week as a chance to highlight that

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Speaker 3: particular Black Friday sale because they're doing up to thirty

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Speaker 3: five percent off and that includes like mattresses, bed frames,

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Speaker 3: sofa beds as well. We have one of their sofa

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Speaker 1: When we hit the three pm Slumpy Doodles, we've literally

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Speaker 3: But yeah, so I wanted to throw that out there

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Speaker 3: and make sure you chicks add that to your list

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Speaker 3: if you are in need of some new bedding or

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Speaker 1: Ah, what about you? Okay. Ession of the Week is

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Speaker 1: a new accidental find love like file this under products

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Speaker 1: that should be.

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Speaker 2: Viral but aren't. My favorite category of product.

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Speaker 1: And Sal and I were shooting some content for a

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Speaker 1: brand partnership and I had just like not brought any

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Speaker 1: So I was like, Oh, I need to go get

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Speaker 1: MISCA and I need to go get this so much

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Speaker 2: It always happens a like price line. It's like half fried.

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Speaker 1: So no ragrets, not a single letter. And this is

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Speaker 1: probably my new lipliner obsession. This flipliner is literally ten

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Speaker 1: out of fucking ten. It's the revolution peut bomb plumping lipliner,

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Speaker 1: and it's ten dollars. This ten dollars lip liner will

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Speaker 1: I hate the pencils because I'm like, where's my pencil

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Speaker 1: So this slipliner comes in ten shades. And when I

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Speaker 2: That's so good. It is so good. And they're ten bucks.

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Speaker 1: And I lose small products like lipliners and biscas and

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Speaker 1: The days of spending like sixty dollars on a lip

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Speaker 1: Stuck up on a shit ton because I'm scared this

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Speaker 2: So does it have like a plumping ingredient in it?

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Speaker 1: say that it does that. So these smooth, belvety lip

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Speaker 1: liners will define your lips with a warming tingle to

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Speaker 1: provide the appearance of plumper feeling lips, and they also

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Speaker 1: infused with vitamin E. Lovely lips look noticeably fuller after

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Speaker 1: didn't experience some like wild tingling, because I kind of

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Speaker 2: Let you see? Is that like a little sharpener in itself?

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Speaker 2: Wrap up the podcast. I've got to go home. That's

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Speaker 2: all you need to glow up before next year. Holy

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Speaker 1: There's also a clear Okay, I just want like the plumping.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, bitch, wow yeah. The future is here. The

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Speaker 1: And it's a plumping tend to look finer.

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Speaker 1: Let's rack this bitch, alrighty. My first tip to blow

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Speaker 1: do the financial hot Girl audit. I'm sad, she's sat,

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Speaker 1: She's sad, And basically it's called that to make it

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Speaker 1: But the end result is a financially savvy chick and

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Speaker 1: that's hot. The reason I included this was because I

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Speaker 1: saw a post saying it takes fifty five dollars a

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Speaker 1: That put the fear of God in me.

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Speaker 2: I think my heart rate just went up. Jake your ring.

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Speaker 1: Literally, I was like, holy shit, that start also put

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Speaker 2: You need to do a financial hot girl audit. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So what this is and I've kind of mapped it

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Speaker 1: your iconic, your chaotic, and your toxic money traits. So

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Speaker 1: number one, your iconic purchases. These are the things you

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Speaker 1: bought that genuinely improved your life. These stay they're the blueprint, Okay, right,

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Speaker 1: So example being like your kindle because you use that

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Speaker 1: ac DC. You know that one serum that you really

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Speaker 1: coffee pods, Polarates, membership that you actually use. They're your

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Speaker 1: iconic purchases. They're your guilt frey, gorgeous, stunning, amazing, They're

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Speaker 2: Ye. Number two is your chaos purchases. Oh god, these

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Speaker 1: Things that you bought in an emotional spiral, whether it

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Speaker 2: Babes, this round is on me. I love you guys

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Speaker 1: Personal Yeah, these are your not hot approved items and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the like eighty dollar foundation when you already have

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Speaker 1: have your joy to cost ratio queens. So the tiny

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Speaker 1: Okay, then we have your high ROI habits, So the

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Speaker 1: you're in a rich girl eerror. So the things that

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Speaker 1: sexy things like petrol that you're like, while these aren't

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Speaker 1: maybe the sexiest of items, and wheys that I spend money?

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Speaker 2: The ROI of how much I use it? That's there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they are like daily essentials exactly.

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Speaker 1: And then last, but not least, is your financial IX.

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Speaker 2: So the money.

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Speaker 1: Behaviors that you did this year that gave.

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Speaker 2: You the ick when you're in the shower and you.

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Speaker 1: Like remember it and you're like, oh yeah, the behavior

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Speaker 1: is that you're like, oh, I didn't want to check

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Speaker 1: to give me anxiety. So like ignoring bills, avoiding your

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So to recap iconic purchases, chaotic purchases, joy to

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Speaker 2: Dumb pimp, dumb pimp, dumb pimp.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, if that come on? Yeah, I would

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Speaker 3: because that's my only thing with tanning mysts because I'd

442
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Speaker 3: never tann my face. But I think I'm always worried

443
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Speaker 3: that I'm going to end up looking like Donald Trump

444
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Speaker 3: with like the white ring around my eye kind of vibe.

445
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Speaker 1: Because you're spraying it everywhere, so it kind of just

446
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Speaker 1: just wearing his hintint today I'm not wearing foundation. Wow.

447
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Speaker 2: Moving on to my next one, it is embody the

448
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Speaker 2: year of the Horse. I thought you were going to

449
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Speaker 2: say embody the year of the hawk.

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Speaker 3: That was like, yeah, maybe that too seasoned hours if

451
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Speaker 3: you know, you know, so you know, in the Chinese zodiac,

452
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Speaker 3: there's like a different of course, I'm I'm all over this, bitch.

453
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Speaker 3: Twenty twenty five was the year of the snake, so

454
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Speaker 3: that was all about like shedding a new beginning then,

455
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Speaker 3: and that which is really for you. Yeah, But twenty

456
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Speaker 3: twenty six is the year.

457
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Speaker 2: Of the horse.

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Speaker 1: And again I still keep thinking you to say, oh,

459
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Speaker 1: then you ruin it by putting this, I'm kidding.

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Speaker 2: Year of the whore the hoes.

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Speaker 3: It officially starts in February twenty twenty six, but I

462
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Speaker 3: was looking into this and what it means and whatnot,

463
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Speaker 3: and I was like, what's stopping us from embodying some

464
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Speaker 3: of these things?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: So the Year of the Horse, if you were born

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Speaker 1: in nineteen seventy eight, which I'm sure someone would be

468
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Speaker 1: listening to this episode if they born in that year,

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Speaker 1: nineteen ninety, two, thousand and two, and twenty fourteen.

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Speaker 3: Regardless even if you weren't, no matter what year you're in,

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Speaker 3: you can always embody.

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Speaker 2: No yeah, And that's not what I say.

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Speaker 1: I were like, if you're like, ooh, I wonder if

474
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Speaker 1: it's my year, then if you're in those year, then

475
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Speaker 1: double whammy exactly.

476
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Speaker 3: But the Year of the Horse apparently brings momentum, boldness

477
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Speaker 3: and forward movement. It's a fast, fiery energy that calls

478
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Speaker 3: you into clarity. And I saw this post and it

479
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Speaker 3: had a bunch of different words that are associated with

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Speaker 3: the Year of the Horse, so I can link that

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Speaker 3: in the show notes. But I picked out some of

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Speaker 3: my favorites and some of the words that I think

483
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Speaker 3: we can hone in on and embody the year of

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Speaker 3: the horse. Now we don't wait until February twenty twenty six.

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Speaker 3: So some of my favorite words in the list were boldness, movement, freedom, authenticity, courage,

486
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Speaker 3: and leadership. We were speaking with Jim when we had

487
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Speaker 3: her on the podcast recently. She was talking about how

488
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Speaker 3: it can be really powerful to do some of those

489
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Speaker 3: exercises where you have a series of words and then

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Speaker 3: you pick out a top three that you feel like

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Speaker 3: aligned with your values. And I thought that could be

492
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Speaker 3: a really cool exercise that you could do for the

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Speaker 3: end of the year, Like, what are some of these

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Speaker 3: words that I wan want to embody in this final

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Speaker 3: month of the year and then potentially carry into the

496
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Speaker 3: new year. And what I love about this particular theme

497
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Speaker 3: is that it is all about taking leadership and being

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Speaker 3: bold and like making scary decisions, but also that there

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Speaker 3: is freedom and authenticity in that and kind of just

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Speaker 3: like following what your heart is telling you to do

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Speaker 3: and not being scared to make some of those decisions

502
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Speaker 3: that might feel a little bit bold.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, I love that. Do you know

504
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Speaker 2: the story of the Chinese zodiac and how it was

505
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Speaker 2: like a race.

506
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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's one animal that cheats.

507
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Speaker 2: Oh what is it? Is it the mongoose or something?

508
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Speaker 2: What is it the rat?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

510
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Speaker 2: Of course, the year the Rat. I think I'm the chicken.

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Speaker 1: Characteristics of the rat intelligence and wit. People born in

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Speaker 1: the Year of the Rat are often described as smart

513
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Speaker 1: and quick witted. They're considered to be social creatures who

514
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Speaker 1: enjoy being where the action is. They're known for being

515
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:07,159
Speaker 1: intelligent and agile that helped it win the race and

516
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 1: become the first animal in the zodiac cycle. Rats may

517
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Speaker 1: be perceived as thrifty or even a bit mean, as

518
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Speaker 1: they prefer to keep their money within the family and

519
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Speaker 1: are very generous to loved ones.

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Speaker 2: Interesting.

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Speaker 3: I actually do feel like there are a lot of

522
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Speaker 3: correlations between that and even like an aries yeah, which.

523
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Speaker 2: I think is really cool.

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Speaker 1: I remember when I was a little bit like, yeah, rat,

525
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Speaker 1: you rat, whereas now.

526
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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm fucking rat. Yeah, yeah, bitch, Yeah, mine's

527
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Speaker 2: the chicken.

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Speaker 3: And some of the characteristics are observant, hard working, courageous, confident,

529
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Speaker 3: with a strong sense of responsibility and attention to detail.

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Speaker 2: Interesting, very interesting.

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Speaker 1: My final glow up tip to glow up before the

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Speaker 1: end of twenty twenty five is the micro joy method. Yes,

533
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Speaker 1: and I've been putting this together, i would say, over

534
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 1: the last month, and it's basically a theory for building

535
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: a life you actually enjoy one tiny, happy little thing

536
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 1: at a time. And it's the idea that your happiness

537
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:20,120
Speaker 1: isn't built from huge milestones or like personality overhauls, right,

538
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 1: because very often we have this like self improvement trap

539
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 1: from social media a lot, but just everything in life.

540
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 1: I think it's normal, but it shouldn't be to think

541
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 1: there's always a better version of you out there. This

542
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 1: micro joy method is like tiny personal and like weirdly

543
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 1: specific things that make you feel like yourself.

544
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Speaker 2: And this is this.

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Speaker 1: Thing that I've really been trying to lean into this

546
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 1: year of like what are the things that just make

547
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Speaker 1: me happy? And like those things where you're sitting there

548
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,120
Speaker 1: and you're like, fuck, I need to do this more,

549
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:59,159
Speaker 1: Like this is just so me and like, for example,

550
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: one of the things was like we went and saw

551
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 1: Wicked for Good this week and when we were like

552
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 1: literally having an aneurysm in the movie theater about like

553
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 1: the talent and the singing and the music, like I've

554
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,360
Speaker 1: always loved musicals, but like sitting there and I was.

555
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 2: Like I needed to do this more. You should like

556
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 2: join a community theater.

557
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,920
Speaker 1: No, I mean that I go and enjoy the art.

558
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, like go we should go watch like more community.

559
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: Yes, what are those like weird little things that are

560
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 1: so uniquely things that make me happy? And how can

561
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: I incorporate those more into my lifestyle? And so I

562
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 1: came up with the soul Snacks menu, so different to

563
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: the adopamine menu, which is built around completing tasks that

564
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 1: you need to do in order to increase your dopamine.

565
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 1: The Soul Snacks menu is a daily menu of tiny

566
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Speaker 1: things that feed your soul, not your productivity.

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Speaker 2: Love that right, yeah, I was quite trapped with myself. Actually, good,

568
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 2: thank you. This can go this. I can get forehead

569
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Speaker 2: kiss for this later.

570
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 1: So you want to think of it like an emotional

571
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: tap ass Oh yeah, I know, right. So a bite

572
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 1: is like a two to three minute joy hit. That

573
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 1: could be listening to your favorite song yep, right, the

574
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 1: Wizard and I from Wicked.

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00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 4: There you go, High Hopes, Bipanic of the Disco Oh yeah,

576
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 4: release me, yeah, rock DJ, Predigress, Thunderstruck, ACDC, come on

577
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 4: now right.

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Speaker 1: A snack is like a five to ten minute ritual.

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Speaker 1: This could be reading your book before bed, like one chapter.

580
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 1: This could be having your morning coffee, maybe putting bit

581
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: of cinnamon in it, h brown sugar, something like that.

582
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: And then a meal is a twenty plus minute immersion,

583
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 1: so it's when you're you're like, I'm doing this. That

584
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: could be going to the markets and thrifting.

585
00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 2: It could be going to the beach.

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00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: And going for a swimming, like your favorite rock pool.

587
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 1: It could be sitting down to watch your favorite movie

588
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 1: that makes you realize that, like, life's not that serious.

589
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: That's my final glow up tip is the soul Snacks

590
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: menu because I saw it on TikTok someone, I'll link

591
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Speaker 1: it in the show notes.

592
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 2: I love her content and she.

593
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 1: Said we're saving PDFs, not lives, and I was like, fuck,

594
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 1: you're so real for that. Yeah, like, yes, there are

595
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: very important things in the world that we all need

596
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 1: to like help one another and support and speak up

597
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: for what's right.

598
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Speaker 2: But as well, there.

599
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Speaker 1: Are also things that it's not that deep and that

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Speaker 1: three pm marketing email is not what makes the world

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Speaker 1: go round.

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00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's everyone's homework is to build your soul

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00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: snacks menu.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dm ye share it in the comments. I want

606
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Speaker 2: to know why you chicks are going to be nibbling. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I want everyone to comment their bite, their snack, and

608
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 1: their meal.

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00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 3: Cute.

610
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 2: Love it cute?

611
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: Should we get into the ro chick's hot line? Okay,

612
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 1: so we asked you chicks to send in your ways

613
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 1: that you feel like you glow up and that you

614
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Speaker 1: feel like your best, shiniest miss spark your self.

615
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 2: So let's get into them.

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Speaker 5: But if I'm ever in a room or have to

617
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Speaker 5: give a presentation and I'm feeling like really intimidated by someone,

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Speaker 5: I know the old saying is to picture them naked,

619
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Speaker 5: but I actually picture them doing a pooh, and it

620
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 5: just makes me feel like they're more human, and then

621
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Speaker 5: I feel better and more confident about myself.

622
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 2: I'm fucking done.

623
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Speaker 3: That is actually, that's amazing, amazing and terrifying, but it's true.

624
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 2: We all shit, that's amazing. That is really really good.

625
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 1: You know, the saying is to picture them naked, but

626
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: I actually picture them doing a poo. That's unwell, well

627
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 1: because in the best way, that's perhaps even more vulnerable. Yeah,

628
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: that's like how we always say when people like insecure

629
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Speaker 1: and it's like everyone's in a human body.

630
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Speaker 2: Kim Kardashian shits, yeah, she'd be pooping. Yep, she'd be pooping.

631
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Speaker 6: Okay, Hello, my name's Alexis and I've been following you

632
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Speaker 6: guys for a while.

633
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Speaker 2: I just wanted to say, you guys are doing great.

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Speaker 6: I love seeing all your videos and you guys are

635
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Speaker 6: getting really pig I just wanted to say thank you.

636
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 2: I love seeing all your stories.

637
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Speaker 6: In your reels.

638
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: There was no tip, but I love that.

639
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that's so swicey.

640
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 4: Cut.

641
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 2: You just glowed me up right now, Hey.

642
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 6: Chicks, my most random way of growing up is if

643
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 6: I spend like thirty seconds in the sun, I believe

644
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 6: that I am the most ten goddess Emma, and I

645
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 6: love hot and sexy, and I won't eat any more

646
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 6: ten than when I stepped outside because it's been thirty

647
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 6: seconds or five minutes, but I still feel so much.

648
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 2: Hotter anyway, Love you, love you bye.

649
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 7: This one's easy. Everyone already knows this. But when you

650
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 7: wake up, you're having a ship. Fake tin, had a

651
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 7: bad sleep, fake tin. Look in the mirror. Oh what

652
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 7: could make this out? Fake ten? It's simple, fake ten, instantly,

653
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 7: ten times hotter, animal effort, affordable. You gotta love it.

654
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 2: It's fake ten. Well from broke up with you, damn

655
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 2: quit your job. Faked Dan, stubbed your toe, baked Dan. Yeah, okay.

656
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 2: Final one.

657
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Speaker 1: This was a Sarah from New York, New York and International.

658
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Speaker 7: I get my lashes done, and I feel like a

659
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Speaker 7: brand new fucking woman.

660
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: That was everything to me.

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Speaker 3: More I get my lashes done, I'm a whole new

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Speaker 3: fucking woman, and I'm a whole new fucking woman. That

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Speaker 3: was maybe my favorite submission we've ever received.

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Speaker 7: I get my lashes done and I feel like a

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Speaker 7: brand new fucking woman.

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Speaker 1: Make that my fucking message tone right now. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I get my lashes done and I feel like a

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Speaker 1: brand new fucking woman.

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Speaker 2: Great. That's my vocal stin for the next two years.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Sarah, and thank you chicks.

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Speaker 2: Guts in your eels. We absolutely love to be here.

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Speaker 1: Can't wait to go put my lashes on fake tan

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Speaker 1: and then picture a bunch of people poeing.

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Speaker 2: We love you chicks.

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Speaker 1: Thank you' not t having in your ear holes and.

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Speaker 2: We'll catch you next time. See next time, chicky. Bye

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Speaker 2: bye