WEBVTT - The Surprisingly Worst Gigs Adelaide Has Seen 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:02.440 We got get Morning. 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:08.440 Every day Adelaide produces. 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:11.520 I'm not sure if you saw, but there's been chaos 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:15.560 in Nicki Minaj's world. Whatever the weekend, it's insane. So 0:00:15.760 --> 0:00:18.400 she's on tour at the moment. She had a show 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:22.360 in the UK and flying through Amsterdam. She got detained 0:00:22.680 --> 0:00:28.040 for having naughty substances in her bag. And the best 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:31.160 part was she live streamed, I listen, I'm not carrying drugs. 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:33.880 But it's not a question year I think. 0:00:34.159 --> 0:00:35.280 I'm not carrying drugs. 0:00:35.440 --> 0:00:35.879 Number one. 0:00:35.920 --> 0:00:40.559 When I came here, I'm not going in there. I 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:41.640 need a lawyer present. 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:45.120 You will get a lawyer. Sounds like she's carrying drugs. 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:46.640 They were trying to get her to go in like 0:00:46.680 --> 0:00:49.279 a little like a van, like a police order van. 0:00:49.680 --> 0:00:52.040 She's going, I will not go in there without a lawyer. Anyway, 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:55.240 they detained her, questioned her. She claimed they weren't hers. 0:00:55.360 --> 0:00:59.040 It was a plant. Let's say it wasn't like risky risky. 0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:00.480 So they led her off the hook. But by the 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:02.840 time she got out, concert missed. 0:01:03.000 --> 0:01:05.360 Oh no, so everyone rocked up. 0:01:05.600 --> 0:01:09.160 So everyone was there. They're called barbs Nicki Minaj fans 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:13.320 like Barbie's Barn. Yeah did that night. Yeah, she's got 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:15.760 a song called Barbie ting's not appropriate and over and 0:01:15.840 --> 0:01:19.120 so they're all called barbs. And they were so upset 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:21.240 that they left the concert and stormed our hotel and 0:01:21.319 --> 0:01:26.760 sat outside going free Nikki, free nikky movement. It was 0:01:27.000 --> 0:01:29.440 so free nicky. Anyway, she performed the next night, so 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:32.080 she's good to go. But she got us talking about 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:35.720 you know, those really let down concerts that you've been to, 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:38.679 because there was a phase, I swear where artists were 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:41.399 just coming out super late or canceling their gigs left 0:01:41.440 --> 0:01:43.760 right and center, like even last year some of the 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:46.080 biggest acts. We've seen it this year, you know, we've 0:01:46.120 --> 0:01:48.040 lost like the Weekend and all those sorts of acts 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:52.680 canceling their tours. But I've been to unfortunately many many 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:53.200 a bad act. 0:01:53.320 --> 0:01:55.840 Really, yeah, top one, the worst one you've been. 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:57.400 I've brought this up a few times and I will 0:01:57.400 --> 0:02:03.200 continue to. It's Angus and Julia's stone, very goodness, the 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:07.680 beautiles time, beautiful, and I've said it for us again. 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:09.760 They were not in the room with us at that concert. 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:13.080 Do you mean they were above the room so to speak? 0:02:13.120 --> 0:02:15.360 They were much higher than the room. 0:02:16.360 --> 0:02:18.600 I think what she means is that if they were 0:02:18.800 --> 0:02:22.359 to be detained in Amsterdam, there definitely would have been 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:23.560 something on their person. 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:26.840 It wouldn't have been released. So that was really disappointing me. 0:02:26.880 --> 0:02:29.560 They just they you know, they're so beautiful and amazing, 0:02:29.880 --> 0:02:32.360 so to see them they're just completely spaced out, not caring, 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:35.359 not engaging with the crowd. Super disappointed. Yeah, But then 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:37.400 I googled something to see what other people have said, 0:02:37.480 --> 0:02:39.680 and one of the top ones, which I was not expecting, 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:45.040 apparently Snoop Dogg. Do you think this would go off right? 0:02:45.320 --> 0:02:51.200 Absolutely? Every time you've seen Snoopjog he just goes off. Yeah, perfect, flawless. 0:02:51.240 --> 0:02:54.120 And by the way, I will also say, if he 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:58.360 was to take he would never be released in not 0:02:58.360 --> 0:02:59.680 coming out in perpetuity. 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:01.880 There's heads of them thirteen twenty four ten the worst 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:04.359 concerts you've been to. Lots of artists that are let down. 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:07.200 This I've never seen him, but producer m Setter and 0:03:07.240 --> 0:03:09.080 the rest of the internet as well, is Bob Dylan 0:03:09.440 --> 0:03:11.560 really apparently apparently awful? 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:13.640 I feel like Bob Dylan's got to the stage where 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:15.440 he's like, you know what, I don't really need to 0:03:15.480 --> 0:03:18.880 do much. Whatever I'm doing, they're loving. And also, if 0:03:18.919 --> 0:03:21.360 you really study it, listen to Bob Dylan in the 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:24.880 way that he plays the harmonica. Okay, he's just blowing 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:29.799 in it. He's just absolute chaos. And everyone's like, Oh, 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:31.800 that's how you're supposed to do it, because Bob Dylan's 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:34.440 doing it. He's at that level. Yeah, right for me 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:36.800 back in the day. And this was a Sydney gig 0:03:36.840 --> 0:03:39.000 as well, So if you can't get up and about 0:03:39.000 --> 0:03:41.000 for a Sydney gig, then you just you're just not 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:42.560 in the mood. It was Kings of Leon. 0:03:44.040 --> 0:03:45.720 Oh that was wrong with them. 0:03:45.760 --> 0:03:50.560 So they sounded fantastic. But as we know with gigs, 0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:53.240 the chat in between songs and the initial chat some 0:03:53.360 --> 0:03:56.800 it's really important. I've never seen anyone better than Ed Sheeran. 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:57.119 Yeah. 0:03:57.480 --> 0:04:00.720 The boy's just either not good at or just weren't interested. 0:04:00.880 --> 0:04:02.960 It came out and said hey, how's it going, and 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:04.520 I swear you look down at his guitar and went 0:04:04.920 --> 0:04:09.400 Sydney and then didn't say another thing for about four 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:11.680 or five songs. No way, And that was just heywire 0:04:11.720 --> 0:04:12.200 kings Allown. 0:04:12.320 --> 0:04:14.400 Someone did that last year. I can't remember who. Walked 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:20.679 on stage and went getta Sydney and Melbourne and guns 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:22.919 and Roses and then fun of them. Yes, it was 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:25.200 a big thing. Anyway, give us a call with your 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:27.320 worst concert experiences. 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:28.920 Twenty four ten. We want to hear about the worst 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:30.240 concerts that you've ever been to. 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:33.720 Surely in a space now where I mean music festivals. 0:04:34.080 --> 0:04:37.400 It seemed like Australian music festival on the decan hopefully 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:40.320 would be seeing shows that leave a good impression on us, 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:42.680 because the last thing you want is more stories like 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:44.880 that did you have with Angus and Julius? 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:48.080 So not over I bring it up regularly alright too. 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:52.160 It's every second day thirteen twenty fourteen. The worst concerts 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:54.159 you've been to? And why good morning to you Ellen, 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:55.080 worst concert you've been to? 0:04:56.279 --> 0:04:59.919 Morning? Guys. It pains for me to say about Britney Spears. 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:06.200 No, don't say so. Where was it at, like, was 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:10.440 it the entertainment center and she was an Adelaide No, that's. 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:13.039 Before I laid entertainment center. So it was in the 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:16.800 era where Christina was also touring. Was there canful of 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:20.720 years after Christina to it, Brittany came to Adelaide and 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:24.120 she's at the entertainment center, definitely not a sold out crowd, 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:26.520 and they did a bigg en upment over the PA 0:05:26.640 --> 0:05:28.919 before she started, just letting us all know that she 0:05:29.000 --> 0:05:31.880 left think the whole thing and that she was just 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:35.440 purely there for our supposed to be there and play 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:39.560 her music however, like she does entertain But it was 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:42.600 just disappointing, like when you compare it to the Christina era, 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:44.839 like Christine was just all go call it her concerts, 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:48.680 whereas Brittany was just all dancing. She did just sing 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:51.080 one song live, which was every time because it's her ballad, 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:54.520 but it was just by all this hype and huge 0:05:54.560 --> 0:05:58.719 Britney fans from when she was discovered in the early days, 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:01.040 and I was just like, oh, he's not actually. 0:06:00.680 --> 0:06:03.120 Gonna sing for me, so Ellen I was. I was 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:05.880 at that concert and I recall that the best thing 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:09.279 about it was DJ Havana before the show. She was 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:13.400 really really good. Yes, she was great, and then Brittany 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:15.839 came on and I was like, she genuinely is lip 0:06:15.839 --> 0:06:17.200 syncing this whole thing. 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:20.800 Yeah, it was just so disappointing, but that might be 0:06:20.920 --> 0:06:24.480 also stemming from when she was having those crisis issues 0:06:24.520 --> 0:06:30.960 of submissions. Yes, but when you compare it to Christina, 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:31.560 it was just. 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:35.479 Really so true. Thank you, Ellen, thank you so much. 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:36.479 Let's go to Rosemary. 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:39.279 Good morning, Good morning. How are you guys. 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:41.680 We're good. The worst concert you've ever been to? 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:45.600 Okay, worst concert was I took my kids pubbly years 0:06:45.600 --> 0:06:49.640 back to a play school concert TV. 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:55.560 I was so excited to go to this concert. 0:06:55.480 --> 0:07:00.480 And yeah, so we went along and it was terrible 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:04.360 becast like it wasn't the actual real play school people, 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:06.960 but it was you know people you know, like making 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:11.240 that to be play school. Yeah, characters there, and like 0:07:11.320 --> 0:07:14.120 they forgot the music, the songs. It was all over 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:17.960 the place. Like literally our spirits were laughing their heads 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:20.760 off because everything was going wrong and it was just yeah, 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:23.160 it was just crazy. The kids actually thought it was 0:07:23.200 --> 0:07:24.960 a comedy show of play school. 0:07:25.080 --> 0:07:27.880 Really, they were laughing so much. 0:07:28.280 --> 0:07:31.240 Ted and Jemia, No, you can't replace her. 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:33.320 There's no room for gimmicks when it comes to Big 0:07:33.360 --> 0:07:36.440 Ted and Jemima. We've said that for so long. So true. 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:38.360 The Big Clock as well, Yeah. 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:42.560 The Big Clock cheers. How dare they try and imitate 0:07:42.640 --> 0:07:44.440 such an absolute Aussie. 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:48.240 Doing ye Claire from Clamsy, don't even say it. You 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:48.960 can't say it. 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:53.840 Really, yes, I can say it. We went to the 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:57.880 s Pub seven reunion here in Adelaide and only two 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:03.200 of them turned out, and so I think Joe had 0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:06.600 gone into hospital and she's really the only one that 0:08:06.640 --> 0:08:09.240 can sing. So basically the crowd took over and we 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:10.280 performed for them. 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:14.280 My goodness, that's a nice result. But that's your big 0:08:14.320 --> 0:08:15.720 trouble and your main man's there. 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:18.960 Just a big disclaimer. Didn't they market it as S 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:21.800 Club four like before they even came out? 0:08:22.400 --> 0:08:25.000 I think it was five, and then it became three 0:08:25.120 --> 0:08:26.400 and then I don't know what. 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:28.400 Happened, and we didn't get what we paid for. 0:08:28.480 --> 0:08:32.680 That's doesn't sound like it. Oh, Claire, thank you so much. 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:34.800 Tash your worst concert easily. 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:37.320 I'm going to agree with Britain fears. 0:08:37.360 --> 0:08:38.439 That was my first ever. 0:08:38.320 --> 0:08:41.439 Consent and it was just the most disgusting. 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:42.000 Thing I ever watched. 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:45.720 Yeah, listening to her and she was the best thing ever. 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:47.880 And then I've seen her live and I was like. 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:48.480 What is this? 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:50.800 Yeah, it's disappointing. 0:08:51.920 --> 0:08:58.040 Katy Perry Perry imposal. I've seen her in Melbourne and 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:01.240 she came out and she was like that a little 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:03.720 bit excited, but she just seems so tired, like she 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:05.240 just couldn't be bothered doing anything. 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:07.680 Yeah. Right, it was. 0:09:07.640 --> 0:09:09.120 Just she was like just. 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:11.560 Grabbed the whole time, like she was really trying to 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:15.880 put on her exciting persona that she has, but then 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:20.440 she was just like oh come, she was dancing and everything. 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:21.960 It was just so boring. 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:25.520 This wasn't the whole Russell Brand. That wasn't because I 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:28.559 remember the documentary where she was going through so much 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:31.600 and then literally in tears. It's an iconic scene where 0:09:31.640 --> 0:09:35.880 she's cruising up the stage and has to flick a switch. Yeah. 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:37.680 Yeah, it may have been around that time. 0:09:37.960 --> 0:09:42.640 Okay yea. In the doco though, tash like she was 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:45.200 taking the phone call from Russell Brand where he's like, 0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:48.000 our marriage is done, and then she had to walk 0:09:48.040 --> 0:09:48.600 on stage. 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:51.880 It was outrageous, Monique, your worst constant. I feel like 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:53.000 this is going to hurt my soul. 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:57.040 The person you're about to mention here, Yeah it's Jack Johnson. 0:09:57.240 --> 0:10:05.559 Oh yeah really yeah, it was an absolute new fat 0:10:05.960 --> 0:10:09.920 What was it? Yeah? It was just his I mean 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:15.120 his songs are super mellow anyway. Yeah, he just has 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:19.080 no banter, So he just sat there with his guitar, 0:10:19.880 --> 0:10:23.400 song after song, no chatting. It was by the end 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:25.360 of it, we were just the crowd weren't even clacking. 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:26.200 We were all asleep. 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:28.600 Yeah, right, So what. 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:31.079 I will say is then defend Jack Johnson. 0:10:31.360 --> 0:10:32.720 Go on, you know you want to. 0:10:32.880 --> 0:10:35.400 And the last actually what I will say, which was 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:38.199 wasn't good for Jack Johnson years and years ago when 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:41.400 I saw him at Memorial Drive, Xavier Ride was starting 0:10:41.440 --> 0:10:43.520 to take off, but he wasn't where he was now. 0:10:44.240 --> 0:10:47.880 And Xavier Ride performed before Jack Johnson and dead said. 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:50.560 I was listening Monique, we might have med the same times, 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:52.760 and I was listening to people like, what about that 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:55.800 bloke before? He was incredible? Right, everyone was talking about 0:10:55.880 --> 0:10:57.680 Xavier Ride during the Jack Johnson concert. 0:10:57.800 --> 0:11:00.400 Maybe he was flat that Xavier was better than him. 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:03.839 Well, it's a very very different because it was outside 0:11:03.840 --> 0:11:05.920 and it was summer and it was warm. You know, 0:11:06.040 --> 0:11:08.240 you were just like this got to be amazing. And 0:11:08.240 --> 0:11:10.840 then I think the sun and the mellow nurse, it 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:13.360 was just we're all just kind of standing there just 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:14.200 like zombies. 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:17.560 Did you notice that weed smell as well? 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:28.360 It might have been there, Thank you, Minie has some 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:30.280 good solid feedback there for some of the artists. 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:37.240 Yes, you're waking up to Adelaide, what's news today? 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:38.800 Snooziness? 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:43.840 This amazing can be absolutely overwhelming. So what we need 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:46.920 to do is break it down the top stories from 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:48.680 the last twelve to twenty four hours. 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:50.560 Let's go a good morning. 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:53.720 So we are officially on Matilda's watch. 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:55.520 How exciting. 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:58.000 Yes, go to Matilda's and they're here. 0:11:58.440 --> 0:12:01.640 They're here right, so officially here. We have seen them 0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:04.439 in town. I'm not going to say where they're staying, 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:07.000 just for privacy reasons, just in case. 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:10.000 But yeah, the Matudas are here. It's ahead of. 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:14.400 Their friendly against China, so it'll be their final game 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:16.800 on Australian soil before they head to the Paris Olympics. 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:18.840 It's all about as well finding out who's going to 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:22.400 actually be playing and South I was. Charlie Grant is 0:12:22.400 --> 0:12:24.960 returning home to Adelaide for the curtain raiser, which is 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:25.640 very exciting. 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:28.320 No Sam Kerr, No Sam Kurr. She got ruled out 0:12:28.320 --> 0:12:29.040 a little while ago. 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:33.880 She's had what's ankle or al acl So yeah, so 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:37.520 they'll be playing on Friday nights. Already a sellout and 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:39.520 it's going to be pretty pretty big. 0:12:39.559 --> 0:12:41.319 I'd say it's so. 0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:42.920 Good sold out Adelaide. 0:12:42.480 --> 0:12:44.720 Open and we had forty thousand last night. 0:12:44.600 --> 0:12:45.120 For the footy. 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:47.440 That's ridiculous too, by the way, for a twilight game. 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:50.480 It's a very good result and it looked busy as well. Yeah, 0:12:50.559 --> 0:12:53.960 it's nice not nine points of the cross. What's about 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:58.320 for amateur football lovers on the weekend. Friday night is 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:02.440 though SCOTCHHO cv. Pembroke OC and there was an altercation 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:06.280 between a player and a spectator, a Scotch player and 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:10.560 a Pembroke spectator. Allegedly it's a Pembroke old boy as well. Yeah, 0:13:10.679 --> 0:13:13.240 came to blows bang so much so that they had 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:16.960 to abandon the game. What it's huge, isn't it. 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:21.240 When I called it off, I wonder what he yelled out. 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:23.160 It looked very very physical. 0:13:23.360 --> 0:13:24.280 What was the sledge? 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:27.800 Yeah, that's a good point, or tipped the player over 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:30.360 the edge. We'll talk about it a little bit later 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:33.320 on this morning, but she'll tell you what. It begs 0:13:33.320 --> 0:13:35.400 a question some of the things that you've seen on 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:39.160 amateur sporting fields as well. Yeah, like the abuse, the 0:13:39.200 --> 0:13:43.280 physical things that happened away and sometimes rarely in cases 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:47.240 like this when spectators and players come together, not in 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:47.920 a lovely way. 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:52.160 We had a sledge on the weekend for the Adelaide 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:53.920 Wilcotts See. 0:13:53.920 --> 0:13:56.560 I can't imagine what anyone that would have said badly 0:13:56.559 --> 0:13:56.960 about you. 0:13:57.080 --> 0:13:59.800 How do you sledge such a finely tuned bunch of athletes? 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:03.600 What I mean there was a sledge that was actually disgusting, 0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:05.800 though I think you told me at the netball if 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:10.599 my memory serves correct, Yeah, I did very disgusting, disgusting 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:14.200 And I don't know why people can't just sip their lip. 0:14:14.600 --> 0:14:17.480 Well, because people like you fall for it and completely 0:14:17.520 --> 0:14:18.080 stuffs you up. 0:14:19.120 --> 0:14:26.000 Fault. That is massive gas lighting from you. Someone said 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:27.400 something awful, gaslighting. 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:30.120 It's like Jody's like, please do not sledge me because 0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:32.560 I'll turn to an absolute mess, you know, Okay, as 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:35.000 an opposition player, then sure I'm going to sledge it. 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:41.200 It was after Jody went for the ball, and okay. 0:14:41.600 --> 0:14:43.680 I only had eyes for the ball. 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:49.160 I do not trust either one of you with information anymore. 0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:51.280 Wow, we just know that if we were if we 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:53.000 were on the other team, it'll be easy to get 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:53.600 inside your head. 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:55.880 Yea. Why we. 0:14:57.400 --> 0:14:59.480 We say one thing about your age or one thing 0:14:59.520 --> 0:15:00.760 about mania and you. 0:15:00.800 --> 0:15:01.440 Lose it and. 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:08.000 Do you know what? This is your fault? Trad alright, 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:11.680 that's gas lighting there, that's your post in those news 0:15:12.120 --> 0:15:15.400 some news that really shocked the golf community across the weekends, 0:15:15.520 --> 0:15:19.040 a few headlines. So two time PGA tour Grayson Murray 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:22.040 died on Sunday and his parents later revealed I think 0:15:22.120 --> 0:15:25.080 died by suicide. And you might hear something of that 0:15:25.120 --> 0:15:28.360 and say, well, why is this particular case unique. Well, 0:15:28.360 --> 0:15:30.800 there was a story and this is what touched me 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:33.280 that was circulating about it a year before that, where 0:15:33.640 --> 0:15:36.040 he's been battling mental health health for a long time, 0:15:36.560 --> 0:15:38.360 and that he said that he'd got the stage where 0:15:38.360 --> 0:15:40.640 he thought that he was basically over it. And one 0:15:40.680 --> 0:15:42.680 of the things that sort of resignated with a lot 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:45.000 of people is that he said, the biggest relief for 0:15:45.040 --> 0:15:47.720 me is that my father won't get a phone call 0:15:48.320 --> 0:15:52.520 telling him what's happened to his son. Anyway, long story short, 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:54.280 fast forward a year and his father has got that 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:57.680 phone call. So I got me thinking to a situation 0:15:57.880 --> 0:16:00.480 myself as well, and blokes in general, this is another 0:16:00.520 --> 0:16:03.240 one of those things where and this isn't an isolated situation, 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:06.960 It's an ongoing process with blokes about talking and communicating 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:09.920 and recognizing the signs with each other. And I know, 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:13.080 for me as a young bloke at around twenty five 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:15.120 twenty six, we had a really close friend from high 0:16:15.120 --> 0:16:17.680 school who went down this path. No one knew. He 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:20.960 just ticked off all these incredible life goals. It took 0:16:20.960 --> 0:16:23.480 his own life, and then you're left with the question 0:16:23.560 --> 0:16:26.800 of what could you have done differently to perhaps save 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:30.640 a life if only you'd known. It's a bloke thing 0:16:30.720 --> 0:16:32.600 as well. There are so many blokes and I know 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:35.720 mates who don't know how to deal with mental health. 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:37.720 There's a lot of people who don't know what to 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:40.400 turn to still in twenty twenty four, which seems crazy. 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:42.640 I feel like the stigma is gone in terms of 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:45.840 you being weak if you're suffering from mental health, but 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:50.800 clearly it's still an ongoing battle and blokes, we're not 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:53.880 good at talking at the best of times, expressing ourselves 0:16:53.880 --> 0:16:55.720 which potentially could save our lives. 0:16:56.040 --> 0:16:59.760 Yeah, I just so firstly, I'm so sorry you went 0:16:59.760 --> 0:17:06.240 through that's horrific. But I just feel like men need 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:09.960 to start talking about their feelings for goodness sake. It's okay, 0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:13.440 it's all right, there's no judgment anymore. 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:16.320 The thing and there's things like are you Okada, which 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:20.000 is really really good. But then what I seem to 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:23.240 find is aoka starts a conversation and your stock standard 0:17:23.240 --> 0:17:25.919 blow goes yeah, I'm fine, and then there might be 0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:28.520 a follow up conversation and there could be a percentage 0:17:28.520 --> 0:17:30.720 of blokes who say I'm fine and they're definitely not 0:17:30.880 --> 0:17:34.239 fine because they still think there's a stigma attached. And 0:17:34.280 --> 0:17:37.680 then let that manifesto and all sorts of crazy things 0:17:37.680 --> 0:17:41.040 could happen. I just think I can't imagine, as well 0:17:41.080 --> 0:17:43.919 as a parent, what you would go through if you 0:17:43.960 --> 0:17:48.359 did get that phone call. So yeah, I mean newsret Abbey, 0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:51.680 it's I mean, it's something that you would see a lot, 0:17:51.800 --> 0:17:54.720 particularly in the news room with statistics and news that 0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:57.560 comes through. But it's something that's it's not going to 0:17:57.600 --> 0:18:00.000 go anytime soon, but it really hurts. 0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:03.440 It's not and I feel like I've been touched by 0:18:03.440 --> 0:18:05.959 this and I've spoken about it before a friend of 0:18:06.000 --> 0:18:09.440 mine or someone who's in our family. He mentioned on 0:18:09.680 --> 0:18:12.440 social media a little while ago, that there's four men 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:16.320 in his friend group, or that he knows who has 0:18:16.480 --> 0:18:21.480 died by suicide this year and this year. And I've 0:18:21.480 --> 0:18:25.120 read that and I just thought, why are we still here? 0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:28.439 Why do we still see these numbers so high? The 0:18:28.480 --> 0:18:31.159 statistics are shocking, and I think just mental health in 0:18:31.280 --> 0:18:35.320 general is shocking. And we all are responsible for, Yeah, 0:18:35.440 --> 0:18:38.160 reaching out. If someone goes quiet, like I'm really badly 0:18:38.240 --> 0:18:40.560 known for it, my best friend, I'll go really. 0:18:40.440 --> 0:18:42.160 Quiet, and that's the big one. 0:18:42.560 --> 0:18:43.400 I'll go quite quiet. 0:18:43.400 --> 0:18:45.640 I won't be posting on social media much, that type 0:18:45.680 --> 0:18:48.120 of thing, and she now will sholl message and she'll 0:18:48.119 --> 0:18:50.080 goes everything okay because she'll see that. 0:18:50.400 --> 0:18:53.600 So we have to be better at reaching out. 0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:55.840 But also, yes, we do need to take some I 0:18:55.840 --> 0:18:58.679 guess personal responsibility as well. And I've had to do 0:18:58.680 --> 0:19:00.560 it plenty of times in my life. You go, hang 0:19:00.600 --> 0:19:02.200 on a second, I'm not okay and I need to 0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:03.000 go and get some help. 0:19:03.119 --> 0:19:06.000 Yeah, the stigma's gone. The stigma at one hundred percent 0:19:06.040 --> 0:19:08.680 in twenty twenty four, and it was their big time 0:19:08.720 --> 0:19:10.320 ten to fifteen years ago when I was coming through 0:19:10.359 --> 0:19:12.880 as a young man. It is gone now. So if 0:19:12.880 --> 0:19:15.480 you have mental health issues. There was not one single 0:19:15.480 --> 0:19:16.920 person on this planet if they came to me and 0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:19.120 said I'm battling that you would judge them and think 0:19:19.119 --> 0:19:22.120 that they're weak. Instead, straight away you'd go into this 0:19:22.680 --> 0:19:23.880 sort of save mode. 0:19:24.160 --> 0:19:27.120 It's actually it's actually really brave to say I'm not. 0:19:27.119 --> 0:19:28.480 Okay one hundred percent. 0:19:28.600 --> 0:19:30.600 I think there was a time where it was like, oh, 0:19:30.640 --> 0:19:33.120 if you can put your hand up and confessed I'm 0:19:33.160 --> 0:19:37.720 really struggling. I think now it takes an enormous amount 0:19:37.760 --> 0:19:39.919 of courage to say I'm not doing well. 0:19:40.200 --> 0:19:42.440