WEBVTT - "I Waited Months For a Dud Root!" || HOTLINE

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to the Where's Your Head At? Hotline, our

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<v Speaker 1>weekly show where we catch up with each other and

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<v Speaker 1>connect with you all on our hotline voicemail.

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<v Speaker 2>We want to hear from you, guys, so please send

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<v Speaker 2>at pod at gmail dot com to be featured on

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<v Speaker 2>one of our episodes. I'm Anna and I'm Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's jump in. Hello Matt, Good morning everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning everyone in Good morning Anna. I just wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to start off today though, by saying a massive thank

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<v Speaker 2>you for everyone about last week's episode. You haven't already

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<v Speaker 2>listened to go back. I had a very honest, raw

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<v Speaker 2>chat with you about my relationship with Jen and my

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<v Speaker 2>mental health and all that sort of stuff, and the

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<v Speaker 2>feedback from you guys is absolutely amazing. And that's why

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<v Speaker 2>I love doing this, because we have such a like

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<v Speaker 2>our audience. I feel so connected to them like they

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<v Speaker 2>I'd heaps of messages. I'm sorry if I haven't replied

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<v Speaker 2>to yours. There's obviously a lot, and it has been

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<v Speaker 2>an overwhelming week with that episode coming out, and I'd

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<v Speaker 2>like to thank everyone. We've got the Facebook group heeps

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<v Speaker 2>of people who have open conversations there, So if you're

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<v Speaker 2>not on that, jump on that. And it also just

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<v Speaker 2>as just go to show the audience that we have.

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<v Speaker 2>People have literally messaged Jen to message her and see

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<v Speaker 2>if she's all right. So like that's just how sweet

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<v Speaker 2>you guys are, and like I really appreciate it, So

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<v Speaker 2>thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>You've also opened up a conversation about ADHD and a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people have been able to relate to that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well. Yeah, I think ADHD for like my generation, your generation,

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<v Speaker 2>our generation in general was, and once before us was,

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<v Speaker 2>it wasn't really spoken about as when we were kids.

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<v Speaker 2>It was sort of like, and this sounds bad, but

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<v Speaker 2>this is my opinion of it. It was like that

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<v Speaker 2>guy in the corner of the classroom that had like attention,

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<v Speaker 2>like he would crack it at the smallest things and

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<v Speaker 2>was always getting into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Fro the taboo.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and it was just like a kid that would

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<v Speaker 2>get in trouble all the time. And it wasn't. But

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<v Speaker 2>there's so many traits and layers to it you don't understand.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think now with social media and the platforms

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<v Speaker 2>like this where people can openly talk about it, it's

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<v Speaker 2>getting a lot more understanding. And people are recognizing it

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<v Speaker 2>a lot more.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, our friends Matt and Tim are down in Melbourne

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<v Speaker 1>from Sydney and we had lunch with them. We actually

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<v Speaker 1>had so much fun that day. Anyway. They were also

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<v Speaker 1>talking about how ADHD is a spectrum, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you can have a few traits, you can have like

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<v Speaker 1>a middle amount, or you can really be at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the spectrum. And everyone kind of experiences it differently,

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<v Speaker 1>but so many people have it, and I think the

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<v Speaker 1>conversations that have taken place and people have started talking

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<v Speaker 1>about it, you know, even on TikTok talking about the

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<v Speaker 1>traits they have of ADHD, it has kind of made

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<v Speaker 1>people question and think a little bit. And when you

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<v Speaker 1>can relate to traits like that, you're like, wait do

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<v Speaker 1>I Even even with you talking about it, We've had

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation where I was like, I could have it.

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<v Speaker 1>I could have a mild version of it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's different in women as well compared to men. The

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<v Speaker 2>trait you were telling me that, yeah, they I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what the word would be. They don't flare up,

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<v Speaker 2>but they show differently through women.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you're saying it's a lot harder for women

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<v Speaker 1>to get a diagnosis of ADHD compared to men.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I think it's very not undetectable, but like

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<v Speaker 2>the traits, you can't recognize it as clear as clear

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<v Speaker 2>as with a blow. Yeah. I don't know, maybe we're

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<v Speaker 2>just not as stuff and yeah, no.

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<v Speaker 1>But it is interesting and we are definitely going to

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<v Speaker 1>continue these conversations that, as we've said, has been seeing

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<v Speaker 1>his psychologists, and if he does get the diagnosis, he's

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<v Speaker 1>obviously going to let you guys know, definitely touch on

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<v Speaker 1>how ADHD affects relationships and traits it maybe some of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners can look out for who could potentially have ADHD.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's definitely an interesting conversation that we will delve

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<v Speaker 1>way deeper into, but we're just waiting for that diagnosis. Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>how's your weekend been?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? It started off with a long, heavy lunch with

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<v Speaker 2>yourself and our good friends. Like you mentioned before, Matt

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<v Speaker 2>and Tim went down to the Gilson had some apparoles.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the food there is divine if you are in Melbourne.

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<v Speaker 1>The pepperoni and honey pizza. It sounds gross to me

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<v Speaker 1>at least, but once I tried it, I was like hooked.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so good. Was the octopus as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so good. Actually, funny thing was, so Matt picked

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<v Speaker 1>me up because he was actually driving, and I got

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<v Speaker 1>in the car and I was literally in the car

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<v Speaker 1>for five minutes before Matt noticed that I had completely

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<v Speaker 1>chopped all of my hair off. Like he was so

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<v Speaker 1>enthralled in his own chat and he was like blah

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah blah blah, and then he looked at me

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<v Speaker 1>and he went, you've cut your hair.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I said, nice hair. Yeah. Look, you know how

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<v Speaker 2>many times I don't notice that sort of stuff straight away.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not it's not on my radar. It's not the

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<v Speaker 2>first thing I think of. But yeah, it looks good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very short. This is the shortest my hair has

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<v Speaker 1>ever been, Like it's above the shoulders.

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<v Speaker 2>We're saying at dinner last night, it's more mature haircut,

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<v Speaker 2>do you reckon?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Someone said to me it looks like younger and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, okay, I'll take that.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, the word facisticated, sophisticated, sophisticated, it's got

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<v Speaker 2>more of that sort of vibe about it. I reckon, Yeah, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>A bit edgy, which I kind of like. I think,

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<v Speaker 1>like obviously I don't call.

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<v Speaker 2>A bob edgy. Not not a bob like that sort

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<v Speaker 2>of hair cut.

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<v Speaker 1>It is edgy. It's more like the style this is

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<v Speaker 1>like the hairstyle of now.

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<v Speaker 2>But then that wouldn't make it edgy. Edgy would be

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<v Speaker 2>like the non haircut. What do you define edgy as

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<v Speaker 2>as like out there?

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<v Speaker 1>No edgy is like cool, fashionable, that's what edgy is.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we've got the different definitions.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd say edgy is like out there against the like

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<v Speaker 2>against the grain, against what people are doing. That's edgy.

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<v Speaker 1>No edgy is like fashion forward, like look up the definition,

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<v Speaker 1>pull it up. Pull it up, I would say, edgy guys,

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<v Speaker 1>go to our Facebook page and let us know if

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<v Speaker 1>you think Matt or I am right with this definition.

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<v Speaker 2>It can be trying to appear tough or cool for

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<v Speaker 2>sake of being in saying behavior things that go against

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<v Speaker 2>the mainstream. I think we're both right here.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, this is my definition that I've found of edgy

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<v Speaker 1>taking coolness to its extreme and generally beyond the realm

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<v Speaker 1>of actual possibility, while at the same time it's seemingly

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<v Speaker 1>unaware of how ridiculous it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, what.

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<v Speaker 1>The start works for me? Of that definition and then

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<v Speaker 1>it's slowly, Well.

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<v Speaker 2>I've got one that has your staying ahead of things

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<v Speaker 2>in the media, and then another one that says things

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<v Speaker 2>that are against the mainstream.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how about we do this. Describe Anna's haircut in

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<v Speaker 1>one word on our Facebook page and if people say edgy,

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<v Speaker 1>then I'll know.

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<v Speaker 2>Edgy.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, Your weekend got heavy on Saturday, didn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So had a mate's engagement party, his fiance who

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<v Speaker 2>I used to hang out. I used to go to

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<v Speaker 2>this house a lot back in the day and party there.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like a perfect house for a party. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>an indoor pool, Like, there's heaps of like heaps of rooms.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a huge house. Yeah, and it was just we

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<v Speaker 2>I went there with my mates and I just got

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<v Speaker 2>out of control, you know, open bar. They had like

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<v Speaker 2>bar like waters there. Just got it out of control.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't drink with me, Matt and Tim on Friday,

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<v Speaker 1>but he went out.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a feeling Saturday night was going to get

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<v Speaker 2>like this.

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<v Speaker 1>So you only wanted to do one?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Only?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I had a feeling like I was with my

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<v Speaker 2>mates and we were like we're in the uber home

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<v Speaker 2>and we're like why are we the last ones to

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<v Speaker 2>leave everything? Like why are we always the last ones?

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<v Speaker 2>But we just have fun. We just love having fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you had fun. Tell me about your Sunday

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<v Speaker 1>because that's what I'm interested to hear about, because you

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<v Speaker 1>get the Sunday scary is bad.

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<v Speaker 2>I was in some nasty demons. I was just sitting there.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of Seinfeld was watched to try get me

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<v Speaker 2>feeling a bit better. Bed Yeah. Bumped into our content

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<v Speaker 2>producer and ber Coles, did you Yeah, didn't want to

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<v Speaker 2>just didn't really want anything to do with her. I

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<v Speaker 2>was just like, I'm sorry, I've got it, like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not doing I'm in places right now.

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<v Speaker 1>So you didn't want to show.

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<v Speaker 2>I did chat to her, but I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>feeling sore, like I'm sure I got up today as well,

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<v Speaker 2>and I had to get up today to go pick

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<v Speaker 2>my sister up from the airport. At like six o'clock

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<v Speaker 2>a flight landed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, So okay, we have to touch on what's happening

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<v Speaker 1>with your sister. She was in Bali, yes, and what's happened?

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<v Speaker 2>So she had a blister on her foot and she

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<v Speaker 2>also she was telling me when I picked up. There

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<v Speaker 2>was multiple things that she thinks could have happened to

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<v Speaker 2>it. It could have been the shower water. It could have

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<v Speaker 2>been that she was training, like doing gym training, and

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<v Speaker 2>she had her shoes off at one point in this

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<v Speaker 2>Like I did like fighting there, so she was doing

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<v Speaker 2>like boxing and had her shoes off. So she thinks

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<v Speaker 2>it could have got infected from the mats, like to swear.

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<v Speaker 2>She does all these different things that she think could

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<v Speaker 2>have happened to it. But she had a blister on

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<v Speaker 2>a foot that got infected to the point, you know

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<v Speaker 2>when it gets like black and pussy like they thought

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<v Speaker 2>they yeah black. She showed me a photo while I

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<v Speaker 2>was driving, So yeah, she went to the hospital in Bali.

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<v Speaker 2>They had her up to an IV trip. She's on antibiotics.

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<v Speaker 2>She's all right. She her foot's still there, but yeah, thankfully, thankfully. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>her friend was pretty good and acted on it pretty quickly,

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<v Speaker 2>Like saw Lara turning pretty quickly and like got up

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<v Speaker 2>and took her to the hospital.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something that's really scary about, you know, when you're

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<v Speaker 1>in a third world country and then if you get

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<v Speaker 1>really sick, it's very terrifying.

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<v Speaker 2>The first thing I said to was you know that,

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<v Speaker 2>like one hundred years ago, you would have died like that?

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<v Speaker 2>They people, Well, people died from just the slightest thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I imagine living like in medieval times, Like you get

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<v Speaker 2>a cut on your hand and that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're so lucky that we haven't antibioto I would have done.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have died of you. Tis twenty times over.

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<v Speaker 2>At least you'd been some strife. But like I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>that's mine. She actually said. The guy who she'll stay with,

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<v Speaker 2>her friend's boyfriend said the exact same thing. He's like,

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<v Speaker 2>you would die, Like that's how wild is that?

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<v Speaker 1>So she's just an arrived home in Melbourne. Is she

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<v Speaker 1>heading to like it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's going to go to the hospital, she said.

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<v Speaker 2>She just wants to rest for a bit, like like

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<v Speaker 2>she has a couple of extra days. So she's obviously

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<v Speaker 2>a police officer. So they've rested her and now she's

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<v Speaker 2>got days, so she's like, I'll go some point this week.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, it's fine, now they've given me the okay,

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<v Speaker 2>the blood test to fly.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm surprised you didn't follow her to Bali and and

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<v Speaker 1>if you said you were going to Bali I might

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<v Speaker 1>have enjoyed it, because I mean I would have loved

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<v Speaker 1>a little Bali get away. Everyone is in Bali at

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<v Speaker 1>the moment, and it's just making me so jealous. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so envious of everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never been to Bali. So I did say I

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<v Speaker 2>was going to go with her, and then she was

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<v Speaker 2>sort of like, no, you're not getting it. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to get away.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't want to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I'm not going to be like a family trip.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to go away. She had a wholesome trip.

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<v Speaker 2>She didn't drink musch, just like trained and all that

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<v Speaker 2>sort of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we should do a where's your Head at Bali trip?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that'd be good. That'd be good. Not a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of work, not a lot of work by the pool

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<v Speaker 2>in the villa. But back to my Saturday night, I

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<v Speaker 2>just want to tell a story real quick, because I

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<v Speaker 2>am so surprised that this behavior is still happening and

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<v Speaker 2>that like people are still doing this sort of stuff. Right.

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<v Speaker 2>So obviously I said that I used to be friends

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<v Speaker 2>with the girl who's who was my mates now fiance

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<v Speaker 2>and the engagement party, and.

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<v Speaker 1>So I used to have so it was an engagement party.

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<v Speaker 2>Engagement party yes, I thought it was just a house party. No,

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<v Speaker 2>there was an engagement party at the house. So I

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<v Speaker 2>know him. Used to play footy with him, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I used to be I used to date one of

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<v Speaker 2>this girl's friends, like see her and sleep with us.

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<v Speaker 2>We used to like party all the time. So I

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<v Speaker 2>was talking to another one of the friends when like

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<v Speaker 2>catching up. She's like, oh, it's so good. See I haven't

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<v Speaker 2>seen you in age. Remember when we used to party

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<v Speaker 2>here all the time. And we were laughing about like

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<v Speaker 2>old memories. And we're just like chatting, completely platonic, not

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<v Speaker 2>attracted to this girl on the slidest like not like

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<v Speaker 2>she's not mine, Like she's not like she's a friend,

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<v Speaker 2>she's a friend of mine. So like we're chatting, laughing,

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<v Speaker 2>and then.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this the person who's engagement party it is, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's another it's her friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, just to clarify, so it's her friend. And then

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like this push my shoulder and I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>what good, Like just because there's no one really around us.

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<v Speaker 2>It was from someone dancing bumping into me. And this

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<v Speaker 2>guy is short, like stocky guy. I've never met him before,

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<v Speaker 2>like tattoos, and she just likes me, who's this to

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<v Speaker 2>the girls? Like, who's this? Who's this? You're talking to me?

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<v Speaker 2>Like pushed me and I took a step back and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like what and he's like who's this? And

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<v Speaker 2>he was getting like real jealous and really intimidated by me.

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<v Speaker 2>He tried to fight me, and I was like what

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<v Speaker 2>the fuck? I was like, how is this behavior acceptable?

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<v Speaker 2>And then like, oh, what was it?

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<v Speaker 1>So it was the girls?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, it was her boyfriend. She's like, stop it,

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<v Speaker 2>stop at whatever his name was, you're embarrassing me. And

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<v Speaker 2>he's like, no, who's this, who's this you're talking to?

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<v Speaker 2>Who's this? I'm he introduced stuff my handmade I'm Matt

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<v Speaker 2>and like shook his hand and then I was like, look,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys obviously have some stuff you and discussed. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to leave you to it, and like I walked.

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<v Speaker 2>I walked off, and I was like like, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Where do you like touching her or something?

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<v Speaker 2>No, we're standing for obviously maybe talking because you're talking close, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>because there's music like you would be.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's got jealousy because it looks like you're potentially

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<v Speaker 1>going to make out us. But she's in his mind

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm just trying to pick She.

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<v Speaker 2>Said he does that all the time. So then later

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<v Speaker 2>on he left and she's like apologizing to me, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, look, I just said I said, Look, that toxic.

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<v Speaker 2>That behavior is toxic. And I'm surprised in like this

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<v Speaker 2>day and age people are doing that. Maybe when you're

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<v Speaker 2>eighteen sixteen you get jealous of your girlfriend talking to someone,

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<v Speaker 2>but not now like well, i mean not like that,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't do it like that, like that sort of behavior.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like I was like, look, it's your business.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not getting involved. Like it's like good to see you.

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<v Speaker 2>Take care.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, like if she knows that like he's cracking it

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<v Speaker 1>at her talking to like men, then well I mean

0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:45.600
<v Speaker 1>she probably shouldn't stop talking to men, but like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe just keep a bit of a like don't

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<v Speaker 1>talk too close.

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<v Speaker 2>To we're on the dance lt so like talking you're

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<v Speaker 2>on the dan Well we were on the corner of

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<v Speaker 2>the dance lot, so we went like dancing, were just

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<v Speaker 2>in the corner like chatting, and like it's like they

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<v Speaker 2>into the corner. There was it was completely the tiny

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<v Speaker 2>He was like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know, I'm just trying to like think either spread.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I was eating cabana sticks. She was the

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<v Speaker 2>twig and commands the cold meats and whore for cold meats.

0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:21.080
<v Speaker 2>I was more focused on them than her, you know

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<v Speaker 2>what I mean? So I didn't I didn't even like

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<v Speaker 2>share with a mouthful of twiggy sticks.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think it's it's not right to like try

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<v Speaker 1>and start a fight. Like imagine if you just turned.

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<v Speaker 2>Around and went w Yeah, I went just bowled just

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit more unhinged than I am, just the

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<v Speaker 2>tiniest little bit more unhinged, like I think, Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 2>would have been bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Like is that what happened to your finger? I think

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<v Speaker 1>I cut you off?

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<v Speaker 2>You know this actually happened opening a corona. I opened

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<v Speaker 2>like four coronas, and by the end my finger had cut.

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<v Speaker 1>It's got like three bandages. Do you know why it

0:14:59.280 --> 0:15:03.320
<v Speaker 1>looks like you're using circulation on that finger because those bandages,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's gone red. The top of his finger has

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<v Speaker 1>fully changed color.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to redo that. Is that my ring? No,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not my ring? Finger on the other hand, being

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<v Speaker 2>a finish stripe there, Yeah, that was from the coronas

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<v Speaker 2>so they could find a bottle like, so just cracked

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<v Speaker 2>and then all over my check.

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<v Speaker 1>Kayley Bieber, how she like does it with her teeth?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, she like opens beards with her teeth and

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<v Speaker 1>it like literally like I feel my teeth breaks cruly.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like actual like bottle Ones bottle. How does she

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<v Speaker 2>do that?

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<v Speaker 1>It's her party trick. I think she did it on

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<v Speaker 1>like a TV show Ones, And it just like even

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<v Speaker 1>my teeth are getting sensitive right now, Like I just

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't feel like I need to like put a hole

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<v Speaker 1>my parents past sense it under my if my parents

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<v Speaker 1>swimming to that, it would be getting a massive you

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<v Speaker 1>know how much we spent on braces.

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<v Speaker 2>Getting on them.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she can probably just like she might have

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<v Speaker 1>vin ears, so might her teeth be a bit stronger.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't they come off with the news because they're stuck

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<v Speaker 2>on okaynys, I don't have for news anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>I went to and Juliette on the Weekend with my girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>I touched on that last episode and said.

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<v Speaker 1>That you were going to yeah that I was going

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<v Speaker 1>and oh my god, this is my recommendation of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know I sometimes say this is my best recommendation,

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<v Speaker 1>but trust me, if you're in Melbourne, or if this

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<v Speaker 1>is coming to other states in Australia and you're Australia based,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to see and Juliet. Now, I went there

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<v Speaker 1>with my friends, like not really expecting big things. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been to a few musicals recently, like they didn't really

0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:41.400
<v Speaker 1>tickle my fancy. The only one that I loved was

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<v Speaker 1>Mulin Rouge. Did you see that one?

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<v Speaker 2>I saw it in London when I was last day.

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<v Speaker 4>We like it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I loved it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, It's like I.

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<v Speaker 2>Love the way they remix all the songs and that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and this is exactly like it. So I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna give it away. But basically it's kind of like

0:16:57.000 --> 0:17:00.880
<v Speaker 1>a take on like if in Romeo and Juliet, Juliette

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<v Speaker 1>sees Romeo dead and she's not like, fuck it, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna kill myself. She's like, I'm going to be a

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<v Speaker 1>strong independent woman and I'm gonna like, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. I'm gonna be sad for Romeo that he's

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<v Speaker 1>killed himself over me, and that's really sad for him,

0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:16.720
<v Speaker 1>but I'm going to it's very romantic because he's now

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<v Speaker 1>dead and I'm still alive, so I'm gonna like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Live my Best Life. It's kind of that type of vibe,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just so good. It's like the first musical

0:17:27.080 --> 0:17:30.320
<v Speaker 1>that I've seen that's kind of relevant to this day

0:17:30.359 --> 0:17:34.280
<v Speaker 1>and age, almost like there's lots of different little underlying

0:17:34.320 --> 0:17:37.840
<v Speaker 1>storylines that just make it so good. The music is amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't rate it more highly.

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<v Speaker 2>But I've forgotten, right Julie Romeo and Juliet a musical.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, there's music in it. I don't think they

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<v Speaker 1>don't sing. Yeah, I'm pretty sure maybe macutio things.

0:17:51.320 --> 0:17:54.359
<v Speaker 2>But anyway, bas learns are normally. I might have to

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<v Speaker 2>rewatch it. Actually, it's very good. The Leo one, Yeah

0:17:58.280 --> 0:17:59.640
<v Speaker 2>that's the one. Yeah, so good.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, guys, if you do decide to watch this,

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<v Speaker 1>there is a character in the performance. It's Romeo who

0:18:08.880 --> 0:18:11.480
<v Speaker 1>comes back to life. Now, I'm so sorry if that's

0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:14.960
<v Speaker 1>a spoiler, but I have to spoil this because you

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<v Speaker 1>know how on last week's episode, Matt was talking about

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<v Speaker 1>meeting his younger self. Well, whilst watching this performance, I

0:18:21.880 --> 0:18:24.800
<v Speaker 1>met Matt's younger self in the character Romeo.

0:18:25.160 --> 0:18:26.800
<v Speaker 2>Ohkauna.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't in a sauna, he was in the performance,

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<v Speaker 1>And I actually wasn't the first one to point it out.

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<v Speaker 1>My friend Sarah was She's like, this guy reminds me

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<v Speaker 1>of Matt. And after that all of my friends were like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, it's Matt. And once you think it's Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>it just makes it so much better, Like it's just

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<v Speaker 1>so good. So this guy he like rolls onto the stage,

0:18:48.160 --> 0:18:51.000
<v Speaker 1>he's like a head taller than everyone, obviously Matt sixty six.

0:18:51.600 --> 0:18:53.719
<v Speaker 1>He literally looks like you like I'm gonna pull up

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<v Speaker 1>a photo in a minute and you look at me. Great, yeah,

0:18:56.720 --> 0:19:00.560
<v Speaker 1>good looking guy, a head taller than everyone. And he's

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<v Speaker 1>like he says things like I'm just so good looking

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<v Speaker 1>and I just don't know what to.

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<v Speaker 5>Do with my life, chats to myself and then he's like,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just so overly emotional and I don't know what

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<v Speaker 5>to do with all of these big feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, am I watching that? Like it's it's almost

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<v Speaker 1>as if I've written this about.

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<v Speaker 2>Yourself Moonlight as Romeo in that in that production.

0:19:29.840 --> 0:19:33.239
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so like it's already a great musical, but with

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<v Speaker 1>that extra, that extra, it just takes it to a

0:19:36.520 --> 0:19:39.600
<v Speaker 1>different level. So please go and watch it, enjoy it,

0:19:39.600 --> 0:19:41.280
<v Speaker 1>and if you do watch it. I want to hear

0:19:41.320 --> 0:19:44.360
<v Speaker 1>your thoughts. Does Romeo remind you of Matt, because I'm

0:19:44.400 --> 0:19:45.639
<v Speaker 1>telling you I was seeing.

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<v Speaker 2>Double I'll have to go watch it. I was going

0:19:47.440 --> 0:19:49.240
<v Speaker 2>to go watch it over the weekend, but they're sold out,

0:19:49.600 --> 0:19:51.879
<v Speaker 2>so I just see myself to it.

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<v Speaker 1>For the second time.

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<v Speaker 2>I might need a chat, so you can show me

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<v Speaker 2>a photo of him? Yeah, sure, is there anything on

0:19:57.359 --> 0:20:01.679
<v Speaker 2>their Instagram of anyway? I can't find it on the

0:20:01.800 --> 0:20:02.520
<v Speaker 2>Facebook page.

0:20:02.560 --> 0:20:04.679
<v Speaker 1>Posted it on the Facebook page when I find it,

0:20:04.720 --> 0:20:06.120
<v Speaker 1>and you guys can let me know if it looks

0:20:06.119 --> 0:20:07.680
<v Speaker 1>like Matt, like a younger version of Matt.

0:20:08.000 --> 0:20:10.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I'm excited to see this guy. I want to

0:20:10.320 --> 0:20:12.760
<v Speaker 2>meet him now and say hello and have a chat

0:20:12.800 --> 0:20:13.200
<v Speaker 2>to him.

0:20:13.520 --> 0:20:13.720
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:20:14.440 --> 0:20:17.920
<v Speaker 2>So my recommendation. Okay, now this is a recommendation. Let's

0:20:17.960 --> 0:20:20.160
<v Speaker 2>just talk this out because I don't want to say

0:20:20.200 --> 0:20:24.480
<v Speaker 2>something and then everyone, you know, Cory's Matt. You've said this,

0:20:24.560 --> 0:20:26.119
<v Speaker 2>You've got to do it now, you know what I'm like,

0:20:26.160 --> 0:20:28.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm a man of my word. I don't want to,

0:20:28.359 --> 0:20:31.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, go back on what I say. Drive July.

0:20:31.840 --> 0:20:35.560
<v Speaker 2>We're in mid May. July is coming up. Should we

0:20:35.560 --> 0:20:38.800
<v Speaker 2>do it? Anna, it's my birthday on the fourth of

0:20:38.880 --> 0:20:39.760
<v Speaker 2>July as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was about to say, isn't it your birthday?

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<v Speaker 2>It is? So do you know what? Do you know?

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<v Speaker 1>The thing that I want to talk through with you

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<v Speaker 1>about drive July is like in Malbourtin, right, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>peak of winter.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's easy. Just do not drink or go out

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<v Speaker 2>or do you think it's hard, because I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think it's hard because you're bored, and like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I love doing? I love like going for

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<v Speaker 1>a nice like drink by a fire place or like

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like what else are.

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<v Speaker 2>We going to do? Well? I think that's the thing

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<v Speaker 2>you need to substitute, is something else instead of alcohol.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, I could do dry July.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not thinking about having a birthday party this year. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So I was going to do like a white Christmas

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<v Speaker 2>in July, but yeah, and get back a white and

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<v Speaker 2>like have like a white decorations on it and white

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<v Speaker 2>Christmas decorations everywhere, and then like get a white Christmas jumper.

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to do that, but I think it

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<v Speaker 2>might Like that's the next year. Why don't you do

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<v Speaker 2>it in June?

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<v Speaker 1>Like June thirtieth, the day before Drive Juli and then

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<v Speaker 1>we can get lip just before. Does that defeat the

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<v Speaker 1>purpose maybe?

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<v Speaker 2>And then you have the whole I'll have the whole

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<v Speaker 2>of July to recover from the hangover, have a month

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<v Speaker 2>or two or is it am I making this up?

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<v Speaker 2>Or do you get a pass whole pass in July

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<v Speaker 2>if you have an event or something you do?

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<v Speaker 1>But I think that's starting on the wrong foot because yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>when I there was Hall passes and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>can I have three Hall passes? And then you're meant

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<v Speaker 1>to pay like fifty dollars to the charity or something,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, Then I was like, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>taking four, and then that was every weekend and then

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden I was drinking.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah at all, it's not drive July. I'm happy to

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<v Speaker 2>do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I think I think I could be happy. I

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<v Speaker 1>think we should talk it through further, maybe go home,

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<v Speaker 1>do some research, do some research.

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<v Speaker 2>And it is six weeks away.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we should like get people to do it

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<v Speaker 1>with us, Like if the words head out fam did

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<v Speaker 1>it with us, then maybe we could all keep each

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<v Speaker 1>other on track and we could all do like a

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<v Speaker 1>driveg you lie together.

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<v Speaker 2>That would be good.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's pause on this. Let's guys, if you're keen,

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<v Speaker 1>head to our Facebook page.

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<v Speaker 2>Let us know. Because I'm looking.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we need at least like twenty people to

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<v Speaker 1>do it with us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I reckon. I think I could do it for twenty.

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<v Speaker 1>People, maybe like fifty. Should we off it?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's see what sort of reaction we get. People might

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<v Speaker 2>be like, noh, fuck it, I've got this.

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<v Speaker 1>What happens if everyone's like, yes, like we're so keen,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm not even that keen, But if everyone else

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<v Speaker 1>is key.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm keen, I'm the only keen because I just how

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<v Speaker 2>I'm feeling right now. Still got this Monday morning after

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<v Speaker 2>a big weekend, I've got this.

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<v Speaker 1>This Sunday series, Monday series even.

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<v Speaker 2>Followed me into Monday morning.

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<v Speaker 1>My brother is doing one hundred days sober at the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Involved he's like killing it. He's doing so well. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so proud of him. I think I've said this

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<v Speaker 1>before on the podcasts. He's been really doing well, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's never he's never done anything like that. In fact,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I've every done a month sober.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never done a month sober.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think we could do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I don't look forward to drinking anymore. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't go yes, I can't wait for like I was like, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't wait to go out and drink. I remember

0:23:41.400 --> 0:23:42.879
<v Speaker 2>when you were younger used to be like, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>can't wait to go out and you know, drink with

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<v Speaker 2>the mates and that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have that feeling anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I could tell when we were out on Friday, you

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<v Speaker 1>were kind of like, okay, I've had like two I'm

0:23:51.800 --> 0:23:54.160
<v Speaker 1>kind of good. I was like, whoa aperol?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, like I don't. I don't get that feeling anymore.

0:23:56.920 --> 0:23:59.400
<v Speaker 2>Like obviously, when you were at an event with your

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<v Speaker 2>best mate and you haven't seen them for like two

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<v Speaker 2>or three weeks, and you're chatting and then you then

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<v Speaker 2>one drink and then someone gets around and then it

0:24:05.760 --> 0:24:08.600
<v Speaker 2>keeps going. You forget how much not forget, but you don't.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not registering how much you're drinking. And then you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>fuck me, you know it's two am. You know, like fuck,

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<v Speaker 2>I think drinking and chatting for a while. So like,

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't look forward to it. So I think

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<v Speaker 2>I could do it. Yeah, check our calendars.

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<v Speaker 1>Put it out there. I think we should try guys,

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<v Speaker 1>head over to where's your head at fam Let us

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<v Speaker 1>know if you are keen to do drive your ask

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<v Speaker 1>it and let's get the chat happening on our Facebook trip.

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<v Speaker 2>Get like a charity thing going? Can we donate to it?

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<v Speaker 1>Or we could definitely do register. We could definitely do that.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let's look into that around that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's jump into our hot line. Hello, you've reached

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<v Speaker 1>Anna and Nutt.

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<v Speaker 2>We can't get to the phone right now, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Please leave us a message on our hot line after

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<v Speaker 1>the beep.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So our first hot line comes from Amber.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, I know Matte Amber here. I've got a bit

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<v Speaker 3>of a story about women being FBI. My friends called

0:25:05.280 --> 0:25:09.439
<v Speaker 3>me a private detective. I'm a hairdresser. I detective, but

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<v Speaker 3>it should be so. Last year I was I met

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<v Speaker 3>this guy online and we'd gone on a few dates

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<v Speaker 3>and hit it off. I had a really good connection,

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<v Speaker 3>and things started to get a bit strange. He kept

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<v Speaker 3>telling me that his phone would freeze and that he

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't reply for hours or be available for hours to

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<v Speaker 3>respond or call. And I thought, okay, fair enough, And

0:25:35.800 --> 0:25:40.680
<v Speaker 3>then he'd come over and his phone obviously wasn't freezing

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<v Speaker 3>while he was here, and then he went a bit quiet.

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<v Speaker 3>He sort of just drifted off for a bit, and

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<v Speaker 3>I thought whatever, and then he came back like two

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<v Speaker 3>months later and wanted to see me again. And I

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<v Speaker 3>just felt I kept saying to one of my best friends,

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<v Speaker 3>I just feel like he's seeing someone else, even though

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<v Speaker 3>he told me he wasn't anyway, So I looked at

0:26:04.880 --> 0:26:09.440
<v Speaker 3>his Facebook. I just like went into his friend's list

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<v Speaker 3>and randomly clicked on any like just a random girl

0:26:14.480 --> 0:26:19.920
<v Speaker 3>just had like a gut feeling, clicked on her photo profile,

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<v Speaker 3>looked at a photo, and he commented on there, basically

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<v Speaker 3>saying that he took the photo of her and what

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<v Speaker 3>a good photographer he was, I know, and ah, the

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<v Speaker 3>message show you're seeing David. His name was, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>have been seeing him for like the last nine months,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, okay, well I've been seeing him, but

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<v Speaker 3>like we weren't together or anything, but yeah, we slept

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<v Speaker 3>together multiple times, and I told her absolutely everything. We

0:26:59.720 --> 0:27:04.000
<v Speaker 3>share details. One a few of the times he left

0:27:04.600 --> 0:27:10.879
<v Speaker 3>her house to come to my house, and I like

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<v Speaker 3>screenshot everything and all the dates linked up and they

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<v Speaker 3>would have a bit of an argument, so he would

0:27:19.119 --> 0:27:22.960
<v Speaker 3>come organized to come see me, and he got caught

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<v Speaker 3>out and he was devastated when his darling girlfriend left

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<v Speaker 3>him and was angry at me. But yeah, get a

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<v Speaker 3>trust to get girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, Wow, men the pigs? Aren't they as.

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<v Speaker 1>Being caught out red handed? Do you know what's so

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<v Speaker 1>funny is like when guys think that they can disappear

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<v Speaker 1>and like women aren't going to pick up on it,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's very clear what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, obviously a phone freezing in twenty twenty three. iPhones

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<v Speaker 2>don't freeze for hours on end.

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<v Speaker 1>Especially when it's very conveniently only freezing. And she's not

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<v Speaker 1>with him. I think they ever did the right thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, you know, obviously she wasn't in a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with him, but he was in a relationship. How she

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<v Speaker 1>found that girl is pretty. I mean, she's a very

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<v Speaker 1>good FBiH It.

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<v Speaker 2>Almost sounds fluky almost to click on a random one

0:28:17.760 --> 0:28:20.000
<v Speaker 2>that you think looks like maybe it looks like his

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<v Speaker 2>type and it.

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<v Speaker 1>Looks like then, if you think about it, if someone

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<v Speaker 1>has social media right and they're like cheating on you

0:28:26.480 --> 0:28:29.000
<v Speaker 1>or they're seeing someone else or whatever, they've got to

0:28:29.000 --> 0:28:31.640
<v Speaker 1>be following that person, So then you do have kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like a list of people.

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<v Speaker 2>Some people are just dumb though, going and commenting like

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<v Speaker 2>that's just stupid, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's his girlfriend, so of course.

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<v Speaker 2>He's going to call. Yeah, of course, of course get together.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what I hate about David the most

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<v Speaker 1>is that he blamed her when the girlfriend broke off.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, David, no, Like, you're the one who fucked up,

0:28:54.600 --> 0:28:57.360
<v Speaker 1>and you need to like you deserve the consequences of that.

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<v Speaker 2>What a pig? David is not cool behavior, bro. The

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<v Speaker 2>next Hotline is Anonymous Love an.

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<v Speaker 4>Anonymous Hi, guys, I am reaching out in regard to

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<v Speaker 4>a recent Hotline episode where you were talking about a

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<v Speaker 4>long distance relationship kind of coming to fruition and when

0:29:19.280 --> 0:29:22.440
<v Speaker 4>you finally get to meet that person or see them,

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<v Speaker 4>and if the physical act kind of lives up to

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<v Speaker 4>the fall and things that have happened prior. I just

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<v Speaker 4>had my own experience here recently, and I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>You might enjoy.

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<v Speaker 4>I started talking to somebody in December of last year,

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<v Speaker 4>and we were very long distance, and this was the

0:29:43.000 --> 0:29:47.080
<v Speaker 4>first person that I had really talked to and engaged

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<v Speaker 4>with since ending my engagement, and so I had been

0:29:51.320 --> 0:29:54.959
<v Speaker 4>with that person for four or five years, and so

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<v Speaker 4>I let this new person know that I really wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>interested in anything serious, but I open to talking to

0:30:01.640 --> 0:30:05.320
<v Speaker 4>him getting to know him. So as time went on,

0:30:06.080 --> 0:30:09.160
<v Speaker 4>we you know, had a little bit of dirty talk

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<v Speaker 4>and a little bit of phone sex.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not really my thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not super confident in that, but it definitely went

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<v Speaker 4>there a few times. And so after two or three

0:30:20.200 --> 0:30:24.160
<v Speaker 4>months of talking, the opportunity finally arose for us to

0:30:24.200 --> 0:30:28.840
<v Speaker 4>meet up and see each other in person. So I

0:30:28.880 --> 0:30:33.239
<v Speaker 4>flew to him essentially, and I was looking forward to it.

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<v Speaker 4>I was excited, obviously, after that long We had talked

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<v Speaker 4>about things that we like and things that we prefer,

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<v Speaker 4>things that are good for added, different things like that,

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<v Speaker 4>and when we did actually finally have sex, it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was not good.

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<v Speaker 4>Not only did it last no more than forty five seconds,

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<v Speaker 4>just you know, he just didn't really allow me to

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<v Speaker 4>do the things that I had let him know that

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<v Speaker 4>I liked. And I guess we just kind of assumed

0:31:08.640 --> 0:31:10.960
<v Speaker 4>that when we have those discussions and put those things

0:31:11.000 --> 0:31:14.840
<v Speaker 4>out there, that maybe they would be inclined to let

0:31:14.920 --> 0:31:17.960
<v Speaker 4>you do what's good for you and that most definitely

0:31:18.000 --> 0:31:18.760
<v Speaker 4>did not happen.

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<v Speaker 1>So I didn't want to completely judge.

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<v Speaker 4>Him on that one experience because we had gotten along

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<v Speaker 4>well and I enjoyed our conversations for the most part,

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't want to just, you know, completely judge him

0:31:33.000 --> 0:31:39.040
<v Speaker 4>on the physical technicalities. But when I got back after

0:31:39.080 --> 0:31:42.920
<v Speaker 4>we had visited each other, you know, every now and then,

0:31:43.120 --> 0:31:45.840
<v Speaker 4>it would escalate again to like some dirty talk and

0:31:45.960 --> 0:31:51.120
<v Speaker 4>phone sex, and I just couldn't help but imagine how

0:31:54.080 --> 0:31:59.240
<v Speaker 4>less than exciting the actual physical act was. And I

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<v Speaker 4>just realized I got the massive ick and I could

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<v Speaker 4>no longer entertain this person as like a romantic interest

0:32:07.400 --> 0:32:12.200
<v Speaker 4>because the actual physical part had just been so not good.

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<v Speaker 4>So all that being said, I would have to disagree

0:32:17.080 --> 0:32:21.400
<v Speaker 4>with you guys that sex is always good and sex

0:32:21.520 --> 0:32:25.040
<v Speaker 4>is sex, because in my experience, I certainly should have

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<v Speaker 4>done a little more research.

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<v Speaker 1>Or maybe it's just a trial and error thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, but anyway, I hope you guys enjoy

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<v Speaker 4>the story, and I love your podcast, so have a

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<v Speaker 4>good one.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely enjoyed that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, so so we were talking about that

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<v Speaker 2>on the hotline about long distance when you finally mete

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<v Speaker 2>up with someone. Is the sex as good as all

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<v Speaker 2>the hype has led up to be.

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<v Speaker 1>I think for him it was people in forty five seconds.

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<v Speaker 2>But he's a question if you've spent months talking to

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<v Speaker 2>someone online getting to know him, I've invested all this

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<v Speaker 2>time and energy, is it worth like maybe giving him

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit of training. But then she said she

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<v Speaker 2>already told him stuff so.

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<v Speaker 1>And he didn't pick it up. She wasn't He wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>picking up what she was putting down. Almost maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>have to walk him through it. He was probably just

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<v Speaker 1>bad in bed, Like, Okay, look, there are definitely people

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<v Speaker 1>out there who just aren't good in bed, don't have

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<v Speaker 1>the rhythm, don't know how to use the junk in

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<v Speaker 1>their trunk.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, there's more than just the dunk.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people can't be helped.

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<v Speaker 2>They just don't get it there, And.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly this guy is the small one percent of people

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<v Speaker 1>who can't be helped. I feel bad for her because

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<v Speaker 1>clearly there was a big build up. She was obviously

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<v Speaker 1>very excited to see him. Look the forty five second little.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's excusable.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's I think that's kind of hot because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you're so into me that you could not

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<v Speaker 1>hold on longer than forty five seconds.

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<v Speaker 2>Three months of phone sex, and that he'd be razed

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<v Speaker 2>ready to go. He was rasped.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he should have, like, you know, a.

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<v Speaker 2>Quickie by himself before.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a thing like? Do guys like do a

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<v Speaker 1>tactical Yeah, a tactical wank before if they're like very

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<v Speaker 1>excited about a girl because they don't want to like

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<v Speaker 1>come too fast.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember when I was living with my mates. I

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<v Speaker 2>was just getting ready for a date and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have to have a tactical a tactical wang. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I ran to my bedroom and they were just like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh okay. I came back maybe a couple of minutes,

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<v Speaker 2>five minutes later, and I'm like, I'm all good to go.

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<v Speaker 1>And then did you get lucky that night?

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<v Speaker 2>I did, and you didn't remember much of the sex.

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<v Speaker 2>We're pretty drunk, but at least seconds like him, it's

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<v Speaker 2>just a tactical, smart one. Yeah. I know men that

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<v Speaker 2>do it. A lot of men do that. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 2>thought that I don't swear by it, like it's not

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<v Speaker 2>something that I would be like that we all do.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just I think they're in the right situation.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you have a tactical wang, does that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of make sure that you don't come early or can

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<v Speaker 1>you still come early?

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<v Speaker 2>It really depends. That would come down to like the environment,

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<v Speaker 2>the situation, and how how hot it was, how like

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<v Speaker 2>good things were. I sometimes this has happened before as well,

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<v Speaker 2>You've had a tactical and then you struggle to then

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<v Speaker 2>get like as horny again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I was thinking that as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sometimes you're like fuck, like you know, if it's

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<v Speaker 2>too soon to the tactical wank, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you can't get it out, which is another problem.

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<v Speaker 2>So men have a lot of dramas to that sort

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<v Speaker 2>of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of stress as.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of technical thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly this guy just didn't have the technique that she needed.

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<v Speaker 1>And also it just doesn't sound like he was listening

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<v Speaker 1>to what she was saying. Maybe he was a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a MEMI me focus on me.

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<v Speaker 2>Should she take the lead though and like literally like

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<v Speaker 2>step him through it?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe like over the phone, she had kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>built up this like sexy image of like and also

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<v Speaker 1>not just she he had built it up of like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm going to do this to you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to do that to you, and she's like, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is hot, and then she's like, I'm really into

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<v Speaker 1>this guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Always that's my motto.

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<v Speaker 1>But then when he actually got to it, he couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>do all of the things that he promised, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was just a bit like, isn't what I was sold?

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<v Speaker 1>This is not the dream I was sold.

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<v Speaker 2>So he's gone wrong, Like Salomon, average time and deliver

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<v Speaker 2>a best the best time in their life, which is

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<v Speaker 2>actually mediocre, but it feels like the best because you've

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<v Speaker 2>sold him. Watch out for that, ladies.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, thank you for that anonymous message. Also, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>if we've said something on our hotline that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>agree with, we want to hear from you. That was

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<v Speaker 1>really fun to kind of delve into and kind of

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<v Speaker 1>dig deeper into topics that we've already covered.

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<v Speaker 2>I stand by my comments. Sex is like pizza, it's

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<v Speaker 2>still good. Sex is sex that's still good.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean when it only takes forty five seconds and

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<v Speaker 1>they're not going around two, maybe it's not as good

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<v Speaker 1>as you know it could be.

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<v Speaker 2>Have a glass of water and get back on it.

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<v Speaker 2>Get back on the hard, get back on you.

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