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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatable.

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Speaker 2: There's definitely there's one hundred percent places where it's so

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Speaker 2: normal to get rejected and all your friends go, hey,

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Speaker 2: I try, Yeah, like we've been there.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate the effort, like we've been there.

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Speaker 2: But then in Australia, for some reason, if you go

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Speaker 2: up and put yourself out there trying to get a

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Speaker 2: girls number and she says no, and you go back

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Speaker 2: to your friends, they're like relatable.

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Speaker 1: A Relatables podcast is hosted by myself Whatdy Clark aka

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Speaker 1: my partner in crime, mister Jake Craig aka Daddy. I

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Speaker 1: have a confession already, Yeah, what is it?

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Speaker 2: I have been hell bent, like I'm I'm I'm setting

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Speaker 2: my ways of with a few things just before we're

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Speaker 2: talking about like Spotify, Yeah, is like the one I

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Speaker 2: prefer to use, right and hell bent, I'm like, gott

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Speaker 2: you spotifylah blah blah. But like an Apple iPhone, hell

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Speaker 2: bent on you got to use an Apple iPhone or

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Speaker 2: else that's just gross, weird judge. Yeah, big coals guy,

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Speaker 2: same coals over Woolies, always have been, went to Willies

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Speaker 2: on the weekend, hands up, kind of better than Coal's no,

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Speaker 2: no way we're not gonna lie, Bro, I have options

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Speaker 2: on options on options, and it's cheaper. No it's not,

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Speaker 2: it is, No, it actually is. And I was like

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Speaker 2: wigging out. I was like saying to Beth while we're

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Speaker 2: in there, because we just ran in there. We went

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Speaker 2: somewhere that had a woolies and we were just gonna

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Speaker 2: run and get stuff dinner. I was like, yeah, a couple,

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Speaker 2: we're doing this, but whatever, the green the same. I

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Speaker 2: don't like the green.

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Speaker 1: But but while.

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Speaker 2: I was in there, I was looking around and I

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Speaker 2: was going, what the fucket that it calls for?

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Speaker 1: Way? I was like, Beth, what's going on? She's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: well this is actually pretty sick because she's also cold.

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Speaker 2: Cole's girly. But Bro, I that.

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Speaker 1: I don't like change. So you right now look at

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Speaker 1: you when we record this podcast, and you normally have

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Speaker 1: long hair and it's luscious, like like Tamblin. Don't to him, bro,

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Speaker 1: long blonde hair. But now I don't like the change.

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Speaker 1: I got a yeah, who are you?

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Speaker 2: I just really humans we hate change, we do, isn't

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Speaker 2: it weird? So humans hate change but also love change,

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Speaker 2: So we hate change, but we also like we always

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Speaker 2: want something new.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're always think the grass is green. Yeah, like

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Speaker 1: nothing's ever good enough. We always we always want something better.

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Speaker 2: But if it's the equivalent, like you, Yeah, but I

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Speaker 2: went and I yeah booked in a restyle restyle. That's

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Speaker 2: actually what I booked in on the website for the

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Speaker 2: barber like hair blah blah blah blah blah. Bookedn't restyle

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Speaker 2: and it was cost more and I know it's best

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Speaker 2: like you ward friends like restyle. I shot him a

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Speaker 2: video and he was like, yeah, cool, we have a

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Speaker 2: crack a crack, but no, I just was snocking. Lie

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Speaker 2: sick of my hair in the winter too, Yeah, cold,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, it's just sick of the long hair.

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Speaker 1: It's just hard for me.

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Speaker 2: The moment I almost I almost kind of got your haircut,

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Speaker 2: not surprised, And you know it's wild. The shorter hair

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Speaker 2: sits on the widow's peak. One gust of wind and

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Speaker 1: My fucking hairline. Bro, like that Pilot game.

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Speaker 2: It's like hair, yeah, where you can get DHD blockers,

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Speaker 2: but your libido plummets. But I just I just keep

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Speaker 2: telling people, just gonna go Turkey.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, where I hat.

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Speaker 2: It'll get to the point where I'm always wearing a hat,

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Speaker 2: and then get to the point where I go, I'm

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Speaker 2: just gonna do that all inclusive thing Turkey.

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Speaker 1: Why not? You can come with me, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You can get something done. I'll record it, you can

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Speaker 1: record it. I'll get like my beard done, get your

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Speaker 2: But also we can just go get like some baby

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Speaker 1: Yeah, come back looking like Michael Jackson while we're there.

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Speaker 1: While we're there, we may as well get our teeth done.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's probably like a full service like hair, teeth,

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Speaker 1: Remember on Patreon how you asked me what I would

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Speaker 2: I would come back a fucking different Yeah, like our

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Speaker 2: are kicking things off hot. Yeah with the ig question

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Speaker 2: of the week. Yeah, let's get fucking sexy. Eight.

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Speaker 1: This one is juicy juice, sexy sex. What would your

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Speaker 1: ex boyfriend search history be? This one got a lot

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Speaker 2: I went in depth as well on the toilet getting

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Speaker 2: I actually want to say why something Beth, does Cassie

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Speaker 2: Okay, Ben has this thing where she loves my opinion

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Speaker 2: you were taking a ship. And she's like, I was

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Speaker 1: I was downstairs in that toilet just because I was downstairs.

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Speaker 2: I was like, closed downstairs that toilet and she comes down,

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Speaker 1: Ship boundaries, Babe, this is my save place. Looks great

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Speaker 1: when you close it. What other response a you're going

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Speaker 1: to give? I just didn't. I just think And then

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Speaker 2: Okay, what would your ex boyfriend's search history be?

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Speaker 1: It would be my new boyfriend's name. Wait, you don't

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Speaker 2: One thing I've proud of myself about is that I

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Speaker 3: Oh I do, like you're one, but you meant your

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Speaker 3: I have one X yeah fair, I mean I've got two.

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Speaker 1: And I don't think I ever looked them up. It's

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Speaker 2: But the two exes have had when they've both moved on,

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Speaker 2: they've moved on to people that I've never met and

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Speaker 2: I'll delete it if not. After I said girlfriend one

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Speaker 1: So really that's my first girlfriend. Yeah, people have told

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Speaker 1: like there's no comparison. Okay, yeah, a downgrade though, that's

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Speaker 1: So it is different people. So she basically just changed

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Speaker 1: her tea. I ruined for it. Ruined. Okay, what would

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Speaker 1: your ex boyfriend search history be? How to tell if

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Speaker 1: you're a narcissist. Quiz If you're asking the question, you

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Speaker 1: your ex boyfriend and he's got a quiz and it's

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Speaker 1: just like, am I a narcissist? That's crazy? I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to lie. This might sound crazy, but I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: Now again, the word we need to be using is

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Speaker 2: self efficacy. Everyone has some sort of self efficacy.

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Speaker 1: And you need it in life. But the word nas

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Speaker 1: What would your ex boyfriend's search history be? How to

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Speaker 2: Is he doing it on purpose? I think that's what

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Speaker 1: Must have been trying, all right. What would your ex

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Speaker 1: your girlfriend finding out? Fuck? Heavy, so that happened. I

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Speaker 2: What would your ex boyfriend searches three be? Is it cheating?

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Speaker 1: it's cheating. What can the end of that sentence be?

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Speaker 1: Is it cheating if I kissed another just got her number? Yes? Yes, emotional?

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Speaker 1: What's one that isn't Is it cheating if she grabbed

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Speaker 2: To be fair, no, like if you if it was

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Speaker 1: Have you seen that trend on TikTok? And I was like,

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Speaker 1: girlfriends go up to their boyfriends really quickly and be like,

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Speaker 1: pretend I'm going the club. Oh yeah, And then guys

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Speaker 1: like the way I'd fail that the ones where the

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Speaker 1: boyfriend spits in the girlfriend's face obviously is stage. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: The way that if I was cooking in the kitchen

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Speaker 2: a girl's gonna come up, because like you can't no

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Speaker 2: one's reactions act quickly. I'd be like, uh yeah, I

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Speaker 2: in fast paced Beth is coming.

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Speaker 1: Also the my current boyfriend Trent, yeah did that to me.

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Speaker 1: I saw one. What was your reaction?

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Speaker 2: She so?

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Speaker 1: She said, like my current boyfriend thinks, I what are

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Speaker 1: you talking about? Mine wasn't great. If I didn't see

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Speaker 1: the TikTok I don't reckon, I would have picked up

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Speaker 2: What would your ex boyfriend search history be? Chatch ept

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Speaker 2: and like getting maggot and it's just like they keep

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00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 2: coming up on my.

433
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 1: Saw one bungee jumping. It's got like one million lines.

434
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:10,240
Speaker 1: Really yeah, it's fucked bro. Fuck that's crazy. It is

435
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:14,119
Speaker 1: scary to be honest. Okay, what would your ex boyfriend

436
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:16,360
Speaker 1: search history be? How to get a girl well having

437
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:17,159
Speaker 1: commitment issues?

438
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:26,199
Speaker 2: Damn, I wonder what the answer would be, should we

439
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 2: like ask that.

440
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 1: Get a girl with commitment issues? Let's see what type

441
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:35,359
Speaker 1: of advice chachipt please say? It says it's not a

442
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:36,919
Speaker 1: good time to get in a relationship if you have

443
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:40,439
Speaker 1: commitment How to get a girl while having commitment issues?

444
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:47,880
Speaker 2: Commit issues? If you have commitment issues and you're trying

445
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:51,160
Speaker 2: to get into a relationship or even just connect meaningfully

446
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:55,359
Speaker 2: with a girl, the key is honesty, clarity, and self awareness.

447
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 2: Here's a no bullshit breakdown.

448
00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 1: A number one.

449
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 2: Figure out what you actually want if you're not ready

450
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 2: to commit own that.

451
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: This is actually good advice.

452
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 2: Okay, it's actually good advice.

453
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 1: Okay.

454
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 2: I wonder if you'd been the same if you went

455
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:13,159
Speaker 2: to Google though, I like how Google now gives you

456
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 2: a little aie AI.

457
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 1: Honestly, I think.

458
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:21,120
Speaker 2: I got one more same. What would your ex boyfriend

459
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 2: search history B? How to be top one percent of

460
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 2: all men?

461
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 1: Just videos and you take them up and all that. Ship.

462
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:33,239
Speaker 2: Bro, here's my online course. Just be yourself, man, know

463
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 2: how to be top persent? How to be top percent

464
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:35,479
Speaker 2: of all men?

465
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 1: Started on like, Okay, this is my last one. I

466
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 1: wasn't going to put it in because you understand why,

467
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,919
Speaker 1: but I think it's so real that I have to

468
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 1: put it in. Damn. Okay. I think a lot of

469
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 1: curls might relate. What would your ex boyfriend search his

470
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 1: three B? How young is too young? WHOA? Yeah?

471
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 2: Wow fuck that's crazy. The answer is like super obvious.

472
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 1: Yeah obviously wow. It gives you the he I reckon.

473
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 2: If someone's like asking that question, that's when the FBI

474
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,439
Speaker 2: agent on the other side should should really intervene.

475
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you reckon? That's the thing like when people

476
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 1: search like scary stuff like police or something, there's no

477
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 1: way of knowing. Is that no? Ikon?

478
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 2: There is there's probably there's like ways to search stuff

479
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:28,919
Speaker 2: up without being tracked.

480
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: But if you're stupid and you do it.

481
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 2: Just on like an open Safari or Google or whatever

482
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,640
Speaker 2: you'd hope. So I reckon that they can figure shit

483
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 2: out and be like stuff gets flagged. Yeah, I reckon

484
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 2: stuff will get flagged all the time.

485
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 1: Imagine your ex boyfriend is flagged.

486
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 2: That was nice and juicy, that was sexy, that was fun. Anyways,

487
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 2: what you know, are you going?

488
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 1: Yeah? How am I going? I feel like I've asked

489
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 1: you that today. I feel like you haven't asked me

490
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 1: that in a while. I'm kidding. Ah, Overall, I'm feeling fine,

491
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:10,440
Speaker 1: but I actually have this weird feeling at the moment.

492
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try and describe that I haven't really felt

493
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 1: before in my life. And I think it's a relatable

494
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 1: feeling actually, and I don't think. I don't want to

495
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:20,679
Speaker 1: speak for you. You tell me how you feel at

496
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 1: the end, you feel the same way. So this feeling, firstly,

497
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 1: my analogy is like a Scuby Do kind of scene. Right,

498
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 1: it's good, that's good. I'm like stuck in the middle

499
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: and there's two walls like coming from each side with

500
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 1: pressure and they're about to squish me, and I put

501
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 1: like a broomstick in the middle I'm like, scuby, you

502
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: can be shaggy, and it's like starting to split. Yeah,

503
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,159
Speaker 1: it's starting to split, and the walls are coming together,

504
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: and the pressure is just building up on me and

505
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: I'm feeling like I don't know what to do.

506
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 2: I'm shay, yeah, I want to Scubyu, be cool, please

507
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 2: be fred what nah?

508
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:57,400
Speaker 1: True? You look like man, I'm shaggyry. Yeah, I'm a dog.

509
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 1: But still so I'm feeling the pressure and I don't

510
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,119
Speaker 1: know what to do in this situation, like I'm stuck here.

511
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: And the analogy I just said is so right now,

512
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 1: I'm twenty four and coming up in my life. I

513
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 1: think these things I'm looking forward to are like having

514
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:22,959
Speaker 1: a house, having kids, moving out with my girlfriend, maybe renting,

515
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,159
Speaker 1: all a lot of things that take a lot of

516
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 1: financial commitment and lock said person down. And I am

517
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: looking forward for all of that, but also right now

518
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,679
Speaker 1: I don't have any of that, and I'm kind of

519
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: in this unknown pressure zone where I feel the urge

520
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 1: that I got to do something before I commit to

521
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: all of that.

522
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 2: Oh, like some I'm crazy, Yeah yeah, so do you

523
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 2: mean like go overseas or some shit.

524
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: Like kind of it's kind of the same mindset we

525
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:59,360
Speaker 1: had before we traveled for three months up the East

526
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:01,359
Speaker 1: coast of Australia. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, And I don't

527
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 1: think it has to be the same answer of going

528
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 1: traveling for a long period of time. But I think

529
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 1: I have this feeling that I have to do something

530
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 1: before I get locked in. But I'm also not scared

531
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:14,159
Speaker 1: of being locked in. Yeah, but I'm just in this

532
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 1: middle ground of the broomsticks just holding on.

533
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

534
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 1: I don't know how long it's going to hold before

535
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 1: all those pressures just fucking.

536
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah you feel because I know you're right, I

537
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:31,160
Speaker 2: don't feel like that, and I have and I am renting, yeah,

538
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 2: and I live with my girlfriend, and I don't feel

539
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 2: like that.

540
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: Well, I think maybe you should do it, because you won't.

541
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: I don't feel like that. You probably no, But I'm

542
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 1: thinking I want to do these things before. Like, so

543
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: maybe you're a few steps ahead of me. You live

544
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 1: with your girlfriend, that's life on a race, Yeah exactly,

545
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 1: but you have a dog, you're renting. Like theoretically, if

546
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: you were to said to have that feeling of going

547
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 1: to do something, you kind of not being mean you

548
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: can't do it. No, No, no, I think I can't

549
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 1: do something on a whim. Yeah, so, like I can

550
00:28:58,240 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 1: still do whatever the fuck I want. The only thing

551
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 1: to be fair.

552
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 2: The only thing I can't do when the women is

553
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 2: go away, like unless Beth and I, like, because Beth

554
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 2: and I we could well for my job, at least

555
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 2: we can up and leave best jobs. She would have

556
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 2: to give some notice. But like if we just wanted

557
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 2: to go away in Australia, we could take Henry. So

558
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 2: to be fair, the only thing I can't do is

559
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 2: go overseas is because we'd just have to get someone

560
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 2: to look after Henry.

561
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so.

562
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 2: You still there are still solutions yeah yeah, yeah.

563
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 1: So like I think I just don't look at it

564
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 1: as like.

565
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 2: To me, as like a problem because if I really

566
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 2: really wanted to go.

567
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 1: Do something, I would still go do it. I still

568
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: don't see it as a problem. Like I'm looking forward

569
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: to all those things in my life, but I'm at

570
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 1: the phase where I haven't made a single bit of

571
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: commitment to anything. We have, like obviously my.

572
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 2: Girlfriend girlfriend, Yeah, but we got car, we work together,

573
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 2: yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah, that commitment.

574
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean kind of like financial commitment and that

575
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: stuff is just like because like for example, these example

576
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 1: is when I buy a house, I'm going to have

577
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 1: like a fucking by the time I buy one, a

578
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 1: million dollar alone. Yeah yeah, I'll have a fucking a

579
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 1: hund to underka and then it'll be a million dollar alone.

580
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. And at that point, yeah, I've got a

581
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 1: gold brother. That point, I'll be like, I'm logged in.

582
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's ways around it, but I don't know.

583
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 1: I just feel like that's a relatable feeling, especially for

584
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 1: a young person.

585
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 2: Anyone listening. It's like a lot of people listening would

586
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 2: still live.

587
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: With their parents. I do. I've made that conscious decision.

588
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: I have a nice little setup which is my own

589
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 1: space at home, and I'm saving a lot of money.

590
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I don't know how many commitment and one

591
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 1: of the also another purpose of that is I can

592
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 1: go away and not have to pay rent. And I

593
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: don't know just before I commit and do all those

594
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: things that are beautiful in life, and I admit that

595
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 1: I just have this feeling that I've got to do something,

596
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 1: but I don't really know what it is. I wonder

597
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: what you should do. I don't know. I don't know

598
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 1: what it is. I've got to get thinking because also, like,

599
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: like a ten day trip somewhere doesn't do anything for me.

600
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 1: I don't like that, Okay, Like I feel like I

601
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know what it is.

602
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 2: But like here's the thing is, like I guess to

603
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 2: be fair, if you want to go do something and

604
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 2: train and get rid of this fucking urge.

605
00:30:58,280 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 1: But you know the urge I'm talking about when we

606
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: weren't traveling before that, how were you feeling like I

607
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 1: had to do something? Yeah?

608
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 2: Right, I don't have that feeling right now.

609
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie like I don't want to do anything.

610
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 2: I love being home, my favorite place. I was supposed

611
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 2: to go play golf with Beth Dad and I was

612
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 2: I just like worked up until then. And then Beth

613
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 2: called me like perfect timing as I was walking out

614
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 2: the door to leave, and I was like, oh, she's like.

615
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 1: I was like, I was about to walk out of

616
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 1: the door to leave. She goes, it's.

617
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 2: Raining, and I was like, oh fuck, I haven't left

618
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 2: all day. It's like it's been a good day for me,

619
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 2: Henry mate, it just been a good day for me

620
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 2: and Henry.

621
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 1: But then I had to cancel golf, but so like, yeah, genuinely,

622
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do anything. Maybe you were just like an

623
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 1: old person golf, not leaving the hair. Maybe I don't

624
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 1: know that urge trying.

625
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 2: I remember the urge because I had a girlfriend, and

626
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 2: I remember we were like twenty twenty one, we might

627
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 2: have been twenty one, and I do remember having a

628
00:31:55,240 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 2: girlfriend at the time, and the urge I had for

629
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 2: some random reason, which is probably an immature feeling and thought,

630
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 2: was I need to go do this without a girlfriend.

631
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 2: So you're not having that exact feeling, but you have

632
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 2: a feeling of like before you feel like you need

633
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 2: to go do something.

634
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 1: Okay, But so I actually I do relate to the feeling.

635
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 1: But what could it be. I think the solution might be.

636
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 1: I definitely want my girlfriend to be involved. Maybe we

637
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: have on the cards going to England and maybe doing

638
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 1: a business trip and then after that go do a

639
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 1: little bit of soul searching. Okay, so balance a little

640
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 1: bit of a balancing act, because I do want to

641
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 1: go to Europe, and it's a lot easier before you

642
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 1: have all the financial commitments. But I reckon, If I reckon,

643
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 1: you should fucking do a couple of little short trips.

644
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: I am pimping my car out to do camping trips. Yeah,

645
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 1: I see what I really want to do is ayahuasca. Okay,

646
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: I really want to do that.

647
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 2: That don't help?

648
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like that's a trag.

649
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 2: I think you should do a little one weeker to

650
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 2: New Zealand and just look at the ones because it's

651
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 2: like you could do a lot of little ones that

652
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 2: aren't too expensive. But again, like you're saying, like you're

653
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 2: saving money, right, You've been saving good money living at home,

654
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 2: and so we've always had like if you're unless you're

655
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 2: gonna actually properly save for a house, or you're gonna

656
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 2: put all the money you have into fucking stocks or something.

657
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 2: I don't know, it's like, what's that money doing for

658
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 2: you apart from just sitting there. You may as well

659
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 2: go get experiences with it. You should do a bunch

660
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 2: of short little trips. Do a short trip to like

661
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 2: you can do Japan in a week, you can do China.

662
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 2: You're probably in more than a week. But like, just like,

663
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 2: spend all your fucking money while you have no financial commitment,

664
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 2: and then come back, save again, and then move out.

665
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: I've always had the mindset that I need to be

666
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 1: like confident in myself as a person. Yeah, and experiences

667
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 1: I've had before I get locked in completely.

668
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can definitely still make experiences when you have

669
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 2: said commitments, but it is a lot harder, like there's

670
00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 2: a lot more planned.

671
00:33:58,160 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

672
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just more planning yea. Yeah, yeah, bit more saving.

673
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 2: Like I'm just a free soul at the moment, and

674
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 2: I got to use it.

675
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

676
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: So it's like, to be fair, you have a great problem. Yes, yeah, yeah,

677
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 2: it's like you have a great problem. I reckon, bro,

678
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:14,239
Speaker 2: I reckon. Just fuck for the next year. We'll just

679
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 2: like every now and then you'll just go away and

680
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:17,879
Speaker 2: we'll pre record for when you're away.

681
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 1: Just go do shit.

682
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 2: Yeah I know, I know, because that's that's at least

683
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 2: the only thing I can think of, because everything else

684
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 2: right when it comes down to because I guess the

685
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 2: main thing is like the financial Like you're saying you

686
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 2: don't have any proper financial commitments yet, like rent or

687
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 2: a house payment or or a car payment stuff like that.

688
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 2: So if it's about finances, yeah, I fuck, it's spend

689
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 2: all your money.

690
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Yeah, I think I need the

691
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 1: experiences and my body or my subconscio subconscious is asking

692
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 1: for something. But maybe I'll think about it a little

693
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 1: bit more. I definitely think there's gonna be a lot

694
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 1: of camping trips on the cards, but maybe I'll come

695
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:58,320
Speaker 1: back with a little plan and see, yeah, I'm feeling it.

696
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:01,359
Speaker 1: Give us an update. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah about

697
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:07,240
Speaker 1: Youah Bro, I'm chilling. I'm not gonna lie. I'm chilling.

698
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 1: I'm still in my appreciation of life phase. Hopefully that

699
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 1: doesn't leave. Can I ask you a question? So to interrupt,

700
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,359
Speaker 1: you spoke on when we went on our trip, you

701
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 1: left said girlfriend here, maybe an immature decision. What do

702
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,839
Speaker 1: you reckon? The mindset shift was because I know you

703
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 1: are definitely in a more healthy and happy relationship now.

704
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 1: The shift was to be like an entity with said

705
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: girlfriend now and do everything together m opposed to you

706
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 1: were still on your solo journey and felt like you

707
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:41,359
Speaker 1: had to travel alone back then.

708
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 2: I don't know, I maybe just like life experience. Maybe

709
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 2: like maybe I just actually love.

710
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 1: Beth and my ex girlfriend. It just like wasn't real love.

711
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,760
Speaker 1: Maybe do you reckon? Your version of love was different though? Yeah,

712
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 1: because when you were dating the xous I felt like

713
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:03,280
Speaker 1: you in love. Yeah, yeah, and I felt very heartbroken

714
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: when I tried to get it back and she said no,

715
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 1: like genuinely, I'm not afraid to admit that yet. And

716
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:14,320
Speaker 1: I went through it, and you know what, maybe I

717
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 1: actually don't. I don't have a proper answer.

718
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 2: I do remember just thinking, like when I met Beth,

719
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 2: and she'll say the same thing. It's like, we obviously

720
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 2: love each other, but at the same time, I'm still

721
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 2: not afraid to be alone. If I broke up, I'd

722
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 2: be probably sad for a while, but I'm like genuinely

723
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 2: not afraid to be alone. And there's like some sort

724
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 2: of freedom in knowing that.

725
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 1: So I guess not speaking for you, but you hadn't

726
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 1: found your independence yet prior to that, and you were

727
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 1: searching for it. I don't know.

728
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 2: It's an interesting it's a good question. I don't know

729
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:46,839
Speaker 2: what's different about me now.

730
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: I definitely remember the mindset, the immature mindset when we

731
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:56,440
Speaker 1: were younger, feeling there's some like masculine urge to be

732
00:36:56,560 --> 00:37:01,240
Speaker 1: alone and do things by yourself. There's definitely that stigma

733
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 1: that men should do things by themselves and be completely competent.

734
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And we've said before that I went through

735
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 2: a phrase where I was like thinking I had to

736
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 2: go do Europe on my own backpacking, But the thought

737
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 2: of it back then was like I feel like I

738
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 2: want to do it. I convinced myself I wanted to

739
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 2: do something that because I thought that's what's like people.

740
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,399
Speaker 1: Needed to do to grow as a human. Yeah. Same,

741
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 1: But now I'm more than.

742
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 2: Happy to admit that I I literally will never spend

743
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:24,320
Speaker 2: a night in the hostel.

744
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 1: I refuse, I'm not.

745
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 2: I've never been in one, and I don't think it

746
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 2: sounds appealing. I think people that do it actually have

747
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 2: a lot of respect from me. I couldn't do it well.

748
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 1: I think there's definitely that stigma, especially for young men,

749
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: like I was saying, to be completely independent and competent

750
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 1: on your own. But like now, I how do I

751
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 1: say what I'm thinking? I couldn't think of anything better

752
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 1: than doing a six week Europe trip with my girlfriend.

753
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 1: But that back then my mindset would have been like

754
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 1: I've got to do this alone. Yeah, I have to

755
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:57,880
Speaker 1: be independent. I'm a man to figure this out. Yeah. No,

756
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:00,919
Speaker 1: you're right, I like I would prefer to do something Beth. Now, Yeah,

757
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,400
Speaker 1: it's weird. Maybe it is we found our independence and

758
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: we don't know where we found it, and we're confident

759
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:10,880
Speaker 1: in ourselves unknowingly. Yeah shit. I think there's something really

760
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: special about also being a man and being able to

761
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 1: ask for help or ask your partner, anyone in your

762
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:23,280
Speaker 1: life to give you a hand. I think there's definitely

763
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 1: something really special about that as a man. Because a

764
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 1: lot of men bottle things up, I know they do,

765
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 1: and think that they need to have all the answers

766
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 1: by themselves. They definitely do. Yeah. Fuck interesting, And what's

767
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 1: with the whole like male loneliness epidemic? Is that because

768
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:38,399
Speaker 1: of that? Do you think?

769
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 2: Because they're supposedly a male b lonlyness epidemic. But at

770
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:44,720
Speaker 2: the same time, it's like there's like all these people

771
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 2: talking about how men so they need to talk more,

772
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 2: they don't talk enough. They need to be given the

773
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 2: tools to talk. But like, in my mindset is just

774
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 2: like what do you have to do? Hand it to

775
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 2: them on a silver platter, Like what needs to be

776
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 2: done for them to actually like it's like, okay, cool,

777
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 2: you've been taught that it's okay to talk about your feelings, right,

778
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 2: so what do you want me to do, like literally

779
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 2: pull it out of you.

780
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: I saw humanmen talk about it recently because on the

781
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 1: episode we were talking about with the von Actually and

782
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: I don't think it's an excuse, but a lot of

783
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 1: men on the male loneliness epidemic. I think it's really

784
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 1: good what's happened with social media and how it's highlighted

785
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 1: terrible men, but also the positive effect of that has highlighted.

786
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: The positive effect is like calling out hitmen. Negative effect

787
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 1: of that is it's scared good men who were afraid

788
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:50,840
Speaker 1: to have a crack because afraid they're going to be

789
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 1: shamed publicly online. Yeah, a little hard thing for a male,

790
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 1: I think, because the worst thing is like a nice

791
00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 1: guy goes on a date and he does something dumb

792
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 1: or does not not I'm not obviously saying anything terrible,

793
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: like I don't ye like any of the bad shit.

794
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: He just fucking I don't know far it's or like

795
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, falls over and then he gets publicly

796
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:07,760
Speaker 1: shamed online.

797
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 2: I mean though, it's like I hear that, yeah, and

798
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 2: I can understand that that would be a frightening thing, right,

799
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 2: Like you're scared to make a single mistake because you

800
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 2: are comparing yourself to people online. You're comparing yourself to

801
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 2: relationships online that's look quote unquote perfect, but they aren't.

802
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 2: So like you feel as though you need to be perfect.

803
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 2: But it's the same for girls. Like my cousin messaged

804
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 2: me yesterday saying she was going on a date and

805
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 2: she was like, why is it so nerve wracking to

806
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 2: go on a date?

807
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: I was like, it just fucking is bro like, it

808
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:38,880
Speaker 1: is what it is. Just think of it as like

809
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 1: a roller coaster.

810
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,760
Speaker 2: It's not nerves, it's excitement, Like, but I just don't

811
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 2: it's kind of hard, Like I feel like I would

812
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 2: need to speak to someone that genuinely feels as though

813
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 2: like they can't go talk to someone like a girl

814
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 2: or go on a date and they would fall into

815
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 2: this male loneliness epidemic. So I could actually like see

816
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 2: hear how it feels. Because sometimes it's like, yes, social

817
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 2: media can be blamed, but I think if you, if you,

818
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 2: if you're someone that doesn't have a social media following,

819
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 2: what's the point of someone trying to make a fool

820
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 2: of you on social media when no one knows who

821
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 2: you are, but they're making a fool of themselves just

822
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 2: being a bully.

823
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,879
Speaker 1: Well, it gets views. Everyone likes views.

824
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like I want to date with this guy

825
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:24,360
Speaker 2: last night. Yeah, and then you just so happen to

826
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 2: see his video and then you're that guy.

827
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly. I also think your mindset is coming from

828
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 1: a confident male, whereas a lot of men don't have confidence.

829
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 1: I guess your throwaway piece of advice there you just

830
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 1: said it was actually a really good tip for the

831
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: male loneliness epidemic. The nervousness of before a date, but

832
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,919
Speaker 1: also like making a fool of yourself is what makes

833
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:50,919
Speaker 1: a date special. I remember when I was seeing girl

834
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 1: she lives in Newcastle, meeting like halfway. I went on

835
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,479
Speaker 1: like three dates with her and I went on one

836
00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 1: and I was shit nervous, like fucking so it worse

837
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:03,359
Speaker 1: because I had to drive like an hour and a half.

838
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: So I was nervous for like an hour and a

839
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: half because the dates on and I went on the

840
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 1: first one and I definitely could have called it there

841
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: and been like I don't want to do that again,

842
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 1: But I thought to myself, I was like, no, this

843
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:16,640
Speaker 1: is a time to grow for me. I was like,

844
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:18,320
Speaker 1: I'm going to give this another chance. I'm going to

845
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 1: like dwell on these feelings. Let's go on another date,

846
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 1: and like I didn't get a full picture of what

847
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 1: she was like, and we went on two or three more.

848
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 1: When you like talk and stuff, nothing of it. We

849
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: didn't even care if nothing happened. But it was a

850
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: really good experience for me to learn about the nervousness

851
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 1: and like talk to a complete random about your feelings

852
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: and stuff. Yeah, I think that's what dating is about,

853
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 1: is like figuring out about yourself as much as it

854
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 1: was about figuring out someone else.

855
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 2: I feel like one more thing I want to say

856
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 2: about it is is like I don't again, obviously we

857
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,360
Speaker 2: have don't have answers, But I feel like part of

858
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:53,760
Speaker 2: it is that a lot of people don't want.

859
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,399
Speaker 1: To own their perfections. Yeah.

860
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people are frightened to own

861
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 2: their imperfections because of what they maybe see online or

862
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 2: what they're maybe told by friends.

863
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, but.

864
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 2: So people are afraid to hide their imperfections.

865
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 1: But I don't know.

866
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 2: I just think that like imperfections and somebody making fun

867
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,919
Speaker 2: of their own imperfections to me is the funniest thing ever.

868
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 1: I think imperfections are what make people special.

869
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, one hundred percent, because everyone else would

870
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:27,240
Speaker 2: just be a cookie cookie cucka same version of everyone

871
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 2: else exactly.

872
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 1: Like I get like my biggest security is my hairline.

873
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 2: But at the same time, it's like, I know, it's

874
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 2: not that fucking bad, and so it's like funny to

875
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 2: talk about it. We'll we'll talk about it, like you know,

876
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 2: it's we're not two males out here going like, oh,

877
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 2: you know you gotta you gotta fucking make you go

878
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:51,479
Speaker 2: come every time or else why would you call yourself?

879
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 2: Mainly there's people that are like that. It's like where

880
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 2: I feel like you've got to be.

881
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 1: More than happy to admit it, your imperfections. That's like

882
00:43:58,080 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 1: the one thing people are too afraid to admit their

883
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:03,240
Speaker 1: I just have to be real and realize you're not perfect. Yeah.

884
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 1: No one's perfect.

885
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:06,960
Speaker 2: No, no, by no means is anyone perfect.

886
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it comes back to have self efficacy of

887
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 1: yourself but also others.

888
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:12,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I guess it's like, well, how do you

889
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 2: teach someone that has no self efficacy and confidence issues? Yeah,

890
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 2: that it's actually gonna be okay, and that like no

891
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 2: one actually expects you to be perfect, and someone that

892
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:24,319
Speaker 2: expects you to be perfect is a hypocrite because they're

893
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 2: not perfect, so you wouldn't want to be with them anyway, exactly.

894
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 1: You know.

895
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,919
Speaker 2: It's like it's fucking yeah, yeah, you can just only

896
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 2: person who can be is yourself. Yeah, and that person's

897
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 2: not perfect. When I was a kid, I used to

898
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 2: I did it. I farted an assembly once and I

899
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 2: was so embarrassed. Yeah, and looking back on it, like

900
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:40,839
Speaker 2: I kind of just wish I had just like owned

901
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 2: it and laughed at it. And I wish that every

902
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 2: time I needed a fart at school, you just did it,

903
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 2: because it's actually pretty fucking funny.

904
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:50,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's crazy, fighting hilarious. In school, I used pimples

905
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 1: like on my neck and stuff and everything, and I

906
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 1: used to try and hide them, and you're creaming, like

907
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:55,880
Speaker 1: wap it on there. It was like skin color and

908
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,320
Speaker 1: shit because I was so ashamed of my pimples and

909
00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:01,879
Speaker 1: I was like the most normal, I mean, fucking puby, like.

910
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 2: The absolute mist of puberty. Yeah, and like I was

911
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 2: ashamed of it. I was like, what we just think

912
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 2: of the weirdest shit. Yeah, and it's just so unvalid

913
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 2: leading on from that conversation. Actually, because I've got a

914
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 2: deep question for today, and the deep question is what's

915
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 2: a valuable lesson you have learned from a past relationship?

916
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 2: And I and I put it in our notes so

917
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 2: you could read it yesterday, Yes, so you actually could

918
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 2: think about it.

919
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 1: I do have an answer, yeah, yeah, yeah, say I

920
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: actually have tooth Yeah, boys, but I just.

921
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 2: Thought that actually leads on pretty well. Is that from

922
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 2: each relationship?

923
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 1: Nah, just kind of like stuff that I've learned. Okay, okay,

924
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 1: you go first, if you've got two. Okay, mine is

925
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 1: pretty simple.

926
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 2: But like for some reason, it took like years for

927
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 2: me to learn this and like actually have to like

928
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 2: live by it.

929
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 1: I also think this is a good tip too, because

930
00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: when you're going through high break, like it's really hard

931
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: to feel anything, but like it is a learning experience, Yeah,

932
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 1: like takeaways from what you did wrong or what they

933
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 1: did wrong or what they taught you facts.

934
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 2: So first one that for some reason, these are both

935
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:20,200
Speaker 2: from the first relationship I learned the most there, I

936
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 2: won't lie, But being scared of your significant other's reaction

937
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:34,760
Speaker 2: to like being scared of the reaction of you bringing

938
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 2: something up of like how it's something they did makes

939
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 2: you feel. Is like if anyone experienced if anyone's scared

940
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 2: of talking about their like how they feel because their

941
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 2: boyfriend or girlfriend did something that hurt their feelings, If

942
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 2: you're scared of their reaction, that's fucked.

943
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: It took me a long time to realize that healthy

944
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: dynamic at all. Ism.

945
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're gonna bottle that up now, you're too

946
00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 2: scared to bring it up.

947
00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 1: You're like, I don't want, I don't want to start issues,

948
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 1: but it shouldn't be an issue.

949
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 2: If someone you love has accidentally like you have to

950
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:06,839
Speaker 2: they've accidentally hurt your feelings. And if they know they

951
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 2: accidentally did it and you're bringing it up, that all

952
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:11,400
Speaker 2: they're gonna say is like, oh, I'm so sorry about that,

953
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 2: Like thank you for bringing that up. Yeah, But if

954
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 2: you're too scared to bring it.

955
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 1: Up, well, I think what a lot of people do

956
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: in relationships is avoid the conversation not only to not

957
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 1: like have the conflict of their reaction, but also the

958
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 1: problems never solved, but it's also never answered. Yeah, so

959
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 1: it just like goes under the doormat and you don't

960
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: even think about it and just move on. But eventually

961
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 1: all that shit just comes out. Yeah, it's fucking I

962
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 1: just yeah, I don't know it to be so long. Yeah,

963
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 1: I don't know why man react and it still is

964
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 1: like I've spoken about it before, like it's still scared.

965
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:45,160
Speaker 1: You think that's on you for not bringing it up

966
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:49,919
Speaker 1: or them for how they react, though I think it's both, right,

967
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: So I think it's like.

968
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:55,879
Speaker 2: Emotional immaturity from both spectrums of the fact, where it's

969
00:47:55,920 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 2: like the person that is getting upset because as they've

970
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:04,440
Speaker 2: upset their partner, it's like that's pretty immature. Yeah, take

971
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 2: some ownership and apologize, but then me so doing it once,

972
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 2: them getting upset and me just thinking like it's just

973
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 2: kind of like a normal It's like I just won't

974
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 2: bring it up again.

975
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, well that's also on me.

976
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 2: It's like I haven't recognized responsibility. Yeah, it's like takes

977
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:24,399
Speaker 2: two to tango. So I think it's both in that sense.

978
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:30,960
Speaker 2: But so my next one is that manipulation can be

979
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 2: camouflaged by a simple sentence like it's because I love you, and.

980
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:43,239
Speaker 1: That one took me out. While Yeah, yeah, a lot

981
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 1: of people throw that word love around and hide it

982
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:52,760
Speaker 1: within a ball of toxicity. A. Yeah, because I love you.

983
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 1: It's fucking in love. Yeah, it's just ship, bro. Yeah

984
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:58,239
Speaker 1: that's crazy. So that's just a couple of things I learned.

985
00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 2: Those are bad things, but I learned I've learned great

986
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:01,919
Speaker 2: things about relationships, but I went with the bad.

987
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 1: Well, I think the bad are the best takeaways my

988
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 1: past relationship. The one thing I immediately thought of was

989
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,799
Speaker 1: my first relationship, I didn't have i'm going to call

990
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: it emotional intelligence to talk about what the relationship was

991
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 1: or what it meant to myself. And I think she

992
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:33,959
Speaker 1: also didn't have that emotional intelligence. And what I learned was.

993
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 2: To be completely honest and transparent with how I was

994
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,719
Speaker 2: feeling and take that into my next relationship. I think

995
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 2: when I was younger, it sounds simple as well.

996
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 1: I guess this is just how simple it sounds. Yeah yeah, yeah,

997
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:50,759
Speaker 1: as I'm saying it, I might sound so simple, But

998
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 1: I don't know if I like I think I didn't

999
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 1: want to become like come across as over the top,

1000
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 1: or like too in love or like obsessed, but we

1001
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:05,279
Speaker 1: both were. Isn't that crazy that saying that out loud?

1002
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 1: It's like, why would you not do that. Yeah, and

1003
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 1: then that just like caused this ball of confusion and

1004
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 1: I took into my next relationship. Now one was like,

1005
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:15,919
Speaker 1: I never want to be confused with how we feel

1006
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 1: about each other, Like I always want to be completely

1007
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 1: transparent with how I'm feeling. Like that goes I'm so

1008
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:24,800
Speaker 1: in love with you right now, or you're really pissing

1009
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:27,480
Speaker 1: me off, Like I'm always going to be transparent no

1010
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 1: matter what. And I think I've built or we've built

1011
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 1: a healthy relationship where I'm not scared of her reaction

1012
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 1: by any means she's just scared of mine. Yeah, and

1013
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 1: I can say anything like maybe it is as well,

1014
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 1: Like I didn't know what the fuck her reaction was

1015
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 1: going to be if I told her like I'm so

1016
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: in love with you. Yeah, so I just didn't tell her.

1017
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:47,719
Speaker 1: It's it sounds so simple. I mean, I guess you've

1018
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 1: got to do it to learn it. I mean, you know,

1019
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,319
Speaker 1: trial and error. Yeah, yeah, that's why I think, Like,

1020
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:56,880
Speaker 1: I guess it's hard though, because what can someone do

1021
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 1: who's never been in a relationship. I was going to say,

1022
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 1: like it's good to get in a relationship when you're

1023
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 1: younger because you learn so much and most of the

1024
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 1: time it doesn't work out because you are young and

1025
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:10,839
Speaker 1: do something dumb. But what can someone do because there's

1026
00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:13,399
Speaker 1: a lot of girls probably listening, maybe two or three

1027
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:17,879
Speaker 1: guys that have never been in a relationship and had

1028
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:21,839
Speaker 1: the opportunity to learn and make mistakes, and now they

1029
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 1: are our age and we've learned from that. How can

1030
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 1: someone go into a relationship for the first time and

1031
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: be expected to know all these things or they can't.

1032
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good question, because so they can't be

1033
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 2: expected to know these things, but they are expected to

1034
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 2: know these things, or maybe they expected of themselves. I

1035
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:47,360
Speaker 2: guess I think a lot of pressure would come from yourself,

1036
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 2: and hopefully you get a healthy partner who's there to

1037
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:54,400
Speaker 2: not necessarily teach, but be a supportive network for you

1038
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 2: to figure things out.

1039
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:57,799
Speaker 1: On your own. I guess the one thing you don't

1040
00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 1: want to happen is, especially in toxic relationships, it's someone

1041
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 1: who's been in a relationship before and someone who hasn't

1042
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 1: gets in a relationship and forms toxic tendencies because of

1043
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 1: the first relationship they get in. Some dude or some

1044
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 1: girls just mad toxic and has a terrible attachment style.

1045
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna say, it's like you just you's

1046
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:18,760
Speaker 2: got to be like a hard on your sleeve type situation,

1047
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:23,240
Speaker 2: doesn't it. Yeah, that's like, hey, it's my first time actually,

1048
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 2: like you know, I know things from friends I've I've

1049
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:30,919
Speaker 2: listened to complain, but I've never experienced these things. Yeah,

1050
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 2: so it's like it's almost you've just I don't know.

1051
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 1: I think it's also a blessing. We like to flip

1052
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:41,840
Speaker 1: things glass half full because if you've never been in

1053
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 1: a relationship, you don't have any trauma, whereas a lot

1054
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 1: of people out there are fucked up and do fucked

1055
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 1: up things, especially when a lot of men's frontal lobes

1056
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:55,320
Speaker 1: aren't developed and they do things just out of like instinct,

1057
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 1: and we don't know what the fuck's going on. We

1058
00:52:57,760 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 1: don't have any excuses for them. No, no, no, but

1059
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 1: that's what happened. So I guess lass half full. If

1060
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:03,799
Speaker 1: you've never been in a relationship and you're listening right now,

1061
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 1: it's also a blessing because you get to go into

1062
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 1: it with hopefully a man who has some brains, some

1063
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:13,279
Speaker 1: brain capacity. And maybe it's better too, because girls do

1064
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 1: develop quicker than men. Hopefully the man has learned along

1065
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 1: his journey.

1066
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 2: Get a relationship fingers crossed, That's what I'm saying. Yeah,

1067
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:27,319
Speaker 2: this is hard to answer those questions, Isn't it like

1068
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 2: it's all like a.

1069
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:31,680
Speaker 1: Lucky dip too, because you don't really know a person

1070
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 1: untill like I don't know three six months down the track.

1071
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:37,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I guess that's where that whole that whole

1072
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 2: three month rule could have some pretty strong footing, like

1073
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 2: in the in validation.

1074
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:46,479
Speaker 1: Or whatever the world. Because I was seeing a girl

1075
00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 1: and I was like three or four days in it,

1076
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 1: and I was whipped. I was like, this girl's sick,

1077
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:55,880
Speaker 1: and then like it started to come out like I

1078
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:57,319
Speaker 1: was like, shit, I didn't see it.

1079
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,799
Speaker 2: So it's like it's like that three month rule could

1080
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 2: be could be good. Yeah, I've been a good thing

1081
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:04,560
Speaker 2: to live and die by.

1082
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 1: I think it definitely is something good.

1083
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:10,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's also just like last week apparently. The

1084
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 2: other thing is it's sometimes it's hard to take advice

1085
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:16,759
Speaker 2: from parents, Yeah, because like parents will literally give your

1086
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:21,399
Speaker 2: relationship vice, sorry, give your relationship advice, but they were

1087
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 2: engaged after three fucking months too. It's like, you know,

1088
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,359
Speaker 2: it's just not really not the smartest thing.

1089
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's hard.

1090
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 2: But I guess my advice is someone that's like, oh,

1091
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 2: I never have been a relationship, and I'm older and

1092
00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 2: I'm scared, and I would say, imagine yourself as still

1093
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:47,480
Speaker 2: young and trial and error still still is like a

1094
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:48,960
Speaker 2: thing you're going to have to go through. Like, just

1095
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 2: because you waited till twenty six to get your first

1096
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:53,800
Speaker 2: boyfriend doesn't mean you're not going to go through the

1097
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 2: same person as someone who had their first boyfriend at sixteen.

1098
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 1: You're still going to learn things for the first time

1099
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:02,359
Speaker 1: along the way. And what about said that we said

1100
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 1: as a lucky dip, Like if the man or woman

1101
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 1: is a good person, where do you think you could

1102
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 1: potentially find someone if you've never been in a relationship,

1103
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 1: and like you don't like dating apps for example, I.

1104
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:21,440
Speaker 2: To be fair, I haven't really got any experience in that.

1105
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 1: Boys of Instagram.

1106
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:30,360
Speaker 2: Yeahship, Yeah, Like we both met our girlfriends through Instagram. Yeah,

1107
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 2: so it worked out for me.

1108
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:35,719
Speaker 1: And you have you ever seen a girl from seeing

1109
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:39,360
Speaker 1: her in person? Nah? Another one from the gym was

1110
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:41,920
Speaker 1: that in person or not? Yeah, you went on like

1111
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:42,480
Speaker 1: two dates of.

1112
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,880
Speaker 2: Us Yeah, but it was again, so it's like I

1113
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 2: went on a date. Yeah, I went on a date

1114
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 2: with a girl from the gym. And but it was again,

1115
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 2: it was like through a friend of a friend, like

1116
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:56,920
Speaker 2: our friend his girlfriend was friends with her. And then

1117
00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:59,400
Speaker 2: he said to me, like, what do you think? So

1118
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:00,799
Speaker 2: it's like neither and I went up to each other

1119
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:04,839
Speaker 2: at the gym. Yeah, okay, yeah, I guess also crazy weird.

1120
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 2: It turns out we were like literally family friends and

1121
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 2: we did it for someone we didn't know each other,

1122
00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 2: And like I was.

1123
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 1: Like fuck, uh nah no, no, no, no, no. I was

1124
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:21,919
Speaker 1: gonna say, I guess it's cliche, but you always get

1125
00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 1: in a relationship when you least expect it. Yeah, that

1126
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 1: happened for me. And when I heard that, I was like, oh,

1127
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:28,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to do that.

1128
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 2: Shit.

1129
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:32,400
Speaker 1: It really does, like when you've never been in a relationship,

1130
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 1: and I guess if you are asking these questions of

1131
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:36,759
Speaker 1: like where do I find these men or where do

1132
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:41,640
Speaker 1: I find a relationship, maybe a slight little mindset shift

1133
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:45,319
Speaker 1: of like fuck it, I'm gonna keep grinding, like I'm

1134
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,759
Speaker 1: just gonna keep working on myself and when it comes,

1135
00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 1: it comes, yeah, because like it really does come when

1136
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:53,359
Speaker 1: you least expect it, and like when you're the best

1137
00:56:53,440 --> 00:56:56,760
Speaker 1: version of yourself, like it just puts off this aura

1138
00:56:57,080 --> 00:57:00,400
Speaker 1: that other people see and then it comes to you. Yeah.

1139
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you don't have that ora now, no,

1140
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: but you just don't know when it comes. So just

1141
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: keep keep ticking away, getting one percent better every single day,

1142
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 1: and eventually it does come, and then that dream boy

1143
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:13,799
Speaker 1: or girl turns up. It's fucking odd.

1144
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I met I met a listener on the weekend.

1145
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:20,920
Speaker 1: Her name is Andressa.

1146
00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:24,880
Speaker 2: She was sucking Legend again Andres Andress is Brazilian, Andress

1147
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 2: that's cool, and she was It was the best interaction

1148
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:30,680
Speaker 2: with a listener I've ever had really. I was at

1149
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:32,440
Speaker 2: a cafe with Beth and her dad and her brother

1150
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 2: and Lex Beth. Beth went to the toilet and she

1151
00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 2: we sat down and she came out as our waiter

1152
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 2: and she like straight. It was like, oh, she was

1153
00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 2: like Jake from the Relatables and I was like yeah, yeah,

1154
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 2: yeah yeah, and she was just like super nice and

1155
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 2: she said, she said, you guys should talk about what

1156
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 2: it's like for a someone that's like like multicultural, so

1157
00:57:59,880 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 2: like a Brazilian with an Australian like you know what

1158
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 2: I mean.

1159
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 1: She said that.

1160
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 2: It's so she's thirty four and she she says, really

1161
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:11,040
Speaker 2: hard to meet someone. And especially this keeps coming up

1162
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 2: this theme because guys in Australia do not approach.

1163
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't know at all. So I was like,

1164
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 1: that's completely apparently Brazil is a fucking crazy place for that.

1165
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:26,000
Speaker 1: Brazil is different.

1166
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 2: We even have just had like dilemmas from Americans, as say,

1167
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:31,360
Speaker 2: I'm in Australia and I can make eye contact with

1168
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 2: the guy at the at the club and he won't

1169
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:33,560
Speaker 2: come up to me.

1170
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 1: And eye contact doesn't mean shit. I eye contact means nothing. Yeah,

1171
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: and and and I just don't know.

1172
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 2: I don't have an answer as to why guys in

1173
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 2: Australia are like that, because when I was singing, when

1174
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 2: I was single, I also wouldn't go up to a girl,

1175
00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:49,439
Speaker 2: even if I thought she was the most beautiful girl ever,

1176
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 2: I wouldn't do it.

1177
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:53,920
Speaker 1: Best said, the only people that approach her are from Europe.

1178
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 1: Do you think Australian men aren't confident in themselves enough.

1179
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:04,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, fear of rejection. Yeah, that's a tough

1180
00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 1: one too, the multicultural dynamic. I've never thought of that.

1181
00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:09,800
Speaker 2: Again, It's like the fear of rejection thing is crazy

1182
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 2: because it was probably sort of bred into us. It's

1183
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 2: like when you're a kid and we get get coddled

1184
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 2: by our mums, like if they hate saying no.

1185
00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:21,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's like, but they.

1186
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:23,760
Speaker 2: Do that everywhere, surely I don't know, though, it's like

1187
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 2: a thing of At the same time, what's the best

1188
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:31,919
Speaker 2: in terms Also, there's probably cultural society differences, so it's like.

1189
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 1: No, I tell you what it is. I think I

1190
00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 1: figured it out, okay, right now, Oh yes, Australia has

1191
00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 1: tall poppy syndrome massively. Take so back in the day,

1192
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:44,440
Speaker 1: when a man went up to a woman and like

1193
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 1: I said, hey, can I get your number? He went

1194
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:48,320
Speaker 1: back to all his mates and they bosted the fuck

1195
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 1: out of him, Whereas in other cultures he went and

1196
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:54,000
Speaker 1: did that, yeah, he say, he did it in Europe's

1197
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 1: nupies get your number and she's like no, sorry, Like

1198
00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 1: I have a boyfriend. He would go back to his mates.

1199
00:59:57,560 --> 00:59:58,680
Speaker 1: They'll be like next time.

1200
00:59:58,560 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 2: Brother, Yeah, yeah, you got next Like it would be.

1201
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 2: There's definitely there's one hundred percent places where it's so

1202
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 2: normal to get rejected and all your friends go, hey,

1203
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:07,200
Speaker 2: must try.

1204
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, like we've been there. I appreciate the effort, Like

1205
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 1: we've been there.

1206
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 2: But then in Australia, for some reason, if you go

1207
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 2: up and put yourself out there trying to get a

1208
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:16,880
Speaker 2: girl's number and she says no, and you go back

1209
01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:21,360
Speaker 2: to your friends, they're like, dude, you should.

1210
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 1: Jump off a clip. Yeah. Literally, dudes in Australia are fucked.

1211
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:25,480
Speaker 1: That'd be like you're hideous. Yeah.

1212
01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:29,480
Speaker 2: Literally, that's the biggest message anyone's ever sent to you

1213
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:32,040
Speaker 2: get in the gym, you fat, ugly fuck Like that's

1214
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 2: what Australian dudes would like do in a group sense.

1215
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:39,440
Speaker 1: Like honestly, it's insane. It's so toxic. I'm healthy. Yeah, ah,

1216
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 1: it's not. It's fucking insane.

1217
01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:44,520
Speaker 2: Like I remember when I was younger, I had a

1218
01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 2: mad crush on this girl at our school.

1219
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 1: I won't name her, but I remember.

1220
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:54,280
Speaker 2: Do you remember so when we were younger? I don't

1221
01:00:54,280 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 2: know if what if? Basically so you could either you would.

1222
01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:00,280
Speaker 2: This is before the word like oh, they're talking like

1223
01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 2: if you around the whole world. Now I'm pretty sure

1224
01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:04,960
Speaker 2: it's like this, but like it's like, oh, if you

1225
01:01:05,040 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 2: and such and such a talking it's like you guys

1226
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:07,120
Speaker 2: are can't have a thing.

1227
01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 1: When we were younger, it was called tuning that you

1228
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 1: would be like yeah, yeah.

1229
01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:17,000
Speaker 2: You'd say, oh, me and me and Jenna are tuning,

1230
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 2: you know. But and that was kind of like before

1231
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 2: you started dating. And so I remember having a mad

1232
01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 2: crush on this girl and then you work at the

1233
01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 2: coach like you know, messager after school just like a

1234
01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 2: random like hey, a little conversation.

1235
01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 1: And then the way that you would like secure tuning.

1236
01:01:36,000 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 2: Someone is like you chat to them for a bit,

1237
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 2: maybe a couple of days, and then one afternoon you'd

1238
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 2: be like, oh, I'm off to bed, like good night X.

1239
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:49,480
Speaker 1: And if they sent a good night X back bro,

1240
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:52,920
Speaker 1: you were working, you would tune.

1241
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1242
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:55,360
Speaker 1: It was crazy.

1243
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:57,320
Speaker 2: And if you hit him with if you went good

1244
01:01:57,360 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 2: night X and they hit you with a good night XX, bro,

1245
01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:01,920
Speaker 2: you may as well ask her to be your girlfriend

1246
01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 2: the next day. Okay, So I remember doing this. I

1247
01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 2: had crushed this girl, and I remember I remember doing that,

1248
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 2: and that she the way that you send the message

1249
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 2: of like no I'm not into it, like that is you.

1250
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:15,720
Speaker 2: So I said good night X and then she sent

1251
01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:18,959
Speaker 2: good night's smiley face to try and be nice.

1252
01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 1: But that's how you get the message.

1253
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:22,000
Speaker 2: Like, that's how the message you sent without actually like

1254
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 2: talking about your feelings.

1255
01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:27,040
Speaker 1: Were all too scared to That's what I was, baby, And.

1256
01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 2: So I remember, I don't know, I remember I did

1257
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 2: it one night and the next day I got to school.

1258
01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 2: I swear I hadn't told a soul, but like one

1259
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:39,040
Speaker 2: of my best bats at the time comes up to

1260
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 2: me and he just fucking laughed at me. He somehow

1261
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:43,960
Speaker 2: found out I must have told someone, but he just

1262
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 2: basically somewhere I found out and just came up and

1263
01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 2: just fucking laughed at me. And I mean I kind

1264
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 2: of like laughed it off, and I was like, yeah, yeah,

1265
01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:52,720
Speaker 2: you know what is blah blah blah. But again it

1266
01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:53,960
Speaker 2: was like, well I'm not trying that again.

1267
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:56,960
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, you never tried that again. Every single man

1268
01:02:57,000 --> 01:02:59,600
Speaker 1: has an experience like that. And so that's what happens

1269
01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 1: in astraa. You guys, I think that might be the answer.

1270
01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 1: And I was going to say too, is we're all toxic.

1271
01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:06,360
Speaker 1: We are all toxic.

1272
01:03:06,440 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 2: And again, sorry to interrupt, but probably guilty of giving

1273
01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 2: a friend shit. Sam for putting themselves out there and failing.

1274
01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 1: Sam, I was going to say, I think our friendship group,

1275
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:24,680
Speaker 1: especially yours and eyes tight knit friends, were lucky enough

1276
01:03:25,200 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 1: to be somewhat sheltered. And that's why the podcast has worked.

1277
01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 1: Because I know a lot of people, especially in Sydney

1278
01:03:33,320 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 1: and like the Northern Beaches, like that stigma. I think

1279
01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 1: Melbourne's even worse, probably around trying something new or getting rejected.

1280
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:44,480
Speaker 1: Everyone just roast the fuck out of you, or even worse,

1281
01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 1: they talk behind your back. Yeah, and then you just

1282
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:49,120
Speaker 1: hear little whispers of it. Yeah, and you're like, oh,

1283
01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:51,440
Speaker 1: well that's not very nice. Yeah. I just want to

1284
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:53,480
Speaker 1: know a number of it. I just try to try

1285
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 1: my best. Yeah. So, like I don't know, I guess

1286
01:03:57,720 --> 01:04:01,800
Speaker 1: the problem is ourselves and men and how we're brought up.

1287
01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 1: But taking away I've definitely been responsible of it in

1288
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:10,480
Speaker 1: the past. Ye, but reflecting everyone can learn to be

1289
01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:12,680
Speaker 1: a support It just comes back to being a supportive friend.

1290
01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it needs to be known that, like rejection

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Speaker 2: is a thing. It's normal, and like, yeah, it is

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Speaker 2: what it is. Like, here's the thing is, you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to go out here and tell all

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Speaker 2: these girls that I haven't struggled like troubles with not

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Speaker 2: being approached to do the approaching. But I will say this,

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Speaker 2: if you're if you can get in your head and

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Speaker 2: and convince yourself that even if I get rejected, it

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Speaker 2: is what it is like, I still love myself. I'm

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Speaker 2: telling you right now, if you're a girl that's like

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Speaker 2: out here saying why am I not getting approached?

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Speaker 1: Why A'm not getting approached?

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01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:49,840
Speaker 2: You know all my friends have like a boyfriend, blah

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01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:51,360
Speaker 2: blah blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: I just I don't know.

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01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:56,400
Speaker 2: I'm like a one hundred percent confidence if you if

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Speaker 2: you've wanted a boyfriend, you could you could do some

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01:04:59,520 --> 01:05:00,440
Speaker 2: approaching and get one.

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Speaker 1: But just I just I don't like that answer. I

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01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:06,160
Speaker 1: think my solution was going to be learn to be

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01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:11,120
Speaker 1: a more supportive friend for two males. I think one

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01:05:11,120 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 1: thing I really like about our relationship is not only

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01:05:13,840 --> 01:05:17,040
Speaker 1: the support, but you are able to kind of read

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01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:22,320
Speaker 1: when I'm sad or angry or upset, and like for example,

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01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:24,480
Speaker 1: other friends, if I went up to a girl like

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Speaker 1: now and got ridsale single, got rejected, you would be

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01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:29,200
Speaker 1: able to read in my demeanor that I was a

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01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:29,959
Speaker 1: little bit cut.

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01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:32,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you'll be like you would Maybe you wouldn't

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01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:33,480
Speaker 2: say like get them next time and be like, ah,

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Speaker 2: it's all.

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Speaker 1: Right already, Hey may I would have I would have

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Speaker 1: been the one that was convincing you. Yeah, but I

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01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:41,280
Speaker 1: would have been like, my bad. Yeah. I know a

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01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:43,840
Speaker 1: lot of one of my friends would be like, you're

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01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:45,480
Speaker 1: a fucking idiot it and I think they wouldn't be

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01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:47,280
Speaker 1: able to read me very well. So I guess it's

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01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:50,000
Speaker 1: working on the male. You know how male relationships are

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01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:52,080
Speaker 1: so surface level. I think you are able to read

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01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 1: me because we know each other so well. But true,

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01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:56,800
Speaker 1: the friendship dynamic of men who don't talk about their feelings,

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01:05:56,800 --> 01:05:59,520
Speaker 1: they can't read each other's emotional state when something like

1332
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 1: that happened and they just roast the funk out of him.

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01:06:01,840 --> 01:06:03,520
Speaker 1: I guess the takeaway is get.

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01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 2: A more emotional connection with your friends, sh because.

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01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:09,680
Speaker 1: Then you wouldn't tell them to go jump off a

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01:06:09,680 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 1: cliff that they did that. Just it's a joke. It's

1337
01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:13,720
Speaker 1: a joke, bro, every fucking dude. So just don't don't

1338
01:06:13,720 --> 01:06:18,520
Speaker 1: take it's not that deep. Don't take it so seriously.

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01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:21,439
Speaker 2: Off again, it's like you think, in hindsight, you feel

1340
01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:25,280
Speaker 2: bad forever doing it to someone. But you gotta learn,

1341
01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:27,640
Speaker 2: You gotta at least you can you can notice it and.

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01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:29,520
Speaker 1: See that.

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01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the wrong thing to do, but I guess

1344
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:35,360
Speaker 2: feel like that's like a pretty good the takeaways the

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01:06:35,400 --> 01:06:37,880
Speaker 2: girls not the issue, no, no, but at a.

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01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 1: Pretty enough Yeah, cool enough, got the best personality. The

1347
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:44,560
Speaker 1: dude is the issue. It's how we've been brought up. Yeah,

1348
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:47,480
Speaker 1: it's our society Australia has. It's a very crabs in

1349
01:06:47,480 --> 01:06:49,080
Speaker 1: a bucket society. It's exactly.

1350
01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:52,080
Speaker 2: You know, if someone tries to fucking climb out, everyone

1351
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:53,480
Speaker 2: else is going to drag him back down with him,

1352
01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:56,600
Speaker 2: because it's like, why would you think that you can

1353
01:06:56,680 --> 01:07:00,280
Speaker 2: go do that? Yeah, Like who fucking gave you the

1354
01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:04,479
Speaker 2: authority to have some sort of self efficacy to put

1355
01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:06,560
Speaker 2: yourself out there and actually try something?

1356
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:09,840
Speaker 1: You think your top ship? Yeah, you think your top ship?

1357
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:12,960
Speaker 2: That you think and it's like, fuck, even if I do,

1358
01:07:13,480 --> 01:07:15,240
Speaker 2: like at least I love myself and like you, you

1359
01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:19,520
Speaker 2: fucking depress all. Seriously, it's disgusting, it's embarrassing. It's actually

1360
01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:20,960
Speaker 2: embarrassing to think about it.

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01:07:21,040 --> 01:07:21,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:30,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, guys, As you know, I've been reading some comments.

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01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:32,000
Speaker 1: I like, I actually don't like as well.

1364
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:33,240
Speaker 2: So if you want to get a message out of

1365
01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:37,520
Speaker 2: the bat's yeah, comment in the Yeah, okay, I got one.

1366
01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:39,560
Speaker 1: Tell you what, let's you start doing? Do you reckon

1367
01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:42,240
Speaker 1: the ten percent of male listeners are like nice men.

1368
01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:44,240
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, like, put your dating.

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01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:47,920
Speaker 2: Problem, put your I G in there, put your Instagram

1370
01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:55,600
Speaker 2: in there. From Ella Hartas, why is shitting yourself under

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01:07:55,600 --> 01:07:57,240
Speaker 2: the Manhattan Bridge kind of iconic?

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01:07:57,320 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 1: Though it is iconic, it is a story. Yeah, that

1373
01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:04,640
Speaker 1: was a story, bro. I still I think. Yeah, I'm

1374
01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:08,040
Speaker 1: sticking with my vote that that was the worst one. Yeah, same, same,

1375
01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 1: all right. Shanayas said I'm a dental assistant and you

1376
01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:15,560
Speaker 1: should steer clear of alcohol based mouthwash because it dries

1377
01:08:15,600 --> 01:08:17,840
Speaker 1: out of your mouth and saliva is the key for

1378
01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:20,800
Speaker 1: protecting your teeth. I think that was in regards to

1379
01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:22,320
Speaker 1: you going to the dentist for the first time in

1380
01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:22,800
Speaker 1: eight years.

1381
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you said you should use my mouthwash.

1382
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:27,400
Speaker 1: And I checked my mouth wash. It's our coal free.

1383
01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:28,080
Speaker 1: Oh damn.

1384
01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:34,280
Speaker 2: Okay, So don't use an alcohol one fair, Emma, just Emma.

1385
01:08:34,640 --> 01:08:36,479
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but I vote for last weeks when you've

1386
01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:36,800
Speaker 2: got to go.

1387
01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:42,120
Speaker 1: You gotta go. Yeah, she was voting for. I mean, hey,

1388
01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:44,200
Speaker 1: look it's I reckon. It would be a pretty like

1389
01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:47,839
Speaker 1: split down the middle time. We got one in the emails,

1390
01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:49,640
Speaker 1: Like I said, if you want another one, you gotta go,

1391
01:08:49,640 --> 01:08:51,719
Speaker 1: you gotta go. Yeah, we can do it a confession session.

1392
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah.

1393
01:08:52,439 --> 01:08:55,160
Speaker 2: Relatable sixty nine at gmail dot com. Send us your story,

1394
01:08:55,240 --> 01:08:57,639
Speaker 2: yeah exactly. And if we think it's on path, get

1395
01:08:57,640 --> 01:08:58,040
Speaker 2: your ear.

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01:08:58,160 --> 01:09:00,439
Speaker 1: But now it is bad. He sign off time. And

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01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:04,920
Speaker 1: before we do that, Jake, we got to plug plug Patreon.

1398
01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:08,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, we always forget to plug Patreon, guys.

1399
01:09:08,880 --> 01:09:11,880
Speaker 1: Patreon has been turning up with the addition of the

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01:09:11,920 --> 01:09:15,639
Speaker 1: early release of Baddies book Club. You get that five

1401
01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:19,880
Speaker 1: days early, but also you get a full extra hour

1402
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 1: long episode the same as this every single Thursday. And

1403
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:27,559
Speaker 1: it's five dollars au D a month, which is cheap

1404
01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:30,759
Speaker 1: because if you live somewhere where for some reason Australian

1405
01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:33,080
Speaker 1: currency sucks, you are paying like two dollars.

1406
01:09:33,200 --> 01:09:37,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, you live in England, that's two pound fifty yeah,

1407
01:09:37,880 --> 01:09:38,840
Speaker 2: two pound fifty.

1408
01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 1: Pence, yeah exactly. So there's some cool things going on

1409
01:09:41,240 --> 01:09:43,120
Speaker 1: over there, shilling. Yeah.

1410
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:45,479
Speaker 2: But yeah, we've said it a couple of times. Now

1411
01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:48,400
Speaker 2: thousand paid members, and.

1412
01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:50,720
Speaker 1: We will do a live show. Yeah, so we will

1413
01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:52,599
Speaker 1: do it. We will do it. We men of our words.

1414
01:09:52,600 --> 01:09:55,760
Speaker 1: But today, Jake, we are calling Hayley to sign off

1415
01:09:55,800 --> 01:09:57,760
Speaker 1: the episode. Damn, let's do it.

1416
01:09:59,200 --> 01:10:03,080
Speaker 4: Come on, Hi, how are we are we speaking?

1417
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:05,240
Speaker 1: Hailey? It's Jake and Oddie. How are you?

1418
01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:07,160
Speaker 4: Oh my god?

1419
01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:07,360
Speaker 1: Hi?

1420
01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:11,599
Speaker 2: How are you glad to hear your voice?

1421
01:10:12,640 --> 01:10:15,960
Speaker 4: Holy ship? Am I I'm thinking?

1422
01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:18,400
Speaker 1: Yes, you certainly.

1423
01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:23,800
Speaker 4: Pregant word.

1424
01:10:24,439 --> 01:10:27,920
Speaker 1: You have won. You have won the chance to sign

1425
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:28,920
Speaker 1: off our episode.

1426
01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:33,640
Speaker 4: Wait, okay, just ship? Do I do it?

1427
01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 1: Now?

1428
01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:34,679
Speaker 4: Do I do it?

1429
01:10:35,400 --> 01:10:38,520
Speaker 1: Well? Here's the thing, Hailey, Okay, okay.

1430
01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:40,600
Speaker 2: You can sign it off whatever way you like. You

1431
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:44,400
Speaker 2: can say you could give some advice. You could give

1432
01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 2: a quote some people stay bad because they stay bad,

1433
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:49,439
Speaker 2: or yeah, totally, I could do it everywhere.

1434
01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:51,040
Speaker 1: You could be the first person to do something totally.

1435
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:52,559
Speaker 1: You can do a roast. You can roast Jake if

1436
01:10:52,600 --> 01:10:53,839
Speaker 1: you want. Oh yeah, yeah.

1437
01:10:53,960 --> 01:10:58,360
Speaker 4: No no no no no no no no, You're You're

1438
01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:03,840
Speaker 4: too good to be roasted. Oh is it? Okay? So

1439
01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:08,639
Speaker 4: I recently just learned something from work because I'm of people.

1440
01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:11,800
Speaker 4: Please off and I I hate it because I am

1441
01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:15,080
Speaker 4: doing like a managing role and whatnot. I always say

1442
01:11:15,160 --> 01:11:18,280
Speaker 4: yes to people and me and I was the one

1443
01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:22,479
Speaker 4: that's being taken advantage. So here's the thing. When you

1444
01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:24,960
Speaker 4: feel like you're being back to people, like when you

1445
01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:28,000
Speaker 4: say no, it doesn't mean that you're you're a bad person.

1446
01:11:28,040 --> 01:11:30,120
Speaker 4: It just means that you're being fair to everyone else.

1447
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:31,080
Speaker 4: That's about it.

1448
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:41,360
Speaker 1: Damn I got that. Yeah. I think that's a lot

1449
01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:42,320
Speaker 1: of people pleases out there.

1450
01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:46,160
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, I'm saying no. Yeah for yourself.

1451
01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:49,000
Speaker 1: Easy, there you go. You did good on the pressure.

1452
01:11:49,280 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 1: That was good. Yeah, thank you.

1453
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:51,479
Speaker 4: Thank you.

1454
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:55,600
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1455
01:11:56,040 --> 01:11:56,600
Speaker 4: Relatable.

1456
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:03,639
Speaker 1: That was good. What a legend. Stay bad, Stay bad.