1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, Welcome back to Tuesday's episode of Hotter than Yesterday. 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: Our guests actually canceled what's going to tell you who 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:09,879 Speaker 1: it is? But you have to wait and see. So 4 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:12,120 Speaker 1: we've got Blake here again to help me out. So 5 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: we're really just running on our feet. 6 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:16,279 Speaker 2: Hello, and thank god this is not visual, because like 7 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 2: I think, I come not like dressed up, but I 8 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 2: usually come presentable. 9 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 3: Today's beautiful. 10 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 2: I'm in a hat. I never wear hats. That's like 11 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 2: it's a cry for like a mental health crisis. 12 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 3: Things. I'm going, well, if I'm wearing a. 13 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:32,879 Speaker 1: Hat, oh, well, do we want to unpack these or No? 14 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 3: Things genuinely are fine, just like it's Friday. 15 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: It's Friday, it's to work from home day for you 16 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 1: as well. You weren't really prepared. No, you were prepared 17 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: to be off camera and I threw this on you 18 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: twenty minutes ago. So anyway, but there is so much 19 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 1: pop culture drama going on, so I feel like we 20 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: should just all unpack it speak about a few things 21 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: that are going on, because there's a lot, especially in 22 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 1: the artists world. I know, there's so much going on. 23 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: So I feel like I'm actually not really chronically online, 24 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: and that's kind of weird to say because it's like 25 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: my job. But I'm not necessarily a scroller because it 26 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 1: like sends me into anxiety. So some things Blake might 27 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: spring on me and I might not know when we 28 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 1: can unpack it together. And I'm going to put my 29 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: opinions in because opinions are like ourseholes and everyone has one, 30 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 1: and my asshole wants to be really big today apparently, 31 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: so I went to make a real credit open and 32 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: flicked me. It's Friday, It's silly Friday. We're all about 33 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: to clock off. Everyone's about to go to Derby Day. 34 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: I'm ready to have a fun weekend. Like it's just 35 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: gonna be a good. 36 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 2: Chill it it is, let's get the vibes going. I 37 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 2: find it really funny. I feel like we're opposeec I 38 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 2: do not post online, but I'm chronically online. Yeah, I 39 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 2: feel like I can really help you out. 40 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I think that's normally how it goes, Like 41 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: a lot of like I think you would be surprised 42 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 1: a lot of influences aren't up to date with things 43 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: because I think it's like already online enough. I'm not 44 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: going to like scroll heaps. Yeah, I'm so, I'm not 45 00:01:57,920 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: really a consumer. 46 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 2: And it's so now because like your biggest pop culture 47 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 2: story could be one that I have no idea about it. Yeah, 48 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 2: Like there's like influencer beef in America and I almost 49 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 2: added it, but I did not have the time to 50 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 2: get my head around it, Whereas I feel like, maybe 51 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 2: you know about it. 52 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: Well, this was I think this is the first thing 53 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:17,360 Speaker 1: to start. Do you know about the Halle Batcher drama? 54 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 3: This was it? So literally educate me. 55 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:24,519 Speaker 1: Okay, this is a very very big topic. And I 56 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: love Halle, Like I think she's like one of my 57 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: favorite influencers. Like I will always watch her. I love 58 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: her podcast. It's like very chatty. It's just like very chill, 59 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: Like she doesn't glamorize anything. She's not super polished, and 60 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 1: that's like the type of people I love watching, especially 61 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 1: like as an American. Yeah I'm not an American, as she's 62 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: an American, and like her and Victoria Paris, like they're 63 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:47,399 Speaker 1: just like the people I love to watch. She kind 64 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 1: of posted, well, there was an episode from her podcast 65 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: Click posted saying that like the last two people that 66 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 1: she slept with asked if like to you like wanted 67 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: to use a condom and she was like, sorry, I'm 68 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: sitting in a room with a bunch of males like 69 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 1: speaking about safe sex anyway, she wanted they both of 70 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:11,679 Speaker 1: them want Like the last two people she had sex 71 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: with like both asked to use condoms both times, and 72 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: she was like, if ruin's the vibe, I don't like 73 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: having sex with condoms on. A lot of my friends 74 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: don't like having sex with condoms on, Like, I already 75 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: have a Marina, I'm already protected. I'm not gonna use that, like, 76 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 1: take your fucking condom on, I don't want it wrapped 77 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 1: up kind of vibe. And then everyone went online and 78 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 1: was like what the fuck, And then she posted another 79 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: one was like I don't want like your dip wrapped up, 80 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: Like come on, like, get over it. I have a Marina, 81 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: And everyone's like, that's not the fucking point, babe, Like, 82 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: first of all, you're in America. Yes, okay, maybe you 83 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: live in a state that has an abortion, but there's 84 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: a lot of states that can't have abortions. Yeah next 85 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: door may not, so yeah, like so stop preaching to 86 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: people about unprotected sex, Like, yes, you have a marina, 87 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: but some people don't and like, don't preach about that fast, 88 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 1: but then everyone's that is not even like the thing 89 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: we're speaking about. We're speaking about fucking STDs, bro, Like 90 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: that is why you use a condom as well. It's 91 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: not just to not get pregnant. Like, if you can 92 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: sleep with someone without a fucking condom on, you can 93 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: get an SDD. And there are so many sdds in 94 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: this world, and it's increasing rapidly because not wearing a 95 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: condom is like low key a trend at the moment, 96 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 1: Wrap your fucking dick up, wrap it up. 97 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 2: And I find it funny that she's slept with these 98 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 2: two guys so obviously, after them saying I want to 99 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 2: wear a condom, her saying no, they've ended up having sex. 100 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. 101 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:34,839 Speaker 2: I kind of look at that in like if the 102 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 2: roles were reversed, And I don't think the fact that 103 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 2: she doesn't want them to wear a condom should just 104 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 2: mean you're not wearing one. Yes, if they wanted to, girl, 105 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 2: it's gotta let. 106 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:49,239 Speaker 1: Them one hundred percent. Now theory my opinion on this. Again, 107 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: opinions are like ourseholes, so just like take what you 108 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: want with it. But I completely understand in over long 109 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 1: term relationship, the sense of a condom in the bedroom 110 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 1: is okay because technically, if you're in a relationship, normally 111 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: it's just between two people and that is your only 112 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,919 Speaker 1: sexual partner. So if you did have something like the 113 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 1: Marina or something like that, and you were not looking 114 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: at getting pregnant and those things like pregnancy was out 115 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: of the problem. Or even if you did fall pregnant, 116 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 1: you wouldn't mind keeping the baby. Not using save sex, 117 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 1: I think is okay because you're only having sex with 118 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: that one person. So you both know you've either been 119 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: sleeping with each other for nine months. You both know 120 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: you don't have ScDs. Clemdia is out of the chat. 121 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 1: The CP is not there. Gonnorrhea ain't there. It's out there. 122 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: Herpes ain't there because you're sleeping with the same person consecutively. 123 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 1: But in Halley's situation, she's not sleeping with the same 124 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: person consecutively. And if you are, if you have a 125 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 1: little sneaky link, but then you're not loyal to that 126 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: sneaky link, you're then putting the other person other mail 127 00:05:57,960 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 1: at risk because you might have had sex with Bobby 128 00:05:59,920 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 1: or on fucking Tuesday and then sex with Johnny on Thursday. 129 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 1: And if you didn't have safe sex with Johnny with Bobby, 130 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: you're then putting Johnny at risk because neither of you 131 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: wore a condom. 132 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 2: And you don't know any of that rosters. Yeah, it's 133 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 2: like it's do it your own risk. 134 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, and Bobby might put be sleeping with Sarah on Monday, 135 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: and then he's putting you a risk. I wanted a 136 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 1: research assignment back in my Uni days about herpes. One 137 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 1: in three people have herpes. It is so common to 138 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: spread if you have. This is really educational for you guys. 139 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 1: If you have a cold sal you know that's herpes, right, Yeah, 140 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 1: So if you then give oral sex, I'm really going 141 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: open ham on this podcast right now. If you then 142 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: have oral sex and you have the presence of a 143 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 1: cold salt in your mouth or the bacteria, you might 144 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: not even have it, Like it's might not even come 145 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: up on your lip yet. It might be coming up 146 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: the next morning and you're giving oral sex to night 147 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: before you can give that person general to herpes. So, 148 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: first of all, don't be having oral sex with people. Really, 149 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, because who like I just weeds me out. 150 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 1: I already have community issues, so intimacy issues. So I'm 151 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: fucking going far away and clear for anything with male substance. 152 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:18,679 Speaker 1: But substance but like genitalia. Yeah, oh men disgust me, yuck, 153 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 1: you go to therapy. But also, herpies is also something 154 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 1: that someone has for life, and that that stuff can 155 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 1: they dormate in men, especially like men sometimes don't really 156 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: know that they actually do have general to herpes because 157 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 1: a lot of the symptoms only come up in women. 158 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: So wrap it up. 159 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's just not I have a girlfriend when I 160 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 2: met her in Uni, she has lifelong herpes because her 161 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 2: dad kissed her on the lips when she was like 162 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 2: a baby and he had a colto Yeah. 163 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's the thing. Yeah once once you have it. 164 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: And that's the thing is like people always go, oh, 165 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: and if you do have herpes, because I can guarantee 166 00:07:59,880 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 1: you someone listening to this podcast that has herpees. There's 167 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: nothing wrong, No, with her pies. There's absolutely nothing wrong. 168 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: A lot of the time you can't control it because 169 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 1: you can even share a straw with someone who's got 170 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: a cold saw and you can get it. It is 171 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: so common. It's nothing to be ashamed of, but it 172 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 1: is more I'm tying it back to the problem with 173 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: what Hallie was speaking about. You need to be protecting 174 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 1: yourself and protecting other people because just because you do 175 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: have is, it doesn't mean the other person next to 176 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: you deserves to have it as well. It isn't something 177 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: that you should be ashamed of, but it is still 178 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 1: something that we should be practicing safely, and she's just 179 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: completely and blatantly disregarded that and then is educating and 180 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: influencing young people to not be practicing safe section measures. 181 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 2: And I think herpies is a thing where a lot 182 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 2: of people are just like, I don't have that, or 183 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 2: I haven't had that, not even knowing they have a 184 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 2: old saw like yeah said, or coming up the next day. 185 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 2: So I think we're only drumming in on it because 186 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 2: it's super like yeah, prevalent and it can happen, and it's. 187 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: Not something like chlamydia where you can get a treatment 188 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 1: for and you never have it again, like yes, okay, 189 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 1: getting the clap or BV or something like that. It's 190 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:13,679 Speaker 1: not something you ideally want, but you can treat it 191 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: and it can go away. Nothing and sed is nothing 192 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: to ever be ashamed of because a lot of the 193 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 1: time it's not even your vault. Just practice safe sex. 194 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: If you're not sleeping with one consecutive person and only 195 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: one consecutive person, I think pull that game is also 196 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: not reliable. So wrap it up, wrap it up. It's 197 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: not hard, or don't even have sex like me, become 198 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:39,679 Speaker 1: a reborn budge Mary, either one. 199 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 2: Okay, I have a story for you. Are you across 200 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 2: a Lily Allen album? 201 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: I'm so across this. I've got screenshots of the lyrics. 202 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: I like. 203 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 2: So obviously she disappeared for a hot manner. Yeah, fell 204 00:09:52,600 --> 00:10:00,439 Speaker 2: from grace, So like this revitalization and just her appearing 205 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 2: in front of us in this way is just like 206 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:04,600 Speaker 2: so epic to me. It's my main story of the week. 207 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, so correct me if I'm wrong. This is the 208 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 1: storyline that I know. So, she was married to David Harper, 209 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 1: who is the father on Stranger Things? Is that who 210 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 1: father figure? He's a father figure on Stranger Things. I 211 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 1: haven't watched Stranger Things, but this man their marriage was. 212 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 3: Not something I want. 213 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:29,959 Speaker 1: And and she has now released an album that she's 214 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 1: gone through a divorce with this man, and we know 215 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 1: dis tracks. We've got a Jake Paul distract. We've got 216 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:38,440 Speaker 1: the Charlie xx Taylor Swift distrack, which will also unpack 217 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: because that's kind of tea. There's always like Kanye doing 218 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 1: a little dis track at Kim K. Like we've got 219 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: the Kendrick Lamar and the Drake distracks. Like there's dis tracks, 220 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: but it's always a subtle dig. Yeah, you know, like 221 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:55,679 Speaker 1: the Kendrick one is like always a subtle dig that 222 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: like he likes bbls and like he's like all of 223 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 1: this stuff and stuff like that. I'm not really across 224 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 1: that one, but this one was like, I'm not even 225 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:06,680 Speaker 1: going to beat around the bush to what this man 226 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 1: did to me. I'm just gonna make full songs about 227 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 1: the disgusting stuff that this man has done. 228 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 3: And she wrote this all in ten days. 229 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: So there's one called Madeleine and some of the lyrics goes, 230 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 1: I'm not convinced that he didn't fuck you in our 231 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 1: house due to ever talk about me. Has he told 232 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 1: you that he doesn't even love me? I bet he 233 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:31,080 Speaker 1: tells you he loves you. I've gotten old, gotten ugly. 234 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:33,439 Speaker 1: I wouldn't trust anything that comes out of his mouth. 235 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,679 Speaker 1: And then in that thing as well. It also says 236 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 1: we had an arrangement, be discreet and don't be blatant, 237 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 1: there had to be payments, but it had to be 238 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:46,560 Speaker 1: with strangers. But you're not a stranger, Madeleine. I'm not 239 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 1: convinced that he didn't fuck you in our house, which 240 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: pretty much is implying that they had opened their marriage 241 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: at one point. There was an arrangement, so they had 242 00:11:55,960 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 1: agreed to not be discreet about it, don't be blatant 243 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 1: about it, but it has to be with a hooker, 244 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 1: and it has to be with a stranger. There has 245 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: to be a payment, so if you're sleeping with someone 246 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:10,680 Speaker 1: outside of our marriage, it has to be with an escort, 247 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 1: a hooker, trust someone. There has to be transactions, so 248 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:17,319 Speaker 1: the woman's getting payment for it. AKA. Then they're also 249 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 1: not allowed to speak about it because obviously they're both 250 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 1: famous people, so NDAs and stuff like that would have 251 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 1: also been involved, and they probably wanted to protect themselves 252 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 1: from the public, so they would have gone to someone 253 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 1: that they was a transaction or a payment towards it 254 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 1: that then they wouldn't speak about it, if that makes sense, 255 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 1: because that's what a lot of cheaters do, is they 256 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: do sleep with escorts and stuff like that, and people 257 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: like that so their husbands and their wives don't find out. 258 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, or they'll try and change the terms yes of 259 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 2: the relationship aka opener and most likely break those rules. 260 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 2: I think our problem here is that there's so many 261 00:12:57,240 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 2: lyrics to unpack. But even at the end of the 262 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 2: first song, they're obviously not real voice memos. But she's 263 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 2: kind of done a play of the FaceTime when he 264 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 2: called her to say he wanted to open up the marriage, 265 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 2: and you could tell her was such a like, oh, 266 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:13,320 Speaker 2: we like, obviously this upsets me, but I want you 267 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:15,680 Speaker 2: to be happy. I think we've all been there where 268 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 2: you just like want to keep your partner. Yeah, so 269 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:19,200 Speaker 2: you're trying to keep them happy, you. 270 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 1: Say, just sort of losing them seems worse than like 271 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 1: what they're offering, so you're like, I will take anything 272 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 1: to make you happy. 273 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 274 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 2: And I was listening to Shameless. They're bringing out old 275 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 2: interviews and like, obviously the internet's gone crazy, like now 276 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 2: looking into the marriage. 277 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 3: He spoke about how he. 278 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 2: Fell in love with Lily at the start, and I 279 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 2: think he said I was going through this period where 280 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 2: I just wanted to be brutally honest, and on our 281 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 2: third date, I told her something that no human has 282 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 2: ever accepted about me before, and she was okay with 283 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 2: something that I thought she wouldn't be. But I'm fully like, 284 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 2: did you just tell her you don't believe in monogamy? 285 00:13:55,920 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 2: And this is just transpired over ten years up until 286 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 2: this album and now we've just got this. 287 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 3: It's a hot mess, but I'm loving her. 288 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:07,439 Speaker 1: But even like this whole stuff has now resurfaced them 289 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 1: doing a house tour. Yeah, and he just fucking hates her, 290 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 1: like and now everyone is like, may I never have 291 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 1: love like they had because he despises her. Every time 292 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 1: she made a joke, he would roll his eyes like 293 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: they were doing, Yeah, this is my wardrobe. It's mainly 294 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: for her and like everything, and she was like, I 295 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: build this, I design this, And she was like, well 296 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 1: you didn't build it. This man in Brazilia and he's like, 297 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, you get your fucking dirty hands, man, then 298 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: you can take credit for it. 299 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, And just the way she looks at him when 300 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 2: he speaks, She's like, I want to knock you out 301 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 2: right now. 302 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm like, everyone's like, release her from this jail. 303 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 1: There's also another song that I thought was I'm like, yeah, tee, Lily, 304 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 1: you fucking cut that shit. I didn't know it was 305 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 1: your pussy palace. I always thought it was a dojo, 306 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 1: so I'm looking at a sex addict. I'll talk about 307 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 1: a low blow like bro And I didn't know what 308 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 1: do joke meant, so I searched it up. A dojo 309 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 1: is Japanese for training hall or place of the way, 310 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 1: so it's a metaphors she things, I always thought it 311 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 1: was a dojo. On the surface of lyrics is set 312 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 1: up as an expectation to the apartment that she visits 313 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 1: is the dojo. The reality is that she's discovering sex toys, condoms, 314 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 1: leaving her to realize this space was anything but that. 315 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and a box of letters. That's the main thing 316 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 2: for me. I'm like, I need to read. 317 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 1: All of those, like I just respect her so much. Like, 318 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 1: Lily Allen, you have really put yourself back on the map. 319 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 3: I know. 320 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 2: And this is how she first got famous as well, 321 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 2: because her lyrics are not lyrics. 322 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 3: She does not mess around. She like cuts deep into 323 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 3: your heart. 324 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 1: Live the sick yeah everyone has and everyone can relate 325 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 1: about it. In some way I can relate about it 326 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 1: because a striper message me saying it's not my boyfriend 327 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 1: at the strip clubs one time. I'm like, yeah, I 328 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: can understand that. Like that sucks, like just casually, yeah, 329 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:57,480 Speaker 1: just like I'm Lily Allen, Lily Allen, your shit out 330 00:15:57,520 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 1: of you? 331 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 2: And I think, what's making me so happy of this? 332 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 2: And we'll touch on backlash quickly, But I think she's 333 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 2: touched a lot in the album about feeling like her 334 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 2: time was done and she's going through a career. Loll 335 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 2: she's not as famous anymore, and I think, you know, 336 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 2: when you get to that age she's turning forty, you 337 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 2: think your time in the sun is done, like as 338 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 2: an But like I think she's just getting started. 339 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 1: And it's so iconic because she's released just before the 340 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 1: season three of Strange Things comes out. It's like, fuck you, bro, 341 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: But a few. 342 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 3: Things have come up. 343 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 2: People are now digging up Lily's backyard. 344 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 3: Let's call it. Are you across? As Zoe Krabat saying. 345 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 1: So. 346 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 2: In her book Lily's a few years ago, she spoke 347 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 2: about kissing Zoe Krabat, saying that they made out at 348 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 2: one point. 349 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 3: Zoe than when I believe on Andy. 350 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 2: Cohen and she got asked about it and she goes 351 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 2: by kiss you mean her aggressively forcing herself on me. 352 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 2: She's getting a lot of backlash there hasn't really responded 353 00:16:57,200 --> 00:17:00,080 Speaker 2: to that. I'm anxiously watching for that because that's a 354 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 2: very disturbing little part of the story. But the main 355 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:06,359 Speaker 2: thing that people are talking about is like her last relationship. 356 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 2: She admitted that that ended due to cheating. Whereas she 357 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,920 Speaker 2: was a cheater, she was hiring female a Scots when 358 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 2: she was away from home because she felt lonely. And 359 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 2: now people are saying that, no, you can't write this 360 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 2: cheating album now. 361 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:22,119 Speaker 1: Ah, it's like, yeah, two rites don't make a wrong baby. 362 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 1: You can't fucking be doing that. And then out in 363 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:26,880 Speaker 1: this man, is that what it's kind of. 364 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:29,360 Speaker 2: Like, Yeah, I think the only grace I'll give her 365 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 2: is like the stage in life she's in now, Like 366 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:35,199 Speaker 2: it's obviously a very different story. You know, I'm not 367 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:40,399 Speaker 2: excusing things, but like cheating on your boyfriend verse experiencing cheating, 368 00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:42,199 Speaker 2: but you're a mum and you're in a marriage of 369 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:44,399 Speaker 2: ten years and you go through a very public. 370 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, like context is a really good thing when it 371 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:50,360 Speaker 1: comes to those things. Yeah, but that's the thing is 372 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 1: like I always get really confused has to guys when 373 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 1: they're like dating, Like say you and I were dating, right, sure, 374 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 1: so busted And like how boys like sometimes find it 375 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:06,359 Speaker 1: really hot when their girlfriends like kiss other girls. Yeah, 376 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:08,399 Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, but it's like Lily Allen, like 377 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 1: you're hiring female life girls because you're but you're sleeping 378 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:13,439 Speaker 1: with them. But in her mind, she's probably like, oh, 379 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: well it's another woman. I'm not cheating on you, but 380 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 1: it is. 381 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 2: It changes the narrative, but it doesn't. It really depends 382 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 2: how you stand with that. 383 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like Okay, for example, you me and Norah all 384 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 1: on a night out and I just kiss Norah on 385 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:31,239 Speaker 1: the lips like your boyfriend. You'd be like, what the 386 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 1: fuck would you think in your mind, that's no one 387 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: cheating on you. 388 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 2: No, and my girlfriends do it all the time. And 389 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,359 Speaker 2: it's not like a makeout like he's not into it, 390 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 2: but like they'll pack him for a bit of fun. 391 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:46,200 Speaker 3: I'm gonna say no, but like okay. 392 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:48,920 Speaker 1: But what if another gay, gay gay male did it 393 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:53,360 Speaker 1: as for fun? Yeah? Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, so fair. 394 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 1: But then again, like it's because it's the same sex. 395 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 1: But it's like I don't really know. I just find 396 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,440 Speaker 1: it weird. Why do you get off of like women 397 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:02,200 Speaker 1: kissing other women? 398 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, respond if you're listening. 399 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,679 Speaker 1: Yeah I'm interested. It's like, oh, yeah, I hooked up 400 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: with my friend you girl's bathroom. But it's like you're 401 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:15,000 Speaker 1: in a committed relationship. Is that like not like I 402 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:16,640 Speaker 1: like the boys, Like that's so hard? 403 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, you fucking kiss the girl. 404 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 2: I don't like girls. And my boyfriend finds it's so 405 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:24,640 Speaker 2: hard kissed me. I'm just like, you're performing for him. 406 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:28,080 Speaker 1: If someone said that to me, Oh, I was good 407 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:32,640 Speaker 1: at a leak so much. There was this one situation where 408 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 1: I got caught in a situation of me kissing a 409 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 1: girl and I think I had my eyes so she 410 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 1: kissed me, and it was like because her boyfriend was like, 411 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:46,240 Speaker 1: my boyfriend like things like my boyfriend lams you like, 412 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 1: and we're at a festival and we're all dancing. Next second, 413 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 1: she's all up in my face kissing me. I have 414 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:56,239 Speaker 1: my eyes open the whole time. But I was like 415 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 1: looking at the boyfriend, I'm like, are you sure you're 416 00:19:58,320 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 1: liking this? 417 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:03,880 Speaker 3: Like what I'm so intrigued. Now. 418 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 1: I was so confused, but I was like, I feel 419 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: like I'm weirdly intruding on something that you guys have 420 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: had a conversation, and now I'm just like. 421 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:13,960 Speaker 3: Your prop Yeah, i'd be the same. 422 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just find it. 423 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 3: Really it's a bit performative if you're like. 424 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:23,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like you can't kiss her no, or me, Yeah, 425 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:24,400 Speaker 1: but I can kiss her. 426 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:24,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 427 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: I think it's maybe is it? Because like, technically you 428 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 1: guys are all like, like everyone's straight, So if I 429 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 1: kiss your boyfriend, then it's like that's cheating. 430 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 3: But intrigue, it doesn't. 431 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 1: It just doesn't make sense in my mind, like preferably, 432 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 1: I like I don't really need to kiss other people. 433 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:47,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, we haven't landed anywhere, but if you're listening, please 434 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 2: like clarify this for us. 435 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,119 Speaker 3: Yeah we could be missing like a really crucial point. 436 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 1: And then let us know why you think your girlfriend 437 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 1: kissing other girls are hot is hot? And why people 438 00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:02,520 Speaker 1: do it? Because surgeon Mary over here, let us know. 439 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 1: I don't know anything. So another big news in the 440 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 1: pop culture drama artist drama dish tracks is Charlie XCX. 441 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:19,480 Speaker 3: I'm so team Charlie. 442 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:23,240 Speaker 1: I will also agree with you. I'm not the biggest 443 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 1: Charlie xx girl, But then I saw her at Coachella 444 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:30,880 Speaker 1: and I'm appreciately a brat so good love her, so hot, 445 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:33,520 Speaker 1: so cool, She's a vibe. I also so much respect 446 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:35,199 Speaker 1: for her that she's like a big famous person, but 447 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 1: like she literally just got married to her husband, like 448 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 1: in like a church in England, and then they went 449 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:41,639 Speaker 1: to the pub after and. 450 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 2: Like so much fun, handed cigarettes out to all their guests, 451 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 2: like so much fun. 452 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 1: Like respect, Charlie, My love for you has grown over time. Taite. 453 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 1: We we have. 454 00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:01,159 Speaker 2: Differing values, but I saw something of you online this week, Sam. 455 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: Keep it one hundred up the lamb the sea, the stunt. 456 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:07,199 Speaker 3: Thing that really shocked me. 457 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 2: I either watch it like three times to make sure 458 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,679 Speaker 2: you there wasn't a gun to your head, or like 459 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 2: it was actually you. 460 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't eat it's a fear lear It's just 461 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,439 Speaker 1: a catchy song. It's just catchy. I haven't listened to 462 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,240 Speaker 1: the song through and through. It's just like when I 463 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 1: catch myself on the four you page, I'm like. 464 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I really like open lighte randomly, don't ask 465 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 2: me to singer because I now forget how it is. 466 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 1: Isn't that Oh no, Aphelia is They're kind of the same. 467 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 1: This is a problem, right right, Yes, I don't know 468 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,359 Speaker 1: anything else in the album, but yeah, I'm just not 469 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 1: a big fan. I respect the large cult and I'm 470 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:45,199 Speaker 1: not here to offend anyone. I completely understand why the 471 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 1: Tate hype is real. She's such a successful woman, girl power, 472 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 1: love all of it. I just was never a big Tate. No. 473 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 2: She came out when she was young, and I feel 474 00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:56,880 Speaker 2: like you either had to jump on that bus when 475 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:58,720 Speaker 2: we're all young age, but I missed her. 476 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just was like never, like I was a 477 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: big fergie girl, fergy black eyed peas. I think that's 478 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 1: because I grew up with my brothers, and my brothers 479 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 1: would be like, no fucking way, we're not putting Tata 480 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:10,639 Speaker 1: and we're putting black eyed peas on. Yeah, so it 481 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,440 Speaker 1: was more like the area that I was in. But yeah, 482 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: I don't really like love Tate. Maddie Dylan always gets 483 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 1: mad at me because she's like tatastance. She's got like 484 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:23,160 Speaker 1: a Tayta tattoo on her and like she loves. 485 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 3: Tay There's always one in your life. 486 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like tagged your in that video and she's like, 487 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you for lacking this and I was. 488 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, I can pretty easily unpack this beat because 489 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:38,479 Speaker 2: I'm pretty well across it. So, Charlie's husband is in 490 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 2: the nineteen seventy five and Taylor used to date Matt Healley, Yes, 491 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:44,399 Speaker 2: also in the nineteen. 492 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:48,400 Speaker 1: Nineteen seventy five. And in twenty twenty four, Charlie released 493 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 1: a song or an album, and then in the song 494 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 1: Sympathy is a Knife, she made a dig at Taylor Swift, 495 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,159 Speaker 1: saying I don't want to see her backstage and my 496 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,200 Speaker 1: boyfriend show fingers crossed behind my back. I hope they 497 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 1: break up. 498 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, so she was. 499 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,879 Speaker 1: Like behind the scenes, like not rooting for Tita and 500 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:08,639 Speaker 1: Matt Heally. 501 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 502 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 2: And I've listened to that song. I actually quite like it. 503 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:14,159 Speaker 2: I think it was just a very honest song and 504 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 2: I think what she was trying to express she hasn't 505 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 2: told me this, I can't confirm. 506 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 1: No, she texted it. 507 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think it's a song about feeling insecure 508 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 2: around people who are maybe your peers, but more successful 509 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,040 Speaker 2: than you. I think at that point We've always known 510 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 2: Charlie XCX, but she's never had this moment until now 511 00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 2: where she opened for Taylor Swift at her concerts. 512 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 1: Yes they did. 513 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 2: Hey, Yeah, Like it's always been very disproportionate, and Taylor's 514 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 2: obviously just like become a megastar and Charlie's just waited 515 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:48,879 Speaker 2: patiently for her time. So absolutely I understand that feeling 516 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,399 Speaker 2: of insecurity. And we talk about envy vs. Jealousy, yes 517 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 2: a lot, Like I really do see it, and I 518 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:56,440 Speaker 2: think it can be healthy to feel. 519 00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 3: That way and be honest about it as well. 520 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 1: Yes, but I'm not saying that I think Taita did 521 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:06,679 Speaker 1: help her out so much. Definitely that then kind of 522 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,680 Speaker 1: making a dig that's a little low. 523 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:13,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, And you of course feel ten times more betrayed 524 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 2: by the guy's friend group when you go through a breakup. 525 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 2: So like probably knowing that Charlie had ill feelings towards 526 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 2: her in the context of them both being with a 527 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 2: band member and probably seeing each other a lot, Yeah, 528 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:27,639 Speaker 2: that would sting. 529 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 1: Yes, So Tita clapped back. 530 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:33,200 Speaker 3: She went crazy. 531 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 2: She always has one song on every album. Last one 532 00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:39,479 Speaker 2: was Kim. This one's Charlie remembers thank you. Amy and 533 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 2: she like capitalized the kay I am in that. Yeah, 534 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 2: she always has like a scratch to itch each album. 535 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,400 Speaker 1: And I think this is why I have a bit 536 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 1: of a bone to pick with Taita, because I think 537 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 1: she's always known as like this amazing girl's girl, Like 538 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 1: she's like preaching, singing to the choir about girls, girl 539 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 1: and everything like this. And I'm also so ridiculed online 540 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,679 Speaker 1: apparently I'm not a girl's girl, but I am. But 541 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 1: she's like always like girl power, girl boss, girl power. 542 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:15,679 Speaker 1: But she's constantly making songs digging at women. So it's like, 543 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 1: what are you preaching? Are you practicing what you're preaching? 544 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 1: But these songs that these fourteen like seven year olds 545 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,679 Speaker 1: are singing and dissing are the women. But then you 546 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:28,480 Speaker 1: I think she like she puts fucking gasoline on the 547 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 1: fire lights it and then goes what a me? 548 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:32,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, and disine, I don't know who did that? 549 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 1: Selena? Was that you? Kendall? Was that you? No, Travis, 550 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:41,920 Speaker 1: come come rescue me. It's like, Babe, you put gasoline 551 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 1: in it and you lit it up, and then you're 552 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 1: gonna go everyone go get your sick can cowgo boots on? 553 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:48,800 Speaker 1: And let's go rodeo to it and pretend that I 554 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: just didn't say that. 555 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 3: And hand out friendship bracelet. 556 00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, and yes, you can absolutely let your feelings be 557 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 2: known in the song. 558 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 3: I don't have a problem with that. 559 00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 2: But then in the same albums, which are mostly around 560 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 2: her exit, she can equally in those songs say you 561 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,200 Speaker 2: were the best thing, you made me so happy, but this. 562 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 3: Really broke my heart La la Lah. 563 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,479 Speaker 2: But then with the women, she's actually like, naw, fuck you, 564 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:10,199 Speaker 2: you rule my life. Yeah she did not say that, 565 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,240 Speaker 2: of course, but the tone of these songs are so aggressive. 566 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 1: It's like keep a storyline. And I think that's why 567 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: it's like she can like this woman. I feel I 568 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 1: can get away with bloody murder like because then it's like, 569 00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,199 Speaker 1: goes on the thing. I'm like, I feel like Taylor 570 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 1: and Selena are like two yeah, and then it's like 571 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:29,719 Speaker 1: Hailey is on the other side, and Hailey's always villainized, 572 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:33,000 Speaker 1: which is why I sympathize with Haley. But you've never 573 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: seen Haley make it. Has she made a Dick's. 574 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,680 Speaker 3: Made I would say no, but people probably want to 575 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 3: kill me for that. 576 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say she's made overtly digs like others. 577 00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 2: Have, Yeah, and maybe subliminal ones where I think, and 578 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 2: so funny that we're moving on to this because like 579 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,679 Speaker 2: my top line, my top top point in our working 580 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,760 Speaker 2: document is at Sam we literally first bonded over this 581 00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,679 Speaker 2: feud and it's still ef thing going. 582 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:04,680 Speaker 1: It will go into beyond when they're in this grave. Yeah, 583 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 1: and Selena. 584 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:07,920 Speaker 2: What I was going to say is I think Selena's 585 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:11,240 Speaker 2: fans are the problem. I think nine times out of 586 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 2: ten they've blown everything up. I think the reason we're 587 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 2: speaking about this now because I thought it was over, 588 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 2: but it's obviously not. Hailey was on a red carpet 589 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 2: she got asked a question about Road and Selena being 590 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:27,639 Speaker 2: competitive with other celebrities. Ladida, her publicist, went to stop 591 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 2: the question, and Hailey just said, no, I don't feel 592 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 2: competitive with people I'm not inspired by. I never asked 593 00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,800 Speaker 2: to be compared to her, and I don't find that fair. 594 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:41,040 Speaker 2: Minutes after it is like top news on the Internet, 595 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 2: and then that's. 596 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 1: A good response. Though. 597 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,479 Speaker 2: I liked it, but as soon as I read it, 598 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 2: I was like, I know where this is going to go. 599 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 1: Yes, but I just think I'm like, we constantly just 600 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:54,280 Speaker 1: pin women against women. Yeah, and we go so far 601 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 1: back in where we're ever meant to go with women 602 00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 1: becoming accessful and putting their trademark on things, because it's 603 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,760 Speaker 1: like everyone just fuels their life off beef. And that's 604 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 1: the problem of like I can even feel like we 605 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 1: always speak about how Melbourne's such a small world where 606 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 1: it's like I hear rumors about myself and stuff like that, 607 00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 1: and the only reason why it gets worse is because 608 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 1: other people are speaking about it, yeah, and I'm not. 609 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:22,960 Speaker 1: And like imagine on a scale of like how famous 610 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:27,800 Speaker 1: these people are in the whole world where it's like, yeah, 611 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 1: the fans for them would just make it worse. 612 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. 613 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 2: And I think in like Australia, say something's going on, 614 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 2: say with you, Like, I think it would take like 615 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 2: three days worth of comments for it to build traction, 616 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 2: Whereas Hayley probably answered this question left the event and 617 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:45,239 Speaker 2: they were already already likee hundred articles about it. But 618 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 2: Selena has responded and this has riled me up. I 619 00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 2: thought it was fake when I first saw it. Just 620 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:54,160 Speaker 2: posted a blank Instagram story and deleted it like two 621 00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 2: hours after which she seems to do all the time. 622 00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 2: Just leave the girl alone. She can say whatever she 623 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 2: ones doesn't affect my life whatsoever? Or does it's just 624 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,760 Speaker 2: about relevance, not intelligence. 625 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 3: Be kind? 626 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,560 Speaker 2: Oh really, all brands inspire me. There is room for everyone, 627 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:13,240 Speaker 2: and hopefully we can all stop. 628 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 1: Wait what did Haley say again? 629 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:20,120 Speaker 2: She just said I don't get competitive with people slash 630 00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:25,320 Speaker 2: things I'm not inspired by, which I hope she didn't 631 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 2: mean that. 632 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:26,480 Speaker 3: As a dig. 633 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 2: Like I actually think she's a really sweet human, which 634 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 2: might be my problem, but like, yeah, I do see 635 00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:36,280 Speaker 2: Waite Selena's fans probably gassed her up to be like, 636 00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 2: oh share. 637 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:37,719 Speaker 3: This bitch said this. 638 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,840 Speaker 1: People need to take a leaf out of Kim Kardashian's 639 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 1: book drafted up in your notes and don't fucking post it. 640 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:47,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, And like I don't want to be encouraging people 641 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,280 Speaker 2: to do this, but I think Kim just like gas 642 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 2: lights and she's like no, I'm over that. 643 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 3: No, no, no, and like yeah, like. 644 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,600 Speaker 1: And I think that's like I've even said, like sometimes 645 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm more open to criticism online and 646 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 1: like subject to it because people know I'm vulnerable. Yeah, 647 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 1: so it's like I'm going to push it where and 648 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 1: then they poke the bear and I'm like, fuck, that 649 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 1: really hurt. But like Kim poker Face, Yeah, nothing, you 650 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 1: don't know what effects, So you don't know what it 651 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 1: does because it's like she doesn't give it airtime. 652 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 2: So it's like, oh, I have wondered about that, but like, 653 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 2: consider this pretty much her formal introduction to the world 654 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 2: was her porn video. 655 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, surely after that. 656 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:27,400 Speaker 1: You're like, yeah, she's like on bullet Bruce, you. 657 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 3: Can't fucking hurt me. No, I'm good. 658 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, nothing left for you to see. Yeah, you've seen 659 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 2: it and you know it all. 660 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 1: Like she just really does not take the bait, and 661 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 1: I like respect it so much of her. 662 00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 2: I think what I struggle with Selena's responds, and I 663 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 2: struggle with her overall. I think she's a kindness warrior. 664 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 2: But there's always a sentence or two that leaves things 665 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:54,960 Speaker 2: open to interpretation and gossip and it doesn't completely flatten 666 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,400 Speaker 2: it or just kill it and nip it in the bar. 667 00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:01,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like you literally could just like I'm married, 668 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 1: she's married. I'm fine, she's fine. Put it to sleep. 669 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,880 Speaker 1: But they've never done that, never, And I pray for 670 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 1: the day because I'm over it. I think we all 671 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 1: are no, apparently not clearly not. I think the last 672 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,239 Speaker 1: thing that we should end off on, seeing that we 673 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:26,960 Speaker 1: are podcasting is the Alex Earl and Alex Cooper drama. 674 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,400 Speaker 3: Another thing I'm very across see. 675 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:32,360 Speaker 1: I'm not too across it. I obviously know that hot 676 00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:36,320 Speaker 1: Mess was once a thing of the Unwell Network, which 677 00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:40,760 Speaker 1: Alex Cooper founded, which has got like call her Daddy 678 00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 1: extra Dirty, Melana Agi, Harry Josey's One, like all of 679 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:50,120 Speaker 1: those things, and then suddenly hot Mess blit stop. I 680 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 1: think it was something to do with because Alex manages 681 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,280 Speaker 1: Alex father's her manager, and I think there was something 682 00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 1: to do with something like that without accents and stuff, 683 00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 1: and I think there would have been so many millions 684 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:06,240 Speaker 1: of views with Alex Earl. I think Alex Cooper low 685 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:11,760 Speaker 1: key became a little bit threatened by Alex Earl. Yeah, 686 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 1: it was kind of like keep your friends close, but 687 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,120 Speaker 1: your enemies closer type thing. It was kind of like 688 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 1: following my footsteps. But I think then Alex Earl's dad 689 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 1: would have been like, no, you're doing this. 690 00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,920 Speaker 2: And I think the difference is it's not like Alex 691 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,719 Speaker 2: Cooper acquired alex L's podcast like it was when Alex 692 00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 2: was at the Heights, like when she was just popping off. 693 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,080 Speaker 2: She kind of designed this show for her. It was 694 00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 2: going really well. I don't know what it was comparing 695 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 2: to on the charts with Call Her Daddy, but I 696 00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:46,160 Speaker 2: think strategically Hot Mess was never going to be bigger 697 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 2: than Call Her Daddy if she was under her network. 698 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:54,160 Speaker 1: Yes, one hundred, but I really really do not respect 699 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 1: what Alex Cooper has done post this whole thing. 700 00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 3: No, I'm very disappointed, so. 701 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,760 Speaker 1: Am I I think after the whole Sophia thing that 702 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,000 Speaker 1: she went through with Sophia when they both obviously had 703 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,480 Speaker 1: Called Her Daddy, I think everyone kind of was like, 704 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 1: could have just been a one off situation. But I 705 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,319 Speaker 1: think the digs and the undertones that she's had when 706 00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,760 Speaker 1: she knows she's such an influential person, especially to young women, 707 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,439 Speaker 1: and the stuff that she's made towards Alex Earl, your 708 00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,640 Speaker 1: careers are going on two different trajectories. I don't think 709 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 1: ever Alex Oh wanted to be the biggest podcaster. I 710 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:24,600 Speaker 1: think she just wanted a way to connect with her 711 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:26,759 Speaker 1: audience and it was never a competition for her. But 712 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,760 Speaker 1: I think Alex made it. Alex Cooper made it a 713 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:32,600 Speaker 1: competition with herself. Low key thinkink that alex was a 714 00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 1: part of it, and I just think like, okay, how 715 00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,480 Speaker 1: much time like that TikTok? When Alex l responded being like, 716 00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,319 Speaker 1: how much time do you have? When they're speaking about it, 717 00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:42,680 Speaker 1: I don't think that's that bad. 718 00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:43,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 719 00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 2: Do you know the background of that though? No, So 720 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:51,000 Speaker 2: remember alex Earl hate the Bothams. Yeah, so I should 721 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:54,839 Speaker 2: have said that earlier. She posted a TikTok one day 722 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,759 Speaker 2: and I don't think this is a correct app but 723 00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:00,160 Speaker 2: something to the extent of my astrologists or my co 724 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:03,239 Speaker 2: stars said I can go crazy to that. Yes, and 725 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 2: the top comment was what happened between you and Alex Cooper? 726 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,839 Speaker 3: She responds, how much time do you have? 727 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? I remember watching the video. Yeah, but I didn't 728 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:12,319 Speaker 1: think it was that bad. 729 00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 730 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:17,560 Speaker 2: Well, to add insult to injury, alex El's first Dancing 731 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 2: with the Stars dance was Circus. 732 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,720 Speaker 1: This is what I think is really really bad? Yeah, 733 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:26,560 Speaker 1: because share it was Circus by Britney Spears. And then 734 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,200 Speaker 1: Alex Cooper did this thing in Las Vegas for the 735 00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 1: on One network and had all the things, and then 736 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 1: she also played Circus by Britney Spears and what was 737 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:36,840 Speaker 1: the caption caption? 738 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,680 Speaker 3: How much time do you have? Because we could go 739 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 3: all night? 740 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was. 741 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,799 Speaker 2: There were a few things that I struggled with, Like 742 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:49,200 Speaker 2: I think the fact she also got other huge influences 743 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:50,000 Speaker 2: on that video. 744 00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:53,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's of us, and I don't think 745 00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:57,880 Speaker 1: it's like not that nice. No, And it's like Alex, oh, 746 00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,960 Speaker 1: he's on fucking Dancing with the Stars right now. Yeah, 747 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:04,440 Speaker 1: Like again, it comes down to stop pinning women against women. 748 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,839 Speaker 1: Why are we doing this? There's two so successful, such 749 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:11,600 Speaker 1: successful women in business in the influencing industry, they're doing 750 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,359 Speaker 1: great things for women. Why are you pinning each other 751 00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 1: against each other? 752 00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,239 Speaker 3: And on the internet so much? Like I'm a big 753 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:19,520 Speaker 3: fan of both, Yes. 754 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,320 Speaker 1: But I've lost respect for Alex Cooper. 755 00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:23,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think she was never exempt from the 756 00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 2: Sophia stuff like that has always been a crack in 757 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,080 Speaker 2: her story and something you look back on and you're like, what. 758 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,239 Speaker 3: Is the truth there? Yes, are you as good as 759 00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:33,000 Speaker 3: we think you are? 760 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,959 Speaker 1: Were you guilty in that situation? And then I think 761 00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,359 Speaker 1: this is whole things come up and it's undertones that 762 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,600 Speaker 1: she's making it towards alex Earl, I'm like, this is 763 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 1: not helping you battle. 764 00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:48,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, when she's done episodes, you know, rallying on the 765 00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:52,479 Speaker 2: streets in support of not having abortion be legal. Yeah, 766 00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:55,239 Speaker 2: be illegal. I can't find my words today, like you 767 00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,920 Speaker 2: could be. And she does do so much more impactful 768 00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,120 Speaker 2: and important things. Is this going to be the all 769 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:03,560 Speaker 2: your day on alex L? Who's hurting nobody? Sorry, you 770 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:06,840 Speaker 2: mightn't like her because of whatever went on in the background. 771 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:07,680 Speaker 1: But that's business base. 772 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:08,760 Speaker 3: You can both exist. 773 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,840 Speaker 1: And like as I was saying before before we started 774 00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:15,680 Speaker 1: this podcast and Bake came, is like the most rich 775 00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,560 Speaker 1: and successful people didn't get to the top by making 776 00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:22,240 Speaker 1: sure they had good relationships with everyone. Bill Gates, someone 777 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 1: fucking hates him out there, someone fucking hates him. 778 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:30,840 Speaker 3: So what Let it be Taylor Swift for example, Yes. 779 00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:35,120 Speaker 1: Let them leave, let them buy Mel Robbins and even 780 00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,640 Speaker 1: more Robin She's so successful, but someone fucking hates her 781 00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:38,080 Speaker 1: out there. 782 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,040 Speaker 2: Her debt collector, I think she was in like eighteen million, 783 00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:44,160 Speaker 2: eight million dollars debt or something there you go on 784 00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:45,399 Speaker 2: that figure or something like that. 785 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:51,400 Speaker 1: Like, I have so many fucking haters, shut out, use 786 00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:55,360 Speaker 1: a six one four six nine six one two like shout. 787 00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:58,040 Speaker 3: The fuck out, you know, help you like this out? 788 00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:02,520 Speaker 1: Yeah? I feel like that's enough drama for today's episode. 789 00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:04,160 Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for tuning in. Let us 790 00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:05,120 Speaker 1: know what you think. 791 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:06,960 Speaker 3: This was fun. We need to do this more. 792 00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:08,799 Speaker 1: I think with this is a month and month once 793 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:11,640 Speaker 1: a month catch up Pops culture. Because I lokely eat 794 00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 1: this up and. 795 00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:13,840 Speaker 2: I prep a lot for our episodes. I've had my 796 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 2: laptop close. This is like the best way to end 797 00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:16,399 Speaker 2: my week. 798 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:16,880 Speaker 3: So thank you. 799 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, nice little chat to end off the week. Perfect. 800 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,640 Speaker 1: All right, guys, we'll see you next Tuesday on Hotter 801 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:29,280 Speaker 1: Than Next Week. Goodbye,