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Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables.

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Speaker 2: You gotta use the math for like fucking one hour

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Speaker 2: thirty mons before we left. All I want is five

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Speaker 2: minutes to poo.

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Speaker 1: And you're getting mad at me. That's fair, that's about

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Speaker 1: It's too fair, jeez talk, that's talk practice talking about

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Speaker 1: you feeling.

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Speaker 3: I gotta let it out. I gotta let it out.

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Speaker 1: Tell how you feel?

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Speaker 3: Do you feel better?

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Speaker 1: Relatable? The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Audie Clark

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Speaker 1: aka Mummy and my partner in crime, Jake Craig aka Daddy.

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Speaker 1: Thank you everybody for tuning in once again. Jay, guys

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Speaker 1: are all the bad such a good name for him.

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Speaker 1: You should say babies, but baddies call them babies. Baddies

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Speaker 1: is good.

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Speaker 2: Dad.

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Speaker 1: Everyone listenings with you. Guys are all children baddies. You

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Speaker 1: can have baddies babies. They could be. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but Jake, something almost very very very embarrassing happened to

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Speaker 1: me the other day. Almost it's something or someone was

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Speaker 1: looking out for me. Got an angel, guardian Angel. I

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Speaker 1: think so, and I thought it was quite funny. Just quickly,

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Speaker 1: I'll tell it. I was out the gym the other day,

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Speaker 1: drive into the gym, you know, me drinking my pre workout.

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Speaker 1: I'm back on the hype. Yeah, what does pre workout

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Speaker 1: make you do? Usually straight away boop? Yes, I had

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Speaker 1: to go to a number two. I rushed into the

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Speaker 1: toy guys. I had to go straight to the toilet,

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Speaker 1: and I was just enjoying myself on my phone. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's me time anyway, you don't get much of it.

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Speaker 1: I go out in the trans room where all my

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Speaker 1: headphones and stuff are, and I'm getting ready to leave,

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Speaker 1: and there's a guy like in the shower and I

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Speaker 1: turned my back and like I looked back because I

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Speaker 1: didn't know what he was doing like over there. And

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Speaker 1: then I took turned back and I was about to

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Speaker 1: walk out. As I'm walking out of the door to

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Speaker 1: from the change room to the gym, this toilet paper

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Speaker 1: just falls out from behind me. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: no way, Like it was like a tail. But I

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Speaker 1: don't know what I did what. Yeah, it was just

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Speaker 1: like stuck at the top of my pants, and I

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Speaker 1: was how did you get that there? Don't I don't

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Speaker 1: know if it was pre wipe or like a white

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Speaker 1: like drop some on me. When I pulled my pants up,

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Speaker 1: I think that's what I did. And I literally literally

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Speaker 1: five second, less than five seconds from walking out of

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Speaker 1: to a full gym at like three o'clock. So someone

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Speaker 1: would have and no one would have said me. No

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Speaker 1: one would have said anything.

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Speaker 3: No one would have said.

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Speaker 1: It was a tale too. It was long, like a

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Speaker 1: solid like thirty forty centimeters.

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Speaker 3: Dude, dad, I was.

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Speaker 1: I sat. I literally I sat back down there and

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Speaker 1: I hit the tilet paper quickly because I was a

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Speaker 1: because I turned my body that way. I was like,

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Speaker 1: someone's looking out for me. You've believing God, Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Well I'll tell you why I don't believe because I

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Speaker 2: have a similar story.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy that you bring that up.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Ah, you're going to hate this year six Okay.

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Speaker 1: It's like the first my first week of going to

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Speaker 2: I'm the new kid started school in years the last

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Speaker 1: Daunting, that is, dude, Okay, and no friends?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, literally, I don't really know anyone.

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Speaker 1: This might be why I don't really and I go

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Speaker 2: I remember, I go to the toilet it's a core

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Speaker 2: And I get there and I had to take a shit.

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Speaker 2: But there was footprints on the toilet seat, and I

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Speaker 2: So I put toilet paper on the toilet seat so

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, like, who wouldn't save your barcakes?

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Speaker 2: And so I do my business, go back into class

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Speaker 2: and the teacher just taking care of us in that

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Speaker 2: little testing heart. She saw it and pulled it out.

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Speaker 1: Oh what a legend. But the whole fucking class. So

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, she saved you and so she

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Speaker 2: But and then I remember, I remember like once we

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Speaker 1: And I was like oh, and I had to be

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Speaker 1: like I was just like, I don't know, man, I

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Speaker 1: was pretending to be a fairy. Oh for I. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, man proms to that teacher though, because that

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Speaker 1: could have had like pool on the other end, you

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Speaker 1: never know where it's being.

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Speaker 2: Clearly it was the one that I was touching my

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Speaker 1: Fuck. There we go, There we go. I got saved.

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Speaker 1: You didn't, No, I didn't. I had a small bit

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Speaker 2: But that's crazy that you brought that up. That was

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Speaker 2: kind of like a memory. I never thought i'd tell you.

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Speaker 2: Probably forgot about it it. But today, what did we

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Speaker 2: want to start the episode with?

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Speaker 1: Well, look, I'm not gonna lie to you. I so

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Speaker 1: I live with my sister. Yeah we all know that now.

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Speaker 1: I live with my sister. Yes, it's a mission.

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Speaker 2: And quite often I will either my mom in Canada,

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Speaker 2: she'll call me, or even if Joanna and I go

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Speaker 2: often feel interrogated about stuff I've been doing at the

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Speaker 1: And she does it in front of the parents, and she.

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Speaker 2: She vents to them, and then and then it comes

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Speaker 2: She she asked me to stop doing stuff all time too.

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Speaker 2: But like, you know, the stuff that she thinks I'm

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Speaker 3: So a devil child.

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Speaker 2: So what it got me thinking about was I feel

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Speaker 2: like everything thing I do is wrong. So we thought

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Speaker 2: we'd ask the IG this week, what are things guys

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Speaker 2: do that are wrong?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And the responses they were good. We were chuckling to

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Speaker 1: ourselves just having lunch before reading these pleasantly pleasantly surprised. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to go first, Sure, things men do

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Speaker 1: that are wrong? Breathe, yeah, let me be and we

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Speaker 1: breathe loudly, and I know we do yeah, it's just existing.

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Speaker 1: Let me sigh as well. Okay, while we're on the

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Speaker 1: top of let me sigh. I sign there. Things men

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Speaker 1: do that is wrong. They buy cheap cheese.

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Speaker 2: Yo. I always look for the cheese that's not sale,

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Speaker 2: the home brand on sale cheese.

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Speaker 1: That's so true. And all the girls love that Camembert

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Speaker 1: like that fancy stuff. I don't even think camember is that.

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Speaker 2: All I'm getting is just cheddar sliced, home brand, light

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Speaker 2: and tasty whatever it is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: I look above a plastic cheese, A step above that

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Speaker 1: What is that? But I don't know. I think it's

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Speaker 1: like fifty percent plastic or something. Fucking hell. Things men

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Speaker 1: do that are wrong cook us, dinner, meet our family,

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Speaker 1: stay with us every weekend, but won't date us. Oh

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Speaker 1: too many guys do that. They need to hear that,

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Speaker 1: they need to get out there. We're just friends. What

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Speaker 1: do you think we're doing. We spoke about this, We

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Speaker 1: spoke about things men do that are wrong. Ask the nudes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw a really funny one the other day.

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Speaker 1: That's fucked. I find a funny nude. No, I saw

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Speaker 1: a funny way of a guy asking for you said

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Speaker 4: I was like, come on, mate, so I can't say

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Speaker 4: that there's a girl screenshoed to snapchat message a blue

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Speaker 4: chat message, and the guy was like, my sister's getting

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Speaker 4: her nipples pierced, and I know that you have some

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Speaker 4: and they aren't fake.

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Speaker 2: And I was just wondering, like I told her that

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Speaker 2: you have someone. She asked if you could maybe send

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Speaker 2: a photo and I'll give her my phone and she's

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Speaker 2: not going to show me like I promise this.

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Speaker 1: Way. This man smart. You gotta do what you gotta do.

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Speaker 1: It's a tough world out there.

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Speaker 2: Things men do that are wrong, dressed like a little

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Speaker 2: boy until they get their heartbroken, and then all of

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Speaker 2: a sudden have good style.

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Speaker 1: Oh is that hell where we get our style from.

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Speaker 3: That's how it works.

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Speaker 1: I think, Oh, I didn't process that well. So then

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Speaker 1: I'm saying facts. We have got a heartbroken a couple

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Speaker 1: of times. Some of our friends have never got their

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Speaker 3: Clear some of ourselves. Clearly.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of guys that have never been heartbroken,

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Speaker 2: like ever, they're forty and they have never had that heartbroken.

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Speaker 1: How lucky this one's calling us out things men do

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Speaker 1: that are wrong. How they apply chapstick, Dude, I'm telling

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Speaker 1: you right now, if it's on my lips, it's applied correctly.

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Speaker 3: That's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: If it's on my lips, it has been applied correctly.

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Speaker 3: I just want to say, let me be fucking oh. Literally,

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Speaker 3: before I had.

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Speaker 1: A girlfriend, I thought I was fine, got through life perfectly, fine, mate,

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Speaker 1: They're just about things men do that are wrong. Wash

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Speaker 1: their face with a dirty wash cloth and have perfect skin.

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Speaker 1: That's jealousy. That is jealousy. That's jealous To be fair,

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Speaker 1: I use a clean washcloth. Yeah, no way, I only

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Speaker 1: use it like two or three times. Really hopefully it

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Speaker 1: didn't fall in the bathroom floor. Yeah. I don't even

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Speaker 2: When I when I shave, I will like splash some water,

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Speaker 1: That's all I can. Apparently I do have a bit

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Speaker 1: of a blind pimple up here. You wouldn't even be

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Speaker 1: able to tell if you didn't say anything exactly. Mate,

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Speaker 1: I'm fucking lucky. You are very lucky. Also, love a

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Speaker 1: sweet tweet, never sugar.

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Speaker 3: I actually could eat so shit. I don't ever get

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Speaker 1: I don't even get some wet pipils. Bro. Yeh, cher's

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Speaker 1: just like test or something. Test the theory se if

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Speaker 1: Mate. Things men do that are wrong, say ship that

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Speaker 1: Hate it it. I wouldn't it okay. Things men do

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Speaker 2: I'm not the greatest nurture. Things guys do that are

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Speaker 1: The order of that, grab their balls in public.

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Speaker 1: You don't have anything to Readjust yeah, it's like your

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Speaker 1: It's a good feeling when it's released, just humping the air.

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Speaker 1: Oh, man, my last one. Things men do that are wrong.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to talk about their feelings. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I can agree, we're getting better. Is that wrong? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I think that try, that's I think that's it. I

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Speaker 2: I guess it's valid.

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Speaker 2: My biggest thing is is like, well, if I'm not

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Speaker 1: I think that's growth for you. That's also learning from

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Speaker 1: about it will come better. You're talking about your feelings

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Speaker 2: I got a come, I'm out things Guys do that

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Speaker 2: are wrong, have their wingers on the toilet bowl while pooping. No,

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Speaker 2: if you know someone that does that, tell ask them

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Speaker 2: to get an STD check.

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Speaker 1: Please tell me they don't do that. I'm just tangling.

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Speaker 3: I'm a dangle.

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Speaker 1: I'm a dangle.

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Speaker 2: Also, anyone that tells you that, I'm telling you right now,

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Speaker 1: And if you don't have a foreskin and you're just

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Speaker 2: Okay, I've got one more things guys do that are wrong.

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Speaker 2: Go to take a ship just as you've gotten ready

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Speaker 1: like Jake, Jake, fucking like, Okay, you've got here's my

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Speaker 2: She's on point. I'm gonna say so. Sometimes Beth gets.

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Speaker 1: And I don't say anything, but I'm kind.

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Speaker 2: Of like, hey, well, you got to use the bathroom

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Speaker 1: I say that to her. I just never say because

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Speaker 1: That's fair. That's about it's too fair. Jeez, talk, that's

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Speaker 1: talk practice talking about you feeling.

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Speaker 3: I gotta let it out. I gotta let it out.

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Speaker 1: Tell her how you feel?

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Speaker 3: Do you feel better?

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Speaker 1: I mean no, because I didn't say it to her. Yeah,

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00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:54,640
Speaker 1: it's practice, Yeah, yeah, yeah.

440
00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:02,639
Speaker 3: Alrighty guys.

441
00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,320
Speaker 2: The next segment coming up is actually a pre recorded

442
00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:07,800
Speaker 2: segment with our friend Harry Quail, who you may know,

443
00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:11,080
Speaker 2: who you've heard on past episode that we pranked. Actually, yeah,

444
00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,919
Speaker 2: we franked him, so it's safe. We pre recorded this

445
00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:17,359
Speaker 2: with him. He came here with samples for some jumpers, yes,

446
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:20,119
Speaker 2: and we recorded some content with him. We recorded a

447
00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:21,959
Speaker 2: segment for the podcast that's going to be coming out

448
00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:25,359
Speaker 2: right now as you hear this, and that this is

449
00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:26,840
Speaker 2: our conversation with him. So we just want to let

450
00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:28,240
Speaker 2: you know that this is a pre recorded thing.

451
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:31,560
Speaker 1: This is in relation to working with him doing his

452
00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 1: clothing brand Blues and Greens Slash Relatables Hoodies coming soon

453
00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:42,119
Speaker 1: very soon, all right, guys. Up next is a bit

454
00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,920
Speaker 1: of a monumental thing for us. I would say, Jake,

455
00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:48,240
Speaker 1: it's pretty big. It's pretty big. We started this podcast

456
00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:51,439
Speaker 1: coming up on two years ago, two we started in

457
00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:56,400
Speaker 1: June twenty twenty twenty two. It was June, like June

458
00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:58,880
Speaker 1: twenty two, twenty twenty two or something along those lines,

459
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,480
Speaker 1: very close to a year from there. It's we never

460
00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 1: thought it would get to where it is to this day.

461
00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:04,200
Speaker 1: I don't.

462
00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:07,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we went into it thinking just start something,

463
00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:09,440
Speaker 2: and then I don't think we thought it would get

464
00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:11,600
Speaker 2: where it's this, where it is this quickly.

465
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 1: No, not at all. We're very appreciative of everyone who listens,

466
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:18,200
Speaker 1: and this is exciting for us. Jake very because we're

467
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 1: doing something that we're doing a clothing drop with we

468
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:23,240
Speaker 1: can now call him a good friend.

469
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's exciting for us to release something that

470
00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:29,439
Speaker 2: we haven't actually thought we could ever do, and to

471
00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:31,720
Speaker 2: do it with a clothing line that we love and

472
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:36,360
Speaker 2: actually where Yeah. So I guess i'd like we want

473
00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:39,600
Speaker 2: to introduce a little special guest to the episode, Harry

474
00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:40,400
Speaker 2: good to be.

475
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:46,439
Speaker 1: First name Harry, last name Blues and Greens, last name

476
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:51,680
Speaker 1: Quaile Harry Quail, who is the proud.

477
00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 2: Owner of a clothing line called Blues and Greens that

478
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 2: you guys have probably seen.

479
00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 1: Us where Yeah, we wear them all the time on

480
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 1: the podcast and you would have seen him is always

481
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,400
Speaker 1: wearing the vest, always wear the hoodie. Yeah yeah.

482
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 2: My favorite thing is the shorts, yeah, by far, and

483
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:07,720
Speaker 2: then in winter definitely, the hoodies are just you can't

484
00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:10,199
Speaker 2: beat the quality. But so we love it. And so

485
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:13,679
Speaker 2: Harry's over here in our actual studio.

486
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 1: It's good to be here in Sydney. Came along ways

487
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 1: from Perth. From Perth, five hours, five hours. Thank you

488
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:22,920
Speaker 1: for coming on, Yeah yeah, thanks for coming on committment

489
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:24,880
Speaker 1: to the course. I pick him up from the airport

490
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,400
Speaker 1: and and he's come all the way.

491
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:32,439
Speaker 2: From Perth, paid for his own We didn't blow him out, right, granted, well,

492
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:33,959
Speaker 2: let's not make him look too good. His mum used

493
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,120
Speaker 2: to work for an airline, so he gets cheap lights, right,

494
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,120
Speaker 2: he gets some cheap legs. And then so I picked

495
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:42,200
Speaker 2: him uprom the airport. He's all obviously very appreciative, and

496
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 2: we stopped to get a coffee because we're coming to

497
00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:46,119
Speaker 2: an hour and a half drive from the airport to

498
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 2: hear He's like, oh, let me buy your coffee. You're

499
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:49,480
Speaker 2: doing me a massive favor. And I was like, dude,

500
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,520
Speaker 2: you flew fucking five hours here.

501
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:53,919
Speaker 3: We didn't even offer to meet you halfway.

502
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,119
Speaker 1: I was going to get a higher car. I was

503
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 1: just grate for that. You guys picked joke, picked me up.

504
00:22:58,359 --> 00:22:59,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, look, hey you're going to run the gats mate,

505
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 2: I said, my legs in the safety rating.

506
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 1: In a wet I don't know if it crashed. The

507
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 1: airbags were coming straight through from me out. Oh no,

508
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:13,320
Speaker 1: for sure.

509
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 2: Yeah you would have been I think you would have

510
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 2: had a dislocated hip. But what are we releasing with

511
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 2: blues and greens Body? We're doing a hoodie hodie, which

512
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 2: is very very exciting. Two hoodies, not as one hoodie.

513
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:27,720
Speaker 2: Body has a hoodie that he designed.

514
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 1: And Jake has a hoodie that he designed and if

515
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 1: you're on YouTube you can see we're wearing them. Yep.

516
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:33,920
Speaker 2: But we wanted we wanted to give little story of

517
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 2: how we met, how we became acquainted, how the relationship started.

518
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 1: So we only really met like a couple of hours

519
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,280
Speaker 1: ago we actually did. It's been like an a light

520
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 1: online relationship for a few months now.

521
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, we've had a few faced on calls, a lot

522
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 2: of stuff. Like we we went to Harry asking because

523
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 2: we love this stuff. We said, we want to release stuff.

524
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,640
Speaker 2: We have no experience can you help us? And then

525
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 2: we were like, the first one we'll do was let's

526
00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:01,239
Speaker 2: do a collap so relatables blues and green. But you know,

527
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 2: you even been in a relationship and someone goes like,

528
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 2: how did you goes to meet? And it's always just

529
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 2: kind of a bit of a power move when it's like, oh,

530
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:07,680
Speaker 2: she messaged me first.

531
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 1: Oh he messaged me first. So Harry message just I

532
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 1: probably message I don't think joke, probably read it. Yeah,

533
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 1: Harry is one of our very few malee listeners, true,

534
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 1: very true superpower over the rest of the men in

535
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 1: that no one else has. But what was your first

536
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 1: message to it? S wuld you say? I remember I

537
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 1: stumbled across you guys. It was probably on your blow

538
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:30,679
Speaker 1: up stage on TikTok. I used to see you all

539
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, I was very much resonated with things,

540
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 1: you'll say, the conversation you were having, and he's here

541
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 1: we go. We'll read out. Fourth of September eight fifty

542
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: three pm. Stumbled across your pod today, been smashing the apps.

543
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:45,439
Speaker 1: Absolutely exactly what I needed in my ears. Generally, the

544
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 1: way your brain seems to work and the way you

545
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,199
Speaker 1: two converse with each other, just resonates so much of me.

546
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 1: I got my own brand at Blues and greenstot Co.

547
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,120
Speaker 1: Feel free to check it out. But honestly would love

548
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 1: to send you boys some things to rep have a

549
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,160
Speaker 1: few dead stock line around and I think you boys

550
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 1: would love the message of what I got and the

551
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 1: clothes to hopefully keep out the grind, do you and

552
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: outdo the rest. Life is to be lived, and I

553
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 1: love you boys. Do that and don't let your lives

554
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,920
Speaker 1: be shaped by opinions or judgments of others. Blue Love Heart,

555
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 1: what a sweet that's just pulling on the heart strings

556
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:18,119
Speaker 1: right now. It's really just aligning without I don't realize

557
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,200
Speaker 1: it's so deep into our just re read.

558
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 3: It back, Well, we didn't.

559
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 2: I honestly didn't remember because I didn't read the message.

560
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 1: I didn't remember that that that's how we got in contact.

561
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 2: Until before we were like, oh we should we talk

562
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,400
Speaker 2: about We're like, oh, have we had the relationships?

563
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: And then you read that before and we were like

564
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 1: ship like that, I reckon we should play We replied

565
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 1: with a voice message classic from us. I reckon, we'll

566
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 1: play it now. Harry, Audie and Jake, we appreciate your

567
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 1: message so much. Man, your brand looks fucking sick. We're

568
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: happy to wear it on a sent of some stuff.

569
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 1: That's fine by as the message seems to a line

570
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: of our goals pretty well. But yeah, we'll just do

571
00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:00,879
Speaker 1: some someblim subliminal Is that right word? Subliminal? Subliminal messaging?

572
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:04,400
Speaker 1: If we were on the pod still blind, Yeah, that jeez, man,

573
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:04,879
Speaker 1: let us know.

574
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 2: I was fresh out of watching the Barbie movie, mate,

575
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 2: and there's this whole bar We're Ryan Ryan Goslings getting

576
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 2: like the approval from Margot Robbie and he's like, goes

577
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 2: it behind the dois like just give me a second,

578
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 2: Stu Blind, And.

579
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:23,879
Speaker 3: It's just It's just I was in a mood alright.

580
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure were we in Bali? No, No, we

581
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 1: weren't yet. Yeah, just before before.

582
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 2: It must have been just before yeah, yeah, yeah, so

583
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 2: I was fresh out of that.

584
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 1: I think pretty sure. It came out in September. But

585
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 1: we're about to drop some clothing with Blues and Greens

586
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 1: slash Harry. But do you want to tell us a

587
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:42,120
Speaker 1: little bit behind your story of how Blues and Green started? Yeah,

588
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 1: so I started again. I'm a year behind you. So

589
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 1: I started a year but just over a year ago today,

590
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 1: it started as like a I felt like I was

591
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: feeling a hole that I wish I had. There's always

592
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:52,919
Speaker 1: a part of me that I always wanted to do

593
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 1: more than just a clothing brand. Like I've always wanted

594
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 1: to I've been always passionate about mental health and the

595
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 1: conversations around that. I've always much like you. That's why

596
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: you started this podcast, right, like starting conversations with men,

597
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: where I sort of wanted to market my products in

598
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,400
Speaker 1: that way. So a lot of what I do has

599
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,640
Speaker 1: some sort of underlying message in terms of my recent hood.

600
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 1: It was like self love and I've don't think like

601
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 1: the simple things and things that I think are important

602
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 1: to me and aren't spoken about in the mainstream male

603
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 1: males especially, but even just in general. So I like

604
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: to have some sort of powering message what I'm doing,

605
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:31,239
Speaker 1: and also I like to be authentically me. You're like

606
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: you're most of the marketing, yeah, all of the markets.

607
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. And I found that to be the way

608
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to create, like my community, create connectivity things

609
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 1: like that, because I did endeavors to grow it beyond

610
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: the clothing. And there's this right now, it's sort of

611
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 1: my platform to build something that I want to build.

612
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 1: And I'm loving it. I'm loving every bit of it.

613
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 1: It's so so amazing. But yeah, started with it made

614
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 1: like knitted shorts. I found like these skirts, and I

615
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: like knitted women's skirts, and I was like, Man, if

616
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: that was shorts, I'd so wear them. Yeah. Yeah, I've

617
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: got a pair of shot. And that's how I wanted to.

618
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 1: That was up my idea of business. I've always been

619
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 1: business brained, and that was up my hole. I was like, oh,

620
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: this is my chance in and then sort of just

621
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: I dive. I dive in real quick, yeah, and just

622
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:13,959
Speaker 1: learn everything out on the go and that sort of

623
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: if anything, I've taken away from that, and it's been

624
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: like a metaphor moving forward with not only business but

625
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 1: life is just like you want to do something to

626
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 1: dive in and work it out and go as I'm

627
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 1: sure you probably look back on your first episodes two

628
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 1: years ago. Yeah, I don't want to talk about that,

629
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 1: cringe out at all, but you learn along the way,

630
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: go start somewhere. Yeah, now look at it like you've

631
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,479
Speaker 1: got your own little studio and yeah, and that's one

632
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 1: thing we really loved about your brand is it had

633
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 1: a meaning behind all the clothing, like you last drop

634
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 1: with self love. Yeah, one of the shirts I have

635
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: is one of your biggest goals is to have a family,

636
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 1: which really speaks to us because at the end of

637
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 1: the day, this podcast was to normalize men talking about

638
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 1: their feelings and mental health. And I think the brand

639
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 1: alignment is just really good. And I think that's why

640
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: I connected with you guys so much, is like they're

641
00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: like the conversation that you guys have with each other,

642
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 1: a conversations which I have and bind my relationships with

643
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 1: with my close friends. So it was so refreshing. I

644
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: found to have like two guys who looks similar to me,

645
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 1: similar mindset, speaking on social media about these topics, and

646
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 1: it sort of gave me that confidence and reassurance to

647
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like there are other people

648
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: out there, because it is a lonely grind at times,

649
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 1: you two got each other, luckily, Yeah, so you support

650
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: each other and you back each other in boy at

651
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: the times, there definitely days where I'm like, it's on

652
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: my own and if I'm posting something, there's no one

653
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:29,959
Speaker 1: who is stupid. Jake cops it as well. We've got

654
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: a security blanket.

655
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 3: Fully, I admit that I never would.

656
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 2: Have started a podcast without someone and then Audies and

657
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 2: one was like, let's do it. I never even thought

658
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 2: of it. It was his idea. Everyone knows that, everyone knows

659
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 2: our starting story. What about like what actually drove you?

660
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 2: What do you remember the day where you just like

661
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 2: made the decision to take the leap, because it's like

662
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 2: a scary thing to do.

663
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 1: You have to design everything.

664
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 2: And I assume there's millions of people out there that

665
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 2: wanted to start a clothing brand and wanted to start

666
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 2: a brand, and they do the design stage, they do everything,

667
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 2: they plan everything, and then it comes to like actually

668
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 2: investing in product. Yeah, it's just a scary thing and

669
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 2: everyone to get away.

670
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: So I've always, like I said, I've always wanted to

671
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 1: do something, but it actually was a breakup. And you

672
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: hear it all the time, like you go one or

673
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: two ways, or you can go one or two ways,

674
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: but it was like I got broken up with It

675
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: was like the next day I've always like I had

676
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: that idea of these shorts, and the next day actually started

677
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 1: designing stuff and I just spent like so you found

678
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: motivation from the breakup. Yeah, well so instead of we

679
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 1: say go out of the gym, we should say started clothing,

680
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 1: may waste your money. It was a breakup, that's I

681
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: guess that's sometimes you just need a queue to do something.

682
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 1: Sometimes people like we said, breakup, you go to the

683
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: gym and you sort your physical appearance out. I very

684
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 1: much went I like that self love, self care, mental

685
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: health era where I started doing things for me and

686
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:49,959
Speaker 1: I realized that it's like it is my life and

687
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,959
Speaker 1: no one else can fulfill those holes, like you've got

688
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 1: to do it yourself. I think that's what a lot

689
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 1: of my realization came from, is that if you've got goals,

690
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 1: if you've got something that you want to do, if

691
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 1: you got something that you believe in, do it yourself,

692
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: don't wait for someone else. And I think I was

693
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: probably a cue you feel when you're in a relationship,

694
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: you can feel held back. And don't get me wrong,

695
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: like some of the hardest days of my life, hundred

696
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 1: percent was like going through those breakouts, but like the

697
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: best thing that ever happened to me, Like I wouldn't

698
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: be sitting here today and it allowed me, like it

699
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 1: allowed me a springboard and a queue to do something.

700
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: I guess it's interesting.

701
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 2: Yeah. I always say whenever we get maybe a dilemma

702
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 2: or something about a breakup, it's the most cliche thing.

703
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 2: And it's like, you feel shit right now, and I

704
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 2: assume you felt something at the time. It was like

705
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 2: the worst feeling in the world, right, Yeah, And it's

706
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 2: like I felt the same. I remember going through a

707
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 2: breakup feeling the same as worst feeling in the world.

708
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 2: And then the day you kind of think like, oh,

709
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 2: I haven't thought about her at all, and then you

710
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 2: get to a point where it's like, oh, like the

711
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 2: heartbroken version of me was doing all these things to

712
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 2: try and fix me. And it's just like you think

713
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 2: back and you're like, I can't of actually appreciate the heartbreak.

714
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: The way I kind of see it as well. With

715
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 1: heartbreak is like it's not necessarily the absence of the

716
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: person that you miss, because when you're with someone, if

717
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: you've got a healthy relationship, you still spend time away. Yeah,

718
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 1: like the security of your future, which you just planned

719
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 1: and you just invested so much. Yeah, it's like you

720
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 1: you talk about everything you're going to do together, all

721
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 1: these plants, have kids, move out, all these things. And

722
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: now all of a sudden that's gone, and it's like

723
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 1: we say, it's like they die. Yeah it is.

724
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 2: It's like you're grieving you and yourself, and let's not lie.

725
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 2: You're also like, funk, what if she's out there fucking

726
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 2: other dudes? You're thinking like a girl, like we was

727
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 2: out there sucking other girls like of course, and that's

728
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 2: the thing where you're like, fuck, sleep at night.

729
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 1: Ye literally, I don't know how we've ended up talking

730
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: about relationships again, Like everyway, every time your podcast, no

731
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 1: matter what, is always we pulled that back. I can

732
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 1: round circle it though. So you mentioned starting a clothing line.

733
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: It's lonely at times, at least with this collaboration, we

734
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 1: got each other.

735
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 3: We're only a five hour flight or.

736
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 2: Still those free flights you get.

737
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: We've come together to make some clothing and we're having

738
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: a chat about mental health and both our brands, which

739
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 1: I think is very exciting and it's hopefully motivational for

740
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 1: anyone listening to actually listen to your dreams and do it. Yeah,

741
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: where can they find you? Man? Blues and Greens. So

742
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: my brand account is app Bluesinggreens dot coep on Instagram,

743
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 1: on in scam TikTok as well, TikTok as well more

744
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: into everything. I'll try and do as in scam. But yeah,

745
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: all my good stuff's there persons as well, if you

746
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 1: want to check that out. Yeah, Harry Key underscore and

747
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: obviously all my blues and greens is pumped up over

748
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: all over there as well.

749
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 2: Class So if you guys want to check it out,

750
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 2: it's all we wear it, we love it, and we

751
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 2: buy the drops.

752
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 1: You're going to see more of it anyway. Yeah, this

753
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: is just a little preview into it all, and I'm

754
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 1: sure coming soon we're going to be planting each other

755
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: all over our social media's anyways. Awesome, that's it, Thank

756
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 1: you very much man. Thanks all right. I bet you

757
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 1: guys are excited for the Hoodies coming out after that.

758
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: How could you not be. Got a bit of a

759
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 1: behind the scenes of how it all worked and our

760
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: relationship with Harry which is very cool. Hopefully you like him.

761
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 1: But this Thursday, the twenty fifth of July, the Hoodies

762
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 1: will be live. Go to our Instagram to find out

763
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 1: all the details. But there's only a very limited quantity,

764
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 1: so if you've got one, it's the first ever drop.

765
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 1: If you want one, getting never making them again?

766
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 2: No, no, If you have one of those ones, you

767
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 2: know you are og og og Yes.

768
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 1: And it's also if you're in Australia freezing. I would

769
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: buy a one, would buy a thousand each.

770
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, get one of each. There's one made one.

771
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 1: I made one.

772
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,279
Speaker 3: Get your mom one, Jesus Christ.

773
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 1: Up next is dilemmas, So if you want to submit

774
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,280
Speaker 1: a dilemma, it will be a link in the video

775
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 1: or the description of the episode on Spotify. Also linking

776
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: bio on Instagram. Scroll to the bottom. You'll say weekly

777
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 1: dilemmas and where you all anonymous too, So send him

778
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,799
Speaker 1: whatever you need completely anonymous. We need to help, Yes

779
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:41,399
Speaker 1: we are, Hey, guys, love the potty. My dilemma is

780
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 1: I feel as I don't attract I'm eighteen year old.

781
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 1: I just don't get any mal attention. I feel this

782
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 1: may be because I play AFL and have been going

783
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: to the gym for two years now and have more

784
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 1: of a mustly build, But I wouldn't say too bulky.

785
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,879
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm unattractive, but compared to my friend group,

786
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:01,319
Speaker 1: I am mid. Whenever we go out, consistently getting talked

787
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 1: to by guys, even when they all have boyfriends and

788
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,840
Speaker 1: they turn them down. This also could be because I

789
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 1: don't wear much makeup. I don't really dress up the

790
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 1: nicest as I'm insecure about my body and I'm not

791
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,279
Speaker 1: the skinny, petite like all my friends. What do you,

792
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 1: guys reckon I should do to feel more confident or

793
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 1: how to attract males? By the way, I love your

794
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 1: podcast is the best part of my day. I love

795
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 1: you guys so much, Thank you very much. Tough, feel bad.

796
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:26,719
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear this. Yeah, yeah, yeah, first bit

797
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 1: of advice we're given right now, don't do anything to

798
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 1: attract boys. Yeah, actually, good, good advice.

799
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:34,720
Speaker 3: Be you girl.

800
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 1: Don't do anything because you want to attract guys. You

801
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 1: should be doing these things for you, like if you

802
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 1: want to dress without makeup, props to you. You don't

803
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 1: need Like, you don't need that. Some girls do, some

804
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 1: girls don't. You're going to find a guy who can

805
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 1: appreciate you for being you. You don't need to be

806
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: someone you're not just to attract a male. No. I agree,

807
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: it's tough.

808
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 2: It's like we find as humans, we find so much

809
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:58,879
Speaker 2: validation from attention from the opposite sex. Or if you're

810
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 2: the same sex or whatever you feel like, but whatever

811
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 2: you like. But it's so weird that why do we

812
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 2: feel like that? Like why do we feel like we

813
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 2: need validation from the opposite. See, it's like natural instinct.

814
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 2: And then we go to this simple thing like all

815
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 2: my friends get it.

816
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 1: Why don't know? I must be ugly? That's just comparison. Yeah,

817
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 1: Like yeah, we say like it's a saying comparison is

818
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 1: the thief of joy, but it's so true. Yeah, I'm

819
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 1: going to say, I don't know.

820
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 2: I think if you just kind of like, well, to

821
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 2: keep doing your thing, you know, and be happy if

822
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 2: you're if you are happy doing that thing, don't start

823
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 2: to overthink it and think like, oh, well now I

824
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 2: need some male attention to make it like I'm happy,

825
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 2: like to make me happy, you know what I mean.

826
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: So it's like if you're happy playing AFL, going to gym, living.

827
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 2: Your life, blah blah blah, like then you're allowed to

828
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 2: be happy doing that. I don't think even if you've

829
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 2: got some male attention, I don't think it's going to

830
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 2: be what you expect. No, I think like, I don't

831
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 2: think it's going to answer your problems, No, solve your problem.

832
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 1: Sorry, Yeah, you're looking for validation from someone else when

833
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 1: you she'd validate yourself, and coming from two older men.

834
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 1: Attractive traits in women aren't necessarily like dresses or how

835
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 1: they like. You obviously have to be physically attracted to them.

836
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 1: But attractive traits are if you stick, if you love

837
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 1: AFL and you're passionate about that. An attractive trait that

838
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 1: men look for women is being passionate about things. If

839
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: you're passionate about the gym, you're passionate about your hobbies,

840
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 1: and you just do you. That's what attracts nice guys.

841
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: Not wearing a skin pe dress or anything like that.

842
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 1: Just being yourself is what it is attractive and being

843
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: confident in the skin you have, not trying to be

844
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: someone you're not to attract dudes. I think, yeah, no,

845
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: I couldn't agree more. That's I think.

846
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:43,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, It's probably just something you have to ask yourself,

847
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 2: like why do you want male attention because you see

848
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 2: your friends getting it? Is that why you want it?

849
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:51,760
Speaker 2: Or like, do you genuinely just want to fuck someone?

850
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,840
Speaker 2: Like everyone everyone gets horny, Like if you want to

851
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 2: fuck someone, then by all means it's not a bad

852
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 2: reason to get some male attention.

853
00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: But I'm trying to think like I would also say

854
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 1: that you should be consciously practicing what you're saying about yourself.

855
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:11,879
Speaker 1: Even in that sentences, she was saying she's mid, she's

856
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 1: not as good looking as her friends. The world listens

857
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 1: to what you say, and so does your brain. If

858
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:19,439
Speaker 1: you're consciously having thoughts about you, thinking that you're mid,

859
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:22,280
Speaker 1: it's not good and health if your body. You should

860
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: be waking up in the morning and appreciating that you're

861
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 1: a good looking persons and be like, oy, I look

862
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 1: good today, like things like that. You should be confident

863
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:30,279
Speaker 1: putting those things into the world. Don't just ever say

864
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 1: you look mid. If you if you believe you're mid,

865
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 1: you're going to be mid. Yeah, exactly.

866
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:37,720
Speaker 2: If you genuinely are happy in your skin and you

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Speaker 2: believe you're hot, then it's going to come across that

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Speaker 2: you're hot.

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Speaker 1: It is what it is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how it works, really, because you're going to

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Speaker 2: then start acting the way you want to act. I

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Speaker 2: don't know, like just yeah, it's like pay yourself to

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Speaker 2: your friends.

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Speaker 1: It's like how you what's that famous guy gets heaps

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Speaker 1: of hot guy, the funny guy, funny comedian, just Dada,

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Speaker 1: Ka Kardashian, Kim Kathing a shit. What's his name name? Pete,

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Speaker 1: Pete Davison, Pete Davison, Yeah, Pete Davison. So, Pete Davison.

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Speaker 1: I don't think is very good to look at, but

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Speaker 1: you for me, No, I don't think anyone can say

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Speaker 1: that he's like the best looking person ever, but he

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Speaker 1: gets some very very attractive women because he's funny and

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Speaker 1: confident in what he looks like. Yeah, he's a confident guy,

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Speaker 1: and he comes across as super hot because of how

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Speaker 1: confident is in his own skin. Perfect, perfect example. He's

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Speaker 1: not classic hot, which is like anything. He's tall and skinny,

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Speaker 1: probably like the AFL, not like movie star. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: And he's pulling the most attractive women in the world

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Speaker 1: because he's confident in his own skin, which is what

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Speaker 1: everyone should do. Fuck. Yeah, but I say, I think

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Speaker 1: we get some of a good Yeah, I mean I hope. So.

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Speaker 2: I think just definitely learning to love yourself, it's probably

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Speaker 2: the best place to start. That's a great way to

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Speaker 2: definitely learned to love yourself.

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Speaker 1: Learn to love yourself. Good luck, queen, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, guys, thank you for listening. Don't forget Hoodies will

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Speaker 2: be released on Thursday. It's the twenty fifth, the lie.

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Speaker 2: They will be released. Don't miss out.

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Speaker 1: And I don't want to say anything that could be wrong,

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Speaker 1: but if you're on Patreon, you might get a bit

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Speaker 1: of an early access. Maybe you might get a day earlier.

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Speaker 1: So now it's probably the time to become a Patreon member.

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Speaker 1: And it's if you've been thinking about it. It's five

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Speaker 1: dollars a month and you get the amount of content

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Speaker 1: on that, get an extra episode every week for five

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Speaker 1: dollars a month.

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Speaker 3: That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Do the mass in your head. If you get twenty

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Speaker 1: five dollars an hour, how much is that? That's one

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Speaker 1: that's not start doings out. Let's let's start do a

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Speaker 1: mass out of that. Five tonight finishes, finishes, See you guys,

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Speaker 1: Love you,