WEBVTT - SIX DEGREES OF SEPARATION & YOUR HOTLINES!

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<v Speaker 1>I remember once I started dating this guy and then

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<v Speaker 1>my friend was like, oh, you know, this girl knows

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<v Speaker 1>who he is, and she was like, stay away from him.

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<v Speaker 2>He broke my heart and I was like, oh God.

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<v Speaker 2>Where's Your Head At?

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<v Speaker 3>of Where's Your Head At?

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<v Speaker 1>Anna.

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<v Speaker 4>Look where we are.

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<v Speaker 1>We are in the Nova Studios and it feels so good.

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<v Speaker 3>I can see one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight,

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<v Speaker 3>nineteen eleven, twelve thirteen. There's more than fifteen of my

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<v Speaker 3>faces in this.

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<v Speaker 2>Room, and what a blessed place to be. He couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>be happier, couldn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Be happy everywhere I look my face.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's fun. It's awesome to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing that I'm loving most about Big in the

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<v Speaker 1>Nova Studio is that I am in the main seat.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in the hot seating pissed me off.

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<v Speaker 1>And I have this button where I can just mute man,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just gonna talk.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I wanted that seat.

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<v Speaker 2>You're off, You're off.

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to be the anchor, and then you took

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<v Speaker 3>it when I went to.

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<v Speaker 4>Move my car.

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<v Speaker 2>I am the anchor of the show mat for long?

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<v Speaker 4>Not for long? Who to that she's actually getting started?

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<v Speaker 4>Where's your head at?

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<v Speaker 1>My head is like I'm happy. I'm happy to be

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<v Speaker 1>here at twenty five degrees in Melbourne. You're in Melbourne,

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<v Speaker 1>like life is good. Next week I'm going to see

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<v Speaker 1>one of my favorite bands ever and also my celebrity

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<v Speaker 1>hall pass, which is Coldplay or Chris Martin.

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<v Speaker 4>You cann try to get backside.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm not. I'm going with Michael.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>When I say like I have a celebrity hall pass,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like in jess, like I wouldn't actually do it,

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<v Speaker 1>but like if I had to choose one.

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<v Speaker 4>Did Michael have one? In jest?

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<v Speaker 2>No? You know how this?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they did like something for Tammy's Bucks about our

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<v Speaker 3>hall passes and she's like it's in jest and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, well, what about mine in jests and she's like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not a thing game whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Well how was your Bucks party and Hucks party? And

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<v Speaker 2>what was it?

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<v Speaker 4>It was good.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know what to call it. I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>Bucks and Hucks.

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<v Speaker 4>I had a lot of fun though.

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<v Speaker 3>We met up at the We went back to the

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<v Speaker 3>Penthouse or Tammy's Hens and the and we just drank

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<v Speaker 3>and just you know, had had fun.

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<v Speaker 4>Like what do you say, Like you just it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Just a fun time, like being on a bus or hens,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's so fun.

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<v Speaker 3>We went to Top Golf during the day, the boys

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<v Speaker 3>had some Like what happened was the boys had like

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<v Speaker 3>drinking games.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so yeah, fun.

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<v Speaker 3>So if I did certain stuff, I had to have

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<v Speaker 3>a shot at tequila. Yeah. Then we went from Top

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<v Speaker 3>Golf and had a steak and then met up with

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<v Speaker 3>all the girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Your turn on, My turn on is coldplay.

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<v Speaker 1>But my ech of the week is that I lost

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<v Speaker 1>my bank card.

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<v Speaker 2>Very annoying.

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<v Speaker 4>Why do you still have a bank card? Don't you

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<v Speaker 4>use your phone?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, but I haven't been able to place my physical

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<v Speaker 1>card to the point where I was like someone could

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<v Speaker 1>have it, Like I feel like I need like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally I haven't seen it in like six months, so

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, hmmm, I probably should like renew it anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>worst idea of a had renewing it cancels everything. It's yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>cancels everything. Firstly, haven't paid my internet yet internet bill yet,

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<v Speaker 1>which you've just reminded me of, so thank you for that.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I ordered it like two weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Never came. Then I called them this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I was on hold for so long, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if this is just my bank, but they say

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<v Speaker 1>this thing that just really grinds my gears, Like there's

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<v Speaker 1>not a lot that gets under my skin, but this

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<v Speaker 1>gets under my skin. So they say, we appreciate your patients.

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<v Speaker 1>So they don't say appreciate. They're like, thank you for holding,

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<v Speaker 1>We appreciate to your patients.

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<v Speaker 4>What does that even mean.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just the way they're saying appreciate, like they're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be passed, like.

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<v Speaker 2>We appreciate your patients.

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<v Speaker 4>And what did they say every thirty seconds?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I'm like, I'm going to appreciate you in

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<v Speaker 2>a minute.

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<v Speaker 4>And there's all like elevated music in the background. Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>And you hate life admin at the best of times.

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<v Speaker 1>Hate life Admin, especially when I've already done the life

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<v Speaker 1>admin to get the new card. The new card hasn't come,

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<v Speaker 1>and now I'm on the phone again getting a new one.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway they've express posted it. I did put in a

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<v Speaker 1>complaint and I'm getting free express posts.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's hope it gets here this week.

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<v Speaker 3>Smart Well, my turn off is literally much for muchness

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<v Speaker 3>of yours? Okay, mine is I flew from because I

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<v Speaker 3>dropped hammy off at Brisbane Airport to catch your international

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<v Speaker 3>flight to Greece, and then I boarded one for Melbourne

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<v Speaker 3>the other day. And I don't know if anyone's from

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<v Speaker 3>Brisbane being to the airport recently they're renovating it all

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<v Speaker 3>and they've moved security checking to this random point and

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<v Speaker 3>I had to fucking get there. I was running like

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<v Speaker 3>from a flight they started boarding and as I and

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<v Speaker 3>then those ones because it's the older style ones, I take.

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<v Speaker 4>My laptop out of my bag.

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<v Speaker 3>I left my laptop on the fucking on the thing

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<v Speaker 3>shut Yeah, my laptop here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you've left your laptop at Brisbane Airport.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah I did so.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so unlucky on a Saturday night as well. So

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<v Speaker 3>I like I was calling, no one was answering. I

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<v Speaker 3>lodged I think like three lost property reports on the website.

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<v Speaker 2>I told your boss that you don't have a laptop.

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<v Speaker 3>I've got no I didn't tell him that, but yeah, i'

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<v Speaker 3>what do you call it? So I've called up all

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<v Speaker 3>today on the phone. I had to call this one person.

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<v Speaker 3>They told me, yeah, we've got it, and I had

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<v Speaker 3>to call this company and organize a career.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you know how much it is?

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<v Speaker 2>How much? One hundred fifty? Yeah, that's that's really not ideal.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not ideal. But I mean, you're saving what how

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<v Speaker 4>much is the laptop for these days?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's not just it's not just about the cost

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<v Speaker 1>of the laptop. It's the contents of everything that's on

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<v Speaker 1>there that you need.

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<v Speaker 3>This is true, and this is just to mine and

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<v Speaker 3>yours of not life admin. I don't haven't even got

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<v Speaker 3>to signed into my my likely, I don't think so

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<v Speaker 3>everything on my laptop is on my laptop.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so bad. This is a note to everyone to

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<v Speaker 2>link your ship.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't think that. I was like, fuck, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>have any of that shit. Do I Anna?

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<v Speaker 3>Have you heard of the expression seven degrees of separation.

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<v Speaker 2>Or six degrees of separation?

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<v Speaker 3>Well that's my argument. Actually, I don't think that it's

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<v Speaker 3>six or seven degrees anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>It's apparently six point four, So I think that's why

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<v Speaker 1>it's gone from seven degrees of separation to six degrees.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm going to read the definition in case anyone

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<v Speaker 1>is listening to this, going, what on earth are they

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? So six degrees of separation is the idea

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<v Speaker 1>that all people are six or fewer social connections away

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<v Speaker 1>from each other. As a result, a chain of friend

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<v Speaker 1>of a friend statements can be made to connect any

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<v Speaker 1>two people in a maximum of six steps.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is so interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>And every time you hear someone say it's such a

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<v Speaker 1>small world. I've met this person who knows this person.

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<v Speaker 1>It happens all the time. So this is what six

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<v Speaker 1>degrees or seven degrees of separation isn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, I think it's less now because obviously we

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<v Speaker 3>have so much technology. Everybody knows fucking everyone, everybody you know,

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<v Speaker 3>Like you go to like randomly, Like I remember going

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<v Speaker 3>to like a way to like the UK, and somebody

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<v Speaker 3>knows somebody who knows someone at a pub.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you know what I mean? It's so small.

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<v Speaker 3>These days, Like just literally the other day, I know

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<v Speaker 3>this isn't that bad, but this is something off the

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<v Speaker 3>top of my head. We're in the Apple store and

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<v Speaker 3>the guy serving us goes to Tammy and I to Tammy,

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<v Speaker 3>how's your dad going, how's his movie going? Like he know,

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, yeah, he's a friend of mine. Oh what yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>he's like where everyone knows everyone, do you know what?

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<v Speaker 2>It's actually interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>So obviously I was born in the UK, and I

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<v Speaker 1>went to school in the UK when I was younger,

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<v Speaker 1>so like this would be I would have been like

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<v Speaker 1>seven or eight years old when I left the UK,

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<v Speaker 1>so I would have been very young when I went

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<v Speaker 1>to this school. And when I was in I Betha,

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<v Speaker 1>when I was twenty, this girl came up to me

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<v Speaker 1>and she was Scottish. The school I went to was

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<v Speaker 1>in Scotland, and she was like, hi, it's and said

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<v Speaker 1>her full name and I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was.

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<v Speaker 4>Her and I recognized you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how she recognized me, but then I

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<v Speaker 1>like looked at her and I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>it is her. And we went to school together when

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<v Speaker 1>we were younger, and like I was now living in Australia,

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<v Speaker 1>she was in the UK, I'm pretty sure, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we both somehow were partying at the same club in

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<v Speaker 1>I Betha.

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<v Speaker 2>What are the chances, Well.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I that's what I'm starting to believe.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think that, Like, do you think it's make

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<v Speaker 3>it harder for people to date because obviously, like you know,

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<v Speaker 3>everybody knows, so you can be like, oh, they've you know,

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<v Speaker 3>they slept with them.

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<v Speaker 2>My friend like, not really.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there's so many people who you could meet

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<v Speaker 1>who you might have maybe zero connection with. In some ways,

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<v Speaker 1>people like do like that. But then I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>as a woman, sometimes like for safety, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>be like you know, like I mean, sometimes it works

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<v Speaker 1>like against you. I remember once I started dating this

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<v Speaker 1>guy and then my friend was like, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>this girl knows who he is, and she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>stay away from him. He broke my heart and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh god.

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<v Speaker 2>And then he did end.

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<v Speaker 1>Up like in some ways breaking your heart, not breaking

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<v Speaker 1>my heart, but he was a huge fuck boy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's actually interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>One of my best friends is dating this guy officially

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<v Speaker 1>now there.

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<v Speaker 2>I think they've been together for like a month.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, my parents knew him before any of us knew him,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's because he owns the restaurant that my parents

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<v Speaker 1>love going to. And the reason why she even met

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<v Speaker 1>him is because from Michael's surprise birthday, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>where can I go close to me? And my parents like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you should go to this restaurant that we love, which

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<v Speaker 1>is how they knew him. Then we ended up going

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<v Speaker 1>there and that's how they met and now they're happily together.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, what are the chances?

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<v Speaker 3>I told you, I don't believe it's six or seven

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<v Speaker 3>degrees anymore. I believe it's probably three or two. No,

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<v Speaker 3>way three, at least four.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 4>I reckon everybody. I reckon everybody knows everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's a little bit different with social media.

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<v Speaker 1>You just have to think about like if you're walking

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<v Speaker 1>like let's say you're walking Flintish Street station with heaps

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<v Speaker 1>and heaps of people, I think six degrees of separation

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<v Speaker 1>is probably a bit more realistic. I think you're thinking

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<v Speaker 1>more like social media vibes. Yeah, okay, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like you're thinking, but you know what, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know what I'm trying to say, Well, in the industry,

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<v Speaker 3>in like the communities you.

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<v Speaker 1>Move in your own industry, of course, it's probably lessons.

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<v Speaker 4>Or in your communities or in your little circles.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, but they're all intertwined. No, Like I've seen

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<v Speaker 3>people post stories with people and I'm like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 3>know that person from blah blah and they're with this person.

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<v Speaker 4>I went to school with.

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<v Speaker 2>Yah, it's weird when that happens. And like, how do

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<v Speaker 2>they know?

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<v Speaker 4>How do they know each other because they've got a

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<v Speaker 4>job at I.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't know, but it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you're friends with someone and then you know

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<v Speaker 1>someone else and they're a friend of yours, it makes

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<v Speaker 1>sense that those two people would potentially be friends because

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<v Speaker 1>you like them, and.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, there's no reason for them to know each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but like I guess, like what I'm saying is,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're friends with them and you like both those people,

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<v Speaker 1>it makes sense that they would like each other.

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<v Speaker 4>That's true. Yeah, well I have.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's probably around the same age group.

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<v Speaker 3>True, potentially they probably Yeah, well I want to take

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<v Speaker 3>it to our audience, but I want to know dating. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>if you have gone on a date or started dating

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<v Speaker 3>someone or anything like that and you've realized that there

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<v Speaker 3>is a smaller connection between you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I love this, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, I don't know how some I want to hear

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<v Speaker 4>some one once.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like it's like your second cousin. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that's interesting, but you know, what I mean, like that

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<v Speaker 3>someone there was someone's ex or something something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do a voicemail on this. That would be so good.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's open the hotline to that.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 3>So. A couple of episodes ago, I don't know which

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<v Speaker 3>one it was, I asked you if you think that

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<v Speaker 3>Shampoo and Condition are friends.

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<v Speaker 2>You did ask me that, and.

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<v Speaker 3>We took it to the Facebook page, and here's what

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<v Speaker 3>some of you guys thought. Tiffany says, they are in

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<v Speaker 3>a situationship and it will never never go any further

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<v Speaker 3>than that, sadly.

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<v Speaker 2>But they're always going to be in that situationship because

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<v Speaker 2>you need them both.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Lauren said, love this question. I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 3>I think they both have big egos because they are

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<v Speaker 3>both important. Think they are better than one another.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm true.

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<v Speaker 4>Jill said, I think they are friends.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't have the same agenda though, so both equally

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<v Speaker 3>important friends. They can't live without each other. Kelly says, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I think so.

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<v Speaker 2>I think they're friends.

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<v Speaker 3>Amy says, I think they're distant distant cousins. They come

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<v Speaker 3>together for family reunions, hair washed day, but don't hang

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<v Speaker 3>out other than reunions.

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<v Speaker 4>I love that one. That's probably the best.

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<v Speaker 2>Well done, Amy love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Matt, let's jump into a hot line. You have

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<v Speaker 1>one ready to go.

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<v Speaker 4>I do so.

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<v Speaker 3>Spooky season coming up, so we asked you guys to

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<v Speaker 3>send us your horror dating stories or your worst ghosting story.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>So this one comes from Claudia.

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<v Speaker 5>I just wanted to say I absolutely love you guys

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<v Speaker 5>and love your podcast, listening to it every week. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>so my horror dating story is that I matched with

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<v Speaker 5>this guy on Bumble. He said he would take me

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<v Speaker 5>out for lunch. He wanted to keep the place a surprise,

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<v Speaker 5>and I was young. I just went along with it.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, okay. And then when I went to

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<v Speaker 5>meet him, I asking about our date was at KFC.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, I was like, cool, We'll keep rolling with this.

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<v Speaker 5>I sat down with him, we both got some food.

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<v Speaker 5>We were eating. He then randomly started talking to me

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<v Speaker 5>about farting. He kept laughing and then just kept telling

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<v Speaker 5>me all these different stories about him farting at work

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<v Speaker 5>and people, and just kept carrying on about how funny

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<v Speaker 5>he thought it was.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, I felt really awkward and didn't know what

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<v Speaker 2>to do.

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<v Speaker 5>And no matter how hard I tried to change the topic.

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<v Speaker 2>It just didn't work.

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<v Speaker 5>And in case anyone is wondering, no, I did not

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<v Speaker 5>go out with him.

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<v Speaker 2>Again after that. Thank god.

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<v Speaker 4>Two things.

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<v Speaker 3>Surely that's a setup for the boys. No, like that,

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<v Speaker 3>and you're actually doing do you know what I'm trying

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<v Speaker 3>to say?

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe he was really nervous and just like didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what to talk about, and he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I can make this girl laugh.

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<v Speaker 4>Was it like taking a girl to KFC?

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<v Speaker 2>Look, we love the kernel. There's nothing wrong. What are.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>True?

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<v Speaker 2>You're you're getting what is it KFC?

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<v Speaker 4>For dad? He asked for his birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>Dinner exactly, So there's nothing wrong with KFC. I was

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<v Speaker 1>once taken to McDonald's on a first day and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know what, really I don't hate McDonald so,

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<v Speaker 1>like whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>How old were you, like twenty six?

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<v Speaker 4>Was it like for a mcflurry or was it for

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<v Speaker 4>a sit down meal?

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<v Speaker 1>It was like for chips and a burger. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>liked it. I do like McDonald's.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, there's nothing against the KFC. Like it could be.

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<v Speaker 2>It's definitely could be better.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I'm not gonna lie Zinger Box is pretty good.

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<v Speaker 2>I love like I hungover Zingerbox.

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<v Speaker 3>I love chicken wings since Tammy loves him and I

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<v Speaker 3>love yeah genuinely.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know Fat Jack's Chicken Wings. Who's that Fat

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<v Speaker 1>Jacks is? Like in Noln, there's a couple of stores

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<v Speaker 1>Fat Jackson Melbourne with the blue cheese sauce. Anyway, we're

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<v Speaker 1>getting distracted tonight, ok yeah, I'm ready for some wings.

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<v Speaker 1>So basically, I would say the KFC is okay, we

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<v Speaker 1>can overlook that, but the farting is disgusting, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>hate it when guys fart in front of me. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's foul and I hate it, Like why talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it? It's not even funny, Like it's disgusting. You're

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<v Speaker 1>like passing wind from your asshole. Like I don't need

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<v Speaker 1>you to talk about it. I don't need you to

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<v Speaker 1>think it's funny like that. For me, I would leave

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<v Speaker 1>the day.

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<v Speaker 3>I am quite a windy person when I wake up

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<v Speaker 3>in the mornings.

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<v Speaker 1>Michael does this thing and here goes he're like fart

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<v Speaker 1>and he'll be like it's okay, it's no fragrance, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it's like it's fragrance free.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I say true, but I do it like after

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<v Speaker 4>so you hear.

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<v Speaker 3>Calls it fluffing, she goes fluff that's very cree so

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<v Speaker 3>it makes her laugh.

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<v Speaker 2>Kids love fighting, but yeah, no for me, it's a

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<v Speaker 2>strong name.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so this one comes in from Kayla. Hey guys.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, I love the podcast, thank you.

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<v Speaker 6>But yeah, this one was a date with a tinder boy,

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<v Speaker 6>a first date. First of all, he made me pick

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<v Speaker 6>him up because he'd lost.

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<v Speaker 2>His license red red fla.

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<v Speaker 6>But I'll be honest, I wasn't looking for anything serious,

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<v Speaker 6>but this day went south so fast, so I picked

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<v Speaker 6>him up. We went back to his place walking and

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<v Speaker 6>it was like ultimate bachelor pad and absolute mess. But

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<v Speaker 6>I thought, you know what, I'll look past it because

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not looking for anything serious and just kept going.

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<v Speaker 6>He proceeded to tell me that some of his friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Were having drinks to the local pub, and.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought, awesome, you know, chilled environment, let's go. So

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<v Speaker 6>I go and get ready. We head out to this pub.

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<v Speaker 6>When we show up, it's not just his friends, but

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<v Speaker 6>it was also his family and it was actually a

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<v Speaker 6>dinner to celebrate him getting out of prison. It was

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<v Speaker 6>pretty shocked, and then he proceeded to introduce me as

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<v Speaker 6>his girlfriend. No sorry, Yeah, so proceeds to introduce me

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<v Speaker 6>as his girlfriend, takes like photos of us together, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>throughout the night, and it's posting.

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<v Speaker 2>Them on his storyfied man like.

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<v Speaker 6>Later in the night, I ended up in the bathroom

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<v Speaker 6>with one of his cousins who was like, oh my god, like,

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<v Speaker 6>you're such a nice girl, Like how did you guys meet?

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<v Speaker 6>And I had to be like, I've literally never met

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<v Speaker 6>him before tonight, like this is literally the first time

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<v Speaker 6>that we've hung out. Anyway, I felt like really really trapped,

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<v Speaker 6>and I had a few drinks so I couldn't drive home,

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<v Speaker 6>so I had to go back to the Bauchpad and

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<v Speaker 6>I ended up sneaking out at like three am and

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<v Speaker 6>driving home when I knew I was sober enough, blocked

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<v Speaker 6>him on everything and called the girls the next morning,

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<v Speaker 6>and yeah, safe to say we.

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<v Speaker 2>Still laugh about it on my worst date. That is

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<v Speaker 2>some crazy, crazy ship.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, that is funny.

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<v Speaker 1>The audacity of this guy, really, the audacity.

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<v Speaker 3>Imagine taking a girl that you just met, you got

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<v Speaker 3>out of prison, and being like this is my girlfriend, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>How would you unless they're like pen pals or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Whilst he was in prison, but like fucking now.

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<v Speaker 4>And the Bachelor of Hard taken her back to The

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<v Speaker 4>Bachelor of Pad.

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<v Speaker 1>He's so ballsy to do that. Like, if it was me,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Like, I probably go along with it. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a bit of a people pleaser, but.

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<v Speaker 4>I'd probably say you're together.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd probably be like okay, But at the first chance

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<v Speaker 1>I would run, I'd be like, this person is mentally

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<v Speaker 1>unhinged if they think we're together.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I remember like when I had.

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<v Speaker 1>The well, maybe it would be like, no, we're not together,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's announced it in front of everyone, literally everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe i'd just go to I'd go with it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd go with it.

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<v Speaker 4>If saying the girls is that to me? I would

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<v Speaker 4>be like, sure, would you.

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<v Speaker 2>Go with it? You would?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I would. For I would for the story. I

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<v Speaker 4>would for the plot.

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<v Speaker 2>We go with it for the four like I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>boyfriend for the nut. Yeah, I'd probably do it, just

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm a people pleaser. But yeah, that's horrendous.

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<v Speaker 4>That would probably that's up there with one of the

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<v Speaker 4>worst dates I've heard.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's pretty wild.

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<v Speaker 4>We need someone to try top.

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<v Speaker 1>But at least she's like not alone with him, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like crazy, Like at least she's with like the

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<v Speaker 1>whole family. Awkward when ye're true, awkward when she sees

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<v Speaker 1>like the family or something like if you live in

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<v Speaker 1>the local area and they're like, oh, it's someone Say's girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 3>How is he telling his family that they've broken up? Well,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if he's made up that lie that they're together,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure and he's coming.

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<v Speaker 2>He sounds a bit pathology. I'm sure he'll figure it out. Okay, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>that is all we have time for Matt. It's so

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<v Speaker 2>good to be in the Nova studios.

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<v Speaker 3>It is, like I said before, I'm blake asking a

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<v Speaker 3>producer if I'll get distracted because the camera's on my face.

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<v Speaker 2>It's absolutely frothing at once.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been looking at my face everywhere else.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, guys, until next time. Bye,