Speaker 1: Hi, guys, It's easy. This is the first installment of
Speaker 1: Ask Easy, which I'm really really excited about. So I
Speaker 1: was doing a live the other day and one of
Speaker 1: you girls asked for a little like Big Sister Advice column.
Speaker 1: And I don't know how much Big Sister Advice I
Speaker 1: can be giving you guys, but I'm down to give
Speaker 1: it a go. So we asked on my Instagram for
Speaker 1: some questions and I just thought, it's a bit of
Speaker 1: a short episode today, let's just get right into it.
Speaker 1: So the first one I want to start with is
Speaker 1: someone that is so sweet. They just asked how am
Speaker 1: I going? Genuinely, I'm actually going really good, guys. So
Speaker 1: my news resolution was just to put myself first, and
Speaker 1: if you know me, I tend to I think these days,
Speaker 1: put my feelings on the backbone and to avoid conflict.
Speaker 2: And this year has not been my vibe.
Speaker 1: My vibe this year has been literally just doing whatever
Speaker 1: makes me feel good, even if it comes to say,
Speaker 1: you've gone out a couple nights and you have to
Speaker 1: cancel an event because you want to stay at home
Speaker 1: and you kind of feel guilty, but it's like, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do what I want to do, and I feel
Speaker 1: like it has totally changed my outlook and even how
Speaker 1: I present myself to everyone. My PT was even saying
Speaker 1: the other day that she thinks I'm a totally different person.
Speaker 1: I just feel more confident and I feel like things
Speaker 1: are actually going the way that I want them to
Speaker 1: because I'm making those.
Speaker 2: Decisions for myself.
Speaker 1: So if I can say anything, pick yourself, put yourself first.
Speaker 1: It's not even in an argumentative way where I'm like
Speaker 1: fighting with everyone to get everything I want. It's more
Speaker 1: just like the decisions I make are more based around
Speaker 1: what I want and it's not self centered. It's just
Speaker 1: everyone goes to the world doesn't revolve around you yet, but
Speaker 1: my world does.
Speaker 2: My world does revolve around me.
Speaker 1: So that's the sitch, But I'm going really well, thank
Speaker 1: you for asking. So question number two was would you
Speaker 1: ever talk about my ex boyfriend, which we the recent
Speaker 1: one is the one we're referring to. I think I
Speaker 1: vaguely have touched on it, probably as much as I
Speaker 1: ever will. I think some things need to stay between
Speaker 1: two people.
Speaker 2: There's no real bad blood.
Speaker 1: I know, it wasn't like an ideal breakup, and like
Speaker 1: I feel like I've left breadcrumbs about details of that
Speaker 1: throughout all the podcast episodes, so if you want to
Speaker 1: go really listen to them all, you'll find out a
Speaker 1: little bit of information. But I just don't think it's necessary,
Speaker 1: especially seeing as you know he's a public figure as well,
Speaker 1: and like trauma, dumb thing about my breakup is an
Speaker 1: ideal for him either, So I think what I've said
Speaker 1: already will be as much as I ever say. Okay,
Speaker 1: so number three is do I regret anything about having
Speaker 1: my boobs done? So we all know I got my
Speaker 1: boobs done in May last year, so it's almost been
Speaker 1: a whole year, which is crazy, And if I can
Speaker 1: say anything, no, I do want to touch more in
Speaker 1: depth on that on maybe another girl's guy when I'm
Speaker 1: doing it by myself, just because I don't think i've
Speaker 1: even spoken to you guys about it since maybe the
Speaker 1: week after I had it done. So so much has
Speaker 1: gone on, everything's changed, you know, things are kind of
Speaker 1: settling in finally, and it was one of the best
Speaker 1: things I could do for myself, and I'm really happy.
Speaker 1: I've got a lot of confidence. But obviously and saying
Speaker 1: that everyone's different, just because I really like it does
Speaker 1: not mean that you will really like it. Don't follow
Speaker 1: on my footsteps, but yes, I am really wrapped to
Speaker 1: my decision. But we will touch more on that in
Speaker 1: a separate episode. Okay, so another one's advice for someone
Speaker 1: starting up at a gym. I have some serious, hectic
Speaker 1: social anxiety when it comes to gym's. I walked in
Speaker 1: yesterday to my gym and I actually think there was
Speaker 1: sixty boys between the age of eighteen and twenty four
Speaker 1: in there and only me. And then my pet is
Speaker 1: a girl too, so I called her three times and
Speaker 1: she was just around the corner, but like I was
Speaker 1: too scared to walk around the corner to say hello
Speaker 1: to her. I would say, if you want to start
Speaker 1: going to a gym, there are girls gyms, even I
Speaker 1: know that sometimes being around like the other gender can
Speaker 1: be nerve wracking for people going to gym's.
Speaker 2: There's a gym called like fern Wood fern Tree.
Speaker 1: It's like a pink label, and I know that's a
Speaker 1: woman's only gym.
Speaker 2: If not.
Speaker 1: You know, I used to go to the gym and
Speaker 1: I would kind of just start in the treadmill, and
Speaker 1: I feel like that would always make me feel good.
Speaker 1: But if you go with a friend as well, and
Speaker 1: you can do things together. It's a lot less nerve
Speaker 1: wracking if you can afford it. Starting with a PT
Speaker 1: is also amazing because you're already getting all the exercises
Speaker 1: you know, right, and you've got another person there that's
Speaker 1: kind of telling you what to do. I don't know
Speaker 1: if I'd be able to go to the gym I
Speaker 1: go to without a PT, but one of those like
Speaker 1: twenty four to seven gyms as well, I feel like
Speaker 1: aren't as hectic all the time. So going in like
Speaker 1: the off hours or just going with a friend, I
Speaker 1: feel like having someone else there is always really comforting.
Speaker 1: And you just got to do it, girl, because you'll
Speaker 1: feel way better. So next one is do I believe
Speaker 1: when people say you should be single in your twenties.
Speaker 1: I think being single in your twenties is super beneficial.
Speaker 1: I'm I don't think my life would be where it
Speaker 1: is today if I had stayed in a relationship, because
Speaker 1: I feel like, naturally sometimes we prioritize the partner and
Speaker 1: not ourself or our growth or our careers. So I
Speaker 1: am really happy to be single, and I think you
Speaker 1: at least need a little bit of time within the
Speaker 1: twenties to be single, for example, those people that have
Speaker 1: relationships from like sixteen onwards. I do totally get that
Speaker 1: feeling where you end up breaking up because you've never
Speaker 1: been alone.
Speaker 2: I think that is really crucial.
Speaker 1: But I also think that if you're with the right person,
Speaker 1: it can be really nice to like grow together and
Speaker 1: see things together.
Speaker 2: But look, there's good and bad to both. I don't
Speaker 2: really know.
Speaker 1: I'm single and I think it's great, but you guys
Speaker 1: know that I definitely would like to have someone, specially
Speaker 1: in my life. So but I think that's because I
Speaker 1: have really, I think, lapped up my single years thus far.
Speaker 1: I'm twenty five this year, so I've had five years
Speaker 1: of single twenties, so now I'm ready to have a
Speaker 1: partner in my twenties. Okay, so someone said, no, hey,
Speaker 1: but why do you act like you don't get boys.
Speaker 1: I'm not fucking acting like anything. I'm really really not.
Speaker 1: I don't understand it either. I think I'm a catch,
Speaker 1: and I think we all need to have that feeling
Speaker 1: about ourselves.
Speaker 2: You know, confidence is key.
Speaker 1: But I don't know whether some people say maybe it's
Speaker 1: like I intimidate men.
Speaker 2: I don't know. But like, I don't really have a
Speaker 2: lot of guys in my dms.
Speaker 1: But in saying that, yes, there might be randoms, but
Speaker 1: I wouldn't probably respond to like a complete random but
Speaker 1: as in for people that I know or know of, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't really get any of that. I don't really
Speaker 1: get like people hitting me up much. But you know,
Speaker 1: maybe I'm not ready for a man. I'm not putting
Speaker 1: that out in the universe. I am ready for a man,
Speaker 1: and you can text me if you'd like, but I'm
Speaker 1: not lying about that. Someone asks what my worst habit is.
Speaker 1: My worst habit is my lack of time management. I
Speaker 1: would say, I really like I was meant to be
Speaker 1: at the studio this morning at ten.
Speaker 2: I woke up at nine point fifty. How do I
Speaker 2: think that that's gonna happen?
Speaker 1: And I sometimes feel like I rush and I'm always
Speaker 1: late and I can't get out of bed on time.
Speaker 2: So I think that's my worst habit.
Speaker 1: But we all have little shitty habits and I can
Speaker 1: improve on it, so that's time.
Speaker 2: It's fine.
Speaker 1: So another one who is canna easy start a YouTube?
Speaker 1: I will be starting a YouTube. I have a YouTube
Speaker 1: blog in my laptop. I do not know how to
Speaker 1: use iMovie or edit it, and it took me hours
Speaker 1: to get it all uploaded to my computer. I definitely
Speaker 1: intend on starting it, but sometimes, and I'm sure you
Speaker 1: guys can imagine, you wonder, like how interesting is your
Speaker 1: life and how much do people actually want to like
Speaker 1: listen to that sort of stuff. So I think I'm
Speaker 1: just waiting maybe for my life to get a bit
Speaker 1: more crazy and interesting, Like when I go to America.
Speaker 1: I definitely intend on blogging that whole experience, maybe week
Speaker 1: by week so you guys can see everything that goes on,
Speaker 1: because that trip is going to be fucking insane. But
Speaker 1: I will get there, guys, I'm slow starter, but I
Speaker 1: will get there in the end. And then finally, someone said,
Speaker 1: what's my favorite quality in a guy?
Speaker 2: And I think loyalty, like feeling.
Speaker 1: Like you're the only person in the world that matters
Speaker 1: is like definitely my favorite.
Speaker 2: Like I'm a leo.
Speaker 1: I like attention and I like to like when they
Speaker 1: have that little wondering eye or they're like kind of
Speaker 1: hanging around everyone. No, I want him to be like
Speaker 1: sating next to me and like wanting to like be
Speaker 1: on top of me at all.
Speaker 2: Times.
Speaker 1: That's ideal, like touching me all the time, but only
Speaker 1: if I like you otherwise, please take a step back. Anyways,
Speaker 1: that was a quick ask easy. I love doing me
Speaker 1: so I definitely want to do them a little bit
Speaker 1: more often. But guys, let me know if you liked
Speaker 1: or enjoyed this episode, so I kind of know what
Speaker 1: to provide for you guys in the future. But thank
Speaker 1: you for listening and we will see you on Tuesday.