WEBVTT - JFG Girls Guide: Ask Izzy!

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, guys, It's easy. This is the first installment of

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<v Speaker 1>Ask Easy, which I'm really really excited about. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was doing a live the other day and one of

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<v Speaker 1>you girls asked for a little like Big Sister Advice column.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know how much Big Sister Advice I

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<v Speaker 1>can be giving you guys, but I'm down to give

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<v Speaker 1>it a go. So we asked on my Instagram for

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<v Speaker 1>some questions and I just thought, it's a bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a short episode today, let's just get right into it.

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<v Speaker 1>So the first one I want to start with is

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<v Speaker 1>someone that is so sweet. They just asked how am

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<v Speaker 1>I going? Genuinely, I'm actually going really good, guys. So

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<v Speaker 1>my news resolution was just to put myself first, and

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<v Speaker 1>if you know me, I tend to I think these days,

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<v Speaker 1>put my feelings on the backbone and to avoid conflict.

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<v Speaker 2>And this year has not been my vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>My vibe this year has been literally just doing whatever

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<v Speaker 1>makes me feel good, even if it comes to say,

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<v Speaker 1>you've gone out a couple nights and you have to

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<v Speaker 1>cancel an event because you want to stay at home

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<v Speaker 1>and you kind of feel guilty, but it's like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do what I want to do, and I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it has totally changed my outlook and even how

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<v Speaker 1>I present myself to everyone. My PT was even saying

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<v Speaker 1>the other day that she thinks I'm a totally different person.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel more confident and I feel like things

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<v Speaker 1>are actually going the way that I want them to

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm making those.

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<v Speaker 2>Decisions for myself.

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<v Speaker 1>So if I can say anything, pick yourself, put yourself first.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not even in an argumentative way where I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>fighting with everyone to get everything I want. It's more

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<v Speaker 1>just like the decisions I make are more based around

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<v Speaker 1>what I want and it's not self centered. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>everyone goes to the world doesn't revolve around you yet, but

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<v Speaker 1>my world does.

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<v Speaker 2>My world does revolve around me.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the sitch, But I'm going really well, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for asking. So question number two was would you

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<v Speaker 1>ever talk about my ex boyfriend, which we the recent

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<v Speaker 1>one is the one we're referring to. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>vaguely have touched on it, probably as much as I

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<v Speaker 1>ever will. I think some things need to stay between

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<v Speaker 1>two people.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no real bad blood.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, it wasn't like an ideal breakup, and like

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've left breadcrumbs about details of that

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<v Speaker 1>throughout all the podcast episodes, so if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go really listen to them all, you'll find out a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of information. But I just don't think it's necessary,

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<v Speaker 1>especially seeing as you know he's a public figure as well,

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<v Speaker 1>and like trauma, dumb thing about my breakup is an

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<v Speaker 1>ideal for him either, So I think what I've said

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<v Speaker 1>already will be as much as I ever say. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so number three is do I regret anything about having

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<v Speaker 1>my boobs done? So we all know I got my

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<v Speaker 1>boobs done in May last year, so it's almost been

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<v Speaker 1>a whole year, which is crazy, And if I can

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<v Speaker 1>say anything, no, I do want to touch more in

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<v Speaker 1>depth on that on maybe another girl's guy when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing it by myself, just because I don't think i've

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<v Speaker 1>even spoken to you guys about it since maybe the

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<v Speaker 1>week after I had it done. So so much has

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<v Speaker 1>gone on, everything's changed, you know, things are kind of

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<v Speaker 1>settling in finally, and it was one of the best

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<v Speaker 1>things I could do for myself, and I'm really happy.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got a lot of confidence. But obviously and saying

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<v Speaker 1>that everyone's different, just because I really like it does

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<v Speaker 1>not mean that you will really like it. Don't follow

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<v Speaker 1>on my footsteps, but yes, I am really wrapped to

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<v Speaker 1>my decision. But we will touch more on that in

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<v Speaker 1>a separate episode. Okay, so another one's advice for someone

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<v Speaker 1>starting up at a gym. I have some serious, hectic

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<v Speaker 1>social anxiety when it comes to gym's. I walked in

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday to my gym and I actually think there was

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<v Speaker 1>sixty boys between the age of eighteen and twenty four

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<v Speaker 1>in there and only me. And then my pet is

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<v Speaker 1>a girl too, so I called her three times and

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<v Speaker 1>she was just around the corner, but like I was

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<v Speaker 1>too scared to walk around the corner to say hello

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<v Speaker 1>to her. I would say, if you want to start

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<v Speaker 1>going to a gym, there are girls gyms, even I

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<v Speaker 1>know that sometimes being around like the other gender can

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<v Speaker 1>be nerve wracking for people going to gym's.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a gym called like fern Wood fern Tree.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a pink label, and I know that's a

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<v Speaker 1>woman's only gym.

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<v Speaker 2>If not.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I used to go to the gym and

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<v Speaker 1>I would kind of just start in the treadmill, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that would always make me feel good.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you go with a friend as well, and

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<v Speaker 1>you can do things together. It's a lot less nerve

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<v Speaker 1>wracking if you can afford it. Starting with a PT

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<v Speaker 1>is also amazing because you're already getting all the exercises

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<v Speaker 1>you know, right, and you've got another person there that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of telling you what to do. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I'd be able to go to the gym I

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<v Speaker 1>go to without a PT, but one of those like

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four to seven gyms as well, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>aren't as hectic all the time. So going in like

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<v Speaker 1>the off hours or just going with a friend, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like having someone else there is always really comforting.

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<v Speaker 1>And you just got to do it, girl, because you'll

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<v Speaker 1>feel way better. So next one is do I believe

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<v Speaker 1>when people say you should be single in your twenties.

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<v Speaker 1>I think being single in your twenties is super beneficial.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I don't think my life would be where it

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<v Speaker 1>is today if I had stayed in a relationship, because

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, naturally sometimes we prioritize the partner and

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<v Speaker 1>not ourself or our growth or our careers. So I

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<v Speaker 1>am really happy to be single, and I think you

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<v Speaker 1>at least need a little bit of time within the

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<v Speaker 1>twenties to be single, for example, those people that have

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<v Speaker 1>relationships from like sixteen onwards. I do totally get that

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<v Speaker 1>feeling where you end up breaking up because you've never

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<v Speaker 1>been alone.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that is really crucial.

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<v Speaker 1>But I also think that if you're with the right person,

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<v Speaker 1>it can be really nice to like grow together and

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<v Speaker 1>see things together.

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<v Speaker 2>But look, there's good and bad to both. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>really know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm single and I think it's great, but you guys

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<v Speaker 1>know that I definitely would like to have someone, specially

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<v Speaker 1>in my life. So but I think that's because I

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<v Speaker 1>have really, I think, lapped up my single years thus far.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm twenty five this year, so I've had five years

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<v Speaker 1>of single twenties, so now I'm ready to have a

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<v Speaker 1>partner in my twenties. Okay, so someone said, no, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>but why do you act like you don't get boys.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not fucking acting like anything. I'm really really not.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand it either. I think I'm a catch,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think we all need to have that feeling

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<v Speaker 1>about ourselves.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, confidence is key.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know whether some people say maybe it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I intimidate men.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. But like, I don't really have a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of guys in my dms.

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<v Speaker 1>But in saying that, yes, there might be randoms, but

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't probably respond to like a complete random but

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<v Speaker 1>as in for people that I know or know of, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really get any of that. I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>get like people hitting me up much. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I'm not ready for a man. I'm not putting

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<v Speaker 1>that out in the universe. I am ready for a man,

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<v Speaker 1>and you can text me if you'd like, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not lying about that. Someone asks what my worst habit is.

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<v Speaker 1>My worst habit is my lack of time management. I

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<v Speaker 1>would say, I really like I was meant to be

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<v Speaker 1>at the studio this morning at ten.

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<v Speaker 2>I woke up at nine point fifty. How do I

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<v Speaker 2>think that that's gonna happen?

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<v Speaker 1>And I sometimes feel like I rush and I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>late and I can't get out of bed on time.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think that's my worst habit.

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<v Speaker 1>But we all have little shitty habits and I can

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<v Speaker 1>improve on it, so that's time.

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<v Speaker 2>It's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>So another one who is canna easy start a YouTube?

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<v Speaker 1>I will be starting a YouTube. I have a YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>blog in my laptop. I do not know how to

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<v Speaker 1>use iMovie or edit it, and it took me hours

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<v Speaker 1>to get it all uploaded to my computer. I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>intend on starting it, but sometimes, and I'm sure you

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<v Speaker 1>guys can imagine, you wonder, like how interesting is your

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<v Speaker 1>life and how much do people actually want to like

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<v Speaker 1>listen to that sort of stuff. So I think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just waiting maybe for my life to get a bit

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<v Speaker 1>more crazy and interesting, Like when I go to America.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely intend on blogging that whole experience, maybe week

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<v Speaker 1>by week so you guys can see everything that goes on,

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<v Speaker 1>because that trip is going to be fucking insane. But

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<v Speaker 1>I will get there, guys, I'm slow starter, but I

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<v Speaker 1>will get there in the end. And then finally, someone said,

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<v Speaker 1>what's my favorite quality in a guy?

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<v Speaker 2>And I think loyalty, like feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're the only person in the world that matters

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<v Speaker 1>is like definitely my favorite.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm a leo.

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<v Speaker 1>I like attention and I like to like when they

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<v Speaker 1>have that little wondering eye or they're like kind of

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<v Speaker 1>hanging around everyone. No, I want him to be like

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<v Speaker 1>sating next to me and like wanting to like be

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<v Speaker 1>on top of me at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Times.

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<v Speaker 1>That's ideal, like touching me all the time, but only

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<v Speaker 1>if I like you otherwise, please take a step back. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>that was a quick ask easy. I love doing me

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<v Speaker 1>so I definitely want to do them a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more often. But guys, let me know if you liked

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<v Speaker 1>or enjoyed this episode, so I kind of know what

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<v Speaker 1>to provide for you guys in the future. But thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for listening and we will see you on Tuesday.