1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: Hi, guys, It's easy. This is the first installment of 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: Ask Easy, which I'm really really excited about. So I 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: was doing a live the other day and one of 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:12,120 Speaker 1: you girls asked for a little like Big Sister Advice column. 5 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: And I don't know how much Big Sister Advice I 6 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 1: can be giving you guys, but I'm down to give 7 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 1: it a go. So we asked on my Instagram for 8 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: some questions and I just thought, it's a bit of 9 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,440 Speaker 1: a short episode today, let's just get right into it. 10 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: So the first one I want to start with is 11 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: someone that is so sweet. They just asked how am 12 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 1: I going? Genuinely, I'm actually going really good, guys. So 13 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: my news resolution was just to put myself first, and 14 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: if you know me, I tend to I think these days, 15 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: put my feelings on the backbone and to avoid conflict. 16 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 2: And this year has not been my vibe. 17 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: My vibe this year has been literally just doing whatever 18 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 1: makes me feel good, even if it comes to say, 19 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 1: you've gone out a couple nights and you have to 20 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: cancel an event because you want to stay at home 21 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: and you kind of feel guilty, but it's like, I'm 22 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: gonna do what I want to do, and I feel 23 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: like it has totally changed my outlook and even how 24 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: I present myself to everyone. My PT was even saying 25 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: the other day that she thinks I'm a totally different person. 26 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:08,759 Speaker 1: I just feel more confident and I feel like things 27 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: are actually going the way that I want them to 28 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: because I'm making those. 29 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 2: Decisions for myself. 30 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,559 Speaker 1: So if I can say anything, pick yourself, put yourself first. 31 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 1: It's not even in an argumentative way where I'm like 32 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 1: fighting with everyone to get everything I want. It's more 33 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 1: just like the decisions I make are more based around 34 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: what I want and it's not self centered. It's just 35 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 1: everyone goes to the world doesn't revolve around you yet, but 36 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 1: my world does. 37 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 2: My world does revolve around me. 38 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: So that's the sitch, But I'm going really well, thank 39 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 1: you for asking. So question number two was would you 40 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 1: ever talk about my ex boyfriend, which we the recent 41 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: one is the one we're referring to. I think I 42 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: vaguely have touched on it, probably as much as I 43 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: ever will. I think some things need to stay between 44 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: two people. 45 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 2: There's no real bad blood. 46 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: I know, it wasn't like an ideal breakup, and like 47 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: I feel like I've left breadcrumbs about details of that 48 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: throughout all the podcast episodes, so if you want to 49 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: go really listen to them all, you'll find out a 50 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 1: little bit of information. But I just don't think it's necessary, 51 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: especially seeing as you know he's a public figure as well, 52 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:16,079 Speaker 1: and like trauma, dumb thing about my breakup is an 53 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 1: ideal for him either, So I think what I've said 54 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: already will be as much as I ever say. Okay, 55 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 1: so number three is do I regret anything about having 56 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: my boobs done? So we all know I got my 57 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: boobs done in May last year, so it's almost been 58 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: a whole year, which is crazy, And if I can 59 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 1: say anything, no, I do want to touch more in 60 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:42,959 Speaker 1: depth on that on maybe another girl's guy when I'm 61 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: doing it by myself, just because I don't think i've 62 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 1: even spoken to you guys about it since maybe the 63 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: week after I had it done. So so much has 64 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: gone on, everything's changed, you know, things are kind of 65 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: settling in finally, and it was one of the best 66 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: things I could do for myself, and I'm really happy. 67 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: I've got a lot of confidence. But obviously and saying 68 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:04,239 Speaker 1: that everyone's different, just because I really like it does 69 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: not mean that you will really like it. Don't follow 70 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 1: on my footsteps, but yes, I am really wrapped to 71 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 1: my decision. But we will touch more on that in 72 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,679 Speaker 1: a separate episode. Okay, so another one's advice for someone 73 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 1: starting up at a gym. I have some serious, hectic 74 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 1: social anxiety when it comes to gym's. I walked in 75 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: yesterday to my gym and I actually think there was 76 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: sixty boys between the age of eighteen and twenty four 77 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: in there and only me. And then my pet is 78 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 1: a girl too, so I called her three times and 79 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: she was just around the corner, but like I was 80 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: too scared to walk around the corner to say hello 81 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 1: to her. I would say, if you want to start 82 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: going to a gym, there are girls gyms, even I 83 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: know that sometimes being around like the other gender can 84 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: be nerve wracking for people going to gym's. 85 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 2: There's a gym called like fern Wood fern Tree. 86 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 1: It's like a pink label, and I know that's a 87 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: woman's only gym. 88 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 2: If not. 89 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 1: You know, I used to go to the gym and 90 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: I would kind of just start in the treadmill, and 91 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: I feel like that would always make me feel good. 92 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: But if you go with a friend as well, and 93 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: you can do things together. It's a lot less nerve 94 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: wracking if you can afford it. Starting with a PT 95 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 1: is also amazing because you're already getting all the exercises 96 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 1: you know, right, and you've got another person there that's 97 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: kind of telling you what to do. I don't know 98 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: if I'd be able to go to the gym I 99 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: go to without a PT, but one of those like 100 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: twenty four to seven gyms as well, I feel like 101 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,599 Speaker 1: aren't as hectic all the time. So going in like 102 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: the off hours or just going with a friend, I 103 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: feel like having someone else there is always really comforting. 104 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: And you just got to do it, girl, because you'll 105 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 1: feel way better. So next one is do I believe 106 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 1: when people say you should be single in your twenties. 107 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 1: I think being single in your twenties is super beneficial. 108 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 1: I'm I don't think my life would be where it 109 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: is today if I had stayed in a relationship, because 110 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: I feel like, naturally sometimes we prioritize the partner and 111 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: not ourself or our growth or our careers. So I 112 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: am really happy to be single, and I think you 113 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: at least need a little bit of time within the 114 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: twenties to be single, for example, those people that have 115 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 1: relationships from like sixteen onwards. I do totally get that 116 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 1: feeling where you end up breaking up because you've never 117 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 1: been alone. 118 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 2: I think that is really crucial. 119 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 1: But I also think that if you're with the right person, 120 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:13,720 Speaker 1: it can be really nice to like grow together and 121 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 1: see things together. 122 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 2: But look, there's good and bad to both. I don't 123 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 2: really know. 124 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: I'm single and I think it's great, but you guys 125 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: know that I definitely would like to have someone, specially 126 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 1: in my life. So but I think that's because I 127 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: have really, I think, lapped up my single years thus far. 128 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 1: I'm twenty five this year, so I've had five years 129 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 1: of single twenties, so now I'm ready to have a 130 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 1: partner in my twenties. Okay, so someone said, no, hey, 131 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: but why do you act like you don't get boys. 132 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 1: I'm not fucking acting like anything. I'm really really not. 133 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: I don't understand it either. I think I'm a catch, 134 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 1: and I think we all need to have that feeling 135 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: about ourselves. 136 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 2: You know, confidence is key. 137 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: But I don't know whether some people say maybe it's 138 00:05:57,920 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: like I intimidate men. 139 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. But like, I don't really have a 140 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:01,679 Speaker 2: lot of guys in my dms. 141 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,840 Speaker 1: But in saying that, yes, there might be randoms, but 142 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 1: I wouldn't probably respond to like a complete random but 143 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 1: as in for people that I know or know of, Yeah, 144 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: I don't really get any of that. I don't really 145 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: get like people hitting me up much. But you know, 146 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: maybe I'm not ready for a man. I'm not putting 147 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:21,280 Speaker 1: that out in the universe. I am ready for a man, 148 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 1: and you can text me if you'd like, but I'm 149 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: not lying about that. Someone asks what my worst habit is. 150 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 1: My worst habit is my lack of time management. I 151 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: would say, I really like I was meant to be 152 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: at the studio this morning at ten. 153 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 2: I woke up at nine point fifty. How do I 154 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 2: think that that's gonna happen? 155 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 1: And I sometimes feel like I rush and I'm always 156 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: late and I can't get out of bed on time. 157 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 2: So I think that's my worst habit. 158 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: But we all have little shitty habits and I can 159 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: improve on it, so that's time. 160 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 2: It's fine. 161 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: So another one who is canna easy start a YouTube? 162 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,280 Speaker 1: I will be starting a YouTube. I have a YouTube 163 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 1: blog in my laptop. I do not know how to 164 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 1: use iMovie or edit it, and it took me hours 165 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 1: to get it all uploaded to my computer. I definitely 166 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: intend on starting it, but sometimes, and I'm sure you 167 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: guys can imagine, you wonder, like how interesting is your 168 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 1: life and how much do people actually want to like 169 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: listen to that sort of stuff. So I think I'm 170 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: just waiting maybe for my life to get a bit 171 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: more crazy and interesting, Like when I go to America. 172 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: I definitely intend on blogging that whole experience, maybe week 173 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: by week so you guys can see everything that goes on, 174 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: because that trip is going to be fucking insane. But 175 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: I will get there, guys, I'm slow starter, but I 176 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 1: will get there in the end. And then finally, someone said, 177 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: what's my favorite quality in a guy? 178 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 2: And I think loyalty, like feeling. 179 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 1: Like you're the only person in the world that matters 180 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: is like definitely my favorite. 181 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 2: Like I'm a leo. 182 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 1: I like attention and I like to like when they 183 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: have that little wondering eye or they're like kind of 184 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: hanging around everyone. No, I want him to be like 185 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: sating next to me and like wanting to like be 186 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 1: on top of me at all. 187 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 2: Times. 188 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: That's ideal, like touching me all the time, but only 189 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 1: if I like you otherwise, please take a step back. Anyways, 190 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: that was a quick ask easy. I love doing me 191 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 1: so I definitely want to do them a little bit 192 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 1: more often. But guys, let me know if you liked 193 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: or enjoyed this episode, so I kind of know what 194 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 1: to provide for you guys in the future. But thank 195 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: you for listening and we will see you on Tuesday.