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Speaker 1: Is the City with Katelyn ki podcast.

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Speaker 2: I'm still quite proud of this story because you've met

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Speaker 2: my eldest son. His name is Houston.

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Speaker 1: He is well, what a lovely style of a young man.

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Speaker 1: He's done very well.

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Speaker 2: He's first born, Kate, so he's sensitive. He's reserved, not

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Speaker 2: like second born.

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Speaker 3: He's lunatics, a wrecking ball, the.

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Speaker 2: Louse, Lenny soho he is. He's even to the point

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Speaker 2: he doesn't like the attention that you know, he was

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Speaker 2: even asked in his footy team if he wanted to

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Speaker 2: be part of the leadership group. He doesn't want to

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Speaker 2: be part of the leadership group because then the focus

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Speaker 2: is on him. He's one of these kids. A night

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Speaker 2: he started a new school and I cannot believe he's

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Speaker 2: done this, and he's you know, it's taken him a

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Speaker 2: while to get to find friends. And it's hard for

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Speaker 2: any kid who moves from school to school to find

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Speaker 2: new friends, and.

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Speaker 1: In that age group, because how old is he now? Fourteen?

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Speaker 2: Fourteen? Yeah, it's tricky and it's not could age. So

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Speaker 2: he said, can I catch the bus home with a

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Speaker 2: few guys that I've met at school? And I said,

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Speaker 2: you know what that was the best for me. I

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Speaker 2: used to love catching the bus home because you could

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Speaker 2: muck around with your mates and you can have a

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Speaker 2: good time. So I said, yeah for sure. Halfway through

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Speaker 2: the trip on the way home, one kid goes, oh,

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Speaker 2: we've actually worked it out. No one's done it yet,

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Speaker 2: but we think that if someone got off at this

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Speaker 2: stop that's coming up, you could if you sprinted fast enough,

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Speaker 2: you could get to the next stop.

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Speaker 3: Oh, great challenge.

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Speaker 2: Huan's put his hue, he's put his hand.

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Speaker 1: Up and he's really thrown himself in the deep end

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Speaker 1: the bus and now he's going to win impressed and

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Speaker 1: win everyone over with the race.

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Speaker 2: This is huge, Kate, because if he doesn't make it

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Speaker 2: to the next stop, it could be a disaster. Now

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Speaker 2: let me tell you this here. He went to an

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Speaker 2: all boys school before. Now he's at a co ed's

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Speaker 2: all so it has been a bit of a change

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Speaker 2: for him as well. And there's so there's girls on

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Speaker 2: the bus.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: His mate Hugo got his phone out and said, I'll

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Speaker 2: film this.

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Speaker 3: Are you sure do you want to do this?

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Speaker 1: I know hod He checked out the track like it

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Speaker 1: is yield like, did he know whether he'd have to

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Speaker 1: jump over a fence or across the road.

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Speaker 2: He's got a pretty good idea. Now this goes for

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Speaker 2: a minute. Are you ready for this? Okay, okay, Hughey

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Speaker 2: getting off at the first stop.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know where to go.

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Speaker 4: I'm like.

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Speaker 1: The eyes or not to go around here. They come on, well,

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Speaker 1: they're really supportive. They want him to win.

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Speaker 3: The whole buses in on it.

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Speaker 2: He did and got a standing ovation on the bus.

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Speaker 1: Make the bus and he must be bugged. But also

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Speaker 1: the girls been throwing themselves.

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Speaker 2: The girls was the clapping and smiling, and it was

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Speaker 2: the greatest day of his life, said and I said him,

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Speaker 2: that is so awesome. I'm going to catch the bus

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Speaker 2: home with you and.

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Speaker 5: Sits in with her with Caie podcast.

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about ghosties, ghosts. The toilet.

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Speaker 2: What is that worst is that somebody.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's Tommy's shaking his head. Let's not do this.

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Speaker 1: But I have a feeling I'm going to do it anyway.

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Speaker 1: And I think it's when you flush, and well, when

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Speaker 1: somebody told me when they flush and you go, oh,

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Speaker 1: was it ever even here?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: It's when somebody leaves a gift in your toilet o cape.

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Speaker 2: So someone uses your house and they leave it nine

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Speaker 2: and they don't get rid of it.

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Speaker 1: But what has that got to do with a ghost?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 2: The ghosting is.

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Speaker 3: When you go to the toilet and takes itself around

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Speaker 3: the spend and you don't have to flush, and you

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Speaker 3: stitt it up and go where that goes?

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Speaker 7: Is that is that.

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Speaker 2: We're not going to look for the meaning of it.

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Speaker 3: And let's not google googling ghosts and ghosting.

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's so many versions of ghosts, but I'm

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Speaker 1: going to go pretty old school here and just your

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Speaker 1: but that would be wrong.

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Speaker 3: Just a ghosts, okay, standard ghosts.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes talking to ghosts can help, and sometimes people have

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Speaker 1: the skill or the talent of being able to connect

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Speaker 1: with the afterlife.

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Speaker 2: Just I find it so humorous when you're in a

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Speaker 2: room with a media and they go, oh, your grandma's

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Speaker 2: rocked up, and you look around the room and you

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Speaker 2: go where and they go, She's standing right behind you

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Speaker 2: and she said that that day that she dropped you

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Speaker 2: and she's sorry, my gosh, I remember.

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Speaker 1: That Okay, so we've got a non believer in the room. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I think it's very clear that you don't believe in

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Speaker 3: Tom. I don't know whether you're laughing at Kate or

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Speaker 3: you're just googled ghosty. No, I can't say.

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Speaker 2: Guys, so do you keep moving back?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Far more my search history shortly than me. No,

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Speaker 1: give us a call. Thirteen twenty four ten. I mean,

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Speaker 1: maybe you've used connecting with what is that the number?

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Speaker 1: Why are you laughing at me?

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Speaker 3: Think ghost?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Gosh, give us a call because I have a

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Speaker 1: story I'm going to share with you. Thirteen twenty four ten.

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Speaker 1: If you've connected with the afterlife, has it been helpful?

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Speaker 1: I mean, there are psychologists out there that say that

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Speaker 1: sometimes if it's if you've lost a loved one and

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Speaker 1: you're finding the grieving process incredibly difficult, that somehow connecting

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Speaker 1: with those people through a medium can be quite helpful.

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Speaker 1: But it needs to be restricted to a certain period

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Speaker 1: of time. You can't try and have this person in

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Speaker 1: your life forever.

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Speaker 3: Uncle Gary is still here.

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Speaker 2: It would be great to have a ghost that's with

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Speaker 2: you the whole time. Kate and gives you advice I think.

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Speaker 1: You need to be of privacy every now and then. Like,

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Speaker 1: imagine if you did everything in your day all like say,

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Speaker 1: seven days out of a week. That is a week.

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Speaker 1: But imagine if they were there all the time'd be awesome.

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Speaker 2: Like just hey, by the way, kettle's done finished, you

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Speaker 2: know that. Go get yourself to set your tea.

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Speaker 3: You don't need to gohot to you.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you need to go.

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Speaker 2: If you you might be in another room.

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Speaker 1: You want you drink your tea. Maybe there are some

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Speaker 1: things you need to have privacy. You want to drink

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Speaker 2: Just spoke to another ghost. Someone's steal in your car

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Speaker 2: right now, Thanks Dave, Thanks go check it out.

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Speaker 1: But where's the ghost in the bed with you or

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Speaker 1: out in the driveway watching your car all night?

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Speaker 2: They see everything, Kate, This is the thing they be everywhere.

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Speaker 1: I went to a cafe in Queensland once upon a time.

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Speaker 1: This is very years ago, and I was with my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend and we're at the coffee club. He always took

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Speaker 1: me to all of the best places. And I was

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Speaker 1: having a latte in one of those hideous triangular vessels

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Speaker 1: that they tend to serve so tall that you tend

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Speaker 1: to knock them over, and you hate that you've ordered

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Speaker 1: a latte because it's so milky and got to do.

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Speaker 1: I'm sitting there and as I did a little bit,

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Speaker 1: I was crying into my late because it was just

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Speaker 1: not a great day. You're looking at me. People listening.

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Speaker 1: They know they've cried into their latte, They've sat a

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Speaker 1: dinner table with their partner and had an all awful

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Speaker 1: dinner because they you know, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Just not a good advertisement for coffee club?

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Speaker 3: Is it really?

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Speaker 2: You can't go?

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Speaker 1: They did? They do a meaning for carture. But what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying is it wasn't the coffee club that was

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Speaker 1: the issue was probably the person I was sitting at

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Speaker 1: he was doing. It probably thought it was great. It

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Speaker 1: was the best day of his life. Crying my coffee.

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Speaker 3: Again, I'll repeat the question, what's this got to do

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Speaker 3: with the ghost?

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Speaker 1: Well, a woman, right, a woman got up, and she

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Speaker 1: obviously went and ordered her sandwich or something crosser, and

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Speaker 1: and then she came back. Okay, how did it go?

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Speaker 1: And then right, I go to the toilet. I get

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Speaker 1: or something and reassess life. I ghost ghost him anyway

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Speaker 1: she says to me, are you okay? And I said, well,

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Speaker 1: does that bloody well looks like I'm okay. No, I

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Speaker 1: didn't say that. I said, yeah, like what I did,

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Speaker 1: just what you did. Say, Yeah, just fake, fake it

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Speaker 1: till your mate. She said, you'll be okay. She said.

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Speaker 1: I know there's obviously something distressing going on. This whole

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Speaker 1: situation doesn't look great, she said, but you'll be okay

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Speaker 1: because she's one of those medium people. And she could

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Speaker 1: see my guardian angel standing at the table with me

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Speaker 1: watching while I cried.

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Speaker 2: Laughing at you, laughing at you.

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Speaker 1: She said, she could see someone.

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Speaker 3: When you walk back to the table, did you sort

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Speaker 3: of look around a bit and go, I can't believe

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Speaker 3: Had he gone by then to the break up boyfriend?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, he had. She had it many more days

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Speaker 1: of hell to put me.

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Speaker 5: Through fits with her Withie podcast.

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Speaker 1: I want to hear from you if you've got like

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Speaker 1: a really cutesy thing that you do in your relationship

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Speaker 1: just to show how you love each other. And it's

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Speaker 1: just a special thing that the two of you get.

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Speaker 3: Just between the two of you. Yeah, nobody else knows

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Speaker 3: that means.

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Speaker 1: I mean, maybe people do and they envy you from afar, like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, they have such cute gestures of love.

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Speaker 1: I want to say that this is cute because I

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Speaker 1: do love love, and it is the week of the

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Speaker 1: Singles Ball and all of that stuff. But this cutesy

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Speaker 1: sign of love in this relationship could also be the

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Speaker 1: most annoying thing in the world. There's a woman. She's

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Speaker 1: married to Clifford the Big Red Dog, and they have

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Speaker 1: this thing where he I mean, they've been married for

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Speaker 1: forty one years, so they are doing they're doing okay.

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Speaker 1: I know, you spoke to someone on air this morning

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Speaker 1: you'd been married for twenty and you thought that was impressive.

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Speaker 1: Forty one years. Apparently she has made his lunch for

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Speaker 1: work every day of that forty one years. It's amazing

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Speaker 1: and it's still here to deal the tale. And one

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Speaker 1: He's like, somebody's eating my lunch. And at the end

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Speaker 3: When I sat down my lunch break fits and I

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Speaker 1: I think it's cute to start with, but don't you

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Speaker 3: How annoying?

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Speaker 1: Come on, just let me have my lunch. I'm a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can have my lunch without you having the

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Speaker 2: I mean, this is off, it's a little bit different,

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Speaker 1: That is That's exactly what I'm looking for.

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Speaker 3: That is so nice, beautiful man.

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Speaker 2: I haven't changed it since, mainly because I'm very lazy.

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Speaker 1: But you don't know how to do it.

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Speaker 3: No, I've frigging I've got a BlackBerry and I don't

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Speaker 3: what do you do for your husband? That's a bit

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Speaker 5: Every day with them he has the twelve years and

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Speaker 5: every day, depending on my mood, I'll google I love

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Speaker 3: So nice.

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Speaker 1: What time of day does he get them? Like when

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Speaker 3: But I'll send a song through quite often you've recorded. No,

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Speaker 2: Tom also sends through screenshots, but there are a lot

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Speaker 3: That's not really a sign of love. Tom, you actually

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Speaker 3: You do well. I'd like to say a couple of

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Speaker 3: A good idea, that's a good gift. And then he

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Speaker 1: That's really that's really thoughtful. I want to go back

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Speaker 7: That?

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Speaker 1: Which character am I?

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Speaker 3: In the song? The song is called have I told

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Speaker 2: We've got a ron on the line from Will Aaron.

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Speaker 2: What does your partner do to tell you that they

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Speaker 7: Well, she always dances for me on the ring camera,

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Speaker 2: For me, twirking that kind of stuff, Aaron.

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Speaker 7: Or it's more like Napoleon dynamite, just like we need

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Speaker 1: Of human And he sounds really invigorated by calling and

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Speaker 2: That is nice to the single John, Johnny Oyster Bay,

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Speaker 2: how does your wife say I love you?

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Speaker 6: She makes my lunch every single day for the last

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Speaker 1: And what do you get? What's your standard lunch?

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Speaker 6: Could be hen cheese and tomato. It could be a

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Speaker 2: John, do you get a message in there?

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Speaker 3: At all, John, No, I just know what.

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Speaker 3: What's your wife's name?

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Speaker 3: Vicky? And John? What a beautiful, beautiful romance? Tell me.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I've got nothing in the tank

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Speaker 3: isn't that a beautiful story.

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Speaker 6: It's a bit of a twist for you, John, Hang on, Jo,

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Speaker 6: I don't understand why she won't make more lunch for

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Speaker 1: A good question.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, John, it's a fair question.

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Speaker 1: She just wants to make sure you haven't had your

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Speaker 3: Off if you're able to make lunch for John on

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Speaker 1: I actually like it. I poo poo these ideas, but

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Speaker 1: I think it's lovely.

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Speaker 2: That's great, John, Meghan and Harrington Park, how do you

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Speaker 6: Well, my husband and I have been married seventeen years.

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Speaker 5: On Saturday, kids and I put a little barbecue love

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Speaker 1: What's he having of the morning? Is it eggs and

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Speaker 5: Eggs on a muffin with a little sprinkle?

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Speaker 3: Yes, you, Megan, do you know what I do too.

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Speaker 3: There's like a stick on pad that goes inside the

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Speaker 3: to the list sweet kisses.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I know that is cute, Yes, because that is

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Speaker 1: a credit to you. You've got you've got four kids,

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Speaker 1: the hot chocolate. I bet they haven't always been my parts.

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Speaker 2: I bet sometimes it's just an unfortunate that bum bum

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Speaker 2: the cleaner comes with her lips looking around the house

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Speaker 2: like Allison from Regentville. Alison, your hobby is what does

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Speaker 1: And weed?

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Speaker 4: He on our first wedding anniversary he put our first

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Speaker 4: then he adds a song to the CD on our anniversary, Alison.

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Speaker 2: Give us some of the songs over the years that

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Speaker 4: Oh We've got without your Love, Jimmy Barn unchained melody.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's do you do a slow dance with it,

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Speaker 3: Alison around the living room?

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Speaker 5: Well, we used to do.

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Speaker 4: I lost my husband ten years ago, but yeah, right

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Speaker 3: What a beautiful tradition. And now you have those wonderful

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and they mean so much.

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Speaker 1: It's so nice to hear thank you for calling.

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Speaker 3: Oh that was a beautiful call.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know he was gone.

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Speaker 3: But they're those sort of things where you can really

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Absolutely.

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