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Speaker 1: This is the Fitting in with Her with Cake Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: This is a deal breakers that you've got if you

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Speaker 2: single at the moment thirteen twenty for ten, if you

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Speaker 2: want to get involved, what are the deal breakers? Like

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Speaker 2: if you go on a date with somebody and maybe

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Speaker 2: you've matched online and then you're out for date and

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Speaker 2: they seem great and then they say, and what are

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Speaker 2: you doing tomorrow? I've got a job interview. I'm unemployed

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Speaker 2: at the moment. Is that a deal breaker? Or if

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Speaker 2: you women have met a guy and you're there it's

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Speaker 2: going really well. And then she says, tell me about

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Speaker 2: where you live. What do you got and she says,

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Speaker 2: he says, oh, I've got three cats. Is that a

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Speaker 2: deal breaker?

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Speaker 3: That's not a deal breaker.

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Speaker 2: It can be a deal breaker, yeah, And it goes

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Speaker 2: off well, especially when you try to cut it off

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Speaker 2: during dinner and the authorities arrive at the restaurant. That

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Speaker 2: can get in the way. You know, these sorts of things. Ash,

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Speaker 2: when you would date.

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Speaker 3: She's preparing for the news.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I've just hit the topic of online dating.

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Speaker 4: Ash.

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Speaker 2: When you were dating, you're now obviously married to Stephen,

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Speaker 2: which is great news. What were the deal breakers for you.

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Speaker 1: I think if the person I was on a date

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Speaker 1: with was rude to the weight stuff, that was a

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Speaker 1: really dealmaker for me. I was once on a date

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Speaker 1: with a guy kind of whistled and clicked his fingers

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Speaker 1: at the waitress and I.

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Speaker 5: We've had to go at a waitress for the beer

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Speaker 5: the stglass was too warm or.

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Speaker 2: Just come out of the wash ash.

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Speaker 3: You're not going to.

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Speaker 2: Pour a beer into a warm glass, eh.

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Speaker 3: And said I would like another one place?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I went, yeah, the service there was a while.

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Speaker 3: He was cooking a tomahawk, which is weird with a thermometer.

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Speaker 2: Asked, what about if you were to go on a

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Speaker 2: date with a guy would be honest with me? Was

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Speaker 2: this a deal breaker for you? Because you're extremely athletic

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Speaker 2: triathlon freak. If you went out on a date and

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Speaker 2: the guy was a lot chubbier than you expected from

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Speaker 2: the phone online, would that be a deal breaker?

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Speaker 4: As in like they had catfish me?

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Speaker 5: Oh, yeah, it was a big lied about his appearance,

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Speaker 5: pretty big boy.

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Speaker 1: I was always writing personality over that. But I think

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Speaker 1: I think if the person was catfishing you, I think

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Speaker 1: then that's just like a you know, a lack of

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Speaker 1: trust in they're lying to you anyway, So that's probably

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Speaker 1: not a good way to start.

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Speaker 2: Asking for a mate. Do you know what this article

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Speaker 2: goes on to say, this woman's deal breaker is that

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Speaker 2: they need to be worth a minimum of ten million.

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Speaker 3: Dollars give me a break.

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Speaker 2: So suggesting that the ten million dollars will not only

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Speaker 2: supply the lifestyle, but obviously that indicates their level of

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Speaker 2: success as an individual in whatever industry they're in, and

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Speaker 2: it's the amount required to plan a solid future together.

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Speaker 3: Was this an article that least to did with new idea?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she did. She didn't know about thirteen years ago,

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Speaker 2: just as we were walking down the aisle to a

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Speaker 2: quick check and I didn't all have the ten meal.

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Speaker 2: But that that, I mean, where how do you get

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Speaker 2: to that point in a conversation? Or do you put

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Speaker 2: that in your bio when you're on line ash? Can

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Speaker 2: you put things in your bio like must have dark hair,

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Speaker 2: must be a good surfer?

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Speaker 5: Or do you or do you like with a ten

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Speaker 5: meal on that on the first date? Does he have

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Speaker 5: to go to the ATM and get a receipt out

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Speaker 5: and just go.

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Speaker 3: Look, that's not bad way past it.

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Speaker 2: Have a look at this.

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Speaker 3: See I'll see you on date too.

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Speaker 2: Rage from Saint Ives. She's got some deal breakers? What

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Speaker 2: are they? Rage?

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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, it's anyone that uses a hanky.

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Speaker 3: I use a hanky. They're soft and they're beautiful.

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Speaker 4: Disgusting without stuff.

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Speaker 2: What about when people where do you keep it? Fits?

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Speaker 2: Some people keep a hanky up their sleeve. If you

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Speaker 2: got a sleeve shirt.

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Speaker 5: I'm just just in the pocket, like I'll blow my eyes,

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Speaker 5: like if I if you've got to fall on cold

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Speaker 5: and there's a fair bit of mucus, you're not doing that.

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Speaker 5: But but just for just a little every now and then,

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Speaker 5: it's just you just keep it in your pocket.

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Speaker 3: It's fine.

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Speaker 5: I love the old dish distinguished, distinguished gentleman who gets

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Speaker 5: out that's disgusting, rach.

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Speaker 2: What about a skivvy? I'm sorry, I meant to say

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Speaker 2: one of those things you wear underneath the shirt. Sometimes

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Speaker 2: men used to wear them. Single? What about single?

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Speaker 6: If a guy wears a single?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I thought.

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Speaker 3: You got to have the body to wear a singlet.

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Speaker 2: Apparently they're the same thing. Hey, you know what's I

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Speaker 2: can reveal? Tommy and I were sharing this over the weekend.

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Speaker 2: Kate Richie steel breakers. Yeah, man, this is an exclusive

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Speaker 2: come of a drum roll. Yes, we found a list

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Speaker 2: that she'd written on her desk the other day.

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Speaker 6: First one kayaking who you can't kayak? Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Tommy Williams, he's gone.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if that means that they must kayak

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Speaker 6: or they must.

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Speaker 2: It was hard to know on these notes that were

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Speaker 2: stuck up around the office.

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Speaker 6: The other one that she has said is owns a

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Speaker 6: jet ski.

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Speaker 3: Really short Kingston.

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Speaker 2: She wants them to own a jet ski. Time.

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Speaker 6: I can't tell you. She'll tell you at seven o'clock.

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Speaker 3: She'll clarify.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, just so you can take it down

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Speaker 2: to summer Bay and just jet ski around.

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Speaker 3: Both biopic because I've got my top off on it.

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Speaker 2: J oh, maybe that's a good thing. This is so confusing, Kate,

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Speaker 2: What do you actually want? We weren't talking about deal breakers.

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Speaker 2: One woman said, however, I date needs to have ten

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Speaker 2: million dollars. Then, kay, Richie, we found your deal breaker

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Speaker 2: list on your desk.

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Speaker 7: Did I leave that out over the weekend? That is

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Speaker 7: so embarrassed. And it's fifteen meal well and the rest

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Speaker 7: and then it just said in one account.

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Speaker 2: On your noteadd just said jet ski discuss I don't

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Speaker 2: never read the guy because you're the only single person

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Speaker 2: on the team.

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Speaker 7: I'm not single.

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Speaker 5: What okay, this is this, but that's not part of

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Speaker 5: this discussion.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, there's some questions. I've got to ask that.

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Speaker 3: Any deal breakers in this new relationship.

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Speaker 2: So if a guy has a jet ski, is.

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Speaker 4: That or is even interested in a jet ski?

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Speaker 7: Maybe they look at jet skis out on the surf

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Speaker 7: and say something like, Wow, I think I might buy.

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Speaker 4: A jet ski. I don't really shut that down.

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Speaker 2: What is it about the jet ski?

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Speaker 7: I think, okay, it's a few things we've got the time.

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Speaker 4: Not really, not.

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Speaker 3: Really my first you have to wear with it.

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Speaker 7: It's the I'm going to spend money on a jet ski.

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Speaker 7: It's miss miss what's the word miss appropriated funds or

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Speaker 7: misdirected funds.

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Speaker 4: Sure, I don't want to do I'm not. I get

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Speaker 4: that it looks cool out there.

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Speaker 7: No it doesn't. Okay, I'm not even going to say that.

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Speaker 7: But then you have to put it on a trailer,

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Speaker 7: and then you have to get it down there.

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Speaker 2: If you and I are on a date and then I.

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Speaker 4: Say we're not ever going to be hypothetical.

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Speaker 2: Okay, because you're in a relationship. We just found out

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Speaker 2: seven o'clock.

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Speaker 3: Seven o'clock.

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Speaker 2: Now, oh my god, each other. If I say, oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: you're not going to believe it. I've got my new

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Speaker 2: dirt bike arriving tomorrow.

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Speaker 7: Dirt Bike said no, no Ski, Yes, I mean the

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Speaker 7: vintage cars.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to buy a Chevy.

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Speaker 7: I think vintage cars are nice, but they can't be

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Speaker 7: your only car.

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Speaker 4: Maybe they're beautiful, aren't they?

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Speaker 3: What about water skiing? Like, what if they buy a

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Speaker 3: boat ski?

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Speaker 4: No, kayaking was on that list as well.

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Speaker 7: The sports I like water sports, surfings, fine, maybe a

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Speaker 7: really big boat boat.

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Speaker 3: If I just stick to roller blade, I.

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Speaker 7: Don't know about rollerblading. I like to see other people's

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Speaker 7: boyfriends roll the blade. I never ever want to be

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Speaker 7: at the park. Let's be honest and have get out

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Speaker 7: of the car at Centennial and have my little boyfriend

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Speaker 7: roll the blade up to me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's get an ice cream together.

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Speaker 5: I'm going straight to Facebook Marketplace today to sell mine.

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