1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. Do you think the nice worker 2 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: at McDonald's thought you said have a happy day? I 3 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:10,559 Speaker 1: clearly said have a McHappy day. 4 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 2: Mick was a little bit of del You don't try 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 2: it the delivery of Mick. Stop chatting and try it. 6 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: Oh shit. The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Audie 7 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:37,160 Speaker 1: Clark aka Mummy, and my partner in crime, Jack Craig. 8 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 1: Mister daddy. That's fucking god. Everybody listening is the Baddies. 9 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: Thanks for tuning you once again to the Relatables. Yes, 10 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:49,599 Speaker 1: thank you very much. Oh we quickly. I'm excited, quickly 11 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: before he does his thing. He's excited to have the 12 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 1: top of the episode. 13 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 3: But we last week were talking about orchestras and we 14 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 3: were like, is it an orchestrator? 15 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: Is it called an orchestra? What is it? And then 16 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: we convinced ourselves that it's an orchestrator. 17 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 3: Jake convinced me, and we also convinced ourselves we could 18 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 3: do it. Yeah, so I'm still convinced I could do it. 19 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:11,839 Speaker 1: I know what it's called. 20 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:14,679 Speaker 3: But but but we've learnt from a message from a 21 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 3: kind listener, and it is called a conductor. 22 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: And I knew that. How did we not put two 23 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: and two together? I don't know. I'm going to justify 24 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: it by saying, sometimes we get in our heads trying 25 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: to think really quickly orchestrated, like. 26 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:29,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, what I think is like I think we get 27 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 3: in our heads and we're like we need the topic 28 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 3: and needs to move on. 29 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, so like. 30 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 3: Orchestrator it is. 31 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 1: I think that should call it an orchestraer. We're not 32 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 1: even wrong here a train driver. Seriously, you're not a fucker. 33 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 1: You're not conducting ship. You're an orchestrator's like a whistle, 34 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: like we go you you're not a train driver. Oh 35 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: but how I wanted to start the episode today, Jake. 36 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: Last week we found out that I've got some game, 37 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: so I wanted to keep testing my abilities. But this 38 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: time I wanted to use the help of technology. I've 39 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: seen a lot of I don't go to UNI, you 40 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: don't go to UNI, but a lot of people use 41 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: this new thing called chat GBT. Yeah, let's go. We 42 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: can answer any question you ask it. It's quite helpful. Really, 43 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 1: it's pretty cool. 44 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 3: Like I've I've fucked around with it for a bit. 45 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 1: But did you think you could get your girls. No. 46 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: So what I've done is I've used chat GBT to 47 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: reply to my girlfriend's text and see if she noticed it. All. 48 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: Oh god, I'm like kind of nervous. So I went, 49 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: so we need context for what my girlfriend's doing, so 50 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: it makes sense, okay, as of texting her, she was 51 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: in Melbourne seeing her sister and she just got there 52 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: that day. For context, okay, okay, So I said to 53 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 1: chat GBT, the conversation with my girlfriend had pittled out, 54 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: so I was just waiting for a perfect moment to 55 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: say it. So I said to chat GBT, can I 56 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: please have one conversation starter? And chat GBT said, what's 57 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 1: one thing you're looking forward to this week that's good 58 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: for being in Melbourne? And so that's what I said. 59 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 1: My girlfriend's response was this week coming, interesting question. You 60 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: never asked me that enjoy Melbourne? See my boyfriend on Wednesday? 61 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: What about you? Pretty good so far? And what I 62 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 1: did is I copied all my girlfriend's responses and put 63 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: them into chap GBT and said, how would you respond 64 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 1: to this if you've got these texts? Yeah, so this 65 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 1: is chat gbt's response. Sounds like a fun trip I'm 66 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: looking forward to seeing you when you get back from Melbourne. 67 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 1: Have a great time. What's been your highlight of your 68 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: trip so far? Pretty good? Fucking and saying, she says, 69 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: pookies together. I mean, I haven't done much yet. She 70 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: landed like two hours before. Go to breakfast in this 71 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: city at the moment, just leaving a Da Vinci exhibit 72 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 1: which was really cool, and getting dinner with Sky at 73 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: seven and same thing again. I put in chat GBT 74 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: the responses and Chap GBT replied that sounds like a 75 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: lovely day. The Da Vinci exhibit must have been fascinating. 76 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: Enjoy your dinner with Sky. What was your favorite part 77 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: of the exhibition? Oh? Okay, getting in detail. We're getting 78 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: in detail now, she goes, It was actually really cool. 79 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 1: We were there for a while. The big room with 80 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: the screens was a vibe. Why are you asking me 81 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 1: so many questions and being so nice? Why are you 82 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: being so nice? Is your girlfriend's gonna ask you that 83 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 1: there there's something wrong? Same thing again, ask you, GBT, 84 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 1: what to say? I'm glad you enjoyed it. The room 85 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 1: of the screen sounds amazing. Just curious about your day 86 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 1: and missing you can't wait to see you when you 87 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: get back. Dude, this is kind of like good. This 88 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 1: is good. She goes, yeah, I'm pretty tired now, just 89 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 1: going to chill for a bit before dinner. It's so 90 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: cold day, Just curious. You'll never like this? Are you okay? 91 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: Or do you miss me? See you in two days? 92 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: Same thing again. Chat gbt's responses. I can imagine how 93 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: trying it must be after such an event full day. 94 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: I hope you have some good rest before dinner. I 95 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: do miss you a lot too. I'm really looking forward 96 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: to seeing you in two days. And then she goes, 97 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 1: she has to be catching on the some just tired 98 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 1: from getting up early, got a snack, and I'm about 99 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: to be in a potato mood. I miss you too. 100 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 1: How will you survive? About me? How are you? And 101 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 1: this is where I left it? And she still doesn't 102 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: know that I used you left it there and she 103 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: messaged me after and she goes, I started talking normally, 104 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: and she goes, why are you being so nice to me? 105 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:32,280 Speaker 1: I really liked it. Oh, and you haven't told her 106 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: nor I thought you would have at least told her 107 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 1: after you had done. She's gonna so Cassie, if you're listening, 108 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Oh so I'm in the good books and 109 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 1: I see her tonight and she won't know too next week. 110 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: So she got back from Melbourne last night. Oh so 111 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: she got back. 112 00:05:57,920 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 113 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 1: Stop. But to be fair, there's been plenty of occasions 114 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 1: where there's boys or even girls gathered around the phone 115 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 1: trying to think of something to say. Yeah, let's just 116 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: go on chat EBT, plug in the answers, let's go, 117 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: and then you have Bobs, your uncle, you've got yourself, 118 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:18,359 Speaker 1: a girlfriend, you know. Okay, you've inspired me. 119 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 3: We've got I've got until next week to do that, 120 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 3: all right, So I'm gonna do I'm doing this, all right, 121 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 3: I am doing this. 122 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 4: I was. 123 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 1: I was doing it at the gym and I was 124 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 1: laughing at because you just kept going on with it. 125 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 1: Oh you think so nice. I know. I'm going to 126 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,039 Speaker 1: try and I'm going to think of some good little 127 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: actions to say the GPS to chat. Yeah, you need 128 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 1: to put in like a little bit, mess with it 129 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 1: a little bit to make it what you want. But 130 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:51,479 Speaker 1: it was fun. At fuck, that's so good. Okay. 131 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 3: We actually this was requested while we were doing a 132 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 3: live stream. Was it first ever live stream. We were 133 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 3: it was requested the people. The people wanted more cheating 134 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 3: not cheating. Oh so that's good. I think we do 135 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 3: it too much. 136 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. 137 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 3: So we've gone and we've let the Instagram vote for 138 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 3: these ones changed up a bit. I love these ones. Okay, 139 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 3: so I will be our Instagram followers voted on these 140 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 3: cheating not cheatings. But I'm going to ask you what 141 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 3: you think and let you know if you're right or 142 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 3: wrong due to the majority cheating not cheating from the people. 143 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 3: From the people. Okay, So cheating or not cheating getting 144 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 3: coffee or lunch with the other gender. Cheating percentage seventy three. 145 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 1: Not cheating, Isn't that crazy? Coffee? Oh mate, mate, I'll 146 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: be disgusted. You may well kiss me. Stuff the coffee. 147 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: Let's take me back to my room. 148 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 4: Who cheating? 149 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 1: That's crazy. That is disgusting. I think that's crazy. Okay, 150 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: I'm just going to start asking some girls on the 151 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 1: street to go get coffee with me. Facts, well, it's 152 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 1: not cheating. Yeah, this is your proof. 153 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, asking another girl's opinion on his outfit. 154 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: Cheating sixty six. Not cheating is crazy asking. So I'm 155 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,679 Speaker 1: going on a date with my girlfriend. I have a 156 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 1: girl best friend. I'm like, can you what do you 157 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: think of my outfit? And she goes, oh, you need 158 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: to change the shoes, And then I go on my date. 159 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: How is that not cheating? This is crazy? 160 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 3: The girly pops in the fucking Instagram. 161 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:34,680 Speaker 1: That's gotta the plank. They're pranking us, They're pranking us. 162 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: How can they be pranking us as a three hundred 163 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: thousand collective. Yeah, it's nice, little flex, but that's. 164 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 3: What there's so many people to fuck it. Okay, letting 165 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 3: the opposite gender buy you a drink on a night out. 166 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:55,719 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, this one's tricky because I'm all for if 167 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 1: my girl gets a free drink, take it and run. So 168 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:01,199 Speaker 1: I'm going to say it's going to be fifty to 169 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: fifty not cheating, fifty seventy percent not cheat. Yeah, at 170 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:08,719 Speaker 1: least I got it right. You got it right. I 171 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 1: got it right. See see anything for free drinks, as 172 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 1: long as it doesn't feel guilty, cheating or. 173 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 3: Not cheating, still following your ex on ig, I'm gonna 174 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 3: say I'm going to take the healthy approach here, not cheating. Okay, 175 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 3: six oh seventy one percent not cheating. Yeah, none of 176 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 3: this shit's cheating are listening maturity. 177 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 1: That one's the only one that I would agree with 178 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: so far. 179 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, cheating or not cheating? Someone asks you out, 180 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 3: you decline, but you don't tell them you have a boyfriend. 181 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 1: Oh oh, it's disrespectful. But how that's situational? Do you 182 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: have to tell them you have a boyfriend? I just think, no, 183 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 1: you don't have to like explain their life. I'm like, no, 184 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 1: I'm again. You just say, yeah, I'm going to say 185 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: not cheating, not cheating seventy it's eighty two percent not cheating. Yeah, 186 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 1: as long as you did decline, you don't have to 187 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: tell me. 188 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:09,079 Speaker 3: Last story Yeah yeah, yea, yeah yeah, Okay, this one 189 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 3: I think is going to get you cheating or not cheating, 190 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 3: falling asleep, cuddling a stuffed animal. Her guy best friend 191 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 3: got her. 192 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 1: My immediate answer, say how you feel, say with chest 193 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 1: on cheating seventy five percent, don't say it not cheating. Bro, 194 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: that's fucked up. I think that's fucked up. That guy, 195 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: my best friend got you. So when I'm not there, 196 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 1: you're hugging him pretty much basically I'd be burning that. 197 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:48,079 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, that thing would be in the dirt, 198 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: rubbing that in the dirt. Here, take it back now, 199 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: I'd make it stink. 200 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 3: Give it to the dog, you know what i'd do. 201 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 3: But there's this poop spray that you can buy it 202 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 3: squat great, keep me chucking it out. 203 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 1: Hug it now. Yeah, that's probably got a fucking new one. 204 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 1: Yeah you would too. Probably hasn't lined up waiting for 205 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 1: every time she breaks up with her boyfriend. He's a 206 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 1: new stuff toymade fat. That's what's happening. 207 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 3: She has this whole collection of jelly cats she sleeps 208 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 3: with every night. 209 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 1: Jesus Christ. Cheating or not cheating? 210 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 3: Sharing UNI nototes when they missed class guying a girl obviously. 211 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 1: Sharing a UNI notes not cheating. 212 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 3: Not cheating ninety eight is fucking crazy. 213 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 1: Okay, girl's gonna learn, mate, you know what they missed class? 214 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: They were fucking They both need the notes? Okay. Cheating 215 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 1: or not cheating? 216 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 3: Getting a lift home from UNI with a guy from class? 217 00:11:57,200 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 1: What UNI means? You're like eighteen class? 218 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 4: Like? 219 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: Why cheating? Not cheating? What the fuck is going on? 220 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: I'm going to be Devil's advocate here and assume that 221 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 1: a lot of people in Sydney don't own a car. 222 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 1: But here, that's wild public transport here, that's wild. Question. 223 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 1: That's carpool maybe uned his platonic mate, just friends. 224 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 3: But once you start carpooling, you start stopping for coffee dates. Yeah, 225 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:31,319 Speaker 3: once you start stopping for coffee dates, they start lasting 226 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:33,680 Speaker 3: longer than a takeaway coffee and it's a sit down 227 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 3: and it's a study date. And then the study date 228 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,319 Speaker 3: moves from the coffee place to the fucking bedroom. 229 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 1: No, I don't know, I tell you what. It hits different 230 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 1: car sex. 231 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just say, hey, babie'm getting to lift home 232 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 3: with James and we're gonna study in the back of 233 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 3: his car. In the back of his car, and there's 234 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 3: fucking handprints from the fucking condensation. 235 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Cheating or not cheating. 236 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 3: Posting a TikTok about a girl that is one hundred 237 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 3: percent not. 238 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:07,199 Speaker 1: You, not not his girlfriend. 239 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 3: Oh so like reposting a TikTok that's explaining a girl 240 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 3: that is one hundred percent not you. 241 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's one of those things like, yeah, not cheating, Well, 242 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 1: but the girl pops are going to answer cheating, I 243 00:13:21,679 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 1: would I wouldn't do it. I feel like that's disrespectful. 244 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 1: This one's tough. I'm in my own head cheating sixty percent, 245 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:32,679 Speaker 1: fifty three percent not cheating. Oh damn it, all right, 246 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 1: that was it. That's it. That's it. Cheating, not cheating 247 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 1: from the people over Whow. I'm upset. I'm surprised. I'm 248 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: fully upset. Yeah, not what I expected from our list 249 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: supposally not our listeners. Everyone listening probably agrees with us, true, yeah, yeah, 250 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: that we do followers yeah yeah, yea, yeah yeah yeah 251 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 1: but yeah yeah yeah. Maybe maybe we're wrong, Jake, Maybe 252 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 1: we need to wake up to ourself. No, no, we're not. 253 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 3: I wanted to be no, I wanted to be more toxic. 254 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 1: I say, no, no way, oh yeah, no way. 255 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 3: Some of them genuinely surprised me, though, Like I'm thinking here, 256 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:11,680 Speaker 3: first off, getting coffee or lunch with the opposite gender. 257 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:17,599 Speaker 1: God, that's cheating. Eight not Cheating's crazy. I'm trying to 258 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 1: be in their head. Maybe they're thinking, like, you know 259 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 1: what it is, work, okay, you know what it is. 260 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 3: I'm going to have a little calling everyone out here, 261 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 3: rand Okay, I'm calling girls out, all right, not to 262 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 3: be sexist. It's actually it's not a sexist thing. This 263 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 3: is just an opinion, all right. We have noticed a pattern, 264 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 3: all right, a pattern in the people that do think 265 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 3: guys and girls can be friends like best friends friends. Yes, 266 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 3: quite often it's girls that think that, so quite often 267 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 3: so so, so it's kind of as understandable that a 268 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 3: girl is going to be like, oh, yeah, no, it's 269 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 3: fine if I go get lunch with my guy best friend, 270 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 3: or it's fine if I if I get a lift home. 271 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 1: From UNI with him, or it's fine if this, that, this, that. 272 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 3: But when it's about when it's about a guy and 273 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 3: his girl best friend. 274 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 1: Cheating every fucking time, yeah it is. 275 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 3: I'm gonna start rewording these and see if they have 276 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 3: the same answers. 277 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 1: That's a good. 278 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's try to get it and just change everything 279 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 3: from her to him. All right, here's girl best friend. 280 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 3: Here's the fucking thing he's sharing getting notes from a girl. 281 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 3: He's going to get lunch with another girl. He's going 282 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 3: to get lunch with the other that's cheaty. I'm gonna 283 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 3: start fucking doing this thing. I'm changing the wording and 284 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 3: see him seeing what happens. 285 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 1: I want to see what sort of patterns with want. 286 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 1: I think so too, But like, put yourself in a 287 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 1: situation like the UNI one getting a lift home. So 288 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 1: he's your girlfriend doesn't get a UNI but she goes 289 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: to Plarties. 290 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 4: I know that. 291 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 1: So your girlfriends at Plartis and she goes, Oh, I 292 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 1: just got to lift home with James instead of catching 293 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:56,640 Speaker 1: the bus because he offered. Hell did that make you feel? 294 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: James from the Pilates duo and he's straight? 295 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, you know what I'm gonna say is because 296 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 3: UNI everyone's similar age. 297 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say he's a similar Yeah, Palladi's young, 298 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 1: young generation. Let's keep fit good looking. 299 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 3: First off, I'm saying, why you got yourself there? Get 300 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 3: yourself home? Secondly, one time? 301 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 1: No, no, yeah, one time, one time. I tell her, 302 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, one time. 303 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 3: It happens once, Okay, I'm letting her know that I'm not. 304 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 1: Comfortable with that. 305 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, James knows where you live now, all right, James 306 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 3: knows where you fucking live now, Okay, And I can't 307 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 3: be there one hundred percent of the time. 308 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 1: Beth knows what the back of the car's like to. 309 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 3: Mate, Secondly, if that motherfucker meets Henry, we've got beef. 310 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: Bro, We've got beef. But that's what you have to do. 311 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 1: Put yourself in the situation irrespective of sex. Andybody, Nah, 312 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 1: I'm not comfortable. We come across as toxic, but it's 313 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 1: so true if you put yourself in this situation. 314 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:05,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely reckon. We come across as a little 315 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 3: bit toxic. 316 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. And I also I do I want to really 317 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 1: just hammer in. 318 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:11,680 Speaker 3: I want to hammer it in like. 319 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 1: That guy. 320 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 3: Okay, hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up. What 321 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 3: if Beth was to go to Lift home with James. Yeah, 322 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 3: hot games and it's pissing down rain, that's fine, that's fine, 323 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 3: all right, but yeah that's sunny mate. 324 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 1: Pissing down only when it rains. 325 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 3: But if it's sunny, telling you right now, go get 326 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 3: a brisk walking down you need to stun. 327 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 1: But the older I'm getting also, like I'm realizing me 328 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 1: as a male, I'm unfortunately not putting myself out there 329 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 1: as much as wanting to go get lunch, slash coffees 330 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:52,959 Speaker 1: or these activities with my actual friends. So if I 331 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:54,840 Speaker 1: were if a girl say a single word to ask 332 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 1: me on a date or not on a date. Sorry, 333 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 1: that's just immediately what my brain went to. If my 334 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:01,600 Speaker 1: girl were to ask me to go get lunch, yeah, 335 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 1: yea yeah, if I was friends, I'm back, Oh no, 336 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:06,680 Speaker 1: I'm busy because I would want to smash I'm going 337 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 1: to it. Yeah, Like even if you're single, you're just 338 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 1: being like yeah, yeah yeah. And it's also that labeling thing, 339 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 1: like fucking label it. Don't say coffee or lunch because 340 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: you know one of them is there to get some Yeah. 341 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:19,679 Speaker 3: I'm trying to put myself in this situation of like, 342 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 3: how would I feel if like a friend of my 343 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:29,159 Speaker 3: girlfriends that's a guy that she's like, she just is 344 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:31,359 Speaker 3: like he just considers him a friend. Ye, you know, 345 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 3: only ever sees them in group situations like it's normal, 346 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 3: blah blah blah. 347 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 1: It is platonic. 348 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 3: If he was to I don't know, just be like, oh, 349 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:45,440 Speaker 3: do you want to go get coffee sometime? And she went, 350 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:49,159 Speaker 3: I'm so I'm not. I think it would need to 351 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 3: happen for me to actually realize how I feel. So 352 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:56,679 Speaker 3: maybe we are being toxic yeah maybe yeah, but it's 353 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 3: also like I don't know just how you feel. Yeah, 354 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 3: girlfriend has one male friend who shed go to like 355 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 3: dinners with and they like pre planted and stuff, and 356 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:06,920 Speaker 3: I've met him, nice guy. 357 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 1: Yeah you don't care. I don't care, But I don't know. 358 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: Maybe the fact that I've met him, maybe maybe you 359 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,440 Speaker 1: like you? You're you're friendly with him? Yeah, straight guy? 360 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:19,680 Speaker 1: Yeah nothing. Maybe you're secure, a little bit short, a 361 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 1: little bit. Maybe that helps. Here's my question. 362 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:27,960 Speaker 3: Would you prefer she doesn't go to the let's not 363 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 3: open up for canam. 364 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:33,400 Speaker 1: Ship? Bro Okay, I don't care at all. Okay, well 365 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:36,359 Speaker 1: maybe we're being a little toxic. Maybe we are. Maybe 366 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:39,239 Speaker 1: I wouldn't care. That's you know what. The funny thing. 367 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,919 Speaker 3: I maybe maybe I genuinely wouldn't care. But also, like 368 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:49,919 Speaker 3: I like you, you would never go get lunch or dinner. 369 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 1: No dinner. I think dinner is way more romantic than 370 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 1: lunch or breakfast. It's is it different from your Like? 371 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:59,639 Speaker 1: I would never, in my worst nightmare do that to 372 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:01,119 Speaker 1: my girl friend. I'm like, oh, I'm just going to 373 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 1: go get dinner with Sally. We've been friends since high school. 374 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: I haven't seen her in six months, But but I would. 375 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 3: Never You don't care, But you're not saying that in 376 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:12,680 Speaker 3: a way right now to take go after your girlfriend. 377 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 3: But you're because you don't care when she does it, 378 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 3: because she's friends when you met him. Interesting, I would 379 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:18,479 Speaker 3: need it happen to be maybe, I think I need 380 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 3: to happen to me. 381 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 1: We've got a few tests. You don't and he lay 382 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 1: Any guys who want to take Jake's girlfriend on a date, 383 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 1: I mean coffee or lunch. 384 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 3: I'm going to tell our girlfriend. I'm going to say 385 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 3: to her, I need we need to test something here. 386 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 3: I want you to like. I think maybe it wouldn't 387 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,480 Speaker 3: matter if I knew it was pre planned. 388 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't know. Maybe we're being a bit toxic, 389 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:43,320 Speaker 1: but it's fun to be toxic. I see why people 390 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: do it. 391 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:55,159 Speaker 3: All right, guys, we've got If you're on Patreon, you 392 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:58,440 Speaker 3: would have known that Jack has attempted have a Macappy day. 393 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:00,240 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, and if you're a new listen. 394 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 3: Jake brought this up a couple of weeks ago, and yeah, 395 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 3: I was at so quick backstory, I went to macas 396 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 3: was getting coffee with my girlfriend. The lady take my 397 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 3: order when I was like when she was like all right, 398 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 3: go through, I was like, thank you. She said to me, 399 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:13,400 Speaker 3: have a McHappy day, all right. So when I got 400 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 3: to where I I didn't say it when I paid, 401 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 3: but Beth said, when you get the coffee, you have 402 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:18,920 Speaker 3: to say, have a mccappy day. 403 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 1: How to respect, all right? How to respect? It's McDonald's. 404 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:23,680 Speaker 1: So I did it. 405 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 3: Crickets talk about rejection therapy. 406 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:30,600 Speaker 1: This time, I've done it again. You've done it again. 407 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:34,640 Speaker 1: I've done it again. McDonald's are different, say McDonald's. Well, 408 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 1: going back to the same place. 409 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 3: I was with Harry all right, from Blues and Greens. 410 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 3: He was sitting in the car with me and we 411 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 3: went we got a coffee and he was like, you 412 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 3: have to do it, you have to do it. 413 00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 1: And I was like, yea, I'll do it. I'll do it. 414 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,399 Speaker 3: I was stressing because we got so we went. I 415 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,720 Speaker 3: ordered a coffee, a coffee and and a fucking hash brown. 416 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:51,199 Speaker 1: Yeah. 417 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,440 Speaker 3: I get the coffee. I recognized the girl it gives 418 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 3: me the coffee. 419 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,360 Speaker 1: Who was it? I couldn't. I can't remember her name, 420 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 1: couldn't say to her, what is someone in our age? No? 421 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:02,160 Speaker 1: I don't know where. 422 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 3: I know I'm from. But I couldn't do it. I 423 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,920 Speaker 3: could not fucking do it, especially because when she handed 424 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,400 Speaker 3: me the coffee, a little bit coffee spilled on my finger. 425 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 1: She goes, oh, are you okay? Do you need a rag? 426 00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 3: And I was like no, no, oh good, So I 427 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 3: put it down and Harry was like, you know, and 428 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 3: then she goes, can you go drive through the waiting 429 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 3: thing for the hash break? 430 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 1: Yes? It's like yeah, no drama. 431 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,399 Speaker 3: And then I see this girl coming out and I 432 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 3: was like, fuck, I have to do it. 433 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 1: But here we go. I'll give it to you. Say 434 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: you said something back? Here we go playing. It's twenty 435 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 1: seven seconds. But Jake's attempted have a make happy day. 436 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 1: I don't know if she didn't, you didn't got one? 437 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 4: Sucks? 438 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 1: What is so hard? Thank you having make happy day? 439 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:52,640 Speaker 1: Keep watching like Harry. 440 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:56,680 Speaker 3: Better? 441 00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 1: How good is that? I was stressing beforehand to okay, 442 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 1: I have a few rebuttals? Oh why do you think 443 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:12,199 Speaker 1: the nice worker at McDonald's thought you said have a 444 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:15,560 Speaker 1: happy day? I clearly said have a mccappy day. 445 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 2: Mick was a little bit the you don't try it 446 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 2: the delivery of Mick stop chatting and try it. 447 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 1: Oh shit, I will. The problem is I don't get 448 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 1: maybe I will. I don't get market Mackett. So I 449 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 1: have to go there and I have to get some 450 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: maybe something before the gym. But tomorrow it was morow. 451 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 3: You and I driving home from sceney together, we'll go through. 452 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 3: I'll get a coffee, you can get whatever you're on, 453 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 3: a hot chocolate bit and. 454 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 1: You're like, no, you'll have a McHappy day. So she 455 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 1: could have been like, have a happy day, but she chuckled. 456 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:52,400 Speaker 1: She did, Yes, replay the mccappy. But we're finding out 457 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 1: this is quite the hard challenge, but we wanted to 458 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,640 Speaker 1: bring it to the people listening right now. 459 00:23:58,160 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 3: It's gonna be funnier if people send him in. 460 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,880 Speaker 1: Anyone going to McDonald's in the foreseeable future, get your 461 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,679 Speaker 1: phone out, put on your lap or whatever, just so 462 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,440 Speaker 1: you can get the audio. That's just film your face. 463 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 1: That's all we need. And when you get your food 464 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 1: or anything you drink handed to you say have a 465 00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 1: MG happy day and see if they respond, Oh, it's stressful. 466 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 3: I telling you, guys, it's stressful. But when you're done, 467 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 3: it's it's what's the core? 468 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: What's the word pumping through the blood? I felt great 469 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:28,400 Speaker 1: that macus is different. 470 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,160 Speaker 3: So even you know what FU say whatever you want. 471 00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 1: I'm becappy, start started thing and then different night time. 472 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:39,880 Speaker 1: It's having MC happy night. Yeah, MC night. It would 473 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:41,399 Speaker 1: be so funny if you're doing it when they getting 474 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:54,679 Speaker 1: pumped as well. Okay, Jake, I can say luckily that 475 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: we both have girlfriends now and we talk about them 476 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 1: quite a lot. But we got to send them message 477 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:04,679 Speaker 1: and he was asking, how do you know when she's 478 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,760 Speaker 1: the one? The one? And we are both in the 479 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 1: position now where well, I haven't dropped a knee yet. 480 00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:12,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to speak for you, but you might 481 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:16,199 Speaker 1: potentially think she's the one. Yeah, yes, well let's you 482 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 1: date for that. That's the whole point of dating. That's 483 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 1: why I think so any anyway, you don't date to 484 00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 1: think you're going to break up eventually. No, no, you're not 485 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 1: the one for now. Some guys do just the one 486 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,720 Speaker 1: for now. Well no, yeah, we don't date for that reason. No, no, no, 487 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 1: not at all. But it brought up a good question. 488 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 1: How did you know that your girlfriend was potentially the 489 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,640 Speaker 1: one or that you were ready to ask her out? 490 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 1: Slash cool story, Actually slash do you want to tell 491 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 1: her how you go throughout yet? I'll say she won't care. 492 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 1: She told mine this might be a good little probably have. 493 00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:51,879 Speaker 3: This is actually you know, this is actually glad you 494 00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 3: brought this up. This is funny. And Beth and I 495 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 3: were talking about this the other day. Yeah, okay, okay. 496 00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:00,119 Speaker 3: First off, so we went on a date and and 497 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 3: I drove to Sydney for the date and our first 498 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,880 Speaker 3: day picked her up and I would like to let 499 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,680 Speaker 3: everyone know, bought her some flowers. Yeah, and also dog 500 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:15,480 Speaker 3: treats do Yeah. Moving on, plan was to go to 501 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 3: the aquarium, which she was actually giving me ship for aquarium. 502 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:20,919 Speaker 1: Then dinner had like I had a restaurant. I have 503 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 1: to say, defending you, it's hard for a guy who 504 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: doesn't live near where she lives the planet day, Well, 505 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:26,639 Speaker 1: I don't really know everything. 506 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 3: I found the nicest restaurant, Like it's kind of hard 507 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,119 Speaker 3: to know. Like I'm better now. There a lot, but 508 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:34,879 Speaker 3: like I for some reason, I've never taken a girl 509 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,160 Speaker 3: to the aquarium. I've always wanted. 510 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 1: I thought that's cool. 511 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I thought it was a good idea because 512 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 3: you just you go walk around at cool animals and 513 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 3: it's kind of like you just forced a. 514 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,119 Speaker 1: Chat first da It's always good to have a little activity. 515 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:46,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought. I thought it was a good idea. 516 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 3: So many people was like, that's not a good idea. 517 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:51,600 Speaker 3: I fucking loved it. Yeah, I didn't get to go. Basically, 518 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 3: we we we go to a house. We end up 519 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,160 Speaker 3: instead of driving into the city, we get an uber. Yeah, 520 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 3: and so its kind of it was actually a little 521 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,440 Speaker 3: bit like I guess awkward, like said hi, hello, blah 522 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 3: blah blah, and then we order an uber and like 523 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 3: first date, we just sat in a silent uber. 524 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 1: But it was fine. So then we get out where 525 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:11,120 Speaker 1: we go. We go to the aquarium. 526 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 3: It's like four fifty nine, aquarium closes it five. So 527 00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:20,080 Speaker 3: I was like, no, I didn't do my research. Yeah, 528 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,439 Speaker 3: I didn't do for me, think of this guy. I 529 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,359 Speaker 3: didn't do my freaking research. I think we had a 530 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:25,879 Speaker 3: table book for like seven as well. I was like, 531 00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:28,959 Speaker 3: it'll be open and then so instead we ended up 532 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:32,199 Speaker 3: we went for a walk to an arcade, like a 533 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,359 Speaker 3: big one, and we went there and I don't know 534 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 3: if she told me straight away or if I just didn't, 535 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 3: or if she told me after, but we get there 536 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,679 Speaker 3: and I'm like, arcade sick, just gonna beat her and everything, 537 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:46,200 Speaker 3: you know, just gonna show her us, and I was thinking, like, 538 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to let her win a carp yeah, 539 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,520 Speaker 3: and then we get there beat I didn't win one thing. 540 00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: She beat me at everything. 541 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:52,280 Speaker 4: Bro. 542 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 3: She like I'm talking like like fucked me up really, 543 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 3: especially the basketball because her dad used to sell or 544 00:27:59,119 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 3: something the machine. 545 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:02,199 Speaker 1: You just grew up playing them. And I was like, 546 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:04,880 Speaker 1: no kind of lie. You're looking like the worst gol 547 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 548 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:10,679 Speaker 3: But basically, so we did that and then when got dinner, 549 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 3: it was lovely. And then just from then on kept 550 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,719 Speaker 3: seeing each other. Yeah, date date, date, date date, and 551 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:21,320 Speaker 3: then I remember the day I asked her out or 552 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,400 Speaker 3: the day before and I was talking to Joanna and 553 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 3: I think, so I knew from like obviously date one. 554 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I could very much like see 555 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:35,680 Speaker 3: this happening. Yeah, and then after a couple more dates 556 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 3: obviously just confirm it, You're like, yeah, I do want 557 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 3: to actually like wanted to be my girlfriend because I've 558 00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 3: never understood the because I do think like actually being 559 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:46,240 Speaker 3: boyfriend and girlfriend, Like you you want to do it 560 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 3: because you don't see yourself breaking up with them, but 561 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 3: you also do it because you are you are still 562 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 3: getting to know them like best and I've been together 563 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:54,719 Speaker 3: for six months, over six months, and then we are 564 00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 3: still getting. 565 00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 1: To know each other. I think so too. It's just 566 00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 1: that initial stage that like, yeah, she's the one, then 567 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 1: you figure it out more. Yes. So I can't tell you. 568 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 3: I don't know if I can fully pinpoint when I 569 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,360 Speaker 3: realized I wanted to do it, but I knew I 570 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,040 Speaker 3: wanted to do it, and I had this thing in 571 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:08,120 Speaker 3: my head where I wanted to do it on the 572 00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:11,960 Speaker 3: seventeenth of January something to do with it would have 573 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 3: been like either a month or just over a month 574 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 3: after a first date or something, and I was talking 575 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 3: to Joanna about it. Yeah, she was like, what why 576 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:21,360 Speaker 3: are you waiting till the seventeenth And it's like the 577 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 3: sixth at this point of the fifth of January. At 578 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 3: this point she's like, why wait, Oh no, it would 579 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:28,760 Speaker 3: We met on the seventeenth November, so it would have 580 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 3: been two months after that, it makes sense. So basically 581 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 3: I was like, I wanted two months, and then she's 582 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 3: it's like the fifth of January. I was going on 583 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 3: a date with Beth the next day, planned and everything, 584 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:41,200 Speaker 3: and Joanna was like, why would you wait? And as 585 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 3: she and Joanna having this conversation. She's making errors tour 586 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 3: best friend bracelets first tail Swift yeah, because she's going 587 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:51,320 Speaker 3: to tail swift soon, and and I was like, good point, 588 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,040 Speaker 3: Like I'm going to do it on the seventeenth. Why 589 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,920 Speaker 3: would I not just do it now? And so I 590 00:29:55,960 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 3: got Joanna to make two bracelets. One of them said 591 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 3: yap queen and one of them said girlfriend. Yeah, okay. 592 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 3: And so when we went on a Beth May went 593 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 3: on a date the next day and we went to 594 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 3: the botanical gardens. I think we did something, but then 595 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,959 Speaker 3: we were over like at the Opera House, and I 596 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 3: was like, oh fuck, I said in my head, I 597 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 3: was gonna do it right here. I'm actually kind of nervous, 598 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 3: like I was going to say yes. I was like, 599 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 3: I know she's gonna say yes, but also what if 600 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 3: she says no? And then I asked her I think 601 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,880 Speaker 3: I said will you be my girlfriend? 602 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 1: And then she said yes? 603 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 3: And then I was like, well, you're going to need 604 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:37,480 Speaker 3: this then and gave her the bracelet. 605 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 1: That's cute, how funny, I thought. I don't know why 606 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 1: I had in my head. I thought of the arcade. 607 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 1: You guys want some bracelets on your first date? No, 608 00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:48,520 Speaker 1: do you want to mate it? And then and then 609 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 1: I thought you were doing a cute thing, like on 610 00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:51,960 Speaker 1: our first date we got bracelets, so he's another bracelet again. 611 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:53,160 Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, no. 612 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:54,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, that would have been cool. Yea, it would have 613 00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 3: been It would have been cool. That's that's how it happened. 614 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 3: And then and then I would say I knew I 615 00:30:59,920 --> 00:31:02,240 Speaker 3: like her one time. It was a little while after that. 616 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 3: I knew I loved her when we were in an 617 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 3: uber on the way home from a date. But I 618 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 3: didn't say it. Something in me was like, Okay, I'm glad. 619 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 3: I know it, like I've confirmed it in my head. 620 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 3: I know it, I feel it, but I just didn't 621 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 3: say it. I was like, once we say it, we're 622 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 3: saying it for the for the foreseeable future, you know, 623 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 3: like once I say it in my head, like we're 624 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:23,200 Speaker 3: not going to break up, so like I think we're 625 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 3: just we're gonna be saying it forever, so it's gonna wait. 626 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 3: I don't know why I thought that was I'm just 627 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:28,800 Speaker 3: gonna wait. But then she ended up saying it first. 628 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 1: How funny. Back to the question too, I'll tell mine briefly. 629 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,800 Speaker 1: I think I've told it before, but just thinking listening 630 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 1: to Jake's story and thinking about mine of asking my 631 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 1: girlfriend out, how do you know she's the one? It's 632 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 1: just a feeling. 633 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 3: Here's the thing is like, Yeah, I was like, I'm 634 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,720 Speaker 3: more than happy to drive to Sydney whenever, like I 635 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 3: like it. She makes me laugh, like hanging out with her, 636 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 3: and yeah, like I was like, I just genuinely think 637 00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 3: everyone I know will like, oh blah blah blah. 638 00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 1: Yeah this was great. Yeah. I remember just thinking like 639 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,080 Speaker 1: I just just think she I just knew, like there 640 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,360 Speaker 1: wasn't a doubt. It hot out in my mind. Have 641 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,800 Speaker 1: I told my tell my quickly? Quickly? Tell quickly just 642 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 1: gives you have new listeners. Okay, So me and my 643 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 1: girlfriend backstory. We've been talking for six weeks on social 644 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 1: media because she was in Europe and I was here 645 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:24,240 Speaker 1: and we actually got to hang out. I think it 646 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 1: was two days or three days in a row before 647 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 1: I went to Balley. She got back from Europe, went 648 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:30,960 Speaker 1: to a parents' house was where near I live, and 649 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 1: we met up and we just didn't like, we hanged 650 00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 1: out for two days straight and then she was gonna 651 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 1: she went. She lives in Sydney in Bondai, and I 652 00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:41,320 Speaker 1: went and stayed at her place at this point she 653 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,239 Speaker 1: lived there, Yeah, in Sydney and Bondai, and I went 654 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 1: and stayed there for one night and then I was 655 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,240 Speaker 1: going to Bali the next day. I'm pretty sure. So 656 00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 1: we've been talking for six weeks. Then we had three 657 00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 1: days together, then nothing, and I was gone for six weeks. 658 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:55,960 Speaker 1: The best three days it was good. But anyway, after that, 659 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 1: I was like, I knew, like, fuck, this Chi could 660 00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 1: be the one. Pretty sure. I'm pretty sure she was, 661 00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,240 Speaker 1: and she's very in touch of her emotions. And when 662 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,400 Speaker 1: I was leaving her house, she started crying a little bit. 663 00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 1: I was like, fuck, I've never had like a girl 664 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 1: like so like in touch of her emotions, like have 665 00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:13,040 Speaker 1: a couple of some men. I was like, what's wrong. 666 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:14,840 Speaker 1: She's just like I'm so happy, like this is such 667 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,640 Speaker 1: a good time. Sh and I don't know if I 668 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 1: asked her before it was after that, but I said, 669 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,160 Speaker 1: why don't you come to Bali? She was coming to, 670 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:22,960 Speaker 1: but we already pre planned. This was like written in 671 00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 1: the stars that she was going to be there for 672 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 1: the last month that we were there, so I had 673 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 1: two weeks off and I was like, well, one, you 674 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 1: just come a little bit early so and just stay 675 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 1: with me. I've already got the Como book and I 676 00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,720 Speaker 1: got a double bed, like I guess. So she flew 677 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 1: across the Bari to see me and hang out for 678 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,480 Speaker 1: a week before that, and we just started hanging out 679 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 1: and Bari Jake was there. We were recording and doing 680 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 1: other stuff. She was doing her own thing, and I 681 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 1: had in the back of my mind that before I 682 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,000 Speaker 1: went to Bali, I was like, oh, I had a 683 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 1: few ideas how to ask her out. And I was like, 684 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 1: I'll just do it when I get back. And then 685 00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:54,800 Speaker 1: I was just I just knew it was. It was 686 00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:56,400 Speaker 1: going so good. I was like, fuck it. Why did 687 00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:58,280 Speaker 1: I just do it here? It's like so romantic, cool 688 00:33:58,320 --> 00:33:59,920 Speaker 1: place to do it. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I 689 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:00,479 Speaker 1: remember you. 690 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 3: I I and I did to you what you wanted 691 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:04,040 Speaker 3: to me. 692 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,479 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah yeah, Like why not? I thought him. 693 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,080 Speaker 1: My other plan was like to ask. We're gonna we 694 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 1: planned a trip to like Crescent Head and like camping, 695 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:11,359 Speaker 1: and I was going to ask on the surf. Yeah, 696 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,319 Speaker 1: I remember that. Yeah, that was my other plan. But 697 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:15,440 Speaker 1: I was like, fuck it, I'm just going to do it, 698 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:19,480 Speaker 1: and we booked a I booked a romantic airbnb at 699 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,520 Speaker 1: a Bud turned out to be shit, like was a 700 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,120 Speaker 1: construction site next to it, like hadn't been cleaned properly. 701 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:26,359 Speaker 1: And I was like no, I got that. I got 702 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 1: there earlier to set up. I was like no. I 703 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,800 Speaker 1: was like, I've committed now because I bought rose pedals 704 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 1: from a florist. That day I committed and my girlfriend 705 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 1: was driving her scooter from Changu to Bud, which is 706 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 1: like an hour and a half drive anyway. She was sick, 707 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,880 Speaker 1: her sim car died, she had no service. She was 708 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:45,840 Speaker 1: like half an hour late. She got there all like 709 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:50,680 Speaker 1: dirty adult diurnover and shit. A long drive anyway. There 710 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:54,560 Speaker 1: was two bedrooms at the airbnbat main bedroom and another 711 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 1: one and so the other one. I got rose pedals 712 00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,400 Speaker 1: and wrote will you be my girlfriend? I wrote GF 713 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:02,279 Speaker 1: his girlfriend? Too long long word. Anyway, she got there 714 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:03,719 Speaker 1: and she was all flustered. I was like, okay, what 715 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 1: is chill for a bit and I'll let her settle 716 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:08,879 Speaker 1: down so she like enjoys the moment. Anyway, I go, 717 00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:11,719 Speaker 1: here's the main bedroom. It's better. I already chucked my 718 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:13,920 Speaker 1: stuff in there, and she just straight up before anything 719 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,640 Speaker 1: even puts a room and she's like, let me see 720 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:19,759 Speaker 1: which one's better. So I was like, oh shit, trust 721 00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:23,400 Speaker 1: your word. So she went to the other room, opened it. 722 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 1: She must be like she was like looking around, looking around, 723 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,400 Speaker 1: didn't see it. It was big rose petals. I'm talking 724 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 1: like a solid, like a meter long in rose petals, 725 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:32,880 Speaker 1: just a fucking a lot of rose petals. And she 726 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,520 Speaker 1: go and I was like, look down, and she just looked. 727 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:37,200 Speaker 1: She's like she just turned around and hugged me and 728 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 1: kissed me, and she's like, yes, that's cute, how funny. 729 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 1: And then we're girlfriend and boyfriend, and I just knew 730 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 1: she was the one from the get your hates, even 731 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:47,960 Speaker 1: like the first time we hung out, I was like, oh, fuck, yeah, 732 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 1: I think she's the one. 733 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:48,920 Speaker 4: You know. 734 00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:52,000 Speaker 3: I was thinking one thing, how I was while you're 735 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:53,520 Speaker 3: saying that, I was thinking we both kind of asked 736 00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:57,279 Speaker 3: him out like a cute like way. And one of 737 00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,120 Speaker 3: the things in my head that I'm thinking now is 738 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 3: why I think I guess the one or whatever? Why 739 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 3: you think that at least is my girlfriend prior that 740 00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:11,200 Speaker 3: I dated years ago to my girlfriend now is the 741 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:16,000 Speaker 3: way I asked her to be my girlfriend was fucking All. 742 00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:16,720 Speaker 1: I did was. 743 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:21,840 Speaker 3: Like I had ample opportunity, bro ample to make it cute, 744 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,000 Speaker 3: and all I did, I think one day was like 745 00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,239 Speaker 3: I said to her, we have it. 746 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,680 Speaker 1: We put a date on this. That's what you said 747 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:30,680 Speaker 1: you came about, we have a date to have, Like, 748 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,239 Speaker 1: let's choose a date and feel like that like that's 749 00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,279 Speaker 1: the date that we've been our anniversary. I guess we've 750 00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,759 Speaker 1: become officials. Yeah, so basically I think we did use 751 00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,400 Speaker 1: it that day. Oh so you didn't even give you like, oh, 752 00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:42,800 Speaker 1: we're basically dating that. 753 00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:43,120 Speaker 4: Yeah. 754 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:44,319 Speaker 1: I was kind of like how we put a date 755 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:45,640 Speaker 1: on this? And she was like, what are you asking 756 00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 1: me to be a girlfriend? I was like yeah, but 757 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:51,879 Speaker 1: maybe thinking about it too, Like we went to these 758 00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 1: extents even though they're not that like big, but we 759 00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:57,719 Speaker 1: wanted to because they were so special to us. And 760 00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,239 Speaker 1: I'm thinking I didn't really have like I had one 761 00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 1: girlfriend before that, and like I didn't do any sort 762 00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 1: of extent and I was like nervous did all these things, 763 00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 1: and I. 764 00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:07,960 Speaker 3: Kind of feel like a bit of a I was 765 00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:11,719 Speaker 3: when I was younger. You couldn't get me to do 766 00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 3: a big thing. 767 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:14,600 Speaker 1: I reckon. I would have been like, no, I'm not 768 00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:16,920 Speaker 1: doing that. Yeah, same, I'm not doing that. Like why 769 00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:17,759 Speaker 1: why would I do that? 770 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 3: Not because I didn't love them, because I didn't like them, 771 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:22,880 Speaker 3: just not because I thought they didn't deserve it. 772 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,680 Speaker 1: It just felt awkward and like. 773 00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:26,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't even know it was orkard or so 774 00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:27,400 Speaker 3: I was like, you don't want your friends to know, 775 00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:29,279 Speaker 3: Like I don't know what it is. But now it's 776 00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:31,319 Speaker 3: like something about not giving a fuck about when anyone thinks, 777 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:32,960 Speaker 3: and like wanting it to be special for her. 778 00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I wanted to be special for her. That's the 779 00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,640 Speaker 1: main thing. Hey, I just know. 780 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like one time I picked her up from a flight. 781 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:40,440 Speaker 3: She came out from Queensland and I went and I 782 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,759 Speaker 3: like had flowers and I wrote like a sign, and 783 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,000 Speaker 3: then she did it for me when I came over 784 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:45,839 Speaker 3: from Canada, she wrote podcast man. 785 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:50,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I told fuck, I think I've told that 786 00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:54,080 Speaker 1: my books where you or the book story? Yeah, save it, 787 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,759 Speaker 1: save it? Another episode say save it, save it, let 788 00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,000 Speaker 1: the people ask for it, saved the bookstore, let the 789 00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:02,400 Speaker 1: people beg for it. Fuck good. I think that's what 790 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 1: I also talked Catty about it. She cates, Yeah, she 791 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:07,080 Speaker 1: won't care, she won't care, she won't care. But yeah, 792 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:08,839 Speaker 1: if how do you know she's the one or he's 793 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:12,360 Speaker 1: the one. You just know and you're willing to do anything. 794 00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 1: You don't care what anyone thinks, And there's just listen 795 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,080 Speaker 1: to your gut, like if there's just telling you, like 796 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:19,200 Speaker 1: I really like this guy or hit this girl, like 797 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:19,960 Speaker 1: it's probably right. 798 00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:23,440 Speaker 3: Going with your gut actually is the best advice anyone could. 799 00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,560 Speaker 1: Give, and listen to it vice versa, Like I've had 800 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,960 Speaker 1: girls before who I was like, oh, she's doing something wrong, 801 00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:30,719 Speaker 1: But I'm not going to listen to like maybe I'm 802 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:32,239 Speaker 1: just being over the top, like I just don't want 803 00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 1: a girlfriend lahlah. But all those guts were right, So 804 00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:36,720 Speaker 1: listen to your gut. 805 00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:47,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, Ria Rno's guts. 806 00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:52,640 Speaker 1: Alrighty, guys, thank you for listening. Don't forget if you 807 00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:56,160 Speaker 1: enjoy What are they gonna do? Five star this episode? 808 00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,440 Speaker 1: We're going for ten k five stars by the end 809 00:38:58,480 --> 00:38:59,040 Speaker 1: of the year. 810 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:00,840 Speaker 3: Oh that'd be actually twenty six's a good goal to 811 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:02,279 Speaker 3: have ten k five stars million a year? 812 00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:04,480 Speaker 1: Yes, please, And it helps if every one on this 813 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,320 Speaker 1: thing right now five started. We'll get there tomorrow facts, 814 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,879 Speaker 1: So if you do it, we're gonna be. 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