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Speaker 1: Matt, Yeah, something really embarrassing happened to me the other day,
Speaker 1: and it's going to be one of those things that
Speaker 1: you know, when something embarrassing happens, then you never forget it,
Speaker 1: like you think about it sometimes at night.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So Ajay and I are about to begin the second
Speaker 1: part of the renovations on our house, which is like
Speaker 1: the major renos, Like we literally happened to move out
Speaker 1: of our house for it to happen. And so we
Speaker 1: went to the Joiner like their office squarehouse thing the
Speaker 1: other day to meet them in person and to just
Speaker 1: go through like cabinets and all that shit. So I'm
Speaker 1: in there, it's myself, aj and two of the people
Speaker 1: from the joinery place, and you're chatting for like twenty minutes,
Speaker 1: half an hour at this point, and all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: I felt a little tickle in my throat, like you
Speaker 1: know when a tickle just comes on in your throat
Speaker 1: and you haven't been drinking anything or anything, like, it's
Speaker 1: just this little scratch. And I just kept talking through it,
Speaker 1: and I was like like trying to get rid of it.
Speaker 1: And I've just met these people. I'm so fucking embarrassed
Speaker 1: by this. Then all of a sudden, like the scratch
Speaker 1: got worse and worse all at the tickle, and then
Speaker 1: I realized, like I'm about to start like coughing and choking,
Speaker 1: like you know when you like can't fucking breathe because
Speaker 1: you're choking on like spit and nothing. So then I
Speaker 1: start going like like and I'm starting to choke. Meanwhile,
Speaker 1: I've left my drink bottle in the car, which is
Speaker 1: like twenty meters away, AJ has no water on him.
Speaker 1: Then like instant panic fucking sets in. I can't breathe,
Speaker 1: and I'm mortified that I'm starting to choke in front
Speaker 1: of these two people, like a guy and a girl
Speaker 1: in their fucking thirties. So then I start having the
Speaker 1: biggest coughing fit. But you know when you're coughing and
Speaker 1: choking so much that you can't talk, like I couldn't
Speaker 1: say a word, and then I'm going like this to them,
Speaker 1: like I'm doing the cup signal with my hands because
Speaker 1: i need fucking water. And AJ starts going, what's going on?
Speaker 1: Like he can't even figure out what's happening, and then
Speaker 1: they all start running around. Oh and they mustn't have
Speaker 1: had like a tap close by whatever. So then the
Speaker 1: guy's just like reached into this cupboard or whatever and
Speaker 1: pulled out uh soda like mineral water and so like
Speaker 1: at this point, I'm like, give me fucking anything. I've
Speaker 1: got tears rolling down my eyes because I'm fucking choking
Speaker 1: this much like my masca is going. I'm like like,
Speaker 1: I can't breathe, i can't talk. Meanwhile, I'm also so mortified,
Speaker 1: and AJ's like half laughing because he's fucking embarrassed. Then
Speaker 1: this guy gives me his like, you know, the sam
Speaker 1: Pellegrino green mineral water. No, so then I'm chugging that down.
Speaker 1: But then because I'm choking so bad, the fist fucking
Speaker 1: mineral water in my throat is coming back up because
Speaker 1: it's all bubbling in my throat, and I'm going, I
Speaker 1: fucking ran outside. Meanwhile, they can see me because it's
Speaker 1: just the long windows, and I'm standing in the car
Speaker 1: park choking. I'm vomiting, like the soap water is coming
Speaker 1: up in my throat and AJ. I could see AJ
Speaker 1: just being like what the fuck is going on? And
Speaker 1: this went on for like ten minutes, and I'm outside
Speaker 1: choking for ten minutes until it finally goes away. But
Speaker 1: even once like I stopped, I calmed down, I like
Speaker 1: wiped all the tears off my face, like the scratch
Speaker 1: was still kind of there. So then I go back
Speaker 1: inside and then I'm like I'm so sorry, like I
Speaker 1: still can't talk, and AJ's like, what the fuck is
Speaker 1: going on? Oh, It's the most embarrassing thing ever. And
Speaker 1: so then I finally calmed down. My eyes were like
Speaker 1: bloodshot because I was like choking that bad. Then I
Speaker 1: sat there for the rest of the meeting, and I
Speaker 1: slowly started being able to talk again because I was
Speaker 1: worried that like the choking was gonna happen again. And
Speaker 1: then I just had to like make fun of it,
Speaker 1: and towards the end like be like thaying so much
Speaker 1: this did happened, Like I just said to them, I
Speaker 1: did not come in here and nearly choked to death
Speaker 1: in front of you all and now just gonna be
Speaker 1: one of those things like I'm never gonna fucking forget it.
Speaker 1: And I said to them both, I'm never come back here.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to go with a different join up.
Speaker 1: I said, like, I can't be seen here ever again.
Speaker 1: Like I'm fucking so embarrassed.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that is so funny, Like I've got
Speaker 2: tears in my eyes hearing that story. That happened to
Speaker 2: me once, but not It wasn't embarrassing. It was more
Speaker 2: just inconvenient because it happened to me in the back
Speaker 2: of the uber when my COVID was huge and he
Speaker 2: had put up like glad wrap in between us, and
Speaker 2: then he was also wearing masks.
Speaker 1: He would have thought you had COVID or something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I had to have a mask on
Speaker 2: it as well at the time. And anyway, he had
Speaker 2: this little like you know, one of the air wick
Speaker 2: things on the vents, and the vent was in the
Speaker 2: back of the car and it was kind of blowing
Speaker 2: straight in my face and I think that's what did
Speaker 2: it to me. And I just started going and then
Speaker 2: like you know, it got worse and worse and worse.
Speaker 2: And he pulled over and said, I have to cancel
Speaker 2: the ride. You've got to get out, and I said,
Speaker 2: it's not COVID, COVID. I said, it's not COVID. It's
Speaker 2: like this thing in the back that I'm reacting to,
Speaker 2: this air week thing. And he said, I don't care. Sorry,
Speaker 2: you've got to get out. And I've gotten out, but
Speaker 2: that conversation is happening while I'm choking and can't breathe.
Speaker 2: And I've gotten out, and he's just dropped me on
Speaker 2: the side of the road in Surrey Hills. Nowhere where
Speaker 2: am I getting water from the drain on the side
Speaker 2: of the road.
Speaker 1: It's the worst. And it reminded me as well. It
Speaker 1: happened to me once in school when we were doing
Speaker 1: a test in the hall and you know how like
Speaker 1: the whole fucking year is in there and it's dead silent,
Speaker 1: and then you're having a choking fit. That's like my
Speaker 1: worst nightmare, and it came true. And I'm so fucking embarrassed,
Speaker 1: Like I'm embarrassed to ever go back there. But we're
Speaker 1: about to work with him for like the next five months,
Speaker 1: like we're about to work with them. So every time
Speaker 1: I see them now, I'm gonna be like, I've got
Speaker 1: the water, Like I'm gonna have to make a fucking
Speaker 1: joke about it, or do I just not bring it
Speaker 1: up ever again.
Speaker 2: I think, like I think it might be one of
Speaker 2: those things that's.
Speaker 1: Like I think it's embarrassing, but it's not.
Speaker 2: They'll never think about it again.
Speaker 1: But it was like theatrics man Like, it was like
Speaker 1: I'm choking and AJ's like, what is going on? And
Speaker 1: he didn't have water off.
Speaker 2: I can just imagine a They're going, what are you doing? Yes?
Speaker 2: And I'm not in person, by the way.
Speaker 1: I couldn't talk like that's how much I was choking.
Speaker 1: There was no words coming out. How funny not funny
Speaker 1: at the time. And then we got in the car,
Speaker 1: like because we were there for like over an hour,
Speaker 1: and we got in the car and AJ was just
Speaker 1: piecing himself. He's like, what the fuck happened? I'm like,
Speaker 1: I was nearly dying. Oh, anyway, be careful out there, everyone.
Speaker 2: Be careful.
Speaker 1: You can choke on nothing at a really bad time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But that's the thing. It's more embarrassing that there
Speaker 2: was nothing to choke on.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, I know and you're just
Speaker 1: talking and it just happened anyway.
Speaker 2: Welcome to close friends.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw this TikTok and it was pretty straight forward.
Speaker 1: She said. As an adult, low maintenance friendships are the
Speaker 1: best kind of friendships.
Speaker 2: What is a low maintenance friendship?
Speaker 1: Like the kind of friendship where you don't have to
Speaker 1: be in each other's pocket twenty four to seven, or
Speaker 1: like the kind of friends where you just catch up
Speaker 1: once every now and then and it's like nothing happened
Speaker 1: in between kind of thing. Compared to our friendships when
Speaker 1: we were in our teens and early twenties and stuff
Speaker 1: where I felt like the friendships that I did have
Speaker 1: back then, it was very much like you're in each
Speaker 1: other's pockets twenty four seven, you know, everything that's going
Speaker 1: on every single day kind of thing. And she was
Speaker 1: saying that as an adult now she really appreciates the
Speaker 1: more low maintenance friendships, which I agree with.
Speaker 2: Interesting, I'm definitely a high maintenance friendship kind of person then.
Speaker 1: See, But to me, like I would say that mine
Speaker 1: and your friendship is low maintenance.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, But I mean, like I'm just thinking
Speaker 2: about like all my friends as a whole.
Speaker 1: You do have a very close friends group, yeah, whereas
Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, I have lots of friendship.
Speaker 2: I know everything about my best friend, I know everything
Speaker 2: about him and yeah.
Speaker 1: Left on ter I've got a lot of friends, but
Speaker 1: they're like all from different groups kind of thing. Whereas
Speaker 1: I feel like you do have that very close like
Speaker 1: friend group and you all do things together.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't have that. That's so random that you
Speaker 2: don't have that.
Speaker 1: I've always with I've always been that way because in Newcastle.
Speaker 1: I've always been that way though through school, like never
Speaker 1: been in a big friend group really, Yeah, always just
Speaker 1: floated in between groups.
Speaker 2: Now I'm one of those people who has like four
Speaker 2: best friends, but they all serve a different purpose, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean? Like, what why I feel attacked today?
Speaker 2: Everyone just keeps laughing everything. Well, I've got like, I've
Speaker 2: got best friends, but they're all you know, because I'm
Speaker 2: one of those people who has like multiple best friends
Speaker 2: and I always have had because I think half of
Speaker 2: me goes. I would never want to put anyone above
Speaker 2: anyone else. I don't want there to be one best
Speaker 2: friend above. And also I've never felt like the other
Speaker 2: person's best friend, so I get a bit scared that
Speaker 2: I'm going, you're my best friend, but they're going, that's nice,
Speaker 2: but this person over here is my best friend, do
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Yes, that's how I felt.
Speaker 1: I used to use the term best friend a lot,
Speaker 1: like in high school, like I had my best friend
Speaker 1: and whatever, and in my early twenties maybe, but as
Speaker 1: I've gotten older, like that term's gone.
Speaker 2: Me and my best friend the other day literally had
Speaker 2: a conversation. We were drunk and on the way to
Speaker 2: the club and we were we were like, we were like,
Speaker 2: you know, like, you're my best friend, like no one
Speaker 2: above you. And he was like, yes, you are that
Speaker 2: person to me. And I was like, I am so
Speaker 2: glad you're saying this because it's so validating to me.
Speaker 2: And he's like, I love you, and I love you.
Speaker 2: We're just best friend. That's cute, you know.
Speaker 1: I was like, I.
Speaker 2: Need that in my life, if you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: So I love that we have a low maintenance friendship.
Speaker 2: I feel like a majority of my friends are low
Speaker 2: maintenance friendships, but I think it's important to have a
Speaker 2: couple of high maintenance friendships as well, and not in
Speaker 2: the way that it's high maintenance to be with them,
Speaker 2: or that person is high maintenance, like it's exhausting to
Speaker 2: be their friend. I mean, like I I want to
Speaker 2: know everything about you, and I want to see you
Speaker 2: all the time, and I want to do things together.
Speaker 2: So I think time and place, Time and place, yeah
Speaker 2: for those friendships. But you have no one like that
Speaker 2: in your life, is what you're saying.
Speaker 1: It sounds like you're saying I have no fucking friends.
Speaker 1: I have a lot of friends, but I would say
Speaker 1: all my friendships are low maintenance, like I don't have
Speaker 1: someone like I don't hang out with my friends on weeknights.
Speaker 1: Like maybe my life is different, but like we fucking
Speaker 1: work Monday to Friday, like solid, Like I'm surrounded by
Speaker 1: people every single day. So the only time that I
Speaker 1: get to hang out with people is on weeknights, which
Speaker 1: I'm not fucking doing because that is a school night
Speaker 1: for me. Yeah, and then weekends where AJ and I
Speaker 1: that's where we spend our time together kind of thing.
Speaker 1: I have lots of friends, but they're all low maintenance,
Speaker 1: like and they're all from different groups, Like I don't
Speaker 1: have a friendship group that's like one group together and
Speaker 1: then we're all hanging out I used to, but I
Speaker 1: don't know. Life fucking gets busy. Everyone goes their separate ways,
Speaker 1: Everyone gets caught up in their own shit. And I
Speaker 1: want to normalize that because I've always kind of been
Speaker 1: that way, like, never felt like I fully belonged in
Speaker 1: a friendship group. And I think a lot of people
Speaker 1: would be that way and feel like, oh, like left out,
Speaker 1: like I don't have a big friendship group thing. Like
Speaker 1: I've seen videos go around on the internet talking about
Speaker 1: like how hard it is to make new friend groups,
Speaker 1: especially like in your twenties and even more so in
Speaker 1: your thirties. But I just want to throw it out there.
Speaker 1: It's normal. We're not all like Matt.
Speaker 2: I'm think intact. I've always felt like the person who
Speaker 2: is like not fitting into the friend group.
Speaker 1: Though you are a fucking friend group, you reckon?
Speaker 2: Yeah what, I'm the head bitch in charge friend group.
Speaker 2: I mean, I definitely am the organizer and these days
Speaker 2: I'm the one making all the plans and going, right,
Speaker 2: what are we doing? This is what time we're arriving,
Speaker 2: Everybody meet here at this time and blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: But no, when I definitely, when I was younger, I
Speaker 2: was never the person who was in charge of anything.
Speaker 2: I was always feeling like am I even friends with
Speaker 2: these people? Or what is going on?
Speaker 1: I feel like in school, like I always like two
Speaker 1: besties or whatever, like there was always like a trio
Speaker 1: or something, but otherwise like I just floated in between
Speaker 1: all the groups, never belonged to what to one of
Speaker 1: the big groups, and like I never really went to
Speaker 1: any of the parties or anything that they would have,
Speaker 1: and I would always feel like left out that I
Speaker 1: didn't have a big friendship group kind of.
Speaker 2: Thing, Wow, we're more alike than we thought, because that
Speaker 2: was very me and I was like I actually had
Speaker 2: like three friendship groups on the God.
Speaker 1: Yeah me too. It's not to say that I never
Speaker 1: didn't have friends, Like I had a lot of friends
Speaker 1: in school, but I never felt like I belonged to
Speaker 1: that one, especially like being a girl, like you would
Speaker 1: see the girl friendship groups where there's like ten of
Speaker 1: them and they're always doing someone's sixteenth birthday or whatever.
Speaker 1: Like I never felt like I belonged in any of
Speaker 1: those and always thought like I'm missing that kind of thing.
Speaker 1: But it's actually more common than you think.
Speaker 2: Interesting, Yeah, so you're all about low maintenance friendships. I'm
Speaker 2: about low maintenance friendships, but I think a couple high
Speaker 2: maintenance friendships as well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got to have a mix.
Speaker 2: Well, you don't fuck hop he ever lived with any
Speaker 2: friends housemaids? Like those housemaids. How's that gone?
Speaker 1: Not? Well?
Speaker 2: Okay, because everyone always goes, don't live with your friends?
Speaker 2: Don't we live with your friends. I have lived with
Speaker 2: exclusively friends my whole life. I've never lived with anyone
Speaker 2: that I didn't have years of friendship with before, and
Speaker 2: all but one I still speak to. Yeah, and the
Speaker 2: one that I don't was just a random, misunderstanding, crazy
Speaker 2: experience that I still to this day am.
Speaker 1: Like.
Speaker 2: It was during the pandemic and lockdowns and things, and
Speaker 2: he wanted to move out, but like we didn't really
Speaker 2: know how to facilitate that in the pandemic, and I
Speaker 2: was like genuinely trying to help him through it and
Speaker 2: giving him like options, but he don't know what happened.
Speaker 2: He just was like not. I think he thought that
Speaker 2: I was like either being rude or like it was
Speaker 2: a high stress time for every but I genuinely was
Speaker 2: trying to help my friend and be like, these are
Speaker 2: your options? What can we do because he was like, hey, everyone,
Speaker 2: we all need to break the lease, and you guys
Speaker 2: need to pay to break the lease as well, and
Speaker 2: I was like, no, we're not paying to break the lease.
Speaker 2: We live here and we don't want to move, so
Speaker 2: we've got to come to some sort of resolution here.
Speaker 2: And I was like genuinely trying to help him, and
Speaker 2: I thought I was doing the right thing, and then
Speaker 2: he just thought that I was probably being one of
Speaker 2: those high maintenance, controlling friends when I genuinely, on the
Speaker 2: bottom of my heart, was like trying to do the
Speaker 2: best I could for this boy. And anyway, since the
Speaker 2: day he left, like we've never spoken again. But apart
Speaker 2: from that, like everyone else I've lived with has been
Speaker 2: a friend and still and it can work still friends,
Speaker 2: I think it can too.
Speaker 1: I lived with my high school bestie like when we
Speaker 1: were seventeen, and then we didn't. We didn't really have
Speaker 1: that much of a falling out, but it's weird. Her
Speaker 1: friends were picking on me for my YouTube videos because
Speaker 1: that's when I like like started doing YouTube and everything
Speaker 1: like that, and then we had a bit of a
Speaker 1: falling out because I remember her friends were like being
Speaker 1: a bit nasty about my YouTube videos. But then we
Speaker 1: like later on connected and stayed acquainted or whatever. Then
Speaker 1: I did live with one other friend, but I kind
Speaker 1: of got introduced to her and then we became friends,
Speaker 1: like from living together, and that was fine, okay. And
Speaker 1: then I lived with one other friend who moved out
Speaker 1: the middle of the night. You remember that, were you
Speaker 1: friends beforehand? Yes?
Speaker 2: Wow? Do you want to like talk about this story? Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah, But I don't want to fucking throw anyone under
Speaker 1: the bus because I have no fucking hard feelings at all.
Speaker 1: But in a nutshell, if everyone must know my old
Speaker 1: boyfriend from many years ago, that was not It wasn't
Speaker 1: the best decision on my part to date him. He
Speaker 1: introduced me to this girl who was one of his mates,
Speaker 1: and we hit it off like got along like besties. Anyway.
Speaker 1: This is when I was living in Melbourne. Then I
Speaker 1: got my heart broken and he dumped me, and then
Speaker 1: I move home to Newcastle and she stayed my friend.
Speaker 1: So like I lost him, but I gained her as
Speaker 1: a friend. And I don't want anyone to think anything
Speaker 1: fucking bad of this because this isn't like tea or
Speaker 1: I don't have any bad feelings to literally towards anyone
Speaker 1: in my life. So she moved to Newcastle to live
Speaker 1: with me. And then this is when I was really
Speaker 1: in my YouTube era. You know, we were like doing
Speaker 1: vlogs together and hanging out and whatever. Yeah, she was
Speaker 1: becoming like a little bit of a micro influencer herself,
Speaker 1: and I feel bad. I don't want people to like
Speaker 1: fucking think this is me like trying to expose her
Speaker 1: and like send this to her. That's my only cress.
Speaker 2: Yes, even if they do send it to her. I
Speaker 2: don't think our scrollers are those type of people though.
Speaker 2: But even if we got some some fake scrollers, some haters, probably,
Speaker 2: I don't think they listen to the close friends. Though.
Speaker 1: I really want to fucking preface this by saying I
Speaker 1: have no hard feelings towards anyone. Anyway, she was living
Speaker 1: with me and she wasn't paying rent because she was
Speaker 1: trying to get this art business. You offered, yes, I said,
Speaker 1: you can come live with me. And she was doing
Speaker 1: this art business, selling these arts through her Instagram, which
Speaker 1: I was helping her to build. I shouldn't have fucking
Speaker 1: done that in the first place. That's way too nice
Speaker 1: of me. But I said, you can move in with me.
Speaker 1: Let's get your art business up and running, like I'll
Speaker 1: help promote it through my Instagram and YouTube, and then
Speaker 1: when you get to the point of making enough money,
Speaker 1: then you can start chipping in for rent. Thinking it
Speaker 1: was going to be a few weeks or whatever. Way
Speaker 1: too nice of me. I was really young and naive
Speaker 1: and stupid, and like obviously loved her as a friend. Anyway,
Speaker 1: weeks turned into months. Her art business took off. She
Speaker 1: had this boyfriend who was from like overseas somewhere, and
Speaker 1: she still hadn't paid rent, and I was starting to
Speaker 1: get a bit awkward. This was also when I started
Speaker 1: dating AJ, so I don't know how many years ago
Speaker 1: this was. But then AJ came into the picture during this,
Speaker 1: and then she went overseas for a wedding with her
Speaker 1: partner because like one of his family members was getting
Speaker 1: married over there. And then that's when I started to
Speaker 1: get really annoyed because she hadn't been able to afford rent,
Speaker 1: but she was going to be able to afford this
Speaker 1: overseas trip kind of thing. And then so I remember
Speaker 1: saying AJ, alright, when she's back, I'm going to ask
Speaker 1: her to start paying rent, because if she can afford
Speaker 1: to go on holiday for a wedding, she can afford
Speaker 1: to pay me literally like two hundred bucks a week.
Speaker 1: Like that's all I wanted. And then I remember as
Speaker 1: she was coming back or whatever, I this was so
Speaker 1: long ago, this is like eight fucking years ago. I
Speaker 1: said to her, hey, like once you get back kind
Speaker 1: of thing. Like I remember, I sat there and wrote
Speaker 1: it in my notes, and I wanted to be really nice,
Speaker 1: like I got AJ to help me, and I just said,
Speaker 1: you know, you've been on this holiday now, so like
Speaker 1: and you have art businesses doing well, so when you
Speaker 1: get home, like would it be okay if you started
Speaker 1: to pay your way in rent? And she wasn't fucking
Speaker 1: happy about that. And then like I was overseas at
Speaker 1: the time too. AJ and I went on our first
Speaker 1: holiday ever to Hawaii, and by the time I got home,
Speaker 1: she packed up her whole room and moved down in
Speaker 1: the middle of the night gone. I never saw her.
Speaker 1: I never heard from her again, like and it was vanished,
Speaker 1: and like she was on my social media so it
Speaker 1: was so awkward. And I remember this was when snapchat
Speaker 1: was a thing, so I like got on my Snapchat,
Speaker 1: and I was like, hey, guys, because everyone was fucking
Speaker 1: asking where is she? And then this is what I
Speaker 1: had a lot of haters as well, and people were like,
Speaker 1: you can't, you can't keep a friend like blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: And I didn't want to throw her under the bus
Speaker 1: because she'd just been like my best friend on social media.
Speaker 1: So I was like, she's gone, like she kind of
Speaker 1: moved out and it had a bit to do with money, like,
Speaker 1: and that was it. And I never saw her again.
Speaker 1: I never heard from her again. I remember people hated
Speaker 1: on me for that, and then I was so devastated
Speaker 1: because like I'd lost a friend all over, like her
Speaker 1: not wanting to pay rent, but I really want to stress,
Speaker 1: like this is not a worry in my life now.
Speaker 1: I have no hard feelings towards her. Obviously, I haven't
Speaker 1: seen her because she literally packed her card and moved
Speaker 1: back to Melbourne in the middle of the night. But like,
Speaker 1: if I ever saw her, I'd be like, how the
Speaker 1: fuck are you? Like, I have no hard feelings. I
Speaker 1: just felt like she could have gone a lot better
Speaker 1: of a way around that. She could have said, look,
Speaker 1: I can't afford rent. I'm going to move home to Melbourne,
Speaker 1: but instead it was moved out in the middle of
Speaker 1: the night and I never ever saw her again. And
Speaker 1: my audience hated on me for that, saying you can't
Speaker 1: keep a friend. I'm like, no, I'm way too fucking
Speaker 1: nice and get walked over. But I've learned a lot
Speaker 1: since then now I don't do shit for anyone.
Speaker 2: No, that's so so so weird that you would be like, hey,
Speaker 2: how you going, like and just.
Speaker 1: Well, we've spoken about this on the podcast before, like
Speaker 1: people doing wrong by you, you know, how we spoke
Speaker 1: about that and like how we would act. But like,
Speaker 1: I have no hard feelings towards anyone if anyone's ever
Speaker 1: done something wrong by me in my lifetime, like I
Speaker 1: just let it go and that's fucking it, Like that's
Speaker 1: their problem, and on them, like I'm not going to
Speaker 1: see her from across the room and be like, oh no,
Speaker 1: especially with something like eight years ago, just like how
Speaker 1: the fuck you've been? Yeah, where the fuck did you go?
Speaker 2: Random? That was eight years ago?
Speaker 1: I think it was, yes, seven or seven years ago, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was when AJ and I first got together, So
Speaker 1: it was that long ago. Good time, So we can
Speaker 1: only laugh about the memories, you know, wish her well.
Speaker 2: I guess if I saw my friend that I lived with,
Speaker 2: then I'm no longer friends like I because I missed
Speaker 2: that that friendship. I'm like, I don't miss we had.
Speaker 1: So much fun, Like I still laugh about some of
Speaker 1: the shit that we used to do. Memory we had
Speaker 1: poohs and high tea.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, when I'm looking through my videos and stuff
Speaker 2: and see videos we just had like the best time.
Speaker 2: So I don't know what happened, and God bless and
Speaker 2: I hope he's well, no hard feelings, but it was
Speaker 2: just really psycho because I was like, I was like you,
Speaker 2: I was like I felt like I was trying to help.
Speaker 2: And then I don't know, maybe we do high maintenance
Speaker 2: for these people I'm at we are.
Speaker 1: You've got to be careful with how much you give
Speaker 1: to people because you will get walked over. I've learned
Speaker 1: that lesson many times in real life.
Speaker 2: Yeah, stunning, that's your life lesson of the day people,
Speaker 2: And the other life lesson is I've got to go
Speaker 2: top up my parking. So all right, well I'll go
Speaker 2: get out of here and I'll see you next week.
Speaker 2: Anything to say before we head off, close friends, not
Speaker 2: that's it good