Speaker 1: It's lucky dip time. You're gonna get a real treat
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Speaker 2: A real treat.
Speaker 1: Hey, real treat. Ready to dip in, Ready to dip in,
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Speaker 1: Thanks for joining us for our little bite size episode
Speaker 1: and tell Juggernaut. All right, So, if you could have
Speaker 1: one talent that you don't have, what would yours be?
Speaker 1: It can be anything like super incredible at maths or
Speaker 1: words like a slam poet or a singer or a
Speaker 1: really great dancer, like anything you can think of. You
Speaker 1: get one wish.
Speaker 2: How embarrassing. I used to think I could dance, and
Speaker 2: then I posted on my Instagram a couple of weeks working.
Speaker 2: No no, no, I was not werking. No no, We're
Speaker 2: at a wedding.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I saw. Did you think you were dancing? Well?
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no I didn't. I didn't. I was Actually
Speaker 2: I was being a smart ass, yes, because I had
Speaker 2: been filming Mark all night. Okay, right, so he was
Speaker 2: being a smart ass back to me.
Speaker 1: Filming you while you were dancing. Yes, but you look
Speaker 1: at him and go, I don't care, and you keep dancing.
Speaker 2: But I did see myself and I thought, oh no,
Speaker 2: even though was.
Speaker 1: Shocked, like, I love that you put it up, but
Speaker 1: I was surprised for you because normally you curate within
Speaker 1: an inch of its life, and I'm like, very relax
Speaker 1: with the posts that you've just put up.
Speaker 2: Well, no, I don't curate, but I try to make
Speaker 2: things make sense, like, yes, so that the clip that
Speaker 2: I put beforehand was about, which is fascinating on its own,
Speaker 2: was about how when a woman's ovulating, yes, men are
Speaker 2: more attracted to her. And the woman was saying, like
Speaker 2: a woman dancing on a dance floor, she's surrounded by
Speaker 2: men in the exact same way and everything. Men will
Speaker 2: find her more attractive when she's ovulating than when she's
Speaker 2: on her period. Say there is something in the way
Speaker 2: she sways her heads and stuff. No, yes, it's well,
Speaker 2: I guess it's all biological, like of.
Speaker 1: Course, yes, because it's also the same with us. Is
Speaker 1: we have more sexual drive when we're ovulating, Yes, just
Speaker 1: you know, out of nature that's when you can procreate.
Speaker 2: Yes, so, and I just thought when I saw that,
Speaker 2: I thought, oh, that'd be funny, like I'm clearly not
Speaker 2: ovulating here.
Speaker 1: I didn't watch the clip before.
Speaker 2: But I did immediately get like a vulnerability thing, and
Speaker 2: I said my sister, and I said, my intention is
Speaker 2: for this to be funny. Do I just look like
Speaker 2: a fucking idiot?
Speaker 1: Can you please tell me? And she's like, just so funny.
Speaker 2: She's like, no, no, no, it's just funny, Like it's
Speaker 2: just funny. And I'm like, Okay, I can deal with it, but.
Speaker 1: I love that you can't really deal you thought about
Speaker 1: that so much and still thinking about it now.
Speaker 3: I did.
Speaker 2: Talent could just be being in control of my life.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be a talent for us, being mentally stable.
Speaker 2: Oh, that'd be beautiful talent. Maybe being able to separate
Speaker 2: my emotions from okay, you know, maybe that being more emotionally.
Speaker 1: Rainbl I feel like that's just being a normal human
Speaker 1: as this process, as a real talent.
Speaker 2: This is how I'm trying to start to look at things, right.
Speaker 2: I don't have any intention or even want in my
Speaker 2: life to be a leader, yes, or like, I don't
Speaker 2: care about that stuff. So I think those people, people
Speaker 2: in those roles, have to be able to separate emotion
Speaker 2: from whatever. But I feel like that is not if
Speaker 2: you're on the receiving end of the bad side, but
Speaker 2: my emotion I'm like, well, that's sort of makes me
Speaker 2: who I am, Like, I feel everything very deep. Please
Speaker 2: so yes, you know like pros and cons.
Speaker 1: Definitely pros and cons. Do you reckon that you're an
Speaker 1: mpath Is that why you feel so hectically like?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel you know. People say I pick up
Speaker 2: on people's energy or whatever. I definitely do that. And
Speaker 2: I can be very influenced by someone else's mood.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I'm the same.
Speaker 2: Yes, so I can feel sorry for someone but then
Speaker 2: not be able to get past I keep thinking about it,
Speaker 2: like when you lost your mum for example. Yes, I
Speaker 2: was in a real spin over that. Yeah, because I
Speaker 2: felt so sorry for you.
Speaker 1: Yes, that you like, I feel like I do that
Speaker 1: with my children. I've been speaking to Oh, my best
Speaker 1: makes cares and our oldest who are the ones that
Speaker 1: give so her oldest and my oldest are the ones
Speaker 1: that really give us a run for their money and money?
Speaker 1: And I feel like I'm too a meshed in backster
Speaker 1: that everything is dictated around and him. So if he's
Speaker 1: not good, I'm not good. But he's a teenager, so
Speaker 1: there's a lot of times he's not good. And I
Speaker 1: just worry about him. I feel his feelings, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: how can I be a mum to this kid and
Speaker 1: still feel those feelings but not be living his feelings
Speaker 1: with him?
Speaker 2: I reckon, That's I reckon. That's hard because not only
Speaker 2: I wouldn't say as a parent, because my husband's not
Speaker 2: like this. He can separate very easily.
Speaker 1: Whereas I came better than me. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But I always say to my kids, I feel
Speaker 2: like when I say this, it's like, oh me, me, me.
Speaker 2: But I always say to them when things are going
Speaker 2: shit for you, it's like I feel it worse. Yeah, pa, Yes,
Speaker 2: And they might something bad might happen, and then they
Speaker 2: just move on.
Speaker 1: They move on, whereas you're.
Speaker 2: In your head imagining them in the school yard or so.
Speaker 2: That's the thing.
Speaker 1: If they call yourself the day not good, My whole
Speaker 1: day's ruined, and they get home and have had a
Speaker 1: fantastic date, it's the same as Arlow was having a
Speaker 1: huge amount of problems with a couple of kids last
Speaker 1: year at school assholes and yeah, complete assholes, and he
Speaker 1: was falling through the cracks in that school, but also
Speaker 1: turned into quite a bullying situation. So I'm like, we're
Speaker 1: getting him the fuck out of there. I loved that
Speaker 1: school too, but it was like, I can't change the
Speaker 1: kids that are there, and I know Arlow is not
Speaker 1: the kind of kid that would like I don't think
Speaker 1: it'll be an issue that will follow him, do you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? So moved him and one of
Speaker 1: the kids that was, you know, giving him a really
Speaker 1: tough time moved to the school so as well. So
Speaker 1: I was like, fuck, I just was talking him through
Speaker 1: every day. Stay away from this kid. You don't have
Speaker 1: to be friends, even if you're in the same group,
Speaker 1: Like you just give him a wide birth. You can
Speaker 1: say hi, and that's it. Anyway, he gets home like
Speaker 1: three of this new school and I'm like, how's it
Speaker 1: going with so? And So he goes, oh, he's my
Speaker 1: friend now. I'm like, what the fuck? And he said, yeah,
Speaker 1: he gave me a lolly. We're friends now. And I
Speaker 1: was like, you're so basic. I've been stressing since you
Speaker 1: started for three days, going how's it gonna go? How's
Speaker 1: it going to go? And he's as happy as Larry
Speaker 1: because you gave him a sugar.
Speaker 2: Fruit strap, you know, because this is a safe space. Hopefully,
Speaker 2: not to judge E. My reaction to that would have been, oh,
Speaker 2: your friends, now you forget the holl he put you through.
Speaker 2: My isn't that horrible? I thought?
Speaker 1: I said that too. Sam's like, they move on. And
Speaker 1: so there was three of them, three kids that were
Speaker 1: really nasty, and two of them are still friends. They
Speaker 1: came to the door the other day and I was like,
Speaker 1: what the fuck are they doing here? Sam's like they've
Speaker 1: moved on. I said, well, I haven't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know. And when they go, would you like
Speaker 2: a drink? No, Johnny, Yeah, and then you su spit
Speaker 2: in it and give it to a.
Speaker 1: Nice It sounds like I've never known anyone to hake
Speaker 1: more ten year old or.
Speaker 2: Like im because they're horrible. And the thing, the trap
Speaker 2: you can get into, I reckon with the kid that
Speaker 2: you maybe relate to the most. So like for me,
Speaker 2: that's my son and Baxter for me, yeah, I every
Speaker 2: issue that he has, I immediately remember what it was
Speaker 2: like for me. Yeah. And maybe it's not as painful
Speaker 2: for them or maybe like they're different also because they're
Speaker 2: different sexes, so they do I think they do deal
Speaker 2: with it differently. But for us, yes, it's such a
Speaker 2: big thing because it brings up feeling.
Speaker 1: That way, triggering. You know.
Speaker 2: I tried hard not to say it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, but it's sometimes is the best explanation
Speaker 1: it is. Anyway, my hidden talent would be or not hidden.
Speaker 1: But if I could have another talent, it would be singing,
Speaker 1: which I think would be a lot of people's. I
Speaker 1: just think it would be so incredible to open your
Speaker 1: mouth and just beautiful sounds came out. Like my voice
Speaker 1: is so bad. Even my mum used to go, okay, Dale,
Speaker 1: that'll do like it's bad. It's really bad.
Speaker 3: I mean, it's not you.
Speaker 2: You could carry a chute.
Speaker 1: You could.
Speaker 2: No, man, you could.
Speaker 1: I've heard you.
Speaker 2: No, I've heard you.
Speaker 1: Excuse me. We all hear me singing at the beginning,
Speaker 1: and we know. And I did, like worked with Claire
Speaker 1: Bowditch did She ess to run seminars and stuff and
Speaker 1: she would get us to sing in it. And she's like,
Speaker 1: everyone can sing, we can all sing. And I was like,
Speaker 1: that's horseshit, Claire, you can sing, so you assume everyone
Speaker 1: can sing. There is no way I can sing.
Speaker 2: Technically, She's right, everyone can.
Speaker 1: Sing, not necessarily well could, Yeah, that's probably what she
Speaker 1: was meaning where I interpreted it as I have to
Speaker 1: be the best at this, and I'm not.
Speaker 2: What would you do with that talent?
Speaker 1: Though? I even would sing the jingles to all of
Speaker 1: your segments that you create that we never use. I
Speaker 1: feel like because of my previous job, I could have
Speaker 1: when we did live events or even at our show
Speaker 1: on televance, I could have sung I reckon. I would
Speaker 1: have made a real career out of singing like I reckon.
Speaker 1: I have enough gut, guts to me and determination to go.
Speaker 1: I'm going to do something with this. So I wouldn't
Speaker 1: have been a backup singer. I would have been the
Speaker 1: real You were the main event. I was the main
Speaker 1: event anyway. So Stay sent me this this morning and
Speaker 1: she said, this is the only joy we need and
Speaker 1: it is such a beautiful clip. I put it on
Speaker 1: our stories on our instace, so would be gone by now,
Speaker 1: but I thought, let's just play it in full. And
Speaker 1: this is today's lucky dip of you just sitting back
Speaker 1: and listening to a song. It is a in front
Speaker 1: of I reckon. She's about twenty one, Max, this beautiful
Speaker 1: black woman. She's in a bigger body and her confidence
Speaker 1: is just As the song goes on, you can literally
Speaker 1: see it grow and her come out of her skin
Speaker 1: and just stand a bit taller and feel a bit
Speaker 1: prouder and see the reaction of the crowd. And it's
Speaker 1: obviously like a drama class. It's set in like an
Speaker 1: American basketball court, and you can see it is a
Speaker 1: real like a kind of a like an assembly like
Speaker 1: no not. So there's just like clearly her drama class
Speaker 1: sitting in the bleachers, so there's not even that many
Speaker 1: of them, and it's you can tell it to school
Speaker 1: that is just a little bit run down, like it
Speaker 1: doesn't look fancy pants, right.
Speaker 2: This this really harks back to the the most attractive
Speaker 2: thing you can see someone do with something they're good at.
Speaker 1: Totally like it's just anyway, she's singing creep.
Speaker 4: Like Radiohead, Radiohead, Okay.
Speaker 3: When is he bes the show spash Yeah yeah yeah
Speaker 3: a look sever makes you happy, whatever you want. You're
Speaker 3: so very space. I wish show smash show.
Speaker 1: Willow with the end, Oh my god, isn't that amazing?
Speaker 1: I'm covering goosebumps.
Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty beautiful, but that's so stacy as well.
Speaker 1: Yes, totally really soulful singing she's obsessed with black female singers,
Speaker 1: which I totally get, but I plung what a song too,
Speaker 1: But how she does it with just so much energy
Speaker 1: and just then the crowd going nuts and they jump
Speaker 1: up at the end. But when I put it up
Speaker 1: on the stories of Show and how that many of
Speaker 1: you message going, I'm crying, like I'm yeing with this.
Speaker 2: It's the emotion coming out of her, and how serrapeutic
Speaker 2: it would be. I may release the release and men
Speaker 2: to be fucking applauded for it. Oh my god, we've
Speaker 2: kind of full circle to the emotion stuff.
Speaker 1: Yes, there we go. We always link it back anyway.
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