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Speaker 1: From The Australian. Here's what's on the front. I'm Claire Harvey.

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Speaker 1: It's Friday, November twenty nine. Dementia is on track to

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Speaker 1: become Australia's leading cause of death, overtaking cancer, and there

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Speaker 1: are steps you can take now to reduce your risk.

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Speaker 1: One of them is drinking less, because alcohol related dementia,

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Speaker 1: including in young people, is a real risk today. The

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Speaker 1: inspiring love story of one couple who faced a diagnosis

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Speaker 1: that was hard to comprehend late summer at Bondi, the

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Speaker 1: perfect place to fall in love. Louise Bryant was a

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Speaker 1: media executive in her thirties, a volunteer life saver who'd

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Speaker 1: spent the season on patrol keeping the kids and the

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Speaker 1: backpackers safe at the world's most faith beach. Her patrol

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Speaker 1: captain invited the crew to the clubhouse at the beach's

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Speaker 1: south end Icebergs. There's a famous aquamarine ocean pool, and

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Speaker 1: it was their end of season celebration. And then someone

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Speaker 1: walked in who would change Louise's life. The tall, handsome,

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Speaker 1: drop dead charming Craig Moore. He was an advertising copywriter,

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Speaker 1: a charming wordsmith and a huge personality. His nickname was Moose.

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Speaker 1: Everyone at the table seemed to know Moose, but his

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Speaker 1: attention settled on Loo, and before she knew it, she

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Speaker 1: was swept up in a whirl of dinners and dates.

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Speaker 2: I guess you could say we instantly fell in love.

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Speaker 2: He's very very charismatic, a bit of a bon vivant

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Speaker 2: sort of character. He's incredibly witty and very funny, and

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Speaker 2: he just had a real mac with being able to

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Speaker 2: solve a kind of client problem, I guess in a

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Speaker 2: creative advertising setting. But he was also an avid letter

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Speaker 2: writer to The Citny Morning in particular, and he wrote

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Speaker 2: some very funny letters that were published every other week.

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Speaker 2: You'd often write me bitiful cards and letters, which I've

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Speaker 2: of course still kept. But yeah, very special.

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Speaker 1: And over the years you started to notice some changes

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Speaker 1: in his behavior. Looking back now, what was the first

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Speaker 1: thing that made you aware that something was different?

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Speaker 2: Look, I think it was a lot of just unusual

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Speaker 2: sort of behavior that I couldn't quite put my finger on.

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Speaker 2: He seemed to genuinely love me. He was very caring

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Speaker 2: and kind. He was very supportive, but in the next breath,

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Speaker 2: he wouldn't turn up to things. He would become a

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Speaker 2: little bit erratic. Some of his friends would often say

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Speaker 2: things to me that were concerning, and yeah, I think

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Speaker 2: there were many moments where I look back and think, oh, okay,

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Speaker 2: that makes sense. Now, that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you describe in a story that we're publishing in

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Speaker 1: The Australian today a moment where he was supposed to

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Speaker 1: do a big ocean swim and he didn't finish with

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Speaker 1: the rest of the swimmers. That must have sent you

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Speaker 1: into a panic.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, I remember it so vividly. It was the Palm

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Speaker 2: Beach to Well Beach swim. It was a sparkling day,

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Speaker 2: the conditions were perfect. We'd made a weekend out of it.

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Speaker 2: We'd stayed at friends the night before. I remember dropping

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Speaker 2: him down to the marshaling area and I said to hear, Mom,

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Speaker 2: meet you at the other end. And an hour later,

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Speaker 2: he hadn't emerged from the water, and his friends and

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Speaker 2: everyone in his age group had obviously arrived, and I

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Speaker 2: started to sort of make some inquiries had anyone seen Moose?

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Speaker 2: And eventually I looked down and I could see him

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Speaker 2: And I think I was a bit shocked and taken

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Speaker 2: aback by that, and I thought, that's really strange. And

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Speaker 2: he then said, oh, my goalals broke, which in ocean

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Speaker 2: swimming circles is a big like it's just the worst excuse.

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Speaker 2: And I think a friend overheard and she's turned on

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Speaker 2: the heel and said you're so full of shit boos,

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Speaker 2: and it was yeah, it was a sort of troubled me.

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Speaker 2: But we moved on from that point and I just thought, okay,

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Speaker 2: he was able to atone about a year later, and

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Speaker 2: he did eventually do and another ocean swim over at

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Speaker 2: He gets quite anxious.

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Speaker 1: Something was in fact seriously wrong, but it was something

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Speaker 1: lew and Craig couldn't have even imagined. At that point.

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Speaker 1: They were in midlife, fit and active. Craig had a

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Speaker 1: young onset dementia, alcohol induced dementia, something lou didn't even

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Speaker 1: know was possible. In Australia, it's hard to find a

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Speaker 2: Well, there was a moment where he was suffering this delirium,

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Speaker 2: sure what was going on, and a friend, many friends

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Speaker 2: would come in and he'd tell them, and he looked

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Speaker 2: so serene and happy that we were having a baby,

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Speaker 2: Melanie Moore, a baby girl, and he was very happy

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Speaker 1: So he named this baby that wasn't real And in

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Speaker 1: that moment, do you remember how you felt about that?

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Speaker 1: And that's the moment you can't really pretend that nothing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, look it was. Sometimes you need to look for

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Speaker 2: the humor in the dark moments. I was literally running

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Speaker 2: your wife to tell them this wonderful news, because it's

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Speaker 1: While all this was going on, Luise was managing editor

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Speaker 1: at the time we were making a podcast, Head Noise,

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Speaker 1: all about degenerative brain conditions. In Head Noise, we followed

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Speaker 1: a superstar, retired rugby league player James Graham, as he

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Speaker 1: and we heard his neurologist, doctor Rowena Mobbs, telling James

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Speaker 1: prompted Lou to go and see doctor Mobs with Craig

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Speaker 1: American football could have contributed to his condition. Eventually, doctor

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Speaker 1: Mobs said Craig needed to go into full time care.

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Speaker 1: Now he lives safe and happy in a group home

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Speaker 1: where lou knows he's getting the care he needs.

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Speaker 2: When you're talking about it dementia diagnosis, there's often no

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Speaker 2: start and end. Rowena describes it like a rolling ball.

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Speaker 1: One of the factors lew and Craig we're dealing with

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Speaker 2: I'd love to one day talk about dementia positivity, but

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Speaker 2: there really isn't now because there's no cure, there's no

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Speaker 2: happy story, there's no surgery, there's no magic pill at

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Speaker 2: the moment, and it's something that I think we really

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Speaker 2: as as an important area that's becoming more and more urgent,

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Speaker 2: particularly and I'm sure you're aware of the statistics but

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Speaker 2: it will overtake cats as a leading cause of death

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Speaker 2: next year in Australia, and cases are expected to triple

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Speaker 1: The world's pre eminent medical journal, The Lancet, has a

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Speaker 1: standing commission on dementia Prevention, Intervention and care. It's twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty four report talks about increasing and stronger evidence about

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Speaker 1: the factors that can help reduce the risk. Those are

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Speaker 1: things like improving education, preventing hearing laws, preventing high blood pressure,

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Speaker 1: Lancets reports suggests that means consuming fewer than two glasses

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Speaker 1: risk of dementia. What do you wish you could say

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Speaker 2: Greater than Maybe it's just my experience, but I just

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Speaker 2: But very rarely in those early stages is dementia thought of.

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Speaker 1: Also, when you're talking to your GP about modifiable behavior,

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Speaker 1: After the break lose message to others who are touched

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Speaker 1: by dementia. Luis's story is told in The Australian Today

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Speaker 1: by one of the Australian's most gifted writers, Fiona Harari.

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Speaker 1: You can read it right now at the Australian dot

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Speaker 1: com au and we'll be back after this break. You

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Speaker 1: and I have been friends for years, and you've been

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Speaker 2: I received it. It was actually a video of Craig

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Speaker 1: So, yeah, it must have been a moment of just

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Speaker 1: not who he used to be. Yeah, it's our cohort

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Speaker 1: older and this is clearly something that's coming for us.

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Speaker 1: But we're also the careers, whether we're caring for elderly

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Speaker 2: I think it's absolutely get to look after yourself, to

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Speaker 2: network of very close friends and my family who really

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Speaker 2: provided that level of support, which was wonderful. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: around you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Not be ashamed, No, not at all. Louise, Thank

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Speaker 1: you very much.

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Speaker 2: Thanks Claire.

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