1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: And with Kate Ritchie podcast, we are asking the question 2 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: how soon did your partner cheat after the big day? 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I know. I mean you'd like to 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: think that at least when you're walking down the aisle 5 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: and you're going to spend the rest of your life 6 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: with each other. On paper, everything's at the best possible 7 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: point it could be. 8 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 2: Now. 9 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,319 Speaker 1: I don't know if you know UFC Flightweight Fighter Is 10 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: that right? Fly Flywaight Sports Update with Richie. His name 11 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: is Tim Elliott and he has accused his ex wife, 12 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 1: Gina Mazzany of cheating on him. 13 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 3: How quick are we talking here, Kate? 14 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 2: Well, well, round eight. 15 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 4: She was a ring girl. 16 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 2: Nice girl. I feel so uncomfortable for those girls. 17 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: You mean, the ring girls, as in the one in 18 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 1: the stilettos with the number. 19 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 3: Seem happy though they've got a good jol on their face. 20 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 5: Yeah. 21 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that they don't love their job, but 22 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,839 Speaker 1: I feel uncomfortable for them. And maybe it's an age 23 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 1: thing where I'm thinking everyone else is wearing their jackets 24 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 1: and their bling. 25 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 4: I feel like it anymore. 26 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 2: I feel like running up there and putting a jacket on. 27 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 3: I was a promo boy one night at the Alma 28 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:21,960 Speaker 3: Hotel in South Australia where I had to hand out 29 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 3: test tubes of illusion top off, No. 30 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 2: Not top off, just go. 31 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 3: I had to fill in for some mate I was 32 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 3: anc on the night and he said, can you just 33 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 3: fill in and be a promo boy for me? So 34 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 3: me and the girls we just used to fill up 35 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 3: with all the illusions and go out with test tubes. 36 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 2: Thanks. That was a bit sho a jug of illusions. 37 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: I'll get a jug of guy. 38 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 4: Such a great night. 39 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: Anyway, Tim Elliott, getting back to the story of the cheating, 40 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: not only has the woman allegedly cheated, it has been 41 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: with his teammate and best man, Kevin Krume. 42 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 2: The names really matter. So the okay, the friend she cheaters. 43 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 2: Let me get this right in my head. 44 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: She cheated on the wedding night, and supposedly the cheating 45 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: has been throughout their entire relationship. So leading up to 46 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: the wedding. On the wedding night, she had friends from 47 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: into state. This is how the story goes, and she 48 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: wanted to spend more time with them. They've obviously been 49 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: in a long term relationship. He has a young child. 50 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: He goes to put the child to bed and she 51 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: parties on with the friends from into state, but in 52 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: actual fact that was the best man, and apparently they 53 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: cheated on that night as well, so he got He thought, 54 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm going to do this delicately. I'm 55 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: going to call her out on Twitter and he posted 56 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: a video of his wife reading her wedding vows to 57 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: his daughter on the day I'm guess saying I'm going 58 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 1: to love your daddy for as long as I live. 59 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:02,799 Speaker 2: He used the word gross. How gross is this? 60 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 4: Did you have sex on your wedding night? Yes? We did, No, 61 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 4: we didn't. I'm not with you, honey. 62 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 3: Then thank god it's a UFC fighter, so he obviously 63 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 3: wouldn't overreact. 64 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 2: If you give your calm about it. 65 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:15,399 Speaker 4: Fairly balanced individuals. 66 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 3: The story that I have was a we had a 67 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 3: friend and the bride was very nervous. She was running 68 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 3: half an hour late to walk down the aisle kate. 69 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 3: Her bridesmaids were in a different car, so she went 70 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 3: in a car by herself to arrive at the ceremony. 71 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 3: In the car, the driver apparently was so good at 72 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 3: calming her down and said, look, I just want to 73 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 3: say take a few deep breaths, because this girl's spoken 74 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 3: about this afterwards and said, and he looked her in 75 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 3: the rear view mirror and said, you look beautiful. Don't 76 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 3: worry about anything. You look gorgeous. I love the color 77 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 3: of your eyes. And they struck up this, They struck 78 00:03:55,920 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 3: up this friendship in the car that she got married 79 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 3: that day and could not stop thinking about the driver 80 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 3: for the next few days. And Kate, it was about 81 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 3: a month after the wedding, but she left her husband 82 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 3: and hooked up with the driver. 83 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 4: A great driver. He'd be there on time every time. 84 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 3: Just trying to calm her down. 85 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 2: And he does that to all the upset brides. That's 86 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 2: his gig. 87 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 4: They ended hand a weakness, hasn't he He's found a 88 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 4: weakness in the nervous bride. 89 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: But you know what, do you know what that tells 90 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: me about the relationship or the man that she was 91 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 1: about to marry, is that he doesn't show her kindness 92 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: like that. And she just latched on to someone who 93 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: was lovely. I mean, why on earth was there not 94 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:42,119 Speaker 1: a bridesmaid sitting beside her holding her hand. 95 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 4: The best thing you've said all day, Lisa and Kellyville Ridge, 96 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 4: what's your story, Lise. 97 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 5: Good morning. I got married on the twenty fourth of 98 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 5: June two thousand, and on the fifth of October two thousand, 99 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 5: his girlfriend called to ask me if we were separated. 100 00:04:58,240 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 4: How long do you think he'd been with her? 101 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 5: She they'd been seeing each other for five weeks five 102 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 5: Did you. 103 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 4: Know who she was? 104 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 5: Nope? 105 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 3: Ah, so he'd been telling her lies and said, I'm 106 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 3: not with her. It's okay, we can keep hooking up. 107 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 3: So what can I have always ask in this situation, lice, 108 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 3: did you was there revenge involved? How did you break 109 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 3: it to him? 110 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 5: Basically? I just called him out on it, gave him 111 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 5: a call with some foul language and said who is this? 112 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 5: And he's denied it. He denies it even to this day. 113 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:39,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, Lisa, Can I ask also, when you look back 114 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 4: on sort of that five weeks, can you do you 115 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 4: think about his behavior and go, oh, I know that's right. 116 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 5: Well, you know it was currently married and been twenty 117 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 5: odd years with a woman he had that he had 118 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 5: an affair with before we got married. 119 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 2: I was wondering whether this was a habit. 120 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:59,599 Speaker 1: Now things you can see things clearly now, whether this 121 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 1: was some it happened throughout the relationship. 122 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 4: Do you want to have you. 123 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 3: Ever thought about pulling her aside one day, just anonymously 124 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 3: and just saying to her, look, I want to give 125 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 3: you their heads up. 126 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 4: He's done this to make she. 127 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 5: Knew she knew I existed when they had their first affair. 128 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 4: Lisa, if this was a cant affair doing this story, 129 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:20,479 Speaker 4: we'd ask you to recreate that phone call. Do you 130 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 4: want to pretend that you've just found out and affairs 131 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 4: for radio? It's too much color in the language. 132 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:32,280 Speaker 2: Have to dump you, I think, yeah, okay, be married now, Lisa. 133 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 5: No, but I do have a loving partner. 134 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 4: What's their name? 135 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 5: His name's Matthew, lucky man. 136 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:42,600 Speaker 4: You know what? 137 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:45,119 Speaker 3: I want you to win the ten thousand dollars today. 138 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,039 Speaker 4: You're in the running for ten K day in May. 139 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 5: Awesome. You've changed my life. 140 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:53,840 Speaker 4: Just quickly. I reckon, there's another strong phone topic. And 141 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 4: when did you hook up with the driver? Oh? Well, 142 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,559 Speaker 4: a girl and I got a limo from the Grand 143 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 4: Final one day and I'll tell you what. The limo 144 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:04,720 Speaker 4: pulled over on the side of the road and. 145 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 2: It was on Well, that's not that. 146 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 1: You make these stories. It's just some creepy little fantasy Mine. 147 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 4: Tom, you know this girl too. We used to work 148 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 4: with that. 149 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 3: I hooked up with my uber driver Saturday and Pete 150 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 3: was a great driver. 151 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 2: And Whipper with Kate. 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