WEBVTT - I am not organised AT ALL!

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<v Speaker 1>Apod Shape Production.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to another episode of Am I A Bad

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<v Speaker 2>Mum Podcast. It's an interesting time for the podcast. When

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<v Speaker 2>I say an interesting time for the podcast, it's an

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<v Speaker 2>interesting time for mums and dads. Yeah, because it's that

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<v Speaker 2>Christmas long school holidays. What do we do with them do?

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<v Speaker 2>Everything's so expensive, They're going to be bored anyway. Christmas

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<v Speaker 2>presents need to be bort But then.

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<v Speaker 3>You've got to try and juggle everything as well because

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<v Speaker 3>you've either got the kids. You can't do the kids

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<v Speaker 3>and the Christmas present at the same time, So then

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<v Speaker 3>you're trying to palm them off to go and do

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<v Speaker 3>the Christmas shopping to then come back to be able

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<v Speaker 3>to then wrap it.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't come in the room whilst I'm trying to wrap

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<v Speaker 1>the present. It's just a big fucking free for all.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I just turn of thought because my kids are

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<v Speaker 2>at home, they're on school holidays already. My first thought was,

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<v Speaker 2>oh shit, I didn't tell them not to go into

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<v Speaker 2>the laundry cupboards because that's where their Christmas presents are

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<v Speaker 2>and I haven't wrapped them yet. And then I had

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<v Speaker 2>a little laugh at myself, thinking as if they're going

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<v Speaker 2>to go into the laundry cupboard.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you beat me, talk as if they're

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<v Speaker 1>going in the laundry.

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<v Speaker 2>It's where we keep that mop and the buckets.

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<v Speaker 3>So silly of you to think that your kids are

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<v Speaker 3>going to be in the laundry. Am I a bad

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<v Speaker 3>mum for being extremely unorganized?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh this is not like you.

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you really excelled one year. There was only one year.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like where you did all the Christmas shopping

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<v Speaker 2>on lay By in the June July sales.

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<v Speaker 1>That big frenzy they have halfway through the year.

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<v Speaker 3>That is pretty good though, especially if your kids are

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<v Speaker 3>of that age where they are quite consistent about what

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<v Speaker 3>they're like, Like maybe one of them is very consistent

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<v Speaker 3>with the lego and you get Legot fifty percent off.

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<v Speaker 1>Very rare, but at the same time so good. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I just like literally wheeled it into those ladies that

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<v Speaker 3>do the wrapping for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, donated some cash, walked away with presents wrapped.

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<v Speaker 2>See this year, I had done absolutely nothing, Yeah until

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<v Speaker 2>the weekend, and I got everything done on the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>It was only like a week or so ago.

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<v Speaker 3>And you were like, we were about to just record

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<v Speaker 3>a podcast and you're sitting here and you looked at

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<v Speaker 3>your phone because you got onto Instagram for some reason.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like, oh, someone else has put up a Christmas

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<v Speaker 3>tree and you didn't even have a Christmas tree up. No,

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<v Speaker 3>now you're sitting here telling me a week later.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh look at me.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, got my Christmas tree up and I finished

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<v Speaker 3>all my Christmas shopping.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all in one weekend. Well luckily it was a rainy,

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<v Speaker 2>miserable weekend. I mean that shopping center was disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, hell, it gives me anxiety that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so busy. I was in Camar getting a

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<v Speaker 2>few things and Holly called me. She was at home

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<v Speaker 2>on this particular day. This is on the Saturday, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was doing shopping for them for the kids, and

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<v Speaker 2>she called me and she was asking me, like some

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<v Speaker 2>question about something, and I went, I can't be on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone to you right now. I'm in Kamar and

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<v Speaker 2>it is so busy it's making me itchy. She was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll get off the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, this is itchy, weird. I've heard just

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<v Speaker 3>was just people everywhere. I genuinely get like that when

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<v Speaker 3>it's that busy in those shopping centers because we're all

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<v Speaker 3>under one roof.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think about like all the germs being contained

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<v Speaker 3>into one area.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I just go.

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<v Speaker 2>And no one's careful about staying away from you either,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I really noticed that, like people just brushing past you.

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<v Speaker 2>No one gives my shit.

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<v Speaker 3>Being in each other's space. I don't even care about

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<v Speaker 3>the germ part. I just like, just don't touch me,

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<v Speaker 3>like we don't need to touch. Yeah, you don't need

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<v Speaker 3>to accidentally run into my heel with the trolley because

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<v Speaker 3>you weren't watching.

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<v Speaker 2>And also when it's that busy and people are like

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<v Speaker 2>just dilly dying, like walking slowly. I actually said at

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<v Speaker 2>one point, I got shit to do. Way, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>excuse me, can I just get through? I just want

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<v Speaker 2>to walk a bit faster, Like they were right in

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<v Speaker 2>front of walking so slowly. I was like, why are

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<v Speaker 2>you walking slowly in this situation? This is horrible. This

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<v Speaker 2>is a horrible situation. It's so busy, there's people everywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you want to prolong that?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I think that some people would genuinely go there

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<v Speaker 3>just to past time.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it was just horrible. But what I

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<v Speaker 2>found was if I go somewhere and I buy the

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<v Speaker 2>first present and I'm like, Yep, that's what I want

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<v Speaker 2>to get. Yep, that's great. Oh Black Friday cell E

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<v Speaker 2>even better. Like there's nothing I love more than going

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<v Speaker 2>to the checkout with something that I want to buy

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<v Speaker 2>and then going oh, yeah there's twenty percent of yeah, perfect,

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<v Speaker 2>so good. I was just on a roll, Rach, I

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<v Speaker 2>was on a roll. I was like, yep, tick tick tick.

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<v Speaker 3>You've done on a roll because you've been given a list,

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<v Speaker 3>or you're on a roll because you just like ideas

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<v Speaker 3>centrals just popping into your head. Like if that's me

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<v Speaker 3>when I walk into Kmart, ideas central is that creative

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<v Speaker 3>part of my brain just fucking floods away. It's just

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<v Speaker 3>dawn and I stand in there like a deer in headlights,

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<v Speaker 3>going oh god, I don't um. And then I find

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<v Speaker 3>myself just going, oh this is too much. I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>gonna leave now because the preparations not being done, Rach.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't just get a list. I get a Canva presentation. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>this is Amelia's sent me Christmas wish list, accessories and

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<v Speaker 2>other than a photo of the item. Skin care and

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<v Speaker 2>makeup clothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, there's a lot on that page.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, as a Canva presentation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's very different though to where I'm at.

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<v Speaker 3>I just get like the random letter that's been handwritten

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<v Speaker 3>and you can't really read some of the things to you,

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<v Speaker 3>like say.

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<v Speaker 2>I used to go through the catalog remember catalogs.

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<v Speaker 1>Loved catalogs. Big circle around what you need?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, love that circle it.

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<v Speaker 3>Else, would like from Santa her room to be redone.

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<v Speaker 2>Santa do that? I don't know, like Santa redecorating?

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<v Speaker 1>You just setting me up for failure.

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<v Speaker 2>Was he going to come in and like paint walls

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff that's what you want. I don't know that

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<v Speaker 2>he does that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that they listen to this podcast. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I really have to breathe.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So no wallpaper, just like new styling in her

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<v Speaker 3>room and she made me go round bed, bathroom table.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she thought she felt like she was on

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<v Speaker 3>the block. She really likes the block.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know how on the block.

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<v Speaker 3>They walk around and they're like they stage everything, so

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<v Speaker 3>they sort of try everything out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's exactly what we were doing that.

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<v Speaker 3>We were taking photos of the items that she wanted,

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<v Speaker 3>like a three hundred dollars, Like what do you call them?

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<v Speaker 3>Let you put your feet on like an ottoman, like

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<v Speaker 3>a poof for it, whatever that thing is. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that's what she wanted a three hundred dollars just because

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<v Speaker 3>it was fairy, and I was like, oh, yeah, see,

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<v Speaker 3>we could probably find that and came out for a

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<v Speaker 3>bit cheap.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I mean. You made a mistake going into

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<v Speaker 2>bedbu on the table.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just trying to get some ideas of like color,

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<v Speaker 3>because she was like, I wanted to make my room pink.

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<v Speaker 1>But you see, this kid is not really ever been

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<v Speaker 1>a pink kid.

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<v Speaker 3>So I feel like by getting a pink room, it's

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<v Speaker 3>going to be something that wants to be changed in

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<v Speaker 3>about six months and I'm not doing both.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, go to Kmart. Camar's got great stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>So that Canva thing, going back to what it was,

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<v Speaker 3>that Canvor thing would be great. I was on Pinterest

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<v Speaker 3>putting together a collage of the room that she possibly

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<v Speaker 3>like ideas.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what Gracie said when she saw it, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you never did that when I wanted a new room.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, mate, you've changed your room designed forty

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<v Speaker 3>five times.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is really interesting and maybe this is a

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<v Speaker 2>thing that is going around at the moment because Holly

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<v Speaker 2>did the exact same recently that she wanted her room

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<v Speaker 2>to be changed. Yeah, and then she put together some

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<v Speaker 2>ideas as well. This is the thing, right, This was

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<v Speaker 2>the great thing about it. When she started putting these

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<v Speaker 2>ideas together, she thought she would have to pay for

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<v Speaker 2>it herself. So she did take ideas from kmart lamps

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<v Speaker 2>and she put stuff together in like a little I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what she did it on, but she did

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<v Speaker 2>the same thing on like a little college put it together.

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<v Speaker 1>You can do that now, just like out of interest.

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<v Speaker 3>If anyone else is thinking about doing their own bedrooms

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<v Speaker 3>and not their kids, you can do it on Pinterest.

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<v Speaker 3>You put together literally Look, they have an option now

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<v Speaker 3>to do a collage. Yeah, in your Pinterest account. Anyway, Look,

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<v Speaker 3>let's go back to me being unorganized. Still haven't done anything.

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<v Speaker 3>We're in a really hitty age group. Nine to eleven

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<v Speaker 3>is hard because like they don't want toys, no, but

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<v Speaker 3>then they don't need bike, do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, got rollerblade.

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<v Speaker 2>But you also don't want to make them too old

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<v Speaker 2>with some of the skincare makeup clothing that they want

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<v Speaker 2>mobile phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Not getting mobiles.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she's going to get a Berna phone mate, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's going to be the biggest Berna phone she's ever seen.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to be like Nokia Exist.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, give it a few months. When she starts high school,

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<v Speaker 2>you will change your mind because she will be the

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<v Speaker 2>kid that's got the great big nockier and you will

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<v Speaker 2>be the embarrassing mum.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to own it. I'm going to rock it.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't know, Okatie, I'm so on organ eyes

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<v Speaker 3>and even like you're talking about being at chirm Side

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<v Speaker 3>at Westfield over two days of your weekend with that

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<v Speaker 3>many people. I try and time it so that i'm there,

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<v Speaker 3>like on the twenty third when they start that twenty

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<v Speaker 3>four hour shopping and when no one.

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<v Speaker 1>Else is there. How good is that?

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<v Speaker 3>But this year I haven't got time on the twenty

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<v Speaker 3>fourth like I normally do all the wrapping. If I

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<v Speaker 3>haven't been to a shopping center and let the ladies

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<v Speaker 3>wrap it for me, I usually am that person that's

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<v Speaker 3>wrapping it like midnight or twenty four.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we have that opportunity.

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<v Speaker 3>This year.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to be a little bit more, maybe just

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<v Speaker 1>wrap on the twenty third.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just going back to the mobile phone thing, because

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<v Speaker 2>you will be buying a mobile phone. I guarantee in

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<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty five, you will be buying her a mobile phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting her a nockout, I don't care.

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<v Speaker 2>You might as well get her a pager.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna whatever works