WEBVTT - Who's In The Wrong? | Arj Barker Removes A 9-Month-Old From His Audience 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:05.280 We've got every day Adelaide. 0:00:06.720 --> 0:00:12.040 Mate, oh what about this the ARJ Barker controversy. So basically, 0:00:12.039 --> 0:00:14.040 if you're not up to speed, what has happened is 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:18.040 a mother has brought a nine month old baby into 0:00:18.079 --> 0:00:21.000 his comedy show at the International Comedy Festival in Melbourne 0:00:21.400 --> 0:00:25.160 and the baby wasn't crying as such, but gurgling, and 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:28.520 Arge has argued the baby was distracting. 0:00:28.720 --> 0:00:30.800 Grizzling yes, been described as yeah. 0:00:30.840 --> 0:00:34.000 So in that moment he said, listen, I can't focus 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:36.319 on what I'm trying to deliver for all the other 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:39.560 patrons at my comedy show. So he has asked her 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:43.160 to leave. This is a real conflicting one, isn't it. 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:45.720 It is a lot and now I mean late yesterday 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:47.200 to know, I'm speaking to a lot of my mates 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:50.279 as well, and I feel like very much it depends 0:00:50.640 --> 0:00:53.720 one if you've got kids or not. Yep, but also 0:00:53.880 --> 0:00:57.600 too how maybe Torrant you are with kids as well, 0:00:57.640 --> 0:00:58.800 because a lot of people, I know a lot of 0:00:58.840 --> 0:01:01.680 people who just here even the slightest sound out of 0:01:01.720 --> 0:01:03.880 a child anywhere and they're like, now get. 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:04.400 Rid of that child. 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:08.640 Yeah, I can't imagine having a nine month old baby 0:01:08.720 --> 0:01:10.840 and being in a space where I'm like, I would 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:14.880 like to go to a comedy show. Oh, we've said, baby, 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:17.560 I actually can't think of anything ridiculous. 0:01:17.600 --> 0:01:20.480 So we live in West Croydon and it's an absolute 0:01:20.560 --> 0:01:23.479 treat to sometimes go to Queen Street Cafe. I went 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:26.520 there on the weekend, but two times before that we 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:29.119 got to the front before one of the kids started 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:30.560 playing up and we said we're not going in there. 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:32.720 We're not risking this, and you can tell the vibe 0:01:32.800 --> 0:01:34.760 a kid, We're just not going to go in there. Yeah, 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:36.120 because we're goin to cause a saying. 0:01:36.040 --> 0:01:39.039 Well, I mean it's I don't know, it's a difficult one. 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:43.120 It was strictly age fifteen plus. So how the child 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:47.240 got into the venue is his argument. It's like, shouldn't 0:01:47.280 --> 0:01:48.320 have been there in the first place. 0:01:49.440 --> 0:01:50.520 What fake idea is that. 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:55.600 Baby just flushed it on the way in. 0:01:55.680 --> 0:01:58.600 Yeah, yeah, you're good in small fifteen year old but 0:01:58.720 --> 0:02:02.240 hey yeah yeah. So I don't know as a comedian 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:04.760 it would interrupt your train of thought, i'd imagine, But 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:07.880 I do have to say this with well, I've interviewed 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:11.040 archback over the years quite a few times when he's 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:13.919 come here for Fringe, and I've been less than impressed, 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:15.440 right okay. 0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:16.639 By his demeanor and his manner. 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:18.519 Did you in fact, he's. 0:02:18.360 --> 0:02:20.000 A bit of a talk when was this? Did you 0:02:20.000 --> 0:02:21.800 bring one of your babies in at the time. 0:02:22.960 --> 0:02:25.000 I was trying to breastfeed and ar was like, you 0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:26.040 can't interview me. 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:32.359 Text lines open I four double nine one nine, or 0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:34.040 he can give his call thirteen twenty four ten. 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:35.160 Where do you sit on this one? 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:39.440 Because immediately, yessay, I was like, well, come on, Arch, 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:42.160 it's not that bad. But since all the facts were 0:02:42.160 --> 0:02:44.360 sort of half lined up and apparently made a bit 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:45.840 of a joke, which is quite funny when the baby 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:47.880 was grizzly, he said, oh, look, the baby's clearly saying 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:48.600 get me out of here. 0:02:48.720 --> 0:02:49.800 Yeah, I'm not enjoying it. 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:53.840 We do have Arch here trying to explain exactly why 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:54.720 he did what he did. 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:57.680 Doesn't take much to distract an audience, you know, when 0:02:57.720 --> 0:03:00.720 they're watching a show. And I worked on there's jokes, 0:03:00.720 --> 0:03:03.200 and there's timing, and there's posies, and so I made 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:05.720 this decision. It wasn't easy because I knew it was 0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:08.359 really awkward for me. To be honest, I said, you know, 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:10.600 I'm really sorry, but you know, the baby can't stay. 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:13.360 I shouldn't have been in that position because the show 0:03:13.440 --> 0:03:14.720 is a fifteen plus show. 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:16.359 So he has doubled down. 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:17.960 Yeah, he definitely did. 0:03:18.040 --> 0:03:20.320 He's not leaving any sort of space for any other direction. 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:21.520 But yeah, I made the right call. 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:25.360 But I do think comedians in this space would have 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:28.359 an opportunity just to laugh and have a joke with it. 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:30.480 And I don't know, I don't know if you did 0:03:30.520 --> 0:03:32.560 the right thing or not. A lot of other mums 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:35.080 got up and walked out in solidarity for this woman. 0:03:36.520 --> 0:03:38.640 But yeah, whether she would have she should have taken 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:40.080 the baby in the first place, is the question. 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:42.120 I guess, very very interesting stuff. 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:44.800 All right, give this call thirteen and twenty four ten 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:47.280 your thoughts on this one, because this is a genuine 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:49.400 I reckon yesterday whenever when I was speaking to it 0:03:49.640 --> 0:03:51.480 was absolutely fifty to fifty. 0:03:51.640 --> 0:03:52.440 Yeah, because I think. 0:03:52.480 --> 0:03:54.720 A lot of people yesterday straight away had their opinions. 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:56.720 But then when you find out that it was strictly 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:59.440 fifteen plus, yeah, I think that changes everything. 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:01.320 And if you call on thirteen twenty four ten and 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:03.440 there's a baby crying in the background, we will hang 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:05.400 up on you immediately. 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:06.960 We can't take that distraction. 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:09.800 I've always said, as we all Joe's three things that 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:12.800 you just cannot take babies too anymore. Of course, bucks parties, ye, 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:16.520 don't take your baby to a Bucks parties. Also paintballing, no, 0:04:16.680 --> 0:04:18.880 just don't do it. But also bungee jumping. Leave them 0:04:18.880 --> 0:04:21.920 at home unless you have the breastfeed your baby at 0:04:21.920 --> 0:04:25.240 a Bucks party. It's just a strange one, isn't it. 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:28.120 I've just worked out exactly what that could mean. Why 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:29.640 is there a mother at a Bucks party? 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:30.320 I'm not sure. 0:04:30.360 --> 0:04:30.760 I don't know. 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:33.760 You're telling the story kinda Helene. 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:36.120 Out, Good morning, Good morning, How are you good? What 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:37.960 are your thoughts on this one? Did he do the 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:38.599 right Dawn or not? 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:41.159 Look, I don't think that the mum and the baby 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:43.880 should have got in, firstly, but I'm a mam of 0:04:43.920 --> 0:04:47.240 five and I wouldn't personally take my children into a 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:51.360 show because of that distraction. So given that saying that, 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:53.080 I think that it could have been out within a 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:56.440 different way, like publicly humiliating someone seems like it's the 0:04:56.560 --> 0:05:00.159 issue rather than the baby crying and gristly. So I 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:02.120 think that you know, if they had a marketing team, 0:05:02.160 --> 0:05:05.200 perhaps that they could have discreetly had a conversation with 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:08.640 mums yeah, and asked her to quite believe. But if 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:10.800 it was me, I would have been if the baby 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:14.960 was unsettled, made myself to excuse myself and went out. 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:15.840 I think that's the thing. 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:19.080 The minute that you get your baby gets grizzly and 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:22.479 starts interrupting other people. I try and remove my children 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:24.960 from that situation. But at the same time, I sort 0:05:24.960 --> 0:05:26.960 of think she needs to be applauded for getting out 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:30.800 and about and trying to go about her life with 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:31.680 a small child. 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:34.760 Yeah, and perhaps she didn't have a baby sitter option. 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:36.400 Yeah, that's fair. 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:39.320 Cool, But I guess it's up to If they're saying 0:05:39.480 --> 0:05:42.040 it's fifteen class, they shouldn't have allowed her to get 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:43.800 in in the first place, or if she did get in, 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:45.719 they should have honored that and allowed her to stay. 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:50.640 Since Sinner's baby's crying, I think as apparently would excuse yourself. 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:53.480 I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, Helene. Can you shut 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:53.919 that baby? 0:05:57.839 --> 0:06:01.080 I've got to in the back at the moment, warn 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:05.240 you we said he baby in the background. Absolutely, we 0:06:05.240 --> 0:06:08.400 would cut you off, lady, thank you. 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:09.240 So much for calling. 0:06:10.520 --> 0:06:10.920 Thank you. 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:12.840 I'm let's see from Arch Barker, he doubled down. 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:15.320 Doesn't take much to distract an audience, you know, when 0:06:15.320 --> 0:06:17.720 they're watching a show, and you know, I worked on 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:20.360 these jokes and there's timing and there's positive and so 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:22.920 I made this decision. It wasn't easy because I knew 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:25.440 it was really awkward for me to be honest, I said, 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:27.320 I'm you know, I'm really sorry, but you know, the 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:29.880 baby can't stay. I shouldn't have been in that position 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:32.320 because the show is a fifteen plus show. 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:35.920 It's it's a solid point. It's a fifteen plus show. 0:06:36.080 --> 0:06:38.080 Well, yeah, I get that. I don't know. 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:41.000 I just we need to normalize breastfeeding, though. I think 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:44.320 that's part of the issue here. It's women should feel 0:06:44.320 --> 0:06:46.960 comfortable in most situations. But whether that baby should have 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:48.880 been at the comedy show debatable. 0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:51.320 Well does it matter if it's breast fighting? I don't. 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:52.719 I think it was more so that was making noise. 0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:56.840 A Columbae Jared thoughts on. 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:59.200 This one as a father of four. Look, I understand 0:06:59.240 --> 0:07:02.040 everyone wants to it out and all for this lady 0:07:02.040 --> 0:07:05.120 for having the power to go out and enjoy herself. 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:07.839 But I think you've really got to choose your venues 0:07:07.839 --> 0:07:09.720 that you're going to and the things you're going to. 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:14.600 It's clearly listed as a fifteen plus show, like did 0:07:14.600 --> 0:07:17.680 they sneak the child in? Like I don't know the 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:19.360 same thing as staking a bottle of boos and to 0:07:19.440 --> 0:07:24.640 it first of all, or something like and to defend 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:27.760 arch like should it really have been his job to 0:07:27.880 --> 0:07:30.200 make the mother and child leave? Shouldn't it have been 0:07:30.240 --> 0:07:33.520 the dorman? Like all black and look, I don't know 0:07:33.560 --> 0:07:35.920 the guy personally, don't know what he's like. I've never 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:41.040 done interviews like you, Joe, but it's should have really 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:42.920 been put in that position where he had to do 0:07:42.960 --> 0:07:44.960 it in the middle of his show anyway, Should it 0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:47.000 have been the dorman that should have done the job? 0:07:47.040 --> 0:07:49.160 Probably right, good points, very good questions. 0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:52.600 I'm also standing on stage being a comedian delivering jokes. 0:07:52.880 --> 0:07:56.480 It's a lot like that's my worst nightmare having to 0:07:56.520 --> 0:07:56.720 do that. 0:07:57.560 --> 0:08:00.400 I'm talking on air of you, and I'm petrified. Case 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:04.960 of people like completely understand, like's done a very good 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:08.920 chab to play professional. I'm just a trucktor like no, no, no, no. 0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:11.040 I think you could veer into the direction of radio 0:08:11.080 --> 0:08:12.840 if you want to do, Jared, that's how good your 0:08:12.840 --> 0:08:13.960 performance has been this morning. 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:16.040 Jared, thank you so much for your call. Have a 0:08:16.040 --> 0:08:19.120 great day, Trish. Should that baby have been in the venue? 0:08:19.520 --> 0:08:20.600 No, we'll stop. 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:20.800 No. 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:24.280 Look, I'm a mother of three and I think my 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:27.760 husband and I are amazing parents. All our children are 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:30.679 in our twenties now, but we had three under five, 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:34.040 and if we were fortunate enough with having no family, 0:08:34.520 --> 0:08:36.400 if we were fortunate enough to have a date night, 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:39.480 I would do so much research and homework to make 0:08:39.520 --> 0:08:42.040 sure that my husband and I went out and had 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:45.200 a great night together so that we were away from children. 0:08:45.640 --> 0:08:48.480 And again, if you want to if you want to 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:50.920 advocate and turn it into this, oh my god, it's 0:08:50.920 --> 0:08:51.679 about breastfeeding. 0:08:51.920 --> 0:08:52.079 Hey. 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:54.679 Yeah, we're all in total to breast reread wherever we want, 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:57.360 whenever we want. But that's not what this is about. Yeah, 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:02.120 that show was fifteen plus and I don't even like Arjbaker, 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:06.000 but I think he was well within his rights. But 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:09.960 it's like the gentleman said before me, really, come on, guys, 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:13.120 was it argest problem to deal with? No, it should 0:09:13.120 --> 0:09:15.800 have been everybody that set up that show that sold 0:09:15.880 --> 0:09:18.520 the tickets, that let them in the door. Yadi yadi, 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:22.280 yadi YadA. So I mean hell trade kids under five. 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:24.640 I was dying for a night out without the kid. 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:25.839 This is a thing. 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:28.240 I can't think of anything worse than going to a 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:31.360 comedy show with a baby with a nine months old Like, 0:09:31.480 --> 0:09:33.480 surely if you're having a night out, having a stressful 0:09:33.640 --> 0:09:35.200 if you can get a babysitter stressful. 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:35.720 Trish. 0:09:35.760 --> 0:09:37.480 We just spoke to you for forty five seconds, and 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:40.080 what we can absolutely confirm is you're someone who gets 0:09:40.080 --> 0:09:40.840 straight to the point. 0:09:40.880 --> 0:09:42.040 We very much appreciate that. 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:46.559 Yes, Ye're welcome, thanks to having me on God. 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:50.000 You're so welcome, Trish, absolute legend, Ken Sensor text give 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:52.400 you your thoughts on this. So for double nine nine 0:09:52.400 --> 0:09:54.319 one nine or gives care thirteen twenty four to ten. 0:09:54.760 --> 0:09:56.239 The debates will continue. 0:09:56.800 --> 0:10:07.760 Here's where you're waking up to adelaide the news today, regularssos. 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:07.160 Top stories of the day. We need to go round 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:09.840 the room in breaking news. 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Yes, 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:45.160 the women who are in your backyard doing amazing things. 0:11:45.280 --> 0:11:45.679 Unupset. 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:48.880 Look at Brian from me seventeen killed it all right, 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:50.320 particular little. 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:51.800 Listen, let it go. 0:11:52.040 --> 0:11:54.079 Can you imagine our collaborations? I reckon they would be 0:11:54.200 --> 0:11:55.360 quite good. 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:58.200 Good straight to number one. 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:02.079 Speaking of news, Oh my goodness, this is all over 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:04.600 the news at the moment. US comedian Arji Barker has 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:09.679 faced backlash and even reported walkouts at his show after 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:12.240 he asked a mum and her seven month old baby 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:16.360 to leave his Comedy Festival show on Saturday night. I'm 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:17.959 really torn on this one. We'll talk about it a 0:12:18.000 --> 0:12:21.560 little bit later. But basically, the baby wasn't crying, but 0:12:21.679 --> 0:12:24.559 it was grizzling, and the mother decided to give it 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:27.720 a quick feed to keep the baby quiet, and ARJ 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:30.200 stopped down his show because he said he couldn't concentrate 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:33.400 and it was interrupting his flow, so asked the mother 0:12:33.520 --> 0:12:34.679 to leave the theater. 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:38.760 So this emerged yesterday afternoon in particularly Channel seven. We 0:12:38.760 --> 0:12:41.720 spoke about this a lot, Yeah, and in depth and clearly, 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:43.720 and we'll talk about it. Like you said, after seven o'clock, 0:12:43.720 --> 0:12:45.120 I mean to love you to get involved his wealth 0:12:45.440 --> 0:12:49.000 twenty four to ten. But the opinions different in terms 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:51.000 of whether you've got kids on us. Yes, that's what 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:51.600 it feels like. 0:12:51.800 --> 0:12:55.400 Yeah, it's like there's two types of people, Like when 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:57.400 you've got a baby crying on the plane, there's the 0:12:57.440 --> 0:13:00.160 person that tries to help, and there's the one that 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:03.360 sits there and just stares the parents down, like shut 0:13:03.360 --> 0:13:05.880 your baby up. Yeah, it's a real devicey one, isn't it. 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:08.200 Yeah, Like you're choosing for the baby just to be 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:09.160 in absolute usage. 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:09.560 Yeah. 0:13:09.679 --> 0:13:12.440 Yeah, trust me, my kids when they're a nuisance, I 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:17.640 hate them more than you do, particularly. 0:13:17.200 --> 0:13:20.079 When you're a public space exactly. We'll talk about that 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:23.280 a little bit later on you Susie. 0:13:23.640 --> 0:13:27.840 What about the World Antidoping Authority WADA is potentially about 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:30.439 to go absolutely berserk on these Chinese swimmers. 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:32.520 What twenty three metals potentially stripped? 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:33.960 Yeah, this one's a big one. 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:36.240 So they're going to hold a press conference after it 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:39.960 came out that twenty three Chinese athletes were still allowed 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:43.840 to go to the Tokyo Olympics and compete and they all, 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:46.240 I think all of them nearly got medals or gold 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:49.200 medals or whatever. So they could be stripped of them 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:51.679 because they were tested and they had a banned substance 0:13:51.720 --> 0:13:52.960 in their systems. 0:13:53.120 --> 0:13:53.400 Yeah. 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:56.840 Wow, wait, so I'm not across this story at all? 0:13:57.040 --> 0:14:00.200 Is this retrospective? This has happened in the past these 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:01.560 swimmers because. 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:03.959 It's come up Obviously we've got Paris Olympics coming up, 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:06.000 so there's been a big like we'll hang on a set. 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:08.000 It's only just come out. Why are we only hearing 0:14:08.000 --> 0:14:11.559 about this now? They shouldn't have metals, et cetera, et cetera. 0:14:11.800 --> 0:14:14.520 Yeah right, seriously, I mean the message here is just 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:15.640 be better at masking them. 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:21.880 You know what I mean. I'm joking, don't take performs 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:22.640 enhancing drugs. 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:26.000 I think the message what Olympics it was, because obviously 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:27.560 I've lived through so many of. 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:29.760 Them, but there. 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:35.560 The first one amazing. 0:14:37.760 --> 0:14:39.400 I wore my loin cloth. 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:42.720 Coconuts on my boot. 0:14:42.800 --> 0:14:45.000 That was an Olympics too, I think, by the way, and. 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:47.000 Then I had a wreathed around my head. It was beautiful. 0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:48.840 I loved every moment of the Rome Olympics. 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:54.800 What was Casar like, Yes, this is definitely retrospect, so 0:14:55.600 --> 0:14:56.160 washed his space. 0:14:57.040 --> 0:14:59.280 Anyway, I had the point to that story, and I've 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:01.240 lost it. No, can you remember there was one Olympics 0:15:01.240 --> 0:15:03.440 and there was a Chinese female swimmer standing on the 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:07.480 podium and everyone was like, you've got to be joking 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:07.960 and her. 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:09.200 Lat's we're touching your hips. 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:09.600 I know. 0:15:09.840 --> 0:15:10.760 She was a brute. 0:15:10.840 --> 0:15:15.480 Shoot, she was huge, and everyone's like, something is going 0:15:15.520 --> 0:15:18.440 on here. And then yeah, surprise, surprise, they got done. 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:21.640 Yeah, wow, a revelation clean. 0:15:21.640 --> 0:15:22.320 I was the athletes. 0:15:22.440 --> 0:15:24.640 Good on some people though, because after a few lemonades, 0:15:24.720 --> 0:15:26.800 I can't even get on a bike and ride, so 0:15:28.280 --> 0:15:28.960 I'm good on them. 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:31.920 Oh there you go, there's your post. A snooze at news. 0:15:32.640 --> 0:15:35.680 Jade's you know me, I'm really trying to find my 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:39.800 way as a parent, and sometimes it's hit. Sometimes it's 0:15:39.840 --> 0:15:42.680 miss es. Mainly miss and if it wasn't for my 0:15:42.720 --> 0:15:45.920 wife Kara, during ninety nine percent of the work in 0:15:46.000 --> 0:15:48.480 terms of parenting, I would be absolutely you know what. 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:51.440 Look, I don't want you to talk yourself down, but 0:15:51.440 --> 0:15:52.440 you probably spot on. 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:56.000 Let's just be honest. Let's just be honest for a second. 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:58.400 I would be laying face down in a drain pool 0:15:58.480 --> 0:15:59.400 somewhere with our car. 0:15:59.680 --> 0:16:02.960 I know your savior, absolute savior. 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:05.440 And while that's happening, the kids are eating ice cream 0:16:05.440 --> 0:16:08.840 for breakfast. That's not good, is it. I clearly swear 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:09.960 too much in front of the kids. 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:12.480 And blessed car she says, we swear too much in 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:14.000 the kids and we need to change our ways. 0:16:14.000 --> 0:16:16.120 But it sits me. It's one pcent me. 0:16:16.600 --> 0:16:18.360 So you're not just swear in front of your kids. 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:21.000 You've sworn in front of my kids on a few occasions. 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:22.240 Yeah in the car. 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:24.600 That's because you know, telling me what. I'm a loudspeaker. 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:28.960 You stitch me up, not on purpose. 0:16:29.120 --> 0:16:31.200 It's a whole different story anyway. 0:16:31.440 --> 0:16:34.360 So they've started dropping the F bomb, and what's even 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:36.400 more concerning is they start using it in context when 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:39.120 it makes sense. So it's starting to become a genuine 0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:41.120 part of their language. Okay, So we made up a 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:43.240 new rule which is very much an old school rule, 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:44.560 and I reckon I had it as well. If it 0:16:44.600 --> 0:16:46.200 wasn't this, it was probably the must in the mouth. 0:16:46.720 --> 0:16:49.920 So right, next person that says the F word, soap 0:16:49.920 --> 0:16:51.920 in the mouth and you've got to wrench your mouth 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:55.320 out and we've got to wash it clean. Wow, very 0:16:55.440 --> 0:16:58.200 very drastic, and I think part of the kids are like, no, no, no, 0:16:58.240 --> 0:16:59.000 that's not going to happen. 0:16:59.080 --> 0:16:59.880 Yeah, you won't make it. 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:01.560 Do you also give your kids the cane? 0:17:04.720 --> 0:17:08.399 What happens in the Hayes household is private and confidential. No, 0:17:08.480 --> 0:17:10.240 I don't, but I caught the cane. By the way, 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:12.680 did you different story back at Beckham Public School? Did 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:14.320 he really really used to get hit all the time 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:16.639 as well? There's a lady by the name of missus 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:19.960 Walker and she still terrorizes my dream. 0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:22.560 So on the hand or on the buttocks. 0:17:22.119 --> 0:17:23.399