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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables, risk.

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Speaker 2: Is temporary and regrets forever.

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Speaker 3: Also take the risk.

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Speaker 4: Oh did you come up with that on the spot?

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Speaker 1: That was a bar.

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Speaker 5: Dude inspiring friendship and I think you know when you

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Speaker 5: feel like you've got those people in your life and

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Speaker 5: you're like, I just know I need to let go

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Speaker 5: of it, just let go because otherwise you're going to

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Speaker 5: be stuck in that people pleasing giving person all the

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Speaker 5: time and not allowing people in your life to give

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Speaker 5: the energy back that you use out.

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Speaker 6: If that makes sense. I love that one.

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Speaker 1: That is amazing advice, inspiring, friendship, relatable.

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Speaker 6: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig aka

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Speaker 6: Study my partner in Crime, Audie Clark a ka mummy.

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Speaker 6: I'm thinking I might start saying my podcaster in crime.

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Speaker 6: Well we always say my partner in crime, my podcaster

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Speaker 6: in crime.

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Speaker 1: I kind of like that very on theme.

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Speaker 6: Something like that my podcast something we'll think of something.

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Speaker 6: But today, guys, we have a kind of special episode.

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Speaker 6: It is a little bit a very wholesome. This is

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Speaker 6: going to be a special wholesome. We really got the idea,

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Speaker 6: so I already got the idea actually from a couple

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Speaker 6: episodes ago we had because we call people at the

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Speaker 6: end to sign off, but the listener, Beth, she gave

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Speaker 6: just like really good advice. Yeah, And so we thought,

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Speaker 6: let's do an episode where we get all quite a

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Speaker 6: few of the baddies to send in their like name, number, age, right,

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Speaker 6: and then we said, the reason that they like signing

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Speaker 6: and they're gonna we're gonna ask them for like advice

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Speaker 6: that they would give to their self when they were twenty,

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Speaker 6: the moment, and just see what everyone's got, because everyone's

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Speaker 1: I like this for a couple of reasons. Actually, One

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Speaker 1: very good plug if you want to join in in

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Speaker 1: any of these things in the future. It's on the

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Speaker 1: Facebook group yep Relatables Batties Unite. But two also, when

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Speaker 1: we first started this podcast, I thought it was going

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Speaker 1: to be so cool to create this audience but also

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Speaker 1: give back to them in a way, because it's kind

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Speaker 1: of rare when you can give someone a voice to

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Speaker 1: thousands of people. So the people were calling their advice

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well, we would think we think because of the

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Speaker 6: question that we're going to be asking everyone, we should

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Speaker 1: I feel like there's some pressure on us to give

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Speaker 6: Yeah? It should we thought of people that would give

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Speaker 6: Because I'm thinking about my twenty year old self.

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Speaker 6: One hundred percent? Have you got any what advice would

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Speaker 1: Is this advice for Jay?

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Speaker 8: Have a look at the family tree.

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Speaker 6: I'll see you at the end of this month.

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Speaker 1: Happy birthday for the other day.

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Speaker 8: But to sorry, I'm trying to go Gold Coast traffic

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Speaker 6: happy birthday. That's so funny. That was actually good advice.

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Speaker 1: I'm twenty twenty. Okay, okay, this one is interesting. We

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, so you later have a good day.

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Speaker 1: I'm loving this episode. This is interesting. This is very interesting.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's like causing a scene out of something someone

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Speaker 6: You know. It's it's a lot easier and a lot

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 6: Hello, is this Alex?

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Speaker 6: This is Jake and Addie from the relator. Was how

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Speaker 1: We got your your.

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Speaker 1: Is it all right if we asked your age first?

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Speaker 1: Thirty three, Well, firstly, thank you for submitting, and we

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Speaker 3: Advice I would tell my younger self. I think it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good one.

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Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, it really impacts I think how you then

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Speaker 1: Fair enough.

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Speaker 6: It's like a super relatable one. Though everyone cares what

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Speaker 3: Do, and I think, yeah, we need to stop caring

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Speaker 1: We thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, don't normally answer private calls, but that's fine.

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Speaker 1: Appreciate a work.

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Speaker 1: Oh that was good.

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Speaker 6: Don't care for people think.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we're really trying to implement that. That's funny.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And you're like, really dying and it only affected

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Speaker 6: But here's a thing. I know what you're saying is

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it takes a lot to come out of your

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's what every kid does. But hearing

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Speaker 1: it from people who are of similar age, I think

444
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Speaker 1: is a really useful tool because I don't know something

445
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Speaker 1: about that dynamic makes the information, even though it's not

446
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Speaker 1: more valuable, seem more valuable. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 6: I think it's it's more when it comes from certain people,

448
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Speaker 6: it's more valuable.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Like, if you gave me a piece of advice

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Speaker 1: and my dad's gave me the insame piece advice, I

451
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Speaker 1: would listen to you more fair. Yeah. Fair. I find

452
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Speaker 1: like in certain things, like if it's something with life experience,

453
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Speaker 1: you would listen to the elderly, like I was giving

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Speaker 1: like fashion advice.

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Speaker 6: Y yeah, but like the best bit of advice my

456
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Speaker 6: dad ever gave me, and for some reason I didn't.

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Speaker 6: I think he kind of just gave it as like

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Speaker 6: a throwaway thing. Remember he gave me was like a

459
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Speaker 6: throwaway thing, and he was just like he was just like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: if you like to be the happiest in life, you

461
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Speaker 6: just figure out what you love and try and make

462
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Speaker 6: money doing that. I was like, oh, unintentionally, I've done

463
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Speaker 6: that subconsciously.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, isn't that funny?

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Speaker 6: I reckon of advice you gave me.

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Speaker 1: You hear that, and you're like, yeah, man, Dad.

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Speaker 6: At the time, I was like, that's ship advice. Yes,

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Speaker 6: I was like, genuinely, that's fucking terrible advice because act

469
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Speaker 6: like I'm not gonna make like there's I'm not good

470
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Speaker 6: enough to be a professional athlete. I like riding my bike,

471
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Speaker 6: but I don't want to be a mountain bike rider.

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Speaker 6: I liked it. What.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, what do you mean when you're a kid?

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Speaker 1: Advice sort of sounds cliche or unrealistic because you're like whatever.

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Speaker 6: It does grow into it. Advice is most cliche thing ever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, who should we?

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Speaker 6: We will go next, We'll go let's call someone else. Okay,

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Speaker 6: we got Chloe. This is Jake and Oddy from the Relatables.

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Speaker 2: How are you no? Why swell.

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Speaker 1: The How how are you going?

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Speaker 2: Oh good? We're just finished up finishing up her work?

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Speaker 6: So nice?

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Speaker 1: Nice?

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Speaker 6: Well, yeah, we would like to ask you a couple

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Speaker 6: of questions.

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Speaker 2: If that's okay, Yeah, that's that's fine.

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Speaker 6: First one, are we all right to ask your age?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 6: How old are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm twenty three.

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Speaker 6: Twenty three okay. Next question is what is some advice

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Speaker 6: that you would give to your twenty year old self

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Speaker 6: or maybe younger self.

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Speaker 1: Hmm, take your time, no rush.

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Speaker 2: Probably that risk is temporary and regret it is forever.

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Speaker 7: Also take the risk.

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Speaker 4: Oh did you come up there on the spot?

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Speaker 1: That was a bar too?

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Speaker 3: Why that?

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Speaker 5: I can't believe you guys are calling me.

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Speaker 6: I'm happy we did under pressure.

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Speaker 1: It did good.

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Speaker 6: It was a great one. What would you?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 6: Wow, I'm just thinking what time for risks are you

506
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Speaker 6: going to start taking?

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Speaker 1: Or what risk have you taken at twenty three already?

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Speaker 1: Do you think.

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Speaker 2: I opened a business with my dad? Yeah, like coroner,

510
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Speaker 2: like co owners of the business.

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Speaker 1: Oh what's your business? If you don't mind just asking?

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Speaker 6: Ah?

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Speaker 2: Sorry, we're in like a shopping center and we do

514
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Speaker 2: like through cafe thought part thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh where is it? Give it a shower in Ballarat? Yep?

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Speaker 6: Yeah from Ballarat?

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Speaker 2: Oh really yeah?

518
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Speaker 6: There you go and it's in wat shopping center.

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Speaker 2: Stop player, awesome, there you go.

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Speaker 6: Everybody go find it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well thanks for so much that No, thank you.

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Speaker 6: Keep killing it, Chloe, wo killing it you guys, thank you,

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Speaker 6: thank you having.

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Speaker 1: Today by you two bye? Wait that was Oi.

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Speaker 6: When she was saying it, I was like it was

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Speaker 6: like being nice, and I was like, wait, I'm not

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Speaker 6: sure how I feel about this.

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Speaker 1: Say it again.

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Speaker 6: Risk is temporary, Okay, risk is temporary, Regret is forever,

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Speaker 6: So take the risk.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that should be like a tattoo or

533
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Speaker 1: something that was so sick. Honestly, I can relate to

534
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Speaker 1: that in so many different ways as well, like honestly, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm talking away. That's a fucking sick one. Thinking about

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Speaker 1: myself at twenty and all the things I want to

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Speaker 1: do and I didn't do it, and I sort of regret,

538
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Speaker 1: like you said at the start, like starting the podcast,

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Speaker 1: even though we didn't have the idea we were written

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Speaker 1: on starting earlier, like every single person take the risks. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I might have been twenty at the time.

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Speaker 6: Actually it would have been. It's probably I could go

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Speaker 6: check my Instagram. The video is probably still up. But

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Speaker 6: I remember for my birthday when I for my twenty

545
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Speaker 6: year old birthday, I got my I wanted a camera.

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Speaker 6: I remember this and I was like, the fuck, wouldn't

547
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Speaker 6: it be sick like to just make videos?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I wouldn't just be fucking actic. I made one video.

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Speaker 6: I might have made two videos, but yeah, my girlfriend

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Speaker 6: at the time. I just remember like going out one

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Speaker 6: AVO to a party. We got drunk and I was

553
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Speaker 6: like getting to a point where the relationship was getting

554
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Speaker 6: like back end and we used to fight when we

555
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Speaker 6: were drunk a bit, and yeah, I don't know. She

556
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Speaker 6: just was like, you're changing.

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Speaker 1: I remember this is a video thing.

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Speaker 6: I was like, it's fine.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I like it changing.

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Speaker 6: I was like, I want to try.

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Speaker 1: It's like, has that bad?

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Speaker 6: And at the time I didn't realize I was growing.

563
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Speaker 6: I was like, well, maybe I'm changing, And so I

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Speaker 6: stopped making I stopped doing it, and like, I guess

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Speaker 6: if I really wanted to do it, I would have

566
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Speaker 6: kept doing it. But yeah, it was just like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: so I kind of wish maybe And again fear of

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Speaker 6: what people think.

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Speaker 1: Hmm. It comes back to that. And also like it's

570
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Speaker 1: hard to realize what barriers you will face when you

571
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Speaker 1: take the risk, but it's sort of like staying true

572
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Speaker 1: to what you want to do and who you want

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Speaker 1: to be. Whereas like your barrier was your girlfriend, Like

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Speaker 1: it's not her fault, you didn't do it, it was just

575
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Speaker 1: a barrier that popped up, But like in hindsight, you

576
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Speaker 1: knew what you wanted, and if you could have told

577
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Speaker 1: yourself just tapped you on the shoulder and been like,

578
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Speaker 1: just keep going, yeah, just do it, Just keep doing it.

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Speaker 6: Those ideas that you've got. One time, Jack and I

580
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Speaker 6: actually filmed a video that I never edited or posted,

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Speaker 6: and I'd say that the footage is long gone in

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Speaker 6: existence somewhere and terrible idea. The video is definitely shit,

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Speaker 6: but it just makes me think, like, imagine, if like you,

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Speaker 6: just because that's where you start, you stick to it, right, Yeah,

585
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Speaker 6: it's like, it's funny.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you. Another piece of advice they are coming

587
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Speaker 1: to me now that I'll tell my younger self is

588
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Speaker 1: you're going to be bad at something when you try

589
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Speaker 1: something new, and that's okay.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, no one is an expert on the

591
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Speaker 6: first fucking try.

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Speaker 1: The hardest thing about we obviously bring it back to

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Speaker 1: social media because we did this podcast, But the hardest

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Speaker 1: thing about doing anything new, especially on social media is

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Speaker 1: because you're open to so many eyes, is there's the

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Speaker 1: assumption that you have to be a pro at it

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Speaker 1: straight away, where in reality, imagine if you tried to

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Speaker 1: ride a bike for the first time at like twenty

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Speaker 1: and you just like fell over, you'd be like, well,

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Speaker 1: that's normal, I've never done it before. But for some

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Speaker 1: reason on social media, when you post a video and

602
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Speaker 1: it doesn't go viral, you're like that was disheartening, wasn't it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that again, Yeah, yeah, that way. It's the same

604
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Speaker 1: thing riding vike. Yeah, but I bet you'd get up

605
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Speaker 1: from falling over on the bike. Try again, try again

606
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Speaker 1: after a couple of months, six months, give you a

607
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Speaker 1: fucking pro mate.

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Speaker 6: But yes, risk is temporary, regret last forever, So take

609
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Speaker 6: the risk is crazy?

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Speaker 1: The baddie coming with some heat.

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Speaker 6: That okay. Next we have Olivia Helene.

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Speaker 1: Hello Olivia, it's Audi and Jake from the laateds podcast.

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Speaker 1: How are you going good?

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Speaker 3: Thank you? How are you?

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Speaker 1: We're very very good. Firstly, we want to say thank

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Speaker 1: you for picking up. Do you mind if we ask

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Speaker 1: your age?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Twenty six, twenty six six perfect And today's theme of

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Speaker 1: the episode is giving your twenty year old self some

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Speaker 1: advice or your younger self if that suits better. Could

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Speaker 1: we please pose that question to you? You can, oh god,

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Speaker 1: take your time to no rush.

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Speaker 3: Don't sweat the small stuff.

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Speaker 1: Don't sweat this. There you go. When do you reckon

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Speaker 1: you start to implement that a little bit more.

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Speaker 3: The older you got, umm, probably the last year and

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Speaker 3: a half, two years.

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Speaker 6: I'd say, yeah, yeah, fair enough.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, fair enough. Well that's some great advice. Thank you

631
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Speaker 1: very much.

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Speaker 6: Thank you, have a good day. Okay. Next we have Lotus.

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Speaker 1: Oh another cool name.

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Speaker 6: Unique, Hello, missus, Socius. Hello is so Lotus? Sorry you

635
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Speaker 6: caught us off guard there. You answered that very properly.

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Speaker 6: This is jaking andy from the relatables. How are you?

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Speaker 9: No, it's not, it is.

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Speaker 6: You're the first person to answer with their name. Each

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Speaker 6: time some of everyone says hello, and we'll be like, oh, Lotus,

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Speaker 6: is that you go?

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Speaker 1: How are you going?

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Speaker 9: I'm really well?

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Speaker 8: How are you doing?

644
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: Really really good?

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Speaker 6: We would like to ask you a couple of questions

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Speaker 6: if that's okay, oh so, first one is is it

647
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Speaker 6: all right if we ask how old you are?

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Speaker 9: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Oh shit?

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Speaker 9: How old am I? Twenty four?

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Speaker 6: Twenty four? Next question is, yep, what is some advice

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Speaker 6: that you would give your twenty year old self or

653
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Speaker 6: maybe your younger self?

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Speaker 9: Oh my god, am I love to swear?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

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00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 9: The motto is fuck it, just do it.

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Speaker 6: Honestly.

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Speaker 9: I can get yourself. Just go for it?

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Speaker 6: Have you? Have you implemented that at twenty four?

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Speaker 9: Yes, that's this year's what I'll just fuck it and

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Speaker 9: go for it.

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Speaker 1: What sort of things are you doing this year? If

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Speaker 1: you don't mind us asking?

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Speaker 9: I am starting my own social media marketing agency. Yeah

666
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Speaker 9: I know, but happening. And then I just moved back

667
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Speaker 9: from the Goldie back to the Hunter Valley to save

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Speaker 9: to then move to my dream city.

669
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Speaker 1: Oh where do you dream city?

670
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 9: It's so gross?

671
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 6: But pers Oh, Per's supposed to be beautiful up.

672
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 1: And coming up there?

673
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 7: It's up and common it.

674
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 6: So are you going to start the your agency now?

675
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 6: Are you waiting till you get to Perth?

676
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 5: I am no.

677
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 9: It's going live on the twentieth of this month. It's

678
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 9: called Solace Socials and it's a hospitality based agency.

679
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 1: Very cool.

680
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 6: So what are we going to as a hospitality Will

681
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 6: you go to like hospitality venues and asked to run

682
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 6: their socials? Is that how it works?

683
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 3: Yeah? Pretty well.

684
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 9: So I live in the Hunter Valley and I pretty

685
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 9: well worked in the lot. So it's the wineries for

686
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 9: a few years and I love wine and food and whatnot,

687
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,719
Speaker 9: So I've got a few contacts already, but just need

688
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 9: a branch out.

689
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 6: That's awesome. Actually, I I when I was a carpenter apprentice,

690
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 6: I worked at per Colbyn at A one. Yeah. Yeah,

691
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 6: I was working for a company that built a winery

692
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 6: and I was working winery.

693
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 9: Oh crap, Oh my god, don't come to you with

694
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 9: half a story.

695
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 6: It's it's called Oh it's like just like the whole

696
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 6: winery is made of like really nice hardwood.

697
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: Every winery.

698
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 9: Yeah, that's all of them. Oh my god, I live

699
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 9: in per COLBN.

700
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 1: No, I have to know what this is.

701
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 6: I actually could tell you if you give me two seconds.

702
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 6: I have.

703
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 1: I got a question to ask why Jay figures that out?

704
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 1: Is what sort of hurdles have you encountered starting your

705
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: or before starting your social media management company?

706
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 9: Probably myself, self criticism and comparing myself to all the

707
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 9: other social media marketing managers in the business, I guess

708
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 9: because it's just one of those careers that everyone is

709
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 9: doing at the moment, but everyone is so different. So

710
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 9: I think you just need to remember that of your

711
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 9: your own person, you have your own taste, and go

712
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 9: along with that.

713
00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 1: Definitely, I love that advice is your unique cell is

714
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 1: like what people are going to love about your business.

715
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 1: I think Jake's got it too.

716
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 6: I got it. Okay, it's called broken wood.

717
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 5: No it's not.

718
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 9: I literally lived down the road way.

719
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 1: I worked on that. Let's go.

720
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 9: That would have been a bazillion years ago.

721
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, it was. It was a long long time ago.

722
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 6: I would have been Oh man, I must have been eighteen,

723
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 6: a child, I know, crazy.

724
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 9: And you got from the coast pay yees to Mumbo jumbosh.

725
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, we've yeah ten minutes.

726
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 9: My dad opened that back in the day with his

727
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 9: old shepherd princes show.

728
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 1: Well, so it's in your blood to run a good business.

729
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, Mumbo's are still going, yeah, yeah, it's it.

730
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 9: No, No, there you go.

731
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 6: What a small world that is.

732
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 1: So thank you very much.

733
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 6: Letters.

734
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, you're so welcome.

735
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Speaker 6: Have a lovely day.

736
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 9: Thank you, have a great day. I'll listen to you

737
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 9: guys soon like you.

738
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: Oh wow, that was sick. That was good advice. Oh wow,

739
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:05,719
Speaker 1: small world.

740
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:06,719
Speaker 6: I can't believe that.

741
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 1: She was so cool.

742
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 6: That was a lotus cool name, cool girl. That was sick.

743
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 6: Just do it, just do fuck it, just do it. Literally,

744
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 6: when I was looking for that thing, I didn't hear.

745
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 6: Her answer for the hurdles she run into. It was

746
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 6: it was herself just like self confidence.

747
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, and comparison to other companies doing the same thing,

748
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: which is so relatable. Comparing yourself to other people in

749
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:29,280
Speaker 1: the industry the.

750
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 6: Hardest thing about You're right, comparing yourself to people in

751
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,359
Speaker 6: the industry that have been doing it for so much

752
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 6: longer than you. You're like, wait, I feel behind, but

753
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 6: you've just started. Yeah, yeah, you're obviously going to be

754
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 6: there behind.

755
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,439
Speaker 1: I didn't want to like give her advice just then,

756
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,799
Speaker 1: but like, thinking about it now, I was like, what

757
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: made us good is we sort of had our own

758
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:54,360
Speaker 1: trajectory and we kept being ourselves. We didn't try and

759
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 1: be someone when not or like we took certain parts

760
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: of different podcasts, but we kept our core what makes

761
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 1: up Jake and Oddie, which I think is a really

762
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: good tip.

763
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:07,240
Speaker 6: It's like, don't try and be another company.

764
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like a lot of you see a lot

765
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 1: of fashion companies, like clothing brands is the easiest example,

766
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 1: come out of the woodworks. They've got a good quality product,

767
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 1: but then they try and copy another brand that's being successful.

768
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: You're like, man, like I can already buy it if

769
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: I want to, Why would I buy it from you? Yeah,

770
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 1: that's an easy example.

771
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 6: It's a good point.

772
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: Just be a very good point yourself. And yeah, I

773
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: got confidence in Lotus. Yes, so do I. I mean

774
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 1: I'm excited to see I like cash.

775
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 6: You go over with the plug. Yeah, hopefully people go

776
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:33,320
Speaker 6: look it up and.

777
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, imagine imagine someone's like, oh I heard from the

778
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,879
Speaker 1: Relatables podcast and they go sick.

779
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 6: I need to piss so bad. Okay, guys, Next up

780
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 6: we have Amelia.

781
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, is that Amelia?

782
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 9: It is?

783
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's Audie and Jake from the Relatables podcast. How

784
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 1: are you going?

785
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, how are you guys?

786
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: We are doing terrific, actually doing very well.

787
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,840
Speaker 6: We're very happy you picked up. Yes, no, I'm surprised.

788
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 5: I was like, I didn't even think it was going

789
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 5: to happen. So now I'm very grateful.

790
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 6: Oh that's good.

791
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 1: We're glad. We have a couple of questions, if you

792
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 1: don't mind us asking, go for.

793
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 5: It, guys, and I ext it first the way.

794
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 1: The first one is, if you don't mind us asking,

795
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 1: how old are you?

796
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:19,959
Speaker 5: I'm thirty two, thirty two?

797
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 1: Okay, this could be some good advice. I don't want

798
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 1: to put any I don't want to put any pressure on.

799
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,439
Speaker 1: What's some advice you would give your twenty year old

800
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: self if you could tap yourself on the shoulder and

801
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 1: be like, hey, listen.

802
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 5: To me, Well, how much time have we got?

803
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 1: We've got all the time? Lot, Yeah, we can go

804
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:44,280
Speaker 1: through it all. You can get more than one. Yeah, Okay.

805
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 5: I love a couple And I think it's like I

806
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 5: constantly reflect on myself and always look at my younger

807
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 5: self and what would I tell myself? But I think

808
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 5: one of the things is I have eighty h d

809
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 5: in autism, and I think at the time I didn't

810
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 5: know when I was younger, But to tell myself, like, hey,

811
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 5: it's a superpower and it can be a strength of

812
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,720
Speaker 5: your so just go with it and don't let anyone

813
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 5: kind of kinder in your strength. That would probably be

814
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 5: the first one that you know, which.

815
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:14,360
Speaker 1: I absolutely love that and sort of relate to it

816
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 1: a little bit. I definitely, yeah, but when I struggle

817
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:18,879
Speaker 1: to read as well a lot, and like I sort

818
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: of leaned into it because I think in a.

819
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 5: Different way one hundred percent. So everyone's got different levels

820
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 5: of it, but it's like, hey, it's a positive thing.

821
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 5: It's not something to be like negatively. Oh you know,

822
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:35,360
Speaker 5: that's probably the first one. And I was actually watching

823
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:38,319
Speaker 5: this podcast for the day, but I thought it was

824
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 5: really interesting. It's talking about like expiring friendships, and I

825
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,439
Speaker 5: think you know when you feel like you've got those

826
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 5: people in your life where you're like, oh, I just

827
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 5: know I need to let.

828
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 7: Go of it.

829
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 5: Just let go, because otherwise you're going to be stuck

830
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 5: in that people pleasing giving person all the time and

831
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 5: not allowing people in your life to give energy back

832
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 5: to you use out, If that makes sense.

833
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 6: I love that one.

834
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 1: That is amazing advice inspiring friendships. I've never thought of

835
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: it like that too, neither.

836
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 6: I've always kind of been like, if you struggle to

837
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 6: accept that you are growing apart, like you're growing in

838
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 6: different ways and stuff, and.

839
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 1: Wow, it affects you more than you know when they

840
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:20,920
Speaker 1: start they start.

841
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 8: To take it.

842
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, and you can apply it to like work, relationships, family,

843
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 5: everything too. But I was like, wow, that's so interesting

844
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 5: because I'm very like, you've got to let people go.

845
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 5: They're not for you, they're not for you. But the times,

846
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 5: the times up.

847
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 6: Wow, that's a great one. Thank you so much. Have

848
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 6: you got any more?

849
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 5: But I can think of I think maybe just probably

850
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 5: one other thing is like just remember to be still

851
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 5: and be present because we're so used to like being

852
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 5: on the go and moving and trying to get to

853
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 5: the next steps that we forget to smell the flowers

854
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 5: or in the sunshine, or just like you miss a

855
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 5: lot of really important things if you don't just sit

856
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 5: still and just take a breath, like why, it's still

857
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 5: going to be there, but there's no rush to get

858
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:07,839
Speaker 5: to the next thing. You know.

859
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 6: Wait, that's a good point. That is, Oh yeah, life

860
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 6: is going to be actual, life is going to be there.

861
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 6: That's such a good point.

862
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:16,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of people want need to hear that, Hey,

863
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 1: we get so caught up in the hustle and bustle

864
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 1: when you're just like the next thing, the next thing,

865
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 1: the next thing, when yeah, you just need to sit

866
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 1: down and have your lunch, eat your food and just

867
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:25,240
Speaker 1: smell the roses.

868
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Speaker 6: Like you said, yeah, pretty much.

869
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 5: But that's kind of things that I would tell myself.

870
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 6: When now that you are thirty two, sorry I have

871
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:42,439
Speaker 6: your age next to me. Now that you are thirty,

872
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 6: do you live by, like did it take you a

873
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 6: while to figure out those things? Like is it a

874
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 6: recent or was it more maybe like mid twenties, you

875
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:51,360
Speaker 6: figured it out and you wish you could give your

876
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:52,760
Speaker 6: younger self that advice.

877
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 5: Or I think it was probably I don't know something

878
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 5: that the number twenty seven in my life was like

879
00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 5: a big turning point for me. I think I just

880
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 5: got speak of being stuck and I was like, what

881
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 5: can I do to change and break all these patterns

882
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 5: and get out of the life that I was living.

883
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 5: And it's just like I want to go there that

884
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 5: I need to work on myself. And I think it

885
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 5: was just like you know, you start as a woman,

886
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 5: you start to be like, oh, I've got to get married,

887
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 5: have kids, and I'm not big at either, but you

888
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:21,319
Speaker 5: start thinking about all those things and you're like, where

889
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 5: can I start. So it's just like taking that moment

890
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 5: to understand yourself a bit more connect with yourself and

891
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 5: just making sure that everything you're doing now is in

892
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,800
Speaker 5: alignment with the person that you're becoming and your values

893
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 5: and things like that.

894
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,839
Speaker 1: Oh god, this is great, Well that's great. It kind

895
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 1: of makes me look forward to like how much will

896
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 1: grow when we get older.

897
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 6: I know, yeah, I feel like, yeah, I can't then

898
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 6: when I was twenty, I can't see myself being twenty five,

899
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 6: And then when you're twenty five, obviously it's like you think, oh,

900
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 6: what am I going to be like when I'm thirty?

901
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 6: And I'm thinking, am I going to be different?

902
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 1: But I bet I will.

903
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're start starving when you're thirty. You really do

904
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 5: like life is just like your twenties are for learning

905
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,319
Speaker 5: and lessons and making mistakes. And you said you are

906
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:00,080
Speaker 5: just having.

907
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:02,800
Speaker 6: Oh well, I'm glad you're having fun.

908
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 1: Yeah that was being some great advice.

909
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, thank you for calling and then asking me

910
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 5: those questions.

911
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: I loved it, Thank you very much.

912
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 9: Anything else?

913
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 1: What else do we want to know? Maybe?

914
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 6: Like, what do I want to know about being thirty?

915
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 6: What does it feel like when you go from twenty

916
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 6: nine to thirty? Any different?

917
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:27,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll leave it on that.

918
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 5: I think it's just more like a society thing. It's

919
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 5: like a big thing. But I think it's just like

920
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 5: exciting because you're letting go of everything that no longer

921
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,240
Speaker 5: serves you and just ready to like take that next step.

922
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 5: And I think it's just more sure of yourself as

923
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 5: a person, so every decision moving for you're like, yeah,

924
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 5: it's for.

925
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 6: Me, damn you are if you are way wiser than that.

926
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 1: I don't like to don't. I don't like to pick favorites.

927
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 6: But we even called my dad on this, and.

928
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: I like your advice. Thanks very much for coming on.

929
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 5: You're welcome, guys, thanks for calling.

930
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 6: Have a great day.

931
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 1: Amelia is a legend. Wow, she was wise.

932
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 6: Yeah, thirty two gets your hate.

933
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what that kind of felt like. It

934
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: kind of felt like, let's give like a Star Wars analogy. Right,

935
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 1: She's like Yoda and we're like Luke Skywalker. And what's

936
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 1: another Obie? Is that one? No's he's older but you

937
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 1: see him young? Yeah yeah, yeah Obi one Kenobian. She's

938
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 1: just like, come in with all the superpowers that she's learnt,

939
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:44,439
Speaker 1: and we just like, wow, yeah, we're we need more.

940
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:46,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what this called. The end. That was great.

941
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 1: I find it's really good.

942
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:53,320
Speaker 6: I do find like the ADHD and stuff interesting because

943
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 6: it almost I feel like it still does kind of

944
00:42:56,480 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 6: have I don't want to say negative stick around it,

945
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 6: but people will still like I feel as though, maybe

946
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 6: apologize for their ADHD. You know, like they'll do a

947
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 6: bunch of stuff and then someone will be like, oh,

948
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:12,880
Speaker 6: well well and they'll be like, oh sorry my ADHD.

949
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:14,839
Speaker 6: It's like I feel like I feel bad they feel

950
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 6: they need to apologize for it. I think that's yeah,

951
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 6: think of it more of like a superher and like

952
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 6: fucking keep up.

953
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly how I keep up. Yeah, I

954
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 1: really like that. I wish I asked if she got

955
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 1: diagnosed too, Yeah, because I feel like that's a bit

956
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 1: of a hard like heard or you come across, come across.

957
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 1: It's like, am I actually like do I actually have ADHD?

958
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 6: Do I actually have this lexia?

959
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 1: Or am I just being like you feel like you

960
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 1: don't owe yourself the question of getting diagnosed.

961
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,879
Speaker 6: Yeah, I assume, like I think maybe because she said

962
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:48,840
Speaker 6: ADHD autism, maybe she has been diagnosed. But yeah, superpower

963
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 6: that shit up.

964
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like everyone's like different and have superpowers in different ways.

965
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: It's just like figuring out how to use what you've

966
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 1: been given, the cards you've been dealt, which aren't always even,

967
00:43:57,719 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 1: but you just figure out how to use them.

968
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's really hard to accept when someone you haven't

969
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 6: been dealt like the same cards as someone else.

970
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, so I know one of our friends. He

971
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,840
Speaker 1: has a learning disability. He's diagnosed too, And my god,

972
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,319
Speaker 1: is he like one of the best like fall drive

973
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: car drivers I've ever made.

974
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 6: The thing he loves, yes, yeah, the thing that he

975
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:17,719
Speaker 6: loves he's really good at.

976
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:19,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, because he's really like dove into that because it's

977
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: a skill that uses his cognitive skills and made him

978
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 1: doing anything.

979
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 6: Like that, trusting with my life. Oh one hundred cents. Yeah, yeah,

980
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 6: yea yeah, yeah, wow, yeah, I never thought of that.

981
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 1: Wow. Do you have one more or not?

982
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 6: All right? No, we got last one? Is Brook? Hello

983
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 6: Brook speaking Hello Brook. This is Jake and Oddy from

984
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 6: the Relatables.

985
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 1: How are you good?

986
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 6: How are you doing really well?

987
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 1: Were?

988
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 6: I got a couple of questions for you? If that's

989
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 6: all right? Yeah?

990
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 2: Sure?

991
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:46,879
Speaker 1: Is it okay? If I ask how old you are?

992
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 7: I'm twenty five?

993
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 6: Twenty five okay, Brook. We would like to know what

994
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 6: is the what a bit of advice that you would

995
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 6: give to your twenty year old self or your your

996
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 6: youngest self.

997
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:06,839
Speaker 7: I think the main thing would be just to hang

998
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 7: in there and everything's gonna be okay. Like I got

999
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 7: a lot of that advice when I was younger and

1000
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 7: I didn't believe it, and now I'm sitting here and I'm.

1001
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 9: Truth.

1002
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good to hear everything is always going to

1003
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 1: be all right. It's hard to hear at the time

1004
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 1: when you're going through something that.

1005
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 6: Like I've definitely heard that advice. When I was like

1006
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 6: going through something, I remember just being like, yeah, but

1007
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 6: that's it's like, that's the worst bit of advice give

1008
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 6: someone going through something. But then when you get through

1009
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 6: it and you're like, oh, yeah, it was sweet, you're

1010
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 6: kind of like it's actually the best bit of advice.

1011
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:43,239
Speaker 7: Yeah, exactly. You think it's ship and that nobody understands,

1012
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 7: but then looking back, it's like, well I was I

1013
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:46,439
Speaker 7: was wrong.

1014
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's good that you can admit when you're wrong. Dude.

1015
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, very true, very true. Well, thank you so much, Brooke,

1016
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 6: Thank you and have a lovely afternoon you too, see us.

1017
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:00,279
Speaker 7: Good.

1018
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:00,879
Speaker 1: That is good.

1019
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 6: Good way to end it. I reckon, theyre no, that's

1020
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 6: a good bit of advice.

1021
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 1: Man. This episode was like cool to hear everyone's different

1022
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 1: perspectives and journeys they've gone on through life, all about it.

1023
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 6: Have good advice.

1024
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't get over Amelia. How good.

1025
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:18,720
Speaker 6: I wait, no, Amelia and Lotusue was good to Lotus

1026
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 6: was good too. I mean, I'll give props to Dad.

1027
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 6: I appreciate I.

1028
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:23,880
Speaker 1: They're all good, They're all, they are all very I

1029
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 1: don't want a single one out. I mean, hey, Amelia,

1030
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 1: it was really I guess, like what you can take

1031
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:33,279
Speaker 1: away is I think that last one was a really

1032
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 1: good way to end it, because she's just like there

1033
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:37,719
Speaker 1: is light at the end of the tunnel when you

1034
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 1: are going through something bad and you never want to

1035
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:44,240
Speaker 1: hear it, but you can get through anything. And life

1036
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 1: is a journey, a unique journey that no one else

1037
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: is going on and no one else is going to

1038
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 1: go through the same one you do. And the more

1039
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 1: you can be in the present moment and sit back

1040
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:57,720
Speaker 1: and relax and realize that everything isn't as fast paced

1041
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 1: and as serious as you make it. Life is there

1042
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: to be enjoyed. Do certain like sense. Yeah it's easy

1043
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 1: to say that then actually do it, but yeah, you

1044
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 1: start to realize it was good to see the different

1045
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 1: like mindsets of someone from twenty all the way to

1046
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 1: your dad's fifty five. Yeah, and like thirty seems like

1047
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,439
Speaker 1: quite a sweet spot if you ask me to be fair, Yeah,

1048
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 1: it seems like a good age.

1049
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:20,399
Speaker 6: I'm fucking keen, mate, I'm very keen, but now you're right.

1050
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:26,880
Speaker 6: It's I've been. I just lately, I've been trying to

1051
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 6: appreciate a lot more what was lowered down a lot more.

1052
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:33,319
Speaker 6: Like the last couple of nights, I've had the time

1053
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 6: to watch like three episodes of the Netflix thing. I'm

1054
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 6: watching and letting myself do it like six pm right,

1055
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 6: like start watching it, and I'm usually like I look

1056
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 6: at like six pm, like six pm scenes like early

1057
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 6: to start. I could edit a bit to start, yeah,

1058
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 6: do something binging a shot, Yeah. And I'm like, everything

1059
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 6: I wrote down that I wanted to get done today

1060
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 6: I did. So It's like, why would I add more

1061
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 6: to it when I can just do that tomorrow. Doesn't

1062
00:47:58,640 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 6: have to be done today. It can be done tomorrow

1063
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 6: exactly like enjoy the show for a couple of hours.

1064
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 6: It is enjoy it, stop and smell the roses. That's

1065
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:09,239
Speaker 6: the That's one mass. I think one massive thing is

1066
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:12,880
Speaker 6: don't let all the fucking like societal norms of people

1067
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 6: being like you could be reach in a month if

1068
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:19,399
Speaker 6: you tried like all that stupid, annoying shit.

1069
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:21,880
Speaker 1: I feel like another piece of really good advice is

1070
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: like money isn't everything. Yeah, true, Like growing up, especially

1071
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: when we're younger, we think like, once I have the job,

1072
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 1: once I start earning a good income, once I start

1073
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: making good money, I'll be happy. Then once I have

1074
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:36,479
Speaker 1: a house, I'll be happy then. But it's like taking

1075
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 1: a step back and making a journey that is happy

1076
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:39,719
Speaker 1: the whole time. True.

1077
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:43,399
Speaker 6: Yeah, Like I'm I feel very lucky. I'm trying to think,

1078
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 6: like what would let's say, like a million dollars in

1079
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 6: my bank account, Like what would that do for me

1080
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 6: right now? Because I don't think I'd changed my lifestyle.

1081
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:54,359
Speaker 1: No, we're in a lucky position. I probably wouldn't budget

1082
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 1: with groceries, yeah, little stuff. I'd always put ninety eight

1083
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: in my car, probably get a new car. Let's be real.

1084
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 6: But it's like all those things aren't gonna make you happy. Like,

1085
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 6: if you think about it, you buy a new car,

1086
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 6: right when you go pick it up, you're like, this

1087
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 6: is fucking sick. You drive it home, you get out,

1088
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 6: and you just go back in the same house you

1089
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:12,960
Speaker 6: fucking left. Yeah, and you go back and sleep in

1090
00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 6: the same bed, and it's like you're not changed as

1091
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 6: a person. You just never have a car that you

1092
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 6: drive for me to be that's different and it's nice,

1093
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 6: Like it's kind of like those are kind of like

1094
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 6: the fruits of it. I guess. Just enjoy the Yeah,

1095
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 6: don't make them think that you're gonna it's not gonna

1096
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:28,360
Speaker 6: make you happy.

1097
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. And I also think like when you're stopping and

1098
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:36,919
Speaker 1: smelling the roses, Like, although that piece of advice where

1099
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 1: friends are expiring, that was really good too, But I

1100
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 1: was thinking about like everyone has like one or two

1101
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:49,840
Speaker 1: people in their life that really really matter, parents, girlfriends, boyfriends, dogs,

1102
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:54,359
Speaker 1: and like really enjoying these experiences with them, I think

1103
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 1: is good advice. And I'm trying to get better at

1104
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,959
Speaker 1: that where like taking a step back and just going

1105
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,799
Speaker 1: for a walk with them, Yeah, and like enjoying the

1106
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 1: hour long conversation with the person that.

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Speaker 6: I love, Yeah, trying to switch off from fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I love this person I'm with right now

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Speaker 1: in whichever context it is, and like just switching off

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Speaker 1: and being like, fuck, is this good to be here

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Speaker 1: with you? Just talk like appreciate that. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: When I go to Queensland in the next in two weeks.

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Speaker 6: I really want to try and just like all because

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Speaker 6: you're going to BALI like pre recording, I want to

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Speaker 6: try and get I don't know if I'll get all

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Speaker 6: the work done. Then I need to get done for

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Speaker 6: the whole like ten days you're gone, but for like

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Speaker 6: the four days I'm in Queensland, I want to make

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Speaker 6: it so I'm not doing any work and just really

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Speaker 6: like be with it. Yeah, because like Beth has the

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Speaker 6: time off work, my parents they don't work, and then yeah,

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Speaker 6: I think it'll just be it'd be nice not to

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Speaker 6: be like, oh, so it's been like three hours in

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Speaker 6: the morning doing this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, exactly. And we're lucky enough to be in

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Speaker 1: a position where we can make that work. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's been a long day to recording, not making excuses

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Speaker 1: a second episode, but thank you. What I wanted to

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Speaker 1: say was, if you like this episode, please leave a comment,

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Speaker 1: because we can do more. It is a lot more

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Speaker 1: work on the back end organizing all the baddies. But

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Speaker 1: if you guys like it, please leave a comment where

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Speaker 1: you like which piece of advice or anything like that,

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Speaker 1: and they'll be a good indication If you want to

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Speaker 1: see more of this, Yeah, because I think that was

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Speaker 1: a really good, insightful episode, and I really like hearing

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Speaker 1: other people's advice. I love talking to you, man, but

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Speaker 1: like also getting other people's perspective. At the end of

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Speaker 1: the day, we're only two brains. The more brains we

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Speaker 1: can add together, the more advice and a better sense

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Speaker 1: of belonging you can get here. Because I feel like

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Speaker 1: that episode was so relatable.

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Speaker 6: Let's be honest with kind of just one brain.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, one point, Like, let's give us like one

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Speaker 1: point three. Yeah, you think of a number between one

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Speaker 1: and ten. Okay, ready, three to one, seven? Maybe one

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Speaker 1: point back to one?

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Speaker 6: Right, Stay bad everyone.

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Speaker 1: By Hardy Lato