1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: Appogiae Production. Welcome back to another episode of am I 2 00:00:24,841 --> 00:00:27,761 Speaker 1: A Bad Mom? Podcast. We're on Instagram as well at 3 00:00:27,801 --> 00:00:29,881 Speaker 1: am I A Bad Mum? Who put the thing on 4 00:00:29,921 --> 00:00:30,521 Speaker 1: there recently. 5 00:00:31,881 --> 00:00:36,001 Speaker 2: I send a lot of memes and forwards from my 6 00:00:36,161 --> 00:00:39,401 Speaker 2: own account to am I A Bad Mom, and then 7 00:00:39,441 --> 00:00:41,801 Speaker 2: I forget to then go double click and go to 8 00:00:42,001 --> 00:00:44,281 Speaker 2: am I A Bad Mom and then share what I'd 9 00:00:44,321 --> 00:00:47,281 Speaker 2: sent it. So there's probably about forty five memes sitting 10 00:00:47,321 --> 00:00:50,961 Speaker 2: there waiting to be shared. But I think, yeah, we've 11 00:00:50,961 --> 00:00:56,121 Speaker 2: got a really really interactive community on our install, which 12 00:00:56,161 --> 00:00:58,081 Speaker 2: we're very blessed with. I have to say, because some 13 00:00:58,561 --> 00:01:01,721 Speaker 2: Instagram accounts I've heard can go one way or another. 14 00:01:01,961 --> 00:01:05,801 Speaker 2: We've got amazing interactive one. Yeah, we just got to 15 00:01:05,801 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 2: put more shit up. Everyone loves it. They come back 16 00:01:08,681 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 2: with the law. I was like, yeah, we're barthing. My 17 00:01:12,961 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 2: kids said something the other day, and I was thinking 18 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 2: about this because you and I say it a lot. 19 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 2: We're having breakfast together and Elsie goes, you know what, 20 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,881 Speaker 2: I like what you do for a job. She goes, yeah, 21 00:01:22,881 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 2: but like I also like your job being here for us. 22 00:01:26,241 --> 00:01:29,041 Speaker 2: I like that you raise us. It's just a really 23 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:32,681 Speaker 2: really hard job. Isn't it. I'm thinking she's trying to 24 00:01:32,761 --> 00:01:35,521 Speaker 2: reverse psychology. Yeah, it is a hard job. Are you 25 00:01:35,601 --> 00:01:39,321 Speaker 2: contemplating having kids anytime soon? Or And she was like, well, no, 26 00:01:39,441 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 2: ives thinking about it, Like you don't really stop doing 27 00:01:42,601 --> 00:01:45,401 Speaker 2: this job, do you? And I was like, which part, 28 00:01:45,601 --> 00:01:49,041 Speaker 2: the PT or the parenting? She goes to the parenting, like, 29 00:01:49,121 --> 00:01:51,601 Speaker 2: you just have to keep doing it all day long 30 00:01:52,081 --> 00:01:54,921 Speaker 2: and then all night and then all the next day. 31 00:01:54,961 --> 00:01:56,481 Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, it's a twenty four to 32 00:01:56,521 --> 00:01:59,361 Speaker 2: seven job. Do you understand what twenty four to seven means? 33 00:01:59,561 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 2: She goes, just means a lot, doesn't it. And I said, 34 00:02:02,361 --> 00:02:04,721 Speaker 2: twenty four hours a day, seven days week, three hundred 35 00:02:04,721 --> 00:02:06,801 Speaker 2: and six five days a year. I said, And it 36 00:02:06,841 --> 00:02:11,001 Speaker 2: doesn't stop after that. It just keeps that renewal process, 37 00:02:11,041 --> 00:02:13,161 Speaker 2: that subscription that you just can't get rid of. It 38 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:14,761 Speaker 2: just keeps someone popping back up. 39 00:02:15,321 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: And she was actually sick days no, holy yeah. 40 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:22,441 Speaker 2: But she was saying all of this, she goes, you 41 00:02:22,561 --> 00:02:24,641 Speaker 2: really just don't stop to you, And I was like, no, 42 00:02:24,841 --> 00:02:29,641 Speaker 2: So consider your options wisely when you're thinking about this 43 00:02:30,081 --> 00:02:32,121 Speaker 2: and you're like, this is it I want to have 44 00:02:32,161 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 2: a child, think about this moment that's nice of. 45 00:02:36,921 --> 00:02:38,801 Speaker 1: Her that she was acknowledging it. 46 00:02:38,841 --> 00:02:39,041 Speaker 3: Though. 47 00:02:39,081 --> 00:02:39,921 Speaker 2: It's got the same thing. 48 00:02:40,201 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: So I say. 49 00:02:41,001 --> 00:02:44,481 Speaker 3: Similar things to the girls sometimes. And Holly said to me, 50 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:47,321 Speaker 3: I'm absolutely not having children, and I was like, you 51 00:02:47,401 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 3: absolutely are. Yeah, you need to experience some of these 52 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,001 Speaker 3: things and go, oh, no, I understand how it was 53 00:02:53,001 --> 00:02:53,361 Speaker 3: my mum. 54 00:02:53,601 --> 00:02:56,121 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I think that they say that the 55 00:02:56,161 --> 00:02:59,441 Speaker 2: true appreciation of your own mother comes when you become 56 00:02:59,481 --> 00:03:02,161 Speaker 2: a mother or a vice versa father. 57 00:03:02,401 --> 00:03:02,681 Speaker 1: Yeah. 58 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:05,481 Speaker 3: Something, there is a part of me right, Like I 59 00:03:05,641 --> 00:03:08,001 Speaker 3: go back and go, I wasn't that hard. 60 00:03:09,601 --> 00:03:10,401 Speaker 1: I wasn't that bad. 61 00:03:10,481 --> 00:03:13,161 Speaker 2: I tell myself that actually daily, I was a pretty 62 00:03:13,201 --> 00:03:15,761 Speaker 2: good kid. And then I go, how did I end 63 00:03:15,841 --> 00:03:18,121 Speaker 2: up like this? How did I get here? And then 64 00:03:18,161 --> 00:03:20,041 Speaker 2: I look at Sam and go, this is your fault. 65 00:03:20,401 --> 00:03:23,121 Speaker 2: You were a shit kid. You were a shit kid. 66 00:03:23,161 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 2: That's why they are doing this. They got your behaviors. 67 00:03:36,321 --> 00:03:37,241 Speaker 3: My bad mum. 68 00:03:37,401 --> 00:03:38,761 Speaker 1: For not helping. 69 00:03:39,521 --> 00:03:42,801 Speaker 3: No, this is a situation where I could have absolutely 70 00:03:42,881 --> 00:03:43,521 Speaker 3: resolved it. 71 00:03:43,441 --> 00:03:46,321 Speaker 1: Really simply and easily. Yeah, and I chose not to. 72 00:03:46,841 --> 00:03:50,281 Speaker 3: I chose to let them deal with it. And I 73 00:03:50,401 --> 00:03:54,961 Speaker 3: knew that it was not going to end well. So 74 00:03:55,481 --> 00:03:59,841 Speaker 3: this is on the weekend Sunday, and it's okay, we're 75 00:03:59,841 --> 00:04:01,281 Speaker 3: going back to school tomorrow. 76 00:04:01,881 --> 00:04:04,841 Speaker 1: Is everything ready? Make sure everyone's. 77 00:04:04,401 --> 00:04:06,041 Speaker 2: Got who yeah, yeah, yeah. 78 00:04:06,081 --> 00:04:08,481 Speaker 1: Make sure everyone knows where their uniform. 79 00:04:08,081 --> 00:04:13,881 Speaker 3: Hats, uniforms, hat back, and do your lunch box the 80 00:04:14,001 --> 00:04:14,561 Speaker 3: night before. 81 00:04:15,001 --> 00:04:17,081 Speaker 1: The girls don't mind doing their lunchbox the night before. 82 00:04:17,081 --> 00:04:19,401 Speaker 3: It gives them a little bit more time they're not 83 00:04:19,441 --> 00:04:20,561 Speaker 3: so rushed in the morning. 84 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:25,041 Speaker 1: So get your lunchboxes done. Okay, great, yep, everything's checked. 85 00:04:25,201 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: Everything's good to go. 86 00:04:27,121 --> 00:04:29,081 Speaker 3: Just gonna get out the food from the fridge and 87 00:04:29,161 --> 00:04:34,641 Speaker 3: make my lunch box. Where's my lunchbox? Where's my lunchbox? 88 00:04:35,161 --> 00:04:36,481 Speaker 3: Two lunch boxes? 89 00:04:37,081 --> 00:04:40,161 Speaker 1: Not in the drawer? Where the lunchboxes go? Where are they? 90 00:04:40,201 --> 00:04:40,361 Speaker 2: Then? 91 00:04:40,961 --> 00:04:42,281 Speaker 1: Okay, I've got an idea. 92 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:48,721 Speaker 3: Have you checked your school bag after having three weeks 93 00:04:48,841 --> 00:04:49,681 Speaker 3: off school? 94 00:04:50,161 --> 00:04:52,081 Speaker 1: Did you empty it. 95 00:04:52,001 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 3: Out, unpack it, wash it all up on the last 96 00:04:55,841 --> 00:04:56,561 Speaker 3: day of school? 97 00:04:57,961 --> 00:05:01,241 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, So they've gone into their bag and I 98 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:05,121 Speaker 1: knew it. I knew it. That's three weeks. 99 00:05:05,161 --> 00:05:07,761 Speaker 3: You that their lunch boxes were still in their bags. 100 00:05:07,801 --> 00:05:09,961 Speaker 3: And I chose not to say anything because. 101 00:05:09,721 --> 00:05:11,761 Speaker 1: I was like, it's not my problem problem. 102 00:05:12,561 --> 00:05:15,801 Speaker 3: My lunch box isn't still in my bag after Yeah, yeah, 103 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:19,241 Speaker 3: because I know when I get home, I look also 104 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:20,161 Speaker 3: pack my stuff. 105 00:05:20,241 --> 00:05:23,001 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not busy. You're not busy. You're not too 106 00:05:23,041 --> 00:05:23,761 Speaker 2: busy to do it. 107 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:25,121 Speaker 1: You've had three weeks off. 108 00:05:26,721 --> 00:05:30,241 Speaker 2: Also on that last Friday though, where they're like finishing 109 00:05:30,281 --> 00:05:32,401 Speaker 2: up and you know that you've got three weeks off, 110 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:36,921 Speaker 2: like and you're throwing that bag into your cupboard. Surely 111 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:38,561 Speaker 2: just look down. 112 00:05:39,801 --> 00:05:41,001 Speaker 1: Is there not a part. 113 00:05:40,801 --> 00:05:45,081 Speaker 3: Of you that goes, okay, cool, schools back next week? 114 00:05:45,401 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 3: What do I need to make I should probably go 115 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:49,161 Speaker 3: through my bag and clear out. 116 00:05:49,521 --> 00:05:51,401 Speaker 1: I do it regularly with my handbag. 117 00:05:51,521 --> 00:05:54,601 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I clear out all the shit, old receipts, 118 00:05:54,841 --> 00:05:56,321 Speaker 3: whatever else is in there. 119 00:05:56,961 --> 00:05:59,601 Speaker 1: I feel good about that. I love it when it's all. 120 00:05:59,561 --> 00:06:02,161 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because it goes back to yeah and it's 121 00:06:02,241 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 2: nice again. 122 00:06:03,121 --> 00:06:06,241 Speaker 3: I don't understand it. I don't understan And it's like 123 00:06:06,961 --> 00:06:11,641 Speaker 3: your gym bag, right. Is there ever a time where 124 00:06:11,761 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 3: you will throw your gym bag into a cupboard and 125 00:06:14,921 --> 00:06:17,441 Speaker 3: you don't empty out the clothes to wash. 126 00:06:17,641 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 2: No, well, I mean certain people, but not me. 127 00:06:22,481 --> 00:06:27,001 Speaker 3: That was a little certain peoples, and my husband does that. 128 00:06:28,521 --> 00:06:31,721 Speaker 2: I understand why people want to remain married but live 129 00:06:31,721 --> 00:06:35,361 Speaker 2: in separate houses. Get it, I get it. I never 130 00:06:35,361 --> 00:06:36,601 Speaker 2: thought i'd say it, but I get it. 131 00:06:38,001 --> 00:06:42,641 Speaker 3: I understand why women then turn to being lesbians because. 132 00:06:42,601 --> 00:06:45,121 Speaker 1: Matt living in a house just with another woman. 133 00:06:45,401 --> 00:06:49,121 Speaker 2: No, I just I genuinely go. I understand why people 134 00:06:49,561 --> 00:06:53,801 Speaker 2: want to make other types of relationships work where you 135 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 2: don't have to. 136 00:06:55,521 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 1: We've got men together. 137 00:06:57,561 --> 00:07:03,801 Speaker 3: We've got friends who both split up from husbands, moved 138 00:07:03,801 --> 00:07:08,081 Speaker 3: in together just for a short temporary time with both 139 00:07:08,121 --> 00:07:12,001 Speaker 3: sets of kids. And I remember hearing a story about 140 00:07:12,041 --> 00:07:16,441 Speaker 3: one getting home from work and kids all been fed, 141 00:07:17,121 --> 00:07:21,721 Speaker 3: all been based, all in pajamas, homework done, and she 142 00:07:21,961 --> 00:07:22,361 Speaker 3: was like. 143 00:07:22,361 --> 00:07:25,161 Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is what it's like. 144 00:07:25,521 --> 00:07:28,001 Speaker 1: This is what it's like a woman. 145 00:07:28,881 --> 00:07:32,681 Speaker 3: Everything's so efficient and tidy and done. 146 00:07:32,881 --> 00:07:36,361 Speaker 2: Except they're both just very highly driven towards men. But 147 00:07:36,441 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 2: the whole part was then the other one came home 148 00:07:38,961 --> 00:07:40,721 Speaker 2: and was like, saw that that was all done, and 149 00:07:40,761 --> 00:07:43,001 Speaker 2: she was finishing off the kids. So then she started dinner, 150 00:07:43,201 --> 00:07:45,481 Speaker 2: and that's how the balance worked, and she was like, wow, 151 00:07:46,321 --> 00:07:49,801 Speaker 2: at this, I actually don't mind cooking dinner because the 152 00:07:49,881 --> 00:07:53,921 Speaker 2: other half is done. The pressure is off. So yeah, 153 00:07:53,961 --> 00:07:56,681 Speaker 2: going back to the parenting part of it. Let's talk 154 00:07:56,721 --> 00:07:59,801 Speaker 2: about the fact that your daughter's left their lunchboxes for 155 00:07:59,841 --> 00:08:02,401 Speaker 2: three weeks. What did they look like? That's all I 156 00:08:02,441 --> 00:08:03,761 Speaker 2: was like, I want to know what it looked like. 157 00:08:04,081 --> 00:08:06,001 Speaker 2: And did they go up and get them out and 158 00:08:06,041 --> 00:08:07,921 Speaker 2: then bring them down and expect that someone else can 159 00:08:08,081 --> 00:08:08,521 Speaker 2: clean them. 160 00:08:08,761 --> 00:08:11,361 Speaker 3: No, they didn't dare do that, but they were a 161 00:08:11,361 --> 00:08:16,881 Speaker 3: bit like, oh god, there was definitely a container full 162 00:08:16,881 --> 00:08:18,241 Speaker 3: of moldy grapes. 163 00:08:19,241 --> 00:08:19,921 Speaker 2: Yeah, yuck. 164 00:08:20,121 --> 00:08:25,201 Speaker 1: There was a cheese and crackers, yeah. Yeah. 165 00:08:25,281 --> 00:08:28,761 Speaker 2: I would have been gagging if I had to undo 166 00:08:28,801 --> 00:08:31,401 Speaker 2: a lunch box after three weeks, to the point that 167 00:08:31,441 --> 00:08:33,481 Speaker 2: I probably would have thrown this whole thing out and 168 00:08:33,521 --> 00:08:36,721 Speaker 2: then just charged them another fifty dollars about a new one. 169 00:08:37,241 --> 00:08:38,161 Speaker 1: That's gross. 170 00:08:38,361 --> 00:08:40,681 Speaker 2: How can they forget that I did the same thing though, 171 00:08:40,681 --> 00:08:44,001 Speaker 2: And it's funny because everyone was doing the same thing 172 00:08:44,041 --> 00:08:46,041 Speaker 2: on the weekend. They were like, Oh, we're just prepping 173 00:08:46,081 --> 00:08:48,441 Speaker 2: for school, making sure their hats are back in there, 174 00:08:48,521 --> 00:08:50,721 Speaker 2: and we've washed all the jackets and we've done all 175 00:08:50,761 --> 00:08:53,161 Speaker 2: of this. I'm thinking, yeah, I did all of that, 176 00:08:53,441 --> 00:08:55,041 Speaker 2: but I don't know where I put it. Where did 177 00:08:55,121 --> 00:08:57,761 Speaker 2: I put all of it? And then even sending Elsie 178 00:08:57,801 --> 00:09:00,001 Speaker 2: off to school. Fuck, I don't even think she had 179 00:09:00,001 --> 00:09:03,481 Speaker 2: her hat back in her bag, because I'd usually wash, 180 00:09:03,841 --> 00:09:06,281 Speaker 2: let it all dry and then I'll put it back 181 00:09:06,281 --> 00:09:08,521 Speaker 2: in the bag. So on the morning off of I'm 182 00:09:08,521 --> 00:09:11,601 Speaker 2: not going, shit, where is it? But I didn't think 183 00:09:11,641 --> 00:09:12,441 Speaker 2: to do that part. 184 00:09:12,801 --> 00:09:17,601 Speaker 3: I just don't understand the just like I just don't 185 00:09:17,641 --> 00:09:18,401 Speaker 3: understand it. 186 00:09:18,521 --> 00:09:22,841 Speaker 2: Yeah, I genuinely have seen. Also, I can't think of 187 00:09:22,881 --> 00:09:25,081 Speaker 2: what they call it at your school, but I've seen 188 00:09:25,161 --> 00:09:28,641 Speaker 2: the canteen at your school, and I can understand why 189 00:09:28,681 --> 00:09:32,641 Speaker 2: your girls don't want to take lunch in lunchboxes. 190 00:09:32,881 --> 00:09:34,681 Speaker 1: The girls do like eating at school. 191 00:09:35,161 --> 00:09:37,641 Speaker 3: But what I've realized, and if you look at the 192 00:09:37,681 --> 00:09:41,521 Speaker 3: cost of the bloody stuff in the supermarket these days, 193 00:09:42,121 --> 00:09:44,081 Speaker 3: I worked out how much I spent and I went 194 00:09:44,121 --> 00:09:47,521 Speaker 3: to Audi Rah like I wasn't splashing out. I went 195 00:09:47,561 --> 00:09:51,521 Speaker 3: to Audi and got lunchbox stuff which I think will 196 00:09:51,641 --> 00:09:55,441 Speaker 3: last three days. And I spent eighty dollars. And I 197 00:09:55,481 --> 00:09:59,481 Speaker 3: think to myself, I could probably buy them lunch at 198 00:09:59,521 --> 00:10:03,121 Speaker 3: school for twenty dollars a day. That's three days for 199 00:10:03,161 --> 00:10:07,841 Speaker 3: sixty dollars. Probably cheaper for me to buy lunch at 200 00:10:07,881 --> 00:10:10,801 Speaker 3: school than it is to get it in the supermarket 201 00:10:10,801 --> 00:10:11,241 Speaker 3: and make it. 202 00:10:11,281 --> 00:10:13,521 Speaker 2: Now, how much will it be per day for the 203 00:10:13,601 --> 00:10:14,041 Speaker 2: talk shop. 204 00:10:14,081 --> 00:10:15,961 Speaker 3: I'm actually going to go on the app and I'm 205 00:10:15,961 --> 00:10:20,241 Speaker 3: going to have a look right now at what I 206 00:10:20,281 --> 00:10:25,401 Speaker 3: could buy them for lunch tomorrow. They could have minor vegetarian. 207 00:10:25,441 --> 00:10:28,521 Speaker 3: But if I was to do this for like your girls, example, 208 00:10:29,041 --> 00:10:32,521 Speaker 3: the special is bacon and cheese pasta. 209 00:10:32,601 --> 00:10:34,481 Speaker 2: Bacon and cheese pasta, yep. 210 00:10:34,441 --> 00:10:39,441 Speaker 3: Six dollars fifty. Okay, So let's say both girls are. 211 00:10:39,321 --> 00:10:42,881 Speaker 1: Going to have that. I mean, what else? Do you 212 00:10:42,881 --> 00:10:43,561 Speaker 1: need a drink? 213 00:10:44,041 --> 00:10:45,201 Speaker 2: A drink? They need a drink. 214 00:10:45,281 --> 00:10:49,201 Speaker 3: Let's do a pump one of those flavored waters. 215 00:10:49,401 --> 00:10:51,041 Speaker 1: Okay, four dollars fifty. 216 00:10:51,401 --> 00:10:56,361 Speaker 3: So there is a passa main meal plus a drink. 217 00:10:57,041 --> 00:10:59,521 Speaker 1: Twenty two dollars for the two of them. 218 00:10:59,441 --> 00:11:02,561 Speaker 2: For both of them, for both. Yeah, you're definitely playing 219 00:11:02,641 --> 00:11:06,041 Speaker 2: exuberant amount of fees and you're getting cheaped. I'm telling you, 220 00:11:06,481 --> 00:11:09,601 Speaker 2: I think two dollars. The canteen at Samford is the 221 00:11:09,601 --> 00:11:12,281 Speaker 2: biggest rip off and it's shitty food. Like if you're 222 00:11:12,321 --> 00:11:16,161 Speaker 2: paying twenty dollars per child, it gets a toasty else 223 00:11:16,201 --> 00:11:18,881 Speaker 2: gets a toasty This I can tell you what it is. 224 00:11:19,161 --> 00:11:22,001 Speaker 2: She has toasted sandwich with ham and cheese on whole meal, 225 00:11:22,681 --> 00:11:27,681 Speaker 2: and then she'll have two cookies and a crazy lemon 226 00:11:27,841 --> 00:11:31,121 Speaker 2: or a juice that's first break. Second break, she always 227 00:11:31,201 --> 00:11:36,881 Speaker 2: asks me for a garlic bread and a frozen juice cup. Okay, 228 00:11:36,921 --> 00:11:39,401 Speaker 2: how much that's eighteen dollars for. 229 00:11:39,441 --> 00:11:40,761 Speaker 1: The day for a day. 230 00:11:41,361 --> 00:11:44,761 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's for one for one, and then take Gracy. 231 00:11:45,241 --> 00:11:48,001 Speaker 2: Gracie thinks it's the best because she's doing it whilst 232 00:11:48,081 --> 00:11:51,121 Speaker 2: I'm driving her to school, so she's loading up. I said, 233 00:11:51,481 --> 00:11:53,801 Speaker 2: one of them, I like got there and I said, 234 00:11:53,921 --> 00:11:57,721 Speaker 2: are you kidding me? Am? I feeding your whole entire class, 235 00:11:58,801 --> 00:12:00,121 Speaker 2: which might be hungry. 236 00:12:00,401 --> 00:12:02,761 Speaker 3: And you know, the worst thing is as well, is 237 00:12:02,801 --> 00:12:04,841 Speaker 3: that they will order all that food and then they'll 238 00:12:04,841 --> 00:12:07,281 Speaker 3: come home and they go, oh, I gave Averas some 239 00:12:07,401 --> 00:12:09,001 Speaker 3: because she didn't what. 240 00:12:09,321 --> 00:12:12,641 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm not paying for hers. Yeah, I get 241 00:12:12,681 --> 00:12:15,841 Speaker 2: that a lot. I'm just taking four dollars out of 242 00:12:15,881 --> 00:12:19,761 Speaker 2: their tin because I owe such and such a juice cup. 243 00:12:19,881 --> 00:12:23,601 Speaker 3: Well, it's funny when you talk about grabbing four dollars 244 00:12:23,761 --> 00:12:28,041 Speaker 3: here and there. I actually yesterday Rach paid holy five 245 00:12:28,121 --> 00:12:31,281 Speaker 3: dollars for giving me a shoulder massage, and then I 246 00:12:31,321 --> 00:12:34,041 Speaker 3: had to pay another five dollars to be able to 247 00:12:34,801 --> 00:12:38,481 Speaker 3: put a video on my story that she was in 248 00:12:39,081 --> 00:12:42,001 Speaker 3: and she said absolutely, don't post that, and I won't please. 249 00:12:42,041 --> 00:12:43,681 Speaker 1: It's funny five. 250 00:12:43,481 --> 00:12:47,481 Speaker 2: Dollars, five dollars for content. Now you're paying her for content. 251 00:12:48,001 --> 00:12:54,681 Speaker 2: She's out of control. Start paying rent, Start paying rent.