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Speaker 1: This is the fitsy and with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: I was on a flight over the weekend, and give

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Speaker 2: me a call or us a call. It's not just

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Speaker 2: my private line thirteen twenty four ten. And Dobby and

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Speaker 2: your boyfriend if he's really scared of something and he

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Speaker 2: hates to admit it and he's embarrassed about it thirteen twenty.

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Speaker 3: Lisa won't be calling. Lisa will not be calling on

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Speaker 3: any topic whatsoever.

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Speaker 2: Well, yours would be flying, I'm guessing, but I was.

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Speaker 2: I was on a flight over the weekend. I was

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Speaker 2: on the aisle seat and there was a couple sitting

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Speaker 2: beside me. The bloke was beside me in the center

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Speaker 2: and she had the window seat. I got the feeling

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Speaker 2: by the end of the trip that maybe they'd got

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Speaker 2: married over the weekend or something.

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Speaker 4: So honeymoon period, loved each other looking into each other's eyes.

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Speaker 1: Is that what it was?

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Speaker 2: Maybe? So, I don't know, if they got married on

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Speaker 2: the Gold Coast and were coming to Sydney for the

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Speaker 2: honeymoon whatever. Pretty short flight, but there was quite a

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Speaker 2: lot of turbulence at the end, like a lot of

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Speaker 2: turbulence coming to this.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I love it.

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Speaker 1: Too.

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Speaker 2: I don't really really well, I guess I think at

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Speaker 2: this point, if anything's going to happen, there's nothing I

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Speaker 2: can do about it.

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Speaker 5: Of course, very distressing for.

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Speaker 2: Everybody at home left without me, but there's nothing else

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Speaker 2: I know to be so awful for everybody.

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Speaker 5: But I actually it kind of you feel like you're flying.

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Speaker 2: You're like, oh wow, I'm up in the clouds anyway,

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Speaker 2: loads of loads of turbulence.

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Speaker 5: And there was that raw that that.

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Speaker 2: From the cabin, like the oh, your stomach is kind

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Speaker 2: it's like you're on a roller coaster there for a moment.

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Speaker 2: I don't make a sound. I quite like the feeling.

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Speaker 2: And the girl on the window, she was like.

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Speaker 5: A little bit, a little bit scared, but he was

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Speaker 5: actually free. He was the most scared, and he did

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Speaker 5: the big like that.

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Speaker 2: He was doing that, and she looked at him and

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Speaker 2: started to laugh. Now the people they were traveling with

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Speaker 2: were sitting in the road behind, and she started saying, Oh,

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Speaker 2: wasn't that funny.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, I'll call him JOHNO or something. He's

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Speaker 5: so frighted. He got so angry with her. He got

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Speaker 5: so angry that he and tried to make out as

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Speaker 5: though she was the one that was no no, no,

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Speaker 5: oh no. I was just mucking around because.

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Speaker 2: She she's the scared one, and got really like.

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Speaker 4: Really turned yea playing roles. You're an amazing quiet tape

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Speaker 4: she did.

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Speaker 5: And he and I just thought, oh, mate, you're scared.

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Speaker 5: It's okay, it's okay.

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Speaker 2: Don't and not only try to blame her, but you

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Speaker 2: know when people get angry when they've been scared and

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Speaker 2: they get caught out, so they get it's like they've

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Speaker 2: been backed into a quarter, so they get really fiery out.

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Speaker 4: I just love that that's their first fight after being married,

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Speaker 4: one of many not going to go well Tara on

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Speaker 4: the Central Coast. What do you mean scared of Tara's snakes?

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Speaker 5: Can how bad is it?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Can you look at photos and things?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you can look at photos, but yeah, where we live,

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Speaker 6: we actually get a lot of snakes. Yeah. He doesn't

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Speaker 6: like to deal deal with them or be near them

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Speaker 6: at all.

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Speaker 3: What happens when he sees a snake.

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Speaker 6: Just shake it starts to shake. Yeah, almost a panic

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Speaker 6: attack sort of situation.

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Speaker 4: I know there's plenty of snakes on the Central Coast,

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Speaker 4: but you've got to sell your house through someone don't you, Tara.

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Speaker 5: That was good. That was good.

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Speaker 2: I saw a snake on the weekend too, just quickly.

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Speaker 2: That was that's another side. Don't all put the video

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Speaker 2: on my Instagram for anyone who's got nothing to do today.

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Speaker 4: We'll take one more call Rachel and more Andora, what's

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Speaker 4: your boyfriend? Scared of my husband?

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Speaker 1: It's actually my husband and I was trying to show

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Speaker 1: you a little bugs. But while I was listening, the

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Speaker 1: Katie's actually scared of those to the rugby league.

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Speaker 5: He's scared of going going to the rugby league.

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Speaker 1: Follows the sport, but won't go to a live game

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Speaker 1: if we buy tickets or we get given tickets. He's

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Speaker 1: like all in and about his day or two days before.

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Speaker 1: He just pulled out and we've worked out why we

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Speaker 1: think he's worried about his side Lucy and being there

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Speaker 1: in the jersey or as a supporter. He's terrified, absolutely.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because people give each other a bit of a

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Speaker 5: hard time.

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Speaker 2: Is he one of those people that take it really sick,

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Speaker 2: come really seriously.

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Speaker 1: It's really performed to leave if you start losing. So

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Speaker 1: rather than leave, he would just rather not be there

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Speaker 1: if they're losing. So honey is the Bloosters supporter. He's like,

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Speaker 1: Matt not going, and we're like, by this, I've got

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Speaker 1: something on No, we know he's actually.

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Speaker 5: Sure.

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Speaker 2: Does he know that it's not a reflection on him

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Speaker 2: as a human being?

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Speaker 5: Is his football team loses?

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Speaker 1: Well, Katie doesn't even know it's a fear. He's like, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm just not going.

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Speaker 5: But we denial.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just push those feelings down. They'll go away eventually.

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Speaker 4: If he wants to talk to someone about losing, talk

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Speaker 4: to whip her. He's an insident fan.

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Speaker 2: Fire.

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Speaker 3: He is on fire. Rachie hasn't helped at all. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I could go on about the but I want Rachie

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Speaker 3: should get one of his mates to hold his hand

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Speaker 3: and take him along to a game.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that'll be even harder. I think we just can't

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Speaker 1: get him to go. So I'm thinking maybe change sides

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Speaker 1: and go for a scene that.

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Speaker 3: It's all of the time, or turn up and don't

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Speaker 3: wear your jersey and then on the day and there's

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Speaker 3: some plenty of options for you for your husband's.

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Speaker 1: That certainly is a weird one.

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Speaker 3: Just on the topic two guys. Nothing funny about any

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Speaker 3: guy that's scared of flying. There's absolutely nothing funny about it.

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Speaker 3: Even if they take Stelle knocks and vomit after a

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Speaker 3: bottle of red wine, that's not funny.

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Speaker 4: It is funny. I've witnessed at numerous times and I've

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Speaker 4: laughed every single time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I thought you were putting it on. It was

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Speaker 5: so embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: It's in Whippa with Kate.

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