1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: This podcast is being recorded and produced on Gadical Land. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 2: We pay our respects to the traditional custodians of this 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: country and elders past present. 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 1: We extend our respect to any First Nations Aboriginal and 5 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Island of people joining. 6 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 2: Us today, always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. 7 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 1: Matt got a bit of a game for you, close friends. 8 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:28,159 Speaker 2: Sorry, that didn't mean to be as exasperated as it was. 9 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: I love a little close Friends episodes. It's a way. 10 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 2: I've got a hypothetical question. I've got a game we never. 11 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 1: I love quizzing like I like quizzing one another. 12 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 2: What do you quizz me on today? Darling? 13 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: I saw a TikTok. I don't know if it's real 14 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: or not, like it could be made up, but I 15 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 1: think let's just say that it's real. And it's like 16 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 1: a slide like photo slides. The first slide says we 17 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: had guests leave our wedding when they read out ridiculous 18 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: in little quotation mark rules. Okay, so I'm going to 19 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 1: read these wedding rules to you and you tell me 20 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: whether you think they're ridiculous or not. 21 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:10,039 Speaker 2: This is a very passionate subject of mine. Oh is it? 22 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 2: You know, I'm very particular about these sorts of things. 23 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: I would be particular too. If I was going to 24 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 1: have a wedding and I reckon, people would call me 25 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 1: an asshole. But it's my fucking wedding, so shut up. 26 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 2: Okay, ready, yeah, I'm waiting. Okay. Number one, what else 27 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 2: am I going to do? 28 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 1: Everyone helps out. We didn't hire any staff, so that 29 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: means everyone needs to do their part. My grandpa set 30 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:37,759 Speaker 1: up chairs even with his bad back. My cousin bartended 31 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 1: and it turned out beautifully. Not hate that too, that's 32 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: you're an asshole. 33 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 2: Hate that, especially the granddad with the bad back, but 34 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 2: even the cousin bartending. I'm like, so they're not enjoying 35 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 2: the wedding. 36 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: There, that's no from me too. 37 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:52,639 Speaker 2: Okay. 38 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: The next one. Number two drink tickets. The most expensive 39 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: part of a wedding is alcohol, so my husband thought 40 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: of a ticket system. Every guest gets two tickets to 41 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: buy drinks. This also prevented any family drama from too 42 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 1: much shrinking. 43 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 2: I can agree with that one. 44 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 1: So I've seen people say, like they do alcohol free 45 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 1: weddings as well, and maybe like the couple doesn't drink 46 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: so therefore they're not doing any alcohol available at all, 47 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: like alcohol free wedding, and people have cracked the shits 48 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: about that because, like with drinking culture, it is like 49 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,239 Speaker 1: one of the main reasons why people get so excited 50 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: for a wedding. But then it does say a lot, 51 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: like if your guests are going to get pissed off 52 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: at you for having a two drink limit or you're 53 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: doing an alcohol free wedding, because it's like, are you 54 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: coming to celebrate my marriage or are you coming just 55 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: for the drinks? Yeah, I think that's what it says 56 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: if people get mad about that, and. 57 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 2: People just like hate weddings because I've never really like 58 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 2: I feel like when I go to a wedding, like 59 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 2: it's never about anything but the fact that two people 60 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 2: are getting married. 61 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: For me, I feel like it's mainly like, yeah, it's 62 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: about the couple, but I feel like it's a party. 63 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, But I'm thinking that they're like, oh, I need 64 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 2: the drinks to kind of get through the. 65 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: Day, And that's the thing as well, Like people shouldn't 66 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: need the drinks to get through it because it's not 67 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: like it's an unenjoyable experience. I mean, sometimes a fucking 68 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,239 Speaker 1: ceremony is boring if it drags on for like forty 69 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 1: five minutes. I'm loving the more modern ceremonies these days. 70 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 1: They're like quick and fun and like the celebrants are 71 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: really fun. 72 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 2: So what do you think about drink tickets? 73 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I think fair enough. If that's what you 74 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 1: want to have at your wedding, I would be like, yeah, whatever, 75 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: like that's their rule. I might take a little flask in. 76 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 2: I would assume that the drinks would be really expense 77 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 2: like it would add up really quickly, because if. 78 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: You a bar tab would be crazy for a wedding, 79 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: like I can only begin to imagine. 80 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 2: And what's worse the bar tab running out and pissing 81 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 2: everyone off or people just setting the expectation of two 82 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 2: drinks from the get go and like that's what you 83 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 2: But also, surely you could purchase drinks after the two tickets. 84 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 2: I think that would probably be I mean, it's cheap, 85 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 2: oh as fuck, Like I get it, Like I'm like, 86 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 2: it's cheap, but I'm also like, if that's what you want. 87 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: To do, like it's that's their wedding, Like what with 88 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: the guests to say yeah exactly? Speaking of like drink tickets, 89 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: like one thing that we're because we're already planning our 90 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: Christmas party for our work. 91 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 2: I thought you were going to say, you're already planning 92 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 2: your wedding. 93 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: No, we're already planning our Christmas party. And because our 94 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 1: we do our Christmas party with like our office and 95 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: warehouse like and then like stores get their own Christmas 96 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 1: party because we obviously can't shut down stores and fly 97 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: people to Newcastle. But what we're going to do for 98 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: our drinks this year, because it racks up so fast, 99 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 1: is we're doing tickets. But it's tickets for cocktails. So 100 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 1: like when everyone arrives, they get like two tokens or 101 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 1: tickets or whatever that they can then redeem on a cocktail. 102 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: And then after that, like the rest of the night 103 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 1: is just your normal drinks that you would have at 104 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: an open bar kind of thing that they still get 105 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: for free. Because that's just another little thing. Like if 106 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:58,359 Speaker 1: you've got open bar with cocktails, yeah, and people smashing cocktails, 107 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: twenty two dollars cocktails all night, it's going to be 108 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: fucking fifteen grand on the bar tab. Yeah, So that's 109 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 1: a little hack. 110 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 2: I'm all for the two drink limit why not. 111 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I reckon that one's fair enough if it's your 112 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 1: own wedding. Okay, Number three, respect the seat assignment. Unless 113 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 1: you are getting a drink, food, or going to the bathroom, 114 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: there is no need to be out of your seat. 115 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 1: Some guests want to just stay with their group and 116 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: not socialize, and that has to be respected. 117 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 2: See. 118 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: I fucking hate this because whenever I'm at a wedding 119 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: or any sit down event, I can't wait for the 120 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 1: dinner and speeches to finish so you can get up 121 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:43,159 Speaker 1: and go and socialize and dance and like go and 122 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: mingle with your friends that are at other tables and stuff. 123 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:45,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 124 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: Like, I feel like the sitting down formalities is like 125 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: one of the most boring bits. 126 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 2: I honestly have never understood a seating chart at a wedding. 127 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 2: Like that's one thing I don't understand. I couldn't give 128 00:05:56,880 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 2: a shit where anyone sits at all, but it's like 129 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 2: a really big priority to get the seating exactly right 130 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 2: and who's sitting with who, and blah blah, couldn't give 131 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 2: a shit sit where you want. Well, we'll probably still 132 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 2: have a seating plan, but like, I mean, sit where 133 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 2: you want because like what's their issue. 134 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: Well, one of our friends a couple of years ago, 135 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 1: we went to their wedding and it was the coolest 136 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: wedding that I've ever been to. Their parents have like 137 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 1: a property, and so they had it on the property, 138 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 1: and they had the ceremony at one end of the property, 139 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: like they had it all set up beautifully, and then 140 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: we literally just walked across the property, I don't know, 141 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 1: five hundred meters and then like the after party whatever 142 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 1: it's called, what's the reception, was at the other end 143 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:43,919 Speaker 1: of the property, and it was stunning and it's like 144 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 1: right on the lake, so it was really pretty. But 145 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: they didn't have a sit down food dinner at all. Instead, 146 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: it almost felt like a bit of a music festival. 147 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 1: They had like a dance floor in the middle, just 148 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: made out of those like wooden plank things that you 149 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 1: stick all together and it makes a dance floor. And 150 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:05,359 Speaker 1: then around they had like a couple of drinks trucks 151 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 1: and then a food truck, and then they had these 152 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: also really nice like demountable toilets that they like brought 153 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 1: in like in a caravan thing. And then the whole 154 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: night was just you walk around like you go to 155 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: the food truck and they had heaps of lounges and 156 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: everything like all around and random chairs, but there was 157 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: no sit down part of the wedding. And I just 158 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: thought that was like something I'd never been to before, 159 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 1: and I felt like that was really cool, and it 160 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: took out the whole part of them needing to find 161 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 1: out who sits next to who and we can't have 162 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 1: her across from her because she doesn't like her, and 163 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: it was just really cool, like you just walked around, 164 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: went and order food from the food truck, went and 165 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: got a drink from the van, and then just like 166 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 1: walked around. It was really great. 167 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 2: I love that idea. 168 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, for any of you out there who were planning 169 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: a wedding, consider that obviously not everyone has a fucking 170 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 1: property that they can have a wedding on. But it 171 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: was fucking great. 172 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 2: Because I do think food is like such a big 173 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 2: part of the only part of the wedding that I 174 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 2: don't love because it's always fucking boring. It's checking off fish, 175 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 2: child fish or maybe beef, but it's like it's not 176 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 2: I've never I don't think i've there's been actually one 177 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 2: wedding that I went to where like the food was 178 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 2: pretty exceptional and also at the same wedding, the coolest 179 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 2: thing I saw was that they did their first dance 180 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 2: by themselves and didn't tell anyone. And so we were 181 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 2: actually all having our dinner sitting down and there were 182 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 2: like glass doors on the side, like windows, and like 183 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 2: we just kind of noticed, like one person was like, 184 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 2: oh my gosh, they're having their first dance, and like 185 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 2: our heads turned and we could just see them through 186 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 2: the glass, just having a private first dance, just the 187 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 2: two of them. It's nice. I was like, this is 188 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 2: so good because. 189 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 1: I love seeing all these modern things that people are 190 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: doing with their weddings now, Like I even love the 191 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:45,199 Speaker 1: first look. So you know, traditionally, like the bride will 192 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 1: walk down the aisle and that's the first time that 193 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: the groom is seeing her when he turns around kind 194 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:51,719 Speaker 1: of thing. Well, now a lot of people are doing 195 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 1: their first look in private before the ceremony, so they're 196 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: in like a private room or whatever, or if they're 197 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 1: like at the Huna Valley or whatever, they might be 198 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 1: out in the valley thing in the vineyards and they 199 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 1: have that moment privately together, just them and like the 200 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 1: photographer or videographer, so that then that moment is intimate 201 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:13,079 Speaker 1: just between them two, which I really like. 202 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:13,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 203 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:16,839 Speaker 1: I like seeing people like, you know, not stick to 204 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: the traditional rules of weddings that we usually know and see. 205 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 2: I know someone who did all their wedding photos prior 206 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 2: to the ceremony. Yes, me too, went and did all 207 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 2: the photos with the wedding rings on as if they 208 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 2: were married, and did the ceremony for that. 209 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 1: Then you get to spend your whole wedding with everyone 210 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: that's come to your wedding, because sometimes they disappear for 211 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: three hours to do photos and then they come back. 212 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 2: I think as well, like the traditions as well as 213 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 2: in like the rules like oh you can't do this, 214 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 2: or you won't or it's bad luck you know what, 215 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 2: I mean to see the bride on the night before 216 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 2: or on the morning off or whatever that whole rule is, 217 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 2: and like even the something borrowed, something blue, all the 218 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 2: rest of that. Maybe how many times have people done 219 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 2: every single thing to the book and they still end 220 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 2: up getting divorced? So I don't reckon anything matters, and 221 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 2: you can do whatever you on as long as you 222 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 2: sign that paper, and that is official. Whatever else happens 223 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 2: that day is totally up to whatever you want to do. 224 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 2: Do they have any other rules? Yes? 225 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 1: So number four, I think I can get behind this one. 226 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 1: No cameras. My husband said, a QR code in front. 227 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 1: I'm guessing on the table that everyone scans and downloads 228 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 1: the pov app, which I'm guessing is like a Polaroid 229 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:26,120 Speaker 1: kind of app. They then each get ten pictures they 230 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: get uploaded into a big shared album. 231 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but my thing is, if there's no cameras, how 232 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 2: am I scanning the QR code with your phone? But 233 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 2: isn't the phone the camera? Like is that? So how's 234 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 2: the bride gonna know whether I take photos on the 235 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 2: app or just on my camera roll? 236 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 1: Because maybe they look different, or they've got like a 237 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:46,559 Speaker 1: little thing at the bottom, you know, when you put 238 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: them into an app and it's got like a little 239 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 1: tag on the bottom or whatever. 240 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:53,200 Speaker 2: Hate that idea, but also love no phones. I've said before, 241 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 2: I'm so no phones. Do not fucking get your phone 242 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 2: out of my Yeah, I. 243 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 1: Think I can fully get behind. Actually, when the bride 244 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 1: and groom don't want you to post any photos before 245 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:04,839 Speaker 1: they do kind of thing like that, they should be 246 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 1: the ones to share their wedding photos first, and I 247 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 1: hate when you do see them walking down the island 248 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: and then people have got their phone out, like you know, 249 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: I'm all four, put your phones away. But I do 250 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: like the idea of just like a QR code that 251 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 1: gets an app and everyone takes photos and it adds 252 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:22,319 Speaker 1: it to a shared out album, like I reckon, that's 253 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:24,559 Speaker 1: a really cool idea. But I also think people should 254 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:27,319 Speaker 1: be able to like take their own photos for themselves. 255 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 2: Kind of thing. Yeah, you know, yeah. 256 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: And there's one more number five, everyone out by ten thirty. 257 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 1: We love the party animals who stay up late and 258 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 1: want to have fun. But my husband and I still 259 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 1: have work in the morning. Surely this is fucking fat. 260 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 1: But my husband and I still have work in the morning, 261 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 1: so we need to get a good night's rest just 262 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 1: like any other day. Well that's just solidified to me 263 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: that this is fake. 264 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 2: Because I reckon Wednesday wedding, like on a Friday or 265 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 2: a Saturday, or maybe a Sunday, maybe Monday. But wouldn't 266 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 2: you be going on a honeymoon or taking the time 267 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:00,080 Speaker 2: on Why wouldn't you take the next day. 268 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 1: I've seen people that have gotten married, and then they 269 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 1: go back to work for a little bit and then 270 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:05,080 Speaker 1: their honeymoon's coming up. 271 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 2: Kind of thing. 272 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 1: True, But everyone out by ten thirty. 273 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:12,079 Speaker 2: I could get behind that. I'm pretty sure I've been 274 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 2: to weddings where everybody's out by ten thirty. 275 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 1: I feel like the latest wedding I've ever gone to 276 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 1: has been like midnight at the latest. 277 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think like the room's book till eleven, so 278 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 2: we're probably out by ten thirty anyway. Yeah, I'm happy 279 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 2: with that one. 280 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 1: All right, it's got your ticke of approval. 281 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 2: So I gave a ticke of approval to drink tickets yep, 282 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 2: no photos or to an extent. And the last one 283 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 2: was everyone out by ten thirty. What was the third one? 284 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:38,079 Speaker 1: Respect the seat assignment? 285 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I couldn't give a shit about that. Sit 286 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 2: where you want. I disagree with staying in your seat 287 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:46,439 Speaker 2: Like that is so full on to be, like these 288 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 2: two go on to work as school teachers the next day, 289 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 2: because it's giving school teacher energy to be like, you 290 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 2: must sit in your single file at the bar with 291 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 2: your two drink tickets. Everybody quiet, please, Like I just 292 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 2: imagine the bride going to do her speech and going 293 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 2: waiting for the chat to class, you know, when the 294 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 2: teacher and then I I A P I A P 295 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 2: T smart chat. What the fuck is that? You don't 296 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 2: remember that? I'm sorry, don't remember. I've never heard that 297 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 2: in my life. What what did you just do? 298 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 1: I I P P T S not chat? 299 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:26,719 Speaker 2: What does that mean? Was? Was it a A P? 300 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 1: It was like some businesses song? 301 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm thinking of teachers standing at the front of 302 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 2: the room saying that it was like a business and 303 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 2: that was the I used to be so good at 304 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 2: personating all the teachers, and they're different ways to get 305 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 2: the classes attention. One, two, three, stage three. Look at me, 306 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 2: I was one of That was my Stage three teacher. 307 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 2: There were more, but I can't remember right now. 308 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 1: For all your teachers out there, it's fucking tough, GI, 309 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 1: it is tough, gig. Seriously, I couldn't do it. 310 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 2: Later I probably could, got you. I reckon, well, I reckon. 311 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 2: I would have liked to be a teacher, but my 312 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 2: dad is My dad's a school principal. And when I 313 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 2: was younger, I remember being seven years old. I mean like, 314 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 2: I'm going to be a teacher like my dad, and 315 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 2: he said, do not be a teacher. Seriously, get a 316 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:14,680 Speaker 2: different job. And I was like, okay, it's hard. 317 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:15,679 Speaker 1: I can only imagine. 318 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. Cool, Well that's close, friends, done and dusted. It is. 319 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 2: It is what a slagh. 320 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 1: Looking forward to your wedding with drink tickets and everyone 321 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: can sit wherever they want. 322 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 2: Yes, no, we're not doing drink tickets. I don't know. 323 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 2: We might have alcohol free. I mean I don't drink 324 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 2: alcohol that often and Sky doesn't really drink alcohol at all. 325 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 1: I'll be sneaking in little flask in my bag. 326 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, go for it. I'm all about that. You're all 327 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 2: about that. And you know rules are made to be broken. 328 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 2: So even if there are rules at your wedding, not 329 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 2: everyone's going to follow them.