1 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: Credit card debt, how to finally get out of it 2 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: quickly and easily for good, and maybe even have a 3 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: little bit of fun along the way and learn something 4 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:20,639 Speaker 1: about yourself, and most importantly, how to stay out of 5 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: credit card debt even with a little bit of help 6 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 1: from the thousand Dollar Projects. Good morning, everyone, Welcome back 7 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: to Sugar Mama's Fireplay Podcast. I am Canna Campbell. I 8 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 1: really hope that you had a fantastic weekend, that you 9 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: recharge your batteries and you are ready to embrace and 10 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: tackle the week ahead. Today we're going to be talking 11 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 1: about credit card debt, how to pay off that toxic 12 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: credit card debt quickly and easily and have fun along 13 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: the way, and learn a lot about yourself so that 14 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 1: you never repeat history. And I'm also going to show 15 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:57,959 Speaker 1: you how to include the thousand Dollar Project to help 16 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: make this process as a fish and pain free as possible. 17 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: But before I begin, just a quick little bit of compliance, 18 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 1: I need to remind you that all of my content, 19 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: whether it be a YouTube video, a blog post, a podcast, 20 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 1: something you see on Instagram, everything of mine is general advice. Only. 21 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 1: The reason why is because I don't know anything about 22 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 1: your individual situation. I don't know anything about your financial goals, 23 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 1: your fincial responsibilities and liabilities, your risk profile, and of 24 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 1: course all the deadlines that you have for your financial 25 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: goals and dreams. So if you're ever listening to me 26 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: talk about a particular financial strategy or a particular financial product, 27 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 1: please know that it's not personal advice. And if you 28 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 1: feel like you need to get personal advice, always and 29 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 1: only reach out to a qualified and licensed financial planner 30 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 1: that can give you personal advice. All right, let's get 31 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: cracking with credit cards. So if you are listening to 32 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: this and feeling a little bit uncomfortable, a little bit inertia, 33 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: feeling almost like a trigger, well, I'm gonna be honest 34 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: with you, it's probably because the truth hurts deep down. 35 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: You know, you need to confront your issues of credit 36 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: card debt in your life. So if there's a pushback 37 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: or you know, some sort of feeling of discomfort, please 38 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:21,959 Speaker 1: know it's actually a good thing, because you're going to 39 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 1: come out of this podcast wiser, smarter, and hopefully really 40 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: inspired and motivated to kick that credit card debt out 41 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: of your life for good. Why is a credit card 42 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:36,239 Speaker 1: debt so bad? Well, think about it. There are a 43 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: lot of toxic emotions that come with credit card debt. 44 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about people who use credit card in 45 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:46,639 Speaker 1: a responsible way that they might have, say two thousand 46 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: lls only on their credit card, but you know it's 47 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: not the end of the month yet and their bill 48 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: hasn't come through. Those people who pay it off and 49 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 1: for each month, that's fine to use a credit card. 50 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: And I actually have no problem with using credit cards. 51 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: I have one credit card and I use it correctly, 52 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: and I don't create debt. But the problem is when 53 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 1: it's being abused. That's when it becomes toxic. And if 54 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: we really be honest with ourselves and we look at 55 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 1: credit card debt and think about the emotions behind the 56 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 1: credit card debt, they're pretty horrible. They're are very energetically 57 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,920 Speaker 1: depleting emotions such as guilt. You know, I don't need 58 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: to rub it in your face. If you're in credit 59 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 1: card debt, you know this. And the thing about credit 60 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: card debt, and this is even a good people who 61 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: pay their credit card off in full each month, is 62 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,519 Speaker 1: can you ask yourself what did you buy to get 63 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 1: into that credit card debt? If you were in say 64 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: seven thousand dollars with the credit card debt? What was 65 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: it that you bought that added up to seven thousand dollars? 66 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: I guarantee you won't be able to list and remember 67 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: every single item that got you into that, say, seven 68 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: thousand dollars worth of debt. That's pretty confronting and pretty 69 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: disturbing to think that toxic damage in your financial well being. 70 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: You can't even actually articulate or calculate or remember what 71 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: it actually was. I'm sure there may have been excuses 72 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 1: such as, you know, I will I had an unexpected 73 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: dental bill, or you know I had a well, maybe 74 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: something happened to my pet. The truth is you didn't 75 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 1: have emergency money to stop that from happening. So you've 76 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: really got to be honest with yourself because this is 77 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: when the best and most powerful growth and transformation comes. 78 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: So stop the excuses. Admit to yourself that you're living 79 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: beyond your means. You're not being mindful and aware and 80 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: taking control of your financial bill being, and you're not 81 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:31,040 Speaker 1: taking your financial life seriously. Something's got to stop. If 82 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: you want it to be better, you want it to 83 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 1: be different, you want it to be healthier. So once 84 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:40,479 Speaker 1: you've had a look at the real emotions you're experiencing 85 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: and even write them down about how you feel about 86 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: your credit card debt, and also write down all those 87 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 1: excuses that you've been justifying to yourself about the credit 88 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 1: card debt. And what I'm going to say I'm going 89 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: to mention in particular, is occasionally people say to me, oh, yes, 90 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 1: I've got like, say, twenty thousands the credit card debt, 91 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: but at least it's not as bad as my friend 92 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 1: who's got like thirty That's like saying, well, I'm a 93 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: smoker and I'm only smoking, you know, fifteen cigarettes a day. 94 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: My other friend smokes twenty five cigarettes a day, Like, no, 95 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: you're still a smoker. That's really bad for your health. 96 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:14,359 Speaker 1: It's really damaging your health, and you go into you know, 97 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: shorten your life expectancy and make you incredibly ill and 98 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:22,599 Speaker 1: potentially with huge you know, financial and mental and emotional repercussions. 99 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: So don't compare yourself to anyone. And that also goes 100 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 1: from a wealth accumulation perspective. You know, you're on your 101 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:31,719 Speaker 1: own path. Don't compare yourself to anyone, Otherwise you're only 102 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 1: going to be as good out or as bad as 103 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 1: that other person. All right, So, once you've written the 104 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 1: list of the truthful emotions you're experiencing, when you look 105 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 1: at your credit card statements, you look at how much 106 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:44,599 Speaker 1: money you owe, you think about those excuses you're coming 107 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 1: up with. Write them all down so that you are 108 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: facing them head on. I know it's uncomfortable. I know 109 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: there's gonna be a lot of emotional triggers that come up. 110 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 1: But I promise you it is so worth doing this 111 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 1: because this is where the change happens. The next thing 112 00:05:57,480 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 1: I want to do with you is it's a lot 113 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:01,840 Speaker 1: easier this one. I promise you you'll start to feel pleasure 114 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 1: and enjoy, and that is I want you to imagine 115 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 1: a life where you don't have any debt. You pay 116 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: for things in cash, or if you use your credit card, 117 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: you know that you're immediately going to transfer that money 118 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 1: onto the credit card, so you have a you know, 119 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 1: you never actually have an outstanding balance on your card. 120 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: Think about how empowering that feels, how in control, how healthy, 121 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 1: how energizing that feels. Just using only what you've got, 122 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 1: not depleting your financial resources. You know, imagine what it 123 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:36,719 Speaker 1: feels like to even see savings in a separate account 124 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 1: such as an emergency savings account, or even better, think 125 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: about what it feels like to see that you've actually 126 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 1: got investments, You've got a share or follow you and 127 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: you know how to add to it, and you know 128 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: that your superinnovation is also organized, or you know that 129 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:51,839 Speaker 1: you've got a very exciting financial goal going on with 130 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: a separate, dedicated savings account, such as you know, saving 131 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: up a deposit for a home loan. These are things 132 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: I want you to think about because these are things 133 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:03,359 Speaker 1: that are perfectly within your reach when you are credit 134 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: card debt free. Think about the feeling of freedom, liberation. 135 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: These are all really uplifting and re energizing emotions. And 136 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: if you go back to that list of the toxic emotions, 137 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: you see how they just completely trump all those horrible emotions. 138 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 1: They add to your well being. They add to your vitality, 139 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: your energy, your epervescence of life. That's what we want 140 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: to focus on, and that's why we need to get 141 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: this credit card debt out of your life for good. 142 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 1: So this is what I want you to do now 143 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 1: that you've done the groundwork looking at your mindset and 144 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: your attitude, because you actually realize now, all right, I've 145 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: got to take control of this and get out of 146 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 1: this type of debt for good. So the first thing 147 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: I want you to do is grab a piece of 148 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 1: paper and a pen, and I want you to write down, 149 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 1: from the top of the list the smallest amount of 150 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: debt that you owe all the way to the biggest 151 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: amount of debt. So this would even include people you 152 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: might owe money to. So you might owe, say, for example, 153 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: a parent two hundred dollars, and then you're right, Visa 154 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 1: eight thousand dollars, and then all right, you know another 155 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 1: in credit card, you right to say, MasterCard twelve thousand dollars. 156 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 1: See how I'm starting with the smallest debt at the 157 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: very top, slowly getting bigger and bigger, and writing exactly 158 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: who I owe money to. So this is the start 159 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: of your hit list. You're going to become an assassin. 160 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: You're going to work through your hit list and knocking 161 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: each of those people in your lives or institutions that 162 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: you owe money to. I want you to carry that 163 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: piece of paper around, look at it all the time, 164 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:30,559 Speaker 1: and think about how you're going to get these debt 165 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: halls out of your life for good, and we're going 166 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: to start nice and easy and simple with the person 167 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 1: on the list at the very top that is the 168 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: smallest amount of debt. Now you might be wondering, hang on, Canna, 169 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: this doesn't make sense. If you google how to get 170 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: out of credit card debt, everyone says start with the 171 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 1: person or the institution that has the highest interest rate. Yes, 172 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:54,319 Speaker 1: that is technically correct, and this that is completely the 173 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 1: financially the savviest thing to do. But this is where 174 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 1: I kind of differ. I'm I'm very much about the 175 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 1: psychology of money and about doing something that you're going 176 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 1: to feel committed and connected to so that you actually 177 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 1: pay that debt off for good. So whilst this may 178 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 1: cost you a little bit more in interest, I promise 179 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:15,599 Speaker 1: you you'll feel better about this because you'll see the progress. 180 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:19,679 Speaker 1: You'll feel inspired and motivated to keep going. So what 181 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: I want you to do next is look at your 182 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: budget you've got and look at what your living expenses are. Now, 183 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: if you've never done a budget, please don't panic. Just 184 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: head to the sugar MoMA website, subscribe to our newsletter, 185 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 1: and you will get a free budget template for you 186 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 1: to use to get started in doing your own budget 187 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 1: and everything is selected there, so it's really quick and 188 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 1: easy to complete. I've thought what I want you to 189 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 1: do is also factor in repayment plans. Minimum repayment plans, 190 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 1: that is, for each of those debtors. So you might 191 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: have a ten dollars a week repayment plan in place 192 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,200 Speaker 1: for one person. You might have a two hundred dollars 193 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: per month repayment plan for a credit card institution, for example. 194 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:58,679 Speaker 1: Put those in your budget now. By looking at your 195 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 1: budget again, this is a bit of a fronting experience, 196 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: but it's going to allow you to see your true 197 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 1: cost of living, where all your money goes. And it's 198 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: also going to help you identify things that you simply 199 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 1: waste money on, things that you don't value, you know, 200 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:17,199 Speaker 1: taking buying lunch every day in the city, or you know, 201 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:20,959 Speaker 1: buying fast fashion like you or getting a takeaway coffee 202 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: every day. It's going to allow you to stop and 203 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: question the value. Now if you look at something and go, 204 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: you know what I value that coffee every day on 205 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 1: my way to work. That's fine. Keep it in there, 206 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: because obviously you want to keep balanced. I want you 207 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 1: to you know, I don't want you to punish yourself 208 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 1: in doing this. But you need to be honest with 209 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 1: yourself and say, all right, well I like it, I 210 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 1: value this. But instead of getting a coffee every day, 211 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:40,199 Speaker 1: I'm going to get one just on Thursday and Friday 212 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: as a reward to getting through the end of the week. 213 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: I'm not here to tell you what to cut out 214 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: and what to cut down. That's for you to do. 215 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 1: That's your business and you only you can identify what 216 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 1: you value. But you never know what you might discover 217 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 1: along the way as you go through your budget. So 218 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:57,319 Speaker 1: as you've set up all those minium payment plans, you 219 00:10:57,400 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: put them in your budget, you've looked at really expenses, 220 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: and you've gone through and reduced or cut out any 221 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: of your living expenses that you don't truly value. I 222 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 1: want you to proactively identify those potential savings, and I 223 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: want you to take any extra money that you are 224 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 1: able to save, such as you know you decide to. 225 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:16,839 Speaker 1: I'm not going to spend one hundred dollars a week 226 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: on lunches at work. I'm going to take my lunch 227 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 1: to work, say three days a week, which works out 228 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: i'll say fifty dollars per week, and doing that that 229 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 1: fifty dollars I want you to proactively take and transfer 230 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:29,959 Speaker 1: to the person that's on the top of your list. 231 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 1: So the moment you have transferred that money, and I 232 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 1: want you to do it in an ad hoc, proactive way, 233 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 1: so that you get that money out of your account 234 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 1: before you get tempted to spend it, and you honor 235 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 1: and respect the responsibility of paying that person off. You 236 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 1: then go and update your list, and you do the 237 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 1: same thing the following week. You make the save the 238 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: fifty dollars or whatever the money might be, and then 239 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 1: proactively ad hoc transfer to that person. Update the list. 240 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: Now we'll do this until that person is completely paid 241 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: back in full, including any outstanding. In the moment they 242 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:03,599 Speaker 1: are paid and there's no money owing to them whatsoever, 243 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: you can have the pleasure and satisfaction of crossing them 244 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:10,560 Speaker 1: off the list. You then move on to the next 245 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:12,839 Speaker 1: person on a list and you do exactly the same thing. 246 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 1: You use all the same side hustles and hacks and 247 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 1: budget tips to pay that person off. Yes, you're making 248 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 1: irregular ad hoc repayments, but the thick trick is is 249 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 1: you're getting that money out of your account before you 250 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 1: can potentially spend it, and you are reducing that debt. 251 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 1: And every time you do this, you update your list 252 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 1: and you look at Okay, well, gosh, my overall debt 253 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 1: is no longer fifteen seven hundred, but it's actually fifteen 254 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty. Wow, I'm making progress. This refeels 255 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: really really good. And this is where the thousand dollars 256 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 1: project can come in because you look at ways to 257 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 1: bring in open up the floor you could say of earning, manifesting, creating, hustling, 258 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 1: saving extra money in your life, and you focus on 259 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 1: doing these impararcels of one thousand dollars at a time. 260 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 1: So obviously you keep going with your repayment strategy. You 261 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 1: have your minimum payments in plan which are programmed in 262 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: your budget. You're making ad hoc repayments. And if you 263 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 1: want to add the element of the thousand dollars project, 264 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 1: this is what you do. You have a separate dedicated 265 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 1: to savings account and you look to hustle, save, manifest 266 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 1: create extra money in your life. As on a side note, 267 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:22,720 Speaker 1: so for example, you might go through your wardrobe and 268 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 1: you'll go and sell a whole pile of stuff online. 269 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 1: Might be and you might even look at doing some 270 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 1: babysitting work, some dog walking, some house sitting, even a 271 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: weekend job, or start looking for a pay rise or 272 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 1: a promotion or a new job, anything you can do 273 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: to bring in some extra money in your life. And 274 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 1: if you grab a copy of Mindful Money or one 275 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 1: thousand Dollars Project, or even watch my videos for free 276 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: online on YouTube, you can see all the different things 277 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 1: I've done to come up with a thousand dollars a time. 278 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 1: So you put money into that account, and I know 279 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:55,079 Speaker 1: it might sound silly, but you might say, okay, well, 280 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:56,839 Speaker 1: guess what this weekend I had a really free will 281 00:13:56,840 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 1: when Netflix and Chill and I didn't spend eighty dollars, 282 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 1: show what it would have spent. So you put that 283 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:04,079 Speaker 1: in a thousand dollars project account, and the moment that 284 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 1: account hits one thousand dollars, you make a lump sum 285 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 1: repayment to the people on your hit list, of course, 286 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:13,559 Speaker 1: targeting the person at the top of the list. We're 287 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:16,720 Speaker 1: making great progress, really efficient, powerful progress of knocking it 288 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: off one thousand dollars at a time, and now you 289 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 1: can say that you only owe say thirteen hundred dollars 290 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 1: to master Card instead of two thousand dollars. Now that 291 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 1: feels really good seeing those powerful lump sums coming off 292 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 1: your total debts. And as I said, you always track 293 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 1: a monitor this so you always add up the total 294 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 1: amount of money you owe and update it. Go great. 295 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 1: Now my debts are down from originally we're fifteen thousand, 296 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 1: seven hundred. Now they're down to hundred and fifty. And 297 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 1: now with this lump sum of one thousand dollars, they're 298 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 1: down to fourteen two hundred and fifty. Wow, I'm making progress. 299 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 1: I'm changing history. I'm doing things differently. This is working. 300 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 1: This feels good. I'm getting back control in my life 301 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 1: of my spending habits, and I'm learning a lot about 302 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 1: myself along the way. I'm excited about being debt free. 303 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: These are powerful things you need to realize along the way. 304 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 1: Remember you're assassin. This is the hit list strategy. Now 305 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: along the way. If you need to give yourself mini 306 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: breaks or even mini rewards along the way, that's okay, 307 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: I'm not This is not about punishing yourself or being 308 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 1: mean or depriving yourself. Okay, It's about coming from a 309 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 1: place of love, kindness. But also respect and responsibility. So 310 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 1: you might say to yourself, Okay, I've gone really hard 311 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 1: and fast, and I've not you know, say four thousand 312 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 1: dollars off my say sixteen thousand dollars of debt. If 313 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 1: you feel the need emotionally and mentally to take a 314 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: little break, and you know say okay, all right, I'm 315 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: gonna give myself a reward, then do it. Just make 316 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 1: it an intelligent reward. Don't go and undo all the 317 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 1: hard work by going and buying a thousand dollars handbag 318 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 1: and getting back into debt. Have that reward obviously paid 319 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 1: for in cash, and ideally make it a non financial award. 320 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 1: Make it something really nice to yourself, like taking yourself, 321 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: you know, for aiful walk, or giving yourself a hot bath, 322 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 1: or borrowing a book from the library, or having a 323 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 1: weekend where you do something different for yourself, or going 324 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 1: to a yoga class. We're going and getting something really free, 325 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 1: I guess frugally friendly, like such as a you know, 326 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 1: a manicure and pedicure, spa treatment. Just make sure it 327 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 1: doesn't undo the damage, or if you're getting safe, for example, 328 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 1: a massage. When you're getting this message, remind yourself. The 329 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: reason why I'm getting this message is because I'm working 330 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 1: on my goals and I'm making progress, and this is 331 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 1: my reward to myself. And once this is finished, I 332 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: am going to pat myself on the back and get 333 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 1: back on the bandwagon with the next thousand dollars that 334 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to knock off my debt or the next 335 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 1: person I'm gonna knock off my debt. Because remember you're 336 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 1: an assassin. This is the hitless strategy, and if you 337 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 1: want to do as I said, you're using one thousand 338 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 1: dollar projects to make this experience even faster. Now, there 339 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 1: are a couple of other things that really help as 340 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 1: well to make sure that this really happens, and that 341 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: is to share your debt free journey on social media. 342 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 1: There are a lot of people out there doing and 343 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 1: if you have a look on my Instagram account Sugar 344 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 1: Mama TV, you'll see who I'm following because I follow 345 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 1: a huge amount of people from the debt free community 346 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 1: around the world. So have a look and see who 347 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: I'm following. It's really interesting and even though I'm not 348 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 1: someone in credit card debt, I find it really inspiring 349 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,159 Speaker 1: motivating because it inspires me with my own vesting goals 350 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: and it inspires me also with helping pay off my 351 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 1: mortgage as quickly as possible. But by putting something on 352 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:26,160 Speaker 1: social media where you tell people and you share with people, Hey, 353 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 1: I'm in fifteen thousands of a credit card debt. I'm 354 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:30,680 Speaker 1: going to try and pay it off. You know, by 355 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:34,199 Speaker 1: the fifteenth of December twenty twenty one. You're making yourself accountable. 356 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:36,400 Speaker 1: There are people watching you and they want to see 357 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 1: you succeed, and you feel responsible to prove them. And 358 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 1: that's one thing I haven't touched on yet, and that 359 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:45,119 Speaker 1: is the importance of having a deadline. Never ever set 360 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:47,679 Speaker 1: a goal with the deadline that's okay, in three months time, 361 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:49,440 Speaker 1: I want to have paid this off, because you're always 362 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 1: going to push that deadline three months into the future. 363 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:54,119 Speaker 1: You're always going to be pushing it forward, like the 364 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 1: opposite of this chasing your tail. But when you put 365 00:17:57,200 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: a deadline with a date, a defined day such as 366 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 1: the fifteenth of November or the seventeenth of June, or 367 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 1: you know, whatever it might be, you're actually you realize 368 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:09,679 Speaker 1: that time is ticking. You've got to get pull your 369 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 1: finger out and get cracking. Actually, see that debt come down, 370 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 1: I promise you you'll find yourself so much more focused 371 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 1: to beat the deadline and to get this goal ticked off, 372 00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 1: you know, as soon as possible. And this is how 373 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 1: I set all of my goals, not just financial ones, 374 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:25,800 Speaker 1: but even like my lifestyle goals, my fitness goals. If 375 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 1: I say, okay, I want to be able to run 376 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:31,360 Speaker 1: for like by four kilometers without stopping, I'll have that 377 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: goal to be achieved by a certain particular date. And 378 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:39,200 Speaker 1: I definitely see a huge shift and improvement and success 379 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 1: in achieving those goals. Now as you are going through 380 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 1: the progress I want you to, you know, paying off 381 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: your debt and feeling good and seeing it coming down. 382 00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:50,159 Speaker 1: And look, it's not going to come down consistently one 383 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:53,199 Speaker 1: thousand dollars each week. You're going to have bursts of 384 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:55,880 Speaker 1: you know where you're like, wow, I'm really smashing this goal, 385 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 1: these goals. This is great. But then you're also going 386 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:00,040 Speaker 1: to plateau. Just like I talk about the ocean, and 387 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: sometimes there are big waves. Sometimes there's a beautiful ocean. 388 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 1: You're in the green room catching these incredible waves, and 389 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:08,120 Speaker 1: then sometimes it's dead calm and you're just platateauing and 390 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:10,400 Speaker 1: it can feel nice, but it also can feel frustrating. 391 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 1: That is perfectly normal. That's life, and that's not even 392 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 1: a debt free life that or debt free journey. That's 393 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 1: life when it comes to savings up for something particular. 394 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 1: And that also comes with when you're trying to say 395 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 1: invest all the time. Like when I'm working on my 396 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 1: investment goals, there are times in my life where I'm like, damn, 397 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: I've got no spare money to invest. This is really frustrating. 398 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 1: Or Damn I thought I was going to have money 399 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 1: to investment. It's got to go towards this expense now instead. 400 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 1: You know that that's life, and there are times I'm like, wow, 401 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: I didn't expect that to happen. Here's lumps that can 402 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:40,160 Speaker 1: put towards my share poor follow That's life. You've got 403 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 1: to learn to work with it. But what I think 404 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 1: is really really important is you start to think about 405 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 1: beyond the debt free life. Start thinking about what you'd 406 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:52,879 Speaker 1: like to achieve financially when you're debt free once that 407 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 1: credit card debt's gone, and start to get excited about it. 408 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 1: Start to think about, wow, once some debt free I'm 409 00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 1: going to build up that emergency savings account so that 410 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:02,360 Speaker 1: I sleep well at night, I never need to worry 411 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,640 Speaker 1: about ever getting back into debt again. And if any 412 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 1: unexpected expense comes my way, that's fine, because I've got five, ten, fifteen, 413 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 1: twenty thirty, whatever it may might be, forty thousand dollars 414 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,399 Speaker 1: in a separate savings account to always keep me out 415 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 1: of trouble, to make sure I never repeat history. Because remember, guys, 416 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:19,239 Speaker 1: you're listening to this because you want to get out 417 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:20,640 Speaker 1: of debt for good, and you want to stay out 418 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:22,880 Speaker 1: of debt for good, and you want to feel good 419 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:26,679 Speaker 1: about your financial situation. So start thinking about how are 420 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:28,639 Speaker 1: you going to do this? How much money do you 421 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 1: want to have it in a savings account, Where do 422 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:32,879 Speaker 1: you want that savings account to be. How quickly do 423 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 1: you think you could potentially save up that money. Start 424 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 1: to empower yourself and motivate yourself, inspire yourself to think 425 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 1: beyond life. And the really cool thing about being debt 426 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 1: free is you are no longer coming up with all 427 00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 1: this money having to just having to give it away 428 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 1: to your previous mistakes or spending habits or toxic habits. 429 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: You actually get to keep that money for yourself. So 430 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 1: instead of you know, transferring, say that thirteen hundred dollars 431 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 1: towards MasterCard, when you hustle some money or save some money, 432 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:06,679 Speaker 1: that thirteen hundred dollars gets to stay with you. You 433 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:08,920 Speaker 1: get to add it to your net wealth. You get 434 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:10,919 Speaker 1: to feel really good about it. You're not having to 435 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 1: chase your tail or feel like you're on the rat race. 436 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 1: You know, hand to mouth as it goes from you 437 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 1: know it's not necessarily in the hand to mouth it's 438 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:21,359 Speaker 1: hand to debt, or you know you are doing things differently. 439 00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:22,880 Speaker 1: You get to keep that money for yourself. You get 440 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 1: to hold on to it, you get to salvage it, 441 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,479 Speaker 1: you get to see it accumulate and grow. These are 442 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 1: all really empowering things to see as you see your 443 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 1: account balance or your savings account balance increase in value, 444 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 1: or your investment account increase each time you've got more 445 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 1: money to invest. This is the life I want you 446 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 1: to be thinking about. This is where I want your focus. 447 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:42,920 Speaker 1: So this is where I want your attention. This is 448 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:46,480 Speaker 1: where I want you to feed your inspiration and motivation 449 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:49,400 Speaker 1: to do things differently, to do things better. You should 450 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:51,920 Speaker 1: feel excited about that, and this will hopefully drive you 451 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 1: to put even more things in place to be you know, frugal, 452 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:58,919 Speaker 1: or to hustle extra money in your life, or to 453 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 1: come up with some sort of fun, fun challenge to 454 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: get these debts out of your life even faster, and 455 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 1: ride with it when you're feeling better. It inspired sees 456 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 1: it allow that to help you smash your goals sooner, 457 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 1: faster and more efficiently. And always, always, always open yourself 458 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 1: up to the lessons and the wisdom and the advice 459 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,680 Speaker 1: that the universe is trying to tell you about yourself 460 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 1: and about your debt free journey. Perhaps it's you know, 461 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 1: a humbling experience where you realize, okay, I've been living 462 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:29,439 Speaker 1: beyond my mean Learn from this, because that's when the 463 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,199 Speaker 1: shift happens. That's when powerful growth happens. And then you 464 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:35,160 Speaker 1: start doing things differently and you feel different, you feel better, 465 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:37,439 Speaker 1: and the proof is in the pudding. You're going to 466 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:38,919 Speaker 1: see your debts coming down, you're going to see your 467 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 1: savings going up, You're going to be really embracing life. 468 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 1: And I tell you what, there's so much I've seen 469 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:47,400 Speaker 1: this so many times where people I've coached out of debt. 470 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:51,359 Speaker 1: Their life is seems so much happier and healthier. They 471 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 1: have a glow about themselves. Their weight comes down as well, 472 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 1: which is really interesting. They're starting to explore other areas 473 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:00,640 Speaker 1: in their life, so you know, they're not shopping as much. 474 00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:04,600 Speaker 1: They're embracing a new hobby or a new fitness or sport, 475 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 1: or you know, their social circles are expanding, or they've developed, 476 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,199 Speaker 1: you know, come into a new spiritual growth. You know, 477 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 1: it's really interesting to see when people actually, I guess, 478 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,359 Speaker 1: rip off the band aid of living a toxic life 479 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 1: and debt, seeing the wound for what it is and 480 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 1: really starting to heal properly, allowing that woman to heal, 481 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 1: allowing that scar to repair itself, and for that skin 482 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 1: to turn back to that resilient, beautiful skin that can 483 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 1: see the sunlight, breathe the fresh air. The key things 484 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 1: are review your budget all the time. Don't just do 485 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 1: your budget and think you don't need to touch that 486 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:41,640 Speaker 1: for a year. That's not true at all. You must 487 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: always review your budget on a regular basis. There are 488 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 1: always new expenses trying to creep in the lifestyle creep, 489 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:49,159 Speaker 1: and there are times where you're going to have to 490 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,880 Speaker 1: update it and make changes because there are new responsibilities 491 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 1: and commitments in there, whether you like it or not. 492 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 1: You know, Rock has just started art classes and they're 493 00:23:56,880 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 1: about four hundred dollars these art classes every three months, 494 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,200 Speaker 1: I think, and I had to adouptdate our family budget 495 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 1: to make sure that I accounted for that in there. Also, 496 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:07,919 Speaker 1: both my kids are growing in a rapid rate. I 497 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 1: have to every now and again look at the budget 498 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 1: and go, Okay, I'm gonna have to be a bit 499 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 1: more tight here so I can make sure they've got, 500 00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:16,440 Speaker 1: you know, clothes that they fit into. And of course, 501 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 1: always look at your side hustles. Talk to people about 502 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 1: your side hustles. So many of the best side hustles 503 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 1: I have from doing a thousand dollars project is from 504 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 1: other people, from people telling me about, oh, you could 505 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:28,160 Speaker 1: do this, or you couldn't do that, or I need 506 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,119 Speaker 1: to introduce you to this person because they're looking to 507 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,560 Speaker 1: get some extra help here and they could potentially pay you. 508 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,439 Speaker 1: Talk about your side hustles, look at ideas, get it 509 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,119 Speaker 1: out there that you have a side hustle, because someone 510 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,360 Speaker 1: will want your service or your product or your help 511 00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 1: where you're offering The amount of people I've spoken to 512 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:48,080 Speaker 1: recently actually that have started doing tutoring helping busy families 513 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 1: with their kids' homework is incredible. One person I know 514 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,439 Speaker 1: in particular, I think it's making eighty dollars an hour, 515 00:24:56,040 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 1: you know, helping their kids get through their homework, and 516 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:02,159 Speaker 1: the I was like, oh, wow, that's quite a lot 517 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 1: of money per how but they're busy, They've been booked 518 00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:08,320 Speaker 1: up by other parents who are, you know, time poor, 519 00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,680 Speaker 1: and they don't want their children slipping behind at school, 520 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 1: so they're paying this person to help them get their 521 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 1: homework done with all their projects and assignments. And I 522 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,320 Speaker 1: can completely understand that because I know how hard my 523 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 1: is for myself it is to get your child to 524 00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,959 Speaker 1: sit down and listen and lone do their homework. And 525 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 1: I have to say sometimes I look at the homework 526 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,760 Speaker 1: and like, I don't understand what you have to do here, 527 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,840 Speaker 1: which is really embarrassing to say that. But anyway, there 528 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 1: are so many side hustles out there that you can do, 529 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,919 Speaker 1: like open up your mind, like it really is quite 530 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 1: incredible the opportunities there are out there. And then, of course, 531 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,879 Speaker 1: as I said, educate yourself as you start to think 532 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,320 Speaker 1: about the next financial goals you want to achieve, you know, 533 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,639 Speaker 1: beyond paying off this debt, the savings that you want 534 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 1: in your life, the investment goals, even maybe the passive 535 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 1: income goals. You want to start working in your life, 536 00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 1: or you know, the goal and dream of owning your 537 00:25:57,640 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: own home one day. You want to start saving up 538 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,160 Speaker 1: that deposit, which is really exciting. You want to start 539 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:06,920 Speaker 1: thinking about retirement. Educate yourself obviously, make sure you're really 540 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:09,119 Speaker 1: careful as to where you're getting your education from. Be 541 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 1: very careful of the thin influencers all over social media, becau. 542 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,639 Speaker 1: There's a lot of them with really dangerous bad advice, 543 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 1: and there's a separate podcast about that's about this anyway, 544 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 1: but it is importantly you educate so so you understand, 545 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 1: all right, the moment'm debt free, this is what I 546 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:24,679 Speaker 1: need to do, and this is the best way of 547 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 1: doing it. And talk to people. As I said, share 548 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 1: your goals, share what you're doing, because you are going 549 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 1: to inspire other people and you're part of a very 550 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:36,160 Speaker 1: powerful ripple effect where we're all debt free, we all 551 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 1: have emergency savings, we all use our credit cards or 552 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,600 Speaker 1: even I have no problem with buying now, pay later. 553 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:45,440 Speaker 1: When it's used responsibly, you know, to to run our 554 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 1: lives efficiently so that we're not bogged down and stressed 555 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:52,320 Speaker 1: about money. In fact, if the polar opposite, we embrace money. 556 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 1: We embrace and respect the freedom and luxury and choice 557 00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 1: that it brings in our lives. You know, we treat 558 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 1: money in the right type of way. We know how 559 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 1: to keep it, we know how to grow it, We 560 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,919 Speaker 1: know how to use it responsibly. We know how to 561 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:08,879 Speaker 1: use it also in a powerful way, so when we 562 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 1: do use money, we're using it for the benefit of 563 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:15,800 Speaker 1: the community, are well being, and even the planet, particularly 564 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:19,920 Speaker 1: when you think about the environment and charities. So please 565 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 1: note this is you don't have to be in debt. 566 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 1: You can do something about it, but make a decision 567 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 1: to do something about it today. Put action in place 568 00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:33,000 Speaker 1: starting today. Write down all those toxic feelings that you're 569 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 1: experiencing from being in debt. Write down what it would 570 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,439 Speaker 1: feel like and all the emotions you'd experienced if you 571 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 1: didn't have that debt in your life. Next is you 572 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 1: write the list of who you owe money to and 573 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:49,399 Speaker 1: exactly how much for starting with the smallest debt, all 574 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,919 Speaker 1: the way to the biggest. Make sure you have a 575 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:55,639 Speaker 1: minimum payment plan in place for each of those debtors, 576 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 1: and work on your hit lists. Look at ways you 577 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:02,439 Speaker 1: can save extra money and earn extra money, and the 578 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:05,359 Speaker 1: moment that money comes into your life, transfer it as 579 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,239 Speaker 1: a lump sum ad hoc repayment towards the person at 580 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 1: the top of your list. Regularly update your list and 581 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 1: don't stop. Keep going, and if you need to have 582 00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 1: mini breaks along the way, just make sure that they're 583 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 1: effective breaks. They recharge your batteries, reinspire you and reinvigorate 584 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 1: you to get back on your debt free journey, and 585 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 1: keep going. Don't stop until you are completely debt free, 586 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,439 Speaker 1: and the moment you're debt free, set up a separate 587 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 1: emergency savings account so that you never ever get into 588 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 1: debt again. Make sure that you have the correct amount 589 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 1: of emergency money in place. And for people who thinking, 590 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,120 Speaker 1: hang on, can I how much emergency money do I need? 591 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 1: We'll grab a copy of Mindful Money, because I just 592 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 1: share with you exactly how to work out the right 593 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 1: amount of emergency money for you and build that up 594 00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 1: and think about the next funcial goals beyond that. Your 595 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:56,880 Speaker 1: fincial situation is always evolving and growing. There are always 596 00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,800 Speaker 1: opportunities around you, and you always have a choice, So 597 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 1: embrace being debt free. I promise you will never regret 598 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 1: it and you will feel so much better about yourself. 599 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: All right, everyone, thank you so much for listening to 600 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 1: Sugar Mama's fire Play podcast. If you have a spare moment, 601 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 1: I would greatly appreciate it if you could leave a 602 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 1: rating and a review, and of course, please feel free 603 00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 1: to send this podcast to anyone you know that needs 604 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,800 Speaker 1: to hear it, who is living a life in debt 605 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,800 Speaker 1: and wants to do something about it and knows enough 606 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 1: is enough. All right, everyone, have a fantastic weak ahead, 607 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 1: and don't forget to make sure you're following me on 608 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,400 Speaker 1: Instagram at Trigamma tv and of course at Canna Campbell 609 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,960 Speaker 1: Official if you'd like to see what I'm up to 610 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 1: in my normal, everyday life juggling children and pregnancy and 611 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: Giuseppe and my crazy nutcase hoard a partner Tom and 612 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 1: of course the capsual Wardrobe Fashion, where I try and 613 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 1: share with you as many pre loved outfits as possible, 614 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 1: as well as we're in beauty hacks. All right, everyone 615 00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 1: enjoy the weak Ahead, lovely speaking and connecting with you. 616 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,880 Speaker 1: See you next Monday. For more podcasts, Choo for now,