1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:02,400 Speaker 1: I get a team. It's Harps, it's the U Projects. 2 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: Sally O'Connell and I go way back. She's a friend 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:08,480 Speaker 1: of mine from the nineties. She's that old. She's not 4 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:10,959 Speaker 1: as old as me because I was a grown up 5 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: at the time when I first met her. She was 6 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: in school, she was an athlete, she was a student, 7 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 1: she was a triathlete, she was a bunch of things. 8 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 1: And I'm going to tell you that we started this 9 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 1: very podcast about ten minutes ago and then fuck something 10 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 1: up significant, So we went rather than try and edit 11 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 1: out that very messy fuck up. And we're not even 12 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 1: going to say who, but one of us may have 13 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:40,239 Speaker 1: prematurely announced someone's death. Haha. We were talking about a 14 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: person who we will not mention, and Sale said I 15 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: think they died when I didn't know that, and then 16 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: I checked and they didn't. So here we are version 17 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: two high sal. 18 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 2: Oh wow, what a start. But it just feels like 19 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 2: old times. Craig always a laugh, always able to turn 20 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 2: perhaps a you know, a situation into something positive. So yeah, 21 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 2: great to be here and reminisce when we first met, 22 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:09,919 Speaker 2: when I was a kid training at your first personal 23 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 2: training gym. 24 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you were a kid, you were like, what were 25 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: you seventeen years old or something? Yeah? Are you still 26 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: We're going to jump all over the joint today and 27 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: people will meet you and know who you are soon enough. 28 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:26,119 Speaker 1: But you still look very fit, and you like last 29 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: time I saw you was And people say shit like this, 30 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: but they don't mean it. I actually mean it. You 31 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: look about as old as last time I saw you, 32 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: which was maybe twenty years ago, which is very annoying 33 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 1: because I currently look like my grandfather, which is fucking annoying. 34 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: How often do you work out? 35 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 2: Now? 36 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: What's your protocol? 37 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 2: It's so funny, like exercise has just been ingrained in 38 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 2: me since I was a kid, so it's been always 39 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 2: part of my life and I've continued to experiment with 40 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 2: different things. But I've always done something runnings probably as 41 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 2: you know, It's always been probably my main passion and 42 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 2: probably the thing I've been the best at. Even when 43 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 2: I did triathlon, I was better at the running than 44 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 2: the riding and the swimming. So I definitely still run. 45 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:15,359 Speaker 2: I've done I've done marathons over the years. I've actually 46 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 2: just signed up for Sydney Marathon which is at the 47 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 2: end of August. But I haven't done one for nine years, 48 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 2: so that's a big step up from what I what 49 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 2: I've been doing typically, but I've done you know, really, 50 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 2: to be honest, Craig, when I left working with you 51 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 2: at Harper's and personal training and lifting weights, and if 52 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 2: you remember, we did a lot of weight training, and 53 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 2: you know, I was pretty I guess back then strong 54 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 2: for a female. I got sicker gyms and lifting weights, 55 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 2: so I kind of gave that, left that all behind 56 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 2: and did more things like running and pilates and yoga, 57 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 2: and I walk a lot. I often I often use 58 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: exercise for even for meetings where I'll meet people and 59 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 2: go for a run or a walk because it's a 60 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 2: good double use of time. You sort of kill two birds. 61 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's still very fit, still a big part 62 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 2: of my life. It's probably my one non negotiable because 63 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 2: it translates really to everything else for me, you know, 64 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 2: my mental health, my energy, all those sorts of things. 65 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 2: So it's just something I'll continue to do for as 66 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 2: long as my body allows me to. 67 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 1: And I think, you know, apart from all that, like 68 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 1: your brain works better, you're a better communicator, you get 69 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 1: stressed less. I mean, you still get stressed, but you 70 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: tend to manage emotional and psychological shit better when your 71 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: body's in better shape. People don't I mean people who 72 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: listen to me here this all the time. But I 73 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 1: think the general public doesn't really understand how strong the 74 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: relationship between psychology and physiology and emotion is. And if 75 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: your body is not in good shape, it's going to 76 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: affect how you think and how you feel. And if 77 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: your emotions are not in good shape, it's going to 78 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: affect how you think, and if physiology and if your 79 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: mind's not in good shape, same you know, So it's this, 80 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: it's this kind of three component system and everything affects 81 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 1: everything all the time. 82 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I know you like you've never it's 83 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 2: probably been similar for you, non negotiable, and you know 84 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 2: your strength training because you know it does actually even 85 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 2: your confidence, and you know all those sorts of things 86 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 2: like there's you know, our whole lives have been about 87 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 2: health and wellness and fitness. I mean, you've made a 88 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 2: living out of, you know, writing your books and podcasts 89 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 2: and training people and training trainers to train people, and 90 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 2: you know, there's a lot of knowledge that you've passed 91 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 2: on to so many of us over the years. 92 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 3: So yeah, it's a big part. 93 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 2: It's my non negotiable and I'll sacrifice sleep for it, 94 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 2: you know, I'll sacrifice family time for it. I mean 95 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 2: that to sound wrong, but for me, I know I'm 96 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 2: better with my family if I get that time in 97 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 2: my day to exercise. And I'm not obsessive perhaps like 98 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 2: I have been in periods when you knew me, Like, 99 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 2: I'm not no means obsessive. You know, my diet's clean, 100 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 2: but I don't obsess a lot less about that than 101 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 2: perhaps I have in my younger years, where I was 102 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 2: a lot, probably a lot more obsessive about what I 103 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:13,919 Speaker 2: put into my body. 104 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 3: I don't worry about that now. 105 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 2: That said, I'm very in tune and I still like 106 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 2: to keep up to date with you know, what's going on, 107 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 2: and as you would know, you know, there's a lot 108 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 2: of I guess now discussion around your gut health and 109 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 2: you know, the intermitt fasting and not just the impact 110 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 2: that has on your physical body, but also your longevity. 111 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 2: And now we you know, longevity is now something that 112 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 2: I guess I'm more concerned about how do I continue 113 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 2: to be health, to be well, and to continue to 114 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 2: have it, you know, a really active life, because you 115 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 2: know you do. You start to see people that you 116 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 2: love around you that haven't looked after themselves, that you 117 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 2: know that then experience ill health. And as you know, 118 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 2: if we haven't got our health, then everything else becomes, 119 00:05:58,880 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 2: you know, extremely different. 120 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, it puts I mean, health is the big perspective giver. 121 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: You kind of realize when you get sick or when 122 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: someone that you love gets sick. And we all know 123 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 1: this it's a bit cliche, but like, if you haven't 124 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 1: got your health, you haven't got much right And yeah, 125 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:19,479 Speaker 1: I've yeah, I've had a bunch of people around me 126 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: die over the last few years, people that I love. 127 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: I've had people that I care about get sick. One 128 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:27,479 Speaker 1: of my friends who I still see three times a week, 129 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: he had a horrendous accident and he they said he'd die. 130 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 1: And then they said, well, if he doesn't die, which 131 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 1: he will, but if he doesn't, he'll be a quadriplegic. 132 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 1: And you know, I have no cognitive function. And anyway, 133 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 1: he pulled through and I started training him five months 134 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: after his accident in a wheelchair. And my listeners know 135 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: this story about John, but every time I see him, 136 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 1: and now he can walk with sticks and he can talk, 137 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:54,359 Speaker 1: and his brain's not bad. You know, he's got a 138 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: traumatic brain injury and a spinal cord injury. But he's 139 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: a fucking weapon, you know. And you just when I 140 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 1: look at him, and I spend time with him, and 141 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 1: I don't know when I'm somewhat captivated with him, because 142 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: he just he has shit going on that I don't. 143 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 1: I don't think I could cope with. I don't think 144 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 1: I'm as good as him. I don't think I'm as 145 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 1: resilient as him. I'd like to think I am, but 146 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 1: I think I'm full of shit. I think if I 147 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: had had happened what he did, I might have fallen 148 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: apart right. And I look at him and I think, 149 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 1: when I spend time with people who've got real adversity, 150 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: sell not bullshit adversity, which is I'm not talking about 151 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 1: anyone particular. But you know, sometimes I get caught up 152 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 1: in my own problems and then I meet someone with 153 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: a real problem, and then my higher self goes shut 154 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: the fuck up, like you don't have any problems like 155 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: you have you have, you have one out of ten 156 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: minor issues, and you act like you've got a nine 157 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: and a half out of ten problems. 158 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 2: So I think people like give you perspective. And like 159 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 2: I was thinking, like, as you're telling that, but how did. 160 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 3: That make you feel? 161 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 2: Where you were part of his recovery and actually not 162 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 2: believing what they told him his life and future was 163 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 2: going to be, and say, well, you know, to use 164 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 2: your language. 165 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 3: You know if that I'm not going to do that, 166 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 3: I'm going to actually buck what you're saying and do this. 167 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 3: And I think absolutely gives you perspective. And I'm the same. 168 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I have probably a low tolerance for people 169 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 2: that you know, probably complain about things that are first 170 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 2: world problems and you know, the light because I think 171 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 2: I've seen too much people that there's so much tragedy 172 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 2: in people's lives and you wonder how they get on. 173 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 3: And that does give you perspective. 174 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 2: And I'm lucky you knows as tough as parts of 175 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 2: my life have been since you and I knew each other, well, 176 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 2: you know, it's all part of your learnings and it's 177 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:50,679 Speaker 2: what makes you stronger and you get the perspective. 178 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 3: But yeah, it's it's. 179 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 2: Definitely again part of what I guess since you know 180 00:08:57,800 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 2: you learn along the way, and your biggest learning is 181 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 2: usually come from your hardest challengers. But yeah, definitely feel 182 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 2: fortunate that I really haven't had a lot of that 183 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,319 Speaker 2: very tough tragedy in my personal life. 184 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 3: I've seen it around him like you have. 185 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean for me working with him and people 186 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: like him. This sounds a going cliche, but I don't care. 187 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: It's like it's a gift, Like he's given me more 188 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 1: than I've given him, Like I've given him some knowledge 189 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 1: and some time and some love. But he's just like 190 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: he makes me see things differently, Like he never has 191 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 1: I mean never, not one day a year does he 192 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: have a pain free day. So he's in constant chronic pain. 193 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: So it's not a matter of if he's in pain, 194 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 1: it's just what number out of ten? And so when 195 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 1: he says I'm an eight out of ten pain, that 196 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 1: for me would probably be a twenty out of ten. Right. 197 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 1: But when he comes to the gym and he walks 198 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 1: in with his sticks and it takes him, you know, 199 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 1: two minutes to walk twenty feet, and you know I 200 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: have to lift him up and down off benches, or 201 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: at least the very least help him hold him, but 202 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 1: his he never complains when I go, you know, what's 203 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 1: what's the pain level? And He'll give me a number 204 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, all right, well do you want 205 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 1: to still train? He goes, I'm here, and I go 206 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: all right, fucking hell, you know, all right? And yeah, 207 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: he teaches me more than I teach him, especially when 208 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: it comes to just you know, shutting the fuck up 209 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 1: and don't overthink things. And it's like, very much. I 210 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:44,959 Speaker 1: just had a conversation with doctor Jody Richardson, who's a psychologist, 211 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: and we're talking about or who specializes PhD, who specialize 212 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: things in anxiety, but we're talking about literally, well what's 213 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: in your control and what's not? You know, So what's 214 00:10:56,600 --> 00:11:00,559 Speaker 1: he can't wake up tomorrow without a spinal call injury 215 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: or a traumatic brain injury. He can't. So every day 216 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 1: he goes, well, this is what I have. I've got 217 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 1: a spinal cord injury. I've got a brain injury. He's 218 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 1: got a bag, he's got a catheter. He can't we 219 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 1: he can't pooh. Normally, he's like his life. I'm sorry 220 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: if this upsets anyone, but this is the reality of 221 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:25,320 Speaker 1: his life. His life is fucking hard, but he never 222 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 1: once says, jeez, my life's hard. And for me, I 223 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: love being around that because you know, I'm spoiled. I'm 224 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 1: an only child. I grew up in relative privilege, like 225 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: I'm a big fucking baby. I need to be around that, 226 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: you know. So for me, that stuff is a gift. Hey, 227 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to hit the pause button then tell you 228 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:46,200 Speaker 1: something just because I looked it up while you were 229 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 1: talking about running marathons. Did you know that bloke broke 230 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:54,319 Speaker 1: broke the world half marathon record? Are you? Gan? And 231 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 1: dude whose name escapes me and I'm looking at it's 232 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: not written here, but anyway, listen to this. He ran 233 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:04,079 Speaker 1: a half marathon. Now, remember everyone, this is twenty one 234 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:06,679 Speaker 1: point one case, have a guess at his time, So 235 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:08,200 Speaker 1: have a guess. 236 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 3: Okay, marathon. He broke the record. So I'm going to 237 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 3: say it sounds outrageous, but like under an hour or something. Stupid. 238 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: Yep, fifty six forty two. 239 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't drive my car that fast. 240 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: Crank fifty six. Now, for people who don't and that's 241 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: of course, that's that's normal. But for people who don't 242 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: understand what that means, that is fucking ridiculous, Like he 243 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 1: broke the pre Now, normally a record like that, generally 244 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 1: it's not going to be beaten, hardly of it. But 245 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 1: I mean the previous world record was fifty seven thirty. 246 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: This dude beat the world record by forty eight seconds, 247 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:55,959 Speaker 1: which is. 248 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 3: That's like a five hundred meters Like no, it's. 249 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: Like, well, at that pace, it's probably three four hundred. 250 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 1: It's at least three hundred metres. But anyway, yeah, crazy. 251 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 1: So now, now what we didn't touch on because we 252 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 1: did in the first podcast that we fucked up, is 253 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 1: that is it you? So you started training with me 254 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 1: when you were a kid, and then when you were 255 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 1: still relatively a kid, you were you started working as 256 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 1: a trainer at my place at Harper's when personal training 257 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 1: was just becoming a thing. What do you what do 258 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: you remember about that? 259 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 2: Well, you were you were the trailblazer around saying I've 260 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:47,719 Speaker 2: seen this personal training, you know, not having gym memberships, 261 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 2: but I'm going to go and have a private studio. 262 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 2: There's no such thing as a membership. You can't just 263 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 2: come in and use the equipment. It's actually one on 264 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 2: one appointments. And yeah, you you you kind of created 265 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 2: it here as far as we knew, I mean, a 266 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:05,959 Speaker 2: real trail blazer. And again, I guess I was very 267 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 2: attracted to, you know, what you were trying to do. 268 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 2: So I think you know, you saw some maybe a 269 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 2: bit of ambition in me wanting to be good at 270 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:18,560 Speaker 2: triathlon and sort of said I'll help train you. And 271 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 2: I think in a way, you know, you did that 272 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 2: out of probably more just being generous than me even 273 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 2: paying you are curring any comfort. But it was very 274 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 2: aspirational at the time as well. So you know, I 275 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 2: think the people that used to come it was it 276 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 2: was almost like, you know, only the really wealthy sort 277 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 2: of families we knew could come along and have a trainer. 278 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 2: And yeah, you created this really awesome culture where there 279 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 2: was a flow of trainers. We're all trainers, we're all friends. 280 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 2: You know, we had one on one appointments with our clients. 281 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 2: There's a lot of interaction between the trainers and the 282 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 2: clients and each other's clients that there. 283 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 3: Was a whole community around it. 284 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 2: And it was a really like I look back on 285 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 2: that part of my life and it was foundational to 286 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 2: so many other things. When I reflect, many friendships there 287 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 2: was a marriage for me in there as you know, 288 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 2: you know, there was a. 289 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 3: Lot of stuff over those years. 290 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 2: But yeah, like for me, you were very influential, probably 291 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 2: as one of my first bosses. 292 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 1: Really, it's funny I think now, sal about the shit 293 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:22,119 Speaker 1: that went on that we couldn't even mention. 294 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 3: Right, No, you remember that shit that went on? Oh 295 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 3: there was so social media then, Craig. 296 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 1: I mean I wouldn't have had a career. I mean, 297 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: there was so much inappropriate shit that went on, and 298 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 1: might I say, quite often by the clients, not by me. 299 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if you remember. I don't know if 300 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: you remember what happened at my thirtieth birthday one of 301 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 1: the clients organized Oh fuck it, I'm just going to 302 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: say it. I didn't organize this. One of my clients 303 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: organized Miss Nude Australia to come in to the gym, right, 304 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: And I firstly you might think, I'm like, I one 305 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 1: hundred percent did not want that. And the lady, it 306 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 1: was a lady who organized it. Could you imagine that? 307 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 1: Now this was nineteen ninety was it, no, nineteen ninety three, Well, 308 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 1: well yeah. 309 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 3: It would have been ninety two ninety three. 310 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 1: That was then well ninety three. I was born in 311 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 1: sixty three, so it was ninety three, right, Yeah, I'm like, 312 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 1: all I could think about was, fuck, this is it. 313 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 1: This is the end of my business. This is the 314 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 1: end of my career, like imagine hr and I'm I'm 315 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 1: I hated every second of it. But what was funny 316 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 1: was it was primarily I thin fact, it was like 317 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 1: nine point thirty in the morning. I think it was 318 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 1: pretty much all ladies in the gym. I'm sure the 319 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 1: response would be different now, but they thought it was 320 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 1: fucking hilarious. 321 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 3: Oh we did. 322 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 2: And like what you said, it's just society's move too, 323 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 2: because the things we used to say across the floor, Yes, 324 00:16:57,640 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 2: but we all came from a good place. No one 325 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 2: meanted any harm on anyone. It was funny and at 326 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:05,879 Speaker 2: the time, it was okay at the time, and you know, 327 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 2: fortunately we've grown up and we're aware that society's expectations 328 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 2: have moved and some of those things we said we 329 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:12,880 Speaker 2: can no longer say. 330 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:16,200 Speaker 3: But we're all still friends. Like you know, there was 331 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 3: no harm, no one was harmed. 332 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 1: It's good speak yourself. I have and grown up all right, 333 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 1: So we'll jump around a little bit. But you recently 334 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 1: got a new gig, which congratulations. You are the CEO 335 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 1: of Abercrombie's. What is Abercrombie's. 336 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 2: So Abercrombie's is a real estate firm based in Melbourne. 337 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 2: So we've got one office in Amada in Melbourne and 338 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 2: about thirty five staff and we pretty much sell luxury, 339 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 2: prestigious residential real estate. So it's a twenty year old 340 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 2: business founded by a three people that sort of left 341 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 2: I guess competing firms at the time, and they've built 342 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 2: this wonderful business and I've got to know, I guess 343 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 2: the directors aboard. I've been in the industry now for 344 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 2: sort of I guess, you know, coming onto fifteen odd 345 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 2: years in different roles, and I've cut my teeth on 346 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:15,880 Speaker 2: some pretty challenging roles to get myself here. 347 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 3: But yeah, it's a really good for me. 348 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 1: You know. 349 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 2: I've worked hard to allow myself the opportunities of something 350 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:27,120 Speaker 2: like this, and I'm. 351 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:29,440 Speaker 3: Here to help you help grow the business. 352 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 2: I guess, you know, real estate, like all the industries, 353 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:35,240 Speaker 2: are being disrupted by many things all the time. So 354 00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 2: I'm going to take all my learnings from my banking 355 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 2: days and selling real estate myself, and I've been in 356 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 2: sort of different sides of the real estate industry and 357 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 2: different roles, you know, for some very good companies where 358 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:49,640 Speaker 2: I've learned a lot and try and sort of take 359 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 2: a lot of those learnings, and you know, right back 360 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:54,680 Speaker 2: to the learnings of you know, how to keep myself 361 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 2: fit and healthy and mentally strong because it all applies. 362 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 2: But yeah, acted me mostly creative the people, and I 363 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:05,680 Speaker 2: reflect on my career, you know, over the years since 364 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:08,119 Speaker 2: I was a personal trainer, you know, I made a 365 00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:11,439 Speaker 2: transition into finance, banking and finance and you know, in 366 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:14,120 Speaker 2: the corporate world for many many years, and and then 367 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,679 Speaker 2: you know, was able to transition that into the real 368 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 2: estate industry and roles within real estate industry, both on the. 369 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 3: Corporate side but also in the in the I guess the. 370 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:29,679 Speaker 2: Business side, and you know, I guess for me, so 371 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 2: much of what I apply every day, you know, comes 372 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 2: back to looking after the people and myself, because I 373 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:38,720 Speaker 2: think that's how you get the best out of people. 374 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 1: It's to me. It seems I've actually done a lot 375 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 1: of gigs in real estate, but not not with you obviously, but. 376 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 3: Different we might have to book one in Graig well, what. 377 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 1: I mean is often at conferences. But I've done I've 378 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:56,439 Speaker 1: done individual ones. In fact, I did a year. I 379 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 1: won't say who, but I did a whole year with 380 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:03,919 Speaker 1: real estate group, and every month I would turn up 381 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 1: and I would do So I've done lots of work 382 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:08,360 Speaker 1: with real estate. But for me, I think I think 383 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 1: lots of industries Now, don't yell at meself, just let 384 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 1: me get it out. I think lots of industries have 385 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:16,639 Speaker 1: can have a bit of a brand problem or a 386 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,880 Speaker 1: little bit of I think people don't necessarily trust people 387 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 1: who sell shit right, And so I think the challenge 388 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 1: is how do we sell shit with integrity? And how 389 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 1: do we be authentic and honest and real. And of 390 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 1: course we've still got to make profit. We've still got 391 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 1: to we've got to meet, you know, the the client's 392 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 1: needs all round. But yeah, I think it's a tough 393 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:49,719 Speaker 1: industry because even me, if I'm going to go buy something, 394 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 1: I'm wary. I don't like, I don't I trust pretty slowly, 395 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:56,280 Speaker 1: and I assume that ninety percent of what's coming out 396 00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 1: of old mate's mouth is probably bullshit or a version 397 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 1: of bullshit. And so how do you how do you 398 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 1: how do you bring that together where you sell shit 399 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:10,359 Speaker 1: and everyone knows you've got to make profit, which is cool, 400 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 1: but you're not seen as the seen as the sleazy, scammy, slimy, 401 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,199 Speaker 1: fucking sales at all cost person. 402 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, look, it's it's a it is a huge dilemma 403 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 2: in the industry and unfortunately it does have a bad name, 404 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:29,240 Speaker 2: and for good reason, because you know, there is people 405 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 2: within the industry that have you know, potentially treated people. 406 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,639 Speaker 3: To the point that they do feel like it's a 407 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 3: bit sleezy. 408 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 2: And you know, it's very much transactional, and so it 409 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 2: is a challenge and even for me personally. When I 410 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 2: left you a corporate you know, well establed, like well 411 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 2: regarded like McCrory bank, you know, great brand, aspirational, well 412 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:52,720 Speaker 2: respected by most people. In fact, you just sort of 413 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:54,400 Speaker 2: had to say you work at McCrory and people think 414 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:57,640 Speaker 2: you're smart, like it was a really good good name 415 00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 2: to have on your CV. 416 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:01,679 Speaker 1: Help, I work at Macquarie. Thanks for that. 417 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 2: Real estate is quite the opposite, and there's there is 418 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 2: a real stigma. So you know, you often have this 419 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,159 Speaker 2: almost personal sort of you know, in a dialogue of 420 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 2: dilemma of going well you know, I don't want people 421 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:18,359 Speaker 2: seeing me as like another dodgy kind of real estate agent, 422 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 2: and that's you know, sort of reflecting probably more on me. 423 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:25,359 Speaker 2: But to answer your question, yeah, the industry does have 424 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 2: not the best reputation. I think if you looked at 425 00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 2: people on the trust spectrum, you know, we're probably at 426 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 2: the very bottom. If not, you know, it's from car 427 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 2: sales people like, we're kind of down. 428 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:40,679 Speaker 3: There, so it's not great. 429 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:44,439 Speaker 2: But to answer your question, what attracted me to this 430 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,639 Speaker 2: business and the people is I do see them as 431 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 2: the quality ones with integrity. 432 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:52,119 Speaker 3: You know, I really am. 433 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 2: For all my learnings of all the jobs I've had 434 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 2: and the people I've worked with and the like. It's 435 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:01,640 Speaker 2: the people that you were with that really determine whether 436 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 2: you are going to be successful there or not, and 437 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 2: whether you are going to have I guess, a successful 438 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 2: relationship working with them, because if you are, you know, 439 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 2: surrounded by dodgy agents who are dickheads, then you know, 440 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 2: again no one's going to like that wouldn't serve me. 441 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:21,440 Speaker 2: So our brand does stand for you know, I guess 442 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 2: in the market, not through anything other than the word 443 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:28,440 Speaker 2: of mouth and the reputation of repeat and referral business 444 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:31,639 Speaker 2: because if you do do the right thing, you are 445 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 2: seen as oh wow, that's refreshing. 446 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 3: There's an agent that actually. 447 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:39,200 Speaker 2: Has has told me, you know, told me with transparency 448 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:42,159 Speaker 2: what's going on, and has treated me well and has 449 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:44,640 Speaker 2: understood my position and the stress of you know, selling, 450 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 2: you know, selling real estate stressful. 451 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 3: The industry can look very glamorous and you know, there's 452 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:51,160 Speaker 3: a very. 453 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:54,120 Speaker 2: Thin veneer though, between a real estate agent their flashy 454 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 2: car and their watch and actually the job itself, which 455 00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 2: can be quite challenging and difficult. 456 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:00,680 Speaker 3: And I think you'd be interested in this. 457 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:04,919 Speaker 2: Like you know, even I'm on the board of Rise Initiative, 458 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:08,439 Speaker 2: which is designed around supporting the mental wellness of the 459 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:13,199 Speaker 2: industry because the industry actually over indexes on anxiety and 460 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 2: mental health issues because of the way society sees them, 461 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:20,880 Speaker 2: because of rejection, because of the way they're paid. Because 462 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,879 Speaker 2: you can actually put in hours and hours and years 463 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 2: of work and still not even earn minimum wage. So 464 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 2: there's a lot of challenge that comes with it. It's 465 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 2: a low barrier to entry. So again the quality of 466 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,439 Speaker 2: the people that enter the industry, you know, they're not 467 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 2: as well educated. 468 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 3: Often they haven't been to. 469 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 2: They haven't finished school, or they haven't had tertiary education, 470 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 2: or they haven't really worked inside any other environment. So 471 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 2: you know, there's a bit of a lower barrier instry, 472 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:50,840 Speaker 2: so the quality can then be obviously compared to people 473 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 2: that have continued to have professional development through their working lives. 474 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,880 Speaker 2: So many many factors, but one I'm very passionate about. 475 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 2: And I think there is good people within the industry, 476 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,640 Speaker 2: and you know, you will rise. 477 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,919 Speaker 3: To the top if you do the right thing, and 478 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:06,919 Speaker 3: you'll have a long career. 479 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:11,119 Speaker 2: And you know, again it's a relationship business at the 480 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:14,000 Speaker 2: end of the day, so selling, you know, becomes I 481 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 2: guess secondary to building great relationships with people that do 482 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 2: actually trust what You've got to. 483 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 1: Say, Yeah, I bought a car years ago. Do you 484 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 1: remember Rick Wallaney? 485 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 486 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, sadly Rick passed away, God bless, But I 487 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 1: used to buy cars off Rick. Rick owned a bunch 488 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 1: of car dealerships, and then I started dealing with another 489 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 1: guy called Ben and I bought anyway, I ended up 490 00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 1: buying I reckon over the years, which this is an 491 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,400 Speaker 1: indictment on me, but I've probably bought ten cars off 492 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 1: Ben right, And the reason I buy cars off. Ben 493 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,399 Speaker 1: is not because he sells the cars that I want necessarily, 494 00:25:56,000 --> 00:26:02,160 Speaker 1: but because he is honest. Now I've told this probably 495 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 1: once or twice, so apologies, but not the last time. 496 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 1: But I don't know. Maybe fifteen years ago I bought 497 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 1: from him, and I bought my mum three cars for him. 498 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:17,880 Speaker 1: I bought my dad a calf through him, Mum through him. 499 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 1: I bought a Toyota Prato, right, just a bloody regular Toyota, right. 500 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: And I rang him up and I went, you know, 501 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:28,840 Speaker 1: this is what I want. And he goes, what color? 502 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 1: What do you want on it? And I gave him 503 00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:32,160 Speaker 1: all the shit and he goes, what's the best price 504 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:35,680 Speaker 1: you've got because he knows all right, ring around and anyway, 505 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:37,640 Speaker 1: he goes, all right, I ring you back in a minute, 506 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,680 Speaker 1: and he rings me back five minutes later and he goes, yeah, 507 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 1: I can do it for X, which was about five 508 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:47,640 Speaker 1: thousand dollars cheaper than the absolute best. Right. Then he goes, 509 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,160 Speaker 1: when do you want it? And I go when can 510 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,160 Speaker 1: I have it? Now? He was in Werribee and I said, well, 511 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 1: I can't get out there in the next few days 512 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 1: because I'm up to my eyeballs with one thousand things. 513 00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,439 Speaker 1: He goes, oh, I'll put it on a truck. I'll 514 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:01,760 Speaker 1: get it to you. Is that all right? So I 515 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:05,000 Speaker 1: go sure, So he sends me the truck, sends me 516 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 1: the prato on a truck. The next day, the guy 517 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 1: comes in, gives me the paperwork, gives me the keys, 518 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:18,919 Speaker 1: and goes. And then the person who then ran my life. 519 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 1: I think it was Kim, who was my then PA 520 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:27,199 Speaker 1: person business manager. She paid all the bills and did 521 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 1: all that shit anyway, like bibbity Bobby Boo, got my 522 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 1: new car done. And then about two months later I 523 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:37,400 Speaker 1: said to I think it was Kim. I can't even 524 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,639 Speaker 1: remember why, but I just went maybe I looked at 525 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,160 Speaker 1: the bank balance and there was more money than I thought, right. 526 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 1: I said, we paid for the prato, right, and she's 527 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 1: like no. I'm like, so I had this car for 528 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:54,560 Speaker 1: two months that I didn't pay for and I owned 529 00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 1: it right, but I hadn't paid the bill. And I 530 00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,680 Speaker 1: rang him and I went, here you go, and he's 531 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 1: like and he goes, how the prato. I go, the 532 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 1: prato is amazing. He goes, well, why are you bring men? 533 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 1: Do you want something else? I go no, He goes, 534 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 1: what's wrong. I go, I haven't paid you for the prato. 535 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 1: He's like, oh, so pay I'm like, okay, all right. 536 00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:22,959 Speaker 1: He goes anything else nah see yah. Like that's what 537 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:23,440 Speaker 1: I love. 538 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,439 Speaker 3: Like complete, standout, complete, And I know that. 539 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:30,439 Speaker 1: Of course, people have got to make money. I know 540 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,120 Speaker 1: you're making money on me. I don't resent that, of course, 541 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,280 Speaker 1: but there's just a way. It's like when I go 542 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 1: and do a corporate gig. I'm not doing it for free, 543 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 1: like a costs a lot. But what I want to 544 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 1: do is I want to underpromise and over deliver. I 545 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 1: want to if you pay X, I want to give 546 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 1: you five X value. So you go, yeah, we paid 547 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:53,960 Speaker 1: a fair bit for Craig, but fucking hell he was amazing. 548 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 1: Let's get him back. 549 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 3: Correct. 550 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 1: That's what I want to do. I mean. And whether 551 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:03,840 Speaker 1: or not you're selling cars, houses, corporate speaking, fucking widgets, 552 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:08,560 Speaker 1: you know, pizzas, whatever you're selling, I think that even 553 00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:12,640 Speaker 1: if it's an expensive product, people can still see it 554 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 1: as great value if the service around it is phenomenal. 555 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 3: Couldn't agree more. I couldn't agree more. 556 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 2: And to actually build that reputation where you know, within 557 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 2: the industry, where there is a sea of average and 558 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 2: ordinary and bad experiences. The sad part is, Craig, it's 559 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,440 Speaker 2: actually not that hard to stand out and do the 560 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:36,720 Speaker 2: right thing and get referrals and get people talking about 561 00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 2: you like, you know, like you saw. 562 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:39,120 Speaker 3: You know. 563 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 2: I guess the you know a lot of the media 564 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 2: of me coming here. What that's done for me, you know, 565 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:48,480 Speaker 2: because the relationships that I've built LinkedIn is an amazing thing. 566 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 2: But the rightships I've built over the thirty years of 567 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:53,400 Speaker 2: working in different you know, with in different companies, in 568 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 2: different industries and all those things. 569 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 3: And I've never really burned a bridge. 570 00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 2: I've always been done the right thing by the company, 571 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 2: you know, by the people, because that's just something that's 572 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,800 Speaker 2: the way I am. But that comes back to you 573 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 2: because people then go, oh my god, Sally, she's great. 574 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 2: You've got to talk to her about selling your house, 575 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,280 Speaker 2: you know, that type of thing, and that's the sort 576 00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,520 Speaker 2: of business that you want to create, so that everything 577 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 2: you said, it's less selling, it's actually just building great 578 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,560 Speaker 2: relationships with people, doing the right thing, having good integrity. 579 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 2: And then look, you can't control what's going on in 580 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 2: the market. You can't control what's happening with interest rates 581 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,160 Speaker 2: like that is out of an agent's control. 582 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 3: You know, we can't the forces of the. 583 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 2: Market and people feeling like they didn't get what their 584 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:38,200 Speaker 2: house was worth, or you know, buyers feeling like they 585 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,959 Speaker 2: had to overpay and the agent you know, told assists 586 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 2: and it was this. 587 00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 3: And all those things. Like a lot of that's out 588 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:44,479 Speaker 3: of our control. 589 00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:46,640 Speaker 2: But unfortunately a lot of people like to sort of 590 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 2: blame the agent for when things don't go according to 591 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 2: what they thought should happen. 592 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 3: So again, it's really. 593 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 2: Important that you just maintain that, you know, those relationships 594 00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 2: so that that part doesn't actually become an issue because 595 00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:05,480 Speaker 2: you've been very transparent through the process. So it's yeah, 596 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 2: it's look, it's a it's a it's an industry that 597 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 2: has a lot of characters in it. 598 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 3: It's a lot of fun. It's not unlike personal training. 599 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 3: There's a lot of fun. There's a lot of banter. 600 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,000 Speaker 3: We work really hard, the team works really hard. It 601 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 3: is it is seven days a week. People expect to 602 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:20,680 Speaker 3: have your phone on all the time. 603 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 2: It does compromise a lot of agents that have families 604 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:24,480 Speaker 2: and their time. 605 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 3: They don't see the kids. 606 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 2: Sport on Saturdays, there's a lot of sacrifice that comes 607 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 2: with it. And the truth is that there's only a 608 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,520 Speaker 2: small percentage that do really, really well. When you see 609 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 2: it in the you know, the perception of looking outside 610 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 2: of looking in. Like I said, that sort of veneer 611 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:44,680 Speaker 2: of the flashiness and you know, the exraorberant commissions that 612 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 2: you can earn if you sell a really high value house. 613 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 2: It's a very small percentage of the industry. The majority 614 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,560 Speaker 2: of the industry are really hard working people, you know, 615 00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:56,360 Speaker 2: making you know, fairly sort of average average income. 616 00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:01,960 Speaker 1: If I'm a superstar cell not necessarily at Abercrombie's, So 617 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:02,920 Speaker 1: let's just generalize. 618 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,440 Speaker 3: I'm at employee Craig. Well, I think you've got good 619 00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 3: integrity'd be good for us. 620 00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,880 Speaker 1: I'll keep that in mind. If I've got if I'm 621 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 1: a superstar and i sell a ten million dollar house, 622 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 1: what's my commission give or take? 623 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 3: Probably roughly one percent at that price range, So. 624 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 1: One hundred grand yep, buckety fuck. Hey everybody, this is 625 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:29,560 Speaker 1: my last episode of the New Project. It's been great, 626 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 1: all the best over and out. You'll find me at 627 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 1: Abercrombie's from Monday. 628 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 2: And that's what that's what a lot of people see 629 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 2: and they're like, how how hard can that be? 630 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 3: I can do that. 631 00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,360 Speaker 2: It takes years often to get the ten million dollar listing, 632 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 2: or you can get really lucky and you could get 633 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 2: that in your first few years. But you know, most 634 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:51,760 Speaker 2: agents have committed to it for teen, twenty thirty years 635 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 2: and it's a long game, and it is it can 636 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 2: be very lucrative, but there's also a lot of agents 637 00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 2: that don't make a craig and there's a lot that 638 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 2: there's a lot of turnover in the industry because they 639 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 2: actually probably can't even make you know, ends meet to 640 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 2: make a living. So you've got the boat, you've actually 641 00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,800 Speaker 2: got the extremes, which isn't. 642 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:14,760 Speaker 1: Great, but the same mean anything like we think about it. 643 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:19,280 Speaker 1: You know, this is a very different level. But I 644 00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 1: remember fifteen years ago I had one particular client, or 645 00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:27,040 Speaker 1: Ion mentioned their name. Great client, not mentioning the name 646 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:34,040 Speaker 1: for any whereasons probably just not appropriate, but do I say, yeah, 647 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 1: fuck it. So this client, oh fifteen or nearly twenty 648 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 1: years ago, was paying two hundred and fifty bucks a 649 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:44,560 Speaker 1: workout and when everybody else was paying fifty dollars. And 650 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,120 Speaker 1: it wasn't because it was because I didn't really want 651 00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 1: to train people. Like I was at the point where 652 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 1: I'd done a million, and I'm like, I'm not training people. 653 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,960 Speaker 1: I'm doing corporate. I'd gone back to university, I was 654 00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:01,040 Speaker 1: lecturing at university. I've done stuff. I was, you know, 655 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,480 Speaker 1: writing books, i was writing for the heralds all this shit. 656 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 1: So I just made my hourly rate ridiculous really, not 657 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:10,120 Speaker 1: so that I would get paid that, I mean, it 658 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 1: was ridiculous back then, but so that people would go 659 00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:16,080 Speaker 1: and train with my trainers for fifty or sixty dollars 660 00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 1: rather than me. I'd go, look, you can do the 661 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 1: same workout in the same gym with someone who's really 662 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 1: fucking good. And some of them would still say no, 663 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:25,319 Speaker 1: I want you imber. 664 00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,160 Speaker 3: Some of them yeah. 665 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:32,400 Speaker 1: And I'm like, this is this is putting aside my ego. 666 00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:36,560 Speaker 1: But this is just really interesting from a psychological perspective 667 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:41,840 Speaker 1: and a perceived value perspective. Like the psychologist. 668 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:44,960 Speaker 2: Before, it's the perceived value, right, it's the scarcity. It's 669 00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 2: also the scarcity, and if people see the value, they're 670 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 2: prepared to pay that's ultimately like, again, you can't you 671 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:57,800 Speaker 2: can't buy twenty years of experience and research and knowledge 672 00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 2: and trial and error, and because you were trailblazer, right, 673 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:04,640 Speaker 2: you actually introduce things to people's health and fitness that 674 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,320 Speaker 2: no one else had done and it changed their lives. 675 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,320 Speaker 3: So two point fifty was probably cheap. 676 00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,879 Speaker 1: Well, I always say to people, I don't know about that, 677 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 1: But I say to people, you know, like every now 678 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 1: and then someone will reach out. I think a lot 679 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:26,120 Speaker 1: of people don't really obviously understand how much corporate speaking 680 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,359 Speaker 1: with good corporate speakers, someone who is a real deal, 681 00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,200 Speaker 1: lots of experience, lots of knowledge, lots of skill, they 682 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,960 Speaker 1: do a great job. They get good outcomes like how 683 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 1: much that is per hour? Right? And then every now 684 00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:40,520 Speaker 1: and then, you know, so if like Abercrombie's ring me 685 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,040 Speaker 1: up and go we want you to talk at our 686 00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,719 Speaker 1: app YEP, and I go at cost this, You're you're 687 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:47,319 Speaker 1: not going to fall up your chair. You're going to 688 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:50,359 Speaker 1: go Yeah, that kind of is about what we thought, right, 689 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:53,160 Speaker 1: But other people are like, are you fucking kidding me? 690 00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:56,680 Speaker 1: Because they don't really understand, right. And obviously, if it 691 00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 1: wasn't worth that, people wouldn't pay that, or if people 692 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:00,839 Speaker 1: didn't feel it was worth it, people wouldn't pay it. 693 00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,080 Speaker 1: But I always say you're not paying for an hour. 694 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:06,600 Speaker 1: You're paying for like forty years of forty years of knowledge, 695 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:11,080 Speaker 1: forty years of experience, You've read forty years of like, Yeah, 696 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 1: that's what you're getting. You're getting forty years of me 697 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 1: and all the shit that I've learned that I know, 698 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:20,480 Speaker 1: and my skill and my stories and my experience. That's 699 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,719 Speaker 1: what you're paying for. It's not it's a bit I understand. 700 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:26,759 Speaker 2: Both players get paid so much price money because they've 701 00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:28,719 Speaker 2: dedicated their whole lives to get to the top. 702 00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:35,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to talk quickly about or slowly. So 703 00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:37,400 Speaker 1: one of the things that I'm fascinated with, and one 704 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,279 Speaker 1: of the things that I actually talk about corporately a 705 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:47,960 Speaker 1: lot is relationships and communication and teamwork and culture. And 706 00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:50,839 Speaker 1: it's interesting because, like you said, back in the day 707 00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:54,839 Speaker 1: when you worked at Harper's, we had We certainly didn't 708 00:36:54,880 --> 00:37:00,000 Speaker 1: do everything right. We certainly looking back, but you can't 709 00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:02,479 Speaker 1: say that for the most part, for most of the time, 710 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 1: it wasn't a great culture. That was maybe the standout feature. 711 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 1: It was a great culture. It was fun, everyone wanted, 712 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,560 Speaker 1: Clients love being there, trainers love being there. It was 713 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:14,759 Speaker 1: an environment that we seem to thrive in. And so 714 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:18,360 Speaker 1: when I go into an environment that's toxic to me, 715 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,359 Speaker 1: it's like, oh my god, I only have to get 716 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,279 Speaker 1: four feet in the door, and I go, fuck, there's 717 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:27,760 Speaker 1: something about this joint that's not right. And then trying 718 00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:33,520 Speaker 1: to help the management slash leadership whoever that is, to 719 00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,960 Speaker 1: get their head around what a culture is and how 720 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,400 Speaker 1: to build it, because it's not like you can just 721 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 1: get three people to come in and build something in 722 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:44,759 Speaker 1: the corner and now we've got one. Because it's such 723 00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:50,920 Speaker 1: a multi dimensional thing, and it's about the boss or bosses. 724 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:54,640 Speaker 1: It's about the employees, it's about the rules and REGs, 725 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 1: it's about the environment. It's about so many things. And 726 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,160 Speaker 1: if I said to you, do you want a good culture? 727 00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 1: I'm sure you have one already, but do you want 728 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,439 Speaker 1: to have a great culture? Are you going to go yes? 729 00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 1: What can you do as the boss? Two? I guess 730 00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:19,799 Speaker 1: improve the culture, understand when things aren't working, and like 731 00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,640 Speaker 1: with that, putting aside the sale stuff and the bottom 732 00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:26,360 Speaker 1: line and the profitability and all that just for one moment, 733 00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:30,040 Speaker 1: focusing on the human stuff, the people stuff. How do 734 00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,719 Speaker 1: you navigate that or how do you consciously this is 735 00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:37,120 Speaker 1: the longest fucking question of all time, you know what 736 00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 1: I mean? Like the page, how do you do the 737 00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,920 Speaker 1: people stuff without getting nooses out of joint? 738 00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:48,560 Speaker 2: Well, I think it is a people thing, and I 739 00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:53,600 Speaker 2: think about from my experience of environments where it's been 740 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,880 Speaker 2: a great culture harpers versus a toxic culture. 741 00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 3: Which ultimately ended up in me leaving. 742 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:04,360 Speaker 2: So you kind of know, Okay, there's elements of culture 743 00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:07,919 Speaker 2: that I know I thrived in and I know brought 744 00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,360 Speaker 2: out the best in me and brought out the discussiony 745 00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:12,440 Speaker 2: effort and maybe want to turn up and do the 746 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,719 Speaker 2: extra because it is about trying to bring out the 747 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:17,960 Speaker 2: best in people as a leader. So what were things 748 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:20,799 Speaker 2: that I really enjoyed in my experiences and what can 749 00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 2: I bring from that to the team. And obviously there's 750 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,400 Speaker 2: new generations coming through and what I wanted could be 751 00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,520 Speaker 2: different to what they want now, So being aware of 752 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:31,279 Speaker 2: that number one, But also there is some there is 753 00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 2: some quick wins in there too, Craig, And yes, I 754 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,360 Speaker 2: am I was attracted to the role, but I was 755 00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 2: more attracted to the people and what I knew from 756 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,719 Speaker 2: an outside looking in. And obviously you don't know until 757 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:44,319 Speaker 2: you walk in and you can go for a job 758 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 2: interview and think it's amazing, and you can walk in 759 00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,319 Speaker 2: there and within a couple of weeks going what the 760 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:50,680 Speaker 2: hell have I done? And because of the cult, because 761 00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:53,200 Speaker 2: of the culture, or because of a toxic leader, or 762 00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:56,319 Speaker 2: whatever it might be. But I guess to me, it's 763 00:39:56,520 --> 00:40:00,279 Speaker 2: just understanding, because it's quite a small team still, it's 764 00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:02,960 Speaker 2: for me probably understanding where each of them are at 765 00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:06,160 Speaker 2: in their own personal careers, but also importantly where they 766 00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:09,000 Speaker 2: want to go, and then trying to create an environment 767 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,719 Speaker 2: that gives them a path of being able to get 768 00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 2: to where they want to grow, and you know, creating 769 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,600 Speaker 2: an energy around that. And I think one thing that 770 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:19,880 Speaker 2: has been feedback to me in the sort of the 771 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,320 Speaker 2: first few weeks here is they just love the energy 772 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,000 Speaker 2: that I bring in each day. And that's usually because 773 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 2: I've done my exercise, I've done what I need to do. 774 00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:29,280 Speaker 2: I come in, I'm ready to go, and you know, energy. 775 00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:32,040 Speaker 2: I think it is a bit of an energy game. 776 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,040 Speaker 2: And if you sort of come with high energy, then 777 00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,279 Speaker 2: that will help lift other people even if they walked 778 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 2: in and had a bad morning, how to fight with 779 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:40,239 Speaker 2: their partner and the crash their car, which I did 780 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 2: this week. You know, you're like, I didn't even want 781 00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,560 Speaker 2: to talk about that, so I won't talk about that. 782 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 3: But so, yeah, it's a long question. 783 00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 2: It's a long answer, and there's not a simple answer, 784 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,799 Speaker 2: but it is to me probably the primary focus. So 785 00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 2: for me to get a high performance team and for 786 00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:02,040 Speaker 2: us to actually do well and to have a profitable 787 00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:05,720 Speaker 2: business and successful business, my focus is on the people 788 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:07,959 Speaker 2: because I feel like if I can get the people 789 00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:10,439 Speaker 2: and the culture right, and I can get them not 790 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,479 Speaker 2: just surviving, but thriving and wanting to come to work 791 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,239 Speaker 2: and wanting to do that extra and you know what, 792 00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:18,120 Speaker 2: on Saturday and you finish your opens and your auctions 793 00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:20,279 Speaker 2: at midday and you can go out with all your 794 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,680 Speaker 2: friends who don't work Saturdays, or I can go back 795 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,560 Speaker 2: to the office and I can actually make another few 796 00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:25,120 Speaker 2: calls and I. 797 00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:27,399 Speaker 3: Can actually do that extra bit. How do I get 798 00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:28,160 Speaker 3: them to do that? 799 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,719 Speaker 2: Because that's going to get a little closer to where 800 00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,239 Speaker 2: they want to go, And they've told me where they 801 00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,839 Speaker 2: want to go, and I will hold, like I guess, 802 00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,920 Speaker 2: hold them to account to say, well, you told me 803 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:39,719 Speaker 2: you want to get there, but you're not doing the 804 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,000 Speaker 2: activities that are going to get you there, So let's 805 00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,040 Speaker 2: reevaluate what that looks like. 806 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:47,279 Speaker 3: So what do we need to do? The other part 807 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:48,279 Speaker 3: is just imparting. 808 00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:53,120 Speaker 2: You know. What I know keeps me mentally sharp and 809 00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 2: energetic is the exercise piece. So we've all signed up 810 00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:59,840 Speaker 2: for the Coast Track twenty twenty five. It's thirty k's. 811 00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:03,839 Speaker 2: It's not like it's easy. It's cross country. I took 812 00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:05,680 Speaker 2: a training session. You'd be proud of me. I took 813 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:07,359 Speaker 2: a training session. I'm like, I don't need to pay 814 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:08,320 Speaker 2: a personal trainer. 815 00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:09,759 Speaker 3: Two fifty an hour. I've got this. I know how 816 00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:10,200 Speaker 3: to do it. 817 00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,080 Speaker 2: I take a training session with them, so I'm trying 818 00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:14,520 Speaker 2: to prepare them for that. 819 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:16,280 Speaker 3: But it also is team building. 820 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:19,280 Speaker 2: We're walking, we're doing stairs, we're doing all the stuff 821 00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:21,520 Speaker 2: that we used to do. It hasn't changed that much 822 00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 2: to get people fit for a long you know, an enduranceer, 823 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:25,239 Speaker 2: then get them. 824 00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:27,600 Speaker 3: And you know this better than anyone. 825 00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:30,680 Speaker 2: When you walk and you talk to someone and you're 826 00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 2: looking forward, you tell them a lot more about yourself 827 00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 2: than when you're looking at them across the table. And 828 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:38,439 Speaker 2: so we're team building and we're bonding, and that will 829 00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,719 Speaker 2: help them because when we're going through this thirty ks. 830 00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:43,480 Speaker 2: There'll be some laggers that will have to drag and 831 00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:47,080 Speaker 2: help and team and support. And what was surprising, well not, 832 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,960 Speaker 2: what was really nice to see is that when I 833 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:51,120 Speaker 2: put it out there to say, who. 834 00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:51,839 Speaker 3: Wants to do this? 835 00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,880 Speaker 2: You know, I reckon. I've got eighty five percent of 836 00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:56,800 Speaker 2: the team that have signed up to do it. That 837 00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:58,719 Speaker 2: to me says a lot. They want to be part 838 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,040 Speaker 2: of it, they want to get involved. I can tell 839 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:05,400 Speaker 2: you in my previous environments, I wouldn't have been I 840 00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,440 Speaker 2: wouldn't have got one I could, I couldn't get that connection. 841 00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,319 Speaker 2: And again, so that for me is if you've got 842 00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,759 Speaker 2: a great number one recruitment, making sure there is a 843 00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,440 Speaker 2: no dickhead policy like preserve it if you've got a 844 00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:18,160 Speaker 2: great culture. 845 00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:23,880 Speaker 3: And in real estate, this is a really tricky one. Pray. 846 00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:27,560 Speaker 2: As you articulated before, in real estate, there is some 847 00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:31,880 Speaker 2: really high performing agents out there that make bucket loads 848 00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:33,600 Speaker 2: of money. 849 00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:34,840 Speaker 3: As characters. 850 00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:40,480 Speaker 2: You wouldn't be their friend, right, They win at all cost, 851 00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:42,239 Speaker 2: leave a path of destruction. 852 00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:45,640 Speaker 3: They are often narcissistic in. 853 00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:49,680 Speaker 2: Their personality traits, but hey, they're put up on a 854 00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:53,960 Speaker 2: pedestal because they actually make thirty percent of the income 855 00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,680 Speaker 2: for the company and they've got the boards up everywhere, so. 856 00:43:56,640 --> 00:44:00,200 Speaker 3: They're helping the brand. And a lot of a lot 857 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,000 Speaker 3: of the past is that. 858 00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:05,040 Speaker 2: The business owners and the leaders will turn a blind 859 00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 2: eye to that behavior because hey, they make the money. 860 00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:11,440 Speaker 2: But from a culture point of view, it's toxic because 861 00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:13,560 Speaker 2: everyone else is in their shadow, they're in their wake, 862 00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,759 Speaker 2: they're in the path of destruction. They don't get a chance, 863 00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:17,840 Speaker 2: they never get to step up because they've got to 864 00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,640 Speaker 2: send the you know, the rock star agent that that 865 00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:23,760 Speaker 2: type of thing, and that can be quite a challenging 866 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:26,120 Speaker 2: environment for young people wanting to come in and have 867 00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:30,120 Speaker 2: a path. So it's a balance between nurturing, you know, 868 00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:33,640 Speaker 2: nurturing people to allow them to thrive. And I'm a 869 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:37,279 Speaker 2: big believer like in this industry, it's cutthroat, it's competitive. 870 00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:39,480 Speaker 2: There's a lot of really good operators out of there. 871 00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:43,160 Speaker 2: Out there, there's a lot of great brands. You actually 872 00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:46,080 Speaker 2: have to be at the top of the game to survive. 873 00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:49,520 Speaker 2: You can't just kind of be average. So we want 874 00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,120 Speaker 2: to employ people, I guess first and foremost that have 875 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:54,759 Speaker 2: the hunger and if they got the hunger and the 876 00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:57,080 Speaker 2: attitude and they're not a dickhead, and they contribute to 877 00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:59,879 Speaker 2: the culture great and will nurture them and help them 878 00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,279 Speaker 2: and then retain them, right, because that's part of it. 879 00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,200 Speaker 3: You've got to retain people. And I always think. 880 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:08,680 Speaker 2: If someone walks out the door, it's probably because I 881 00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:11,759 Speaker 2: got that role, because you know, if you're doing the 882 00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,160 Speaker 2: right thing and they want to be there, they probably 883 00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:17,000 Speaker 2: shouldn't be looking for another job. But if they're walking 884 00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:20,080 Speaker 2: out the door, you know, you'll always kind of there'll 885 00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:20,800 Speaker 2: be other reasons. 886 00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 3: But most of people leave people rather than jobs. 887 00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:29,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I love that people leave people rather than jobs. 888 00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:33,560 Speaker 1: Listen to that, everyone, People leave people rather than jobs. 889 00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:38,640 Speaker 1: I love that. I mean that whole. Firstly, thank you 890 00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:41,520 Speaker 1: for the title of the show. The title of today's 891 00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:43,919 Speaker 1: episode everyone, as you'll know by now because you will 892 00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:48,040 Speaker 1: have read it, is no dickhead policy, Sally O'Donnell. You 893 00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:50,719 Speaker 1: can thank for that. I love that. Have you read 894 00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:54,080 Speaker 1: a book you probably you definitely would have hurt well 895 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:57,440 Speaker 1: maybe it. And to my listeners who've probably heard me 896 00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:01,839 Speaker 1: talk about this ten times in eighteen hundred episodes, that's 897 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:06,040 Speaker 1: only once every one hundred and eighty episodes, So give 898 00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,920 Speaker 1: me a Break the Five Love Languages. Have you heard 899 00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 1: of that book? I love that book. I love that 900 00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:17,600 Speaker 1: book because it really it just talks about how different 901 00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:22,080 Speaker 1: people respond to And it's not like everyone thinks or 902 00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,239 Speaker 1: not everyone, but people think when you first hear it, Oh, 903 00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:28,239 Speaker 1: it's about romance and intimacy, and well it can be, 904 00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:31,839 Speaker 1: but it's really about how other people feel seen and 905 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:37,000 Speaker 1: valued and loved and appreciated and heard and important. And 906 00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,520 Speaker 1: when you realize that your love language is not the 907 00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:44,840 Speaker 1: persons that you're talking to, it's a completely different approach 908 00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:46,600 Speaker 1: that you have. You know, it's like my mum and 909 00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:49,320 Speaker 1: dad have two different love languages. I have a different 910 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:53,040 Speaker 1: love language to both of them. You know, so understanding, 911 00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:56,799 Speaker 1: if you understand what is someone else's love language, you 912 00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:59,840 Speaker 1: increase your chances of building rapport and connection and trust 913 00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:01,840 Speaker 1: and respect exponentially. 914 00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:05,600 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm so glad you brought that up, because I 915 00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,839 Speaker 2: probably wouldn't have thought of it. Yes, I know that 916 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:14,359 Speaker 2: book and some of my girlfriends swear by it. But interestingly, 917 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:19,000 Speaker 2: before I got here, you know the CEO that I'm replacing, 918 00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,200 Speaker 2: who you know, he's been wonderful for the business, Like 919 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 2: you know again, he's more working towards the end of 920 00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,280 Speaker 2: his working life, so he's not leaving because of people. 921 00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:32,720 Speaker 2: They actually do for every new staff member, they actually 922 00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:36,200 Speaker 2: send them like a psychometric kind of test, like a questionnaire. 923 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,399 Speaker 2: And it's not like there's obviously you know them all 924 00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:40,800 Speaker 2: with your study. There's a million out there around the 925 00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:43,759 Speaker 2: different personality types and those things, but this is it's 926 00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,560 Speaker 2: one that's actually I think it came out of pick 927 00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:53,399 Speaker 2: Paul Rue's business Performance by Design and so he's i guess, 928 00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:56,279 Speaker 2: adapted some of his coaching tools to the corporate world 929 00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:58,920 Speaker 2: and he's done some work with Abercrombie's in the past, 930 00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:01,799 Speaker 2: and they do this you know sort of test, and 931 00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:04,160 Speaker 2: then out of that there's four personality types, you know, 932 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,960 Speaker 2: their colors like blue, red, yellow, and green, and it's 933 00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:09,600 Speaker 2: probably not hard to work out the red personality types 934 00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:12,359 Speaker 2: versus the yellow, the blue, the analytical that type of thing, 935 00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,480 Speaker 2: and then they associate an animal to it. So there's 936 00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:18,840 Speaker 2: a blue owl, there's a red eagle, a yellow peacock, 937 00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:23,160 Speaker 2: and a green dove. So interestingly, what that does is 938 00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:26,080 Speaker 2: everyone I've got it on my wall here, everyone in 939 00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:30,200 Speaker 2: the team has been allocated their strengths because let's you know, they're. 940 00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:33,120 Speaker 3: High red, low yellow or whatever it be. 941 00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:35,960 Speaker 2: And then you've kind of then got the tools to say, well, 942 00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:39,279 Speaker 2: I know that, like my marketing manager, for example, is 943 00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:42,120 Speaker 2: high red, So the way I communicate with her is 944 00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:43,160 Speaker 2: going to be different to. 945 00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:45,440 Speaker 3: You know, one of the. 946 00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:49,600 Speaker 2: Eas who's the most delightful, gentle, beautiful soul. But the 947 00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:51,560 Speaker 2: way I communicate with her is very different to how 948 00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:54,319 Speaker 2: I am very direct with the marketing because that's how 949 00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:57,040 Speaker 2: she likes to be communicated with. So you know, like 950 00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,920 Speaker 2: there is again there's you can you can actually if 951 00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:04,840 Speaker 2: you're in these roles, it's our responsibility to actually not 952 00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:07,840 Speaker 2: just be you know, one size fits all and the 953 00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:10,440 Speaker 2: old style of leadership. I mean you know that whole 954 00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:14,000 Speaker 2: sort of command control hierarchy. 955 00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,120 Speaker 3: I mean you could probably. 956 00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:20,040 Speaker 1: So it's so interesting. So what you're talking about, right, 957 00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:25,359 Speaker 1: all the different personality profile is great, but in they're 958 00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:29,239 Speaker 1: all based in obviously research, which is awesome. So there's 959 00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:35,480 Speaker 1: two things that in psychology. One is called metacognition. Have 960 00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:36,399 Speaker 1: you heard that term? 961 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:37,000 Speaker 3: Yep? 962 00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,680 Speaker 1: Yep. So metacognition is just thinking about thinking, thinking about 963 00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:42,839 Speaker 1: how people think and why they think the way they think, 964 00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,040 Speaker 1: and why you think the way that you do. And 965 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:46,920 Speaker 1: the next one up from that, which is kind of 966 00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:50,399 Speaker 1: a bit more specific, is called theory of mind, which 967 00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:54,399 Speaker 1: is understanding how other people think, right, and it kind 968 00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:58,279 Speaker 1: of spills into how other people feel, and so that 969 00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:01,359 Speaker 1: what you're just talking about now without using the term, 970 00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:04,319 Speaker 1: but is essentially theory of mine, which is trying to 971 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,919 Speaker 1: understand how someone else thinks and feels and what their 972 00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:10,920 Speaker 1: reality is and what their version. Like you and me 973 00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:13,360 Speaker 1: are in the same conversation, but we're not in the 974 00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:15,640 Speaker 1: same experience because I'm not you and you're not me, 975 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:17,360 Speaker 1: and you don't have my mind, that I don't have 976 00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,880 Speaker 1: your mind or emotions. But nonetheless we can go. My 977 00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:24,160 Speaker 1: experience is very real, Your experience is very real, but 978 00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:28,600 Speaker 1: they're different, right, And so my challenge as a you know, 979 00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:31,399 Speaker 1: as a host, as a communicator, as a teacher, all 980 00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:34,560 Speaker 1: the shit that I do, it's not to agree with everyone, 981 00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:36,879 Speaker 1: but it's as much as I can to at least 982 00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:40,480 Speaker 1: have insight into And because I know you quite well 983 00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:44,160 Speaker 1: compared to mo Get most guests, like I can make 984 00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:49,040 Speaker 1: a few assumptions, right, but they're pretty educated assumptions, you know, 985 00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,799 Speaker 1: and that, yeah, it's really very smart what you've done 986 00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:57,279 Speaker 1: because you're just basically learning how your people work, and 987 00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:01,279 Speaker 1: you're operating from the paradigm or in paradigm, that is, 988 00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:04,880 Speaker 1: we don't all think like Sally. We're not like Sally. 989 00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,920 Speaker 1: Not better or worse, but we're not fucking Sally. And 990 00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:11,080 Speaker 1: if I think everyone thinks and is and feels and 991 00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:15,320 Speaker 1: responds and is motivated by what Sally is, where fucked. 992 00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:21,120 Speaker 2: And I've learned that Greig the hard way, right, like 993 00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:24,400 Speaker 2: in the sense of you know, you learn this through 994 00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:28,160 Speaker 2: experience and where you think you can just everyone thinks 995 00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:30,359 Speaker 2: like me. You know you do know me quite well. 996 00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,880 Speaker 2: My personality type. You know it can be quite direct, 997 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,800 Speaker 2: and you know I'm probably at times a bit punchy 998 00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:39,239 Speaker 2: and a bit combative, and you know that hasn't been 999 00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:42,319 Speaker 2: knocked out of me. But I've learned to have more 1000 00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:44,640 Speaker 2: awareness of the people around me and the impact I 1001 00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:46,680 Speaker 2: would have on them if I take that style to 1002 00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:50,080 Speaker 2: everybody that I come across, So I am more conscious 1003 00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:54,719 Speaker 2: of actually understanding where they come from. You know, what 1004 00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:57,880 Speaker 2: sort of style probably reflects and you know them for 1005 00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:01,480 Speaker 2: me ultimately for me to influence, right, because that's I 1006 00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 2: guess for me as a leader, I am trying to 1007 00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:07,160 Speaker 2: influence positive change and growth and development and all those 1008 00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:08,560 Speaker 2: things you talk about. Because the end the day, I 1009 00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:11,560 Speaker 2: am responsible for the business, and if we're not making money, 1010 00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:13,719 Speaker 2: none of us will have a job. So you've got 1011 00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:17,000 Speaker 2: to balance it, you know, between the I guess, being 1012 00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,960 Speaker 2: the responsible person for making sure we keep the lights 1013 00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:23,839 Speaker 2: on versus creating environment that people really want to come 1014 00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:25,480 Speaker 2: and have a great experience at work. 1015 00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:27,520 Speaker 3: I'm such a you know, I've got a daughter. 1016 00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:29,600 Speaker 2: I wanted to be in an environment where people see 1017 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:34,360 Speaker 2: her potential and give her a path, give her a path. 1018 00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:37,920 Speaker 3: Like that's all sometimes what's interesting, you know. 1019 00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:42,000 Speaker 2: Unfortunately, my experience in real estate has been very much 1020 00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:46,280 Speaker 2: command control type leadership. And I'm not telling you anything 1021 00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:50,799 Speaker 2: that's not obvious. It's a very male dominant industry. There's 1022 00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:52,680 Speaker 2: been a lot of success of people that have come 1023 00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:54,960 Speaker 2: up through the old style of leadership, which is that 1024 00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:58,200 Speaker 2: you know, real hierarchical. Unless you're you know this and 1025 00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:01,839 Speaker 2: you've written this and you know your own equity, then 1026 00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:04,160 Speaker 2: you're really not of any value to us. And there 1027 00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:06,840 Speaker 2: is a real command control And you know, I remember 1028 00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:11,560 Speaker 2: getting when I was I guess, you know, I guess 1029 00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,040 Speaker 2: early in the industry, and I was a salesperson and 1030 00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:17,000 Speaker 2: I was still you know, finding my way, and I 1031 00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:20,920 Speaker 2: was in a very high profile, high performance environment, you know, 1032 00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:23,080 Speaker 2: in there, and I had a. 1033 00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:25,320 Speaker 3: Young daughter who was at primary school. 1034 00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:29,000 Speaker 2: And they always had the sales meeting at like eight 1035 00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:31,439 Speaker 2: o'clock on a Tuesday, and it. 1036 00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:34,360 Speaker 3: Was designed around, you know, men who. 1037 00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:36,840 Speaker 2: Had stay at home wives, who had young families, but 1038 00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:38,759 Speaker 2: they could leave the house at seven and get home 1039 00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:43,200 Speaker 2: at seven and not think once about anything else, whereas 1040 00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:45,480 Speaker 2: the women in real estate at the time, and again, 1041 00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:49,680 Speaker 2: you know, there weren't that many. You know, we often 1042 00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,279 Speaker 2: still had working husbands, and we're like, if we had 1043 00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:54,279 Speaker 2: to stay I want to stay at home wife. If 1044 00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:56,320 Speaker 2: I had to stay at home wife, I could double 1045 00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:58,200 Speaker 2: my income because I can leave at seven and get 1046 00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,000 Speaker 2: home at seven not have to think about anything else 1047 00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:03,239 Speaker 2: as well. But we were doing the juggle, and they 1048 00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:05,600 Speaker 2: were like, oh, you have to if you're not committed, 1049 00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:07,320 Speaker 2: and you're not serious. If you're not at the sales 1050 00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:10,520 Speaker 2: meeting before eight o'clock, you're not serious. And you know, 1051 00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:14,160 Speaker 2: I literally remember pushing my kid out the door. It out, 1052 00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:16,000 Speaker 2: you got it. She wanted to tell me something, you know, 1053 00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:17,759 Speaker 2: she's going to school. I'm dropping off. She want to 1054 00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:19,680 Speaker 2: tell me something. I'm like, no, no, no, you gotta go, 1055 00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:22,640 Speaker 2: you got to go. I'm stressing about being late. And 1056 00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,239 Speaker 2: I get to the meeting. I'm three minutes late, and 1057 00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:27,520 Speaker 2: they slammed the door in my face and said, you're 1058 00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:30,799 Speaker 2: not serious, you know, And I just went wow, And 1059 00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:31,120 Speaker 2: you know. 1060 00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:32,040 Speaker 3: I'll never forget that. 1061 00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:34,200 Speaker 2: And I thought, I'm never going to create an environment 1062 00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,920 Speaker 2: where I've actually got a playing field that's not equal 1063 00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:39,360 Speaker 2: for people to have a fair Go, let's make the 1064 00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:42,080 Speaker 2: suse let's make the sales meeting at nine point thirty. 1065 00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:42,839 Speaker 3: You know what. 1066 00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:44,879 Speaker 2: Let the dads drop the kids off, let the mums 1067 00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:47,480 Speaker 2: drop the kids off, whatever. But we don't have to 1068 00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:49,719 Speaker 2: have it just because we've always done it that way. 1069 00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:52,360 Speaker 2: I mean, you know again, why do we We've always 1070 00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:54,600 Speaker 2: done that. Why would we change it? Well, because it 1071 00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:56,280 Speaker 2: doesn't actually suit anymore. 1072 00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:04,440 Speaker 1: Wow, that's that's fucking hrrh like. Of course I believe you, 1073 00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:08,360 Speaker 1: But I think, how fucking dumb of those people, Like, 1074 00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:11,400 Speaker 1: how do you do that? How do you get a 1075 00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:13,480 Speaker 1: bunch of people And in the bunch of people, not 1076 00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:16,360 Speaker 1: one of them goes, hey, listen, I don't know that 1077 00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:19,319 Speaker 1: that's a great idea, and also that's kind of shit 1078 00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:23,720 Speaker 1: to treat her that way, Like how does nobody stand 1079 00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:26,319 Speaker 1: up and go, wait, what are you doing? Like? How 1080 00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:30,840 Speaker 1: does no one? How is that okay to treat anyone? 1081 00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:34,880 Speaker 1: You know, but to treat a woman anyone though, fucking 1082 00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:35,640 Speaker 1: anyone like it? 1083 00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:37,960 Speaker 3: Just you know it is? It was. 1084 00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:42,680 Speaker 2: It was eye opening, and sure enough I didn't work 1085 00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:44,759 Speaker 2: there for much longer because, as I said before, I 1086 00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:47,120 Speaker 2: left because of that. Like I left not because of that, 1087 00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:48,920 Speaker 2: but I left because of that the way if I 1088 00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:51,759 Speaker 2: was going to be treated like that, it's not the 1089 00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:52,759 Speaker 2: right environment for me. 1090 00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:54,760 Speaker 3: I can't thrive in that environment. 1091 00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:58,239 Speaker 1: How many? How many? Not that it matters, but out 1092 00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:00,600 Speaker 1: of interest. So there's twenty people in your team at 1093 00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,839 Speaker 1: the moment, give or take. What's the split? Is it 1094 00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,080 Speaker 1: mainly guys? Mainly girl Now I'm. 1095 00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:10,120 Speaker 2: Actually it's one of my focuses. But the splits, the 1096 00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:15,080 Speaker 2: splits would be fifty to fifty, but it's unfortunately it's 1097 00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:17,960 Speaker 2: for me. It's something to focus on. The majority of 1098 00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,759 Speaker 2: the girls or the females within the business are not 1099 00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:24,160 Speaker 2: quite They're not in sales, so they're in property management. 1100 00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:26,680 Speaker 2: They're in marketing, they're in admin. You know, they're in 1101 00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:31,400 Speaker 2: support roles. There's a female office manager. My board is 1102 00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:35,719 Speaker 2: all male. Now, the good news is that they are 1103 00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:39,760 Speaker 2: obviously thought well, you know, I got here on merit. 1104 00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:42,759 Speaker 2: But at the same time, having a female CEO in 1105 00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:46,240 Speaker 2: the real estate industry is rare. There's only a handful 1106 00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:47,800 Speaker 2: of us, and the ones that we have, I'm friends 1107 00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:49,920 Speaker 2: with them all and again I've you know, a lot 1108 00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:52,680 Speaker 2: of respect for them, and you know, some of them 1109 00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:57,360 Speaker 2: are in very traditional you know, real estate franchisers, where 1110 00:56:57,480 --> 00:57:00,239 Speaker 2: I'm like, I look at that and go, oh, I know, 1111 00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:02,960 Speaker 2: if I can move the needle there. I feel like 1112 00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:04,759 Speaker 2: I've got a group and a board that are very 1113 00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,359 Speaker 2: progressive and open and you know they are embracing it. 1114 00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:10,359 Speaker 2: But yes, we're we need to balance out some more 1115 00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:12,680 Speaker 2: females selling in the business. 1116 00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:17,200 Speaker 1: Wow. All right. My last question, why the fuck is 1117 00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:21,480 Speaker 1: real estates so expensive in Melbourne? Sally O'Connell, What is 1118 00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:22,120 Speaker 1: that about? 1119 00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:25,320 Speaker 2: According we're a value now, Craig, because all the other 1120 00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:27,600 Speaker 2: states have been going up and Melbourne's been on a 1121 00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:32,040 Speaker 2: decline now for really three years, so we're probably at 1122 00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:32,560 Speaker 2: the bottom. 1123 00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:37,920 Speaker 1: We are not, are you? Telling me it's cheaper to 1124 00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:40,160 Speaker 1: buy a house in Sydney. 1125 00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:43,040 Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, no, no no no. 1126 00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:47,800 Speaker 1: We're deer than w A with deer than South Australia. 1127 00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:51,640 Speaker 2: So what what has actually happened? And there's a bit 1128 00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:52,600 Speaker 2: of nuance to it? 1129 00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:55,120 Speaker 1: But what's actually I hate it when I get corrected. 1130 00:57:57,080 --> 00:58:02,680 Speaker 4: I know you Too's actually the last two years is 1131 00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:06,080 Speaker 4: that Perth like wa has gone up, like their days 1132 00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:08,600 Speaker 4: on market if average days on market at twenty eight, 1133 00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:10,440 Speaker 4: they're at ten, Like it's ridiculous. 1134 00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:13,080 Speaker 2: The demands there and the supply is way out of whack, 1135 00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:15,520 Speaker 2: so their prices have gone up like twenty six percent 1136 00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:16,800 Speaker 2: in the last twelve months. 1137 00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:20,080 Speaker 3: Phenomenal. That's slow like the peak. The rate of the 1138 00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:21,000 Speaker 3: growth has slowed. 1139 00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:25,840 Speaker 2: Brisbane Queensland again gone up you know, I think sort 1140 00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:29,080 Speaker 2: of eighteen percent on average over the over twelve month period. 1141 00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:32,560 Speaker 2: Sydney's been on a decline that started to sort of 1142 00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:34,640 Speaker 2: slow the decline side of slow, and Melbourne's been on 1143 00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:37,520 Speaker 2: quite a rapid decline. So we're still off our peak, 1144 00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:40,480 Speaker 2: which would have been pre post COVID where the market 1145 00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:44,360 Speaker 2: just went nuts. We're probably still five to fifteen percent, 1146 00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:48,080 Speaker 2: depending on which market. You're in off that peak, and 1147 00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:50,760 Speaker 2: if anything, Melbourne has actually been the lagging state. 1148 00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:52,480 Speaker 3: So I guess what I'm saying is that. 1149 00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:57,920 Speaker 2: Investors are now starting to look at Melbourne going Actually 1150 00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:00,680 Speaker 2: Melbourne doesn't look as expensive it used to and the 1151 00:59:00,840 --> 00:59:05,320 Speaker 2: medium dwelling price, so I say, dwelling in Melbourne is 1152 00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:11,320 Speaker 2: actually now below Sydney, Brisbane, Canberra, and I think Adelaide 1153 00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:12,360 Speaker 2: might have even pipped us. 1154 00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:13,400 Speaker 3: Now that's dwelling. 1155 00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:17,040 Speaker 2: When you break it down to houses of detached houses 1156 00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:21,560 Speaker 2: versus apartments, then we're second behind Sydney. That tells you 1157 00:59:21,560 --> 00:59:23,600 Speaker 2: that we've got a lot of apartments compared to the 1158 00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:25,960 Speaker 2: other capital cities, so that you know what I mean 1159 00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:29,880 Speaker 2: by that, Like so Yt anyway, so it's probably good value. 1160 00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:32,880 Speaker 2: That said our state government, we won't get into politics, 1161 00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:35,240 Speaker 2: but they haven't made it very attractive or appealing for. 1162 00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:37,200 Speaker 3: You to buy investment property in Victoria. 1163 00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:39,000 Speaker 2: So a lot of that money is going into state 1164 00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:41,120 Speaker 2: because why would you hear at the moment there's not 1165 00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:42,280 Speaker 2: a lot of incentive for you. 1166 00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:46,120 Speaker 1: And I say, is it patronizing that I say, I'm 1167 00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:48,560 Speaker 1: so proud of you, You're so fucking smart. 1168 00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:52,120 Speaker 3: Oh, I'm proud of you, I. 1169 00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:57,120 Speaker 1: Like, honestly, that seventeen year old bloody triathlete. I listen 1170 00:59:57,200 --> 01:00:00,960 Speaker 1: to you now and I'm like, jeepers, who's this woman? 1171 01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:01,480 Speaker 1: Who's this? 1172 01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:05,680 Speaker 2: No, I'm just going to say though I've followed you, 1173 01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:10,360 Speaker 2: and I'll say it again. You don't probably realize it, 1174 01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:13,480 Speaker 2: but you had a real impact on my early years 1175 01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:14,520 Speaker 2: and I'll. 1176 01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:15,000 Speaker 3: Never forget that. 1177 01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:17,400 Speaker 2: And I've followed you, and I think what you've been 1178 01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:20,920 Speaker 2: able to create with your books and your podcasts and 1179 01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:24,120 Speaker 2: your corporate speaking and which is really you're playing to 1180 01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:26,840 Speaker 2: your strengths ultimately, because I mean, at the end of 1181 01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:29,880 Speaker 2: the day, you're always a great entertainer for all of us. 1182 01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:34,400 Speaker 1: I just wanted a job that didn't where I could 1183 01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:37,720 Speaker 1: just basically be a fuckward in front of people and 1184 01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:39,240 Speaker 1: somehow get paid. 1185 01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:45,280 Speaker 4: It's unbelievable that you've been able to curate that hundred. 1186 01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:49,680 Speaker 1: It's that that's exactly right, And you know, it's like 1187 01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:52,240 Speaker 1: I felt like I haven't actually had a job for 1188 01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:55,360 Speaker 1: thirty years. Hey, I don't know if you want anyone 1189 01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:57,600 Speaker 1: to follow you anywhere, but do you want to be 1190 01:00:57,840 --> 01:00:59,720 Speaker 1: do you have any social media or anything or a 1191 01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:01,640 Speaker 1: peaceeople want to connect with you. 1192 01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:06,880 Speaker 2: That you know abbat Crombie's, so we're you know, we're 1193 01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:08,360 Speaker 2: passionate about looking after people. 1194 01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:09,520 Speaker 3: So yeah, you can find me there. 1195 01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:12,080 Speaker 2: I've got an Instagram which is not huge, in LinkedIn, 1196 01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:13,640 Speaker 2: but LinkedIn is probably good for me. 1197 01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:16,320 Speaker 3: All right, thank you. 1198 01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:18,400 Speaker 1: How many podcasts have you done? Is this number one? 1199 01:01:18,480 --> 01:01:19,240 Speaker 1: Is this your debut? 1200 01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:25,360 Speaker 2: I've done a couple within the industry, so very real estate. Yeah, 1201 01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:27,600 Speaker 2: but no, this has been this has been my most 1202 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:28,960 Speaker 2: enjoyable by far. 1203 01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:33,880 Speaker 3: And yeah, it's just nice to be able to connect 1204 01:01:33,880 --> 01:01:36,840 Speaker 3: with you and have a have a chat. Really, so 1205 01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:37,320 Speaker 3: thank you. 1206 01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:41,480 Speaker 1: Well we'll say goodbye affair, but Sally O'Connell, good job 1207 01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:44,120 Speaker 1: you you did so good. I think we're going to 1208 01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:47,280 Speaker 1: get you back and we'll pay you exactly the same fee. 1209 01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:49,160 Speaker 1: So you're welcome. You're welcome. 1210 01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:51,520 Speaker 3: Thanks, Thanks Greg,