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Speaker 2: If you think that when you travel overseas or away

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Speaker 2: stays on tour kind of thing. The story I read

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Speaker 2: was about a woman called Georgia. She's in her thirties.

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Speaker 2: She's actually in a happy relationship. Well that's what she says,

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Speaker 2: and she says she wouldn't dream of playing up on

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Speaker 2: but when she travels. Ever since she was in her twenties,

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Speaker 2: she's had lots of relationships over the years. When she

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Speaker 2: It's just kind of part of the socializing that she

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Speaker 2: does on holidays. She says, she doesn't always, you know,

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Speaker 2: but it's you know, sometimes it well, yeah, sometimes it

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Speaker 2: is that, and then other times it's just a bit

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Speaker 2: of drinking and kissing and flirting and all of the above.

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Speaker 3: What is I suppose the question is Okay, here's the justification.

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Speaker 4: What is cheating? I mean, where is the line? Well,

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Speaker 4: so any kind of contact is cheating? All right?

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Speaker 3: So I go to Tommy and I were on the

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Speaker 3: holidays fits. I don't know if we mentioned this. On

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Speaker 3: Saturday night we watch Kings of Mikinos together. So let's

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Speaker 3: say I find myself of that film. Actually so funny,

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Speaker 3: Nick Genopolis.

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Speaker 5: Is are they still doing the dancing on that the

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Speaker 3: It was so funny?

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Speaker 4: Four.

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Speaker 3: But if I found myself in Mikinos and I go,

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Speaker 3: I meet this girl at a bar, We have a

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Speaker 3: drink together. Her name is Savannah or something like that,

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Speaker 3: and then we go down to the beach. And where's

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Speaker 4: She is from Savannah seems.

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Speaker 3: Pullia in Italy. Oh, and then we go down to

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Speaker 3: the beach and we decide to go for a skinny

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Speaker 3: dip together. Now there's no touching, there's been some fun chat.

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Speaker 3: And then the next thing, you know, the chance you

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Speaker 3: go for a swim in your undies because we've decided

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Speaker 5: Oh, look, I've been swimming. I think the late I

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Speaker 5: think the late night swim.

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Speaker 2: Regardless of whether you have your bathers on or not,

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Speaker 6: You're not.

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Speaker 5: Cheating.

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Speaker 2: Begins when you look at each other and say, let's

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Speaker 5: At the beach.

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Speaker 3: Friends swimming together.

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Speaker 5: No, you're not friends. You didn't. You've never met this

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Speaker 5: woman before. She's not your friend.

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Speaker 4: Friends swimming together.

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Speaker 3: You've been married for ten years. You find yourself at

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Speaker 3: a party. It's all a little bit of fun. It's

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Speaker 4: All a little bit of fun.

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Speaker 7: Oh, as long as it's all a bit, says No.

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Speaker 4: In the corner she.

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Speaker 5: Is, she's shaking her head out, is.

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Speaker 3: Saying fingers crossed, it's okay. That says it's definitely fine.

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Speaker 4: Got a video that he's showing us.

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Speaker 7: No, definitely professional, Kate.

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Speaker 3: Richie's pretending to care, and I'm saying you're right to

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Speaker 2: I absolutely do care, because I actually think that there

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Speaker 5: In particular, they here because I.

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Speaker 2: I mean some of them like being in their relationships.

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Speaker 2: Some don't, but then they plan trips away so that

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Speaker 2: If I'm a I can get away with things that

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Speaker 3: When we're overseas, she stayed with me for the following

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Speaker 7: Let's go to Maddie in Penrith. Maddie, tell us about

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Speaker 7: your friend.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, so my friend was with her partner for two

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Speaker 8: She and her boyfriend from here. He had no idea,

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Speaker 8: And then she just never came home as well, and

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Speaker 8: then he was like, what the hell are we still together?

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Speaker 8: And he's like, no, I'm sorry, you got married.

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Speaker 5: Well, do you know that's heartbreaking? Did she know this

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Speaker 8: I do think she didn't.

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Speaker 5: What are you going to think if your partner comes

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Speaker 2: Randomly, well, what are you going to think if BJ

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Speaker 2: comes up to you, Fitzi and says, oh, you know what, Dulan,

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Speaker 2: I've just booked two weeks in Thailand on.

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Speaker 4: My own, riding on the wall.

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Speaker 7: You wouldn't mind if I went to Ibtha for a

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Speaker 9: One look, I have met guys before who love the

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Speaker 9: who I think are addicted to the thrill of the chase.

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Speaker 7: And they don't care what's in front of them at

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Speaker 4: Actually that's how did you know that?

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Speaker 7: I don't know, Penny Drop, but they it doesn't matter

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Speaker 7: if they're in a relationship, if the woman was in

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Speaker 7: a relationship. They were so brazen with their flirting and

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Speaker 7: going for it that they just didn't care what anyone thought.

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Speaker 7: Well, this girl, her name is Macie On McCracken is

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Speaker 4: That's her there. She's quite a good looking girl. Yep.

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Speaker 7: So she was at her husband's I'll just put that

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Speaker 7: out there. Her husband's business, and he was out working.

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Speaker 7: He was offsite, so he wasn't there, and they needed

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Speaker 4: So she was in charge.

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Speaker 7: She let them in, she showed them what they had

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Speaker 4: Put this up on TikTok yesterday.

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Speaker 1: A little while later, the electrician comes into the office

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Speaker 4: And if you ever want to.

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Speaker 1: Hang out in time, let me know. I stuck a

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Speaker 7: So the guy in the note, he said, not trying

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Speaker 4: If you ever want to just have some fun or anything.

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Speaker 7: You are gorgeous and the perfect example of what I

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Speaker 3: If I was the boss and the husband, I wouldn't

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Speaker 4: I would forget about it. So my way, how do

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because you're threading my family unit, you can base

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Speaker 7: You could basically blackmail him and say, well, mate, I

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Speaker 4: Do you know what look terrible?

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Speaker 3: The other night I was at a bar and there

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Speaker 3: Because I just thought i'd put my hand up and say,

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Speaker 3: In that time, while I'm doing that, her boyfriend comes

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Speaker 4: I just wanted to know if you guys.

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Speaker 3: Were leaving soon, if you were going to be I'm

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Speaker 4: If you do your head off, I'll put your arm

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Speaker 4: up and I'll come over. I'm out here. Well, I

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Speaker 4: better see it's I'm kissed her.

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Speaker 7: I've seen guys with a girl be with a man

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Speaker 7: be there might be PDA, so there's public display of affection,

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Speaker 7: and they might be nuzzling into each other's necks. And

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Speaker 7: I've seen guys go over and not worry about the

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Speaker 4: Extraordinary is some people just don't keep.

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Speaker 3: One of the most brazen out and about attempts I've

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Speaker 3: say something like a Melbourne cup day where you're out

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Speaker 4: Needs a drink is extraordinary. It's a crowd plow.

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Speaker 6: I deeply miss the thrill of going up and chase.

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Speaker 6: It is and fits to your point. There have been

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Speaker 6: various times where it happens the other way. Often a

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Speaker 6: place is like establishment or ivy, where the people who

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Speaker 6: go there generally think they're the top tier of guy.

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Speaker 6: Another guy sat on Bronti and you just sit there

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Speaker 6: and you're having a chat, and then they walk up

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Speaker 6: and start talking to his like Champ, I'm here, I'm here, yeah,

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Speaker 6: but now I'm here, get out of it.

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Speaker 3: But I'm at a certain time I look like a banker.

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Speaker 3: So how do you?

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