1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: This podcast is being recorded and produced on Gadiical Land. 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 2: We pay our respects to the traditional custodians of this 3 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 2: country and elders past present. 4 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: We extend our respect to any First Nations Aboriginal and 5 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander people joining us. 6 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 2: Today, always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. 7 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 3: Good morning, Matthew. 8 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 2: Good morning. 9 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: We've got a bit of a different episode today. Yeah, 10 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:26,159 Speaker 1: we've got a special guest on, but it's not just 11 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: someone that we're interviewing. 12 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 2: What is it? Who is it? It is? Her name's Florence. 13 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 2: She's a psychic. 14 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 4: Medium and we'll let her explain exactly what she does 15 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 4: and all the rest of that. 16 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 2: But we wanted her on. 17 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 4: First of all, obviously there are some pickle in our 18 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 4: lives that we'd like to connect with from the other side, 19 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 4: but also we really wanted to get her on to 20 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 4: see what's in store for us for twenty twenty five. 21 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 4: And we've actually just wrapped. She's just left us, and 22 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 4: we are I'm pretty shocked. There are a couple of 23 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 4: things in there that really stood out where I was like, Wow, 24 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 4: that is really spot on and kind of crazy that 25 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 4: you've brought that up. And then second of all the 26 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 4: plans for the future with you and your business and 27 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 4: the podcast, and you know, some other things that she 28 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 4: said about that. 29 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: There was a lot of I don't know, I feel 30 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: like we should be about the writing. 31 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 3: I didn't tell her what it was, but I was like, oh, 32 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 3: she knows, she knows, son, we just get straight into it. 33 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 3: This is a special episode of My. 34 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 4: Strollers, different to what we usually do. But I'm, for one, 35 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 4: I'm so glad we've done this because I've got so 36 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 4: much out of it. So here we go, deal me 37 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 4: and do let's go. 38 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 3: We haven't even planned anything for this one, have wed. 39 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 3: This is very exciting. 40 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 2: Though, it's very very exciting. Welcome Florence. 41 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 3: You're welcome. 42 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 5: Thank you for having me. So we'll followed by the 43 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 5: suit of her pants. 44 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 3: There we go, right, And you don't know our podcast. 45 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 1: So our podcast is called high Scrollers, as you can 46 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: see up on the screen, and we're basically just two 47 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: besties just talking shit about the things we see when 48 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: we're scrolling online. 49 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 3: Hence the scrollers love it. 50 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 4: And so would you like to give our listeners, who 51 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 4: we call the would you like to give them a 52 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 4: little bit of an explanation in your own words of 53 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 4: who you are and what you do beautiful. 54 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 5: So I'm a psychic medium, and I think every single 55 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 5: one of us is psychic. We all have intuition, we 56 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 5: all have that knowing, you know. So, and I think 57 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 5: people that professional capacity, like me or will call myself 58 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 5: a professional, we take it a little bit further and 59 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 5: we you know, mediumship is different. Mediumship is learning a 60 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 5: skill set to talk to people that are passed over 61 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 5: and including animals. And I'm always very honest, I don't 62 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:31,519 Speaker 5: see them from head to toe, and I think most 63 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 5: people don't. But I think it's learning the language of 64 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 5: what comes in the mind and signs and all that 65 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 5: sort of thing. So my job is just to you know, 66 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 5: let people know there's something beyond this life. And it 67 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 5: doesn't matter what culture, what religion, all that sort of thing. 68 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,239 Speaker 5: To know that somehow another we go on. And I 69 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 5: think that's all that I'm about promoting, and to let 70 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 5: you know that you know, they know what's going on, 71 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:53,959 Speaker 5: you know, sometimes before we do. So yeah, so yeah, 72 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 5: and hopefully to make people feel good. That's what I'm 73 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 5: all about. And you know, and I don't have a 74 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 5: lot of numbers, so let's get that out of the way. 75 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:06,399 Speaker 5: The powerful numbers in the Bahamas. If those. 76 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 2: Well, we're very excited. 77 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 4: I'm very familiar with the work that you do, and 78 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 4: I've definitely spoken to psychics and mediums and done all 79 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 4: those sorts of things before. But Brittany was telling us 80 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 4: a couple of weeks ago that this will actually be 81 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 4: the first time. 82 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: Well I've spoken with one person before many many years ago. 83 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 3: Okay, like a really long time. 84 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 2: It's been a long time. 85 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 4: But look, I've got my pen and paper ready because 86 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 4: this was obviously pre recording this to come out in 87 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 4: the new year. And I said to Hannah, I need 88 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 4: a pen and paper because I'm going to forget and 89 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 4: I want to write everything down. 90 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 2: You know. 91 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 5: I love that, and I talk fast too, so people 92 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 5: like still on the first line, and I'm. 93 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 2: Like, stot points dot points, all right, gorgeous. 94 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 5: That's good to be here. 95 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 2: All right, shall we get into it. 96 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 5: Let's get into it. What do we do here? So 97 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 5: if you, if you like, let me just tell you 98 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 5: what I see and coming down, I get a lot 99 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 5: of time to you know, just have a lot of 100 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 5: thinking time. But as soon as I woke up this morning, 101 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 5: Lady in Spirit and I don't know if I'm going 102 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 5: your way, brit but let's see where we're going. But 103 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 5: she had cognitive issues, like she either had now Seimer's 104 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 5: or something where she wasn't able to think clearly towards 105 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 5: the end of her life. And I don't mean like 106 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 5: mental issues or anything like that, but I mean like 107 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 5: cognitive So I don't know, is grammar a mum's siding 108 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 5: spirit for you? 109 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 3: No, she's still here. 110 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 5: She's still here, and she's clear headed. Yes, yeah, okay, No, 111 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 5: that's fine. So you wouldn't remember a grandmother above her, 112 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 5: would you? 113 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 3: I was really young, like born, okay. 114 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: Got it? 115 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 5: Would you know stories about her decline or how she 116 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 5: passed or anything like that? No, that's okay. No, that's okay. 117 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 5: That's okay, And that's okay. And sometimes it's good to 118 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 5: give you homework and then you can get back to me. 119 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 5: And I thought she was a very strong lady. So 120 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 5: I don't know if you've ever heard that. I'm hearing 121 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 5: the song Pussycat Dolls. I don't need a man. So 122 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 5: I don't know if she was somebody that was like 123 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 5: very independent, very you know, I don't know if you've 124 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 5: heard stories about that. But in that era, they sort 125 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 5: of depended on him, you. 126 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, beautiful, call her on the way. 127 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 5: Home, beautiful. And there was a younger male that came 128 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 5: through as well who had it was like a bang feeling, 129 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 5: and I felt like I'm going more towards you, Matt. 130 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 5: But to me, it's like either a heart or a bang, 131 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 5: but it's like a I'm here and then I'm not 132 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 5: sort of feeling. But I thought it was Dad's connection 133 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 5: or Dad's level or somewhere over that side of the fence. 134 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 5: So your dad's here in the living yep. Would he 135 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 5: have lost a brother or a father at a younger age? 136 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 2: No? 137 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 5: Is his father in spirit? 138 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 3: Yep? 139 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 5: Would he have been like sixties rather than eighties or 140 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 5: anything of that nature. No, a little bit older. Yeah, okay, 141 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 5: so I don't know. I felt I've got a younger male. 142 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 5: But to me, it's like the heart or it's a 143 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 5: bang feeling. It's like, you know, I just feel like 144 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 5: I was here and then I wasn't. So see if 145 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 5: you can do some homework for me on now. 146 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. 147 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 5: There's a little bit of homework there. Just started straight away, 148 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 5: and you're both animal lovers. Is that correct. Yeah, but 149 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 5: is one more dogs and ones more cats? I'm definitely dog, okay. 150 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 5: So where would the black and white cat fitting. It's 151 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 5: a massive furry ball. Now, if it's a dog, it's 152 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,039 Speaker 5: a dog breed that I don't recognize. It's like a 153 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:05,360 Speaker 5: big furry ball, but it's black and white. Would that 154 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 5: jump out anywhere? 155 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 3: Not for me? 156 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 5: No? No, that's okay. So I've got a dog just 157 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 5: wandering in or a big fluffy cake, you know that 158 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 5: kind of thing. 159 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 3: So either way, do you have any dogs or pets 160 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 3: when you were growing up, Matte. 161 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 4: No dogs until I was a bit older, but none, 162 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 4: none that were black and white. 163 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,040 Speaker 5: No, that's okay, keep it on board. It might be 164 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 5: I felt it's one animal and I felt it's black 165 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 5: and white or two tone. But it's a big furry ball, 166 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 5: you know that kind of thing. And Matt, when I'm 167 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 5: looking at you, you have a very very good radar 168 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 5: for people. You know, when you look at people, you 169 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 5: know it's like if they don't look you in the eye, 170 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:39,840 Speaker 5: you're remind me of Judge Judy. You know how to 171 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 5: judge Judy like you know, bless her, like she's like white. 172 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 5: You look at me in the eye, and why are 173 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 5: having a drink of water when you're talking to me? 174 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 5: And all that sort of thing. So, but you have 175 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 5: a good radar for people. You give people a fair go. 176 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 5: But you're also you know, if if it's that old story, 177 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 5: but if I want to sell your lemon car, come 178 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 5: and look at the car. Mat You're like, I don't 179 00:06:58,120 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 5: have to look at the car and looking at you. 180 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 5: So you've got a very good radar. And do you 181 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 5: sing or dance? 182 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 2: Oh well, not very well, but yes. 183 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 3: You're a performer. 184 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 5: I heard this morning singing like when nobody's looking, you 185 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 5: know that sort of thing. So, and it's kind of like, 186 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 5: you know, you love that you're your own free spirit, 187 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 5: you know that kind of thing. So I love that 188 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 5: as well. And britt I almost forgot your name already. 189 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 5: There we go to I'm sad Britain Matte, Brittain, Matt. 190 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 5: I'm seeing a lot of writing around you, so I 191 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 5: don't know if you're looking. You're too young to be 192 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 5: doing memoirs, but it reminds me of doing something where 193 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 5: I'm going to write something, my story to be told 194 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 5: how I want to tell it. And I'm getting an 195 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 5: American connection around there. So I don't know if eventually 196 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 5: that will go overseas or what the case is there, 197 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 5: but either way, now the grandmother back on Mum's line. 198 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 5: She's coming back again, and she's taking credit for all 199 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 5: your brains, your beauty and all that sort of thing. 200 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 3: So so. 201 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 5: Again, you know, and to me, it's almost like she 202 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 5: doesn't understand all this business, you know, but she's always 203 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 5: with you, you know. So it's the technical side of it. 204 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 5: And she's like, and you guys, like, I know what 205 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 5: you're like when you're young. You just you have an 206 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 5: in built radar people like me. I don't even know 207 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 5: podcasts and I don't even know you know, all that 208 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 5: sort of thing. But she's saying she's very proud of you, 209 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 5: you know, And it's almost like, and I thought, I'm 210 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 5: gonna I'm doing I'm doing a little bit of dance 211 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 5: here backwards and forwards. But bear with me, Matt, You've 212 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 5: always been a good guy. I've blown your bad guy me. 213 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 5: Sorry about that is you know, if I could take 214 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 5: you back to school, you're always somebody that was always 215 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 5: left of center, do you know what I mean? You 216 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 5: might have had a thousand friends, but I don't think 217 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 5: you let too many people in. And I think that 218 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 5: trait has carried on as you got older. Not that 219 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:38,719 Speaker 5: you're terribly old, you know that sort of thing. But 220 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:41,319 Speaker 5: to me, it's almost like you don't sort of mean 221 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 5: to put up this sort of hurdles for people to 222 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 5: get close to you, but you inadvertently do. And once 223 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 5: you climb over all those hurdles, then I know I 224 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 5: can trust you. You know that sort of thing. So, 225 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 5: and I think you're somebody too. You get a lot 226 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 5: of dreams. Are you aware of that? 227 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:57,559 Speaker 2: As in like do I have, Oh my God, almost 228 00:08:57,559 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 2: every night? 229 00:08:57,960 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 5: Beautiful? Because a lot of people don't remember that sort 230 00:08:59,960 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 5: of thing. And again, it's your your connections with spirit. 231 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 5: You haven't lost a cousin or a mate or somebody 232 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:07,720 Speaker 5: your generation. 233 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 2: Have you? Yeah? I did. 234 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, it felt like an impact or I'm not sure. 235 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 5: It didn't feel like it was almost a natural passing. 236 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 5: It felt to me like it was like a little 237 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 5: bit of an unexpected, unnatural passing. But to me, I 238 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 5: feel like this person you either knew well you knew them, 239 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 5: or you were close to them in life. And I 240 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 5: felt like, I want to say that you're almost like finishing, 241 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 5: finishing what I started. And to me, it's like life's journey. 242 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 5: This person was cut out in their prime or cut 243 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 5: out before their prime. Does that sort of make sense? 244 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 5: And now it's like you're getting to do things that 245 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 5: they never got to do and they're over your shoulder 246 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 5: watching that. You know, So can I ask who that is? 247 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 5: To you? That person there could be took? I couldn't. 248 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:50,599 Speaker 5: I got a friend, and then I thought there was 249 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:51,239 Speaker 5: a blood. 250 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 4: Or a cousin cousin, but it was yeah, okay, so 251 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 4: the one would be a friend and one he wasn't 252 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 4: actually my cousin, but he's one of those people who 253 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 4: we grew up like cousins. 254 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:02,200 Speaker 2: I called his mom auntie and. 255 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:04,839 Speaker 5: Beautiful, beautiful that I'm happy with because to me, I 256 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 5: couldn't exactly match the blood, but I'm thinking, is it 257 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 5: friend or is it cousin? But I couldn't split, so 258 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 5: that's probably two so simple enough. So and I've got 259 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 5: to say the one that you grew up calling like 260 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 5: an auntie and the family and all that sort of thing, 261 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 5: he's like, he's very proud of you, you know, he's 262 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:21,440 Speaker 5: very proud of like the challenges you've overcome. All the 263 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:22,839 Speaker 5: things that you know, and you do a lot of 264 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 5: things to help people. I don't know if it's charity incorporated. 265 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 2: But you do it to do with him, Oh beautiful. 266 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 5: But to me, it reminds me of and remember when 267 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 5: I said, you're you're starting, You're finishing what he didn't 268 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 5: get to do. It's almost like, you know, it's like 269 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 5: a legacy. You're carrying it on and it's like you're 270 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:40,679 Speaker 5: you're I'm seeing like you know in the Olympics where 271 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 5: they carry the torch, you know, and it reminds me 272 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 5: of and again just stop me if it's too personal, 273 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 5: but it reminds me of somebody not being able to 274 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 5: get all the ducks in a row in life, do 275 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 5: you know what I mean? And I feel like I'm 276 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 5: going to tell you that in spirit, I've got all 277 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 5: my ducks in a row. Now, it reminds me of 278 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 5: either mental health or it reminds me of somebody that 279 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 5: their actions either cause them to pass over or that 280 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 5: sort of thing. Does that all sort of make sense 281 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 5: around there? 282 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 2: Yep. 283 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 5: So I've got to say, at the end of the day, 284 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 5: you are carrying the torch, and you are carrying the 285 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 5: flag and to me. This gentleman was whop be cheeky. Yes, 286 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 5: he's laughing and saying by the time you get over here, 287 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 5: you're gonna be old and wrinkling, and he's gonna be 288 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 5: still good looking, if that's common or what the case is. 289 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 5: But to me, it's almost like, and I've got to say, 290 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 5: even though you're in a podcast and obviously a public figure, 291 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:31,319 Speaker 5: there's a part of you that doesn't. There's a shyness 292 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 5: that sometimes you don't like to me in front of everyone, 293 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 5: telling everything and saying everything. You like to almost put 294 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 5: on the wizard's robe and become somebody else, do you 295 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 5: know what I mean? So does that sort of make sense? 296 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 5: Like even I do public work and I have kittens 297 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 5: in my stomach before I go to it to work, 298 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 5: you know, and I'm seeing you too, But that's a 299 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 5: person that cares and wants to cares about their craft, 300 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 5: that kind of thing. So keep that all on board 301 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 5: for me. And there's another sorry, have you got a 302 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 5: younger pop, a younger pop? Have you got a pop 303 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 5: in spirit? Yes? 304 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 3: But I didn't know another one. 305 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 5: We didn't know who would have had the farm connection, 306 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:07,839 Speaker 5: or maybe I felt like coming down I was thinking 307 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:10,839 Speaker 5: of cows and animals and all that sort of thing, 308 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 5: but particularly cows, and I'm thinking to myself, I was thinking, 309 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 5: please let it be cow figurines of this person likes, 310 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 5: and I, no, it's the mook out. 311 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 1: My dad's side of the family has farms, beautiful, grew 312 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 1: up going to farm. 313 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:24,840 Speaker 3: Maybe that's where you're saying beautiful. 314 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 5: So I've got to say, I feel like I've got 315 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:31,200 Speaker 5: I had this actual cow connection. So I was really 316 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 5: worried that a cow was going to come through. I've 317 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 5: had all sorts of animals come through in my history, 318 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 5: so I thought, I really don't know that was a 319 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:41,959 Speaker 5: bigger version. But I've got to say, and I feel 320 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 5: like if I can come back to the grandmother that's 321 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 5: actually here on one's side, has she got a little 322 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 5: bit of mobility or leg issues. 323 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 3: Not like major things going on. 324 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 5: I kind of feel that nothing's going to stop this woman, 325 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 5: do you know what I mean? And I kind of 326 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 5: feel that, you know, even if she's got a sore leg, 327 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 5: you'll not know about it, but you're s'll hobble and 328 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 5: she'll get to where she needs to go. 329 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 3: And like go to the doctors and she's like, no, 330 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 3: I'm fine. 331 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 5: God like nan. And is it her husband that's here? Yes, yep, okay, 332 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 5: he's Is he got a good head of hair? No? 333 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 3: No, when he was younger he did? 334 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 5: Okay, like I'm seeing the Kentucky Fried Chicken man. So 335 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 5: I don't know when he was younger if he had 336 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 5: that sort of hair, And don't know, but is he 337 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 5: somebody that that really like men? We admit we're vain women, 338 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 5: but men they don't so much. But I think that's 339 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 5: either really bothering him or somebody in spirit above him 340 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:31,199 Speaker 5: is laughing about that that he's got like a hair. 341 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 5: And I think I suspect it might be his father, 342 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 5: who's a military man. I don't think it's Matt's side 343 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 5: of things. Okay, got it? 344 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 3: So he was in the navy, Okay. 345 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 5: And did somebody do you know? And I think I'm 346 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 5: going back too far, and I don't want to go 347 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:48,440 Speaker 5: too far if I can help it. But I feel 348 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:50,960 Speaker 5: like somebody that didn't come back from war or their 349 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 5: body was you know, buried overseas. Would that make any 350 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 5: sense in your probably like way back? Yeah? 351 00:13:57,040 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I need to do my family come prepared to. 352 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 5: That's all right, all good. And I've got to say, 353 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 5: and what I saw around you also a brit was 354 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:08,560 Speaker 5: a lot of bubbles and a lot of froth and 355 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 5: a lot of and that's good times to me, you know. 356 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 5: So and again I'm getting the American connection. So would 357 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 5: you have any plans to go to America? Would you 358 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 5: have any And I'm talking the West coast, so like California, 359 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 5: all that side of the world. Would that make any 360 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 5: sense to any plans or anything at at the. 361 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 3: Moment maybe in the future in business. 362 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 5: Okay, got it? Okay, I kind of feel that both 363 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 5: of you, wherever you go, you've got that business brain on. 364 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 5: Even even if I was relaxing in Hawaii, you know, 365 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 5: I'd be still that radar would still be out there, 366 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 5: you know, that sort of thing. So I've got to say, 367 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 5: and whatever it is, again, I feel foolish saying to 368 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 5: a young lady like memoirs or something like that, but 369 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 5: I do feel like something's getting written down and it's 370 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 5: going to be so so relevant, so important. So I'm 371 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 5: just talking about beautiful, beautiful, And with mad it's like 372 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 5: I see more poetry, You're I'm seeing more factual. You 373 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 5: two really are ying and Yang you're really complimenting, like 374 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 5: you know, you really and I don't know how long 375 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 5: your association's been, but I can see the association of 376 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 5: the road ahead is going to be like very fruitful 377 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 5: and very you know, long standing. So that's good as well. 378 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 5: So I wanted to go where yours was. Factual, you're 379 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 5: very good. Have you ever written poetry or songs? 380 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 2: Only high occuse when I learned Japanese. 381 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 3: One song before, like a parody before. 382 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 5: Okay, okay, now you're very I love how humble you are. 383 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 5: You're very you know, you're not You're not arrogant, you're not. 384 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 5: But to me, there's more going on there than you realize, 385 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 5: you know, And you're like me, you're like I like 386 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 5: to laugh and let not everyone see the real me, 387 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 5: you know, as I said, you don't like to let 388 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 5: too many people in. I saw you m seeing a 389 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 5: function or M seeing a big event. So I don't 390 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 5: know if that's on the game plan, but to me 391 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 5: it's almost like not just you're very much behind the 392 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 5: scenes person as well. You'll make everything happen and you 393 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 5: won't take the credit. But I saw you up on 394 00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 5: stage m seeing like a large gathering, and again it's 395 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 5: for it reminds me of like either mental health issues 396 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 5: or making sure that people have got support. Would that 397 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 5: resonate at all? 398 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 4: Well, I'm a stand up comedian and so I do 399 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 4: stand up shows, but my shows always have a message, 400 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 4: whether it is mental health or body image or you know, 401 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 4: things that beautiful. 402 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 5: So I don't think you understand how much impact you're 403 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 5: making there. Would that ever get televised or has anybody 404 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 5: ever talked about that to you? 405 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 4: We filmed it, but only for social So when I 406 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 4: do my next show, I'll use that show to promote 407 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 4: the next. 408 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 2: Go Okay, I. 409 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 5: Kind of feel that the right person is going to 410 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 5: see that down the track and that might end up 411 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 5: on Netflix or it's one of the major you know 412 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 5: I THINGLF remember when it used to be Channel ten, 413 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 5: nine and seven that was major. Now it's Netflix and 414 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 5: all those sorts of things. So I kind of saw 415 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 5: that happening as well. And is it too much to 416 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 5: go into love? Yeah, let's go into that beautiful beautiful 417 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 5: because I never know from crossing a line or anything 418 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 5: of that nature. So I kind of felt again and 419 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 5: just will we conne edited caut if we get too personal? 420 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 5: But the thing is that the end the day? Again, 421 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:04,159 Speaker 5: you're somebody that there's and I don't know whether you're 422 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:06,239 Speaker 5: single or you're you're not, but what I got was 423 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 5: that there's somebody I thought was in your aura, somebody 424 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 5: that was there. And my instinct was it's like every 425 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 5: time somebody wants to get closer to you, it's like 426 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 5: you want that and then not to be. This isn't 427 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 5: doom and gloom, but it's like you sort of put 428 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 5: the brakes on. Does that sort of make sense? 429 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:22,680 Speaker 2: Yep? 430 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 5: And that's it almost feels like those brakes will come 431 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 5: off when you're ready for them to come off. You know. 432 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 5: I don't see anybody dominant in trying to force your hand, 433 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 5: but I kind of feel that the time will come 434 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:36,199 Speaker 5: when you're ready, you know. So so whatever you're giving 435 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 5: and whatever somebody's seeing of you, it's only like the 436 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 5: tip of the iceberg, you know, and you're only going 437 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 5: to see the rest of the iceberg when I allow 438 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 5: you to see it. That's the way you are. Does 439 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 5: that sort of make sense around that? 440 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? 441 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:49,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, beautiful? And who's the your mat So who's the 442 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 5: mark or the mar name? I've got to get to Mark. 443 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 5: I can't think of anything else mascoulin or I don't 444 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 5: think it's a mick that doesn't jump out anywhere, does it? 445 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:01,880 Speaker 2: No? I mean, my dad's name is Michael. 446 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 5: But oh is it okay? No? No, no, I thought 447 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 5: I went to say Mark, and then I went and 448 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 5: I went an fat and did I say Michael. 449 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 2: Or Mike before you did? 450 00:18:11,040 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 5: Said Mark? And then I thought, I said, okay, So 451 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 5: I don't know. Is he very? Is he a workaholic? 452 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, for sure. 453 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 5: I kind of feel that that even when it comes 454 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 5: time to retirement, he's somebody that you won't. 455 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 2: You should be retiring, and he just got a promotion. 456 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:29,440 Speaker 5: I wasn't sure because I thought, you don't look that old, 457 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 5: and I don't know how old dad is. But to me, 458 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:33,639 Speaker 5: it's like there's no stopping that man. Like it almost 459 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:35,679 Speaker 5: feels like, you know, if I was to sit and retire, 460 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 5: I'd be like, what do I do next? Like I 461 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 5: don't want to just wait to the world's over, you know. 462 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 5: So he's so he was due to retire and he's 463 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 5: just got a promotion. So that's all good. So, and 464 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 5: who's the garden fanatic around you? Britt in the Living 465 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 5: the female who likes to sit in the garden. Yeah, 466 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 5: how a man goes off and does fishing who likes 467 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 5: to sit in the garden. 468 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:55,440 Speaker 3: And just do probably say it's Nan again, okay. 469 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 5: And so I think you might find that I don't 470 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 5: think it's her. I might be her knees, but I 471 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:02,200 Speaker 5: think that might give her a little bit of trouble 472 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:04,520 Speaker 5: that when she's bending down getting up again, and I 473 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 5: think that will frustrate it, you know. So she's not 474 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 5: somebody wants to stand at the mall shopping. She wants to, 475 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 5: you know, be with nature, you know that sort of thing. 476 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:13,120 Speaker 3: So beautiful gardens, beautiful, beautiful. 477 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 5: So I feel like, I don't know, are you guys 478 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 5: having a hiatus? Like why am I getting March being 479 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 5: very relevant for you two? Would you work through Christmas? 480 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 2: Well, she'll work through Christmas. 481 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:31,119 Speaker 4: March is very relevant for me because I'm saying, Kylie Minogue. 482 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 2: It's also around the same time as Mardi Gras. 483 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 5: Okay, got it. So to me, I don't know what 484 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 5: it is, but I saw a hiatus, So to me 485 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 5: it was almost like a little bit of a break. 486 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 5: But to me doing other things, and even though Kylie 487 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 5: Minogue and the Mardi Gras is all pleasure and fun. Again, 488 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 5: your business mind is always on, It's always I don't know, 489 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 5: does he ever stop? Does he ever turn off? I 490 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:52,639 Speaker 5: don't think you do, do you? 491 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 2: You know? 492 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 5: So? And I've got to say, when we're talking about 493 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:58,439 Speaker 5: the person that was more like a family member, can 494 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 5: I get back to the friend again? I don't didn't 495 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 5: feel that this was a natural passing. You don't have 496 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:05,640 Speaker 5: to tell me the passing. But does that make sense 497 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 5: around him as well? 498 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:08,679 Speaker 2: Yes? What do you mean about I don't feel like. 499 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:10,679 Speaker 5: There's a cancer. I felt like it was like a 500 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:13,919 Speaker 5: little bit of an unexpected or an unusual passing, you know. 501 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 5: I didn't feel like it was like I didn't see 502 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 5: a decline where I'm deteriorating, you know that sort of thing. So, 503 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:21,359 Speaker 5: and would that person have had a longevity with you 504 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 5: as well? You knew them for a long time, like 505 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:29,160 Speaker 5: maybe not necessarily school, but maybe a lengthy time. 506 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:32,679 Speaker 2: No, a couple of years, but not canot compare to 507 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 2: other people in my life? 508 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 5: Would he be somebody that it's like one of those 509 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:37,720 Speaker 5: like to me, I felt, you know, sometimes you meet 510 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:39,640 Speaker 5: somebody just feel like I've known you for ever? Would 511 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 5: that be that connection with him or were you a 512 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:42,360 Speaker 5: bit of a rock for him? 513 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:47,520 Speaker 2: For sure? Meeting him was like we were so yeah, 514 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:49,640 Speaker 2: it connected away. 515 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 5: I kind of feel that. I don't know if you've 516 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:55,399 Speaker 5: ever seen that movie with John travold and it's called Michael, 517 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 5: and it's he's the left of center sort of angel. 518 00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 5: And so this gentleman, he's got a good sense of 519 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:02,840 Speaker 5: humor and he's saying, he's your angel and your shoulder, 520 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 5: but he's a left of center. He's not your normal angel. 521 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:07,760 Speaker 5: You know, so you're probably too young. But there's an 522 00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 5: old movie with Michael Carmichael with John Travolda, and he's 523 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 5: a little bit of the different sort of angel. And 524 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 5: that's what this gentleman's saying as well. Who had the 525 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,879 Speaker 5: car wreck or the car impact or it's a bang feeling? 526 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:19,480 Speaker 5: Does that make any sense around either of you. 527 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 3: I've definitely dimed up some cars over the years. 528 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 5: No, no, no, I felt like somebody passed and I 529 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 5: thought it was like an impact of banged feeling, So 530 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 5: definitely not a premonition. I don't do that. So this 531 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:32,679 Speaker 5: is somebody already in spirit, So well, that makes sense. 532 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 5: I felt I want to go your way, but that 533 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,199 Speaker 5: does make any sense and memory? No, so can I 534 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 5: give you and Mum's here in the living? Your mom beautiful? 535 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:42,639 Speaker 5: Who's the who would have had the stomach cance around her? 536 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 5: I don't think you're gonna be able to tell me that, 537 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:48,680 Speaker 5: are you. That's okay, so Mum's good. We're gonna have 538 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 5: to talk Mum's ear off later on. But either way, 539 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:53,080 Speaker 5: but I kind of felt like that impact or something 540 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 5: was around that side of the family, but a long 541 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 5: time in spirit, you know, so so keep that on board. 542 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,360 Speaker 5: So now hit me with some questions. 543 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, the first question we wanted to know was 544 00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 4: what you think we might have in store for us 545 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 4: in twenty twenty five business wise? 546 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 5: Now, I don't know how long this is. Why am 547 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 5: I getting eighteen months? How long has this podcast been going? 548 00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? Maybe eighteen months? 549 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:19,119 Speaker 5: Almost beautiful excellent, So I kind of feel like we 550 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:20,639 Speaker 5: can double that again. So I don't know if you 551 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 5: work on contracts, that's probably silly question. You probably do, 552 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,399 Speaker 5: but either way, but I felt like we're doing that again. 553 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,360 Speaker 5: But you guys are just gonna you're going to break 554 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 5: the mold, you know, like you know, and I don't 555 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 5: know how much I shouldn't say in front of your bosses, 556 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,159 Speaker 5: but I don't have much supervision. You've got and all 557 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 5: that sort of thing, But it's kind of like you've 558 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 5: got carte blanche to do what you want to do. 559 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:39,840 Speaker 5: But would you take this on the road? Does that 560 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,320 Speaker 5: make sense? Get it? Beautiful? Would you be able to 561 00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:43,160 Speaker 5: take this on the road? 562 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, yep, we're talking about that beautiful. 563 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 5: So to me, it's almost like I'm seeing all the 564 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:52,200 Speaker 5: east coast of Australia. So I'm hitting Brisbane, I'm hitting Melbourne, 565 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,639 Speaker 5: I'm hitting all this side. But I also felt like, 566 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 5: why would I be tapping into New Zealand, Like would 567 00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:00,920 Speaker 5: there be any connection with this? I'm assuming podcast I'm old, 568 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 5: So podcasts go everywhere, don't they. You can pick them 569 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 5: up everywhere. 570 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:04,439 Speaker 2: Got it? 571 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 5: So I'm getting a New Zealand connection, but all this 572 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 5: east side so and to me, again, you both love 573 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 5: doing what you do here, but standing up front of 574 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 5: the audience is very daunting. But again remember that I said, 575 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 5: and I don't think the MC that I saw the 576 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,880 Speaker 5: stand up comedian that's your show, so that's not MC. 577 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:24,440 Speaker 5: And the M scene was almost like it reminded me 578 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:28,719 Speaker 5: of like a benefit or a what do you call it, 579 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 5: a fundraiser or something of that nature, where we're drawing 580 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,440 Speaker 5: attention to people and you're m seeing it and there's 581 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 5: a little bit of humor thrown in there, because you know, 582 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 5: mental health the subject matter that I do, it's all 583 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 5: pretty hard stuff, you know, and we want to make 584 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,199 Speaker 5: people laugh and we want to make people, you know, 585 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 5: laugh and cry at the same time. And that's where 586 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 5: you've got a neck. And I saw that. I don't 587 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,200 Speaker 5: know if you're going to be happy, Britt, but inadvertently 588 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 5: pulled up on stage, you know what I mean. So 589 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 5: I don't know whether it's going to come again. You're 590 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 5: going with a plan when you take this on the road, 591 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 5: when you take this on the road, not if you 592 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 5: take this on the road. And I kind of feel 593 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 5: that you think that you're not going to be up 594 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:07,639 Speaker 5: front and center, but you will be, so you know, 595 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:11,399 Speaker 5: so so yeah, So I kind of felt this association 596 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,679 Speaker 5: reminds me of like Kyle and Jackie, Oh, like you know, 597 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 5: like it'll be a long association. So I don't know 598 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 5: if you know them or but to me, it reminded 599 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 5: me of a long association for you two. You see 600 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 5: a lot of people, Life gets in the way, romance 601 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 5: gets in the way, business whatever, and people sort of 602 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,199 Speaker 5: are part company. But I saw with you guys that 603 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,080 Speaker 5: I'm gonna have to listen now. But there's a good 604 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 5: formula and it's it's lively, and it's upbeat, and you're 605 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,200 Speaker 5: young and you're you know, people can relate to you. 606 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,159 Speaker 5: So I see it going on the road. And I 607 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 5: saw remember that, I said, a New Zealand connection. But 608 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 5: when I said I saw you going on the road, 609 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:45,880 Speaker 5: then I heard New Zealand connections. So I'm not sure 610 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 5: that you're taking it to New Zealand. But this seems 611 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,200 Speaker 5: to be a New Zealand connection, so keep that on board. 612 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 5: But I keep getting all the East side of Australia, 613 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 5: and then down the track I'm hearing the west side saying, 614 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,000 Speaker 5: but what about us? You know, I'm hearing Shaddon, no, 615 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,360 Speaker 5: what about me? You know, that kind of mixed. So 616 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 5: I think that's good. And do you guys? I mean, 617 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 5: obviously you probably don't write scripts as such, and you 618 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 5: go by the seat of your pants in a good way. 619 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,119 Speaker 5: But I saw like a script getting written, so I 620 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,000 Speaker 5: don't know if that's to take on the road. Is 621 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:15,919 Speaker 5: that something that's gone through your mind already? 622 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 4: Well, I write one for the live shows, which I'm 623 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 4: currently writing the script now for one in two weeks. 624 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 5: So it got a beautiful, beautiful and that flows, Matt, 625 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 5: It really flows for you. Like it's almost like I 626 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 5: don't know if you stay up burning the candle, but 627 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:33,199 Speaker 5: it's like I can't stop. You know, I should go 628 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,119 Speaker 5: to bed, but no, I'm still writing. 629 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,640 Speaker 2: So is like my most creative hour. 630 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:40,159 Speaker 5: Love it. It's the bewitching hour. And there's no interruptions, 631 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:41,879 Speaker 5: there's no phone calls or that sort of thing. So 632 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 5: I think that's I think that's beautiful. So I think 633 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 5: your successful road is going to be successful because you 634 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 5: guys make it that way. It's not just going to 635 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 5: be divine intervention. I kind of think, you know, you 636 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:54,920 Speaker 5: see people that we in oscars that are in the 637 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 5: right place at the right time, and then you see 638 00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 5: the ones that don't get that accolade. But you guys 639 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 5: are going to make it happen, if that makes sense. 640 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 5: You're you're very determined, but you're not you know what 641 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:06,440 Speaker 5: I love about you guys, You're not you don't walk 642 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,199 Speaker 5: on people to get where you need to go, but 643 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 5: you're someone to let people stand in your way where 644 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:11,879 Speaker 5: you're gonna go. And I like that as well. You know, 645 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:14,760 Speaker 5: So are you moving, brit Or? Why am I seeing 646 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:17,480 Speaker 5: like a spreading of the wings? It's like you do you? 647 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:19,400 Speaker 5: I mean, you look you look like you're about twenty. 648 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:20,920 Speaker 5: You're gonna tell me you like thirty five or something, 649 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 5: but thirty one. Of course I knew that happened. But 650 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 5: to me, it's almost like I had a feeling that 651 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,359 Speaker 5: you were either close to home or I don't know 652 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,000 Speaker 5: if you live at home, but I saw a spreading 653 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,160 Speaker 5: of the wings or moving. Does that make any sense 654 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:32,360 Speaker 5: at the moment? Is that on the game card? 655 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,119 Speaker 1: It could be two things? So we did just move house, 656 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 1: but also I have a business and where it's spreading. 657 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 5: Okay, so maybe that beautiful. So I saw four hats 658 00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:45,959 Speaker 5: for you, So this would be one. Yeah, the business 659 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 5: you were talking about, I'm thinking separate from this, that 660 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 5: would be two. I saw something with a passive income 661 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 5: that almost like you either oversee it or it's almost 662 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:55,399 Speaker 5: like I just have to check into it. So I 663 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 5: don't know if that's relevant at the moment. And then 664 00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 5: there's one that I don't think hasn't come in yet. 665 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 5: So again it's like you're like Matt, like your money 666 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:10,439 Speaker 5: what it's like, It's fantastic because you you're motivated, you know, 667 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 5: and I think this is I'm hearing make Hay while 668 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 5: the sunshines, you know, so this is your moment, you know. 669 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:19,080 Speaker 5: So do you guys if I go back before eighteen months? 670 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 5: Well you guys, you guys, that sounds really disrespectful that 671 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 5: make that way. But have you have you had some 672 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 5: sort of collaboration before this? Yeah? 673 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 2: No big project like this though collab collaborated? 674 00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,280 Speaker 5: God, yes, because I heard third Time Lucky, So I 675 00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:34,400 Speaker 5: don't know if there was two things. 676 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:37,640 Speaker 2: This is actually crazy. 677 00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:39,679 Speaker 5: Do you want to understand that? 678 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 4: But okay, it's going to take me a second to explain. 679 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 4: So I used to have a podcast called trash Ally 680 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 4: and then this is my second podcast, and the first 681 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 4: podcast went to ship. This podcast, I thought, well, if 682 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 4: this one goes to ship, I'll start a third podcast 683 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 4: and I'll call it third Time Lucky, and I'll do 684 00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 4: it myself. 685 00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,919 Speaker 2: I'll do it myself. 686 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,640 Speaker 4: Because then there's no way that anyone else can control. 687 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 5: Now even though isn't that crazy because the collaboration is 688 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 5: going to work. But you've both got your separate individual 689 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,679 Speaker 5: lives as well and career and points and all that 690 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,639 Speaker 5: sort of thing, so you're not sort of wrapped around 691 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:17,160 Speaker 5: each other. But I tell you what, third time luck 692 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 5: is what I heard. So I think that down the 693 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,680 Speaker 5: truck them is something there, you know, So that's very 694 00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 5: that's too bizarre to ignore. So so yeah, so I 695 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 5: think that's good. But I also saw that the stand 696 00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 5: up is gonna you know, you've got I don't think 697 00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,680 Speaker 5: there's enough hours in the day for you, Matt, for 698 00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:32,680 Speaker 5: everything you want to do. 699 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 4: That because I don't think anyone else appreciates that. 700 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 5: And it's almost like you're like me, It's like, oh, 701 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 5: I really do have to sleep because the body needs 702 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 5: to sleep. But again, there's just so much to do 703 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 5: and so much to see. So so I think, you know, 704 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 5: I think it's just like I've seen fireworks, and fireworks 705 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 5: to me is a good thing. That's a celebration. I think. 706 00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 5: I do think travels are relevant. 707 00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:00,920 Speaker 2: Brittany wants to do it a lot of traveling next year, 708 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 2: So do I four? 709 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:04,719 Speaker 5: Would you go more to Europe? 710 00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:05,120 Speaker 2: Yes? 711 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 5: And you go more to America. 712 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 3: I'll go anywhere you're going towhere, Okay, I'll go both, 713 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:10,440 Speaker 3: got it. 714 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 5: I saw you deep in Europe. I know this is 715 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 5: the weirdest thing, but would you have been interested in 716 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 5: the Nordic side of the world? What is that, like 717 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 5: the Viking side, like the southern what they call it 718 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 5: the lights, the Northern lights. 719 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 4: Or that's something that's actually fucked that you've said that, Yeah, 720 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 4: so what do you know about the Northern Arts? 721 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 5: To me, I kind of felt like, you look, I mean, 722 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 5: you've got the blonde hair and you've got the sweet look, 723 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,040 Speaker 5: you know. But the thing is like, to me, I 724 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 5: kind of felt I don't know about past lives and 725 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,600 Speaker 5: all that. I always think we're here, you know now. 726 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,160 Speaker 5: But the thing is, it's almost like I feel like 727 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 5: I couldn't go to that side of the world without 728 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 5: having a little bit of a sticky beak in where 729 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:51,480 Speaker 5: the Northern lights are. I don't think you can see 730 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 5: the Northern Lights from the Eiffel Tower, So you'd have 731 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 5: to go to like that side of the world. It 732 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,600 Speaker 5: might be in and out. I feel like I'm either 733 00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 5: on a boat or it might be just an in 734 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 5: and out thing, but kind of feel that if you 735 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,800 Speaker 5: go there, you'll feel like, you know, like a deja vous, 736 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 5: like I've been here before, like I had to see 737 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 5: this side of the world, you know. So I don't know, 738 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 5: have you ever drawn to Viking shows or any of 739 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:10,680 Speaker 5: that nature. 740 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 2: No, not necessarily very important. 741 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:18,400 Speaker 5: I kind of feel that you don't want to google him, 742 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 5: google them, google google them me. I'm old, you want 743 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 5: to actually see them, you know, and so I don't 744 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 5: know where how far they go when you're over in Europe, 745 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 5: but I kind of feel like I actually want to 746 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 5: see them. I want to experience that, you know. So 747 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 5: I'm seeing like the Eiffel Tower I'm seeing would you 748 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 5: go to England. I've seen the King's Castle I'm seeing, 749 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 5: but I'm seeing all the normal tourist stops. But I 750 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,320 Speaker 5: thought the Northern Lights was if I'm there, then I'm 751 00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 5: going to make a left turn. But I saw a 752 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 5: brit with more I saw like the California I'm hearing 753 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:51,440 Speaker 5: Katy Perry's California Girls all that side of the world. 754 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,960 Speaker 5: So I don't know what that's about either, But to me, again, 755 00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:56,320 Speaker 5: it's like you've got so much. You're both sort of 756 00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,560 Speaker 5: wanderers at heart, and but you always come back to base, 757 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 5: you know, so it's like full circle. 758 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:02,719 Speaker 4: You know. 759 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,400 Speaker 5: So if you were to move overseas, which I'm not 760 00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 5: really seeing on the cards, you'd stay there six months, 761 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:09,680 Speaker 5: but you'd have to come back, you know that sort 762 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,080 Speaker 5: of thing. So I'm hearing all the songs. I'm hearing 763 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,200 Speaker 5: Peter Allen still call Australia home, you know that sort 764 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,200 Speaker 5: of thing. So so keep that on board for me. So, 765 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 5: but the dreams, I think you're going to find you 766 00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,479 Speaker 5: get a lot of inspiration through dreams. I think you're 767 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 5: gonna find that's going to sort of up the ante 768 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 5: a little bit more your comedy. It's almost like I'm 769 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 5: seeing I don't know why, probably because it's music station, 770 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 5: but I'm seeing song after song. But you know how 771 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 5: Taylor Swift, when somebody upsetter, it goes in a song. 772 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 5: I'm kind of feeling that if anyone upset you, it 773 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 5: goes in a skits exact. I love that, you know, 774 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 5: I wrote books and did the same thing. I thought, 775 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 5: I've got to stop writing books. Everyone that offends me 776 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 5: goes in the books. So I'm seeing but that's a 777 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:48,920 Speaker 5: good thing because that's a way to get it out, 778 00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:51,600 Speaker 5: you know. So I think I think that audience at 779 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,400 Speaker 5: the moment, what sort of crowds would you be looking 780 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,520 Speaker 5: at with your stand up Matt would have been like 781 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 5: one hundred to two hundred. 782 00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, about five hundred beautiful. 783 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 5: I thought that would double. So if we're looking at 784 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 5: five hundred, I think you're going to look at bigger 785 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 5: arenas and again sort of incorporating other things. But I'm 786 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 5: back to this m scene and the two gentlemen in 787 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 5: spirit that are connected to you. Think that's very relevant. 788 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:16,120 Speaker 5: So whatever message or whatever you know making people feel good, 789 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 5: so they're going to be very much around you. So 790 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 5: have you got a photo? Can I go back to 791 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 5: the gentleman that was almost like a cousin? Have you 792 00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,440 Speaker 5: got a photo of him anywhere close to home, not 793 00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 5: in a phone that you can see? 794 00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,400 Speaker 2: No, I don't, no soul. 795 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 5: Would you remember a funeral photo of him? 796 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:33,640 Speaker 2: Yes? 797 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 5: He said it wasn't his best shot. What does that mean? 798 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 5: Is he is he a bit of a character that way? 799 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,480 Speaker 2: Yeah? He is. He was a bit of a character. 800 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 4: I think he mentions the funeral because I was so young, 801 00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 4: my parents didn't let me got. 802 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,400 Speaker 5: It Okay, got it, okay. So I think in a 803 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 5: lot of ways, I think, you know, I think that 804 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,040 Speaker 5: led to you to sort of think the worst. You know. 805 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,200 Speaker 5: So your parents did the right thing, shielding you, but 806 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:57,840 Speaker 5: I think that your mind sort of conjured up worse things, 807 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,280 Speaker 5: you know. So he's saying he's okay, he's not a 808 00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 5: big believer in people like me, not a big believer 809 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 5: in life after you know this one. But he says, 810 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 5: but I'm here, I know that there's something going on, 811 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 5: and I'm around you, so keep it on board. But 812 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 5: he's talking about a photo or a photo that he 813 00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 5: wants you to have, or a photo that not in 814 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,719 Speaker 5: the phone. Everyone's got photos in the phone. But then 815 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 5: he refers to a funeral photo being not his best shot. 816 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,160 Speaker 5: So see if that if you can ever track that 817 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,560 Speaker 5: photo down or see or you know. But to me again, 818 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 5: it's like it's all about the looks, you know. And 819 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:26,480 Speaker 5: they're both saying you're going to be old and wrinkly 820 00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:27,840 Speaker 5: when you get over there. So that's a good thing, 821 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,160 Speaker 5: so beautiful. So and I know this is are you 822 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 5: a mother? 823 00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:32,480 Speaker 3: No? 824 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,480 Speaker 5: No? Is that stop me if it's too personal? Is 825 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 5: that on the game plan? 826 00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:38,400 Speaker 3: It's actually not at the moment. 827 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 5: Okay, got it, at the moment. If you've got a 828 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,480 Speaker 5: furd baby too, okay, So would one be a little 829 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 5: bit more like my animal's all suokie, they want to 830 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:48,000 Speaker 5: be on your lap, that sort of thing. It's one 831 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 5: a little bit more sookified than the other. They're no 832 00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:52,040 Speaker 5: nicer way to say that. But to me, that's like 833 00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 5: your babies. I don't know, you know, whatever you decide 834 00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 5: to do baby wise, yeah, you'll have what you want 835 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,720 Speaker 5: to have. So do you know what I mean? Like, 836 00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 5: if you want to have two children, you'll have two children. 837 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 5: Sometimes I see people, you know, they might be my age, 838 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 5: and they think they're gonna have a baby, and I'm like, oh, 839 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:09,879 Speaker 5: I don't see it happening. Maybe you should buy a dog, 840 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:11,560 Speaker 5: you know what I mean. I have to tell somebody 841 00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:13,280 Speaker 5: that they're not gonna have a baby when they're sixty, 842 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,279 Speaker 5: you know. So, But to me, I kind of see 843 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,120 Speaker 5: you having what you want to have. But you're very 844 00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 5: structured brit You'll almost like almost make an appointment with 845 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 5: yourself when you're going to do that, do you know 846 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,959 Speaker 5: what I mean? But beforehand, and thirty one is so young, 847 00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:27,280 Speaker 5: you've got so much to do, so much to conquer, 848 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,800 Speaker 5: but those fur babies, and one in particular, it's almost 849 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 5: like I don't know if that frets when you're not 850 00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,239 Speaker 5: there or cries, but it just feel like I can't 851 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:36,319 Speaker 5: get close enough to you. 852 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,799 Speaker 3: So, you know, more than likely crying right now. 853 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 5: Probably. I love that. So and I'm assuming you're married 854 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:45,960 Speaker 5: or have a partner, Yeah, long term partner. Beautiful, beautiful 855 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:49,720 Speaker 5: because to me, and are you not a good cook? 856 00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:53,480 Speaker 3: I don't like to cook? So, yeah, you're right there. 857 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:55,719 Speaker 5: That's really a nice way to really walk into that. 858 00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 5: Does it does your partner or a husband to be? 859 00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 5: Does he he like to cook? Yeah? 860 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 3: He likes the cook. 861 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:04,319 Speaker 5: I love that because what I got was it's like 862 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 5: you're more than happy and that over to him. I 863 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 5: love that at all. And I kind of feel that, 864 00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 5: you know, I mean, I don't want to go too 865 00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,239 Speaker 5: close to him. We haven't got his permission all that 866 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:15,799 Speaker 5: sort of thing, but he's a very much a home 867 00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,719 Speaker 5: person and very much that his family and you is 868 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:21,160 Speaker 5: what counts, you know, So would you know anybody in spirit? 869 00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:22,279 Speaker 5: I don't know if you can hear me, but I'm 870 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,440 Speaker 5: very horse, very raspy. So I don't know if there's 871 00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:27,759 Speaker 5: an inphysema or a throat cancer. But I'm all clogged up. Yeah, 872 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:30,400 Speaker 5: would that mean anything to a man in spirit and 873 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,880 Speaker 5: there's a j connected to him, a gym or a James. 874 00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:34,839 Speaker 5: I don't know if that jumps out, does it? No? 875 00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:37,160 Speaker 5: I don't know. That's okay, that's all right. So I'm 876 00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:39,279 Speaker 5: either wrong or we're going to get homework later and 877 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 5: find out we're right, Hiven, But I don't know. I 878 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,239 Speaker 5: got very raspy just so I was talking to you then, 879 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:46,160 Speaker 5: So would you know anything about your husband, your partner's 880 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:46,840 Speaker 5: side of the family. 881 00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:50,120 Speaker 3: Oh, bits and bobs, they kind of leave all over Okay. 882 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:51,520 Speaker 5: I don't know if it was when we were talking 883 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,319 Speaker 5: about him, but either way, so keep that on board. So, 884 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,480 Speaker 5: and when you go traveling, would he not go necessarily 885 00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:56,759 Speaker 5: with you? 886 00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 2: Yeah? 887 00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:00,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, I kind of thought, again I'm sort of invading 888 00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:03,360 Speaker 5: your personal space, but I kind of felt like I 889 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,400 Speaker 5: kind of felt he's going to keep the home fires 890 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,719 Speaker 5: burning and while you go do what you do, because 891 00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 5: what I got was he'd be sitting in a motel anyway, 892 00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:12,400 Speaker 5: or do you know what I mean? Like if because again, 893 00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:15,160 Speaker 5: it's not a holiday you'd be going and I see 894 00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:18,279 Speaker 5: wheeling and dealing. I see like having corporate meetings. I 895 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,000 Speaker 5: see like, you know, talking about where we're going to go, 896 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:22,879 Speaker 5: and your husband be like I'd have to just bed 897 00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:24,880 Speaker 5: home doing what I've got to do, you know. So 898 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 5: so but he really wants you to shine. And that's 899 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,480 Speaker 5: a beautiful thing too, you know So so yeah, so 900 00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:31,799 Speaker 5: that's pretty I can't get to have a third time. 901 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:35,160 Speaker 5: Like I'm happy with that. And that doesn't mean to 902 00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:38,040 Speaker 5: say we're splitting, but I actually feel that that's another 903 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:39,600 Speaker 5: thing that you're gonna have on your hat, you know 904 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,000 Speaker 5: where I said you've got four hats, You've got about six, 905 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 5: you know. So, so again it's the it's the stand up, 906 00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,879 Speaker 5: it's the it's the with the Kylie Minogue. You haven't 907 00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:48,760 Speaker 5: got to meet and greet. 908 00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:48,799 Speaker 1: Have you? 909 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:50,640 Speaker 2: But I'm hoping for. 910 00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 5: I don't know. I think I think you're somebody that 911 00:36:56,320 --> 00:37:00,279 Speaker 5: you know, as ash, not mild, that sounds disrespect for 912 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,200 Speaker 5: what's the word I'm looking for? As polite as you are. 913 00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 5: If somebody, if there was a way to get I'm like, 914 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:07,799 Speaker 5: get out of my way. I'm going to see it. 915 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:09,960 Speaker 5: So I think there's an opportunity to see Kylie. It'll 916 00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:11,759 Speaker 5: be log out and would be like ducking you know. 917 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:13,160 Speaker 5: But I don't know. I don't know if you've been 918 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:14,360 Speaker 5: the same if I don't know, if it's a. 919 00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:18,360 Speaker 2: VP or we got front row tickets, she might. 920 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,120 Speaker 5: Single you out. I don't know. I don't know who's 921 00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:20,920 Speaker 5: getting filmed. 922 00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,279 Speaker 2: I don't know. We'll probably film the interaction, got it? 923 00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think let's I think stay tuned. I think 924 00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:28,879 Speaker 5: there's gonna be something exciting there and you'll be like, oh, 925 00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,279 Speaker 5: you know, even if you're in the public eye. I don't 926 00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:33,240 Speaker 5: know about you guys, but I get stars struck everywhere 927 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,120 Speaker 5: I go. I'm like, you know, and so that's what 928 00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,200 Speaker 5: I'm saying. You're like, oh, you know, that's exciting. So okay, any. 929 00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:44,319 Speaker 4: Questions, I mean, there are only two other people that 930 00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 4: I was hoping would come through today. 931 00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:47,240 Speaker 2: Okay. 932 00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 5: Have you got a grandmother as well? 933 00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:52,080 Speaker 2: In spirit u? No? Okay? 934 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:56,480 Speaker 5: Where's Dad's mum still with us? Okay? And she's clear headed? 935 00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:56,879 Speaker 2: Yes? 936 00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:00,400 Speaker 5: Okay? And dad hasn't lost her sister, has she? Hey? 937 00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:01,959 Speaker 5: Sorry I just said she dear father. 938 00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,040 Speaker 2: Dad hasn't lost her sister? 939 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,799 Speaker 5: No? No, okay, I thought I had an aunt. Sorry, 940 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:07,879 Speaker 5: can I get back to their house? 941 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:09,200 Speaker 2: A woman coming through? 942 00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,239 Speaker 5: I thought there was a woman. Remember when you said 943 00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:13,239 Speaker 5: there was a lady that you called like aunt. That's 944 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:14,120 Speaker 5: not that lady, is it. 945 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:14,600 Speaker 2: She's not in. 946 00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:16,960 Speaker 5: Spirit, she's here. So who would be the lady that 947 00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:20,080 Speaker 5: I thought was very very close to home? And she's 948 00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:23,040 Speaker 5: either had who had the I don't know. I'm seeing 949 00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,399 Speaker 5: blood issues, but I don't know that I can say 950 00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,560 Speaker 5: it's a heart attack, but I feel like I've got 951 00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:30,439 Speaker 5: either clogged up or blood issues, or I don't feel 952 00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,480 Speaker 5: it's a stroke. I feel like I'm talking okay, But 953 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,360 Speaker 5: I don't know if there's been blood clots to her 954 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,200 Speaker 5: heart or blood issues. But I'm hearing blood blood blood. 955 00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:38,680 Speaker 5: Would that jump out with anybody? 956 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,480 Speaker 2: Probably that would be. 957 00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:48,400 Speaker 5: My partner's mum, partner's mom. So, so why did I 958 00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 5: feel like she was an auntie or a did you 959 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:52,240 Speaker 5: know who? In life? 960 00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:53,279 Speaker 2: Yes? Yep? 961 00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:55,600 Speaker 5: But was she a woman that didn't get to say 962 00:38:55,719 --> 00:39:00,600 Speaker 5: or she wanted to say, especially in regards to her 963 00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,960 Speaker 5: son or the relationship or anything of that nature. Does 964 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:04,760 Speaker 5: that make any sense? 965 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:06,960 Speaker 4: Well? I just think like in Jack, she always spoke 966 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,680 Speaker 4: her mind and definitely stood up for what she believed in. 967 00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:11,359 Speaker 4: But I guess like she was just taking a little 968 00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:12,800 Speaker 4: week toot. 969 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,839 Speaker 5: Okay, she wouldn't have been fifties, would she? 970 00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:17,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm actually not sure, but. 971 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:19,719 Speaker 5: I don't know if I'm getting fifty five or fifty eight. 972 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,600 Speaker 5: But I didn't feel like a top sixties. So and 973 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:27,120 Speaker 5: would did she have a hard life? Not particularly know 974 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 5: as far as relationships and emotions? Would she? Would she 975 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:31,880 Speaker 5: have not had it easy? 976 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,280 Speaker 4: I don't know that much about her, but I wouldn't 977 00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:38,799 Speaker 4: say so. So, Okay, pretty like level headed woman. And 978 00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:40,560 Speaker 4: I kind of feel determined. 979 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:42,759 Speaker 5: I kind of feel like I didn't get to dot 980 00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:44,479 Speaker 5: all the eyes that I wanted to die, or cross 981 00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:47,040 Speaker 5: all the teas I wanted to cross, that sort of thing. 982 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,439 Speaker 5: But what's what's her son's name? 983 00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:50,360 Speaker 2: Skylight? 984 00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:54,040 Speaker 5: Skylight? So that's unusual name for a man, isn't it. 985 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,160 Speaker 5: So I've got to say, does he does he feel 986 00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:58,160 Speaker 5: her around all the time? 987 00:39:58,960 --> 00:39:59,160 Speaker 4: Yep? 988 00:39:59,760 --> 00:39:59,920 Speaker 2: Does? 989 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,880 Speaker 5: Can he complain about either getting ringing in the ears 990 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,080 Speaker 5: or a lot of shadows at the corner of his eye, 991 00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:05,799 Speaker 5: that sort of thing. 992 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,960 Speaker 2: He's never expressed it to me, but I'll ask him. 993 00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,440 Speaker 5: So tell him that that's her way of it's a 994 00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:13,000 Speaker 5: definite shadows at the corner of the eye and a 995 00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,000 Speaker 5: lot of ring in the ears. But she didn't either 996 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:18,360 Speaker 5: get to say goodbye to him or didn't get to 997 00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:20,160 Speaker 5: to DoD eyes across tea is the best way I 998 00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:21,879 Speaker 5: can say. You know that kind of thing. Was she 999 00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:23,920 Speaker 5: not a real mushy sort of a lady. 1000 00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:24,560 Speaker 2: In what way? 1001 00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:26,520 Speaker 5: Like you know how some people are mush mush, mush 1002 00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:28,520 Speaker 5: kiss kiss, I love you at twenty times a day. 1003 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,000 Speaker 5: Not that sort of thing. No, because I kind of 1004 00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,160 Speaker 5: felt like, to me, it's almost that there's a little 1005 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,840 Speaker 5: bit of regret about what I should have said. I 1006 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:38,400 Speaker 5: don't feel like I don't feel like he doesn't believe 1007 00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,080 Speaker 5: she loves him or anything like that, not at all. 1008 00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:41,800 Speaker 5: And I do feel like I didn't feel he was 1009 00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,640 Speaker 5: an only child. Is that correct? Is he one of three? 1010 00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 5: I don't know if I've got that right. 1011 00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:47,480 Speaker 2: Oh, sorry, No, he is an only child. I thought 1012 00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:47,719 Speaker 2: that's right. 1013 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 5: I beg your pardon. So so would would the husband 1014 00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:52,920 Speaker 5: the father still be here? Yes, yep, so would it 1015 00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,279 Speaker 5: the three. I'm an only child, so three is very 1016 00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:56,799 Speaker 5: powerful for me. So I didn't think he was an 1017 00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:58,560 Speaker 5: only child. I thought I saw three, but is it 1018 00:40:58,640 --> 00:40:59,919 Speaker 5: the power of three where they all looked. 1019 00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:05,359 Speaker 2: I think he might have another two step in each 1020 00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:05,799 Speaker 2: other's life. 1021 00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:07,560 Speaker 5: Okay, that would make even more sense to me. So 1022 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,400 Speaker 5: the thing is, at the end of the day, I 1023 00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:11,360 Speaker 5: felt like the sun rose and set with him, and 1024 00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 5: I was gonna say it was a favorite child. But 1025 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:14,839 Speaker 5: if he's an only child to them, that would make 1026 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:16,759 Speaker 5: sense to me. But I also feel too that I 1027 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,600 Speaker 5: didn't say all I needed to say around the relationship. 1028 00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:21,560 Speaker 5: So to me, I don't want him to hold onto 1029 00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:23,160 Speaker 5: that I don't think he does, and I don't want 1030 00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:24,880 Speaker 5: a plane to see if it's not there. But I 1031 00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:27,000 Speaker 5: kind of feel like I felt like I knew you 1032 00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:28,480 Speaker 5: in life, so that so I want to be sure 1033 00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,520 Speaker 5: you knew it. And I feel like thank you, like 1034 00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:32,719 Speaker 5: thank you. I don't think I got to articulate that 1035 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:35,920 Speaker 5: like thank you for like it's almost like not saving 1036 00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,440 Speaker 5: each other. You weren't in dire straits, but it's almost 1037 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,200 Speaker 5: like you found each other at the right time. But 1038 00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:44,360 Speaker 5: that sort of makes sense. And remember when I started 1039 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:46,279 Speaker 5: at the beginning and I said, I didn't know if 1040 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,080 Speaker 5: you were single or you weren't single, But I had 1041 00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:50,160 Speaker 5: a feeling that somebody was in your aura. And what 1042 00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,480 Speaker 5: I got by that was that person wanting a bit 1043 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,439 Speaker 5: more of you. And again, I'm going so evasive into 1044 00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,640 Speaker 5: your life, but it's almost again You're like, You're like, 1045 00:41:57,920 --> 00:41:59,799 Speaker 5: but I'm with you. What more do you want? You know? 1046 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,680 Speaker 5: But that person, that beautiful person, wants more of you. 1047 00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:05,360 Speaker 5: And I think the mother in spirit is saying, don't 1048 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,000 Speaker 5: make and not again you can if it's too personal, 1049 00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:10,280 Speaker 5: But the mother in spirit saying, don't make the mistakes 1050 00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 5: I made of not wearing your heart in your sleeve, 1051 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,359 Speaker 5: of being, of not saying what you need to say. 1052 00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:16,520 Speaker 5: So I'm not here dictating. I don't mean to do that. 1053 00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:19,239 Speaker 5: But she's very proud of what you have with him, 1054 00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:22,840 Speaker 5: and she's very proud that you didn't let anything stand 1055 00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:25,040 Speaker 5: in your way. I'm seeing a sliding doors moment. So 1056 00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:26,960 Speaker 5: I don't know if this could have been a situation 1057 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:30,480 Speaker 5: where you either missed the boat, would that make Would that. 1058 00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:31,040 Speaker 2: Reason why. 1059 00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:35,360 Speaker 4: I have never said the term sliding doors moment in 1060 00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,239 Speaker 4: my life, and I have said it about four times 1061 00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,160 Speaker 4: in the last fucking week for no apparent reason. 1062 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:41,960 Speaker 2: I've never used that term. And now in the last 1063 00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:44,480 Speaker 2: week or two, I've been like a sliding door. 1064 00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 5: I love that, you know what, I really like home 1065 00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:51,919 Speaker 5: in your head. I'm like in the third time lucky 1066 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,239 Speaker 5: in the sliding doors. But isn't it and sliding doors 1067 00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,800 Speaker 5: isn't a common really for anyone to really say, is it? 1068 00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:57,239 Speaker 2: I guess? 1069 00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,000 Speaker 5: But I've got to say I think more than anything, 1070 00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,040 Speaker 5: she's she's around, and she'll be giving him a lot 1071 00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:03,080 Speaker 5: of ring in the ears. She'll be letting him know 1072 00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:04,920 Speaker 5: she's got her hand on his shoulders. So I don't 1073 00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:06,560 Speaker 5: know if he's a physical sort of man. Does he 1074 00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:09,000 Speaker 5: do gym or does he do physical activity? 1075 00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:12,160 Speaker 2: No, but we've been discussing lately that we should both 1076 00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:13,040 Speaker 2: go to the gym. 1077 00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:16,640 Speaker 5: So I think he's getting a little bit of a 1078 00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:18,279 Speaker 5: you know, let's do it, you know, let's do it. 1079 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:20,440 Speaker 5: But either way, So again, not a mushy sort of 1080 00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,480 Speaker 5: a woman, but a little bit of a regret. And 1081 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,320 Speaker 5: it was back to the emotions, you know that she 1082 00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,400 Speaker 5: doesn't She kind of felt that it was okay and 1083 00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:28,600 Speaker 5: everybody knew, you know, how she felt, and that she 1084 00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:30,360 Speaker 5: had plenty of time to do things, you know, so 1085 00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:32,680 Speaker 5: they're not being able to say goodbye. She doesn't want 1086 00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:34,400 Speaker 5: him to hang on to that, you know, because she 1087 00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:36,720 Speaker 5: couldn't have. You know, So, are you in the without 1088 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:38,480 Speaker 5: being too personal, are you in the coldestac or a 1089 00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:43,040 Speaker 5: dead end street? No? No, So if I was looking 1090 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,239 Speaker 5: from the lady, your well your mother. 1091 00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:47,480 Speaker 2: Sorry she was though, God. 1092 00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:49,720 Speaker 5: Is somebody still in that house? 1093 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:50,080 Speaker 2: Yes? 1094 00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:52,480 Speaker 5: Okay, got it, because she said I'm very much around 1095 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,799 Speaker 5: that home. But I didn't think it was. I thought 1096 00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:57,160 Speaker 5: it was your home. But either way, so shown very 1097 00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:59,320 Speaker 5: much around that home, and you'll understand. Why does that 1098 00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:00,239 Speaker 5: sort of make sense? 1099 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:01,200 Speaker 2: Okay? Yeah, yeah, yep. 1100 00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,560 Speaker 5: So and the other general, the other of the other gentleman, 1101 00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:05,560 Speaker 5: the other person you wanted was at a gentleman, yes, 1102 00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,480 Speaker 5: a little bit older, yes, yep. Okay, are we talking? 1103 00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:11,200 Speaker 5: I didn't. I didn't want to say just outright grandfather, 1104 00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:12,520 Speaker 5: but I didn't want to say uncle. But I thought 1105 00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,120 Speaker 5: I was like either great uncle or a grandfather. So 1106 00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:18,879 Speaker 5: who is this? Who's the man with the lady? Did 1107 00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 5: she have the archery problems, the blockages? Well she was 1108 00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:26,000 Speaker 5: highlighting blood. 1109 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,320 Speaker 4: Yeah they weren't. I mean they only knew each other briefly. 1110 00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:30,439 Speaker 4: They would have only met once. 1111 00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,680 Speaker 2: These two people, Okay, got it? They hit it off. 1112 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:36,040 Speaker 5: Okay, okay, So would the gentleman have been like a. 1113 00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:38,600 Speaker 2: Character, Yes, for sure, like a little bit of. 1114 00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:40,000 Speaker 5: A am I allowed to say flirt? 1115 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:42,759 Speaker 2: Oh potentially, I don't know. 1116 00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,040 Speaker 5: But what I'm hearing from your mother in law and 1117 00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:46,960 Speaker 5: you know how she you said, she was like very 1118 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,960 Speaker 5: black and white. What I'm hearing is he's all bark 1119 00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:52,320 Speaker 5: and no bite, you know, say to man's almos like 1120 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:55,759 Speaker 5: he thinks he's like Brad Pitt or whatever the case. 1121 00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,239 Speaker 5: But anyway, but the connection with you, I feel like 1122 00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:00,360 Speaker 5: a solid bomb there, you know. So and to me 1123 00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,040 Speaker 5: it's almost like no disrespect to mum or dad, but 1124 00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,759 Speaker 5: this got this gentleman. Did he see you grow up? 1125 00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:06,719 Speaker 2: Yes, yep. 1126 00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,319 Speaker 5: To me, it's almost like again like there's a lot 1127 00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:10,880 Speaker 5: of pride when I look at you, you know what 1128 00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,680 Speaker 5: I mean. And I think he's somebody too that he's 1129 00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:17,319 Speaker 5: getting with the time. So that's what mine made me think. 1130 00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:18,920 Speaker 5: And I'm stuttering. Remind me to come back to that. 1131 00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,080 Speaker 5: He reminded me of somebody that I may not have 1132 00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,239 Speaker 5: been able to get my head around things thirty or 1133 00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,799 Speaker 5: forty years ago, but I'm getting with it now. I'm 1134 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:28,680 Speaker 5: hearing getting with the times, you know that sort of thing. 1135 00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,480 Speaker 5: So understanding whether it's your work, whether it's your way 1136 00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,400 Speaker 5: you think, I don't know, but he says, I'm getting 1137 00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:35,520 Speaker 5: with it now. I was stuttering as I was talking. Then, 1138 00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,160 Speaker 5: who had a stroke or did he have any communicative 1139 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:39,800 Speaker 5: problems towards the end of his life? I don't know 1140 00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:41,399 Speaker 5: if you can hear me, I'm stuttering. 1141 00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,759 Speaker 2: Towards the end. Yeah, in the final week or so. 1142 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,480 Speaker 5: Was he heavily medicated? Oh yeah, Because to me, it's 1143 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,600 Speaker 5: almost like I know I need the medication, but I 1144 00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:53,440 Speaker 5: don't want the medication, and I kind of feel like 1145 00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:55,440 Speaker 5: I'm talking and now I don't know if you can hear, 1146 00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,680 Speaker 5: but as I'm talking, I'm having so much trouble getting 1147 00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:59,439 Speaker 5: my words out. You know, it reminds me of a stroke. 1148 00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 5: It reminds me a modeo neuron. But it reminds me 1149 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:05,320 Speaker 5: of like when I'm clear headed, I'm in pain, and 1150 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,440 Speaker 5: when I'm not clear headed, I can't get my thoughts out, 1151 00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,440 Speaker 5: you know, that sort of thing. So so, but either way, 1152 00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:10,960 Speaker 5: but he wants to let you know. And he's not 1153 00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,120 Speaker 5: a big gee wiz, another skeptical one. He's not a 1154 00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:15,719 Speaker 5: big believer in people. Like me. So that's okay. He 1155 00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:17,239 Speaker 5: just told him, by the way, and I'm like, by 1156 00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:18,880 Speaker 5: the way, you've been talking to me for two minutes, 1157 00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:20,759 Speaker 5: you know, But that's okay. Believes in you and that's 1158 00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:22,560 Speaker 5: all that matters. Was he a tradesman? 1159 00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:25,520 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm so gay. What is that? 1160 00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:27,520 Speaker 5: I'm a trading. 1161 00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:34,279 Speaker 2: Trade I mean not but not by trade. By trade. 1162 00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,439 Speaker 2: He was a farmer, but he was also he would 1163 00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:38,919 Speaker 2: he his hobby was would work. 1164 00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,480 Speaker 5: I love that beautiful because to me, I'm seeing that 1165 00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:43,600 Speaker 5: I learned in the school of life. But you know what, 1166 00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:45,719 Speaker 5: like my uncle's carp and and what I'm seeing is 1167 00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,680 Speaker 5: middimeter precision, like somebody that if he wasn't trained like that, 1168 00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:50,440 Speaker 5: g was a quick learner, you know that sort of thing. 1169 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,480 Speaker 5: So and I think I don't know if he liked 1170 00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:55,600 Speaker 5: animals more than people sometimes, but you know, I shouldn't 1171 00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:57,320 Speaker 5: say that, but that's what I'm sort of hearing. But 1172 00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:00,640 Speaker 5: again too is like you know he said that sometimes 1173 00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:05,320 Speaker 5: you actually see number plates with either his name or initials, 1174 00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:06,920 Speaker 5: but he says, he gives you a lot of signs. 1175 00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:07,359 Speaker 2: That's him. 1176 00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:09,800 Speaker 5: Why am I seeing King Charles? There's no childs in 1177 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:11,800 Speaker 5: the family, or William, I'm seeing the two Kings. 1178 00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:15,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, William would be my grandfather's middle name. 1179 00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:18,080 Speaker 5: Okay, So, and his first name wasn't Charles, was it? So? 1180 00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:20,080 Speaker 5: And there wouldn't be another childs anywhere with there because 1181 00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:21,560 Speaker 5: I saw the two Kings or the King and the 1182 00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:24,759 Speaker 5: future King. No, so William, I'm happy. But he didn't 1183 00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:25,640 Speaker 5: go by William, did he? 1184 00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:25,840 Speaker 4: So? 1185 00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:27,759 Speaker 5: He wants to say, and I know this is weird, Matte, 1186 00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:29,560 Speaker 5: but do you talk out loud to that grandfather? 1187 00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:29,840 Speaker 1: Oh? 1188 00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:32,359 Speaker 5: Sorry, it is a grandfather, isn't it. Sometimes he says, 1189 00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:34,719 Speaker 5: I hear you, He says, I hear you, and I'm seeing. 1190 00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:36,759 Speaker 5: I don't know if it's the name Scott or I'm 1191 00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:39,480 Speaker 5: getting to the Scots as in Scottish. So I guess 1192 00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 5: all of a scott English or Scottish connection. But would 1193 00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:43,879 Speaker 5: a scott or a Scottish connection make any sense? 1194 00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:48,560 Speaker 2: No, scott potentially Scottish. But like Brittany, I don't know 1195 00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:49,200 Speaker 2: much about it. 1196 00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:52,040 Speaker 5: That family, Okay. I don't think either of you want 1197 00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:55,120 Speaker 5: to do the what do you call it? The ancestry 1198 00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:56,960 Speaker 5: dot com? I think both of you want to hear, 1199 00:47:57,080 --> 00:48:01,040 Speaker 5: but let somebody else do the hard work. Said, I 1200 00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:02,880 Speaker 5: think it really is. You two were too much in 1201 00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:04,520 Speaker 5: the living. I want to go and do things, you 1202 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,640 Speaker 5: know that kind of thing. So your grandfather, the grandfather Matt, 1203 00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:12,400 Speaker 5: did he not see outside of Australia. Oh, great question, 1204 00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:15,000 Speaker 5: I think, Well again, I'm giving you a bit of homework. 1205 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,680 Speaker 5: But I kind of feel that when you go overseas, 1206 00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:19,719 Speaker 5: he's going with you. And I thought it was the 1207 00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:21,920 Speaker 5: first time. Now I thought it was more than just 1208 00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:24,239 Speaker 5: the noughdic connection too. So if you're going to the 1209 00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:26,520 Speaker 5: Northern Lights, he's going too, and I definitely feel that 1210 00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,080 Speaker 5: it'd be a first. But I kind of feel that 1211 00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:30,759 Speaker 5: other places there's a like a it reminds me of 1212 00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:33,120 Speaker 5: the Kentiquy tours or you know something where I'm going 1213 00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:34,719 Speaker 5: to do pit stops, that sort of thing. So the 1214 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,200 Speaker 5: grandfather's looking forward to that, so he says he'll go too. 1215 00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,799 Speaker 5: So remember when I said four hats, I'm seeing six 1216 00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:42,200 Speaker 5: hats here. So so again there's lots and lots to do. 1217 00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:45,600 Speaker 5: Your your third time lucky, I would. I don't like 1218 00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:47,719 Speaker 5: giving deadlines because if I'm wrong, it comes back to 1219 00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,840 Speaker 5: bite me. But I'm seeing three Christmases, so I don't know. 1220 00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:53,560 Speaker 5: I see this still going and I'm still seeing something 1221 00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:55,320 Speaker 5: where you're doing something from Would. 1222 00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:56,839 Speaker 2: You do it from home? For sure? 1223 00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,440 Speaker 5: Hopefully it's like I don't know, if you've got a 1224 00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:02,200 Speaker 5: little student I catered out, or a soundproof of a room, 1225 00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:05,000 Speaker 5: or it's like a man cave slash office, you know 1226 00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:06,640 Speaker 5: that kind of thing, and it's like where you do 1227 00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,359 Speaker 5: your best work, you know, so and your your man 1228 00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:12,080 Speaker 5: knows not to when the doors shut, when the light's on, 1229 00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:13,960 Speaker 5: don't don't come a knock, and you know kind of thing. 1230 00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:17,040 Speaker 5: So so and again I kind of feel, I don't know. 1231 00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:21,759 Speaker 5: When I saw the traveling and I saw Brits, I 1232 00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:24,120 Speaker 5: keep calling her husband, so I don't want to, you know, 1233 00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:25,960 Speaker 5: I kind of think that's where we're going to go anyway, 1234 00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 5: But the way that he was like that, But would 1235 00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:31,439 Speaker 5: your partner go along for the ride with you? Where 1236 00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:32,760 Speaker 5: to if you were to travel? 1237 00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:35,320 Speaker 2: Oh my god, absolutely yeah. I kind I wouldn't be 1238 00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:35,960 Speaker 2: able to go without it. 1239 00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,040 Speaker 5: I kind of feel just try and stop me, you know. 1240 00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:39,759 Speaker 5: And I kind of feel with this one, I'll go 1241 00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:41,440 Speaker 5: to support you, but do I have to, you know? 1242 00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:45,040 Speaker 5: And again and again, so it's like two different, really 1243 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,480 Speaker 5: too different, and I'm not can see you're doing shopping 1244 00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:49,160 Speaker 5: and all that sort of thing while you're you're doing 1245 00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:52,080 Speaker 5: the hard work, but again like loving it, you know, 1246 00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:55,360 Speaker 5: so so again not to not to keep pointing the 1247 00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:58,120 Speaker 5: finger like you know, like a mother figure. But I 1248 00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:01,000 Speaker 5: kind of feel that, don't be frightened to to let 1249 00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:03,719 Speaker 5: more layers of yourself show, because that's what I think 1250 00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,719 Speaker 5: your partner wants or needs, you know, that sort of thing. 1251 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:08,759 Speaker 5: And it's like and you're like, but you know, you know, 1252 00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:10,840 Speaker 5: and I know, I know, but I want more, you know, 1253 00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:12,320 Speaker 5: that sort of thing. So that's what I think the 1254 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,560 Speaker 5: next year is going to be about getting closer and 1255 00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:17,160 Speaker 5: you know, and you can be close with somebody and 1256 00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,359 Speaker 5: still go to another level, you know. And the mother 1257 00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:22,520 Speaker 5: in spirit, she's I don't think she was a jovial 1258 00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:25,120 Speaker 5: like laugh at I laugh at anything I'm seeing that 1259 00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,319 Speaker 5: you guys laugh at and everything too. She's a little 1260 00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:29,440 Speaker 5: bit more serious and she just wishes she would have 1261 00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:31,239 Speaker 5: had more time, you know, that sort of thing. So 1262 00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:33,160 Speaker 5: she does feel she was ripped off, and I do 1263 00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:36,880 Speaker 5: feel like I didn't. If you can find out, I 1264 00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:38,520 Speaker 5: don't feel like she got to sixty or got to 1265 00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,640 Speaker 5: retire an age, you know as such. You know, so 1266 00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:45,120 Speaker 5: who is the sewer like sewing curtains or like full 1267 00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:47,280 Speaker 5: on sewing, like not just a ham or a button? 1268 00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:50,080 Speaker 5: Oh god, it beautiful. Was she humbled about that? 1269 00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:53,040 Speaker 4: Oh yeah for sure? Like she never did it like 1270 00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:56,160 Speaker 4: if we needed something so like she'd just do it 1271 00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:56,360 Speaker 4: for it. 1272 00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:58,000 Speaker 5: I love that because to me, I thought it mustn't 1273 00:50:58,000 --> 00:50:59,719 Speaker 5: be her because she wasn't bragging about it, you know. 1274 00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:02,399 Speaker 5: So and again like I think she thinks, well, everyone 1275 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,399 Speaker 5: does it. It's like cooking, everyone does it, but doesn't 1276 00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:06,160 Speaker 5: mean everyone does it well, you know that sort of thing. 1277 00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:09,560 Speaker 5: So I think I think if I can go back, 1278 00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:12,000 Speaker 5: tell me again, was that so you said your side 1279 00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,840 Speaker 5: was farm, but your partner's side wasn't farm? Was it 1280 00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:17,000 Speaker 5: didn't grant farm? Would that be the last thing that 1281 00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:18,399 Speaker 5: would be on his mind to go to a farm? 1282 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:19,520 Speaker 2: Absolutely? 1283 00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:23,040 Speaker 5: If you ever, if you can ever look up, there 1284 00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:25,359 Speaker 5: was a I can't rery. It's called Green Acres. It's 1285 00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:27,759 Speaker 5: an old show where the lady was very city and 1286 00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:29,879 Speaker 5: the man was very country. And that's what I'm getting here. 1287 00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:32,560 Speaker 5: Like you you could go anywhere and make a party, 1288 00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:34,680 Speaker 5: and your partner's like, I'm not going to the country. 1289 00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:36,400 Speaker 5: I'm staying in the city. I want to see the 1290 00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:38,640 Speaker 5: bright lights, all that sort of thing, you know, and 1291 00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:41,480 Speaker 5: that will never change. I'm seeing boxer shorts, and I 1292 00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:44,440 Speaker 5: know that's I'm not being intimate or invasive here, but 1293 00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,840 Speaker 5: I'm seeing somebody running around in just boxer shorts and 1294 00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:49,200 Speaker 5: like just liking my freedom, and oh, I've got to 1295 00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 5: put clothes on, so I've got to go out. I 1296 00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:55,480 Speaker 5: don't know if that's you. That's why it's like, somebody's 1297 00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:57,080 Speaker 5: coming for dinner, Do I have to get dressed? You know, 1298 00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:58,840 Speaker 5: that sort of thing. I don't mean nudy runs or 1299 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:00,120 Speaker 5: anything like that, but you know what I mean. So 1300 00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:02,200 Speaker 5: I think, you know, I think you're both on good, 1301 00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,560 Speaker 5: solid ground, and I think wherever you go next, you're 1302 00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:07,160 Speaker 5: going to do so much collaborating together, but there's also 1303 00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:08,920 Speaker 5: going to be so much individual and that's going to 1304 00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:12,080 Speaker 5: really keep this relationship alive too, if that makes sense. 1305 00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:14,399 Speaker 5: So you're not wrapped around each other. But I think 1306 00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:16,960 Speaker 5: the travel would be the same time. So I don't know, 1307 00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:19,200 Speaker 5: but I kind of feel that with the travel you're 1308 00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:21,040 Speaker 5: both going to have. Is this somebody walked in behind me, 1309 00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,640 Speaker 5: you both looking over my shoulder and very well. I 1310 00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:24,360 Speaker 5: was really worried. 1311 00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:28,279 Speaker 2: Sometimes celebrities walk past, we do all that. 1312 00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:32,880 Speaker 5: I missed them. Great, but I kind of feel that 1313 00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:35,680 Speaker 5: no matter what, you've got each other's back, you know. 1314 00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:38,239 Speaker 5: And this is a tough industry, like, you know, no 1315 00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:41,480 Speaker 5: matter what, it's a competitive industry. And you guys just 1316 00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:42,960 Speaker 5: you know, you know when you see a lot of 1317 00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:45,560 Speaker 5: people and I'm probably really going into your private side now, 1318 00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:47,120 Speaker 5: but you know when you see a lot of people 1319 00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:50,320 Speaker 5: snooping on ratings and so you twol like can't be bothered, 1320 00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,200 Speaker 5: you know, like we're just going to stay in our 1321 00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:53,840 Speaker 5: lane and do what we do, and that's what you 1322 00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:55,800 Speaker 5: do best, you know what I mean. It's great to 1323 00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:57,880 Speaker 5: be aware of what's going on, but you don't live 1324 00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,719 Speaker 5: by that. You live by if we're successful, great, if 1325 00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:02,560 Speaker 5: we're not, we're gonna have fun doing what we're doing. 1326 00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:05,160 Speaker 5: And that's what I like. I keep seeing full circle 1327 00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:08,880 Speaker 5: and I keep seeing would you ever collaborate in a 1328 00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:09,440 Speaker 5: book together? 1329 00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:13,440 Speaker 3: I mean we've never spoke about it, but why not? 1330 00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:16,160 Speaker 5: I kind of feel I kind of feel that that's 1331 00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:18,880 Speaker 5: something that that may not be a world's best seller, 1332 00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:20,880 Speaker 5: but you'll have done it and it'll be like you know, 1333 00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:24,319 Speaker 5: celebrities you've met, or funny stories or you know when 1334 00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:26,480 Speaker 5: you mentioned stories, but I won't mention the name, but 1335 00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:28,040 Speaker 5: they'll know who they are if they read it. That 1336 00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:30,239 Speaker 5: kind of thing. So I think that's so good too. 1337 00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:31,840 Speaker 5: And who's got the dental issue. 1338 00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 3: I've had dental things done lately. 1339 00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:36,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, is there a gum problems? 1340 00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:39,480 Speaker 3: Sometimes I get a little bit of an infection in 1341 00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:39,919 Speaker 3: my gum. 1342 00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:43,640 Speaker 5: Okay, I'm not a doctor, I know my lane. But 1343 00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,239 Speaker 5: what I got was that's going to reoccurk And when 1344 00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,120 Speaker 5: you said you've been going there, I'm thinking, yeah, we're 1345 00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:50,719 Speaker 5: not over there yet. So to me too, yeah, look, 1346 00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:52,360 Speaker 5: and I don't know, I don't feel I don't know 1347 00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:54,760 Speaker 5: if it's a root canal or a but it's something 1348 00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,600 Speaker 5: that obviously I'm not a dentist clearly, but I kind 1349 00:53:57,640 --> 00:53:58,920 Speaker 5: of feel that there's a little bit of money to 1350 00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:00,680 Speaker 5: be spent there, and I kind to feel that there's 1351 00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:01,880 Speaker 5: a repetitive. 1352 00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:03,920 Speaker 3: Great and I already spent a lot, so now I 1353 00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:04,680 Speaker 3: know it's great. 1354 00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,040 Speaker 5: But the thing is, I kind of feel that there'll 1355 00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:10,400 Speaker 5: be a there'll be a do this and it'll be 1356 00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:13,080 Speaker 5: done and it'll be like, okay, let's just do that, 1357 00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:15,239 Speaker 5: you know. Like it's like I'd rather take the tooth 1358 00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:17,239 Speaker 5: and keep having these problems. I don't see the tooth 1359 00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:20,240 Speaker 5: getting extracted, but I see some work underneath on the gums, 1360 00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:22,880 Speaker 5: So what's happens there? But to me, it's going to 1361 00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:25,040 Speaker 5: keep coming back, and I think each time it's gonna 1362 00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:26,439 Speaker 5: have a little bit more of a sting in its tail. 1363 00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:29,719 Speaker 5: So you keep that on board for me, Thank you? Yeah? 1364 00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:31,680 Speaker 5: Did I get who you wanted to come through? Did 1365 00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:33,560 Speaker 5: we talk about the grandfather and we talked about the 1366 00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:35,480 Speaker 5: mother in law? Was there somebody in particular? I feel 1367 00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:36,400 Speaker 5: like I'm missing somebody for you? 1368 00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:42,439 Speaker 1: Not really, No, I'm a bit fortunate, beautiful a case. 1369 00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:43,359 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm lucky. 1370 00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,880 Speaker 5: Remember remember when when I thought in my head, I 1371 00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:48,799 Speaker 5: thought I was doing doing a boy and a girl. 1372 00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:51,640 Speaker 5: That sounds so wrong, doesn't it. I might rephrase that. 1373 00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:54,000 Speaker 5: I thought I was reading a male and female, and 1374 00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:55,960 Speaker 5: I thought coming down, I thought it was a woman 1375 00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:57,840 Speaker 5: that wanted to get to the woman. So if you 1376 00:54:57,880 --> 00:54:59,359 Speaker 5: can do a bit of homework on that woman from 1377 00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:03,400 Speaker 5: in particular, maybe the grandmother. But it's cognitive, it's not mental. Issues, 1378 00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:06,480 Speaker 5: but it's cognitive, so I can't I'm aware what's going on, 1379 00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:09,680 Speaker 5: but I can't get anything out. So to meet seither Alzheimer's, 1380 00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:12,200 Speaker 5: it feels more than a coma because I feel like 1381 00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:14,160 Speaker 5: I'm upright. A coma would be laying down, you know, 1382 00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:16,279 Speaker 5: So keep that on board for me. But either way, 1383 00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:17,719 Speaker 5: but you've got a lot of people looking around you, 1384 00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:22,560 Speaker 5: looking out for you. The grandfather, I almost missed him completely, 1385 00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:24,200 Speaker 5: and he says, I was just checking you out to 1386 00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:25,960 Speaker 5: see exactly what you say. And it doesn't do me 1387 00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:28,120 Speaker 5: favorous to tell you. They're skeptical, but I've got to 1388 00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,880 Speaker 5: get his trust, you know. But the two young gentlemen, 1389 00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,439 Speaker 5: did those two young gentlemen know each other in life? 1390 00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:34,000 Speaker 2: No. 1391 00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:36,879 Speaker 5: I kind of felt that they're there, but I didn't 1392 00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:39,200 Speaker 5: see them partying together. But I kind of felt like 1393 00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,480 Speaker 5: they're there for you. So obviously they're both looking out 1394 00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:43,520 Speaker 5: for you. And you'll have days, Matt, where you'll feel 1395 00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:46,600 Speaker 5: that one's there more prevalent than the other, or the 1396 00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:49,759 Speaker 5: grandfather's there. So when you get all these little, you know, 1397 00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:53,719 Speaker 5: whispers in your ear or the number plates or a 1398 00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:55,960 Speaker 5: tap on your shoulder, just say who is it? And 1399 00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:58,000 Speaker 5: it'll be the first person pops into your head because 1400 00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:00,080 Speaker 5: they're all And if I can go back to a 1401 00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:03,319 Speaker 5: gentleman that was like a cousin, he's excited about getting 1402 00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:05,080 Speaker 5: on stage with you, so I think he got I 1403 00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:06,640 Speaker 5: think he comes on the stand up with you, but 1404 00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:08,839 Speaker 5: he's looking at a bigger arena. So do you ever 1405 00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:10,680 Speaker 5: feel him just before you go on stage or you're 1406 00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:13,000 Speaker 5: probably too much in your mindset of performing. 1407 00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:15,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like definitely too much in my mindset 1408 00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:19,440 Speaker 4: of performing. But it's funny because like when we were younger, 1409 00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:23,000 Speaker 4: we would be planning shows or doing beautiful, fabulous things, 1410 00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:23,279 Speaker 4: you know. 1411 00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:26,040 Speaker 5: So it's kind of like I'm getting to live the dream. 1412 00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:27,919 Speaker 5: But I don't have to worry about makeup, I don't 1413 00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:29,800 Speaker 5: worry about hair, I don't have to worry about the spotlight, 1414 00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:32,239 Speaker 5: bread angle. So again, it's all about the looks. But 1415 00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:34,320 Speaker 5: he says, but I'm up there with you. He reckons 1416 00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:36,239 Speaker 5: he gives you your best work. But I think that's 1417 00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:39,640 Speaker 5: I think they might be a little bit dumb sensational there. 1418 00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:41,520 Speaker 5: But anyway, but he says, but I'm there with you. 1419 00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:47,480 Speaker 5: And another question, we could talk all day. I'd impause 1420 00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:49,479 Speaker 5: for breath but it's lovely, lovely to meet you both. 1421 00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:53,319 Speaker 2: That was fantastic. Thank you so much. You're taking thanks 1422 00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:54,960 Speaker 2: for having me and talk to us. 1423 00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:57,440 Speaker 5: I keep thinking there's something over my shoulder, you know, 1424 00:56:57,480 --> 00:56:59,480 Speaker 5: I keep thinking of somebody coming in the room. But 1425 00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:01,520 Speaker 5: either way, but I'll be to see where it goes. 1426 00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:03,600 Speaker 5: But as I said, four had six hats, there's so 1427 00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:04,160 Speaker 5: much to do. 1428 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:07,520 Speaker 2: So what you're saying is I work harder than I've 1429 00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:10,480 Speaker 2: got more going on. I think maybe you. 1430 00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,920 Speaker 5: Get a little bit more sleep than you did. No, 1431 00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:15,759 Speaker 5: but thanks for having me so and if you get 1432 00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,240 Speaker 5: to do your homework and find out about maybe more 1433 00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:21,160 Speaker 5: the spirit world, great, But if not, I hope everything 1434 00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:21,800 Speaker 5: else made sense. 1435 00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:22,720 Speaker 4: I love it. 1436 00:57:22,880 --> 00:57:25,680 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for coming on. It has been great. 1437 00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:27,280 Speaker 3: Listen to your talk all day. 1438 00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:30,600 Speaker 5: I don't even pulse of breath sometimes I think you did. 1439 00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:33,959 Speaker 4: Well. 1440 00:57:34,280 --> 00:57:36,440 Speaker 2: How good was that? I feel great after that. 1441 00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:38,160 Speaker 1: I could have spoken. I could have sat here and 1442 00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:40,000 Speaker 1: just listened to her talk. Like, even if she's not 1443 00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,000 Speaker 1: talking to me, I love listening to her talk to you. 1444 00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:42,520 Speaker 5: Uh huh. 1445 00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:43,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1446 00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:44,520 Speaker 3: What was the thing that shocked you the most? 1447 00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:47,760 Speaker 4: I think what was weird was definitely her saying I 1448 00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:50,360 Speaker 4: feel like you're at this sliding doors moment. You know, 1449 00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:52,240 Speaker 4: I've never said that in my life, and I feel 1450 00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:54,880 Speaker 4: like in the last two weeks I have been saying 1451 00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:57,360 Speaker 4: that a lot, Like just I do feel like I'm 1452 00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:59,600 Speaker 4: in this, especially with moving house and all the rest 1453 00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,280 Speaker 4: of that, Like all that happening, I just felt like 1454 00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:05,160 Speaker 4: I was in this transitional phase of my life. 1455 00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:06,760 Speaker 3: I do what what we didn't say at the start. 1456 00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:09,280 Speaker 1: She didn't know she was coming in to interview us, 1457 00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:12,240 Speaker 1: so Nova just said, you're coming in to be on 1458 00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:15,080 Speaker 1: one of our podcasts, So she had no idea who 1459 00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:18,040 Speaker 1: Matt and I were, which I think made it even 1460 00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:19,840 Speaker 1: more cool. I think one of the things that stood 1461 00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:22,840 Speaker 1: out to me the most was her just like talking 1462 00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:26,480 Speaker 1: about Nan and that how Nan says that I get 1463 00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:29,040 Speaker 1: all the things from her because my Nan always says that. 1464 00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:30,680 Speaker 1: She goes, oh, you get it all from me, Like 1465 00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:33,520 Speaker 1: that's one thing that Nan always says, And how she 1466 00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:37,360 Speaker 1: mentioned that Nan doesn't understand any of this, but she's proud, 1467 00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:39,400 Speaker 1: like that's what Nan always says to me too. 1468 00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:40,880 Speaker 3: She's like, because Nan just. 1469 00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:43,240 Speaker 1: Goes, are you still selling the clothes and go on 1470 00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:45,840 Speaker 1: to Sydney like, but she doesn't get it, but she 1471 00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:46,960 Speaker 1: fully supports it. 1472 00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:48,320 Speaker 3: So I was like, that was surprising. 1473 00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:50,480 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm the worst person to do something 1474 00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:52,520 Speaker 1: like this because I don't know many people that have 1475 00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:55,480 Speaker 1: passed away, which is very lucky, but I'm always like, 1476 00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:57,800 Speaker 1: oh damn, I wish I knew someone. 1477 00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:01,200 Speaker 2: What was the other thing that she mentioned of third 1478 00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:02,680 Speaker 2: time lucky? Wasn't that funny? 1479 00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:06,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, I've never said that before, like said out loud 1480 00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:10,560 Speaker 4: that before, out loud to anyone about the third podcast. 1481 00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:14,440 Speaker 2: If it ever has to happen, that's what I'd call it. 1482 00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:15,800 Speaker 4: And I never wanted to say because I don't want 1483 00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:17,760 Speaker 4: someone else to steal it, but I guess no one 1484 00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:18,160 Speaker 4: else has. 1485 00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:19,040 Speaker 2: Had three fucking bug gas. 1486 00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:20,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly right. 1487 00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:22,400 Speaker 2: And then the other thing was the Northern Lights. 1488 00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:26,200 Speaker 4: That's a really really specific, kind of random place to 1489 00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:28,160 Speaker 4: pick out, and it does mean a lot to me 1490 00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:33,240 Speaker 4: and Sky, and you know, there's a lot of I mean, 1491 00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:34,720 Speaker 4: didn't really want to go into all of that on 1492 00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:38,680 Speaker 4: the podcast today, but yeah, that definitely resonated with me. 1493 00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:41,600 Speaker 2: So there were three things, And I mean. 1494 00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:44,240 Speaker 1: And what about what she was saying about you with Sky, 1495 00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:47,200 Speaker 1: how like obviously you're together, but he wants more of you. 1496 00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:49,480 Speaker 3: Would you say that that was like correct? 1497 00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:53,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean yes and no. I guess the thing 1498 00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:55,240 Speaker 4: is with the traveling and stuff. I feel like this 1499 00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:58,800 Speaker 4: twenty twenty four, it was definitely like we just had 1500 00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:01,720 Speaker 4: so much going on in our lives that I mean, 1501 01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:02,880 Speaker 4: there were no issues. 1502 01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:04,200 Speaker 2: Or anything like that, but we just had so much 1503 01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:04,480 Speaker 2: going on. 1504 01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:08,000 Speaker 4: We didn't have enough time for connection as much as 1505 01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:10,400 Speaker 4: we have the other four years we've been together. And 1506 01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:12,800 Speaker 4: so I feel like in twenty twenty five, that's definitely 1507 01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:17,520 Speaker 4: going to change. Our circumstances are changing with his work 1508 01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:19,680 Speaker 4: and things like that, so we're going to do a 1509 01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:22,000 Speaker 4: lot more traveling because we just saved all our money 1510 01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:25,120 Speaker 4: last year and didn't travel anywhere. So there's a lot 1511 01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:28,600 Speaker 4: of opportunity to connect again. But again, not that there's 1512 01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:31,520 Speaker 4: any issues or that I don't feel connected to my partner. 1513 01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:35,160 Speaker 4: It's just that, you know, sometimes life gets in the way, 1514 01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:36,920 Speaker 4: but we love each other so much that even when 1515 01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:39,400 Speaker 4: life gets in the way, it's just like, you know, 1516 01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:41,320 Speaker 4: we always say to each other, it's all right, we've 1517 01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:43,080 Speaker 4: got time to do something together next. 1518 01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:44,440 Speaker 2: Week or the week after or whatever. 1519 01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:48,160 Speaker 3: So yeah, well I think that was a great episode. 1520 01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:50,360 Speaker 1: We hope you enjoyed listening, even though it was completely 1521 01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:52,760 Speaker 1: different to what we normally do. Do we need to 1522 01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:54,760 Speaker 1: get in next, Let's keep it going, Let's keep doing 1523 01:00:54,840 --> 01:00:55,840 Speaker 1: these random episodes. 1524 01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:59,080 Speaker 2: Oh my god. All right, well, thanks for listening, scrollers. 1525 01:00:59,240 --> 01:00:59,680 Speaker 2: Don't worry. 1526 01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:03,080 Speaker 4: We'll be back soon with regular schedule programming. But for now, 1527 01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:06,800 Speaker 4: we hope you're having a fabulous new year and enjoying 1528 01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:08,520 Speaker 4: the little break just as we are. 1529 01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:11,520 Speaker 2: And I'm better. Let you go, Joel. I've gotta go 1530 01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:14,240 Speaker 2: figure out what that big, black, white, fuzzy animal was