Speaker 1: Yeah, Glow always just weirdly plays on like every couple
Speaker 1: songs in My Card.
Speaker 2: Of My Windows Off. Hi guys, the book Welcome Back
Speaker 2: to Look. I don't know if you guys have seen
Speaker 2: that trend on TikTok. It's actually like probably one of
Speaker 2: my favorite trendscars.
Speaker 3: I'm really loving it, especially the parents that are like
Speaker 3: completely oblivious to it.
Speaker 2: So basically it's like someone will have their partner there
Speaker 2: and they'll end every sentence of everything they say in
Speaker 2: the book and wait and see if the other person
Speaker 2: catches on. And it's actually like makes me so uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I can't even finish watching them, Like that's really awkward.
Speaker 3: Well, other trends are you loving on TikTok At the moment?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, there's this song by Glow Riller is
Speaker 2: that her name? Yeah, And she has this funny Memphis
Speaker 2: not funny, like she just has this Memphis accent which
Speaker 2: she can't say you, so she'll be like demur or
Speaker 2: like she'll be like beautiful, sport and beautiful. Have you
Speaker 2: seen that? She like says words funny. But anyways, there's
Speaker 2: this song out and the start of it is so
Speaker 2: fucking catchy. And now it's on my feed every five
Speaker 2: seconds because and I love it, like I'm listening to it.
Speaker 2: Let me because she has this ad lib at the end.
Speaker 2: This is like so pointless and I don't even know.
Speaker 2: You know, when you story, you know, when you start
Speaker 2: a story and you can just tell like your rambling
Speaker 2: and no one really gives a fuck. Yeah it's that,
Speaker 2: but I'm gonna just continue. Okay, there's this like ad
Speaker 2: lib part that's like one of those backing bits, and
Speaker 2: she goes, ooh, what it's so good.
Speaker 4: Because what you know about me beat cheap in it?
Speaker 2: And like, so my whole feed now is people like
Speaker 2: emphasizing that, who like so catchy.
Speaker 3: I haven't seen that, but now my friends listen to it.
Speaker 2: Don't you reckon that song? Let a long time get
Speaker 2: so good?
Speaker 4: What you know about me beat cheat in it?
Speaker 2: It's so good. It's called what you Know about Me?
Speaker 3: Like glow rilla sometimes whenever I so like, I don't
Speaker 3: know if anybody else is. Again, this is gonna be
Speaker 3: so fucking like superficial. But like I love driving with
Speaker 3: my windows down, right, but if I have to play
Speaker 3: certain songs if my windows down, because I'm like I'm
Speaker 3: not gonna be playing fucking Getting Back by leve rodro
Speaker 3: Rigo when my windows are down.
Speaker 2: Like if I'm driving down like I was like driving
Speaker 2: now like fitzor Street, and I'm like, fuck, the music
Speaker 2: has to be like something in.
Speaker 3: Yeah exactly exactly, Okay, so you get my voice, like
Speaker 3: you have to have some good music.
Speaker 2: But I don't drive with my windows down.
Speaker 3: I love it because I don't like the air con.
Speaker 3: It makes me too cold. I like the fresh air
Speaker 3: like the roof. Yeah, but like I count of when
Speaker 3: the window's back, that's the off, like you can hear
Speaker 3: the music. So he has to play good music.
Speaker 2: No, I do agree with that.
Speaker 3: Normally it'll be like Drake or like Brand or something
Speaker 3: like someone Someone good. But then like every couple of
Speaker 3: songs like Sexy Red or Gorilla plays, I'm like I
Speaker 3: can't play these out loud because it's like get it
Speaker 3: sexy or like.
Speaker 2: I feel like I like driving with get It Sexy
Speaker 2: because it's like not get it sexy. And I'm like this, like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Glow always just weirdly plays on like every couple
Speaker 1: songs in my nails.
Speaker 2: Windows of that's yeah, yeah, yeah, you need to watch
Speaker 2: videos of her accentens I've never heard, like, I've never
Speaker 2: seen a Memphis accent before, and it's it's so interesting interesting.
Speaker 2: So this week we had the Bi Bambi event on Friday,
Speaker 2: and is He hosted. I had to interview everyone. I
Speaker 2: was like shitting a fucking break.
Speaker 3: So you really did well.
Speaker 2: Thank you. But it's like listening to all these like
Speaker 2: obviously I limited myself to three drinks prior to the
Speaker 2: interviews beginning, because there's a big difference between liquid courage
Speaker 2: and like, holy fuck, you're embarrassing yourself, yeah, which I was.
Speaker 2: You were No, you comarrasing yourself. I think you've definitely
Speaker 2: I've had worse. You've made yourself feel worse than really. Yeah,
Speaker 2: But as the night went on, like I did have
Speaker 2: a drink like kind of down the side. So listening
Speaker 2: to them, I do think maybe I was like a
Speaker 2: little bit tipsy in mate, not like not anything crazy,
Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, but oh it's agonina. Listen to
Speaker 2: your voice when it isn't you that's edited it or
Speaker 2: seen it. Yes, just like holy fuck, what am I doing?
Speaker 3: And I was a bit drunk when I answered your question,
Speaker 3: Like I wasn't really thinking of it, it was like, oh,
Speaker 3: there was like who's your Bambie crush or something? And
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, there's a dj.
Speaker 2: I did have that written down, Like there were certain
Speaker 2: people that they had certain questions they wanted me to ask,
Speaker 2: which was almost easier.
Speaker 3: Like I should have said someone like even, but I
Speaker 3: just like that was like the first thing that came
Speaker 3: to mind was the guy that deep, that's a good answer.
Speaker 3: He messaged me, did you see it? No? What did
Speaker 3: he say? Let me find it? Who's your Bambi crush?
Speaker 2: He like said that.
Speaker 3: To me again, and I'm.
Speaker 2: Like, oh, oh no, he knows it was show me
Speaker 2: I need to see And he.
Speaker 3: Wasn't my Bamby crushed. But it was like the first
Speaker 3: thing that came to my head of like and now
Speaker 3: I'm like, I've kind of fed his ego. He's not
Speaker 3: my type.
Speaker 2: You said he was your Oh well.
Speaker 3: I didn't really. It wasn't again like I had.
Speaker 2: I wasn't sure you're feeling that because it's like feeding
Speaker 2: a boy's ego is like something that no girl ever
Speaker 2: wants to do.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I also said in the video, I was
Speaker 3: like I didn't reply.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you did say that did you reply to
Speaker 2: the next message?
Speaker 3: No, because he's not my craft.
Speaker 2: No fair play.
Speaker 3: But apart from that, I feel like there's just like
Speaker 3: a lot of like speaking about by a Bambie, Like
Speaker 3: there's a lot of backclash. But like we have such
Speaker 3: a good relationship with the girls that it like makes
Speaker 3: me sad that we can't like some joys.
Speaker 2: Fully with our people getting on our backs, Like, yeah,
Speaker 2: we went to LA with them. We love the girls personally,
Speaker 2: We're not arguing with maybe some of the things that
Speaker 2: is going on on the business side of them, but
Speaker 2: like if it's a friend of yours running a business,
Speaker 2: you want to be there, you want to support it.
Speaker 2: I think that's why we do that sort of stuff.
Speaker 2: Like I was honored to be asked to do it,
Speaker 2: and it was a fun experience for me. I do
Speaker 2: love the girls that run the brand, love the girls
Speaker 2: that work for the brand, So that's why we were there.
Speaker 2: We want to support our friends who are having an event,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 3: And I just feel like, especially with all the drama online,
Speaker 3: it's like it's been going on for like a year now,
Speaker 3: and it's kind of like when gets to the point
Speaker 3: of just like dropping it and like just like frustrates
Speaker 3: me that like she's liking comments about you and stuff.
Speaker 2: Like that, like read it's about me because I'm like
Speaker 2: the new interviewer. And it's like I replied, being like
Speaker 2: you can support people without like insulting someone else, which
Speaker 2: is I think is so true that like even insulting
Speaker 2: me for now being the new interviewer. It's like, I'm
Speaker 2: supporting my friends. I went to LA with these girls.
Speaker 2: I love them. I'm sorry. Let me just fucking say
Speaker 2: the diddy bed thing is the biggest Yeah.
Speaker 3: Can you explain that because actually anything about them and
Speaker 3: I just like keeps goroing. I don't want to feed
Speaker 3: into the show so well.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because a lot of it people are even commenting
Speaker 2: about us on any comment, Yeah.
Speaker 3: I just don't want to read it is already fucking
Speaker 3: depleted by Bambi.
Speaker 2: I have been doing this Bamby bedroom thing for the
Speaker 2: last couple of months. Like I went in and did
Speaker 2: a Bamby bedroom. We just like sat in the bed,
Speaker 2: tried all this food. Like that's their kind of marketing
Speaker 2: strategy for the lounge wear, and that's what they've been
Speaker 2: doing for months. And I have seen a lot of
Speaker 2: girls pick up on that, thank you for being rational,
Speaker 2: reasonable human beings. Like, okay, everyone just wants to hate them.
Speaker 2: So at this event, they had this like bed wall basically,
Speaker 2: and it was just all these mattresses and it was
Speaker 2: just because it was a loungewear launch, like Loungewear, bed Cozy, Comfy.
Speaker 2: They had done a Bamby bedroom a couple months earlier,
Speaker 2: Like it just was sense. You know what they do,
Speaker 2: They just do a bunch of fucking crazy shit and
Speaker 2: make it look asthetic. That's what they do. They just
Speaker 2: want it to be like a cool environment. There was
Speaker 2: being bags all over the floor, like anyway, people, some
Speaker 2: fucking chick has seen that and gone when by Bambi
Speaker 2: like has a mattress wall. In the P Diddy scandal,
Speaker 2: Oh my god what p Diddy obviously sexually assaulted a
Speaker 2: lot of people. He had these parties like he was horrible,
Speaker 2: you know, absolutely fucking horrible, and no one supports them,
Speaker 2: including the fucking Bambi girls. No one's team fucking P Diddy.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's just like you, like these people again are
Speaker 3: clutching its shaws to bring anything or anyone down.
Speaker 2: But it's like, look, they had a mattress wall. That
Speaker 2: does not mean they're team p Diddy. Sorry, I have
Speaker 2: nothing to do with it. Yes, p Diddy sexually assaulted people.
Speaker 2: That does not mean that those girls, by having the
Speaker 2: beds were supporting that. You know, it had nothing to
Speaker 2: do with it. And people have made this insane reach
Speaker 2: which just is tearing down these girls who have just
Speaker 2: purely put that there for a decoration sense, and now
Speaker 2: they're being told that they've put it there amongst the
Speaker 2: P Diddy scandal, and it's like everyone's calling it like
Speaker 2: the p Diddy beds, the p Diddy. It's like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, it's so insulted to assume that anyone would
Speaker 2: be supporting that fucking disgusting man and making light of
Speaker 2: the situation. That is not what they did at all.
Speaker 2: They literally have just put these beds there as a decoration.
Speaker 2: Was it an oversight. I'm not even going to say
Speaker 2: it was, because I don't think it has any correlation.
Speaker 2: Know about it. And yes, they people make mistakes. I
Speaker 2: do understand their orders aren't getting sent out a lot
Speaker 2: of the time. That's not their fault to the shipping. Yes,
Speaker 2: it sucks, don't get me wrong. And I don't think
Speaker 2: they want that either. For you though, they don't want
Speaker 2: the orders want to be sent. They can handle certain
Speaker 2: things better, I'm sure with the refunding and everything, and
Speaker 2: that's you know, that's just a business thing that's like
Speaker 2: not up to us. But I just think, guys, you
Speaker 2: don't know the full story anything, you know, so lay off,
Speaker 2: you know, And look, I don't think us saying that's
Speaker 2: going to change anything. But there's a reason we support them.
Speaker 2: We love the girls personally, and we want to be
Speaker 2: there for our friends who are hosting events and doing stuff.
Speaker 2: You know, I've been wearing my Bambi since I was
Speaker 2: twenty years old, you know, when just jumping on this train,
Speaker 2: and like I just yeah, I think you have to
Speaker 2: realize there are real people behind these businesses as well,
Speaker 2: completely as you would when you are hating on people online.
Speaker 2: They're real people anyway.
Speaker 3: What is your recommendation of the week? My I have one?
Speaker 2: Do I have one? I actually do. My recommendation of
Speaker 2: the week is the mini GHD curler. It's like this
Speaker 2: mini little like straight like the size of a finger
Speaker 2: almost and if you have curly hair, it's actually great.
Speaker 2: Like let's be real, My curly hair does not look
Speaker 2: fucking perfect every second I wake up. And Sam also
Speaker 2: now sometimes uses it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I use it for like, because I've always obviously
Speaker 3: bleached my hair, some parts are like less curly in
Speaker 3: a kind of drop. I like use it around my
Speaker 3: face framing, just to add like the really nice red. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Like, sometimes my hair just will wake up and it
Speaker 2: will look ridiculous, and I'll pretty well to fucking do
Speaker 2: the whole thing with that little GHG curl. Like it's
Speaker 2: just this mini curl that can help define your curls
Speaker 2: but make them look like you're real curls, but nice.
Speaker 2: So I'd say if you have curly hair, it's worth
Speaker 2: getting because those little bits at the front that kind
Speaker 2: of just fray and end up straight due to damage,
Speaker 2: you just tongue them.
Speaker 3: And it just makes it easier because like when they
Speaker 3: drop and you sleep with it the next morning, like
Speaker 3: easy said, you can just touch it up instead of
Speaker 3: having to wash your whole hair.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think for curly hair girls, it's a
Speaker 2: great recommendation.
Speaker 3: That's a really good one. We're also going to put
Speaker 3: these all in our new broadcast channel. We're going to
Speaker 3: start that putting the links into our Favorite Things on
Speaker 3: a Tuesday into the channel, so you guys know exactly
Speaker 3: what we're talking about, so.
Speaker 2: You can just go buy it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and my recommendation of the week is for vang Athletica.
Speaker 3: We love them. It's Gabby and Chad's brand. They live
Speaker 3: in path. She's actually getting married really soon. I think
Speaker 3: in like a week or something by the time this
Speaker 3: episode's out.
Speaker 2: She's going to amazing.
Speaker 3: She's going to look so good. But just their athletic
Speaker 3: war is so nice, like so form fitting, so flattering.
Speaker 2: Design it so it fits really well.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and the quality is really good too, Yeah, fit.
Speaker 3: Like and I love it for all like Jym plarates
Speaker 3: like Fox character.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like a very silky.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really good. And it's super tight, like it
Speaker 3: keeps everything in do you know what I mean? But yeah,
Speaker 3: that's my recommendation of the week. If you're on the
Speaker 3: hunt for some gym where time for question.
Speaker 2: Of the week?
Speaker 5: Okay, honeys question of the week this week. Imagine a
Speaker 5: situation where someone offered you money to go no contact
Speaker 5: for three months. What would be the minimum amount for
Speaker 5: you to seriously consider the offer?
Speaker 3: Like, if I had to go to no contact with Izzy. Ah,
Speaker 3: I would say fifty k.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like we had a couple days of like
Speaker 2: not chatting last week and really upset.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would say fifty k because then thinking no contact,
Speaker 3: which means we won't be able to see each other
Speaker 3: at events between people wouldn't have to delegate it, we'd.
Speaker 2: Have to split up.
Speaker 3: We wouldn't be able to see each other at events.
Speaker 3: We wouldn't be able to sit with each other at events.
Speaker 3: One person couldn't go out on the weekend in case
Speaker 3: we ran into each other.
Speaker 2: We wouldn't be able to record the podcast every week.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would say fifty k.
Speaker 2: For three months. True. Yeah, you can imagine, all right,
Speaker 2: what one thing we in all of November December?
Speaker 3: John Pool, So no Christmas?
Speaker 2: Yeah that's I want to know. Nothing like fifty grand
Speaker 2: maybe even more.
Speaker 3: Yeah, fifty to seventy five social life would die too, Yeah,
Speaker 3: same done.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, fifty k actually be really hard.
Speaker 3: Also, girls, I'm not sure if you saw over on
Speaker 3: our Instagram and TikTok, we're having a little Christmas party
Speaker 3: with you guys excited. We are doing it on the
Speaker 3: eleventh of December.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's going to be. It is ticketed, but
Speaker 2: there's like drinks, food, everything included and the.
Speaker 3: Flow everyone can you both can you guys can bring
Speaker 3: a friend both buy a ticket or come along. It's
Speaker 3: going to be like a nice girls dinner, get a juice,
Speaker 3: like cute dress.
Speaker 2: Food, It's just gonna be like a nice little end
Speaker 2: of year sort of celebration. I know everyone's probably itching
Speaker 2: for something a bit fun at this end of the year,
Speaker 2: so we thought, why not all come together. We love
Speaker 2: meeting you guys and sort of just creating that community
Speaker 2: vibe a bit better. So we thought, why not do
Speaker 2: a Christmas party? So we do have. Yes, it is
Speaker 2: ticketed obviously.
Speaker 3: And that just covers the cost of all the food
Speaker 3: and alcohol and everything. It's like a bottomless brunch like
Speaker 3: and everything like that. But it's just a bottomless brunch
Speaker 3: with a bunch of new girls that you'd love to
Speaker 3: meet us, like, we'd all love you guys to join
Speaker 3: and be a part of it.
Speaker 2: So yeah, the event bright link to buy the tickets
Speaker 2: is going to be in our Instagram bio just for girls.
Speaker 3: And we'll get Blake to also add it into the
Speaker 3: show notes of this episode.
Speaker 2: So we can't wait to see some of you guys.
Speaker 3: Please buy ticket.
Speaker 2: There's gonna be like fifty girls, so it's gonna be
Speaker 2: like intimate but sort of big enough for it to
Speaker 2: be like a fun, nice sort of event with getting
Speaker 2: to know each other, you know, perfect.
Speaker 3: Hopefully we see you all there.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: On this week's episode, we are spilling the tea on
Speaker 3: your hottest tea.
Speaker 2: So we've asked you to send us in the hottest
Speaker 2: tea you've heard, whether that's something about you, something about
Speaker 2: someone else, drama, a bit of drama when it has
Speaker 2: nothing to do with us.
Speaker 3: So the only drama of our lives is was kind
Speaker 3: of probably the Bye Bad Thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, which yeahing about that? Yeah? Yeah, all right, let's
Speaker 2: get into it.
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Okay, first one, I'm going to change
Speaker 3: these names just in case they are real. Like, I'm
Speaker 3: not sure if you've changed me yourself, So I'm saying
Speaker 3: my best friend Holly had a feeling that her boyfriend
Speaker 3: James was cheating on her, so one day she went
Speaker 3: on his phone and found a video of him with
Speaker 3: the deodorant can and a sock and a condom over it.
Speaker 3: I think, yeah, I know someone I wonder though, what
Speaker 3: makes her go why she thought he was cheating and
Speaker 3: how that ends up in that like was, well I
Speaker 3: know someone, Yeah that I'll tell easy the prophet story,
Speaker 3: the final story of ED. But I'll give you, guys
Speaker 3: a little learned that this someone sent me an email
Speaker 3: of this resume dating resume and being like, I would
Speaker 3: love to go on a date with you. Yeah, well
Speaker 3: I know about him and he was married and his
Speaker 3: wife found him on grinder.
Speaker 2: That would be We've said this before, Yeah, would you
Speaker 2: rather catch your partner cheating on you with the same
Speaker 2: sex or the opposite sex, like with a girl or
Speaker 2: a guy.
Speaker 3: I think I would be more hurt with a guy
Speaker 3: because then you couldn't be honest about your sex sexuality.
Speaker 2: And it's like, will you ever even look obviously bisexuality
Speaker 2: as a thing, So we're very well aware of that,
Speaker 2: but like.
Speaker 3: That, you couldn't be open with me that you were
Speaker 3: seeking love.
Speaker 2: But even though still it's like even if you're still
Speaker 2: looking for like a guy or something, it's like I
Speaker 2: might not enough. Still, it doesn't matter whether it's a
Speaker 2: guy or a girl. It's all going to be heartbreaking regardless.
Speaker 2: But yeah, that's submission number two. I heard a crazy
Speaker 2: story about a couple I know that I went to
Speaker 2: school with. Let's call them Lucy and Brad. Okay, Brad,
Speaker 2: there aren't really a lot of brads running around Australia.
Speaker 3: No, I feel like it's a Kyle.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so American. I have a monster a punch of while. Okay.
Speaker 2: They've been dating for around seven years, which is insane,
Speaker 2: so already high school sweethearts. But it turns out that
Speaker 2: Lucy has been lying about her life to Brad this
Speaker 2: whole time. They both work for a skateboarding company who
Speaker 2: collaborate with each other, keeping in mind each company don't
Speaker 2: know that they're dating each other. Lucy originally moved from
Speaker 2: New Zealand like at the start of high school, and
Speaker 2: she lived with their uncle and auntie as their mum
Speaker 2: is really sick and unable to travel. It's really sad,
Speaker 2: so she decided to take some time off from work
Speaker 2: and go look after our sick mum. While she was away,
Speaker 2: Brad was following up some emails about a collaboration with
Speaker 2: the company Lucy works out about some stock that was
Speaker 2: being made in the US. Lucy's company responded that Lucy's
Speaker 2: in Michigan collecting the stock. As she has been dating
Speaker 2: one of their sponsored skaters for over a year. She
Speaker 2: lied about having a sick mum.
Speaker 3: That's criminal.
Speaker 2: Brad called her as soon as he found out to
Speaker 2: confirm the email, and it turns out that she's been
Speaker 2: visiting America for a guy that Lucy has never met
Speaker 2: despite being in a relationship for seven years. So she
Speaker 2: must have been chatting online to this skater in Michigan
Speaker 2: for a year and she's finally gone to meet him
Speaker 2: in person. Brad, Holy shit, that's so it's like, I
Speaker 2: just want to see if it's like professional scale likes
Speaker 2: before I like dump my seven year boyfriend, like fucking
Speaker 2: make it Like honestly, I can't achieve that's fucked. He
Speaker 2: asked her to send a photo and call him, and
Speaker 2: she was on her way to Detroit with this new guy.
Speaker 2: They've also been living together for a long time. Seven
Speaker 2: years is fucking.
Speaker 3: And especially if you're young, Like, take seven years of
Speaker 3: my life. I was fifteen, that's a third of my life.
Speaker 3: You've been with.
Speaker 2: This seventeen fuck. They've also been living together for a
Speaker 2: long time, so Brad pretty much got it fired from
Speaker 2: a job in Australia. Now she has a six hour
Speaker 2: layover in Australia to come get her shit and move away.
Speaker 3: Moving good on Brad for going fuck that totally.
Speaker 2: You know, my least favorite thing ever is when you're
Speaker 2: in an argument with someone you're presumably a boyfriend. Is
Speaker 2: usually when it hits home so hard and you'll have
Speaker 2: to get in a plane. I've had that before, like
Speaker 2: my whole life, Like blew up with my first boyfriend
Speaker 2: and then I had to get like a fucking fifteen
Speaker 2: our flight to Finland and I go off the plane
Speaker 2: and he blocked me on everything. So I'm now in
Speaker 2: Finland with no way to contact my boyfriend at the time,
Speaker 2: who was angry at me, And it was just like,
Speaker 2: why are you angry at me? You would one texting
Speaker 2: other girl.
Speaker 3: Like when I was fine to America, I had a
Speaker 3: really big conversation with my ex and then I had
Speaker 3: to sit in that on that plane for fifteen hours.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, yeah, I was going crazy. And
Speaker 2: you know how sometimes like a lot of the time,
Speaker 2: there is why fan planes. I always don't use that.
Speaker 2: I like to just be like in my own thoughts
Speaker 2: on planes. Fuck, I just feel like that's always so
Speaker 2: hard when you get into a fight for a plane. Anyway,
Speaker 2: turns out she's stolen money from her sick mom in
Speaker 2: New Zealand. There's quotation marks around six months sick mom,
Speaker 2: So I'm not quite sure if we actually do have
Speaker 2: a sick mom and has moved to OZ with their
Speaker 2: uncle and auntie, who Brad has never met in the
Speaker 2: seven years of dating. Bride managed to find Lucy's uncle
Speaker 2: and Auntie's Facebook and tell her family that they've split up,
Speaker 2: and it turns out her uncle was actually her brother,
Speaker 2: who has also kicked her out for stealing money.
Speaker 3: Lucy's a pathological liar with like clinical help that's needed.
Speaker 2: As challenging as it would be for Brad, think about
Speaker 2: how like horrible your life would have ended up being
Speaker 2: with a chick that does that sort of shit, do
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Yeah? But then as as if you were in Bride
Speaker 3: put yourself in brad shoes, You're like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: who have I been dating?
Speaker 2: Yeah? But I feel like obviously gutted. But it's like,
Speaker 2: what was like what imagine when you're married with kids,
Speaker 2: like how much and you were like locked in with
Speaker 2: this cheek watch the fucking crazy shit she could do.
Speaker 3: It's just like when I hear about people living like
Speaker 3: two lives like that, I'm like, isn't it just easy
Speaker 3: to be honest instead of just lying your way like
Speaker 3: while like living two lives is so much fucking stress. Yeah,
Speaker 3: just be honest and then just go fuck off with
Speaker 3: the skateboard.
Speaker 2: Like break up with Brad and just go date the
Speaker 2: other guy, like keeping the lives like that. Like when
Speaker 2: you find out someone I know how practically two girlfriends
Speaker 2: for like, like he was dating a girl for like
Speaker 2: three years and then for the last like eight months
Speaker 2: he was like completely just dating a separate girl, like
Speaker 2: go out and public together, like in Melbourne.
Speaker 3: And it's like that's crazy.
Speaker 2: How the fuck do you? Like?
Speaker 3: I don't mean to sound like I stuck up prick,
Speaker 3: but I could never do that.
Speaker 2: But it's like, also, how does the other girl supposedly
Speaker 2: wasn't aware of the three year girlfriend?
Speaker 3: Well, I know, I know a story that someone lived
Speaker 3: in two houses with somebody else and like they always
Speaker 3: said they were going on work trips, but they.
Speaker 2: Were just going to live with the other house. Well
Speaker 2: that's a lot of like a fair.
Speaker 3: Yeah, crazy though story Number three, my twin sister is
Speaker 3: getting with my ex.
Speaker 2: Fail. Oh my god, that is so not okay. That
Speaker 2: took me a while to like.
Speaker 3: Go, yeah, weird, that's fucked fail the talking stage and
Speaker 3: cannot see the red flags. I'm trying to help her
Speaker 3: show that he's not a good guy, but when I do,
Speaker 3: my mom says that I have prejudice to them not working.
Speaker 2: Why wouldn't you, babe, how's it even a conversation?
Speaker 3: Why would you why? First of all, why would the
Speaker 3: guy jump? Second of all, why would the twin be
Speaker 3: slightly interested in him?
Speaker 2: And why is are you even having conversations with her
Speaker 2: saying that he's a bad guy. It's like, why are
Speaker 2: you even dating him? That's your twins ex. Yeah, Like
Speaker 2: and the mom going, babe, honey, you have prejudice, Like
Speaker 2: shut up. It's like, why are you a how to
Speaker 2: date my ex boyfriend? Yeah, not that you can control people,
Speaker 2: but like, how is no one more upset about this situation?
Speaker 3: No? Oh, she goes, I mean an almost three year
Speaker 3: relationship to the love of my life, so I have
Speaker 3: no reason to sabotage. So it could have been like
Speaker 3: we dated when we're fifteen, We're now I.
Speaker 2: Actually don't think that's still weird, though I do think
Speaker 2: it's weird. But like, I do see some situations where
Speaker 2: it's like you'll kind of just have met almost like
Speaker 2: the wrong sibling first, you know what I mean. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I always wonder that. I wondered that regularly I'll meet
Speaker 2: a guy on hinge or something, Yeah, go out with him.
Speaker 2: This hasn't actually happened to me, but I do always
Speaker 2: wonder about it, go out with him whatever. We're getting
Speaker 2: along well enough. Then one night maybe I go out
Speaker 2: and I meet his friendship group and there's just a
Speaker 2: different guy in that friendship group that I get along
Speaker 2: with so much better. We are just have sparks flying.
Speaker 2: It's like that situation would happen all the time, where
Speaker 2: someone just meets the wrong I just think it's like anything.
Speaker 3: Respectful to how like how deeply you are into the guy.
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't think it's acceptable to just go but
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 3: But that's why everyone goes like, oh, like broke up
Speaker 3: my ex and like now all his mates are hitting
Speaker 3: me up, like it's such a common thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I just wonder, like, like she want the
Speaker 2: whole crew. You sometimes would have just shown there might
Speaker 2: be another guy within that group that generally genuinely is
Speaker 2: better for you and could be like the love of
Speaker 2: your life, but because you've dated them X, it's like
Speaker 2: you have to see it and do anything. And I
Speaker 2: just think it's such a complicated situation, but like.
Speaker 3: But that's when people do do those things, you know.
Speaker 3: I really just do not trust him, and I love
Speaker 3: her too much to see her experience as things that
Speaker 3: I and the other girls have been put through at
Speaker 3: the hands of him. What do I do? How do
Speaker 3: I get her to understand that he is physically hurt people,
Speaker 3: including me when he's mad and verbally abused plenty of others.
Speaker 3: He's known to deal with unhealthily with confrontational situations. What
Speaker 3: do I do?
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be dead honest here. I'm not sure there's
Speaker 2: much you can But then once you said that there's
Speaker 2: a physical aggression aspect to it, I do think it's
Speaker 2: worth sitting down on literally just saying everything you want
Speaker 2: to say at least once, like get it out, yeah,
Speaker 2: And then I think from there there's not really much
Speaker 2: you probably can do. It's not like you can lock
Speaker 2: her in a fucking cupboard and tell her not to
Speaker 2: hang out with. Yeah, but at least I do think
Speaker 2: you have to say your piece at least once.
Speaker 3: It's one of those situations where it's just like you
Speaker 3: just have to let them learn the high way.
Speaker 2: But you definitely have to at least be like, he
Speaker 2: did this. You say that he was physically it seems
Speaker 2: like he was probably a little bit physically.
Speaker 3: Abusive, which I wonder how your boyfriend feels about it,
Speaker 3: but you must.
Speaker 2: I think that is like non negotial. You have to
Speaker 2: tell the sister that he did that stuff because you
Speaker 2: wouldn't ever want You should already know situations like that.
Speaker 2: But you can't do much after telling her, you know,
Speaker 2: just be there, i'd say, and hope he approves shows
Speaker 2: his true color soon enough that she gets out. Boy bye.
Speaker 3: That'd be so weird, like seeing your ex came around
Speaker 3: your house.
Speaker 2: No, I couldn't even fuck. I couldn't handle that. But
Speaker 2: then it's like, I do think if I was in
Speaker 2: a like three years relationship with someone that I was like, Yep,
Speaker 2: this is the guy I'm going to marry, like, I
Speaker 2: wouldn't be able to care too, I wouldn't.
Speaker 3: Ye, Like, imagine how much is your boyfriend. How weird
Speaker 3: your boyfriend feels.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it would be weird. There's always something funny
Speaker 2: about exes. It never really goes away.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 2: Number four. Recently, I tagged along to a Bali boys
Speaker 2: trip with my boyfriend and his friends. Interesting for reference,
Speaker 2: my best friend's ex, let's call him Roger, was on
Speaker 2: the boy's trip. As we're all in the same friendship.
Speaker 3: Group perfect, I would love that.
Speaker 2: If I was the chick, I'd be like, you'd need
Speaker 2: to just make sure that girl has concert and comfort
Speaker 2: that like, Roger's being fine?
Speaker 3: All right.
Speaker 2: One night we all went out to Luigi's.
Speaker 3: I hope you saw my man say how to Mario?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, how to Marie Man?
Speaker 2: But Roger went back to the villa early because he
Speaker 2: was sick, with quotation marks around sick. I had this
Speaker 2: gut feeling that something was off, so I made an
Speaker 2: excuse to the group and I followed him back to
Speaker 2: the villa without him knowing. I made my gojack driver
Speaker 2: speed back to the villa to arrive before him. I
Speaker 2: tipped him really well. After hiding in the bushes, what
Speaker 2: felt like, no, fucking mate, this chick'shiding in the bushes
Speaker 2: after hiding in the bushes for it felt like an eternity.
Speaker 2: I got the shock of a lifetime when I saw
Speaker 2: Roger walking to the villa with my best friend's sister
Speaker 2: in law, so her brother's girlfriend, who was coincidentally on
Speaker 2: an unrelated girl's trip.
Speaker 3: Fuck off, fuck off. That actually makes me sick. I
Speaker 3: would have been like, fuck, I wish I'd never got
Speaker 3: on that fucking go jo.
Speaker 2: I thought it was going to be sister. That is
Speaker 2: worse still, No, no, no, it's it's fucked But I
Speaker 2: thought it was going to be sister. So this is
Speaker 2: the ex girlfriend's brother's current girlfriend.
Speaker 3: Fucking no, I think it's the brother the guy Roger's
Speaker 3: brother's sister, I mean girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Her brother's girlfriend. It's the chicks brothers Ah. Yeah, so
Speaker 2: it's the chick at home in Melbourne, the ex girlfriend,
Speaker 2: her brother's girlfriend, who just happens to also be because
Speaker 2: they would have hung out as like a family when
Speaker 2: they Yeah, rightsh I'm the only one who knows that
Speaker 2: my best friend's sister in law and ex hooked up
Speaker 2: that night. I will eventually tell my best friend I
Speaker 2: just need to work out how.
Speaker 3: No, because like it's not even for her to be mad.
Speaker 3: It's like for her brother to be mad. So you yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: like I don't think she's not gonna be She's gonna
Speaker 3: be Like fuck, that's some heavy.
Speaker 2: You need to tell her so she can tell the brother. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: totally completely.
Speaker 3: Ooh, Roger, Roger, what are you doing mane?
Speaker 2: That's fucked. That's ikey the fuck.
Speaker 3: Story number five. So it all began at our private
Speaker 3: school that is super Catholic and religious. We had a
Speaker 3: very authoritative and weird dean of our year who is
Speaker 3: hell as scary to deal with, and you would have
Speaker 3: never known what personally you'd be dealing with each day
Speaker 3: my group and I never really interacted with him, but
Speaker 3: just knew of him and never wanted to get in
Speaker 3: trouble by him. Alongside this staff member was one of
Speaker 3: the school's favorite English teachers who were soon to be
Speaker 3: wed and asked myself to be a part of her
Speaker 3: wedding entertainment, which was super exciting. That is so cute
Speaker 3: having your students as like part of the wedding entertainment.
Speaker 3: I love that.
Speaker 2: Think it's not appropriate because it's like, how are you
Speaker 2: gonna be? That's clearly picking favorite students in that regard.
Speaker 3: But like, I imagine if they were all part of
Speaker 3: like a choir or something, and you'd be.
Speaker 2: Like, I would luck to cheat them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like the choir. People like I wouldn't offended if
Speaker 3: I wasn't in the choir. After about a year's worth
Speaker 3: of preparing for her wedding, a month leading up to it,
Speaker 3: I heard absolutely nothing from her, No updates, no messages,
Speaker 3: no details of her special day, until she finally responded
Speaker 3: to my several messages I sent over the past week.
Speaker 3: She had told me that her wedding had been postponed
Speaker 3: due to venue changes and would keep me in the
Speaker 3: loop for when I decided on a new date. At
Speaker 3: this point I was like, loll okay, hope everything is fine,
Speaker 3: no stress at all, and went on about my life.
Speaker 3: The next weekend, I went to my local baring club
Speaker 3: and lo and behold, I catch my old high school
Speaker 3: Dean of the Year snogging with missus in the middle
Speaker 3: of the dance flot.
Speaker 2: So she's can hold the wedding off, I think so.
Speaker 3: I kind of thought it was gross as fuck, but
Speaker 3: at least there's it's.
Speaker 2: Just like any adult kissing gross as fuck.
Speaker 3: But I was like, at least the fire is in
Speaker 3: their marriages alive and left it at that, So it
Speaker 3: seems like they were just like she didn't really know
Speaker 3: the person that she was getting married too. She was
Speaker 3: just gonna go on along the wedding to support her.
Speaker 3: But she just then saw them kissing and was like, oh,
Speaker 3: that's who she's.
Speaker 2: Getting married married.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, right, but their weddings still postponed or something.
Speaker 3: A week or so later, an old friend of mine
Speaker 3: told me had she had insane gossip to share that
Speaker 3: she had witnessed at her place of work. She'd witness
Speaker 3: our old high school dean of year and English teacher
Speaker 3: who had asked me to perform was snogging on a
Speaker 3: bonnet of some random car in the car park with
Speaker 3: a blurry photo of them for proof. Knowing that teachers
Speaker 3: have his life and my parents are teachers, I'm like.
Speaker 2: Are they engaged? Because if they're engaged, it's like it
Speaker 2: doesn't really matter. I'm assuming there's more to it at that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this was huge news, as I thought this teacher
Speaker 3: was postponing her wedding for venue changes, not that she
Speaker 3: was leaving her husband for a new man. Oh, she
Speaker 3: was leaving him for us Slimy Dean of Year, and
Speaker 3: not only that our dean had had an affair with
Speaker 3: her despite already being married. Finally enough, they're both still
Speaker 3: working at a super religious high school to this day,
Speaker 3: apparently living together as someone I know lives near them
Speaker 3: and sees them having sleepovers all the time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and knowing that.
Speaker 3: Like there's like those like dramas in like, yeah, I knew.
Speaker 2: There was a teachers at my school that were dating.
Speaker 2: And that's like.
Speaker 3: I know someone that I used to I used to
Speaker 3: work out at forty five a lot when I was
Speaker 3: in high school, and I used to work out with
Speaker 3: this girl who was like quite a bit older than
Speaker 3: me and love her, like she's like a legend, and
Speaker 3: she always like she was married, and she always had
Speaker 3: like this really like giddy kind of crush on like
Speaker 3: one of the personal trainers. And he he was hot,
Speaker 3: like he's hot.
Speaker 2: Is he's still hot?
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's still he looks like I don't know if
Speaker 3: he like he was kind of I don't know what
Speaker 3: if it was because he was the hottest one pretty hotness.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she like they and they always got along
Speaker 3: really well, like super friendly. After COVID, I run into her.
Speaker 3: She's now with him. They're dating, and then I stok
Speaker 3: their Instagram pats the other day they're engaged and I
Speaker 3: have the baby. A baby.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not an issue though.
Speaker 1: No, I don't know if there was some overlap, but
Speaker 1: she always was like really really interested.
Speaker 2: She was getting someone else, she was married, she was married.
Speaker 3: To somebody else. But I don't know if there was
Speaker 3: any crossover. But it's just like so weird that they're
Speaker 3: now together.
Speaker 2: All right's next one? Hey, girls absolutely love the podcast.
Speaker 2: So this year I started UNI and I'm studying nursing.
Speaker 2: At the beginning of UNI, we all have a O week. Well,
Speaker 2: my O week was interesting, to say the least. The
Speaker 2: first week was fine, but the second week was one
Speaker 2: of the craziest things I've heard. I live off campus
Speaker 2: with my partner, but my friends lived on campus. At
Speaker 2: the beginning of UNI, a couple of people who lived
Speaker 2: on campus came up with a game called Infinity Stones
Speaker 2: like Avengers, Yeah don't know it? Yeah, like you weren't,
Speaker 2: like you have brothers. How do you not know?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 2: Event? We went?
Speaker 3: We went movie watchers.
Speaker 2: As kids, I was a movie watcher. I'm still a
Speaker 2: movie watcher. The game was basically the person to sleep
Speaker 2: with as many people from all the different colored dorms
Speaker 2: won the game. There are ten different colored dorms on campus. Yuck. Look, anyways,
Speaker 2: there was this one guy who managed to achieve this
Speaker 2: in a week, ten different girls, all from the different.
Speaker 3: Color I hope you all guys that's fun.
Speaker 2: Not the girls. They're probably only just slept with one guy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he slept with so all the girls do
Speaker 3: do as well. But as he could have slept with
Speaker 3: the first one, she would have had, poor girls, she
Speaker 3: would have had the clap given her to all the
Speaker 3: other nine.
Speaker 2: Poor thing. Johnny was sleeping his way around campus. But
Speaker 2: little did we know that he was giving everyone the
Speaker 2: class dog. Geez, it's like I'm at Spradium colored fucking dorms.
Speaker 2: How fucking is the claps committee? Yeah, yeah, that's clap
Speaker 2: that's disgusting. I do not know how half the people
Speaker 2: that went to union with gotten commdia. Yeah, because everyone's
Speaker 2: just gonna start saying around they've all got fucking comedie. Yes, sir,
Speaker 2: you should get a city tested, regular guys, because comedia
Speaker 2: every three min I notice, and you can become infertile.
Speaker 2: I know this because the UNI started handing out and
Speaker 2: posting posters to make sure everyone got themselves check fair CDs.
Speaker 2: That is.
Speaker 3: That's like when you hand out get an email from
Speaker 3: your parents about lives.
Speaker 2: Right, Johnny needs to be blacklisted, Like I hope everyone
Speaker 2: knew that it was Johnny and was like, you're disgusting, Yeah, Tony,
Speaker 2: sex games like that. It's just disgusting.
Speaker 3: Yeah, alrighty, girls, that is it and boys and boys,
Speaker 3: that is it for our episode today. Make sure you
Speaker 3: guys buy your tickets for the u Bury Flow and
Speaker 3: see us on the eleventh of December.
Speaker 2: We would love to have you all there. Have a
Speaker 2: little drinking love you guys, have a good week. Bye bye,