WEBVTT - Would You Go To A Dry Wedding? 

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<v Speaker 1>This podcast is being recorded and produced on gadiicol Land.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Matt, do you want to know something funny that

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<v Speaker 1>I was just thinking before? You're wearing a hat today

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<v Speaker 1>forward facing. Every time someone wears a hat forward facing,

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<v Speaker 1>like AJ does it too, it reminds me of primary school.

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<v Speaker 2>Why what you reckon should be wearing hats backwards?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Just reminds me to do what.

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<v Speaker 2>That looks like? And I reckon, I'd like.

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<v Speaker 1>A backwards hat. That forwards hat reminds me.

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<v Speaker 3>Of broadcast channel forward and backwards, and they can tell

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<v Speaker 3>me which one looks better.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you do it right now? Please?

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<v Speaker 2>In the broadcast channel.

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<v Speaker 1>Just do two selfies and then a pole. I reckon,

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<v Speaker 1>backwards looks good. Front is giving fucking primary school mat

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? Is giving maccas, It's giving

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<v Speaker 1>Macca's uniform. Okay, we'll see what they say.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I've put it in the broad question what they're

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<v Speaker 2>already backwards.

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<v Speaker 1>Whenever I want to film AJ in the warehouse and

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<v Speaker 1>he's got his hat on forwards, and like, put your

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<v Speaker 1>hat backwards because I don't know, I just think everyone

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<v Speaker 1>looks better with the backwards hat.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, this is changing my life.

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<v Speaker 1>You look like you're going to school lunch and you've

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<v Speaker 1>got no hat. No flight.

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<v Speaker 2>Can tell me this an hour into our recording session.

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<v Speaker 2>Just just just to let you know you look really

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<v Speaker 2>shit today. So no.

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<v Speaker 1>Pol book they go ninety four voter backwards, twenty two

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<v Speaker 1>voted front.

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<v Speaker 2>This is changing my life. But I just think a

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<v Speaker 2>backwards hat is like embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think a backwards hat is embarrassing. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>think a backwards hat is embarrassing when it's a flat cap. Well, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I just find a flat cap embarrassing in general. Backwards, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>backwards hat looks better because you can see your face more.

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<v Speaker 1>And I like that you can see a bit of

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<v Speaker 1>your hair.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like i'm metal militia vibes. Yeah, I like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, and when it's front, you can't see any of

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<v Speaker 1>your hair.

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<v Speaker 2>Good, that's the point the board patch bitch. Oh well,

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<v Speaker 2>there you go. Matt. Okay, look.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, I'm still recovering from the weekend. If I'm honest,

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<v Speaker 3>it was a big weekend. I said in the main

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<v Speaker 3>episode my clubbing Era, it's coming to an end.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad because fucking mine ended about six years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, mine ended about however many years ago, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I had a bit of a resurgence and it's been

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<v Speaker 3>really fun. It's made me feel really young again. I've

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<v Speaker 3>got blueberry stuck in my teeth.

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<v Speaker 2>Hung on. But ARC Sydney, which.

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<v Speaker 3>Is an iconic venue on Oxford Street or actually just

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<v Speaker 3>off Oxford Street. But I'm sure a lot of people

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<v Speaker 3>are familiar with ARC. You if you've ever been to

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<v Speaker 3>Oxford Street, have probably had a night at ARC. And

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<v Speaker 3>unfortunately that's never gonna happen again because ARC has closed.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really know the story behind it. I think

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<v Speaker 3>the building, I think the lease is up, so the

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<v Speaker 3>building hasn't been sold, because there's been talks about that

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<v Speaker 3>for years.

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<v Speaker 2>But ARC, the nightclub has shut down.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a It's really really sad because it's the first

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<v Speaker 3>gay club that I ever went to. It was the

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<v Speaker 3>first club I ever performed in drag at It was

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<v Speaker 3>not the first club I had a drag booking at.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, it.

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<v Speaker 3>Holds a lot of It's the place, it's the first

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, I'm gonna cry.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the place where I first met Sky.

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<v Speaker 1>That's nice. Like, you know, am I gonna feel that

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<v Speaker 1>way when King Street shuts down in Nui and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>mid agent.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know whether you will, but I think it

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<v Speaker 3>holds a bit of different significance for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, because the difference with like queer clubs is it's

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<v Speaker 3>very much about community. Yeah, so you go to King Street,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't really give a shit about anyone else in

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<v Speaker 3>the rooms.

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<v Speaker 2>Right way.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that you found that photo of you in

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<v Speaker 1>the photo in the karaoke room. I know that was

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<v Speaker 1>the night that we went out and lost my vlog

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<v Speaker 1>camera and you've got a photo of you by yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>I know we were putting photos in the broadcast channel

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<v Speaker 3>the other day from way back in the day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and there was.

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<v Speaker 3>One of me doing karaoke at King Street that was done,

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<v Speaker 3>that was taken by the professional photographer on the night

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<v Speaker 3>and uploaded to their Facebook page.

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<v Speaker 2>That wasn't just a photo we had taken.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, what I'm still I still like some bars

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<v Speaker 1>on Facebook, like you know back in the day when

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<v Speaker 1>they would upload the album, Like clubs still do that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I still like some of those pages that I

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<v Speaker 1>used to go to ages ago, Like one of them

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<v Speaker 1>is Finigans in Newcastle. I don't know, it's it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a pub on the corner that turns into a club.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever go there?

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<v Speaker 2>Only once?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I used to go there all the time

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<v Speaker 1>when I was younger, And so every now and then

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm scrolling on like Facebook, it'd be like Finnigan's

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<v Speaker 1>added three hundred new photos, and sometimes I just like

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<v Speaker 1>open it and start swiping through and all I can

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<v Speaker 1>notice is like how fucked up everyone is? The nightclub

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<v Speaker 1>photographers don't do anyone any favors, Like the photos are horrendous,

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<v Speaker 1>like that everyone looks munted and I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like because it's a big flash in a

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<v Speaker 1>dark night club, but everyone looks coolt like no one looks.

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<v Speaker 2>Good and I'm scrowling.

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<v Speaker 1>True, it's scary.

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<v Speaker 2>Cute I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>Although I was thinking though, I was losing my train

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<v Speaker 3>of thought because I was trying to think of the

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<v Speaker 3>club that I used to go to in Newcastle and

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's called the Junction.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it called the Sydney Sidney Junction?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I Sj's And then there was another one and it

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<v Speaker 3>was like a house. What it was like a house?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh funny? Yeah, yeah, it's called Argyle now but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if it's still open. It would shut down,

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<v Speaker 1>who fucking knows. I don't go clubbing these days.

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<v Speaker 2>I only ever went to Honeysuckle once and that was

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<v Speaker 2>with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but that's like a bar pub.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, it wasn't really a club, was it. But

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<v Speaker 2>where'd we go?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>We went to King Street after that? Yeah, many a

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<v Speaker 3>night at King Street. Too many nights at King Street actually,

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<v Speaker 3>to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Honest, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>They have done it up and it's kind of way

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<v Speaker 1>better now, but it's still full of like eighteen year olds.

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<v Speaker 3>I was gonna say, we'll have to go and have

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<v Speaker 3>a night out, but no, I just told everyone my

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<v Speaker 3>clubbing era is over.

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<v Speaker 2>It's too much.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how you've been clubbing at thirty years old.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, Cyrusa can't do it anymore. Everything hurts.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so much fun in the moment, but then I

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<v Speaker 3>said to my friend, actually, just last weekend, I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like that, you know, get drunk and going

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<v Speaker 3>out like this is like stealing happiness from tomorrow. And

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<v Speaker 3>he was like, wow, that's really deep, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>but it is, like I'm having so much fun.

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<v Speaker 1>With funny the moment the next day is just to

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<v Speaker 1>write off.

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<v Speaker 3>And then the next day I'm like, well, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>think I just at a phase now where because my

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<v Speaker 3>last clubbing era kind of ended because the pandemic happened

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<v Speaker 3>so we were forced to.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel like now I actually want to get

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<v Speaker 2>up at like six o'clock.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I actually want to get up at like ten

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<v Speaker 3>thirty on a Sunday, ten, just like I could.

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<v Speaker 1>If I tried. I just like I couldn't sleep until

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<v Speaker 1>then if I try.

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<v Speaker 3>Some days were sleeping day, Like, why are you not

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<v Speaker 3>sleeping in on a Sunday.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I physically can't. I think if you tried, no,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I can't sleep in on the weekend. Every weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>I go, I'm going to try and sleep in. Boo,

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<v Speaker 1>eyes open. That's crazy because your body is like in

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<v Speaker 1>a routine.

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<v Speaker 3>I see, I could be in a routine all week

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<v Speaker 3>and if I want to sleep in on a Sunday.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like your routine has to be longer

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<v Speaker 1>than a week for it to actually be a routine.

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<v Speaker 1>My dog's at my door.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, but you've set that system up, yeah, don't you think?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it would be confusing for him if that

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<v Speaker 1>was the rules five days a week and then all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden it changed. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't reckon. I reckon you could teach the dog

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<v Speaker 2>the dog.

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<v Speaker 3>We've got weekends off walks, Darlin weekends off walks, or

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<v Speaker 3>getting their little walking pad.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been so tempted to get one of those. Every

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<v Speaker 1>time I see someone on TikTok and like, come do

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<v Speaker 1>my steps on my walking pad? Then I'm like, is

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<v Speaker 1>that one of those things that you would get news

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<v Speaker 1>once and again.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to the gym anymore. I will go back,

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<v Speaker 3>but I haven't been since before Kylie.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know how people like have a walking padn

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<v Speaker 1>and they like read a book or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I can do two things at once

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<v Speaker 1>like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I can. I've been putting my kindle up on

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<v Speaker 2>the trademill at the gym.

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<v Speaker 1>And you can concentrate on like your body moving, but

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<v Speaker 1>then reading.

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<v Speaker 2>Lines walking Babe.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I could do that. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I've got the hand eye coordination. Yeah no,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'd be focusing too much on my steps. I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be reading the words. That's just me.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, the Kindle acts as like it goes in front

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<v Speaker 3>of the screen where it says everything okay, So.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not watching that or anything. I'm literally just walking back.

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<v Speaker 1>I could watch a show, for sure, but I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like reading is a whole other level.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, the clubbing era is over. Era err era, era,

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<v Speaker 2>clubbing era.

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<v Speaker 3>Is over, and I'm saying, rest in fucking peace. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>actually really excited about it. I'm like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 3>I think. I think I might try yoga numbers stay,

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<v Speaker 3>bitch numbers stay. I consider going sober, actually yeah, And then.

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<v Speaker 1>I get tempted by that every now and then.

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<v Speaker 3>But then I thought, we're about to go to America,

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<v Speaker 3>and why the fuck would I try this and then

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<v Speaker 3>go to Vegas and Coachella.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't think I could make it through Coachella sober.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think the whole point of going sober is

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<v Speaker 1>to enjoy those moments without alcohol. Should I go sober

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<v Speaker 1>then no?

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<v Speaker 2>Well maybe after America, but yeah, then what about when

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<v Speaker 2>we go to buy and.

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<v Speaker 1>Stuff go sober. That's the whole point of going sober

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<v Speaker 1>is you can enjoy life and go through life's biggest

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<v Speaker 1>moments without it. I'm going to take the conversation back

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, the recovering party Girl that we spoke

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<v Speaker 1>about ages ago on TikTok. I still follow her, love

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<v Speaker 1>her videos.

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<v Speaker 2>It still comes up all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Amazing to by the way, look her up if you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't already. Recovering party Girl. She was my Royal Flush

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<v Speaker 1>like a year ago. Anyway, she did a TikTok just

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<v Speaker 1>recently and was talking about weddings and I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if it was her that said it. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was, but she said, like unpopular opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>but weddings have just become like a massive piss up,

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<v Speaker 1>an excuse for everyone to get drunk. And she said,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to find out who your true friends are,

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<v Speaker 1>have a wedding and make it a dry wedding so

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<v Speaker 1>there's no alcohol being served, and watch all your friends

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<v Speaker 1>drop off. And then that just goes to show they're

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<v Speaker 1>not really your true friends who want to like celebrate you.

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<v Speaker 1>And if people like complain there's no alcohol, it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you really coming to my wedding?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait? I kind of want to do that. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that would be really fun. Yeah, to do a dry.

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<v Speaker 1>And if that's what you and your partner want to do,

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<v Speaker 1>and you want to have no alcohol at your wedding

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<v Speaker 1>and just enjoy every moment, because you hear so many

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<v Speaker 1>stories of people that get way too fucked up at

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<v Speaker 1>their own wedding and then they black out or like

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<v Speaker 1>don't remember the night. Huh. So if like you as

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<v Speaker 1>the couple want to have a dry wedding, do it

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<v Speaker 1>and enjoy it for yourselves. And if any of your

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<v Speaker 1>friends complain or like all of a sudden say they

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<v Speaker 1>can't come or anything, then that just shows like why

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<v Speaker 1>they really come into your wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like a huge expense too that yeah you can

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<v Speaker 2>cut out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, you could save ten, fifteen, twenty grand on drinks.

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<v Speaker 2>Nice. Yeah, wait, I like totally might have a dry wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>And by the way, does anyone have any stories about that,

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<v Speaker 1>because if you do, please send us an email. Email's

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<v Speaker 1>always in the show notes. If you have any stories

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<v Speaker 1>about weddings and drinking to any extent, I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to know the tea.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Well, just checking the broadcast channel. Since we started recording,

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<v Speaker 3>we've got three hundred votes for backwards and fifty eight

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<v Speaker 3>votes for front ways. And now I'm feeling really self.

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<v Speaker 1>Conscious every time I do have his hat forward, as say,

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<v Speaker 1>put your hat backwards because it reminds me of school.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but see, like hat backwards for me makes me

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<v Speaker 3>feel like I'm trying to be a bad boy, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like trying to.

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<v Speaker 1>Like hat Okay, hat forwards for gym, like if you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to work out or exercising out in the sun,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you're just wearing it as a fashion accessory backwards.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if I can get around this now,

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<v Speaker 3>Sleigh deeper, sleigh, I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Next week, maybe I'll come with their hat on backwards

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<v Speaker 3>and I'll actually style it properly and I might get

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<v Speaker 3>might buy a cool hat.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but my cool hat make a look yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Backwards hat just trying two hard vibes, you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean? Was the only reason I'm wearing a hat

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<v Speaker 3>is because they didn't do my hair this morning. Yeah

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<v Speaker 3>fair anyway, but stays in close friends.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened, and sit close France.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah that and all the rest of it. See you

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<v Speaker 3>next Tuesday, Okay,